Sexual Abuse Counselling in Calamvale, QLD

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Liz Saolotoga
Counsellor, ACA-L3
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Upper Mount Gravatt, QLD 4122  (Online Only)
Other areas I counsel in are; survivors of sexual abuse, women suffering with endometriosis, anger, complex trauma, anxieties, depression, grief and loss, family and cultural expectations' and obligations, school concerns (bullying, career guidance) suicidal ideation & self-harming behavior's, infertility and IVF pathway.
My counselling approach is to find the critic voices within and bring them to the fore. Whether your dealing with anxiety, anger, depression, an addiction to pornography, infidelity or you just need a bit of guidance to find you again, we can work through those together. Life loves to throw a million curve balls and sometimes we don't have the capacity or tools to handle them. Or sometimes we think we are doing the right thing and handle it the best way we know how but then we make it worse. It becomes exhausting. I get it, have been there more than a few times myself. I invite you to Book an appointment today via my website link.
Other areas I counsel in are; survivors of sexual abuse, women suffering with endometriosis, anger, complex trauma, anxieties, depression, grief and loss, family and cultural expectations' and obligations, school concerns (bullying, career guidance) suicidal ideation & self-harming behavior's, infertility and IVF pathway.
My counselling approach is to find the critic voices within and bring them to the fore. Whether your dealing with anxiety, anger, depression, an addiction to pornography, infidelity or you just need a bit of guidance to find you again, we can work through those together. Life loves to throw a million curve balls and sometimes we don't have the capacity or tools to handle them. Or sometimes we think we are doing the right thing and handle it the best way we know how but then we make it worse. It becomes exhausting. I get it, have been there more than a few times myself. I invite you to Book an appointment today via my website link.
(07) 3477 9344 View (07) 3477 9344
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David Stracey
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, AMHSW
Verified Verified
South Brisbane, QLD 4101
I provide counselling and treatment to children, young people, adults and families who have been impacted by a variety of different issues. I assist those experiencing mental health challenges such as depression, anxiety, self harm and suicide thoughts. I also specialise in responding to harmful sexual behaviours, sexual abuse and treatment of criminal behaviours. I build connections through empathy, fairness, and best practice approaches.
I provide counselling and treatment to children, young people, adults and families who have been impacted by a variety of different issues. I assist those experiencing mental health challenges such as depression, anxiety, self harm and suicide thoughts. I also specialise in responding to harmful sexual behaviours, sexual abuse and treatment of criminal behaviours. I build connections through empathy, fairness, and best practice approaches.
(07) 2100 4037 View (07) 2100 4037
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Sussy Hollaway
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, AMHSW
Verified Verified
Morningside, QLD 4170
I am a trauma informed accredited mental health senior social worker providing counselling and advocacy services to children, adolescents, adults, and their families. I have experience working with people on the whole continuum of mental health concerns. I support people who have experienced trauma, sexual assault, drugs and alcohol, life transitions, suicidal thoughts and behaviour, and family and relationship issues, including domestic and family violence concerns and adjusting to parenthood.
I am a trauma informed accredited mental health senior social worker providing counselling and advocacy services to children, adolescents, adults, and their families. I have experience working with people on the whole continuum of mental health concerns. I support people who have experienced trauma, sexual assault, drugs and alcohol, life transitions, suicidal thoughts and behaviour, and family and relationship issues, including domestic and family violence concerns and adjusting to parenthood.
(07) 3113 9981 View (07) 3113 9981
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Veronica Woolcott
Counsellor, PACFA
Verified Verified
Carindale, QLD 4152
I am an NDIS and PACFA registered counsellor, specializing in counselling and therapy for children (up to 12 years old) who have experienced sexual abuse, displaying sexualized behaviours or have been exposed to such.
