Infidelity Therapists in Longmont, CO

I have over 35 years of experience helping individuals and couples with their personal growth and have enjoyed every minute of it! After receiving my PhD in Clinical Psychology, I went on to receive certification in Stress management, Biofeedback therapy, Emotional Trauma and PTSD, Mind-Body Medicine, EMDR therapy, Brainspotting, Bereavement Therapy, and Couples therapy. As a Certified Biofeedback Therapist, I treat all stress related illness with very good results.

I am on maternity leave from January 1st - April 30th, 2024 and will not be accepting new clients until May 2024.

I am a trauma-informed, gender-affirming therapist working with people from a wide variety of backgrounds and experiences including childhood sexual abuse, divorce, grief, and other delicate places where life and beliefs often collide. My integrative approach to therapy promotes healing, wholeness, and lasting change. I practice primarily from a psychodynamic perspective, which means that we will focus on your present concerns while seeking to understand the importance of the past. My areas of expertise include life transition, grief/loss, sexuality, gender identity, faith, and spirituality.

As your therapist I will work hard to provide you with the tools to overcome obstacles and reach your personal goals. Unlocking your potential will be our primary aim along with developing an awareness of how we create our own blocks. You will also work towards becoming more yourself as strange as that may sound! This involves getting in touch with your own psyche to discover, or rediscover, what makes you tick. It can be an incredibly rewarding process.

We are always, already in relationship. Whether it is a relationship to another person, place, or oneself, we are in some way connected to and affected by our surroundings. It's in relationship that our deepest hurt can take place, and it's also in relationship that our most profound and liberating healing can occur. Let's utilize relationship- yours and mine, other relationships in your life (partner or friends), and the greater context of society, and nature to illuminate your unconscious patterning, and support you in finding new, intentional ways of being that bring you greater joy, clarity, and wellbeing.

Do you feel overwhelmed, unhappy, or anxious? Are you grieving a loss or struggling with infertility? Maybe you are struggling with food, disordered eating or a negative body image. Are you looking to improve your relationships so you feel more at ease and satisfied in your life? Perhaps you are experiencing health issues that are impacting how you feel about yourself. Life can be difficult and sometimes we need someone outside our circle to listen, understand and support us through these challenges. If you are looking to make a change, I would be honored to assist you along your journey.

Do you find yourself overwhelmed with shifts in your world? Have you recently had a life and or medical change that you would like to navigate? Are there parts of your past that are affecting your everyday life such as emotional and or sexual abuse? Are you having more arguments than you would like? Are you feeling dissatisfied within your sex life? Are you experiencing hardship and frustration surrounding child rearing? While not an exhaustive list, I believe that there is no problem that therapy can not address. I am here for you!

For 30 years, I have helped clients overcome depression, anxiety, anger, stress, relationship conflicts, ADD, addictions, workplace, and motivation problems. I am a very interactive, direct (often with humor) and solution focused therapist who challenges clients to instigate the change they want to see. I help clients develop skills in approaching discomfort rather than avoiding. Using cognitive strategies, I can help you change negative thinking to positive. I help clients express their healthiest emotions rather than using emotions to defend or manipulate. I encourage exercise and mindfulness for optimal living.

You may be struggling with common mental health issues such as anxiety, depression, trauma, or relationship difficulties. Or you could potentially be dealing with existential questions, identity crises, or issues related to personal growth & self-discovery. You want to feel better and live a more fulfilling life. You seek to understand yourself better, resolve your inner conflicts, and overcome the obstacles that are holding you back while cultivating a healthier relationship to self & others. You want pursue your goals with confidence & purpose and you'e willing to utilize therapy as a powerful tool to help you attain these goals.

Hola! My name is Erandi. I identify as a multiracial, bilingual (Spanish-English) cisgender female. I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and work towards supporting individuals, youth and their families find their voice, heal, and repair relationships. Additionally, I provide services that uplift and empower my Spanish-speaking and BIPOC communities. As your therapist, we will work collaboratively to build trust and safety in our relationship, which will serve as a foundation for deep healing work. My approach is generally informal, direct, and transparent in hopes of demystifying the therapeutic process.

