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Alisha Ost
Counselor, MS Ed, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Geneseo, NY 14454  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Are you looking for a safe and supportive place to explore possibilities for change, growth, and healing in your life or in a relationship? Whether you're struggling to make sense of traumatic life experiences, navigating relationship, family, or parenting concerns, or simply want to improve your ability to prioritize and manage your own mental health and well-being, I'm here to help. Together, we will work to build a trusting and authentic relationship where you will feel validated, supported, and empowered as you work toward your counseling goals.
Are you looking for a safe and supportive place to explore possibilities for change, growth, and healing in your life or in a relationship? Whether you're struggling to make sense of traumatic life experiences, navigating relationship, family, or parenting concerns, or simply want to improve your ability to prioritize and manage your own mental health and well-being, I'm here to help. Together, we will work to build a trusting and authentic relationship where you will feel validated, supported, and empowered as you work toward your counseling goals.
(607) 600-9345 View (607) 600-9345
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Jill E Woodruff
Art Therapist, MS, LCAT, ATR-BC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Honeoye, NY 14471
I have experience working with adults, children, couples, families and groups and treating a variety of diagnoses including anxiety, depression, sleep disorders, ADHD, PTSD, grief, eating disorders, OCD, self injury, mood disorders, personality disorders, and substance abuse. I often use mindfulness techniques, creative arts therapy, DBT and CBT to help clients find balance and joy.
I have experience working with adults, children, couples, families and groups and treating a variety of diagnoses including anxiety, depression, sleep disorders, ADHD, PTSD, grief, eating disorders, OCD, self injury, mood disorders, personality disorders, and substance abuse. I often use mindfulness techniques, creative arts therapy, DBT and CBT to help clients find balance and joy.
(585) 580-2597 View (585) 580-2597
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Cindy Griffing
Counselor, LMHC, MSEd, NCC
Verified Verified
Geneseo, NY 14454
People seek counseling for many different reasons. Often it is a desire for a better, more meaningful and peaceful life. I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with many years experience helping adults, adolescents, children, and families with a wide range of needs, including behavioral issues, emotional difficulties, relationship struggles, trauma, PTSD, substance abuse, etc. I have found a variety of therapeutic techniques integrated in a creative and flexible manner to be the most effective at facilitating growth.I have great respect for the counseling process and consider working with my clients an important privilege.
People seek counseling for many different reasons. Often it is a desire for a better, more meaningful and peaceful life. I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with many years experience helping adults, adolescents, children, and families with a wide range of needs, including behavioral issues, emotional difficulties, relationship struggles, trauma, PTSD, substance abuse, etc. I have found a variety of therapeutic techniques integrated in a creative and flexible manner to be the most effective at facilitating growth.I have great respect for the counseling process and consider working with my clients an important privilege.
(585) 542-5726 View (585) 542-5726
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Calm Connections Counseling
Counselor, LMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Geneseo, NY 14454
GRIEF: A natural response after a loved one dies, family separates, job loss/change, a newly blended family, retirement, caregiving for someone you love, dealing with a difficult diagnosis, an unexpected change or losing a beloved pet. I help clients to learn about the waves of grief and develop a path towards healing.
GRIEF: A natural response after a loved one dies, family separates, job loss/change, a newly blended family, retirement, caregiving for someone you love, dealing with a difficult diagnosis, an unexpected change or losing a beloved pet. I help clients to learn about the waves of grief and develop a path towards healing.
(585) 302-2732 View (585) 302-2732
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Gene Griffing
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Geneseo, NY 14454
Many people appear to be confident, when in reality they feel as though they can barely keep it together. Sometimes, the challenge may seem more than anyone can handle. If you inwardly feel overwhelmed or trapped in your life, counseling could help. People often get stuck in patterns that restrict growth or their ability to see new perspectives. Effective counseling can help you gain insight and control over obstacles that prevent you from living a full life. Therapy requires courage, an open mind, and a need to do more than survive; it requires a desire to thrive.
Many people appear to be confident, when in reality they feel as though they can barely keep it together. Sometimes, the challenge may seem more than anyone can handle. If you inwardly feel overwhelmed or trapped in your life, counseling could help. People often get stuck in patterns that restrict growth or their ability to see new perspectives. Effective counseling can help you gain insight and control over obstacles that prevent you from living a full life. Therapy requires courage, an open mind, and a need to do more than survive; it requires a desire to thrive.
(585) 412-2540 View (585) 412-2540
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Laurie Walker
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Avon, NY 14414
I offer informed therapy for people emerging or waking up from high demand groups and coercive relationships of all kinds. You will not spend months teaching your therapist about the way coercive groups promote isolation and fear. We can deal with the long-term effects of religious, cult or domestic violence indoctrination in how we think about the world and about ourselves.
I offer informed therapy for people emerging or waking up from high demand groups and coercive relationships of all kinds. You will not spend months teaching your therapist about the way coercive groups promote isolation and fear. We can deal with the long-term effects of religious, cult or domestic violence indoctrination in how we think about the world and about ourselves.
(585) 229-7083 View (585) 229-7083
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Pamela J Harwood
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, ATR
Verified Verified
Avon, NY 14414
All people and families strive for happiness and loving connectedness. All of us have an innate capacity to heal. As a Child & Family Therapist and Art Therapist, I assist children and families in healing, enhancing growth, family cohesiveness, and increasing the family's ability to weather life's stressors. Through the use of cognitive behavioral techniques, art therapy and play therapy techniques, family members are able to expand their capacity for healing, and happiness. I see children ages 3 to 18 years of age, families, and adults. My work has been described as engaging, playful, interactive, humorous, and gentle.
All people and families strive for happiness and loving connectedness. All of us have an innate capacity to heal. As a Child & Family Therapist and Art Therapist, I assist children and families in healing, enhancing growth, family cohesiveness, and increasing the family's ability to weather life's stressors. Through the use of cognitive behavioral techniques, art therapy and play therapy techniques, family members are able to expand their capacity for healing, and happiness. I see children ages 3 to 18 years of age, families, and adults. My work has been described as engaging, playful, interactive, humorous, and gentle.
(585) 770-7215 View (585) 770-7215
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Lauren Ayres
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Livonia, NY 14487
Not accepting new clients
I enjoy working with people to help them find solutions and acceptance in their lives while working through grief, depression, anxiety, trauma, relational issues, and struggles with faith. My hope is that as we work together, you will find solutions to problems, healing for your mind, body, and emotions, and answers to questions for which you have been seeking. Whether or not you are a person of faith, life can be complex and having an outside perspective and tools based in truth can be helpful to most. I would be honored in helping you in your journey.
I enjoy working with people to help them find solutions and acceptance in their lives while working through grief, depression, anxiety, trauma, relational issues, and struggles with faith. My hope is that as we work together, you will find solutions to problems, healing for your mind, body, and emotions, and answers to questions for which you have been seeking. Whether or not you are a person of faith, life can be complex and having an outside perspective and tools based in truth can be helpful to most. I would be honored in helping you in your journey.
(585) 326-8592 View (585) 326-8592

