Sex Therapists in Surrey, BC
I don’t shy away from talking about sex, I welcome it, and we’ll talk openly at a pace that feels right for you.
You love your partner, but somewhere along the way, a distance has grown between you. No matter how hard you try, your words seem to get distorted, your pain misunderstood, and reaching for each other feels harder than it used to. So you stop reaching and you learn to tend to your wounds on your own. And yet, underneath the hurt, you still long for the playfulness, intimacy, desire, and magical feeling of being truly connected. You may carry a quiet ache for the closeness you once shared, but feel caught between wanting closeness and protecting yourself from further pain.
I don’t shy away from talking about sex, I welcome it, and we’ll talk openly at a pace that feels right for you.
You love your partner, but somewhere along the way, a distance has grown between you. No matter how hard you try, your words seem to get distorted, your pain misunderstood, and reaching for each other feels harder than it used to. So you stop reaching and you learn to tend to your wounds on your own. And yet, underneath the hurt, you still long for the playfulness, intimacy, desire, and magical feeling of being truly connected. You may carry a quiet ache for the closeness you once shared, but feel caught between wanting closeness and protecting yourself from further pain.
You found me! I am the real, authentic, engaged counsellor with a mastery of craft, and the warm, kind, honest human presence you need to feel fully held and met.
My clinical interest has always been drawn to the areas of humanness I believe are most lonely (often due to a neglect or fear in our culture of openly addressing them) and those areas are inhabited by people of all presentations and backgrounds. I’m honoured to witness and know them. In terms of how we work, it’s flexible and an ongoing aspect of what we discuss while you’re here. You shine the light on what we discuss and together we map your self-attuned way forward.
You found me! I am the real, authentic, engaged counsellor with a mastery of craft, and the warm, kind, honest human presence you need to feel fully held and met.
My clinical interest has always been drawn to the areas of humanness I believe are most lonely (often due to a neglect or fear in our culture of openly addressing them) and those areas are inhabited by people of all presentations and backgrounds. I’m honoured to witness and know them. In terms of how we work, it’s flexible and an ongoing aspect of what we discuss while you’re here. You shine the light on what we discuss and together we map your self-attuned way forward.
I see counselling as a safe space to talk through whatever is on your mind, whether you’re feeling anxious, depressed, overwhelmed, or stuck with a big decision or life transition. Some clients come in for support with anxiety, depression, trauma, ADHD, stress, relationship challenges, identity questions, or adjusting to a new diagnosis and figuring out what that means for them.
In counselling, we can explore strong emotions, make sense of what you’re experiencing, work through grief or change, and find practical next steps that feel right for you. At the end of the day, counseling is your space—focused on what matters most to you.
I see counselling as a safe space to talk through whatever is on your mind, whether you’re feeling anxious, depressed, overwhelmed, or stuck with a big decision or life transition. Some clients come in for support with anxiety, depression, trauma, ADHD, stress, relationship challenges, identity questions, or adjusting to a new diagnosis and figuring out what that means for them.
In counselling, we can explore strong emotions, make sense of what you’re experiencing, work through grief or change, and find practical next steps that feel right for you. At the end of the day, counseling is your space—focused on what matters most to you.
I work with individuals, couples, and relationships of all configurations as they explore identity, intimacy, sexuality, connection, and the evolving realities of being human.
I use a relational, person-centred approach to therapy, grounded in collaboration, curiosity, and care.
I draw from narrative therapy, somatic awareness, trauma-informed and reparative practices, and my training in Life Space Crisis Intervention.
Underlying my work is a trauma-responsive, intersectional, anti-oppressive, and neurodiversity-affirming lens.
I work with individuals, couples, and relationships of all configurations as they explore identity, intimacy, sexuality, connection, and the evolving realities of being human.
I use a relational, person-centred approach to therapy, grounded in collaboration, curiosity, and care.
I draw from narrative therapy, somatic awareness, trauma-informed and reparative practices, and my training in Life Space Crisis Intervention.
Underlying my work is a trauma-responsive, intersectional, anti-oppressive, and neurodiversity-affirming lens.
It is rare to find a space to discuss sex, never mind seeking support around sexual concerns.
I offer de-stigmatizing and validating experience to help you feel supported while navigating the stickier and scarier parts of life. I seek to aid our innermost selves in feeling seen, understood, and unstuck. I support and normalise through psychoeducation, specialized training, and a deep well of compassion and empathy.
