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Jen Belz
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Boerne, TX 78006
I connect personally & practically with each client to collaboratively address clinical difficulties including depression, anxiety, trauma/PTSD, Grief, Interpersonal relationship skills (professional, parenting, marriage) & personality disorders.
Touching Lives, Inspiring Life (sm). I am an experienced Christian counselor with specialized skills for youth, individuals, couples, & families. I am passionate to bring healing hope to those hurting & hopeless. I have collaborated to expand into a Group Practice with 12 more vetted, seasoned Christian Counselors to provide quality services to Boerne, the Texas Hill Country, and the state of Texas. We offer quality Christian Counseling in our beautiful office and through Telehealth.
I connect personally & practically with each client to collaboratively address clinical difficulties including depression, anxiety, trauma/PTSD, Grief, Interpersonal relationship skills (professional, parenting, marriage) & personality disorders.
Touching Lives, Inspiring Life (sm). I am an experienced Christian counselor with specialized skills for youth, individuals, couples, & families. I am passionate to bring healing hope to those hurting & hopeless. I have collaborated to expand into a Group Practice with 12 more vetted, seasoned Christian Counselors to provide quality services to Boerne, the Texas Hill Country, and the state of Texas. We offer quality Christian Counseling in our beautiful office and through Telehealth.
(830) 532-5660 View (830) 532-5660
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Patricia K Ptak
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, EMDR
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Boerne, TX 78006
Areas: narcissist abuse recovery, enhancing mood & quality of life, lifting depression, calming anxiety, restoring sleep, banishing self-defeating cycles, healing from break ups, adjusting to change, women's' issues enhancing relationships, family conflict, loss & grief, guilt, improving marital satisfaction, parenting effectiveness, thriving in your career.
EMDR Certified Therapist. Stop feeling worried, anxious or depressed. Do you struggle with feeling good about yourself or feeling unfulfilled in your relationships? Do you want to improve your motivation and achievements? Sounds like you need a change, and there is no better time than now. I have focused my work on helping the individual and family heal from a place of love and understanding. Pulling from multiple evidence based counseling techniques and foundations of counseling including CBT and EMDR, I blend authentic caring with here and now problem solving and skill building to handle the ebb and flow of life.
Areas: narcissist abuse recovery, enhancing mood & quality of life, lifting depression, calming anxiety, restoring sleep, banishing self-defeating cycles, healing from break ups, adjusting to change, women's' issues enhancing relationships, family conflict, loss & grief, guilt, improving marital satisfaction, parenting effectiveness, thriving in your career.
EMDR Certified Therapist. Stop feeling worried, anxious or depressed. Do you struggle with feeling good about yourself or feeling unfulfilled in your relationships? Do you want to improve your motivation and achievements? Sounds like you need a change, and there is no better time than now. I have focused my work on helping the individual and family heal from a place of love and understanding. Pulling from multiple evidence based counseling techniques and foundations of counseling including CBT and EMDR, I blend authentic caring with here and now problem solving and skill building to handle the ebb and flow of life.
(830) 428-1457 View (830) 428-1457
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Maile Giles
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MA, EMDR
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Boerne, TX 78006
I have been a practicing Marriage and Family Therapist for 15 years.
Let's collaborate and explore what your internal roadblocks are to feel fully alive! What do you want your experience of life to be? What is unconscious that is stopping you from understanding and connecting with yourself, others, life? We can work together to identify blocks and blindspots, gain new awareness and tools. I utilize different types of therapy depending on your needs. NARM- which combines attachment theory and a somatic approach, EMDR, Brainspotting, Emotionally Focused Couple's and Gottman for Couples,Mindfulness and Positive Psychology. I strongly believe in a mind-body approach and lots of psychoeducation.
I have been a practicing Marriage and Family Therapist for 15 years.
Let's collaborate and explore what your internal roadblocks are to feel fully alive! What do you want your experience of life to be? What is unconscious that is stopping you from understanding and connecting with yourself, others, life? We can work together to identify blocks and blindspots, gain new awareness and tools. I utilize different types of therapy depending on your needs. NARM- which combines attachment theory and a somatic approach, EMDR, Brainspotting, Emotionally Focused Couple's and Gottman for Couples,Mindfulness and Positive Psychology. I strongly believe in a mind-body approach and lots of psychoeducation.
