Borderline Personality (BPD) Counselling in RH19

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Dr Barbara Sullivan Clinical Psychologist
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
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If you are suffering from depression, anxiety, OCD, chronic low self-esteem or self-consciousness, bereavement, relationship difficulties or anxiety pertaining to school, family, child rearing, retirement or work please contact me for a consultation about how to move forward. I also deal with other difficulties pertaining to neurodegeneration, neurodiversity, disordered eating, maladaptive coping patterns & addictions. If you have concerns about a loved one or child who is currently undergoing sustained periods of stress or anxiety due to work, relationships, school or transitions please contact me to discuss a potential meeting.
If you are suffering from depression, anxiety, OCD, chronic low self-esteem or self-consciousness, bereavement, relationship difficulties or anxiety pertaining to school, family, child rearing, retirement or work please contact me for a consultation about how to move forward. I also deal with other difficulties pertaining to neurodegeneration, neurodiversity, disordered eating, maladaptive coping patterns & addictions. If you have concerns about a loved one or child who is currently undergoing sustained periods of stress or anxiety due to work, relationships, school or transitions please contact me to discuss a potential meeting.
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Kate Osterloh
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
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Hello, I am a professionally qualified, UKCP registered psychotherapist with a private practice in East Grinstead, and I also work online via video call. I aim to provide a safe, welcoming, space in which you can talk freely, so that we can develop a trusting and understanding relationship in which a process of discovery and change can begin. I will not judge you, direct you, or set goals for the therapy. My role is to facilitate a process whereby you can find your own meanings, truths and solutions.
Hello, I am a professionally qualified, UKCP registered psychotherapist with a private practice in East Grinstead, and I also work online via video call. I aim to provide a safe, welcoming, space in which you can talk freely, so that we can develop a trusting and understanding relationship in which a process of discovery and change can begin. I will not judge you, direct you, or set goals for the therapy. My role is to facilitate a process whereby you can find your own meanings, truths and solutions.
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Lydie Glendinning
Psychotherapist
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Are you experiencing anxiety, depression, tearfulness or numbness? Perhaps lots of bodily aches and pains, or headaches? Does everything feel overwhelming, or you have stopped doing your normal hobbies? Whether you have a trauma related mental health diagnosis, you think you might have or you are struggling in any way, or you are after some personal development work; Lydie always adapts her sessions to suit the client needs. With so much to offer, she can support you through your process. Whatever it is that isn’t feeling right, it might be that Lydie is the right therapist to support you.
Are you experiencing anxiety, depression, tearfulness or numbness? Perhaps lots of bodily aches and pains, or headaches? Does everything feel overwhelming, or you have stopped doing your normal hobbies? Whether you have a trauma related mental health diagnosis, you think you might have or you are struggling in any way, or you are after some personal development work; Lydie always adapts her sessions to suit the client needs. With so much to offer, she can support you through your process. Whatever it is that isn’t feeling right, it might be that Lydie is the right therapist to support you.
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jo Reeves
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
At certain points in our biography it becomes increasingly hard to navigate our way through the stresses of everyday life - whether it be relationships, work, bereavement or trauma. At these times, anxiety and stress makes it hard to make sense or understand what is happening - hard to know what the questions are let alone the answers! A safe space where you can be really listened to and heard without judgement, will help you navigate your way through the challenges and open up new ways of looking at what is happening. A space of healing where you can be more of the real you and more in charge of the direction your life is taking.
At certain points in our biography it becomes increasingly hard to navigate our way through the stresses of everyday life - whether it be relationships, work, bereavement or trauma. At these times, anxiety and stress makes it hard to make sense or understand what is happening - hard to know what the questions are let alone the answers! A safe space where you can be really listened to and heard without judgement, will help you navigate your way through the challenges and open up new ways of looking at what is happening. A space of healing where you can be more of the real you and more in charge of the direction your life is taking.
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Carolyne Keenan
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
You might be feeling anxious and stressed at the moment or looking for support for something that has been an issue for a long time. I will create a space for you to explore things you might not have been able to speak about before. I have a wide experience base as the foundation to my private practice. This includes Psychiatric rehabilitation, drug and alcohol treatment services, eating disorders, acute adolescent psychiatric inpatient settings and work with children and young people in the care system. I work integratively which means I draw from a range of therapeutic models to create a care plan that best fits your needs.
You might be feeling anxious and stressed at the moment or looking for support for something that has been an issue for a long time. I will create a space for you to explore things you might not have been able to speak about before. I have a wide experience base as the foundation to my private practice. This includes Psychiatric rehabilitation, drug and alcohol treatment services, eating disorders, acute adolescent psychiatric inpatient settings and work with children and young people in the care system. I work integratively which means I draw from a range of therapeutic models to create a care plan that best fits your needs.
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Lee Thorogood
Psychotherapist, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Welcome, I am Lee. I can offer you a safe, confidential, and non-judgemental space to talk about your thoughts and feelings. I work with clients for either short or longer term counselling/therapy. I work collaboratively to identify the areas of your life that are troubling or distressing you, agreeing the focus of therapy together. Many people come to therapy simply to learn more about themselves and understand past distressing experiences. I hope therapy will bring you greater awareness, spontaneity and increased intimacy.
Welcome, I am Lee. I can offer you a safe, confidential, and non-judgemental space to talk about your thoughts and feelings. I work with clients for either short or longer term counselling/therapy. I work collaboratively to identify the areas of your life that are troubling or distressing you, agreeing the focus of therapy together. Many people come to therapy simply to learn more about themselves and understand past distressing experiences. I hope therapy will bring you greater awareness, spontaneity and increased intimacy.
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Kevin Ventris
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Do you find yourself grappling with the weight of low self-esteem, self-doubt, stress, anxiety, or depression, or facing difficulties such as bereavement, trauma, family issues, the loss of a job or relationship problems and you find yourself personally limited or overwhelmed. Perhaps you may be experiencing familiar distressing situations and begin to wonder why you encounter the same problem over and over again or question the ways you find yourself reacting and relating. Life transitions can also be confusing times, as you ask yourself big questions such as: Who am I? What do I want?
Do you find yourself grappling with the weight of low self-esteem, self-doubt, stress, anxiety, or depression, or facing difficulties such as bereavement, trauma, family issues, the loss of a job or relationship problems and you find yourself personally limited or overwhelmed. Perhaps you may be experiencing familiar distressing situations and begin to wonder why you encounter the same problem over and over again or question the ways you find yourself reacting and relating. Life transitions can also be confusing times, as you ask yourself big questions such as: Who am I? What do I want?
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What is the most successful approach to treating borderline personality disorder?

