Emotionally Focused Therapists in Eastown, Grand Rapids, MI

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Elise Waugh
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LLMSW
Verified Verified
Eastown, Grand Rapids, MI 49506  (Online Only)
I earned my Master of Social Work from the University of Southern California and am trained in evidence-based interventions like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, Mindfulness-based Stress Reduction, and Emotionally Focused Therapy.
Just as we sometimes need help caring for physical aches and pains, we often need help improving our mental health. I am passionate about helping others look inward to learn more about themselves and connect with their inner voice through the power of therapy. At its heart, therapy is as powerful as what you put into it. Being vulnerable can often feel daunting, but by working together, my goal is to help you build the confidence you need to bravely take the reins when you feel like the life you want is just out of reach.
I earned my Master of Social Work from the University of Southern California and am trained in evidence-based interventions like Cognitive Behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy, Mindfulness-based Stress Reduction, and Emotionally Focused Therapy.
Just as we sometimes need help caring for physical aches and pains, we often need help improving our mental health. I am passionate about helping others look inward to learn more about themselves and connect with their inner voice through the power of therapy. At its heart, therapy is as powerful as what you put into it. Being vulnerable can often feel daunting, but by working together, my goal is to help you build the confidence you need to bravely take the reins when you feel like the life you want is just out of reach.
(616) 201-0589 View (616) 201-0589
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Dan Slane
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Eastown, Grand Rapids, MI 49506
I completed my Master of Social Work at the University of Michigan in 2017 and now blend cognitive therapies (CBT/DBT) with strategies and awarenesses from Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Gottman Method, Internal Family Systems (IFS), Emotional-focused Therapy (EFT), Sensate Focus Therapy (SFT), and Mindfulness.
I interlace myriad strategies for assuaging complex trauma, increasing vulnerability, improving emotional and physical intimacy, strengthening relationships, and decreasing the disconnecting symptoms of anxiety, depression, and personality disorders, specifically Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD).
I completed my Master of Social Work at the University of Michigan in 2017 and now blend cognitive therapies (CBT/DBT) with strategies and awarenesses from Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Gottman Method, Internal Family Systems (IFS), Emotional-focused Therapy (EFT), Sensate Focus Therapy (SFT), and Mindfulness.
I interlace myriad strategies for assuaging complex trauma, increasing vulnerability, improving emotional and physical intimacy, strengthening relationships, and decreasing the disconnecting symptoms of anxiety, depression, and personality disorders, specifically Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD).
(616) 207-8013 View (616) 207-8013
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Rachel Bauer
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, ADS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Eastown, Grand Rapids, MI 49506
How are you going to get through this day, this issue, this relationship? You're trying to keep up with all of the demands with work, at home, with friends or family, it seems like no matter what you do, it's never enough. And now that it's all catching up to you, you've reached your limit. You're stressed out, overwhelmed, and exhausted. You've tried everything, the anxiety just won't go away. You want to live your life without fear or worries that hold you back from making your goals your reality.
How are you going to get through this day, this issue, this relationship? You're trying to keep up with all of the demands with work, at home, with friends or family, it seems like no matter what you do, it's never enough. And now that it's all catching up to you, you've reached your limit. You're stressed out, overwhelmed, and exhausted. You've tried everything, the anxiety just won't go away. You want to live your life without fear or worries that hold you back from making your goals your reality.
(616) 226-9039 View (616) 226-9039
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Jeffrey Reining
Psychologist, PsyD, MA, LP, MDiv
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Eastown, Grand Rapids, MI 49506
I work with individuals, teens and couples dealing with issues including ineffective communication, spiritual struggles, depression, anxiety, behavioral problems, high stress, perfectionism, divorce, fertility issues and more. If you are struggling with worrying too much, feeling down all the time, connecting with your young adult, unsure how to co-parent, need help with saving your relationship, or are just looking to make changes in your life, I can help. I create a safe and welcoming environment that starts with understanding and works toward change.
I work with individuals, teens and couples dealing with issues including ineffective communication, spiritual struggles, depression, anxiety, behavioral problems, high stress, perfectionism, divorce, fertility issues and more. If you are struggling with worrying too much, feeling down all the time, connecting with your young adult, unsure how to co-parent, need help with saving your relationship, or are just looking to make changes in your life, I can help. I create a safe and welcoming environment that starts with understanding and works toward change.