(210) 585-2879 View (210) 585-2879
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Diane Fitch
Licensed Professional Counselor, EdD, LMFT, LPC, CART
Verified Verified
Boerne, TX 78006
I am trained in Marriage & Family Therapy, Brief Solution-focused Therapy, Family Mediation, Brain Change Therapy, Ericksonian hypnosis, Michele-Weiner Davis' "divorce-busting" Seminars--"Marriage Breakthrough" and "Keeping Love Alive." I am trained and certified as an Anger Resolution Therapist (CART). I also have vast experience working with step- families, individuals trying to survive a broken relationship, and couples in the process of divorce. I also have an associate LPC, Kim Vogel, who specializes in EMDR and child & adolescent therapy.
I am trained in Marriage & Family Therapy, Brief Solution-focused Therapy, Family Mediation, Brain Change Therapy, Ericksonian hypnosis, Michele-Weiner Davis' "divorce-busting" Seminars--"Marriage Breakthrough" and "Keeping Love Alive." I am trained and certified as an Anger Resolution Therapist (CART). I also have vast experience working with step- families, individuals trying to survive a broken relationship, and couples in the process of divorce. I also have an associate LPC, Kim Vogel, who specializes in EMDR and child & adolescent therapy.
(830) 433-8846 View (830) 433-8846
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Dana Shepard Cardwell
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LCDC, EMDR, Reiki
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Boerne, TX 78006
LPC, LCDC, AcuDetox/Acupuncture for Addictions, Life Coach, Marital Counseling for young couples (Gottman method).
Some people will throw rocks on your path, it depends on what you make with them, a wall or a bridge? Allow me to assist you in building a path to bliss and happiness. I can help you unlock your unique treasures whether you are a student, adult, or grandparent. I've worked with male/females from anxiety issues to suicidal ideations. I enjoy working with individuals of all walks of life who have had to face unique challenges. I, also, offer spiritual and life coaching retreats in Cozumel. I enjoy working with teens, women, young couples, military/law enforcement and LGBTQ individuals. Find my books on Amazon.
LPC, LCDC, AcuDetox/Acupuncture for Addictions, Life Coach, Marital Counseling for young couples (Gottman method).
Some people will throw rocks on your path, it depends on what you make with them, a wall or a bridge? Allow me to assist you in building a path to bliss and happiness. I can help you unlock your unique treasures whether you are a student, adult, or grandparent. I've worked with male/females from anxiety issues to suicidal ideations. I enjoy working with individuals of all walks of life who have had to face unique challenges. I, also, offer spiritual and life coaching retreats in Cozumel. I enjoy working with teens, women, young couples, military/law enforcement and LGBTQ individuals. Find my books on Amazon.
(830) 224-2702 View (830) 224-2702
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Angela Diehl
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Boerne, TX 78006
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 20 years of experience providing solution focused, brief therapy for those experiencing challenges-personal, professional or interpersonal-at any stage of their lives. Please contact me if you or a loved one are seeking solutions to these challenges.
I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist with over 20 years of experience providing solution focused, brief therapy for those experiencing challenges-personal, professional or interpersonal-at any stage of their lives. Please contact me if you or a loved one are seeking solutions to these challenges.
(210) 908-5844 View (210) 908-5844
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Michelle S. Saunders
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Boerne, TX 78006  (Online Only)
My objective is to offer mental health therapy through respect and understanding when you are ready to live your best life. Specialties include couples, adolescents, LBGTQ+, communication issues, depression, anxiety and "overthinking." I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in Texas. I offer telehealth and night appointments. Call for a FREE consultation.
My objective is to offer mental health therapy through respect and understanding when you are ready to live your best life. Specialties include couples, adolescents, LBGTQ+, communication issues, depression, anxiety and "overthinking." I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in Texas. I offer telehealth and night appointments. Call for a FREE consultation.
(210) 864-7772 View (210) 864-7772
Cynthia K Swope
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, LMFT, BCN
Verified Verified
Boerne, TX 78006
As a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist I work with individuals, couples, and families. Integrating advances in applied neuroscience, I provide Neurofeedback as an alternative, and drug-free treatment for ADD/ADHD, anxiety, depression, trauma, traumatic brain injury, migraines, sports and academic performance, and a wide variety of other issues. I offer Neurofeedback in the course of therapy, or as a stand alone treatment. I am also certified in ART (Accelerated Resolution Therapy), a trauma resolution therapy. My therapeutic approaches are individually designed to assist clients in reaching their specific goals.
As a licensed Marriage & Family Therapist I work with individuals, couples, and families. Integrating advances in applied neuroscience, I provide Neurofeedback as an alternative, and drug-free treatment for ADD/ADHD, anxiety, depression, trauma, traumatic brain injury, migraines, sports and academic performance, and a wide variety of other issues. I offer Neurofeedback in the course of therapy, or as a stand alone treatment. I am also certified in ART (Accelerated Resolution Therapy), a trauma resolution therapy. My therapeutic approaches are individually designed to assist clients in reaching their specific goals.
