Self Esteem Counselling in GU32

Photo of Rachel Temple, MBACP, Psychotherapist
Rachel Temple
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Welcome to Heartlands. If you are tired of coping and would like to achieve a feeling of joy Heartlands provides a safe space to explore and unravel what may be blocking this in your life. Anxiety and depression can be symptoms of old trauma that we store somatically. Insomnia and obsession can be a way of coping with difficult feelings. Learning to gain a sense of self can be a very important first step on a healing journey. I am interested in whole hearted wellness- begin to learn how to take care of yourself undoing attachment issues and relational problems. Address low energy and self esteem.
Welcome to Heartlands. If you are tired of coping and would like to achieve a feeling of joy Heartlands provides a safe space to explore and unravel what may be blocking this in your life. Anxiety and depression can be symptoms of old trauma that we store somatically. Insomnia and obsession can be a way of coping with difficult feelings. Learning to gain a sense of self can be a very important first step on a healing journey. I am interested in whole hearted wellness- begin to learn how to take care of yourself undoing attachment issues and relational problems. Address low energy and self esteem.
023 8254 4471 View 023 8254 4471
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Alice Liddell
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
If you're struggling with anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, overwhelming emotions or complex trauma, I am here help. Perhaps you've had low mood for a while and want to find enjoyment in life again. Maybe there have been chronic stressors and you've often anxious, tense and edge. Or there could be longstanding problems with self-esteem or relationships. Whether you've been feeling flat, low or overwhelmed for a few months or your whole life, I can help you reconnect with what's important to you and start living the life you want to.
If you're struggling with anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, overwhelming emotions or complex trauma, I am here help. Perhaps you've had low mood for a while and want to find enjoyment in life again. Maybe there have been chronic stressors and you've often anxious, tense and edge. Or there could be longstanding problems with self-esteem or relationships. Whether you've been feeling flat, low or overwhelmed for a few months or your whole life, I can help you reconnect with what's important to you and start living the life you want to.
01273 076757 View 01273 076757
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Dr Sonney Gullu-Mcphee
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
I am a Chartered Clinical Psychologist and an ISST Certified Advanced Schema Therapist. I have over 15 years of extensive training and experience, working with adults overcome difficult periods in their lives where they struggle with depression, anxiety, trauma, loss, relationship conflict, parenting struggles, work and university stress, procrastination, dissociation, and self-esteem issues. In addition, I have special interest in helping women negotiate significant life transitions in their lives such a pregnancy, perimenopause and menaupause and help improve their emotional wellbeing.
I am a Chartered Clinical Psychologist and an ISST Certified Advanced Schema Therapist. I have over 15 years of extensive training and experience, working with adults overcome difficult periods in their lives where they struggle with depression, anxiety, trauma, loss, relationship conflict, parenting struggles, work and university stress, procrastination, dissociation, and self-esteem issues. In addition, I have special interest in helping women negotiate significant life transitions in their lives such a pregnancy, perimenopause and menaupause and help improve their emotional wellbeing.
01730 771407 View 01730 771407
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Helen Gibbs
Verified Verified
I help sensitive souls reclaim the part of themselves lost to others over many years, so that they can discover their true essence and live their lives in balance and harmony without fear, confusion and co-dependency. I offer an empathic, compassionate, intuitive and creative service and my style is conversational. My intuition guides me, my theoretical knowledge and personal experiences inform my work and my creativity allows my clients to benefit from an 'outside the box' approach. Sensitivity, anxiety, stress, depression, trauma, chronic PTSD, low confidence and self esteem are my specialities.
I help sensitive souls reclaim the part of themselves lost to others over many years, so that they can discover their true essence and live their lives in balance and harmony without fear, confusion and co-dependency. I offer an empathic, compassionate, intuitive and creative service and my style is conversational. My intuition guides me, my theoretical knowledge and personal experiences inform my work and my creativity allows my clients to benefit from an 'outside the box' approach. Sensitivity, anxiety, stress, depression, trauma, chronic PTSD, low confidence and self esteem are my specialities.
01730 771315 View 01730 771315
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Jackie Blower
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Are you looking for someone to listen, to share the difficulties you are experiencing at the moment? Do you feel anxious, lonely, depressed, overwhelmed by emotions? Perhaps you can't put your finger on exactly what you feel. Talking to a counsellor and being listened to can help. I am a qualified counsellor and a registered member of BACP, working in central Petersfield with adults of all ages. I can provide general support or we can focus on specific issues such as anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, bereavement, loss, or relationship issues.
Are you looking for someone to listen, to share the difficulties you are experiencing at the moment? Do you feel anxious, lonely, depressed, overwhelmed by emotions? Perhaps you can't put your finger on exactly what you feel. Talking to a counsellor and being listened to can help. I am a qualified counsellor and a registered member of BACP, working in central Petersfield with adults of all ages. I can provide general support or we can focus on specific issues such as anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, bereavement, loss, or relationship issues.
01730 779317 View 01730 779317
Photo of Lucy Solymar, MA, MUKCP, Psychotherapist
Lucy Solymar
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Verified Verified
My clients often feel painfully stuck in some way and that's why they come to me. Problems become overwhelming. For instance, being unhappy in a marriage; having a serious illness and dealing with its effects; feeling low and not understanding why; dealing with divorce; having problems with one's children and not being sure how to manage; wanting to move forward in life but just not managing somehow; work issues - struggles with colleagues, dissatisfaction with a career. Anxiety, depression and confusion usually accompany these challenging life situations.
