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Melinda Paolone
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MA, LAMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Las Cruces, NM 88005
Are you struggling with anxiety or depression? Is there a stressful life situation that has occurred recently? As a Marriage and Family Therapist, I am committed to engaging with couples, families, and individuals to work through the daily stressors life sometimes has to offer. I have a deep belief that people can change and grow with the proper support. I am passionate and enthusiastic about the therapeutic process and hope that I can help you navigate your way through any difficult time.
Are you struggling with anxiety or depression? Is there a stressful life situation that has occurred recently? As a Marriage and Family Therapist, I am committed to engaging with couples, families, and individuals to work through the daily stressors life sometimes has to offer. I have a deep belief that people can change and grow with the proper support. I am passionate and enthusiastic about the therapeutic process and hope that I can help you navigate your way through any difficult time.
(575) 517-3737 View (575) 517-3737
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Shalan Costa
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Las Cruces, NM 88005  (Online Only)
Some of my areas of expertise include: anxiety, behavioral issues, communication/trust, depression, family conflict, grief, infertility, infidelity, marital/pre-marital, military, life transitions, parenting, PTSD, self-esteem, self-harm, suicidal ideations, stress, and trauma/abuse to name a few.
Hi and Welcome. I am an LMFT in New Mexico at Alameda Behavioral Health and IOP, and I work with families, couples, and individuals. Experience has taught me that no two relationships or challenges are the same, and I love using evidence-based methods to help my clients work through obstacles and life changes in ways that fit their lives and their unique strengths. My goal is to provide a safe space of trust where healing and reparation can occur, and where clients can learn to become their most healthy selves.
Some of my areas of expertise include: anxiety, behavioral issues, communication/trust, depression, family conflict, grief, infertility, infidelity, marital/pre-marital, military, life transitions, parenting, PTSD, self-esteem, self-harm, suicidal ideations, stress, and trauma/abuse to name a few.
Hi and Welcome. I am an LMFT in New Mexico at Alameda Behavioral Health and IOP, and I work with families, couples, and individuals. Experience has taught me that no two relationships or challenges are the same, and I love using evidence-based methods to help my clients work through obstacles and life changes in ways that fit their lives and their unique strengths. My goal is to provide a safe space of trust where healing and reparation can occur, and where clients can learn to become their most healthy selves.
(575) 500-0925 View (575) 500-0925
Jeanne L Provencio
Counselor, LPCC
Verified Verified
Las Cruces, NM 88005
We also work with clients with marital and family issues and teach coping skills to make life easier.
Jeanne Provencio has been practicing in New Mexico for almost 30 years. She comes from a background that includes multi-cultural experiences and travel. She enjoys working with families and with children. She hopes to teach skills that will help others make appropriate decisions and improve the quality of their lives. The practice employs a live answering service to take phone calls 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. This phone service allows for confidential requests
We also work with clients with marital and family issues and teach coping skills to make life easier.
Jeanne Provencio has been practicing in New Mexico for almost 30 years. She comes from a background that includes multi-cultural experiences and travel. She enjoys working with families and with children. She hopes to teach skills that will help others make appropriate decisions and improve the quality of their lives. The practice employs a live answering service to take phone calls 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. This phone service allows for confidential requests
(575) 219-4238 View (575) 219-4238
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Dr. Amalia Humada-Ludeke
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Las Cruces, NM 88006
I am an independently licensed marriage and family therapist with an extensive background in Pk-12 and post-secondary education. I have been trained systemically, both in the areas of leadership and family systems. Therefore, when working with individuals and families, I practice a systems approach to treatment, engaging in the therapeutic process as a client-centered, collaborative relationship. My core beliefs incorporate the value of the client's narrative. I view the client as the expert on his or her story. My role is to co-construct therapeutic goals that can create a space for change to best support the client's journey.
I am an independently licensed marriage and family therapist with an extensive background in Pk-12 and post-secondary education. I have been trained systemically, both in the areas of leadership and family systems. Therefore, when working with individuals and families, I practice a systems approach to treatment, engaging in the therapeutic process as a client-centered, collaborative relationship. My core beliefs incorporate the value of the client's narrative. I view the client as the expert on his or her story. My role is to co-construct therapeutic goals that can create a space for change to best support the client's journey.