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is considered the gold standard of treatment for borderline personality disorder. An evidence-based treatment, it addresses the extreme emotional reactivity, the relationship difficulties, and the acts of self-harm that create so much distress for BPD patients. DBT is a comprehensive program that includes both regular individual psychotherapy sessions and weekly group sessions of skills training.

What happens in treatment of borderline personality disorder?

Treatment typically consists of weekly individual therapy sessions that last an hour and group skill-focused instructional sessions that may last up to two hours. Patients are typically given homework “assignments” in which they are asked to practice in their daily life the skills they acquire in therapy. Patients also keep a diary tracking their emotions and impulses as a way to know which situations are most problematic and to help them gain control over their own behavior. Difficult situations and feelings are typically reviewed in therapy sessions and more constructive solutions found.

What kinds of problems does BPD treatment help with?

DBT was initially developed to dampen the self-destructive impulses of chronically suicidal patients. It is now the treatment of choice for borderline personality disorder, a serious condition marked by extreme emotional reactivity, relationship instability, and self-injurious behaviors. Treatment of BPD helps patients tolerate the flux of emotions without acting on them, often with a specific focus on tolerating negative emotions. DBT addresses the core problems of BPD—fear of abandonment, low self-esteem, and impulsivity.

What is the goal of treatment in borderline personality disorder?

The goal of treatment for borderline personality disorder (BPD) is to relieve the extreme emotional distress that patients experience—to curb their emotional reactivity, to minimize their inclination to self-harm, and to reduce their impulsivity. Toward these ends, patients are not only taught an array of new coping skills and techniques for emotional regulation, they are given opportunities to practice them. Another major goal of treatment is interpersonal effectiveness; patients learn and problem-solve ways to effectively communicate in relationships, especially how to ask for what they need as a way to minimize hurt feelings.