My practice at Silverthorn provides a safe and calm therapeutic space, where privacy and comfort are paramount. I offer each of my clients an individualised plan of consultation and evidence-based therapies designed to support their journey toward healing, recovery and a renewed sense of control. I believe in the value of authentic truth and honesty, where the core feelings of anxiety and fear – so typically related to trauma and distress – can be tended to and moderated, allowing for the steady restoration of trust and confidence.
I am an NDIS and PACFA registered counsellor, specializing in counselling and therapy for children (up to 12 years old) who have experienced sexual abuse, displaying sexualized behaviours or have been exposed to such.
My practice at Silverthorn provides a safe and calm therapeutic space, where privacy and comfort are paramount. I offer each of my clients an individualised plan of consultation and evidence-based therapies designed to support their journey toward healing, recovery and a renewed sense of control. I believe in the value of authentic truth and honesty, where the core feelings of anxiety and fear – so typically related to trauma and distress – can be tended to and moderated, allowing for the steady restoration of trust and confidence.
(07) 2100 4801 View (07) 2100 4801
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Dianne Margaret Gibson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, AMHSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Woolloongabba, QLD 4102
Di’s specialised areas of Counselling are: Anxiety and Phobias, Depression, Sleep Hygiene, Trauma, PTSD, Grief and Loss, Relationship issues (individuals and couples) Work and Career, Domestic Violence, Sexual abuse.
She is passionate about the links between our mental health and wellbeing and physical health and self-care. She supports older teen and adult clients of all ages, cultures, gender and sexual orientation and socio-economic backgrounds. She utilises Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to assist clients to become more present in their daily lives and to explore ways of increasing their capacity to experience a rich and meaningful life.
Di’s specialised areas of Counselling are: Anxiety and Phobias, Depression, Sleep Hygiene, Trauma, PTSD, Grief and Loss, Relationship issues (individuals and couples) Work and Career, Domestic Violence, Sexual abuse.
She is passionate about the links between our mental health and wellbeing and physical health and self-care. She supports older teen and adult clients of all ages, cultures, gender and sexual orientation and socio-economic backgrounds. She utilises Acceptance and Commitment Therapy to assist clients to become more present in their daily lives and to explore ways of increasing their capacity to experience a rich and meaningful life.
(07) 2100 4217 View (07) 2100 4217
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Charmaine Dunn Counselling & Trauma Therapy
Counsellor, PACFA
Verified Verified
Daisy Hill, QLD 4127
I specialise in working with anxiety, depression, trauma, PTSD and complex PTSD including childhood trauma and sexual abuse trauma.
Hi! I am Charmaine, thanks for stopping by. Are you feeling stuck? Can’t move forward? Either living in the past, hating the present or wishing for a different future? Life is tough, and sometimes we all need a little help, but finding the right person to support you is essential. For the last 10 years, I have been working with individuals to clear the patterns of the past, helping them get unstuck and move forward into the future. I work with both conscious (talk therapies) and sub-conscious (experiential therapies) to find resolution, finding the unique therapy that best suits you and your circumstances.
I specialise in working with anxiety, depression, trauma, PTSD and complex PTSD including childhood trauma and sexual abuse trauma.
Hi! I am Charmaine, thanks for stopping by. Are you feeling stuck? Can’t move forward? Either living in the past, hating the present or wishing for a different future? Life is tough, and sometimes we all need a little help, but finding the right person to support you is essential. For the last 10 years, I have been working with individuals to clear the patterns of the past, helping them get unstuck and move forward into the future. I work with both conscious (talk therapies) and sub-conscious (experiential therapies) to find resolution, finding the unique therapy that best suits you and your circumstances.
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Satori Counselling Services
Counsellor, AASW
Verified Verified
Greenslopes, QLD 4120
As a Social Worker and member of the AASW, I firmly believe that within every individual resides an incredible story of strength and resilience waiting to unfold and shine. I provide genuine empathy in my practice as we journey toward transformation and growth. My experience working with women who have endured traumatic events from sexual abuse and violence has granted me invaluable insight into the profound dynamics of human resilience and vulnerability. Before specialising in trauma care, I worked in the community services sector, supporting individuals and families from migrant and refugee backgrounds.
