Couples Counselling in Hatfield

Photo of Heidi Gavriel, MBACP Accred, Psychotherapist
Heidi Gavriel
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Hatfield AL10
I believe that a counselling relationship can be helpful, supportive, insightful and cathartic at any stage of life when difficulties or confusion arise that impact on emotional well-being or the ability to bond and connect with others. You may be seeking to be heard and understood, to make sense of what's going on or to discover yourself, find purpose and direction through talking about your lived experience, feelings and relational dynamics.
I believe that a counselling relationship can be helpful, supportive, insightful and cathartic at any stage of life when difficulties or confusion arise that impact on emotional well-being or the ability to bond and connect with others. You may be seeking to be heard and understood, to make sense of what's going on or to discover yourself, find purpose and direction through talking about your lived experience, feelings and relational dynamics.
View
Photo of Nicola M. Richter, MSc, MUKCP, Psychotherapist
Nicola M. Richter
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Hatfield AL9
In a safe environment and trusting therapeutic relationship you can discuss your innermost thoughts, feelings and beliefs, where I accept you the way you are and support you in what you wish to change.
I wish you during these extraordinary times of world changes - and any other challenges - the very best for yourself and those close to you. My practice is open for in person & video sessions. I am here for you to talk about your emotional, psychological and spiritual/transpersonal and mindfulness issues. I taught at Universities and present at conferences. With 25+ years of practice I offer you a confidential space to explore your feelings and thoughts e.g. about anxiety, depression, suicide, relationships, death and dying, spiritual journey, meaning in life. I am here for you for any other issue you wish to talk about.
In a safe environment and trusting therapeutic relationship you can discuss your innermost thoughts, feelings and beliefs, where I accept you the way you are and support you in what you wish to change.
I wish you during these extraordinary times of world changes - and any other challenges - the very best for yourself and those close to you. My practice is open for in person & video sessions. I am here for you to talk about your emotional, psychological and spiritual/transpersonal and mindfulness issues. I taught at Universities and present at conferences. With 25+ years of practice I offer you a confidential space to explore your feelings and thoughts e.g. about anxiety, depression, suicide, relationships, death and dying, spiritual journey, meaning in life. I am here for you for any other issue you wish to talk about.
01727 750088 View 01727 750088
Photo of Arti Hughes - Cognitive Behavioural Therapist, Arti Hughes, MBABCP, Psychotherapist
Cognitive Behavioural Therapist, Arti Hughes
Psychotherapist, MBABCP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Hatfield AL9
I own the BEST google rated private psychology practice in Hertfordshire! We have successfully helped 100’s of clients. I am a BABCP accredited Cognitive Behavioural therapist and Accredited Interpersonal Practitioner. I am friendly and professional. I/ We treat Depression, Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD), Intrusive thoughts, Social anxiety, Panic attacks, Phobias, Excessive worry/being overwhelmed with anxiety, Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), Health anxiety, Perfectionism, Body dysmorphic disorders (BDD), Eating disorders, Phobias, Agoraphobia, Low self-confidence, & LTC’s. Call now for a free phone consultation!
I own the BEST google rated private psychology practice in Hertfordshire! We have successfully helped 100’s of clients. I am a BABCP accredited Cognitive Behavioural therapist and Accredited Interpersonal Practitioner. I am friendly and professional. I/ We treat Depression, Obsessive compulsive disorder (OCD), Intrusive thoughts, Social anxiety, Panic attacks, Phobias, Excessive worry/being overwhelmed with anxiety, Post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), Health anxiety, Perfectionism, Body dysmorphic disorders (BDD), Eating disorders, Phobias, Agoraphobia, Low self-confidence, & LTC’s. Call now for a free phone consultation!
01707 240833 View 01707 240833
Photo of Karine Flynn, MSc, GMBPsS, Psychotherapist
Karine Flynn
Psychotherapist, MSc, GMBPsS
Verified Verified
Hatfield AL9
I am an integrative trauma informed Psychotherapist who, for the past 20 years, have been learning, applying and adapting different approaches to get to the bottom of the issues that keep us stuck in life. I offer a fresh targeted approach to Counselling, helping my clients with issues that vary from lack of motivation, low mood to depression, anxiety and its disorders (panic attacks, phobias…), low self-esteem, addictive behaviours etc. Using a blend of Compassionate Inquiry and Internal Family Systems, whilst using tools from Behaviour Analysis to aid Neuroplasticity, I can help you get to the root of your subconscious beliefs.