My clients often feel painfully stuck in some way and that's why they come to me. Problems become overwhelming. For instance, being unhappy in a marriage; having a serious illness and dealing with its effects; feeling low and not understanding why; dealing with divorce; having problems with one's children and not being sure how to manage; wanting to move forward in life but just not managing somehow; work issues - struggles with colleagues, dissatisfaction with a career. Anxiety, depression and confusion usually accompany these challenging life situations.
07563 380070 View 07563 380070
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Suzy Carter
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Petersfield GU32  (Online Only)
Hi, I'm Suzy - an experienced psychotherapeutic counsellor and EMDR therapist and formerly a cardiac physiologist in the NHS. It's really hard to grow in isolation and create change on your own ... and it takes courage to seek support ... but through therapy, you could get to a place where your life feels more comfortable - a place you really want to be and somewhere you could flourish and feel content. I can't wave a magic wand but I can support you in reaching the goal of living your best life.
Hi, I'm Suzy - an experienced psychotherapeutic counsellor and EMDR therapist and formerly a cardiac physiologist in the NHS. It's really hard to grow in isolation and create change on your own ... and it takes courage to seek support ... but through therapy, you could get to a place where your life feels more comfortable - a place you really want to be and somewhere you could flourish and feel content. I can't wave a magic wand but I can support you in reaching the goal of living your best life.
01503 770321 View 01503 770321
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William Fley
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Stroud GU32
Do you find yourself struggling to trust others and are holding back from meaningful connections? These concerns may be the result of unresolved trauma. What is Trauma? Trauma occurs precisely when an event is overwhelming to a point where a person is unable to rationalize, defend, process or accept what is happening to them or someone close to them. Trauma fragments the brain’s ability to make sense and therefore move on from the onslaught. The event when it occurs overwhelms and drives us to our basic survival responses. When the traumatic incident occurred did you find yourself unable to move? www.honouringrief.com
Do you find yourself struggling to trust others and are holding back from meaningful connections? These concerns may be the result of unresolved trauma. What is Trauma? Trauma occurs precisely when an event is overwhelming to a point where a person is unable to rationalize, defend, process or accept what is happening to them or someone close to them. Trauma fragments the brain’s ability to make sense and therefore move on from the onslaught. The event when it occurs overwhelms and drives us to our basic survival responses. When the traumatic incident occurred did you find yourself unable to move? www.honouringrief.com
01243 217638 View 01243 217638
Photo of Paula Marshall-Smith, MA, MBACP, Psychotherapist
Paula Marshall-Smith
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Steep GU32
I run a successful private practice in Petersfield in Hampshire. I work relationally and empathically with people from all walks of life, young people, mid-life, the elderly and couples. Clients come in with lots of different issues that can be very troubling. Depression can leave clients barely functioning, anxiety can leave a client cripplingly isolated. Couples are left in despair when their relationships break down. Young people are feeling desperate in a world that demands so much of them. The elderly can be full of fear at what tomorrow might have in store for them.
I run a successful private practice in Petersfield in Hampshire. I work relationally and empathically with people from all walks of life, young people, mid-life, the elderly and couples. Clients come in with lots of different issues that can be very troubling. Depression can leave clients barely functioning, anxiety can leave a client cripplingly isolated. Couples are left in despair when their relationships break down. Young people are feeling desperate in a world that demands so much of them. The elderly can be full of fear at what tomorrow might have in store for them.
01730 779929 View 01730 779929
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Nigel Newman
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
I have become aware after 30 years, that with the right approach it is possible to bring healing, freedom and peace of mind to anyone -  whatever the problem. The uniqueness of each and every one of us should always be reflected in the chosen therapy. That's why, here at Solutions, I draw on a wide range of therapies to enable me to tailor my approach to your individual needs. My desire is to enable you to find greater freedom in your life, and an understanding of who you are and the best you can be.
I have become aware after 30 years, that with the right approach it is possible to bring healing, freedom and peace of mind to anyone -  whatever the problem. The uniqueness of each and every one of us should always be reflected in the chosen therapy. That's why, here at Solutions, I draw on a wide range of therapies to enable me to tailor my approach to your individual needs. My desire is to enable you to find greater freedom in your life, and an understanding of who you are and the best you can be.
01730 777564 View 01730 777564
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Questa Psychological Services
Psychologist, PsychD, AFBPSsS
Verified Verified
Questa is a small, specialist practice; we provide a range of psychological services for children and adults, both clinical and educational. In addition to therapy, we are experts in Autism and ADHD assessment/diagnosis. We offer therapy and support for a range of emotional problems for children, teenagers and adults and are specialists in anxiety, depression and trauma, providing therapy to emergency services personnel. Do call or email us today to discuss how we may be able to support you. We can usually help, but if we can't, then we’ll do our very best to offer advice and signposting.
Questa is a small, specialist practice; we provide a range of psychological services for children and adults, both clinical and educational. In addition to therapy, we are experts in Autism and ADHD assessment/diagnosis. We offer therapy and support for a range of emotional problems for children, teenagers and adults and are specialists in anxiety, depression and trauma, providing therapy to emergency services personnel. Do call or email us today to discuss how we may be able to support you. We can usually help, but if we can't, then we’ll do our very best to offer advice and signposting.
023 8192 4877 View 023 8192 4877

