Infidelity Counselling in Darlington

Photo of Caroline Harvey, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych., Psychologist
Caroline Harvey
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Darlington DL3
I am a BPC registered Psychoanalytic Psychotherapist and HCPC registered Clinical Psychologist with a private practice in Darlington, providing Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy to adults in the North East of England. I have helped many people, both in private practice and the NHS, overcome problems including those related to anxiety, depression, trauma, abuse, relationships, stress, low self-esteem, loss, life transitions, or medically unexplained symptoms. Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy can also be effective when you are experiencing a more general sense of dissatisfaction in life, helping you work towards greater fulfilment.
I am a BPC registered Psychoanalytic Psychotherapist and HCPC registered Clinical Psychologist with a private practice in Darlington, providing Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy to adults in the North East of England. I have helped many people, both in private practice and the NHS, overcome problems including those related to anxiety, depression, trauma, abuse, relationships, stress, low self-esteem, loss, life transitions, or medically unexplained symptoms. Psychoanalytic Psychotherapy can also be effective when you are experiencing a more general sense of dissatisfaction in life, helping you work towards greater fulfilment.
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Andrea Johnson
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Darlington DL3
I am here to offer my clients a predominantly Person-Centred approach to counselling that is welcoming, understanding, non-judgemental and of course completely confidential. I currently work for a Primary Care Mental Health setting alongside my own private practice which is based in Darlington Town Centre. I can offer you an integrative approach to therapy which includes training in CBT, Creative Therapies and Mindfulness. I have extensive experience of working with difference, diversity, and a variety of issues, which means I can offer you a bespoke humanistic experience that is tailored to your unique needs.
I am here to offer my clients a predominantly Person-Centred approach to counselling that is welcoming, understanding, non-judgemental and of course completely confidential. I currently work for a Primary Care Mental Health setting alongside my own private practice which is based in Darlington Town Centre. I can offer you an integrative approach to therapy which includes training in CBT, Creative Therapies and Mindfulness. I have extensive experience of working with difference, diversity, and a variety of issues, which means I can offer you a bespoke humanistic experience that is tailored to your unique needs.
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Katherine Banner
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Darlington DL3
I specialise in the area of feeling 'overwhelmed', 'high anxiety' and your mental health feeling ignored. I am here to support these questions in life: -How can I feel like my self again? -How can I feel calmer? -how can I regain my autonomy -How can I start to trust again? My experience of working with the conscious and unconscious patterns in our life and relationships, enables us to gain a deeper understanding of what is impacting you. I work in a range of areas from high anxiety, bereavement, depression and psychological neglect.
I specialise in the area of feeling 'overwhelmed', 'high anxiety' and your mental health feeling ignored. I am here to support these questions in life: -How can I feel like my self again? -How can I feel calmer? -how can I regain my autonomy -How can I start to trust again? My experience of working with the conscious and unconscious patterns in our life and relationships, enables us to gain a deeper understanding of what is impacting you. I work in a range of areas from high anxiety, bereavement, depression and psychological neglect.
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Donna McAllister
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Darlington DL1  (Online Only)
Welcome to my profile, hello. My credentials as a registered counsellor include a Bachelor of Arts in Therapeutic Counselling with Honours. I will give you a secure, private and accepting space where you may talk about whatever difficulties you are having. These difficulties could include low self-esteem, anxiety, depression, and working and family life responsibilities. these can all lead to high levels of stress and burnout, working together with you and developing a solid therapeutic relationship based on mutual respect and trust in order to make you feel heard and understood and offering support throughout.
Welcome to my profile, hello. My credentials as a registered counsellor include a Bachelor of Arts in Therapeutic Counselling with Honours. I will give you a secure, private and accepting space where you may talk about whatever difficulties you are having. These difficulties could include low self-esteem, anxiety, depression, and working and family life responsibilities. these can all lead to high levels of stress and burnout, working together with you and developing a solid therapeutic relationship based on mutual respect and trust in order to make you feel heard and understood and offering support throughout.
