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Mark Bell
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, CSAT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Mesa, AZ 85209
Sexual addiction is a complex addiction but there is hope! As a trained Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), I have completed training which required attendance at multiple training modules, supervision with a CSAT Supervisor, and ongoing education so that CSATs such as myself are experts in providing sexual addiction therapy.
As a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist I have helped couples and families work through various relational & emotional intimacy challenges. I am also a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist. I work significantly with males struggling with sexually compulsive behaviors along with the spouses, partners, families and others impacted by their unhealthy and/or problematic choices. I have been described as a 'Perspectivist Therapist' due to my clear, honest, open, respectful and direct ability to help people gain perspective about their problems, increase hopeful belief for their future and establish realistic expectations.
Sexual addiction is a complex addiction but there is hope! As a trained Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT), I have completed training which required attendance at multiple training modules, supervision with a CSAT Supervisor, and ongoing education so that CSATs such as myself are experts in providing sexual addiction therapy.
As a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist I have helped couples and families work through various relational & emotional intimacy challenges. I am also a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist. I work significantly with males struggling with sexually compulsive behaviors along with the spouses, partners, families and others impacted by their unhealthy and/or problematic choices. I have been described as a 'Perspectivist Therapist' due to my clear, honest, open, respectful and direct ability to help people gain perspective about their problems, increase hopeful belief for their future and establish realistic expectations.
(480) 400-0711 View (480) 400-0711
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Dan Oakes
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC, CSAT
Verified Verified
9 Endorsed
Mesa, AZ 85206
I have specialized training in sexual addiction and sexual abuse.
My years of clinical practice have helped me to understand the value of an individual. Most people have the resources they need to manage the challenges they have, but they sometimes struggle to see the resources that are available to them. I use a solution focused, non judgmental, approach to help individuals resolve major life issues like addiction, depression, anxiety, and family and relational conflict. Individuals and couples can find affective attunement with themselves, their spouse, and their children, as they learn to strengthen who they are as individuals and become clearer about their own emotional regulation.
I have specialized training in sexual addiction and sexual abuse.
My years of clinical practice have helped me to understand the value of an individual. Most people have the resources they need to manage the challenges they have, but they sometimes struggle to see the resources that are available to them. I use a solution focused, non judgmental, approach to help individuals resolve major life issues like addiction, depression, anxiety, and family and relational conflict. Individuals and couples can find affective attunement with themselves, their spouse, and their children, as they learn to strengthen who they are as individuals and become clearer about their own emotional regulation.
(480) 409-2289 View (480) 409-2289
Family Strategies Counseling Center
Licensed Professional Counselor
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Mesa, AZ 85210
We provide a variety of specialties at our agency among our 24 therapists. Programming for pornography and sexual addiction (adults, couples and teens), betrayal trauma, marriage therapy, parenting, anxiety, depression, self-esteem, suicide prevention, trauma, self-harm and other mental health concerns. We treat children, youth and adults. Our counselors have specialized training and expertise in their specific areas of emphasis. We also work closely with HOPE foundation to help clients who need financial support for therapeutic services.
We provide a variety of specialties at our agency among our 24 therapists. Programming for pornography and sexual addiction (adults, couples and teens), betrayal trauma, marriage therapy, parenting, anxiety, depression, self-esteem, suicide prevention, trauma, self-harm and other mental health concerns. We treat children, youth and adults. Our counselors have specialized training and expertise in their specific areas of emphasis. We also work closely with HOPE foundation to help clients who need financial support for therapeutic services.
(480) 666-9041 View (480) 666-9041
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Eric Schultz
Pre-Licensed Professional, MS, MFT, CSAT-C
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Mesa, AZ 85210
I specialize in marriage and family therapy, which includes family and marriage counseling, divorce care, re-marriage, blended family issues, sexual addiction and compulsion, and general mental health.
Through a comprehensive approach, I work with families, couples, and individuals to create safety and security in their relationships. Having the privilege to come alongside this population has increased my passion for working with both adults and children in regard to abuse, shame, and freedom from their respective pasts.
I specialize in marriage and family therapy, which includes family and marriage counseling, divorce care, re-marriage, blended family issues, sexual addiction and compulsion, and general mental health.
