Sex Therapists in Vancouver, BC
Regarded by my colleagues as "a pioneer in multicultural sex and relationship therapy," I help couples understand each other on many levels - family obligations, cultural expectations, religious pressure, sexual interests, etc - so that they can avoid many pitfalls along the journey toward matrimonial bliss.
In our multicultural society many people are attracted to those of different backgrounds. Their accent, exotic appearance, or unfamiliar relationship style are often irresistible. But the very things that attract can also create problems.
Multicultural romance often ends in heartbreak.
In our sessions, my clients and I work as a team to appreciate the challenges and to resolve them. The goal of therapy is for singles and couples to make their relationship with their partner the best that it can be.
Regarded by my colleagues as "a pioneer in multicultural sex and relationship therapy," I help couples understand each other on many levels - family obligations, cultural expectations, religious pressure, sexual interests, etc - so that they can avoid many pitfalls along the journey toward matrimonial bliss.
In our multicultural society many people are attracted to those of different backgrounds. Their accent, exotic appearance, or unfamiliar relationship style are often irresistible. But the very things that attract can also create problems.
Multicultural romance often ends in heartbreak.
In our sessions, my clients and I work as a team to appreciate the challenges and to resolve them. The goal of therapy is for singles and couples to make their relationship with their partner the best that it can be.
I bring to the work specialized training in sex therapy and couples therapy.
We are all deserving and capable of enjoying fulfilling romantic and sexual relationships. Connection is the key to a life lived full. Connection to yourself first and foremost— awareness of your emotions, body sensations, values, and needs. Believing fully in your inherent worth, flaws and all. Connecting to others through a practice of empathy, vulnerability, and reliability is how we create strong relationships to our loved ones and the world around us.
I bring to the work specialized training in sex therapy and couples therapy.
We are all deserving and capable of enjoying fulfilling romantic and sexual relationships. Connection is the key to a life lived full. Connection to yourself first and foremost— awareness of your emotions, body sensations, values, and needs. Believing fully in your inherent worth, flaws and all. Connecting to others through a practice of empathy, vulnerability, and reliability is how we create strong relationships to our loved ones and the world around us.
Sexuality and sexual behaviours can also be challenging for some but, I am passionate about working with individuals and couples of all genders, orientations, races and ethnicities.
Coming from a culture that reveres our elders, I am interested in issues facing seniors. Mobility concerns, diminishing sexual capacity, physical and mental decline and end of life concerns are generally not addressed by our youth-obsessed societies. My role is to help you learn to cope with change.
Sexuality and sexual behaviours can also be challenging for some but, I am passionate about working with individuals and couples of all genders, orientations, races and ethnicities.
Coming from a culture that reveres our elders, I am interested in issues facing seniors. Mobility concerns, diminishing sexual capacity, physical and mental decline and end of life concerns are generally not addressed by our youth-obsessed societies. My role is to help you learn to cope with change.
Maybe sex feels like a source of stress instead of connection.
Together, we create a space to make sense of your story, explore what’s getting in the way, and build toward more secure, authentic relationships.
Maybe sex feels like a source of stress instead of connection.
Together, we create a space to make sense of your story, explore what’s getting in the way, and build toward more secure, authentic relationships.
While my area of focus is in sex therapy, I often find taking a holistic approach towards healing to be most effective.
Within sex therapy I frequently work with: performance anxiety, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, porn/ sex addiction, sexual interests (kinks, fetishes, or paraphilias), sexual guilt and shame, low desire, sexual trauma, and pain with sex. I also work with couples who are struggling with mismatched levels of desire and communication.
While my area of focus is in sex therapy, I often find taking a holistic approach towards healing to be most effective.
Within sex therapy I frequently work with: performance anxiety, erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, porn/ sex addiction, sexual interests (kinks, fetishes, or paraphilias), sexual guilt and shame, low desire, sexual trauma, and pain with sex. I also work with couples who are struggling with mismatched levels of desire and communication.
I am currently working as a sex and relationship therapist in private practice and also as an associate with Dr.