(830) 368-0506 View (830) 368-0506
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Tracey D Bauer
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Boerne, TX 78006
Treatment specialization includes: - Marriage & Relationship Issues - Pre-marital Counseling - Marriage & Relationship Enhancement - Infidelity - Self-Esteem & Personal Growth - Work and Career Issues - Stress Management - Adjustment Issues - Life Changes/Challenges.
I am a couples and relationship specialist with over 14 years of experience. I help couples learn to improve their friendship, connection & intimacy, communicate and manage conflict, build trust and commitment, and learn to live a "Healthy Relationship Lifestyle." Using the scientifically validated approaches of Gottman Method Couples Therapy and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, I help couples to improve their interactions and connections starting with the very first session. I look forward to beginning your journey!
Treatment specialization includes: - Marriage & Relationship Issues - Pre-marital Counseling - Marriage & Relationship Enhancement - Infidelity - Self-Esteem & Personal Growth - Work and Career Issues - Stress Management - Adjustment Issues - Life Changes/Challenges.
I am a couples and relationship specialist with over 14 years of experience. I help couples learn to improve their friendship, connection & intimacy, communicate and manage conflict, build trust and commitment, and learn to live a "Healthy Relationship Lifestyle." Using the scientifically validated approaches of Gottman Method Couples Therapy and Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy, I help couples to improve their interactions and connections starting with the very first session. I look forward to beginning your journey!
(210) 881-7631 View (210) 881-7631
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Dinah Dziolek
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC-S, BC-TMH, CCTP
Verified Verified
Boerne, TX 78006
Hello! I am a therapist, military spouse (recently retired) and Mom of 2. I have a passion for serving families who serve and sacrifice for our nation! For many years I lived the active duty military lifestyle. I know first-hand the pain of infertility as a military spouse and navigated fertility treatments in Military Training Facilities. I have lived through deployments and unaccompanied remote assignments as a young mom while managing home, kids, career and community service to fellow military spouses and families. I know the pain of being away from extended family, frequent moves and all the adventures of service life!
Hello! I am a therapist, military spouse (recently retired) and Mom of 2. I have a passion for serving families who serve and sacrifice for our nation! For many years I lived the active duty military lifestyle. I know first-hand the pain of infertility as a military spouse and navigated fertility treatments in Military Training Facilities. I have lived through deployments and unaccompanied remote assignments as a young mom while managing home, kids, career and community service to fellow military spouses and families. I know the pain of being away from extended family, frequent moves and all the adventures of service life!
(844) 785-0055 View (844) 785-0055
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Evelyn Ramos
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC, PLLC
Verified Verified
Boerne, TX 78006  (Online Only)
Healing is a process. Whether you are working through the loss of a loved one, a major shift in your life, learning to live with a medical diagnosis, experiencing depressed mood, anxiety, or need guidance with making healthier choices to improve your sense of self, I can walk this path with you and help you reach your healthy mental and emotional goals. I have over ten years experience in working with children, adolescents, and adults. I have worked in the school, private, juvenile, and hospital settings using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and have incorporated Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing Therapy since 2020.
Healing is a process. Whether you are working through the loss of a loved one, a major shift in your life, learning to live with a medical diagnosis, experiencing depressed mood, anxiety, or need guidance with making healthier choices to improve your sense of self, I can walk this path with you and help you reach your healthy mental and emotional goals. I have over ten years experience in working with children, adolescents, and adults. I have worked in the school, private, juvenile, and hospital settings using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and have incorporated Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing Therapy since 2020.
(956) 948-9879 View (956) 948-9879
Photo of Danielle Gordon, Marriage & Family Therapist in Boerne, TX
Danielle Gordon
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MS
Verified Verified
Boerne, TX 78006  (Online Only)
Are you feeling sad and alone? Do anxious thoughts run your life? Or are you and your partner having unresolved conflict? All of these problems can be VERY difficult to face. You DO NOT have to go through this alone. Life can get easier. My number one priority is to allow my clients to feel seen and heard. I strive to provide a non-judgmental space to explore whatever trials you are facing, while offering positive alternatives to challenge thoughts and behaviors you may be engaging in. I want to give you solutions to your challenges. While we explore, we will also find answers to improve your life.