Online Therapists

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Danielle Matias
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Buffalo, NY 14222
We work with depression, anxiety, bipolar, PTSD, eating disorders, bereavement, borderline, autism, ADHD, addiction, sexual abuse, DV, medical illnesses, relationship problems, LGTBQ+, adjustment disorders and forensic cases.
Footprints was started by a therapist who realized that often times the services provided to low socio-economic communities is lacking quality care. We noticed these communities were confronted with long wait times, disrespectful admins, and subpar treatment. The one and only purpose was to exploit the community for profit without providing the level of care deserved. Feel Better Therapy began from the inspiration to provide quality mental health care to the poorest of communities and treating the clients of this community the same way a rich patient would be treated in a clinic treating affluent clients.
We work with depression, anxiety, bipolar, PTSD, eating disorders, bereavement, borderline, autism, ADHD, addiction, sexual abuse, DV, medical illnesses, relationship problems, LGTBQ+, adjustment disorders and forensic cases.
Footprints was started by a therapist who realized that often times the services provided to low socio-economic communities is lacking quality care. We noticed these communities were confronted with long wait times, disrespectful admins, and subpar treatment. The one and only purpose was to exploit the community for profit without providing the level of care deserved. Feel Better Therapy began from the inspiration to provide quality mental health care to the poorest of communities and treating the clients of this community the same way a rich patient would be treated in a clinic treating affluent clients.
(646) 204-2295 View (646) 204-2295
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Stephanie G Hall
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
West Seneca, NY 14224
Waitlist for new clients
I feel confident working with Borderline Personality disorder as well as children's issues such as reactive attachment disorder , and oppositional defiance disorder.
Hello! My name is Stephanie. I am an LMSW and psychotherapist with experiences working with mental health and substance use. I approach therapy from a holistic mind/ body perspective. I utilize evidenced based practices such as; Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing Therapy (EMDR), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), as well as attachment/ abandonment recovery therapies (and several other modalities listed below). I am additionally a level (2) reiki practitioner, and offer reiki services for ongoing healing and relaxation.
I feel confident working with Borderline Personality disorder as well as children's issues such as reactive attachment disorder , and oppositional defiance disorder.
Hello! My name is Stephanie. I am an LMSW and psychotherapist with experiences working with mental health and substance use. I approach therapy from a holistic mind/ body perspective. I utilize evidenced based practices such as; Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing Therapy (EMDR), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), as well as attachment/ abandonment recovery therapies (and several other modalities listed below). I am additionally a level (2) reiki practitioner, and offer reiki services for ongoing healing and relaxation.
(716) 321-5769 x15 View (716) 321-5769 x15
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Deborah Legge
Counselor, PhD, CRC, LMHC
Verified Verified
9 Endorsed
Williamsville, NY 14221
My areas of expertise include: trauma, PtSD and complex PtSD, chronic depression and/or anxiety, panic, and Borderline Personality Disorder.
I help adults who are really struggling with anxiety, depression, relationship problems, grief, and difficult situations. I'll help you tap into your inner strength and personal power so you can make the changes needed to feel better and create a more fulfilling life. We'll work with your thoughts and behaviors, and use mindfulness skills for symptom management of your anxiety and/or depression.
My areas of expertise include: trauma, PtSD and complex PtSD, chronic depression and/or anxiety, panic, and Borderline Personality Disorder.
I help adults who are really struggling with anxiety, depression, relationship problems, grief, and difficult situations. I'll help you tap into your inner strength and personal power so you can make the changes needed to feel better and create a more fulfilling life. We'll work with your thoughts and behaviors, and use mindfulness skills for symptom management of your anxiety and/or depression.
(716) 748-7276 x406 View (716) 748-7276 x406
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Jessica Lehsten
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Buffalo, NY 14223
I specialize in treatment of PTSD, mood disorders, addictions, and borderline personality disorder.
Growth is uncomfortable but so is staying the same. It’s hard to know where to start when it comes to improving your mental wellbeing. Together we will navigate your healing journey as you develop a greater sense of peace in your life.