(616) 201-3130 View (616) 201-3130
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Natalie Zuker
Counselor, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Eastown, Grand Rapids, MI 49506
Humans are wired for connection. There are many things that occur within our lives that leave us feeling disconnected from ourselves and others. This can lead to experiences of feeling lost, overwhelmed or stuck in repetitive patterns that cause distress. For as long as I can remember I have been passionate about connection. Connection with oneself and others is such a valuable aspect of our human experience.
Humans are wired for connection. There are many things that occur within our lives that leave us feeling disconnected from ourselves and others. This can lead to experiences of feeling lost, overwhelmed or stuck in repetitive patterns that cause distress. For as long as I can remember I have been passionate about connection. Connection with oneself and others is such a valuable aspect of our human experience.
(616) 548-6741 View (616) 548-6741
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Anna Kate Block
Counselor, MA, LLPC
Not Verified Not Verified
1 Endorsed
Eastown, Grand Rapids, MI 49506
If you're experiencing anxiety, depression, and burn-out, and looking for a different approach to therapy you've come to the right place. My name is Kate, and I practice body-based psychotherapy. This means that we approach your healing from both the top-down, traditional methods of processing your issues through talk therapy, as well as the bottom-up approach of releasing body held trauma and stuck emotions through breathwork and movement. I offer unique sessions that combine talk, breathwork, meditation, and movement.
If you're experiencing anxiety, depression, and burn-out, and looking for a different approach to therapy you've come to the right place. My name is Kate, and I practice body-based psychotherapy. This means that we approach your healing from both the top-down, traditional methods of processing your issues through talk therapy, as well as the bottom-up approach of releasing body held trauma and stuck emotions through breathwork and movement. I offer unique sessions that combine talk, breathwork, meditation, and movement.
(616) 344-4424 View (616) 344-4424
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Ashleigh Merryman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Eastown, Grand Rapids, MI 49506
Waitlist for new clients
Whether this is your first time in therapy or you have tried it in the past, welcome! Beginning therapy can feel overwhelming, from finding the right therapist to unraveling years of trauma and implementing changes. I'm here to support and guide you through it all. I have experience in assisting individuals ranging from 16 to 55 years old, I specialize in addressing anxiety, depression, PTSD/C-PTSD, and panic attacks. My passion lies in assisting those grappling with past traumas, navigating boundaries, communication hurdles, identifying as LGBTQIA+, life transitions, and self-esteem issues.
Whether this is your first time in therapy or you have tried it in the past, welcome! Beginning therapy can feel overwhelming, from finding the right therapist to unraveling years of trauma and implementing changes. I'm here to support and guide you through it all. I have experience in assisting individuals ranging from 16 to 55 years old, I specialize in addressing anxiety, depression, PTSD/C-PTSD, and panic attacks. My passion lies in assisting those grappling with past traumas, navigating boundaries, communication hurdles, identifying as LGBTQIA+, life transitions, and self-esteem issues.
(616) 207-8077 View (616) 207-8077
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Dustin T Burdick
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LLMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Eastown, Grand Rapids, MI 49506
I eagerly await to hear your story. Within many of our stories is something that becomes overwhelming. This begins to weigh us down and hinders our quality of life. When you share that something with me, we will find something to do about it. You've already done a considerable amount of work up until this point; its time to share some of that load.
I eagerly await to hear your story. Within many of our stories is something that becomes overwhelming. This begins to weigh us down and hinders our quality of life. When you share that something with me, we will find something to do about it. You've already done a considerable amount of work up until this point; its time to share some of that load.
(616) 236-6034 View (616) 236-6034
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Jennifer DiGennaro
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Eastown, Grand Rapids, MI 49506
Being at war with yourself and your body is exhausting. Maybe it started with your first diet in your teens or maybe it didn't start until later in life dealing with chronic pain or illness, or something else. You are sick of suffering and feeling like your body is an endless problem to be solved. It is hard to feel hopeful. Psychotherapy with me can help you deepen self-trust, self-care and self-acceptance. I have specialized training in trauma-informed approaches, including EMDR and Body Trust® which inform my holistic approach. I can support you to work through your past, honor your present and envision your future.
Being at war with yourself and your body is exhausting. Maybe it started with your first diet in your teens or maybe it didn't start until later in life dealing with chronic pain or illness, or something else. You are sick of suffering and feeling like your body is an endless problem to be solved. It is hard to feel hopeful. Psychotherapy with me can help you deepen self-trust, self-care and self-acceptance. I have specialized training in trauma-informed approaches, including EMDR and Body Trust® which inform my holistic approach. I can support you to work through your past, honor your present and envision your future.