As a Social Worker and member of the AASW, I firmly believe that within every individual resides an incredible story of strength and resilience waiting to unfold and shine. I provide genuine empathy in my practice as we journey toward transformation and growth. My experience working with women who have endured traumatic events from sexual abuse and violence has granted me invaluable insight into the profound dynamics of human resilience and vulnerability. Before specialising in trauma care, I worked in the community services sector, supporting individuals and families from migrant and refugee backgrounds.
(07) 2100 4137 View (07) 2100 4137
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Cynthia Dunn
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Springwood, QLD 4127
Cynthia is offering F2F sessions at 13 Vanessa Boulevard, Springwood on Fri-Sat. Telehealth sessions are available Wed-Thur with reduced fee options & Online EMDR. I am passionate about working with men, women & youth who have experienced adverse events and uncovering their path to recovery. For those who may be experiencing depression, anxiety, addictions, sexual abuse, dissociative disorders, PTSD, anger, or gambling problems and want change, Artemis can help. Presentence Court reports are also available. Please visit website for resources & book online www.artemispsychologyservices.com or email. "When I let go of what I am I be"
Cynthia is offering F2F sessions at 13 Vanessa Boulevard, Springwood on Fri-Sat. Telehealth sessions are available Wed-Thur with reduced fee options & Online EMDR. I am passionate about working with men, women & youth who have experienced adverse events and uncovering their path to recovery. For those who may be experiencing depression, anxiety, addictions, sexual abuse, dissociative disorders, PTSD, anger, or gambling problems and want change, Artemis can help. Presentence Court reports are also available. Please visit website for resources & book online www.artemispsychologyservices.com or email. "When I let go of what I am I be"
(07) 2100 4051 View (07) 2100 4051
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Bluest Skies Counselling + Animal Assisted Therapy
Counsellor, PACFA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Springfield Lakes, QLD 4300
Bluest Skies Counselling is private practice counselling service for children, families and individuals impacted by Trauma. I also provide Animal Assisted Therapy with my Golden Retriever, Pirate. Please note, I am a Psychotherapist, not a Psychologist and am unable to see clients under a Mental Health Care Plan/Medicare funded scheme.
Bluest Skies Counselling is private practice counselling service for children, families and individuals impacted by Trauma. I also provide Animal Assisted Therapy with my Golden Retriever, Pirate. Please note, I am a Psychotherapist, not a Psychologist and am unable to see clients under a Mental Health Care Plan/Medicare funded scheme.
(07) 3184 8464 View (07) 3184 8464
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Adriana Cope Counselling & Consulting
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, AMHSW
Verified Verified
South Brisbane, QLD 4101
Hi I'm Adri, I have 25 years expertise in trauma recovery and mental health. Generally, the coping strategies that we lean into serve us in the short term, but over time they stop working for us. I can hold a safe therapeutic space for you in which we can make sense of your world, you can identify behaviours that are no longer serving you, and you can develop healthy, practical and effective coping strategies. As a relational therapist I seek to improve your relationship to self, others and the world; and will tailor my approach to your specific needs.
Hi I'm Adri, I have 25 years expertise in trauma recovery and mental health. Generally, the coping strategies that we lean into serve us in the short term, but over time they stop working for us. I can hold a safe therapeutic space for you in which we can make sense of your world, you can identify behaviours that are no longer serving you, and you can develop healthy, practical and effective coping strategies. As a relational therapist I seek to improve your relationship to self, others and the world; and will tailor my approach to your specific needs.