I specialize in treatment of PTSD, mood disorders, addictions, and borderline personality disorder.
Growth is uncomfortable but so is staying the same. It’s hard to know where to start when it comes to improving your mental wellbeing. Together we will navigate your healing journey as you develop a greater sense of peace in your life.
(716) 451-3823 View (716) 451-3823
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Belinda A Emerson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Wellsville, NY 14895
Taking new clients for telehealth and in office. With a focus on mental health and disabilities, I have supported individuals with autism, traumatic brain injury, anger issues, trauma background, borderline personality disorder, anxiety/depression and self-esteem issues. My approach is individual to each person, depending on what you want/need from your sessions. Clients can expect a confidential, non-judgmental and safe environment to work through challenges.
Taking new clients for telehealth and in office. With a focus on mental health and disabilities, I have supported individuals with autism, traumatic brain injury, anger issues, trauma background, borderline personality disorder, anxiety/depression and self-esteem issues. My approach is individual to each person, depending on what you want/need from your sessions. Clients can expect a confidential, non-judgmental and safe environment to work through challenges.
(585) 522-1261 View (585) 522-1261
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Kodie Sears
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Rochester, NY 14607
Are you finding yourself in a pattern of repetitive behaviors that often interfere with your relationships/self-esteem? This may look like: relationships characterized by high conflict or codependency; periods of intense self-shaming/negative self-talk; emotional reactivity; or may show up as self-harming behaviors. If you are looking to receive non-judgmental care focused on building self-esteem and improving emotional regulation, you are in the right place! I have experience working specifically with young adults 18-35, the LGBTQ+ community and those diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder or PTSD.
Are you finding yourself in a pattern of repetitive behaviors that often interfere with your relationships/self-esteem? This may look like: relationships characterized by high conflict or codependency; periods of intense self-shaming/negative self-talk; emotional reactivity; or may show up as self-harming behaviors. If you are looking to receive non-judgmental care focused on building self-esteem and improving emotional regulation, you are in the right place! I have experience working specifically with young adults 18-35, the LGBTQ+ community and those diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder or PTSD.
(585) 632-6861 View (585) 632-6861
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SPARK Counseling
Counselor, LMHC, CCTS-I
Verified Verified
West Seneca, NY 14224  (Online Only)
I specialize in treating BPD, anxiety, depression, & acute, chronic, and complex traumas.
I believe that the vehicle of healing is the relationship between the client and the therapist. As a therapist, I strive to be the spark that lights the fire for change & growth within you, occupying the passenger seat while you bravely navigate the vehicle along that path of healing and wellness, helping to empower you, motivate you, support you, and assist you in tearing down any roadblocks that may come your way.
I specialize in treating BPD, anxiety, depression, & acute, chronic, and complex traumas.
I believe that the vehicle of healing is the relationship between the client and the therapist. As a therapist, I strive to be the spark that lights the fire for change & growth within you, occupying the passenger seat while you bravely navigate the vehicle along that path of healing and wellness, helping to empower you, motivate you, support you, and assist you in tearing down any roadblocks that may come your way.
(716) 929-6106 View (716) 929-6106
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Gabriel Hoff
LPMHC
Verified Verified
Ithaca, NY 14850
I’m passionate about helping to heal from trauma, grief and loss, anxiety, depression, and other challenges. I'm also interested in identity issues - “who am I in the face of this?” - such as those coming from life transitions, realizations about sexual orientation, severe addiction, spirituality or religion, being in a relationship with an addicted or narcissistic person, or from having a long-term diagnosis like ADHD or Borderline Personality Disorder. I work with teens, young adults, middle aged and elders; couples, families, and individuals.
I’m passionate about helping to heal from trauma, grief and loss, anxiety, depression, and other challenges. I'm also interested in identity issues - “who am I in the face of this?” - such as those coming from life transitions, realizations about sexual orientation, severe addiction, spirituality or religion, being in a relationship with an addicted or narcissistic person, or from having a long-term diagnosis like ADHD or Borderline Personality Disorder. I work with teens, young adults, middle aged and elders; couples, families, and individuals.