It is rare to find a space to discuss sex, never mind seeking support around sexual concerns.
I offer de-stigmatizing and validating experience to help you feel supported while navigating the stickier and scarier parts of life. I seek to aid our innermost selves in feeling seen, understood, and unstuck. I support and normalise through psychoeducation, specialized training, and a deep well of compassion and empathy.
I’m a sex therapist trained in EMDR, with an identity of being bicultural (Singaporean/Canadian), demisexual, and a cisgal familiar with polyamory.
I work with all kinds of folks, but my sweet spot is helping with sexual wellness (desire, kinks, pain, identity), relationship issues, and deep-seated shame or religious/purity/sexual assault trauma. I’m trained in EMDR, so if you feel you’ve been talking in circles in therapy, we can try tackling things in a somatic way to unlatch its claws from you.
I’m a sex therapist trained in EMDR, with an identity of being bicultural (Singaporean/Canadian), demisexual, and a cisgal familiar with polyamory.
I work with all kinds of folks, but my sweet spot is helping with sexual wellness (desire, kinks, pain, identity), relationship issues, and deep-seated shame or religious/purity/sexual assault trauma. I’m trained in EMDR, so if you feel you’ve been talking in circles in therapy, we can try tackling things in a somatic way to unlatch its claws from you.
You’re successful on the outside but struggling on the inside. You may feel burned out, undervalued, or stuck in patterns that no longer serve you. Perhaps you give too much in relationships, fear rejection, or find yourself drawn to emotionally unavailable people. At Resilience Psychotherapy, we take care of you from assessment to treatment to thriving. We help high-achieving professionals, children of mentally ill or narcissistic parents, and those healing from attachment wounds break free from old patterns and create the life they truly want.
You’re successful on the outside but struggling on the inside. You may feel burned out, undervalued, or stuck in patterns that no longer serve you. Perhaps you give too much in relationships, fear rejection, or find yourself drawn to emotionally unavailable people. At Resilience Psychotherapy, we take care of you from assessment to treatment to thriving. We help high-achieving professionals, children of mentally ill or narcissistic parents, and those healing from attachment wounds break free from old patterns and create the life they truly want.
Perhaps you're navigating relationship challenges, intimacy or sexuality concerns, burnout, or a major life transition that has left you feeling disconnected from yourself.
I offer an integrative approach blending psychotherapy, sex therapy, and yoga-informed somatic therapy. My sex therapy training meets AASECT educational standards. My work is always trauma informed. I draw from IFS, Narrative Therapy, EFT, ACT, and the Gottman Method to help individuals and people in relationships to find peace and connection.
Perhaps you're navigating relationship challenges, intimacy or sexuality concerns, burnout, or a major life transition that has left you feeling disconnected from yourself.
I offer an integrative approach blending psychotherapy, sex therapy, and yoga-informed somatic therapy. My sex therapy training meets AASECT educational standards. My work is always trauma informed. I draw from IFS, Narrative Therapy, EFT, ACT, and the Gottman Method to help individuals and people in relationships to find peace and connection.
Do you feel stuck in which direction to take in life? As if you're lost in a forest. Confused about what to do or where to go to find relief. Maybe you've felt like something in your life has been off, and you want to seek clarity to gain insight into some of your life experiences. The unsettling question, which seems easier at times to tuck away for later, tugs at your heart and mind, "What's happening to me?" Wow, the fact that you are allowing space for these unsettling wonderments takes courage.
Do you feel stuck in which direction to take in life? As if you're lost in a forest. Confused about what to do or where to go to find relief. Maybe you've felt like something in your life has been off, and you want to seek clarity to gain insight into some of your life experiences. The unsettling question, which seems easier at times to tuck away for later, tugs at your heart and mind, "What's happening to me?" Wow, the fact that you are allowing space for these unsettling wonderments takes courage.
I specialize in relationship and couples work, attachment issues, emotion-focused work, sexuality and intimacy, non-monogamy, ADHD, anxiety, trauma, addiction, and body image, through a sex-positive, harm-reduction lens.
I’m here to support your mental health and well-being, whether you’re exploring sexuality, navigating relationship challenges, or building emotional resilience. I work with individuals and couples of all genders and intersectionalities, offering a compassionate, evidence based space to grow and heal.
I specialize in relationship and couples work, attachment issues, emotion-focused work, sexuality and intimacy, non-monogamy, ADHD, anxiety, trauma, addiction, and body image, through a sex-positive, harm-reduction lens.