(505) 322-6849 View (505) 322-6849
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Tamera Nicole Rasmussen
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LPCC, NCC, C-PD
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Las Cruces, NM 88007  (Online Only)
Hi! While it is necessary to introduce myself according to my education, experience, licensing, and specializations it is more important to let you know that I am a human first. I live life just like you and experience parenting pitfalls, marriage challenges, financial quandaries, and all of the other stuff that life is made of. My role in your life isn’t to tell you what to do or how to do it, it is to use the clinical skills I’ve learned, wisdom I’ve gained, and my clinical experience to help you navigate and heal from the “stuff” in your life.
Hi! While it is necessary to introduce myself according to my education, experience, licensing, and specializations it is more important to let you know that I am a human first. I live life just like you and experience parenting pitfalls, marriage challenges, financial quandaries, and all of the other stuff that life is made of. My role in your life isn’t to tell you what to do or how to do it, it is to use the clinical skills I’ve learned, wisdom I’ve gained, and my clinical experience to help you navigate and heal from the “stuff” in your life.
(832) 966-3345 View (832) 966-3345
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Alameda Behavioral Health
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Las Cruces, NM 88005
Waitlist for new clients
As of July of 2022 I am not accepting new clients. Hello! I am a licensed therapist and have experience working with individuals, couples, and families. My goal is to provide a safe space that is non-judgmental and compassionate for everyone. It is my passion to help others reach their personal goals, overcome obstacles in a healthy way and become the best version of themselves. Hola! Soy psicoterapeuta y tengo experiencia trabajando con personas individualmente, en pareja o familias enteras. Mi meta es poder ofrecer un espacio seguro, compasivo y sin prejuicios para todos. Todo es confidencial!
As of July of 2022 I am not accepting new clients. Hello! I am a licensed therapist and have experience working with individuals, couples, and families. My goal is to provide a safe space that is non-judgmental and compassionate for everyone. It is my passion to help others reach their personal goals, overcome obstacles in a healthy way and become the best version of themselves. Hola! Soy psicoterapeuta y tengo experiencia trabajando con personas individualmente, en pareja o familias enteras. Mi meta es poder ofrecer un espacio seguro, compasivo y sin prejuicios para todos. Todo es confidencial!
(575) 366-8050 View (575) 366-8050
Photo of Kimberly Mejia-Rios, Marriage & Family Therapist in Las Cruces, NM
Kimberly Mejia-Rios
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Las Cruces, NM 88011
Whether you have been struggling with issues like depression, anxiety, self-esteem, relationship/family challenges, or even if life is just overwhelming and stressful, I am here to assist you through it. Every life experience you have been through is unique to you, and I am here to help you identify your strengths to help break down the issues you are facing. Together, we will explore the ways in which you can help yourself.
Whether you have been struggling with issues like depression, anxiety, self-esteem, relationship/family challenges, or even if life is just overwhelming and stressful, I am here to assist you through it. Every life experience you have been through is unique to you, and I am here to help you identify your strengths to help break down the issues you are facing. Together, we will explore the ways in which you can help yourself.
(505) 405-4244 View (505) 405-4244
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Sandra Gutierrez
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, EMDR, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Las Cruces, NM 88005
I am an EMDR Consultant and I approach treatment from a holistic perspective. I believe in treating the root of the presenting problem versus solely treating the symptoms. I enjoy supporting patients through their journey of breaking patterns that no longer serve them. My goal is to move patients from a life of survival to one of thriving; giving patients a chance to live a more fulfilling life. Feel free to browse through my practice's website: strengthandhopetherapycenter.com & fill out a new patient form. Anyone can self refer. You may also call or email through here or through the website. Turn around time is usually 24 hrs.