In addition to sex and relationship therapy, I have 12 years of experience working with trauma and have supported hundreds of folks in reclaiming their lives from painful experiences. I was a therapist and the Executive Director at the BC Society for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse.
I am currently working as a sex and relationship therapist in private practice and also as an associate with Dr.
In addition to sex and relationship therapy, I have 12 years of experience working with trauma and have supported hundreds of folks in reclaiming their lives from painful experiences. I was a therapist and the Executive Director at the BC Society for Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse.
Sex-positive and spiritually inclined, they appreciate a holistic approach to healing.
I have experience in healing libido and am trained to work with couples, ADHD, PTSD, erectile dysfunction, eating disorders, anxiety, self-esteem, and depression. My approach is tailored for those who are curious and ready to embrace the full spectrum of their experiences. I am a somatic facilitator, narrative therapist, and trauma informed yoga instructor.
Sex-positive and spiritually inclined, they appreciate a holistic approach to healing.
I have experience in healing libido and am trained to work with couples, ADHD, PTSD, erectile dysfunction, eating disorders, anxiety, self-esteem, and depression. My approach is tailored for those who are curious and ready to embrace the full spectrum of their experiences. I am a somatic facilitator, narrative therapist, and trauma informed yoga instructor.
Islai works from an anti-oppressive framework and offers sex-positive, kink-friendly, non-monogamous and polyamorous relationship counselling.
My lived experience has taught me the importance of chosen family, the strength and courage it takes to be your authentic self, the skills and self-awareness necessary to engage in ethical relationships, and the integral necessity of speaking your truth. Gender affirming care is an important focus of my practice.
Islai works from an anti-oppressive framework and offers sex-positive, kink-friendly, non-monogamous and polyamorous relationship counselling.
My lived experience has taught me the importance of chosen family, the strength and courage it takes to be your authentic self, the skills and self-awareness necessary to engage in ethical relationships, and the integral necessity of speaking your truth. Gender affirming care is an important focus of my practice.
It is rare to find a space to discuss sex, nevermind seeking support around sexual concerns.
I work closely with clients on topics ranging from sex work, sexual compulsions, desire discrepancy, sexual pain, fantasy/kink/fetish, sex/porn "addiction", pedophilia/paraphilias, life transitions, childhood trauma, sexual/religious/medical trauma, panic/anxiety.
It is rare to find a space to discuss sex, nevermind seeking support around sexual concerns.
I work closely with clients on topics ranging from sex work, sexual compulsions, desire discrepancy, sexual pain, fantasy/kink/fetish, sex/porn "addiction", pedophilia/paraphilias, life transitions, childhood trauma, sexual/religious/medical trauma, panic/anxiety.
Maybe you overthink everything, struggle to relax during sex, or feel distant from your partner.
As a fellow gay man, I help others work through anxiety, intimacy challenges, and relationship struggles with compassion. Whether you're battling overthinking, emotional distance, or disconnection, I support individuals and relationships in untangling patterns, improving communication, and building a stronger connection—within themselves and with each other.
Maybe you overthink everything, struggle to relax during sex, or feel distant from your partner.
As a fellow gay man, I help others work through anxiety, intimacy challenges, and relationship struggles with compassion. Whether you're battling overthinking, emotional distance, or disconnection, I support individuals and relationships in untangling patterns, improving communication, and building a stronger connection—within themselves and with each other.
As a self-proclaimed sex and relationships nerd, I offer a safe container and a wealth of knowledge to help you find solutions and peace of mind.
As a counsellor, folks come to me frustrated and defeated about patterns they or the people in their lives repeat. I’m here to work with you to break those patterns, and see what amazing things are possible! In particular, I am passionate about relationships. Sometimes it feels like we just can’t get past deep wounds in partnership, or in life. I help folks find creative solutions, and facilitate deep listening so we can all feel closer and more connected again. I conduct my practice in a way that is kink-affirming and poly-competent, and love supporting folks of diverse gender identities and relationship structures/orientations.
As a self-proclaimed sex and relationships nerd, I offer a safe container and a wealth of knowledge to help you find solutions and peace of mind.