I’m here to support your mental health and well-being, whether you’re exploring sexuality, navigating relationship challenges, or building emotional resilience. I work with individuals and couples of all genders and intersectionalities, offering a compassionate, evidence based space to grow and heal.
Do you ever wonder who you're supposed to be? Maybe you're balancing your own needs against the expectations of family, culture, relationships, or career, feeling anxious, burnt out, or disconnected from yourself, always the one holding everything together. Perhaps you're learning to set boundaries without guilt, working through experiences that still feel heavy, or finding yourself after a major life transition. You don't need the right words or a clear starting point. Therapy doesn't require you to have it all figured out; this is a space to show up exactly as you are.
Do you ever wonder who you're supposed to be? Maybe you're balancing your own needs against the expectations of family, culture, relationships, or career, feeling anxious, burnt out, or disconnected from yourself, always the one holding everything together. Perhaps you're learning to set boundaries without guilt, working through experiences that still feel heavy, or finding yourself after a major life transition. You don't need the right words or a clear starting point. Therapy doesn't require you to have it all figured out; this is a space to show up exactly as you are.
If you’re struggling with stress, trauma, or recurring patterns of anger and anxiety, therapy can help you regain control. I offer a culturally sensitive, holistic approach that combines practical tools with deeper self-exploration so you can heal, set boundaries, and feel more confident in your everyday life.
If you’re struggling with stress, trauma, or recurring patterns of anger and anxiety, therapy can help you regain control. I offer a culturally sensitive, holistic approach that combines practical tools with deeper self-exploration so you can heal, set boundaries, and feel more confident in your everyday life.
I am a firm believer in helping others to empower themselves in making a powerful and lasting change in their own lives. Together through therapy, I believe in helping clients let go of all the things stopping them from having the life they have always imagined and deserved. If you are struggling with your relationship, struggling with Anxiety, Depression, or Trauma, lonliness, or maybe even feeling like you want a more fulfilling life for yourself than I would love to hear from you. I work with clients from a variety of backgrounds and have a wealth of experience and knowledge.
I am a firm believer in helping others to empower themselves in making a powerful and lasting change in their own lives. Together through therapy, I believe in helping clients let go of all the things stopping them from having the life they have always imagined and deserved. If you are struggling with your relationship, struggling with Anxiety, Depression, or Trauma, lonliness, or maybe even feeling like you want a more fulfilling life for yourself than I would love to hear from you. I work with clients from a variety of backgrounds and have a wealth of experience and knowledge.
Our journeys are not a straight line. Bends and breaks can challenge us and life can become tough. But therapy can help you navigate these journeys in a healthy way. You deserve to be healthy in all aspects and the opportunity to live to your fullest potential. I provide holistic, culturally-appropriate, and growth-oriented therapy for individuals, couples, families, and groups. I also provide services through ICBC, Crime Victims Assistance Program, and First Nations Health Authority. Approaches include EMDR, Psychedelic therapy, and other modalities. Let's connect.
Our journeys are not a straight line. Bends and breaks can challenge us and life can become tough. But therapy can help you navigate these journeys in a healthy way. You deserve to be healthy in all aspects and the opportunity to live to your fullest potential. I provide holistic, culturally-appropriate, and growth-oriented therapy for individuals, couples, families, and groups. I also provide services through ICBC, Crime Victims Assistance Program, and First Nations Health Authority. Approaches include EMDR, Psychedelic therapy, and other modalities. Let's connect.
I can support you in areas of anxiety, stress, anger, life transitions, self esteem & identity, relationship concerns, sex & intimacy, and relationship counselling.
I support both individuals and couples as they navigate life’s complexities, from anxiety and identity, to relationships and intimacy. Together, we will work on building emotional awareness, connecting to inner-strengths, and deepening your connection to both your emotions and your body.
I can support you in areas of anxiety, stress, anger, life transitions, self esteem & identity, relationship concerns, sex & intimacy, and relationship counselling.
I support both individuals and couples as they navigate life’s complexities, from anxiety and identity, to relationships and intimacy. Together, we will work on building emotional awareness, connecting to inner-strengths, and deepening your connection to both your emotions and your body.