(616) 201-3324 View (616) 201-3324
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Laura Meeker Wicksall
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Eastown, Grand Rapids, MI 49506
Do you find yourself longing for a deeper connection with yourself and others? You want close relationships and yet these very relationships become a source of pain? Many people find their way to therapy feeling lost, confused, and alone. For me, a most valuable aspect of therapy is connecting with a caring other and being able to undo the loneliness that one feels in their experience. Feeling connected in therapy allows individuals to access important core emotions and gain a deeper sense of themselves. My goal is that people leave therapy with a renewed sense of vitality and a coherent narrative of who they are.
Do you find yourself longing for a deeper connection with yourself and others? You want close relationships and yet these very relationships become a source of pain? Many people find their way to therapy feeling lost, confused, and alone. For me, a most valuable aspect of therapy is connecting with a caring other and being able to undo the loneliness that one feels in their experience. Feeling connected in therapy allows individuals to access important core emotions and gain a deeper sense of themselves. My goal is that people leave therapy with a renewed sense of vitality and a coherent narrative of who they are.
(616) 312-2477 View (616) 312-2477
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Alyssa Wesley
Counselor, MA, LLPC, CCMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
Eastown, Grand Rapids, MI 49506
Research shows that joy is the hardest human emotion to truly experience. Challenges with depression, anxiety, life transitions, trauma, low self-esteem, relationships or many other things, hold us back from fully experiencing these moments of joy in life. Whenever you may be at in your journey, your choice in seeking help is one of bravery. My goal is to partner with you to better understand your present circumstances, create meaningful goals and continue to provide support and hope to you along the way.
Research shows that joy is the hardest human emotion to truly experience. Challenges with depression, anxiety, life transitions, trauma, low self-esteem, relationships or many other things, hold us back from fully experiencing these moments of joy in life. Whenever you may be at in your journey, your choice in seeking help is one of bravery. My goal is to partner with you to better understand your present circumstances, create meaningful goals and continue to provide support and hope to you along the way.
(616) 585-0252 View (616) 585-0252
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Enlightened Therapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Eastown, Grand Rapids, MI 49506
Are you battling anxiety or depression and feel like you're 'just getting through' the day? I'm here to guide you throughout your journey in finding and maintaining strength, hope, direction, and motivation to thrive in life. I started my own practice, Enlightened Therapy, because I had a vision for a therapeutic atmosphere of safety, support, and empowerment in order for my clients to meet their goals. I operate utilizing evidence-based practices that are customized to each individual’s needs. I believe in therapy that addresses all areas of a person's life, including family, relationships, work, school, and physical health.
Are you battling anxiety or depression and feel like you're 'just getting through' the day? I'm here to guide you throughout your journey in finding and maintaining strength, hope, direction, and motivation to thrive in life. I started my own practice, Enlightened Therapy, because I had a vision for a therapeutic atmosphere of safety, support, and empowerment in order for my clients to meet their goals. I operate utilizing evidence-based practices that are customized to each individual’s needs. I believe in therapy that addresses all areas of a person's life, including family, relationships, work, school, and physical health.
(517) 273-2028 View (517) 273-2028

Online Therapists

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Tristen Davis
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Grand Rapids, MI 49546  (Online Only)
I have worked with adults and utilize methods from evidence-based practices like Emotionally Focused Therapy.
Immediate evening availability. Connection has been a continuous theme in my life. Becoming a therapist was an easy choice - it reflects a core part of me that enjoys getting to know people at a real level. I've particularly enjoyed my work with depression, anxiety, and self-esteem; relationship and family conflict; and LGBTQ+ and intimacy. ​ While my clients have shared they enjoy my keen observations, reflective nature, and sometimes challenging inquiries, they also appreciate my lightheartedness and positive energy. I work to provide a safe, nonjudgemental environment and view YOU as the expert in your own life. ​
I have worked with adults and utilize methods from evidence-based practices like Emotionally Focused Therapy.