As a counsellor, folks come to me frustrated and defeated about patterns they or the people in their lives repeat. I’m here to work with you to break those patterns, and see what amazing things are possible! In particular, I am passionate about relationships. Sometimes it feels like we just can’t get past deep wounds in partnership, or in life. I help folks find creative solutions, and facilitate deep listening so we can all feel closer and more connected again. I conduct my practice in a way that is kink-affirming and poly-competent, and love supporting folks of diverse gender identities and relationship structures/orientations.
I help individuals and couples of all genders and lifestyles to gain insight, clarity and confidence in their relationship and sexuality so they can have healthy and happy relationships.
Are you facing relationship issues or feeling uncomfortable with intimacy? I'll hold a safe space to help you resolve issues, heal from past hurts, move out of old patterns, and develop healthy, happy relationships. We will work together to help you toward the life you want.
I help individuals and couples of all genders and lifestyles to gain insight, clarity and confidence in their relationship and sexuality so they can have healthy and happy relationships.
Are you facing relationship issues or feeling uncomfortable with intimacy? I'll hold a safe space to help you resolve issues, heal from past hurts, move out of old patterns, and develop healthy, happy relationships. We will work together to help you toward the life you want.
If you’re unhappy with your life; unsure where you’re headed; struggling to make decisions; wondering who you are; impacted by family of origin issues; struggling with self-esteem; dealing with stress; dealing with infidelity; or worried about sexuality/intimacy, I can help.
My approach is a blend of self-compassion, attachment theory, CBT, existentialism, person-centred, strengths-based and solution-focused modalities. I am also trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy and Emotionally-Focused Couples Therapy. I can help you turn your challenges into strengths.
All gender and sexual orientations welcome.
If you’re unhappy with your life; unsure where you’re headed; struggling to make decisions; wondering who you are; impacted by family of origin issues; struggling with self-esteem; dealing with stress; dealing with infidelity; or worried about sexuality/intimacy, I can help.
My approach is a blend of self-compassion, attachment theory, CBT, existentialism, person-centred, strengths-based and solution-focused modalities. I am also trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy and Emotionally-Focused Couples Therapy. I can help you turn your challenges into strengths.
All gender and sexual orientations welcome.
In the past, I have worked directly with individuals experiencing a range of diverse issues, including anxiety, depression, trauma and sexuality-based issues.
My training and experience allows me to support you in exploring sexuality, intimacy, and identity. Issues that we can work through together, include: sexual anxiety, shame and guilt, desire, sexual compulsivity, loneliness, infidelity, pain, and dating challenges. My approach is open, non-judgemental, and I support clients of all genders and identities.
In the past, I have worked directly with individuals experiencing a range of diverse issues, including anxiety, depression, trauma and sexuality-based issues.
My training and experience allows me to support you in exploring sexuality, intimacy, and identity. Issues that we can work through together, include: sexual anxiety, shame and guilt, desire, sexual compulsivity, loneliness, infidelity, pain, and dating challenges. My approach is open, non-judgemental, and I support clients of all genders and identities.
I am trained in EMDR Therapy, Sex Therapy and Emotionally Focused Therapy.
In the journey of life, we all encounter crossroads that can be challenging to navigate alone. I want to warmly invite you to embark on a path of self-discovery, healing, and growth together. I aim to provide you with a safe and nurturing space, free from judgment, where your thoughts and feelings can unfold without reservation. Whether you're facing the storms of stress, seeking clarity in life's complexities, or simply craving a compassionate ear, I am here to support you.
I am trained in EMDR Therapy, Sex Therapy and Emotionally Focused Therapy.
In the journey of life, we all encounter crossroads that can be challenging to navigate alone. I want to warmly invite you to embark on a path of self-discovery, healing, and growth together. I aim to provide you with a safe and nurturing space, free from judgment, where your thoughts and feelings can unfold without reservation. Whether you're facing the storms of stress, seeking clarity in life's complexities, or simply craving a compassionate ear, I am here to support you.
Maybe you're struggling with anxiety, desire, feeling disconnected from your partner, sex addiction, sex abuse in your past or navigating painful sex.