I’m Angie Biln, and I understand firsthand the impact trauma can have and the courage it takes to begin healing. As a trauma-trained Registered Social Worker, certified life coach, speaker, and survivor with over 18 years of experience, I support individuals in healing, rebuilding self-worth, and creating healthier patterns and relationships. I offer services in English, Punjabi, and Hindi, creating a culturally supportive and empowering space for growth. If you’re ready for lasting change and a more fulfilling life, I’m here to support your journey.
I’m Angie Biln, and I understand firsthand the impact trauma can have and the courage it takes to begin healing. As a trauma-trained Registered Social Worker, certified life coach, speaker, and survivor with over 18 years of experience, I support individuals in healing, rebuilding self-worth, and creating healthier patterns and relationships. I offer services in English, Punjabi, and Hindi, creating a culturally supportive and empowering space for growth. If you’re ready for lasting change and a more fulfilling life, I’m here to support your journey.
If you are someone who wants to go beyond surface insights, ready to explore deeply and move past patterns that may be influencing your subconscious and affecting your awareness, I work with EMDR and EFT. These modalities help gently explore the inner world, challenge those beliefs, and then reprocess those experiences to reinforce adaptive neural networks. This process allows you to be more true to yourself and gain greater control over your life. The goal is to desensitize and reprocess those maladaptive triggers.
If you are someone who wants to go beyond surface insights, ready to explore deeply and move past patterns that may be influencing your subconscious and affecting your awareness, I work with EMDR and EFT. These modalities help gently explore the inner world, challenge those beliefs, and then reprocess those experiences to reinforce adaptive neural networks. This process allows you to be more true to yourself and gain greater control over your life. The goal is to desensitize and reprocess those maladaptive triggers.
Practical and meaningful results. If you want results then I can help. Free 30 minute initial consult. I specialize in marriage & family counselling, anger management, trauma & abuse, grief/loss counselling, spiritual issues and parenting. I will work collaboratively with you to determine the best way to help you in achieving the goals and hopes you have for your marriage, family or individual needs. I believe that you have the answers within you to achieve the change you want. I can help you get to those answers and assist you in building a better marriage, or peaceful family or gaining more insight into your issues.
Practical and meaningful results. If you want results then I can help. Free 30 minute initial consult. I specialize in marriage & family counselling, anger management, trauma & abuse, grief/loss counselling, spiritual issues and parenting. I will work collaboratively with you to determine the best way to help you in achieving the goals and hopes you have for your marriage, family or individual needs. I believe that you have the answers within you to achieve the change you want. I can help you get to those answers and assist you in building a better marriage, or peaceful family or gaining more insight into your issues.
The Centre for Psychodynamic Insights is a virtual clinic specializing in psychodynamic psychotherapy. This approach explores the root causes of symptoms by uncovering and understanding underlying emotions through evidence-based treatment. Through collaborative dialogue, we examine unconscious thoughts and emotions shaped from childhood to the present. We work to relieve symptoms by understanding how these patterns affect current experiences, and create targeted strategies for meaningful change long-term.
The Centre for Psychodynamic Insights is a virtual clinic specializing in psychodynamic psychotherapy. This approach explores the root causes of symptoms by uncovering and understanding underlying emotions through evidence-based treatment. Through collaborative dialogue, we examine unconscious thoughts and emotions shaped from childhood to the present. We work to relieve symptoms by understanding how these patterns affect current experiences, and create targeted strategies for meaningful change long-term.
I am a queer and trans RCC providing virtual therapy across BC. I specialize in gender-affirming care, hormone readiness assessments in BC, and identity exploration.
Whatever brings you to counselling, I am here to support you.
Many come for gender-affirming counselling, transition support, and hormone readiness assessments. Others for trauma, depression, anxiety, BPD, anger, bipolar, or other difficulties that they need support around.
ANY topic is welcome. During the free 15 minute consult, we will talk about what brings you to counselling and how I can help. :)
I am a queer and trans RCC providing virtual therapy across BC. I specialize in gender-affirming care, hormone readiness assessments in BC, and identity exploration.
Whatever brings you to counselling, I am here to support you.
Many come for gender-affirming counselling, transition support, and hormone readiness assessments. Others for trauma, depression, anxiety, BPD, anger, bipolar, or other difficulties that they need support around.
ANY topic is welcome. During the free 15 minute consult, we will talk about what brings you to counselling and how I can help. :)
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Sex Therapy
Who is sex therapy for?
Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.
Why do people need sex therapy?
Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.
What happens in sex therapy?
People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.
What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?
Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.