Immediate evening availability. Connection has been a continuous theme in my life. Becoming a therapist was an easy choice - it reflects a core part of me that enjoys getting to know people at a real level. I've particularly enjoyed my work with depression, anxiety, and self-esteem; relationship and family conflict; and LGBTQ+ and intimacy. ​ While my clients have shared they enjoy my keen observations, reflective nature, and sometimes challenging inquiries, they also appreciate my lightheartedness and positive energy. I work to provide a safe, nonjudgemental environment and view YOU as the expert in your own life. ​
(224) 523-7694 View (224) 523-7694
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Catherine A VanDeWege
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, CAADC
Verified Verified
Grand Rapids, MI 49503
I love learning new therapeutic strategies to help my clients such as EFT, the preferred treatment for PTSD and emotional pain.
My therapeutic intervention is looking at the past as necessary in making changes for the future. I'm certain that any unwanted behavior can be unlocked by recognizing the purpose or wanted outcome for said behavior and my passion is helping you identify that unmet need and make healthy changes. I enjoy working with clients that are willing to do things outside of the therapeutic office setting such as writing, art, and/or practicing skills learned, and then reporting back in session the helpfulness of each strategy.
I love learning new therapeutic strategies to help my clients such as EFT, the preferred treatment for PTSD and emotional pain.
My therapeutic intervention is looking at the past as necessary in making changes for the future. I'm certain that any unwanted behavior can be unlocked by recognizing the purpose or wanted outcome for said behavior and my passion is helping you identify that unmet need and make healthy changes. I enjoy working with clients that are willing to do things outside of the therapeutic office setting such as writing, art, and/or practicing skills learned, and then reporting back in session the helpfulness of each strategy.
(616) 499-6212 View (616) 499-6212
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Amanda Walker
Limited Licensed Psychologist, MA, LLP, CAADC
Verified Verified
Grand Rapids, MI 49544  (Online Only)
I utilize an integrated approach of therapeutic models, including Cognitive Behavioral therapy (CBT), Solution Focused Therapy (SFT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), and Gottman Method Couples; Therapy.
I view therapy as a collaborate space where it is safe to share life’s difficulties. I find joy in working together to learn to cope with stressors and develop healthy habits for better managing relationships, mental health concerns, and whatever situation might be important in that moment. I enjoy working with adults and couples. My primary areas of expertise include treating mood disorders such as depression and anxiety, as well as working with adjustment disorders and substance use disorders. Therapy is about helping people through situational life stressors or relationship conflicts.
I utilize an integrated approach of therapeutic models, including Cognitive Behavioral therapy (CBT), Solution Focused Therapy (SFT), Emotionally-Focused Therapy (EFT), and Gottman Method Couples; Therapy.
I view therapy as a collaborate space where it is safe to share life’s difficulties. I find joy in working together to learn to cope with stressors and develop healthy habits for better managing relationships, mental health concerns, and whatever situation might be important in that moment. I enjoy working with adults and couples. My primary areas of expertise include treating mood disorders such as depression and anxiety, as well as working with adjustment disorders and substance use disorders. Therapy is about helping people through situational life stressors or relationship conflicts.
(616) 201-1399 View (616) 201-1399
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Melanie Szucs
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LPC, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Grand Rapids, MI 49546
Waitlist for new clients
Depending on your particular needs and experiences, I draw from several different treatment models, including Emotionally Focused Therapy, Gottman Method Couples Therapy, and client-centered therapy.
Our lives are stories and we all want them to be stories worth telling, that give us hope. Maybe you long to rewrite the story you are living. I believe everyone has the ability to change their story. Whether you are a couple, a family, or an individual, you can have hope. I desire to walk alongside you in your struggles and help you to forge a new path. Sometimes all it takes is a listening ear; sometimes it takes long, hard work. But you have the choice-to step out in courage and to start writing a new story.
Depending on your particular needs and experiences, I draw from several different treatment models, including Emotionally Focused Therapy, Gottman Method Couples Therapy, and client-centered therapy.
Our lives are stories and we all want them to be stories worth telling, that give us hope. Maybe you long to rewrite the story you are living. I believe everyone has the ability to change their story. Whether you are a couple, a family, or an individual, you can have hope. I desire to walk alongside you in your struggles and help you to forge a new path. Sometimes all it takes is a listening ear; sometimes it takes long, hard work. But you have the choice-to step out in courage and to start writing a new story.
(616) 965-2816 View (616) 965-2816
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Hailey Yatros
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Grand Rapids, MI 49503
Through a combination of emotionally focused therapy and Internal Family systems, we will do our best to get to the root cause of your conflict and explore the power that lies within your internal world, having the potential of changing your life.