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Fiona Grant
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Darlington DL1  (Online Only)
I am an affordable, Pluralistic Counsellor. I believe everyone is unique, people learn and communicate in different ways. Therefore, I will adapt the style of counselling to suit your needs. My aim is to help you develop skills which can be used outside of the counselling session, this can also be beneficial to deal with any future problems you may face.
I am an affordable, Pluralistic Counsellor. I believe everyone is unique, people learn and communicate in different ways. Therefore, I will adapt the style of counselling to suit your needs. My aim is to help you develop skills which can be used outside of the counselling session, this can also be beneficial to deal with any future problems you may face.
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Nicola Jones Counselling and CBT
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
Verified Verified
Darlington DL3
I am a fully qualified and experienced Counsellor, Psychological Therapist and High Intensity Cognitive Behavioural Therapist (CBT) and Supervisor. Often individuals will seek therapy because they feel unable to cope with the stresses of life or adjusting to a big change, not like 'their old self', isolated from others, worried or lost or just needing someone to listen. My role is to work together with individuals to make sense of what is happening for them and provide opportunities for change in away that they feel is appropriate and achievable at their own pace, within a private and confidential setting.
I am a fully qualified and experienced Counsellor, Psychological Therapist and High Intensity Cognitive Behavioural Therapist (CBT) and Supervisor. Often individuals will seek therapy because they feel unable to cope with the stresses of life or adjusting to a big change, not like 'their old self', isolated from others, worried or lost or just needing someone to listen. My role is to work together with individuals to make sense of what is happening for them and provide opportunities for change in away that they feel is appropriate and achievable at their own pace, within a private and confidential setting.
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Janet Garcha
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Darlington DL1
I believe the therapeutic relationship is central to any work we do together. I will not judge you and will offer you the respect you deserve while we explore the reasons you are seeking therapy at this time. I work in a private, calm, relaxed and confidential space in the centre of Darlington. I am a qualified experienced Integrative Psychotherapist and Psychotherapeutic Counsellor offering both long and short term therapy, dependent upon what you want at this time. Having someone to talk to in confidence can in itself be a healing experience. I am able to work using many different theories and methods depending on your needs.
I believe the therapeutic relationship is central to any work we do together. I will not judge you and will offer you the respect you deserve while we explore the reasons you are seeking therapy at this time. I work in a private, calm, relaxed and confidential space in the centre of Darlington. I am a qualified experienced Integrative Psychotherapist and Psychotherapeutic Counsellor offering both long and short term therapy, dependent upon what you want at this time. Having someone to talk to in confidence can in itself be a healing experience. I am able to work using many different theories and methods depending on your needs.
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Life Pathways Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Darlington DL3
I am a qualified counsellor and member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy. I offer expert help for anxiety related disorders including panic attack I am able to deliver a broad range of tried and tested therapeutic techniques to alleviate your anxiety which can be triggered by various issues such as, work, health, relationships, loss to name a few. I use various approaches, CBT Solution Focused. Person Centred and added extra training in the Rewind Technique, this is useful for trauma and recurring troubled memories. EFT is a tapping technique can be useful for stress .
I am a qualified counsellor and member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy. I offer expert help for anxiety related disorders including panic attack I am able to deliver a broad range of tried and tested therapeutic techniques to alleviate your anxiety which can be triggered by various issues such as, work, health, relationships, loss to name a few. I use various approaches, CBT Solution Focused. Person Centred and added extra training in the Rewind Technique, this is useful for trauma and recurring troubled memories. EFT is a tapping technique can be useful for stress .
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Ryan Grey
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Darlington DL1
Whatever it is that brings you to counselling, I will help you to bring about the change you are wanting to achieve. You may have a personal goal in mind, or you may not know exactly what it is you need from counselling yet. You may be struggling with life at the moment and finding it hard to see a way forward. You may feel lost and not have a good sense of who you are any more. You may have a long term condition that you need help with or you may have had a recent bereavement, separation or other traumatic life event. Maybe things just don't feel right. Whatever it is you need and wherever you need to get to, I am here to help you.