Through a comprehensive approach, I work with families, couples, and individuals to create safety and security in their relationships. Having the privilege to come alongside this population has increased my passion for working with both adults and children in regard to abuse, shame, and freedom from their respective pasts.
(623) 428-0204 View (623) 428-0204
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Clark Lee
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, CSAT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Mesa, AZ 85206
Hello I'm Clark Lee owner of S.O.L.E. "survivors of life experience" Counseling. I have a passion for the work I do. I'm a certified sexual addiction therapist and also trained in betrayal trauma healing. We work with individuals and couples in experiencing healing and wholeness through this essential work. We provide clients with an atmosphere of support and safety in their journey toward healing and finding their true self. I have worked at The Meadows, a world-renowned inpatient treatment facility, assisting clients with their sexual addiction and betrayal trauma.
Hello I'm Clark Lee owner of S.O.L.E. "survivors of life experience" Counseling. I have a passion for the work I do. I'm a certified sexual addiction therapist and also trained in betrayal trauma healing. We work with individuals and couples in experiencing healing and wholeness through this essential work. We provide clients with an atmosphere of support and safety in their journey toward healing and finding their true self. I have worked at The Meadows, a world-renowned inpatient treatment facility, assisting clients with their sexual addiction and betrayal trauma.
(480) 906-4089 View (480) 906-4089
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SOLE Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, CSAT
Verified Verified
Mesa, AZ 85206
I have a passion for the work I do. I'm a certified sexual addiction therapist and also trained in betrayal trauma healing. We work with individuals and couples in experiencing healing and wholeness through this essential work. We provide clients with an atmosphere of support and safety in their journey toward healing and finding their true self. I have worked at The Meadows, a world-renowned inpatient treatment facility, assisting clients with their sexual addiction and betrayal trauma. "A person who never learned to trust, confuses intensity with intimacy......" Patrick Carnes
I have a passion for the work I do. I'm a certified sexual addiction therapist and also trained in betrayal trauma healing. We work with individuals and couples in experiencing healing and wholeness through this essential work. We provide clients with an atmosphere of support and safety in their journey toward healing and finding their true self. I have worked at The Meadows, a world-renowned inpatient treatment facility, assisting clients with their sexual addiction and betrayal trauma. "A person who never learned to trust, confuses intensity with intimacy......" Patrick Carnes
(480) 470-9504 View (480) 470-9504
Photo of Joel Downs, Licensed Professional Counselor in Mesa, AZ
Joel Downs
Licensed Professional Counselor, CMHC, MRC
Verified Verified
Mesa, AZ 85201  (Online Only)
Have you been struggling with the same problems, thoughts, or feelings for weeks, months, or even years and can't seem to get them under control? Are your intimate, social, and work relationships being affected by the reoccurring problems and thoughts? It's very frustrating when your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors are not in line with your values and who you want to be. You know that if you could just learn to let go of the past and focus on the present, then your life and relationships will improve; but you just don't know how. Is there hope?
Have you been struggling with the same problems, thoughts, or feelings for weeks, months, or even years and can't seem to get them under control? Are your intimate, social, and work relationships being affected by the reoccurring problems and thoughts? It's very frustrating when your thoughts, emotions, and behaviors are not in line with your values and who you want to be. You know that if you could just learn to let go of the past and focus on the present, then your life and relationships will improve; but you just don't know how. Is there hope?
(480) 300-5823 View (480) 300-5823
Photo of Dr. Everett Bailey, Marriage & Family Therapist in Mesa, AZ
Dr. Everett Bailey
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD
Verified Verified
16 Endorsed
Mesa, AZ 85204
I have a PhD and almost 30 yrs experience working with clients. I have advanced training in EFT and Gottman Therapy. I also draw on 35 yrs of experience being married. All couples have conflicts. The difference is happy couples have a way to resolve and repair issues. I specialize in helping couples develop that repair process. When many couples argue they end up feeling more frustrated, distant, and dissatisfied in their relationship instead of feeling close and connected. Eventually they stop talking to avoid fighting and grow apart. I help couples who are stuck find a way to experience the love and closeness they desire.
I have a PhD and almost 30 yrs experience working with clients. I have advanced training in EFT and Gottman Therapy. I also draw on 35 yrs of experience being married. All couples have conflicts. The difference is happy couples have a way to resolve and repair issues. I specialize in helping couples develop that repair process. When many couples argue they end up feeling more frustrated, distant, and dissatisfied in their relationship instead of feeling close and connected. Eventually they stop talking to avoid fighting and grow apart. I help couples who are stuck find a way to experience the love and closeness they desire.