(07) 3113 9214 View (07) 3113 9214
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Amy Della-Torre
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Verified Verified
West End, QLD 4101
Hello! My name is Amy, nice to meet you :) I am a Gestalt Psychotherapist and my priority when working together is making sure our relationship is based in trust and supporting you to feel heard and understood. In my practice, I emphasize the importance of reclaiming bodily awareness and exploring personal meaning making as a path towards healing and empowerment. By developing a deeper understanding of how our stories have been shaped by our contexts, we can begin to unravel and challenge old patterns of engagement with the environment, and experiment with new ways of being.
Hello! My name is Amy, nice to meet you :) I am a Gestalt Psychotherapist and my priority when working together is making sure our relationship is based in trust and supporting you to feel heard and understood. In my practice, I emphasize the importance of reclaiming bodily awareness and exploring personal meaning making as a path towards healing and empowerment. By developing a deeper understanding of how our stories have been shaped by our contexts, we can begin to unravel and challenge old patterns of engagement with the environment, and experiment with new ways of being.
(07) 2100 4671 View (07) 2100 4671
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mariecarmodypsychology
Psychologist, MPsych, MAPS
Verified Verified
West End, QLD 4101
Marie is a registered clinical psychologist and relational psychotherapist who works with adults across a range of clinical and non-clinical health issues. Marie works as an integrative psychotherapist and draws upon a teaching and coaching (Jungian & solutions-focused therapies) background that enhances the wide range of treatment options she provides. Whether you have challenges at work, in your relationships, or with your own self-image, together, Marie will help you discover a new way for you to experience the world; and find a more comfortable way to living in your skin.
Marie is a registered clinical psychologist and relational psychotherapist who works with adults across a range of clinical and non-clinical health issues. Marie works as an integrative psychotherapist and draws upon a teaching and coaching (Jungian & solutions-focused therapies) background that enhances the wide range of treatment options she provides. Whether you have challenges at work, in your relationships, or with your own self-image, together, Marie will help you discover a new way for you to experience the world; and find a more comfortable way to living in your skin.
(07) 3184 4986 View (07) 3184 4986
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Linda van Leeuwen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, AMHSW
Verified Verified
Carindale, QLD 4152  (Online Only)
You don't always have to see a psychologist for your mental health. As an EMDR Therapist and Accredited Mental Health Social Worker my therapy can be funded by Medicare, NDIS, Victim Assist, Workcover QLD, National Redress Scheme etc. My areas of expertise are depression, anxiety, trauma ( (C)PTSD), acute and chronic stress, grief and loss, infertility, Neurodivergence (ASD, ADHD), emotion regulation problems and parenting issues. I work with all adults on these difficulties regardless of age, gender and cultural background. I also provide support for people who have a diagnosis of Psychosis, Bipolar Disorder, BPD, addictions etc.
You don't always have to see a psychologist for your mental health. As an EMDR Therapist and Accredited Mental Health Social Worker my therapy can be funded by Medicare, NDIS, Victim Assist, Workcover QLD, National Redress Scheme etc. My areas of expertise are depression, anxiety, trauma ( (C)PTSD), acute and chronic stress, grief and loss, infertility, Neurodivergence (ASD, ADHD), emotion regulation problems and parenting issues. I work with all adults on these difficulties regardless of age, gender and cultural background. I also provide support for people who have a diagnosis of Psychosis, Bipolar Disorder, BPD, addictions etc.
(07) 3186 8503 View (07) 3186 8503
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Anchoring Your Life Counselling
Counsellor, ACA-L2
Verified Verified
Capalaba, QLD 4157
Do you yearn to reconnect with your partner or re-engage with life fully but feel stuck in a cycle of relationship difficulties, affairs, betrayal, anxiety, illness, or other life challenges? You are not alone. These challenges can be overwhelming, but there is hope. Healing, growth, and practical tools can help you achieve your goals and break free from this cycle. As an experienced counsellor, I offer compassionate support tailored to your unique needs. We will work together to transform your struggles, enabling you to move toward a more fulfilling life. I can support you in the Redlands in person or online Australia-wide.