Whatever it is that brings you to counselling, I will help you to bring about the change you are wanting to achieve. You may have a personal goal in mind, or you may not know exactly what it is you need from counselling yet. You may be struggling with life at the moment and finding it hard to see a way forward. You may feel lost and not have a good sense of who you are any more. You may have a long term condition that you need help with or you may have had a recent bereavement, separation or other traumatic life event. Maybe things just don't feel right. Whatever it is you need and wherever you need to get to, I am here to help you.
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Paula Haigh - Indigo Thinking Counselling
Counsellor, UKCP Trainee
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Darlington DL1
Hello and welcome. Are you feeling out of sorts, lost, or not yourself? You may be struggling with anxiety, grief, or other emotional difficulties. Maybe you're coming to terms with a recent separation, a health condition, or another traumatic life event. Life can be challenging at times and we can find it hard to see a way forward. Pressures placed on us can be unrelenting and take their toll. These can often manifest in unrealistic expectations of oneself, leading to high stress levels and burnout. Whatever you bring I will hear you.
Hello and welcome. Are you feeling out of sorts, lost, or not yourself? You may be struggling with anxiety, grief, or other emotional difficulties. Maybe you're coming to terms with a recent separation, a health condition, or another traumatic life event. Life can be challenging at times and we can find it hard to see a way forward. Pressures placed on us can be unrelenting and take their toll. These can often manifest in unrealistic expectations of oneself, leading to high stress levels and burnout. Whatever you bring I will hear you.
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Photo of Karena Serdecka, MSc, MUKCP, Psychotherapist
Karena Serdecka
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Darlington DL1
Whether working through significant change, life event or trying to manage/resolve longer term issues which prevent you from thriving and reaching your fullest potential in life, relationships, family or work – I can work with you in a fully supportive, non-judgemental, empathic way. I am a warm, relational and person-centred integrative psychotherapist and EMDR specialist Dip Psych & DPC (child and adolescent), also clinical hypnotherapist (Adult). Additionally -Dip CBT, EFT, Mindfulness, Art and Couples Therapies. I lecture in psychotherapy, psychology and counselling and have worked with clients 5 yrs old to 80yrs+.
Whether working through significant change, life event or trying to manage/resolve longer term issues which prevent you from thriving and reaching your fullest potential in life, relationships, family or work – I can work with you in a fully supportive, non-judgemental, empathic way. I am a warm, relational and person-centred integrative psychotherapist and EMDR specialist Dip Psych & DPC (child and adolescent), also clinical hypnotherapist (Adult). Additionally -Dip CBT, EFT, Mindfulness, Art and Couples Therapies. I lecture in psychotherapy, psychology and counselling and have worked with clients 5 yrs old to 80yrs+.
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Photo of Emma Moore, MBACP, Counsellor
Emma Moore
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Darlington DL1
Waitlist for new clients
Modern life throws many pressures and challenges our way and many of us find it difficult to admit that we're struggling. Often fear of judgement prevents us from reaching out for help. This is where therapy can come in. My work in a Mental Health Primary Care Team & roles in the community have provided me with experience of in working in many areas of psychological distress such as: Low self-esteem Interpersonal relationship problems/ breakdowns Depression Anxiety Bereavement/Loss Trauma Domestic abuse Bullying Social isolation/ Loneliness Sexuality/ gender confusion Homelessness Feeling a failure/ lost in life.
Modern life throws many pressures and challenges our way and many of us find it difficult to admit that we're struggling. Often fear of judgement prevents us from reaching out for help. This is where therapy can come in. My work in a Mental Health Primary Care Team & roles in the community have provided me with experience of in working in many areas of psychological distress such as: Low self-esteem Interpersonal relationship problems/ breakdowns Depression Anxiety Bereavement/Loss Trauma Domestic abuse Bullying Social isolation/ Loneliness Sexuality/ gender confusion Homelessness Feeling a failure/ lost in life.