I am an EMDR Consultant and I approach treatment from a holistic perspective. I believe in treating the root of the presenting problem versus solely treating the symptoms. I enjoy supporting patients through their journey of breaking patterns that no longer serve them. My goal is to move patients from a life of survival to one of thriving; giving patients a chance to live a more fulfilling life. Feel free to browse through my practice's website: strengthandhopetherapycenter.com & fill out a new patient form. Anyone can self refer. You may also call or email through here or through the website. Turn around time is usually 24 hrs.
(575) 222-2922 View (575) 222-2922
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The Talk Shop, New Mexico
Counselor, LPC, PsyD, LCDC
Verified Verified
Las Cruces, NM 88011
Servicing all New Mexico and Texas. Dealing with substance abuse or mental health issues? You don't have to go about it alone. In fact having a trained therapist is recommend to walk you through your difficult times. Allow us to assist you in your sobriety or mental/behavioral needs. We have over 12 years of experience in counseling with diverse clients who have mental/ behavioral issues, life problems, couples counseling, drug & alcohol addiction, co-occurring disorders and more. We are Licensed Professional Counselors and are here to help.
Servicing all New Mexico and Texas. Dealing with substance abuse or mental health issues? You don't have to go about it alone. In fact having a trained therapist is recommend to walk you through your difficult times. Allow us to assist you in your sobriety or mental/behavioral needs. We have over 12 years of experience in counseling with diverse clients who have mental/ behavioral issues, life problems, couples counseling, drug & alcohol addiction, co-occurring disorders and more. We are Licensed Professional Counselors and are here to help.
(575) 579-3714 View (575) 579-3714
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Tessa A Ontiveros
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, RPT-S
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Las Cruces, NM 88001
I have worked with children and families for over twenty years. My primary focus has been on trauma, connection and attachment. I received my Registered Play Therapist Supervisor about two years ago and have focused in addition on infant mental health.
I have worked with children and families for over twenty years. My primary focus has been on trauma, connection and attachment. I received my Registered Play Therapist Supervisor about two years ago and have focused in addition on infant mental health.
(575) 213-2226 View (575) 213-2226
Photo of Stephany Carlson, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate in Las Cruces, NM
Stephany Carlson
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, LAMFT
Verified Verified
Las Cruces, NM 88005
I believe that every individual has a unique experience they bring to therapy. Learning to navigate mental health and life challenges is difficult to do alone. I work with individuals, couples, and families who are looking for support through their mental health journey. My goal is to provide an environment where individuals feel welcomed and safe in order to reach their full potential.
I believe that every individual has a unique experience they bring to therapy. Learning to navigate mental health and life challenges is difficult to do alone. I work with individuals, couples, and families who are looking for support through their mental health journey. My goal is to provide an environment where individuals feel welcomed and safe in order to reach their full potential.
(575) 256-3433 View (575) 256-3433
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Kristine Mills
Counselor, LPCC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Las Cruces, NM 88001
Sometimes life throws us challenges that may impact our emotional health. Seeking counseling services is one way to gain collaborative help to process through the challenges. It is my goal to meet client where they are, and provide evidence-based support strategies to assist clients to achieve their counseling goals.
Sometimes life throws us challenges that may impact our emotional health. Seeking counseling services is one way to gain collaborative help to process through the challenges. It is my goal to meet client where they are, and provide evidence-based support strategies to assist clients to achieve their counseling goals.
(575) 251-4068 View (575) 251-4068
Maria D Gonzalez
Counselor, LPCC, MS
Verified Verified
Las Cruces, NM 88001  (Online Only)
Maria is a Bilingual Mental Health Counselor. Virginia Satir said it best "As a therapist I try to be a companion and help people tune into their own wisdom". I strive to be that person for my client in their life that is capable of hearing and holding their pain. I have experience working with infants, children, adolescent, adults, couples and families. My goal is to provide a safe and non-judgmental space for my clients where together we can work collaboratively to reach their goals. Maria enjoys working with children, families, couples, trauma survivors, LGBTQ+ community, addiction and recovery.
Maria is a Bilingual Mental Health Counselor. Virginia Satir said it best "As a therapist I try to be a companion and help people tune into their own wisdom". I strive to be that person for my client in their life that is capable of hearing and holding their pain. I have experience working with infants, children, adolescent, adults, couples and families. My goal is to provide a safe and non-judgmental space for my clients where together we can work collaboratively to reach their goals. Maria enjoys working with children, families, couples, trauma survivors, LGBTQ+ community, addiction and recovery.