I am an integrative trauma informed Psychotherapist who, for the past 20 years, have been learning, applying and adapting different approaches to get to the bottom of the issues that keep us stuck in life. I offer a fresh targeted approach to Counselling, helping my clients with issues that vary from lack of motivation, low mood to depression, anxiety and its disorders (panic attacks, phobias…), low self-esteem, addictive behaviours etc. Using a blend of Compassionate Inquiry and Internal Family Systems, whilst using tools from Behaviour Analysis to aid Neuroplasticity, I can help you get to the root of your subconscious beliefs.
View
Photo of Rachel Marfleet, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych., Psychologist
Rachel Marfleet
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Hatfield AL10  (Online Only)
Working creatively and playfully to make therapy engaging is an important part of my practice. I have a specialist interest in working with children and families and exploring relationships. I am an associate member of the Institute of Narrative Therapy and bring these ideas fo my work.
Working creatively and playfully to make therapy engaging is an important part of my practice. I have a specialist interest in working with children and families and exploring relationships. I am an associate member of the Institute of Narrative Therapy and bring these ideas fo my work.
View
Photo of Carole Salter, MNCPS Acc., Counsellor
Carole Salter
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Hatfield AL10
Why counselling? Sometimes life throws some pretty awful things at us and we should not have to cope on our own. Thankfully these days we don’t have to. This is where counselling comes in. It is a safe place which is yours to talk in confidence about what ever you want. Sometimes all we need is to be heard and to have someone who is non-judgemental, who listens, is empathetic and kind.
Why counselling? Sometimes life throws some pretty awful things at us and we should not have to cope on our own. Thankfully these days we don’t have to. This is where counselling comes in. It is a safe place which is yours to talk in confidence about what ever you want. Sometimes all we need is to be heard and to have someone who is non-judgemental, who listens, is empathetic and kind.
01727 648580 View 01727 648580
Photo of Uma Mays - Herts Therapy, MBACP Accred, Psychotherapist
Herts Therapy
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Hatfield AL10
As your counsellor, I will offer you a safe, confidential space for you to be heard with empathy and respect. Current problems may stir up buried feelings from your past which I will help you to explore and understand. Our open-ended work will allow you to work through and make sense of your difficulties by becoming aware of your defences and reasons
As your counsellor, I will offer you a safe, confidential space for you to be heard with empathy and respect. Current problems may stir up buried feelings from your past which I will help you to explore and understand. Our open-ended work will allow you to work through and make sense of your difficulties by becoming aware of your defences and reasons
01992 945357 View 01992 945357

More Therapists Nearby

Photo of Jenny Noero, MSc, HCPC - Clin. Psych., Psychologist
Jenny Noero
Psychologist, MSc, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Hertford SG14  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
While I mainly use Emotionally Focused Therapy for couples and EMDR for individuals, I will integrate other approaches as appropriate, such as Solution Focused Couples Therapy, CBT, Mindfulness Based Cognitive Therapy, or EMDR in our couples work.
As a Consultant Clinical Psychologist and Counselling Psychoogist, I specialise in couples therapy, EMDR and an integrative approach . If you are looking for an experienced therapist then I offer over 30 years of professional experience with 22 years in the NHS. I can help if you are a couple experiencing relationship breakdown, emotionally heightened interactions, or a particular problem impacting on your relationship. I provide EMDR to individuals with PTSD or longer term trauma, anxiety and loss. In addition, as a Clinical Neuropsychologist I can help with health or neurological conditions within the context of our therapy.
While I mainly use Emotionally Focused Therapy for couples and EMDR for individuals, I will integrate other approaches as appropriate, such as Solution Focused Couples Therapy, CBT, Mindfulness Based Cognitive Therapy, or EMDR in our couples work.
As a Consultant Clinical Psychologist and Counselling Psychoogist, I specialise in couples therapy, EMDR and an integrative approach . If you are looking for an experienced therapist then I offer over 30 years of professional experience with 22 years in the NHS. I can help if you are a couple experiencing relationship breakdown, emotionally heightened interactions, or a particular problem impacting on your relationship. I provide EMDR to individuals with PTSD or longer term trauma, anxiety and loss. In addition, as a Clinical Neuropsychologist I can help with health or neurological conditions within the context of our therapy.