(607) 703-3780 View (607) 703-3780
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Meaghan Jewett
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
East Amherst, NY 14051
My experience in the field also includes working with individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), self-harm, suicidal thoughts, depression, anxiety, and other mental health concerns.
I am so glad you are here! It’s often the most caring people who forget to care for themselves. Allowing yourself the time and space to attend to your needs is one of the greatest acts of love you can do for yourself and those in your life. I would love the opportunity to be a part of your journey as I have extensive experience working with young adults from many different backgrounds. My goal in our work together is to provide a safe, trauma-informed, and social justice-aligned space.
My experience in the field also includes working with individuals with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD), self-harm, suicidal thoughts, depression, anxiety, and other mental health concerns.
I am so glad you are here! It’s often the most caring people who forget to care for themselves. Allowing yourself the time and space to attend to your needs is one of the greatest acts of love you can do for yourself and those in your life. I would love the opportunity to be a part of your journey as I have extensive experience working with young adults from many different backgrounds. My goal in our work together is to provide a safe, trauma-informed, and social justice-aligned space.
(716) 455-2804 View (716) 455-2804
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Brynn Werme
Counselor, LMHC, CASAC-T
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Baldwinsville, NY 13027  (Online Only)
I have been in the field since 2019 and have experience working with adolescents, adults and families. Experienced working with individuals with a variety of diagnoses, including but not limited to: anxiety disorders, depression, borderline personality disorder, post traumatic stress, and adhd.
I have been in the field since 2019 and have experience working with adolescents, adults and families. Experienced working with individuals with a variety of diagnoses, including but not limited to: anxiety disorders, depression, borderline personality disorder, post traumatic stress, and adhd.
(315) 712-3697 View (315) 712-3697
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Jody Mykins
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Penfield, NY 14526
I have experience with individuals seeking recovery from both chemical and sexual addictions, as well as individuals with complex trauma, borderline personality disorder, anxiety and depression.
Mental Health Counseling is a second career for me, and I believe it is what I am meant to do. I focus of guiding individuals with mental health concerns through their journey of recovery and self discovery. I provide a safe space to begin to process the issues clients are confronting I believe that each person and coordinate the individuals process based on their goals and needs.
I have experience with individuals seeking recovery from both chemical and sexual addictions, as well as individuals with complex trauma, borderline personality disorder, anxiety and depression.
Mental Health Counseling is a second career for me, and I believe it is what I am meant to do. I focus of guiding individuals with mental health concerns through their journey of recovery and self discovery. I provide a safe space to begin to process the issues clients are confronting I believe that each person and coordinate the individuals process based on their goals and needs.
(585) 460-4828 x1 View (585) 460-4828 x1
Photo of Sam Vaughn, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Lakeville, NY
Sam Vaughn
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Buffalo, NY 14202
Are you struggling with anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, BPD, suicidal ideation or have been a victim of domestic violence? I have experience coordinating crisis interventions and employing Dialectical Behavior Therapy with patients who harm others or themselves, and particularly those who have experienced violence within their family network. I believe that the behaviors we display are part of a larger function, and collectively comprise the larger tapestry of the human experience, while also acknowledging the uniqueness to each human as they make their way through life.
Are you struggling with anxiety, depression, bipolar disorder, BPD, suicidal ideation or have been a victim of domestic violence? I have experience coordinating crisis interventions and employing Dialectical Behavior Therapy with patients who harm others or themselves, and particularly those who have experienced violence within their family network. I believe that the behaviors we display are part of a larger function, and collectively comprise the larger tapestry of the human experience, while also acknowledging the uniqueness to each human as they make their way through life.
(914) 685-8854 View (914) 685-8854
Borderline Personality (BPD) Therapists