Are you feeling sad and alone? Do anxious thoughts run your life? Or are you and your partner having unresolved conflict? All of these problems can be VERY difficult to face. You DO NOT have to go through this alone. Life can get easier. My number one priority is to allow my clients to feel seen and heard. I strive to provide a non-judgmental space to explore whatever trials you are facing, while offering positive alternatives to challenge thoughts and behaviors you may be engaging in. I want to give you solutions to your challenges. While we explore, we will also find answers to improve your life.
(830) 476-5968 View (830) 476-5968
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Paula Mokry With Genesis Counseling
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LPC, LMFT
Verified Verified
Boerne, TX 78006
I provide confidential therapy to adults, couples, adolescents, and children. I offer an open-minded and non-judgmental approach to my clients when everyday problems become too overwhelming to handle on their own. I create a warm relaxing environment so clients feel comfortable exploring their situation and together we can find solutions. I am open to seeing either just the individual or incorporating members of the family to help achieve the best outcome through therapy. When working with children, I often use play therapy techniques including art therapy to help children express their feelings through play.
I provide confidential therapy to adults, couples, adolescents, and children. I offer an open-minded and non-judgmental approach to my clients when everyday problems become too overwhelming to handle on their own. I create a warm relaxing environment so clients feel comfortable exploring their situation and together we can find solutions. I am open to seeing either just the individual or incorporating members of the family to help achieve the best outcome through therapy. When working with children, I often use play therapy techniques including art therapy to help children express their feelings through play.
(210) 899-0584 View (210) 899-0584
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Meagan Lenz
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
Boerne, TX 78006
If you are battling with life transitions, anxiety, depression, parenting, chemical dependency/addictions, relationships, or other traumas holding you back from the best version of yourself - you are not alone! Meagan is a Nationally Certified Counselor and Licensed Professional Counselor in the state of Texas.
If you are battling with life transitions, anxiety, depression, parenting, chemical dependency/addictions, relationships, or other traumas holding you back from the best version of yourself - you are not alone! Meagan is a Nationally Certified Counselor and Licensed Professional Counselor in the state of Texas.
(830) 243-6100 View (830) 243-6100
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Catherine W Parten
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-S, RPT-S
Verified Verified
Boerne, TX 78006
My mission is to inspire all persons to explore and heal their spirit, and help each find hope. I work with individuals from 3 years old to older adults, couples, and families. I've always believed anyone who is willing to look into the interior ocean of themselves, that is a brave soul. I've sat in that chair and know it takes courage to confront one's self and to make changes that can improve one's life. Over the 40 years I've been practicing, I have been blessed by those who have trusted me with their darkest places. Come see me, let's find your hope, life, and your light.
My mission is to inspire all persons to explore and heal their spirit, and help each find hope. I work with individuals from 3 years old to older adults, couples, and families. I've always believed anyone who is willing to look into the interior ocean of themselves, that is a brave soul. I've sat in that chair and know it takes courage to confront one's self and to make changes that can improve one's life. Over the 40 years I've been practicing, I have been blessed by those who have trusted me with their darkest places. Come see me, let's find your hope, life, and your light.
(210) 801-9954 View (210) 801-9954
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Kaity Garcia
Licensed Professional Counselor Associate, MS, LPC-A
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Boerne, TX 78006
The thought of therapy can be new, scary, exciting, intimidating, relieving - whatever you might be feeling I'm so glad you're here! My hope is that when you step into my office you feel safe, valued, and heard. If you’re in a season of life you’re unsure how to navigate through, find yourself exhausted from trying to keep everything together, or have a child who needs a place to process and heal, I’d love the opportunity to come alongside and support you through it!
The thought of therapy can be new, scary, exciting, intimidating, relieving - whatever you might be feeling I'm so glad you're here! My hope is that when you step into my office you feel safe, valued, and heard. If you’re in a season of life you’re unsure how to navigate through, find yourself exhausted from trying to keep everything together, or have a child who needs a place to process and heal, I’d love the opportunity to come alongside and support you through it!
(830) 396-4937 View (830) 396-4937
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Norely A Sorrell
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Boerne, TX 78006  (Online Only)
Do you struggle with not feeling good enough? No matter how much you do for others or to perfect yourself, you still feel like it is not enough. You may be fed up with the dynamics of relationships in your life, fed up with feeling unappreciated, or tired of relationships feeling one sided. You might not even remember a time things didn’t feel this way. But one thing is for sure: you’re ready for some relief. You are ready to heal from your past and have healthy relationships. You are ready to feel appreciated and loved. Most of all, you’re ready to feel good enough, deserving of love and satisfied in all aspects of your life.