Are you feeling overwhelmed, lonely, helpless, anxious or sad? Do you find it difficult to connect with friends, family and loved ones? These are common challenges that many of us face and you are not alone. My training and education have equipped me with a range of therapeutic techniques and approaches, including EMDR, Flash Technique, IFS, CBT, DBT, and mindfulness-based therapy. I believe that everyone is capable of growth, change and healing, and I am here to support you every step of the way. Together, we can work to rewire your nervous system and restore balance, peace, and happiness to your life.

I specialize in EFT and trauma therapy for couples, families and individuals. I am a Certified Emotionally Focused Therapist (EFT) and Supervisor. I also work with Janina Fisher's model of trauma treatment which is a blend of modalities including IFS and sensorimotor psychotherapy. I have been certified in EMDR and Brainspotting and use them for emotionally charged issues, stuck patterns and trauma. I love working with couples to create lasting change that touches the heart of the person and the relationship. See my website for more information: nicolpate.com

Life can be full of challenges that can make you anxious and depressed. No matter what kind of distress you are experiencing, seeking support can help you get back on your feet and thrive in ways you never thought possible. I help my clients gain insight into their emotional lives and relationships. Together, we can work on your goals at your pace so that you can feel confident in yourself and your coping abilities in time. I look forward to working with you; book a free consultation to see if we could be a good fit for each other!

Are you seeking therapy for symptoms of anxiety, depression, overwhelm, PTSD, relationship difficulties, or feelings of being stuck or run down? Do you feel unsure how to grow, heal or make a significant transition in your life? Counseling with me involves addressing these concerns by identifying your goals and taking steps to achieve them. We collaborate towards health and together address what isn't working or is causing distress so that you may experience more freedom, satisfaction, resilience, and ease in your life.

Drawing from practices in innovation, positive psychology, and behavioral science, I’ve developed simple yet powerful techniques to help people change and grow. I’m the creator of the Stanford University class “Do It Anyway! Creating a life of passionate action” and the author of the book “Fail Fast, Fail Often: how losing can help you win”, an Oprah editor's choice selection. My work has been featured in the New York Times, NPR, and The Atlantic. As a therapist, I’m compassionate, warm and practical. I enjoy taking the time to understand and appreciate my clients, while empowering them with modern tools to promote rapid change.

Dr. Sara Lewis is Associate Professor and Chair of Contemplative Psychotherapy and Buddhist Psychology, and Faculty Co-Director for Psychedelic Studies at Naropa University.

You are not the only one! Life can feel harder than you thought it would be, in marriage or in your own body and self. Whether you newly notice something isn't working or you're battle weary from trying to change, it's never too late to try something new! Effective therapy searches out the actual root of your problems, the "what's underneath." Your past experiences matter. With this insight we look for those coping mechanisms that have kept you captive in unhealthy patterns, and begin the process of growth. It's amazing how much healing can come from deeply understanding yourself better and truly coming to like what you find.

Are you stuck in the same pattern of conflict and old wounds that leave you feeling anxious, depressed, and disconnected? Are you looking to heal with your partner or family members? Has your relationship been pushed to the back burner during major life transitions? I work with couples, adolescent and adult individuals, and families looking to create or re-establish better connections with themselves and each other. I support clients in acknowledging, valuing, and working with the parts of you and your loved ones that are often perceived of as painful and in need of “fixing”.

I specialize in using mindfulness-based approaches to treat clients struggling with general & social anxiety; depression; identity development; authentic self-expression & embodiment; coping with life transitions; identifying best choices for life path & finding one's purpose; integrating psychedelic or spiritual experiences; boundary setting; & communicating effectively in relationship. My approach to therapy focuses on empowering clients by to direct their life's course with confidence & know-how, providing skills for successful emotional regulation & creating therapeutic opportunities for developing self-knowledge & inner-wisdom.