(575) 205-1366 View (575) 205-1366
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Doña Ana Mental Health, LLC
Counselor, LPCC
Verified Verified
Las Cruces, NM 88005  (Online Only)
Welcome and thank you for visiting to learn more about options for support with mental health and personal growth. Deciding that therapy can be helpful for you is a big step towards growth. It means that you have noticed that your symptoms are distressing and interfering with the life you would like to lead. Insurance is accepted (except Medicare). Self pay is available.
Welcome and thank you for visiting to learn more about options for support with mental health and personal growth. Deciding that therapy can be helpful for you is a big step towards growth. It means that you have noticed that your symptoms are distressing and interfering with the life you would like to lead. Insurance is accepted (except Medicare). Self pay is available.
(575) 376-9579 View (575) 376-9579
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Lisa Mulholland
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Las Cruces, NM 88005  (Online Only)
Have you ever noticed a circular pattern that goes like this: You begin to talk negatively about yourself, and your body, like an unwilling accomplice, is brought along for the ride? Do you catch yourself saying, "I'm not rich enough or smart enough. I don't look a certain way, have the right home, clothes, friends, etc." What kind of impact might this have on the body? Can such thoughts give rise to feelings of depression and/or anxiety? Traumatic events can lead to negative beliefs about self. Media can also contribute to the way in which the individual thinks and talks about the self, especially in relation to others.
Have you ever noticed a circular pattern that goes like this: You begin to talk negatively about yourself, and your body, like an unwilling accomplice, is brought along for the ride? Do you catch yourself saying, "I'm not rich enough or smart enough. I don't look a certain way, have the right home, clothes, friends, etc." What kind of impact might this have on the body? Can such thoughts give rise to feelings of depression and/or anxiety? Traumatic events can lead to negative beliefs about self. Media can also contribute to the way in which the individual thinks and talks about the self, especially in relation to others.
(575) 376-6645 View (575) 376-6645
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Lorena D Griese
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Las Cruces, NM 88011  (Online Only)
When we are struggling to find clarity and trying to cope with life’s struggles, it is important that we feel safe and heard. As a clinician, I offer a confidential, safe, judgment-free space where goals can be processed and coping skills can be learned. My experience working with children, families, adults, and adolescents allows me to be understanding of diverse situations such as trauma, grief, and relationship struggles.
When we are struggling to find clarity and trying to cope with life’s struggles, it is important that we feel safe and heard. As a clinician, I offer a confidential, safe, judgment-free space where goals can be processed and coping skills can be learned. My experience working with children, families, adults, and adolescents allows me to be understanding of diverse situations such as trauma, grief, and relationship struggles.
(575) 376-6698 View (575) 376-6698
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Camille Cisneroz
Counselor, PhD, LPCC
Verified Verified
Las Cruces, NM 88005
I believe that everyone has the desire to find happiness on their terms. If you choose counseling to assist in meeting your needs, we can work together. You set the goals; my role is to provide support and feedback in reaching your goals without judgement. I may challenge you along the way but you will make your own choices and decide what is successful for you. I have a PhD in Psychology, a Masters degree in Counseling and Educational Psychology and a Bachelor's in Social Work.
I believe that everyone has the desire to find happiness on their terms. If you choose counseling to assist in meeting your needs, we can work together. You set the goals; my role is to provide support and feedback in reaching your goals without judgement. I may challenge you along the way but you will make your own choices and decide what is successful for you. I have a PhD in Psychology, a Masters degree in Counseling and Educational Psychology and a Bachelor's in Social Work.
(575) 567-4091 View (575) 567-4091
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Karen Sagal PhD
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Las Cruces, NM 88001
Choosing the right therapist can be challenging! But finding the right person can be life changing. I believe that in counseling we work together as a team, in a safe and non-judgmental environment. We clarify your goals and identify the best strategies to help you succeed. I am a Licensed Psychologist with over 25 years experience. I work with individuals, couples and families on issues such as panic and anxiety,depression, relationships and stress management. I also enjoy working with people facing retirement issues as well as life transitions.