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Erik Adair Johnson
LCSW, BSW, CSAT-C
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Mesa, AZ 85209
I work with (ages 16+), adults, and couples that are pursing healing. I honor the courage to start counseling. I have spent thousands of hours in the mental health field and have keynoted at national trainings for using experiential modalities. I am a certified-sex addiction therapist (CSAT-C) by ITAP. I view therapy through an emotional and attachment lens. and use modalities like emotionally focused therapy and experiential therapy. I tailor these modalities to meet the needs of each client. I focus on creating treatment with structure, shame reduction, and help foster meaningful connection and attachment with family and friends.
I work with (ages 16+), adults, and couples that are pursing healing. I honor the courage to start counseling. I have spent thousands of hours in the mental health field and have keynoted at national trainings for using experiential modalities. I am a certified-sex addiction therapist (CSAT-C) by ITAP. I view therapy through an emotional and attachment lens. and use modalities like emotionally focused therapy and experiential therapy. I tailor these modalities to meet the needs of each client. I focus on creating treatment with structure, shame reduction, and help foster meaningful connection and attachment with family and friends.
(480) 470-4459 View (480) 470-4459
Photo of John D McLean, Licensed Professional Counselor in Mesa, AZ
John D McLean
Licensed Professional Counselor, MAPC, LPC, CSAT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Mesa, AZ 85210
I have extensive training in helping adults and families who struggle with behavioral addictions, childhood trauma, and attachment wounds.
I have extensive training in helping adults and families who struggle with behavioral addictions, childhood trauma, and attachment wounds.
(480) 568-3013 x1009 View (480) 568-3013 x1009
Photo of John Skinner, Drug & Alcohol Counselor in Mesa, AZ
John Skinner
Drug & Alcohol Counselor, MS, LISAC, CSAT
Verified Verified
Mesa, AZ 85205  (Online Only)
I'd like to be a source encouragement, accountability, real tools, and hope as you tackle unwanted porn use and/or sex addiction, anxiety, or relationship harms resulting from these type of struggles. I'm ready to join you on your Journey to Progress. Contact me today.
I'd like to be a source encouragement, accountability, real tools, and hope as you tackle unwanted porn use and/or sex addiction, anxiety, or relationship harms resulting from these type of struggles. I'm ready to join you on your Journey to Progress. Contact me today.
(480) 470-7084 View (480) 470-7084
Photo of Michael Medley, Licensed Professional Counselor in Mesa, AZ
Michael Medley
Licensed Professional Counselor, MSCMFT, LPC
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Mesa, AZ 85204
Lying awake with your back toward your spouse, hurting again. Your mind racing, blaming your partner for all the problems in the relationship. The thought comes to mind, “The argument was days ago, why can’t we talk?” You’ve tried things before, but only for a short time. The self doubt creeps in, shame, loneliness, sadness, guilt. What happened to the joyful days of the beginning? Life. Life got in the way and took you both by storm. Now, you feel as though you no longer know your spouse, and he/she doesn’t really know you. Before you finally drift off to sleep one last thought crosses your mind, “I want to make this work.”
Lying awake with your back toward your spouse, hurting again. Your mind racing, blaming your partner for all the problems in the relationship. The thought comes to mind, “The argument was days ago, why can’t we talk?” You’ve tried things before, but only for a short time. The self doubt creeps in, shame, loneliness, sadness, guilt. What happened to the joyful days of the beginning? Life. Life got in the way and took you both by storm. Now, you feel as though you no longer know your spouse, and he/she doesn’t really know you. Before you finally drift off to sleep one last thought crosses your mind, “I want to make this work.”
(480) 685-5892 View (480) 685-5892
Photo of Francis Bermudez, Counselor in Mesa, AZ
Francis Bermudez
Counselor, LAC
Verified Verified
Mesa, AZ 85207
Do you ever feel that you are not currently the best version of yourself? Do you ever feel that you are not where you want to be in life, but not sure where you would prefer to be or how to get there? You're not alone in that experience. Genuine peace and happiness are within reach for anyone who is willing to reach for it. We are all products of our environments and culminations of our life experiences, but those environments and experiences do not have to define nor dictate who we are. My goal as your therapist is to help you become the version of yourself you have always dreamed of being.