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Photo of David Benjamin, BACP, Counsellor
David Benjamin
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
Darlington DL13
As a Trauma Informed therapist and supervisor I offer confidential one to one sessions for issues including anxiety and trauma. Face to face or video call. As an adopted adult, I've experienced my own attachment issues that come with this and can work through these with you in a trauma informed way. You will be made to feel welcome and safe as we work together.
As a Trauma Informed therapist and supervisor I offer confidential one to one sessions for issues including anxiety and trauma. Face to face or video call. As an adopted adult, I've experienced my own attachment issues that come with this and can work through these with you in a trauma informed way. You will be made to feel welcome and safe as we work together.
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Photo of Beverley Ann D'Arcy - Changing Minds Psychotherapy, MA, MUKCP, Psychotherapist
Changing Minds Psychotherapy
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Darlington DL1
17 years as a psychotherapist providing therapy to people with complex and enduring mental health problems (mainly NHS) and clients with mild to moderate mental health issues referred by organisations. I carry out in depth assessments, quickly identify key issues and tailor therapy according to client need. I offer a confidential setting where clients are free to talk without fear of rejection, criticism of blame. I aim to provide someone with resources they can draw on to manage current and future anxiety, stresses, disabling symptoms and unstable moods.
17 years as a psychotherapist providing therapy to people with complex and enduring mental health problems (mainly NHS) and clients with mild to moderate mental health issues referred by organisations. I carry out in depth assessments, quickly identify key issues and tailor therapy according to client need. I offer a confidential setting where clients are free to talk without fear of rejection, criticism of blame. I aim to provide someone with resources they can draw on to manage current and future anxiety, stresses, disabling symptoms and unstable moods.
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Megan Riley
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
Darlington DL1  (Online Only)
I’m a qualified counsellor with a Master of Science in Counselling Psychology, my main aim as a counsellor is to help people to be empowered to make the changes that they wish to. Through my private practice I work with adults over the age of 18. I help people to cope with difficult life transitions to adapt to the changes that are presented. I help people to make links between experiences in childhood or teenage years and current issues such as anxiety, depression, low self-esteem and difficulties in relationships.
I’m a qualified counsellor with a Master of Science in Counselling Psychology, my main aim as a counsellor is to help people to be empowered to make the changes that they wish to. Through my private practice I work with adults over the age of 18. I help people to cope with difficult life transitions to adapt to the changes that are presented. I help people to make links between experiences in childhood or teenage years and current issues such as anxiety, depression, low self-esteem and difficulties in relationships.
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Chris Blackburn Counselling
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Ravensworth DL11
I can offer you a safe space to explore what may be troubling you and look at what you may need from therapy, I can help you identify the issue and we can work together towards your goal. I can provide strategies to empower to accept/ cope more efficiently with difficult situations. You may want to look at behaviour patterns that are not helpful and learn how to challenge/ make positive changes. Counselling is always led by you and tailored to your needs/ goals. Traumatic events will be explored at your pace. Confidentiality and Safety are paramount in my work.
I can offer you a safe space to explore what may be troubling you and look at what you may need from therapy, I can help you identify the issue and we can work together towards your goal. I can provide strategies to empower to accept/ cope more efficiently with difficult situations. You may want to look at behaviour patterns that are not helpful and learn how to challenge/ make positive changes. Counselling is always led by you and tailored to your needs/ goals. Traumatic events will be explored at your pace. Confidentiality and Safety are paramount in my work.
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Dr Fiona Parker
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Richmond (North Yorkshire) DL11  (Online Only)
I am very interested to hear your story, to know what has happened to you and to focus on your recovery and well-being. Nothing is ever inconsequential, even the slightest concern is important, as are you. I am confident that in working together therapeutically with you, you can make the necessary changes in your life so that intimacy, trust, creativity and contentment come alive. I am always fascinated in learning how our family histories, migration and trans-generational traumas influence our life choices both personally and professionally. I have extensive experience in the NHS in a Tertiary Specialist Psychotherapy service.