Choosing the right therapist can be challenging! But finding the right person can be life changing. I believe that in counseling we work together as a team, in a safe and non-judgmental environment. We clarify your goals and identify the best strategies to help you succeed. I am a Licensed Psychologist with over 25 years experience. I work with individuals, couples and families on issues such as panic and anxiety,depression, relationships and stress management. I also enjoy working with people facing retirement issues as well as life transitions.
(575) 233-7007 View (575) 233-7007
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Collette Ceballes
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MS, LAMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Las Cruces, NM 88005
Life can present many challenges - from relationship issues to anxiety, depression, trauma, struggling with self-esteem, or the many other curveballs that life can throw. In a safe, nonjudgemental space, I would like to provide you with the support and tools to find your way to a better place. This can be done in several different ways, whether it be improving and getting a better understanding of relationships in your life, exploring emotions, or increasing sense of self worth and confidence. I would like to support you in the process of untangling and making meaning out of all of that.
Life can present many challenges - from relationship issues to anxiety, depression, trauma, struggling with self-esteem, or the many other curveballs that life can throw. In a safe, nonjudgemental space, I would like to provide you with the support and tools to find your way to a better place. This can be done in several different ways, whether it be improving and getting a better understanding of relationships in your life, exploring emotions, or increasing sense of self worth and confidence. I would like to support you in the process of untangling and making meaning out of all of that.
(575) 215-5928 View (575) 215-5928
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Terri Lynn Alvarez
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Las Cruces, NM 88005
Waitlist for new clients
I have spent the last 22 years with the State of New Mexico working in Protective Services, Juvenile Probation, and I am currently working for Behavioral Health as a Clinician, all are under the umbrella of Children, Youth, and Families. While working for the state I have been in several positions. I worked at Counseling Las Cruces for a few years. I opened my private practice, Lucky Stars. I am original from Danville, IL but have made New Mexico my home since 1980. I obtained my bachelor degree at Western New Mexico University and my Master’s degree from Highlands University. I have obtained my Independent License in 2013.
I have spent the last 22 years with the State of New Mexico working in Protective Services, Juvenile Probation, and I am currently working for Behavioral Health as a Clinician, all are under the umbrella of Children, Youth, and Families. While working for the state I have been in several positions. I worked at Counseling Las Cruces for a few years. I opened my private practice, Lucky Stars. I am original from Danville, IL but have made New Mexico my home since 1980. I obtained my bachelor degree at Western New Mexico University and my Master’s degree from Highlands University. I have obtained my Independent License in 2013.
(575) 912-6163 View (575) 912-6163
Marriage Counseling Therapists

How does marriage counseling work?

Marriage counseling works by teaching couples concrete skills to communicate with one another and solve disagreements in healthy ways. A trained mental health professional works with both members of a couple to explore difficulties the couple may be having and helps them develop skills to address these matters. Couples who don’t have any difficulties but want to prepare for marriage may develop skills for the future.

How long does marriage counseling typically last?

Marriage counseling is a short-term form of therapy; the process may last between four and eight sessions. Other forms of relationship guidance from mental health professionals, such as couples therapy, are longer lasting, may focus on the past rather than just the present, and are tailored to the individual couple and their emotions, history, and patterns in the relationship. Couples therapy often lasts for 12 weeks or longer.

Is marriage counseling effective?

Marriage counseling helps many couples develop relationship skills that may not have been acquired or tested in a relationship; partners may be better able to communicate and address conflict following counseling. However, there are many different forms of marriage counseling, and this form of counseling does not have as strong an evidence base as other modalities such as couples therapy.

Is marriage counseling effective if only one partner wants to go?

Yes, marriage counseling can still be effective if one partner convinces the other to engage in the process. Of course, whether counseling is effective depends on the couple’s commitment to work on their relationship; however, the short-term, skills-based nature of marriage counseling makes it a relatively easy “ask” of a partner, and the hesitant individual may see its value once counseling begins.