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Self Esteem Counsellors

When should a person seek therapy for low self-esteem?

When self-esteem problems begin to disrupt the healthy daily functioning of an individual, it may be a good time to look into therapy. If a person finds that they are not engaging with friends for fear of being judged, not completing work assignments because they don’t think they’re capable, or not finding romantic love because they don’t feel they’re worthy of it, a therapist may be able to help.

What are the signs of low self-esteem?

Low self-esteem is a common issue that can affect a person's mental and emotional well-being. Some common signs of low self-esteem include negative self-talk, perfectionism, social anxiety, difficulty making decisions, an inability to set boundaries, people-pleasing, and others. A lack of belief in oneself or one’s abilities and a feeling of not being worthy or deserving underlie most of these characteristics.

What causes low self-esteem?

Feelings of low self-worth can begin in childhood or adulthood. Being raised by a highly critical parent or growing up feeling constant disapproval can stay with a person well into adulthood. Specific issues in adulthood may also be a cause of low self-esteem. An unhappy relationship, a dysfunctional work or school experience can impact a person’s feelings of self-worth.

How can therapy improve self-esteem?

Therapists can help identify negative thought patterns that keep the client stuck in a loop of destructive self-talk and develop coping skills to change the voice in their head. A therapist can help with goal-setting, so that clients are better able to stay on task and build confidence from successfully completing work they’re proud of. Coaching a client on how to better communicate can improve relationships. These skills can result in someone with low self-esteem feeling empowered and living with less fear.