Do you struggle with not feeling good enough? No matter how much you do for others or to perfect yourself, you still feel like it is not enough. You may be fed up with the dynamics of relationships in your life, fed up with feeling unappreciated, or tired of relationships feeling one sided. You might not even remember a time things didn’t feel this way. But one thing is for sure: you’re ready for some relief. You are ready to heal from your past and have healthy relationships. You are ready to feel appreciated and loved. Most of all, you’re ready to feel good enough, deserving of love and satisfied in all aspects of your life.
(830) 368-0653 View (830) 368-0653
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Maureen Ann Jones
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC-S, RPT-S
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Boerne, TX 78006
I specialize in working with codependent women and men. Codependency is not always related to addiction, it is often referred to as a self-love deficit disorder because most codependent clients have a difficult time identifying and focusing on their own needs. They often spend a lifetime being people-pleasers, but eventually feel anger and resentment for neglecting themselves and not receiving the appreciation/love they desire from others. Breaking free from codependency requires individuals to step away from their denial, to honor themselves, and to set boundaries. Then they can love and nurture others in a healthy manner.
I specialize in working with codependent women and men. Codependency is not always related to addiction, it is often referred to as a self-love deficit disorder because most codependent clients have a difficult time identifying and focusing on their own needs. They often spend a lifetime being people-pleasers, but eventually feel anger and resentment for neglecting themselves and not receiving the appreciation/love they desire from others. Breaking free from codependency requires individuals to step away from their denial, to honor themselves, and to set boundaries. Then they can love and nurture others in a healthy manner.
(210) 900-3096 View (210) 900-3096
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Nancy A Logan
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Boerne, TX 78015  (Online Only)
I enjoy helping individuals find joy and purpose in life; helping learn to minimize self-defeating choices and patterns; learning to be relaxed and at peace; discovering ways to get along with others; forgiving self and/or others; and supporting someone with recovering from the difficulties that life can bring. I prefer to work to build upon strengths and to discover the possibilities that exist to improve situations and challenges.
I enjoy helping individuals find joy and purpose in life; helping learn to minimize self-defeating choices and patterns; learning to be relaxed and at peace; discovering ways to get along with others; forgiving self and/or others; and supporting someone with recovering from the difficulties that life can bring. I prefer to work to build upon strengths and to discover the possibilities that exist to improve situations and challenges.
(210) 255-2072 View (210) 255-2072
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Mina O'Connell, MS, LMFT, PLLC
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MS
Verified Verified
Boerne, TX 78006  (Online Only)
Are you looking for direction and support at a difficult time? You are most likely on a path to healthy growth and development, but are just hurting along the way. I recognize and value the courage and trust it takes to seek insight, and believe you can achieve your best functioning through focused goals. We can work to help you identify your goals and develop strategies to reach them within the context of your most important relationships. You don't have to give up on improving your health and the important relationships in your life!
Are you looking for direction and support at a difficult time? You are most likely on a path to healthy growth and development, but are just hurting along the way. I recognize and value the courage and trust it takes to seek insight, and believe you can achieve your best functioning through focused goals. We can work to help you identify your goals and develop strategies to reach them within the context of your most important relationships. You don't have to give up on improving your health and the important relationships in your life!
(210) 791-7434 View (210) 791-7434
Marriage Counseling Therapists

How does marriage counseling work?

Marriage counseling works by teaching couples concrete skills to communicate with one another and solve disagreements in healthy ways. A trained mental health professional works with both members of a couple to explore difficulties the couple may be having and helps them develop skills to address these matters. Couples who don’t have any difficulties but want to prepare for marriage may develop skills for the future.

How long does marriage counseling typically last?

Marriage counseling is a short-term form of therapy; the process may last between four and eight sessions. Other forms of relationship guidance from mental health professionals, such as couples therapy, are longer lasting, may focus on the past rather than just the present, and are tailored to the individual couple and their emotions, history, and patterns in the relationship. Couples therapy often lasts for 12 weeks or longer.

Is marriage counseling effective?

Marriage counseling helps many couples develop relationship skills that may not have been acquired or tested in a relationship; partners may be better able to communicate and address conflict following counseling. However, there are many different forms of marriage counseling, and this form of counseling does not have as strong an evidence base as other modalities such as couples therapy.

Is marriage counseling effective if only one partner wants to go?

Yes, marriage counseling can still be effective if one partner convinces the other to engage in the process. Of course, whether counseling is effective depends on the couple’s commitment to work on their relationship; however, the short-term, skills-based nature of marriage counseling makes it a relatively easy “ask” of a partner, and the hesitant individual may see its value once counseling begins.