020 3893 2758 View 020 3893 2758
Photo of Effie Molyva, MSc, MBABCP, Psychotherapist
Effie Molyva
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBABCP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
St Albans AL1  (Online Only)
Developing a trusting therapeutic relationship that best enables clients to achieve this through offering a professional, safe and non-judgmental space is of vital importance for me and I feel grateful for the opportunity clients give me to share this journey towards reaching their goals in life.
I am a BABCP accredited CBT therapist with extensive experience supporting clients with anxiety and depression both in the NHS as well as privately. In my practice I work together with clients to offer support for a range of anxiety disorders including social anxiety, health anxiety, treatment of phobias, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Panic attacks, OCD and Generalised anxiety as well as difficulties with low mood. An area of particular interest for me is offering support to women and men who may struggle during the perinatal period. Having a baby is an exciting
Developing a trusting therapeutic relationship that best enables clients to achieve this through offering a professional, safe and non-judgmental space is of vital importance for me and I feel grateful for the opportunity clients give me to share this journey towards reaching their goals in life.
I am a BABCP accredited CBT therapist with extensive experience supporting clients with anxiety and depression both in the NHS as well as privately. In my practice I work together with clients to offer support for a range of anxiety disorders including social anxiety, health anxiety, treatment of phobias, Post Traumatic Stress Disorder, Panic attacks, OCD and Generalised anxiety as well as difficulties with low mood. An area of particular interest for me is offering support to women and men who may struggle during the perinatal period. Having a baby is an exciting
01727 638249 View 01727 638249
Photo of Jonathan Eddie, MBACP, Counsellor
Jonathan Eddie
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
St Albans AL3
My approach has a positive therapeutic relationship at its core.
My name is Jonathan Eddie. I'm a qualified integrative counsellor and a registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy. I offer individual and couples counselling in central St Albans and online.
My approach has a positive therapeutic relationship at its core.
My name is Jonathan Eddie. I'm a qualified integrative counsellor and a registered member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy. I offer individual and couples counselling in central St Albans and online.
01727 649252 View 01727 649252
Photo of Jo Gibson, MBACP, Psychotherapist
Jo Gibson
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Welwyn Garden City AL7
I am a post graduate qualified BACP registered Psychotherapist and Clinical Supervisor with fifteen years experience. I work using the internal Family Systems and Intimacy from the Inside Out models, with a Humanist and Somatic core training. I work with many different life challenges, and over the years have specialised in trauma, complex trauma, relational trauma and shame. Supporting you to process what has happened to you and move on from your past to live your life fully. I work face to face or online with individuals, couples and groups.
I am a post graduate qualified BACP registered Psychotherapist and Clinical Supervisor with fifteen years experience. I work using the internal Family Systems and Intimacy from the Inside Out models, with a Humanist and Somatic core training. I work with many different life challenges, and over the years have specialised in trauma, complex trauma, relational trauma and shame. Supporting you to process what has happened to you and move on from your past to live your life fully. I work face to face or online with individuals, couples and groups.
01438 300959 View 01438 300959
Photo of Loraine Rawson, MBACP Accred, Counsellor
Loraine Rawson
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Welwyn Garden City AL7
As an experienced counsellor of 30 years experience in both couples and individual work, I am able to work flexibly and creatively and respond to your needs to create something better with the experiences life has thrown at you, freeing you to enjoy greater enjoyment and spontaneity in your life.
I am currently able to work face to face, via skype or phone for individuals or couples. You may be concerned about your relationships, sad about the past or just want to look forward to your future.You may want to feel that you can live a happier life. You may be fed up with finding yourself in the same situation over and over again. You may want to be able to better able to listen to yourself and others. We can look at these troubling issues together and find greater peace with them over time, in order to find yourself in a happier life.
As an experienced counsellor of 30 years experience in both couples and individual work, I am able to work flexibly and creatively and respond to your needs to create something better with the experiences life has thrown at you, freeing you to enjoy greater enjoyment and spontaneity in your life.
I am currently able to work face to face, via skype or phone for individuals or couples. You may be concerned about your relationships, sad about the past or just want to look forward to your future.You may want to feel that you can live a happier life. You may be fed up with finding yourself in the same situation over and over again. You may want to be able to better able to listen to yourself and others. We can look at these troubling issues together and find greater peace with them over time, in order to find yourself in a happier life.