Do you ever feel that you are not currently the best version of yourself? Do you ever feel that you are not where you want to be in life, but not sure where you would prefer to be or how to get there? You're not alone in that experience. Genuine peace and happiness are within reach for anyone who is willing to reach for it. We are all products of our environments and culminations of our life experiences, but those environments and experiences do not have to define nor dictate who we are. My goal as your therapist is to help you become the version of yourself you have always dreamed of being.
(602) 910-2161 View (602) 910-2161
Photo of Garron P Griffitts, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Mesa, AZ
Garron P Griffitts
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CPT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Mesa, AZ 85204
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who specializes in the treatment of addiction, marriage and relationship problems, depression, anxiety, life skills, low self-esteem and other mental health issues. I have worked extensively with the following addictions: drugs and alcohol, sex and pornography, and compulsive gambling. I also have in-depth experience working with teenage boys and girls ages 12-17 as a Clinical Director of an adolescent residential treatment center. I also have taught master level classes at Arizona State University in addiction, individual, family and group counseling.
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker who specializes in the treatment of addiction, marriage and relationship problems, depression, anxiety, life skills, low self-esteem and other mental health issues. I have worked extensively with the following addictions: drugs and alcohol, sex and pornography, and compulsive gambling. I also have in-depth experience working with teenage boys and girls ages 12-17 as a Clinical Director of an adolescent residential treatment center. I also have taught master level classes at Arizona State University in addiction, individual, family and group counseling.
(520) 357-0695 View (520) 357-0695
Photo of Nathan Verschaetse, Psychologist in Mesa, AZ
Nathan Verschaetse
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Mesa, AZ 85202
The choice to enter therapy takes courage. I am confident that we can find a path through the difficulties that you are facing, even if you are unsure of the way forward. I believe that every individual has many unique strengths and that therapy can help you uncover and develop your strengths. I look forward to working with you.
The choice to enter therapy takes courage. I am confident that we can find a path through the difficulties that you are facing, even if you are unsure of the way forward. I believe that every individual has many unique strengths and that therapy can help you uncover and develop your strengths. I look forward to working with you.
(520) 636-5156 View (520) 636-5156
Photo of Phillip M Garrison, Marriage & Family Therapist Associate in Mesa, AZ
Phillip M Garrison
Marriage & Family Therapist Associate, MAS, LAMFT
Verified Verified
Mesa, AZ 85206  (Online Only)
I am currently accepting new Aetna and private pay clients. I am passionate about combining holistic and evidence based approaches to help clients who feel stuck or are having trouble dealing with issues move towards better health and a more balanced fulfilling life. I use an integrative approach when helping people with Marital issues, Anxiety, ADHD/PTSD, Health, Weightloss; or Men's health issues. I want to work with you to help empower you to become unstuck from whatever issues you're dealing with and move towards a more fulfilling life.
I am currently accepting new Aetna and private pay clients. I am passionate about combining holistic and evidence based approaches to help clients who feel stuck or are having trouble dealing with issues move towards better health and a more balanced fulfilling life. I use an integrative approach when helping people with Marital issues, Anxiety, ADHD/PTSD, Health, Weightloss; or Men's health issues. I want to work with you to help empower you to become unstuck from whatever issues you're dealing with and move towards a more fulfilling life.
(480) 637-3229 View (480) 637-3229
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Zach Dixson
Counselor, LAC
Verified Verified
Mesa, AZ 85204
Hi! My name is Zach and I am a Licensed Associate Counselor in Mesa, Arizona. Beginning counseling can often be scary and overwhelming. I do everything I can to create a warm, safe, and friendly space for anyone seeking counseling services. I am passionate about using research-based strategies that work to help you reach your goals. Please feel free to reach out and contact me about starting counseling!
Hi! My name is Zach and I am a Licensed Associate Counselor in Mesa, Arizona. Beginning counseling can often be scary and overwhelming. I do everything I can to create a warm, safe, and friendly space for anyone seeking counseling services. I am passionate about using research-based strategies that work to help you reach your goals. Please feel free to reach out and contact me about starting counseling!