Are you searching for relief, hope, clarity, or a sense of direction? Finding the right therapist with whom you feel comfortable and connect with can be nerve-racking. Will they understand me? Are we the best fit? Is therapy worth my time? These are valid questions! My goal is to make this experience as smooth as possible for you. Whether you are looking for couple, individual, or family therapy, going at your own rhythm, pace, and comfort will guide us when working together. Bring your pain, struggle, anxiety, and stress, we will explore it together.
Through a combination of emotionally focused therapy and Internal Family systems, we will do our best to get to the root cause of your conflict and explore the power that lies within your internal world, having the potential of changing your life.
Are you searching for relief, hope, clarity, or a sense of direction? Finding the right therapist with whom you feel comfortable and connect with can be nerve-racking. Will they understand me? Are we the best fit? Is therapy worth my time? These are valid questions! My goal is to make this experience as smooth as possible for you. Whether you are looking for couple, individual, or family therapy, going at your own rhythm, pace, and comfort will guide us when working together. Bring your pain, struggle, anxiety, and stress, we will explore it together.
(616) 947-3302 View (616) 947-3302
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Melanie Tramper
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, IMH-E
Verified Verified
Grand Rapids, MI 49505
My therapy style is heavily influenced by attachment-based and emotionally focused therapy.
Depression and anxiety can feel like a heavy fog that won't lift. I am here to walk with you through the fog, helping you to find clarity and relief from emotional pain. I offer a safe and supportive therapeutic environment that respects your emotional journey, helps you to feel more authentically yourself, and releases you from the fog of depression and anxiety.
My therapy style is heavily influenced by attachment-based and emotionally focused therapy.
Depression and anxiety can feel like a heavy fog that won't lift. I am here to walk with you through the fog, helping you to find clarity and relief from emotional pain. I offer a safe and supportive therapeutic environment that respects your emotional journey, helps you to feel more authentically yourself, and releases you from the fog of depression and anxiety.
(616) 303-7524 View (616) 303-7524
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Samantha Kingma
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Grand Rapids, MI 49506  (Online Only)
I am trained in EFT and EMDR, as well as ERP, ACT, and CBT.
Feeling like you can't enjoy the present moment because you are stuck in your head? Lying awake at night going back through all the things you said today (or last year, or 10 years ago)? Maybe you've created multiple to-do lists and come up with plans and systems to make life easier - yet something is still keeping you stuck. Anxiety, OCD, perfectionism, and burnout can significantly impact the way your brain handles the stresses of day-to-day life. But there is hope – you don’t have to stay stuck. I'd love to talk to you about how you can begin to feel like yourself again.
I am trained in EFT and EMDR, as well as ERP, ACT, and CBT.
Feeling like you can't enjoy the present moment because you are stuck in your head? Lying awake at night going back through all the things you said today (or last year, or 10 years ago)? Maybe you've created multiple to-do lists and come up with plans and systems to make life easier - yet something is still keeping you stuck. Anxiety, OCD, perfectionism, and burnout can significantly impact the way your brain handles the stresses of day-to-day life. But there is hope – you don’t have to stay stuck. I'd love to talk to you about how you can begin to feel like yourself again.
(520) 224-9545 View (520) 224-9545
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Justyne Ortquist
Counselor, MS, MEd, LLPC
Verified Verified
Grand Rapids, MI 49546
Are you having difficulties in your relationship? Does it ever feel like you and your partner are speaking in two different languages? I offer Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy, which is designed to help you, your partner, and even your family members, align to face the difficulties of life, instead of being at odds. Whether you come with those closest to you or by yourself, I can help you learn to transform your relationships. All of us have wounds from our past and difficulties in our lives that we bring into relationships. Many of our behaviors are attempts to deal with what is going on in life and respond with resilience.
Are you having difficulties in your relationship? Does it ever feel like you and your partner are speaking in two different languages? I offer Emotionally Focused Couple Therapy, which is designed to help you, your partner, and even your family members, align to face the difficulties of life, instead of being at odds. Whether you come with those closest to you or by yourself, I can help you learn to transform your relationships. All of us have wounds from our past and difficulties in our lives that we bring into relationships. Many of our behaviors are attempts to deal with what is going on in life and respond with resilience.
(616) 504-2368 View (616) 504-2368

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Emotionally Focused Therapists

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.