01462 418475 View 01462 418475
Photo of Debbie McCool, MNCPS Acc., Counsellor
Debbie McCool
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
St Albans AL3
Hello and Welcome, I provide counselling to adults, Couples, teens and young people. We can work together to build self-confidence and empower you to live the life you truly desire. Rather than giving you advice, my approach revolves around active listening and gentle support, encouraging you to uncover fresh perspectives and insights. Together, we will explore your concerns and work towards finding the solutions that align with your unique circumstances. I work with clients facing the demands of a range of issues and emotions. I also work with parents and carers who would like to develop a deeper relationship with their children.
Hello and Welcome, I provide counselling to adults, Couples, teens and young people. We can work together to build self-confidence and empower you to live the life you truly desire. Rather than giving you advice, my approach revolves around active listening and gentle support, encouraging you to uncover fresh perspectives and insights. Together, we will explore your concerns and work towards finding the solutions that align with your unique circumstances. I work with clients facing the demands of a range of issues and emotions. I also work with parents and carers who would like to develop a deeper relationship with their children.
01442 504498 View 01442 504498
Photo of Dr Nicola Connolly, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych., Psychologist
Dr Nicola Connolly
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
St Albans AL1
Hello and a warm welcome! I am a Consultant Clinical Psychologist with over 24 years experience working both in the NHS and in private practice. I have worked with both adolescents who struggle to talk, to adults with a wide range of mental health problems, and couples with relationship difficulties. I am trained in several therapies that I will tailor to your unique needs. It can feel very daunting trying to find the right therapist for your needs and I therefore offer you a free 30 minute Zoom meeting or phonecall to meet with me to put you at ease and to see if I am the right person who can help.
Hello and a warm welcome! I am a Consultant Clinical Psychologist with over 24 years experience working both in the NHS and in private practice. I have worked with both adolescents who struggle to talk, to adults with a wide range of mental health problems, and couples with relationship difficulties. I am trained in several therapies that I will tailor to your unique needs. It can feel very daunting trying to find the right therapist for your needs and I therefore offer you a free 30 minute Zoom meeting or phonecall to meet with me to put you at ease and to see if I am the right person who can help.
01494 509324 View 01494 509324
Photo of Elaine Tarsh, MBACP Accred, Counsellor
Elaine Tarsh
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Radlett WD7  (Online Only)
As a relationship counsellor and sex therapist, I provide compassionate and practical support to help you overcome these challenges.
When a relationship starts to falter, it can feel devastating. Maybe your relationship is causing you to worry. Perhaps you’re struggling with intimacy issues? Or maybe you or your partner has a porn or sex addiction that is pushing you apart. If you've been viewing porn for an excessive amount of time and are starting to question its impact on your life, you're not alone. If you've signed up for dating apps, or you are sexually messaging others despite being in a committed relationship, or your partner has discovered some of what is happening, and you know you must do something, counselling can support change.
As a relationship counsellor and sex therapist, I provide compassionate and practical support to help you overcome these challenges.
When a relationship starts to falter, it can feel devastating. Maybe your relationship is causing you to worry. Perhaps you’re struggling with intimacy issues? Or maybe you or your partner has a porn or sex addiction that is pushing you apart. If you've been viewing porn for an excessive amount of time and are starting to question its impact on your life, you're not alone. If you've signed up for dating apps, or you are sexually messaging others despite being in a committed relationship, or your partner has discovered some of what is happening, and you know you must do something, counselling can support change.
01923 920643 View 01923 920643
Photo of Su Youngs - Hitchin & Welwyn Psychotherapy Practice, MSc, MUKCP, Psychotherapist
Hitchin & Welwyn Psychotherapy Practice
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Welwyn AL6
I work with Adults and Couples.
Hello and welcome to my profile. I am a qualified and experienced Psychotherapist and Counsellor.  I work with a range of issues such as: anxiety and depression, trauma, self-harm, addiction, relationship and family issues, stress and self-esteem, sexuality and emotional issues, issues with self image.
I work with Adults and Couples.
Hello and welcome to my profile. I am a qualified and experienced Psychotherapist and Counsellor.  I work with a range of issues such as: anxiety and depression, trauma, self-harm, addiction, relationship and family issues, stress and self-esteem, sexuality and emotional issues, issues with self image.