What is the most successful approach to treating borderline personality disorder?

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is considered the gold standard of treatment for borderline personality disorder. An evidence-based treatment, it addresses the extreme emotional reactivity, the relationship difficulties, and the acts of self-harm that create so much distress for BPD patients. DBT is a comprehensive program that includes both regular individual psychotherapy sessions and weekly group sessions of skills training.

What happens in treatment of borderline personality disorder?

Treatment typically consists of weekly individual therapy sessions that last an hour and group skill-focused instructional sessions that may last up to two hours. Patients are typically given homework “assignments” in which they are asked to practice in their daily life the skills they acquire in therapy. Patients also keep a diary tracking their emotions and impulses as a way to know which situations are most problematic and to help them gain control over their own behavior. Difficult situations and feelings are typically reviewed in therapy sessions and more constructive solutions found.

What kinds of problems does BPD treatment help with?

DBT was initially developed to dampen the self-destructive impulses of chronically suicidal patients. It is now the treatment of choice for borderline personality disorder, a serious condition marked by extreme emotional reactivity, relationship instability, and self-injurious behaviors. Treatment of BPD helps patients tolerate the flux of emotions without acting on them, often with a specific focus on tolerating negative emotions. DBT addresses the core problems of BPD—fear of abandonment, low self-esteem, and impulsivity.

What is the goal of treatment in borderline personality disorder?

The goal of treatment for borderline personality disorder (BPD) is to relieve the extreme emotional distress that patients experience—to curb their emotional reactivity, to minimize their inclination to self-harm, and to reduce their impulsivity. Toward these ends, patients are not only taught an array of new coping skills and techniques for emotional regulation, they are given opportunities to practice them. Another major goal of treatment is interpersonal effectiveness; patients learn and problem-solve ways to effectively communicate in relationships, especially how to ask for what they need as a way to minimize hurt feelings.