Do you yearn to reconnect with your partner or re-engage with life fully but feel stuck in a cycle of relationship difficulties, affairs, betrayal, anxiety, illness, or other life challenges? You are not alone. These challenges can be overwhelming, but there is hope. Healing, growth, and practical tools can help you achieve your goals and break free from this cycle. As an experienced counsellor, I offer compassionate support tailored to your unique needs. We will work together to transform your struggles, enabling you to move toward a more fulfilling life. I can support you in the Redlands in person or online Australia-wide.
(07) 3184 4739 View (07) 3184 4739
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Veronica Hellier
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA - Clin. Psych
Verified Verified
Sumner, QLD 4074
I enjoy working with individuals who want to understand how unconscious processes and patterns are manifested in their present-day behaviour. I work with individuals who have past trauma that they would like to heal from; individuals who wish to be able to form nourishing and reciprocal relationships; individuals wanting to understand and accept all parts of themselves; and individuals who want to understand and process their childhood experiences to be able to approach parenting their own children differently.
I enjoy working with individuals who want to understand how unconscious processes and patterns are manifested in their present-day behaviour. I work with individuals who have past trauma that they would like to heal from; individuals who wish to be able to form nourishing and reciprocal relationships; individuals wanting to understand and accept all parts of themselves; and individuals who want to understand and process their childhood experiences to be able to approach parenting their own children differently.
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Sophia Ford
Psychologist, MA, PsyBA - Clin. Psych
Verified Verified
Graceville, QLD 4075
Sophia Ford is a Clinical Psychologist in Paddington, Brisbane. She offers individual therapy to clients aged 12 years and up, working particularly well with adolescents and young adults. Sophia assists people across a broad range of concerns (such as anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, self-esteem, and relationship concerns), and frequently works in the treatment for eating disorders. Sophia has a naturally warm and gentle therapeutic style, with a passion for supporting people to discover insights, find solutions, make decisions, and develop new behaviours to help equip and empower them to make positive changes in their lives.
Sophia Ford is a Clinical Psychologist in Paddington, Brisbane. She offers individual therapy to clients aged 12 years and up, working particularly well with adolescents and young adults. Sophia assists people across a broad range of concerns (such as anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, self-esteem, and relationship concerns), and frequently works in the treatment for eating disorders. Sophia has a naturally warm and gentle therapeutic style, with a passion for supporting people to discover insights, find solutions, make decisions, and develop new behaviours to help equip and empower them to make positive changes in their lives.
(07) 3113 9280 View (07) 3113 9280
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Tracy Bergel
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Fairfield, QLD 4103
Trauma & Stress disconnects us from ourselves and from life, inhibiting us from moving forward and making the most of everyday events and activities. When our body feels uneasy, it gives us messages. The purpose of these messages is to let us know that something inside doesn't feel right and needs our attention. If these messages go unanswered, over time they evolve into symptoms; anxiety, depression, panic, attacks, digestive issues, pain, burn out, sleep disturbances just to name a few.
Trauma & Stress disconnects us from ourselves and from life, inhibiting us from moving forward and making the most of everyday events and activities. When our body feels uneasy, it gives us messages. The purpose of these messages is to let us know that something inside doesn't feel right and needs our attention. If these messages go unanswered, over time they evolve into symptoms; anxiety, depression, panic, attacks, digestive issues, pain, burn out, sleep disturbances just to name a few.
(07) 4243 4757 View (07) 4243 4757
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Michelle Galati Psychology
Psychologist, Australian Association of Psychologists - Member
Verified Verified
Greenslopes, QLD 4120
Michelle Galati is a registered psychologist who is passionate about working with individuals to improve the quality of their lives. She approaches therapy in a collaborative manner to address important issues that allow clients to reach their full potential and to create a rich, full, and meaningful life. She works with Adults (18+) in a non judgmental and relaxed environment. Therapy goals are to aid in developing new skills to help people struggling to get 'unstuck' and move forwards in life how they wish too. Please check the website for comprehensive details so that you are informed about services that Michelle can offer you.