01462 547045 View 01462 547045
Photo of Dr Anna Abramowski, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych., Psychologist
Dr Anna Abramowski
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Stanmore HA7  (Online Only)
I am the founder of the North London Psychologists' Clinic. I am an experienced Chartered Counselling Psychologist with the British Psychological Society (BPS) and a registered Psychologist with the Health and Care Professions Council (HCPC). Psychological therapy can help you address and overcome your own inner struggles and enable you to move forward in your life. Whether you live with a chronic pain condition, have a tormented relationship with food, are living with anxiety and depression, therapy can give you the tools, skills, self-awareness and space to explore how to implement meaningful and lasting change.
I am the founder of the North London Psychologists' Clinic. I am an experienced Chartered Counselling Psychologist with the British Psychological Society (BPS) and a registered Psychologist with the Health and Care Professions Council (HCPC). Psychological therapy can help you address and overcome your own inner struggles and enable you to move forward in your life. Whether you live with a chronic pain condition, have a tormented relationship with food, are living with anxiety and depression, therapy can give you the tools, skills, self-awareness and space to explore how to implement meaningful and lasting change.
01923 603987 View 01923 603987
Photo of Eileen Whaymand - The Counselling Connexion Stevenage, MBACP, Counsellor
The Counselling Connexion Stevenage
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Stevenage SG2
Approaching a counsellor can feel a daunting prospect, but I believe that when you do it is the relationship and joint endeavour between you and your chosen counsellor that can help you to gain clarity and perspective around any difficulties you may be experiencing at any given time .
Hello and welcome to my page My name is Eileen Whaymand And I  am an experienced Person Centred counsellor offering confidential counselling for individuals and couples in Stevenage and surrounding areas.
Approaching a counsellor can feel a daunting prospect, but I believe that when you do it is the relationship and joint endeavour between you and your chosen counsellor that can help you to gain clarity and perspective around any difficulties you may be experiencing at any given time .
Hello and welcome to my page My name is Eileen Whaymand And I  am an experienced Person Centred counsellor offering confidential counselling for individuals and couples in Stevenage and surrounding areas.
01438 301094 View 01438 301094
Photo of Aaron Rai, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych., Psychologist
Aaron Rai
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Radlett WD7
Being a Clinical Psychologist means I have training and expertise in a variety of different approaches that are are effective in helping people overcome difficulties such as low mood, anxiety, anger, stress, relationship difficulties, low self-esteem/confidence, coping with the loss of a loved one, the impact of trauma or adjusting to new life circumstances.
Hello, I’m Aaron! I’m a Chartered Clinical Psychologist in the NHS and privately. I wanted to tell you a bit more about myself, as I realise finding and reaching out to the right therapist can be tough! I am very lucky to be able to say I love what I do, ever since I started working with children living in care homes in 2009. Since then, I’ve had experience working with a wide variety of clients including children, young people, adults, older adults, and individuals with learning disabilities.
Being a Clinical Psychologist means I have training and expertise in a variety of different approaches that are are effective in helping people overcome difficulties such as low mood, anxiety, anger, stress, relationship difficulties, low self-esteem/confidence, coping with the loss of a loved one, the impact of trauma or adjusting to new life circumstances.
Hello, I’m Aaron! I’m a Chartered Clinical Psychologist in the NHS and privately. I wanted to tell you a bit more about myself, as I realise finding and reaching out to the right therapist can be tough! I am very lucky to be able to say I love what I do, ever since I started working with children living in care homes in 2009. Since then, I’ve had experience working with a wide variety of clients including children, young people, adults, older adults, and individuals with learning disabilities.
01923 961621 View 01923 961621
Photo of Jennifer O'Neil, MBACP, Counsellor
Jennifer O'Neil
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Hoddesdon EN11
I have also had in-depth training in psychosexual and relationship therapy – both for individuals and couples.
Some of the issues I work with are; relationships - the way we connect and attach to others, self esteem, sexual issues and health for both men and women, parenting concerns, addiction, codependence, anxiety in it's many forms, depression, loss of meaning and purpose in life, suicidal thoughts, career/work stress, loss/bereavement, LGBTQ+ issues.
I have also had in-depth training in psychosexual and relationship therapy – both for individuals and couples.
Some of the issues I work with are; relationships - the way we connect and attach to others, self esteem, sexual issues and health for both men and women, parenting concerns, addiction, codependence, anxiety in it's many forms, depression, loss of meaning and purpose in life, suicidal thoughts, career/work stress, loss/bereavement, LGBTQ+ issues.
01992 940702 View 01992 940702

See more therapy options for Hatfield

Couples Counselling

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.