I am very interested to hear your story, to know what has happened to you and to focus on your recovery and well-being. Nothing is ever inconsequential, even the slightest concern is important, as are you. I am confident that in working together therapeutically with you, you can make the necessary changes in your life so that intimacy, trust, creativity and contentment come alive. I am always fascinated in learning how our family histories, migration and trans-generational traumas influence our life choices both personally and professionally. I have extensive experience in the NHS in a Tertiary Specialist Psychotherapy service.
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Online Therapists

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Dr Didier Danillon
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Wilmslow SK9  (Online Only)
I am a psychologist and certified couple therapist (Imago). I am driven by my empathy and desire to help others. I welcome same-sex couples, all members of the LGBTQIA+ community, and people from all ethnic/cultural backgrounds. Born in France, I trained in the UK at the highest academic level and in multiple settings (incl. the NHS). I can help adults with many mental health difficulties (anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, trauma, OCD) and couples experiencing difficulties (communication, crisis, affairs). I am also highly experienced in supporting cancer patients and their families. Please see my website for more information.
I am a psychologist and certified couple therapist (Imago). I am driven by my empathy and desire to help others. I welcome same-sex couples, all members of the LGBTQIA+ community, and people from all ethnic/cultural backgrounds. Born in France, I trained in the UK at the highest academic level and in multiple settings (incl. the NHS). I can help adults with many mental health difficulties (anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, trauma, OCD) and couples experiencing difficulties (communication, crisis, affairs). I am also highly experienced in supporting cancer patients and their families. Please see my website for more information.
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Kathryn Roe
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Northallerton DL6
You may be struggling with your connection with one another, may have destructive patterns in how you are communicating, you may have been through an experience of infidelity or are struggling to say difficult things to one another that need to be said.
Everyone deserves to feel at their best, to receive support when they require it, without shame. I believe that no one's circumstances are less worthy than others. I work alongside individuals, couples, groups & parents to review their circumstances, reconnect, recover & restore. If you want to thrive, understand & explore your own circumstances better, regain a sense of wellbeing & vitality, (whether working through personal events, managing distress symptoms, relationship setbacks, loss or change), I am here to support your intentions towards development & change. We all could do with a bit of help sometimes, without judgement.
You may be struggling with your connection with one another, may have destructive patterns in how you are communicating, you may have been through an experience of infidelity or are struggling to say difficult things to one another that need to be said.
Everyone deserves to feel at their best, to receive support when they require it, without shame. I believe that no one's circumstances are less worthy than others. I work alongside individuals, couples, groups & parents to review their circumstances, reconnect, recover & restore. If you want to thrive, understand & explore your own circumstances better, regain a sense of wellbeing & vitality, (whether working through personal events, managing distress symptoms, relationship setbacks, loss or change), I am here to support your intentions towards development & change. We all could do with a bit of help sometimes, without judgement.
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Rachel Northen - Sex And Relationship Therapist
Counsellor, COSRT General
Verified Verified
Leeds LS8  (Online Only)
I specialise in male and female sexual difficulties and in relationship issues and work with couples and individuals. Sexual issues may have a physiological and/or psychological cause and include: loss of intimacy and desire, mismatched libidos, orgasm difficulties, erectile dysfunction, premature and delayed ejaculation, vaginismus, sexual pain, menopause, sexual phobia and anxiety, lack of confidence and issues with porn use. Relationship issues include: infidelity, loss of trust, communication difficulties, lack of intimacy/connection, adjusting to change, conflict, stress and anxiety, separation and different attachment styles.
I specialise in male and female sexual difficulties and in relationship issues and work with couples and individuals. Sexual issues may have a physiological and/or psychological cause and include: loss of intimacy and desire, mismatched libidos, orgasm difficulties, erectile dysfunction, premature and delayed ejaculation, vaginismus, sexual pain, menopause, sexual phobia and anxiety, lack of confidence and issues with porn use. Relationship issues include: infidelity, loss of trust, communication difficulties, lack of intimacy/connection, adjusting to change, conflict, stress and anxiety, separation and different attachment styles.
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Infidelity Counsellors

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.