I help you untangle the messy stuff—desire mismatches, shame around sex, painful patterns in love or intimacy—and get to the heart of what you truly want. Using tools like EMDR, IFS, and the Gottman Method, I offer a warm, honest space where it’s safe to feel, explore, laugh, cry, and grow. No pressure, no judgment—just real talk and deep healing.
Maybe you're struggling with anxiety, desire, feeling disconnected from your partner, sex addiction, sex abuse in your past or navigating painful sex.
I help you untangle the messy stuff—desire mismatches, shame around sex, painful patterns in love or intimacy—and get to the heart of what you truly want. Using tools like EMDR, IFS, and the Gottman Method, I offer a warm, honest space where it’s safe to feel, explore, laugh, cry, and grow. No pressure, no judgment—just real talk and deep healing.
My work is focused on couples conflict, relational trauma, and sexuality concerns.
I am committed to understanding the art and science of couple therapy. I am an AASECT certified sex therapist and have Level 3 training in the Gottman method, and specialized certification in EMDR for couples. I teach graduate courses in couples and sex therapy. My goal is to translate my own learning into real help for couples with relationship concerns.
My work is focused on couples conflict, relational trauma, and sexuality concerns.
I am committed to understanding the art and science of couple therapy. I am an AASECT certified sex therapist and have Level 3 training in the Gottman method, and specialized certification in EMDR for couples. I teach graduate courses in couples and sex therapy. My goal is to translate my own learning into real help for couples with relationship concerns.
I'm a registered clinical counsellor and certified sexologist focusing on sex therapy, couples therapy, and trauma.
I support clients with low sexual desire, painful sex, kink and fetishes, gender exploration, neurodivergent sexuality, compulsive sexual behaviors, erectile issues, non-monogamy, anxiety, trauma, and more. I also support couples through communication and conflict, infidelity, and intimacy concerns.
I'm a registered clinical counsellor and certified sexologist focusing on sex therapy, couples therapy, and trauma.
I support clients with low sexual desire, painful sex, kink and fetishes, gender exploration, neurodivergent sexuality, compulsive sexual behaviors, erectile issues, non-monogamy, anxiety, trauma, and more. I also support couples through communication and conflict, infidelity, and intimacy concerns.
I provide support with issues like sexuality, infidelity recovery, and relationship dynamics.
You are a deep thinker, a seeker of truth, and you yearn for a life filled with meaning and authenticity. Whether you're exploring your sexual identity, navigating complex relationships, or seeking to understand your emotional patterns, you’ve likely felt the tension between your desires and the limitations placed on you by unconscious drives or societal expectations. You’re ready to break free from these constraints and live your fullest, most liberated life.
I provide support with issues like sexuality, infidelity recovery, and relationship dynamics.
You are a deep thinker, a seeker of truth, and you yearn for a life filled with meaning and authenticity. Whether you're exploring your sexual identity, navigating complex relationships, or seeking to understand your emotional patterns, you’ve likely felt the tension between your desires and the limitations placed on you by unconscious drives or societal expectations. You’re ready to break free from these constraints and live your fullest, most liberated life.
It could be that you seem to have the same argument over and over again, your sex life has fizzled out, infidelity, general life changes that have impacted your ability to connect.
Working together will include both experiential and dialogic tools to deepen your embodiment, skills, selfawareness and capacity to attract, move towards and to be in more fulfilling relationships- With the added bonus of a hotter sex life and richer connection! When these principles are alive and well inside of us, our relationships can grow and strengthen.
It could be that you seem to have the same argument over and over again, your sex life has fizzled out, infidelity, general life changes that have impacted your ability to connect.
Working together will include both experiential and dialogic tools to deepen your embodiment, skills, selfawareness and capacity to attract, move towards and to be in more fulfilling relationships- With the added bonus of a hotter sex life and richer connection! When these principles are alive and well inside of us, our relationships can grow and strengthen.
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Sex Therapy Counsellors
Who is sex therapy for?
Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.
Why do people need sex therapy?
Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.
What happens in sex therapy?
People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.
What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?
Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.