(480) 613-2824 View (480) 613-2824
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Joshua Alston
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Mesa, AZ 85206
The fact that you are reading this shows that you're not ready to give up. There is still love and a longing for connection, you just need help rediscovering it. It's about bridging the gap of disconnection that has been created by the negative cycles in everyday life.
The fact that you are reading this shows that you're not ready to give up. There is still love and a longing for connection, you just need help rediscovering it. It's about bridging the gap of disconnection that has been created by the negative cycles in everyday life.
(480) 462-7708 View (480) 462-7708
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Timothy J Gartz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Mesa, AZ 85209
Welcome! I am Timothy Gartz, MSW Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Mesa, Arizona. My greatest desire is to provide a professional environment of trust in order to explore any of your challenges or life adjustments. I am a skilled therapist with 20 years of practical experience in a variety of locations and settings including private practice, broad state health clinics in Hawaii, St. Louis, and Denver as well as internationally in Hong Kong and Shanghai. These experiences allow me to provide personalized solution focused services that are culturally competent and tailor made to help you regain confidence and achieve your goals.
Welcome! I am Timothy Gartz, MSW Licensed Clinical Social Worker in Mesa, Arizona. My greatest desire is to provide a professional environment of trust in order to explore any of your challenges or life adjustments. I am a skilled therapist with 20 years of practical experience in a variety of locations and settings including private practice, broad state health clinics in Hawaii, St. Louis, and Denver as well as internationally in Hong Kong and Shanghai. These experiences allow me to provide personalized solution focused services that are culturally competent and tailor made to help you regain confidence and achieve your goals.
(520) 376-8327 View (520) 376-8327
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Joel Covert
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Mesa, AZ 85210
Joel earned his Master's in Social Work from Arizona State University and is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW). Joel has been practicing in the field for 10 years. Joel completed a 2 year counseling residency where he was extensively trained in CBT, DBT, ACT, Prolonged Exposure Therapy, Gottman Couple's Therapy and in treating personality disorders. Joel also led DBT skills training group therapy for nearly 2 years during his residency. Since, he has been trained in Level 1 and 2 of EMDR. Joel has worked with substance related issues for the duration of his practice.
Joel earned his Master's in Social Work from Arizona State University and is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW). Joel has been practicing in the field for 10 years. Joel completed a 2 year counseling residency where he was extensively trained in CBT, DBT, ACT, Prolonged Exposure Therapy, Gottman Couple's Therapy and in treating personality disorders. Joel also led DBT skills training group therapy for nearly 2 years during his residency. Since, he has been trained in Level 1 and 2 of EMDR. Joel has worked with substance related issues for the duration of his practice.
(480) 662-6708 View (480) 662-6708
Sexual Addiction Therapists

When should someone seek treatment for sex addiction?

People should seek treatment for sex addiction if they cannot control their sexual thoughts or behaviours to the point that it disrupts their ability to function in daily life, for example by threatening their finances, career, or relationships. This may include spending an excessive amount of time obsessing over sex, planning sex, watching pornography, or masturbating, as well as consistently engaging in risky sexual activities, using sex to escape distressing feelings, or attempting yet failing to control sexual behavior.

What are the most common treatment options for sex addiction?

Psychotherapy is the most common treatment for sex addiction; therapy helps patients better understand their compulsive thoughts and behaviors and develop strategies to manage their desires. Therapy may be supplemented by medications, such as antidepressants, mood stabilizers, anti-androgens, and the alcohol and substance use medication Naltrexone, as well as support groups, such as 12-step programs.

How long does therapy take for sex addiction?

Recovering from compulsive behavior takes time and effort. There’s no precise timeline for treatment, but research suggests 12 therapy sessions may be enough to see change. Treatment for sexual compulsions requires honesty in therapy, a commitment to understanding triggers and developing coping skills, and potential lifestyle changes such as cutting out alcohol or drugs.

What if sex addiction is left untreated?

Compulsive sexual behavior can have serious repercussions if left unaddressed. For example, if sexual obsessions consume the vast majority of a person’s time, they may lose their job. If they can’t stop paying for sex, their finances may suffer. If they’re dishonest in their relationships, their partner may leave them. If they consistently feel shame, they may struggle with anxiety, depression, or loneliness. Therapy can help people develop the tools to manage sexual thoughts and behaviors that feel uncontrollable.