Michelle Galati is a registered psychologist who is passionate about working with individuals to improve the quality of their lives. She approaches therapy in a collaborative manner to address important issues that allow clients to reach their full potential and to create a rich, full, and meaningful life. She works with Adults (18+) in a non judgmental and relaxed environment. Therapy goals are to aid in developing new skills to help people struggling to get 'unstuck' and move forwards in life how they wish too. Please check the website for comprehensive details so that you are informed about services that Michelle can offer you.
(07) 4863 4459 View (07) 4863 4459
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Zest Infusion Pty Ltd
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Capalaba, QLD 4157
At Zest Infusion Pty Ltd it is our goal to enhance your vitality for life by offering psychology and dietetics services which are grounded in a mindful approach to living. We offer a comprehensive array of individual, group therapy, and personal well-being programs, mindfulness meditation groups and zest products to enhance vitality.
At Zest Infusion Pty Ltd it is our goal to enhance your vitality for life by offering psychology and dietetics services which are grounded in a mindful approach to living. We offer a comprehensive array of individual, group therapy, and personal well-being programs, mindfulness meditation groups and zest products to enhance vitality.
(07) 3186 9431 View (07) 3186 9431
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Kali Lohman
Psychologist, MAPS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Woolloongabba, QLD 4102
Many of us come to a time in our lives when we know we want things to be different. We may be tired of suffering and struggling, but need support to move forwards. I enjoy working with adults and older adolescents to help you identify your strengths, learn healthy coping strategies, heal from past and present difficulties, and live a life that feels rich, meaningful and happy. I also have a strong interest in cultivating and teaching mindfulness, which I see as a profound way to enhance psychological resilience and feelings of happiness and contentment for a broad range of people – including myself!
Many of us come to a time in our lives when we know we want things to be different. We may be tired of suffering and struggling, but need support to move forwards. I enjoy working with adults and older adolescents to help you identify your strengths, learn healthy coping strategies, heal from past and present difficulties, and live a life that feels rich, meaningful and happy. I also have a strong interest in cultivating and teaching mindfulness, which I see as a profound way to enhance psychological resilience and feelings of happiness and contentment for a broad range of people – including myself!
(07) 3184 4367 View (07) 3184 4367

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Sexual Abuse Counsellors

How do therapists treat sexual abuse?

A good therapist will be nonjudgmental and possibly demonstrate active listening, repeating back what the client says to show that they have understood. These skills allow people to feel comfortable discussing their traumatic experiences openly. Some important treatment goals are to restore a sense of safety and to rebuild confidence. In addition to working one-on-one with the patient, a therapist might bring in supportive family members to assist the client.

Do you have to talk extensively about sexual abuse in therapy?

Survivors frequently find it difficult to describe what happened to them out loud. They can even still be in a state of denial if the sexual abuse occurred recently. It is important for survivors to acknowledge that what happened isn’t their fault and to challenge and reappraise any unhealthy feelings or thoughts as they arise. Art therapy and play therapy are useful non-verbal means of communication for some survivors.

How long does treatment for sexual abuse take?

Recovery from sexual abuse can be a long and difficult process. Some survivors are able to move on naturally on their own, given time, while others require the guidance of a trained therapist. Therapy needs vary and can range from a few sessions to months or even years. Healing from sexual abuse takes time, and everyone’s journey will look a little different.

Can trauma symptoms caused by sexual abuse come back after treatment?

As occurs in many cases of trauma, survivors of sexual abuse may experience PTSD-like symptoms long after the abuse has ceased or after an initial round of treatment has occurred. In such a case, there is evidence that prolonged exposure therapy is a useful treatment for survivors, and may be more efficacious than supportive counseling alone. While triggers may continue to cause distress, the idea is that, with time and repeated exposure, their power will fade, allowing survivors to move on with their lives.