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Maternal Mental Health Specialist Renata Christen
Registered Social Worker, RSW, MSW, BA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Courtice, ON L1E  (Online Only)
As a mother, you’ve done all your homework and have read all the scripts on what should be done, but for some reason, you’re still not feeling satisfied. You seem to have a never ending to-do list that overwhelms you and always seems to pull you away from what you truly want: a deeper connection to yourself, your partner, and your children. Within the ocean of “shoulds”, you are feeling anxious, resentful, unseen and unheard, while asking yourself, “What’s the point of working so hard?” As you try to keep up with all of the things, everything seems to be bubbling over and like it’s about to explode.
As a mother, you’ve done all your homework and have read all the scripts on what should be done, but for some reason, you’re still not feeling satisfied. You seem to have a never ending to-do list that overwhelms you and always seems to pull you away from what you truly want: a deeper connection to yourself, your partner, and your children. Within the ocean of “shoulds”, you are feeling anxious, resentful, unseen and unheard, while asking yourself, “What’s the point of working so hard?” As you try to keep up with all of the things, everything seems to be bubbling over and like it’s about to explode.
(289) 270-6903 View (289) 270-6903
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BRI Counselling
Registered Social Worker, PhD, MSW, BSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Ajax, ON L1S
Hello & Welcome to BRI Counselling! My name is Fola Browne and I am the founder of BRI. We are a warm, welcoming, culturally responsive & affirming counselling service with a diverse, compassionate, & talented team. We specialize in supporting individuals, couples, & families at all ages & stages of life to achieve their goals, including healing & recovery from trauma, major life changes & transitions, & building new strengths & skills for future success. With a customized blend of western, eastern, Afro-Centric, & Indigenous approaches, we support each client to identify & make progress toward their most important goals.
Hello & Welcome to BRI Counselling! My name is Fola Browne and I am the founder of BRI. We are a warm, welcoming, culturally responsive & affirming counselling service with a diverse, compassionate, & talented team. We specialize in supporting individuals, couples, & families at all ages & stages of life to achieve their goals, including healing & recovery from trauma, major life changes & transitions, & building new strengths & skills for future success. With a customized blend of western, eastern, Afro-Centric, & Indigenous approaches, we support each client to identify & make progress toward their most important goals.
(289) 302-7354 View (289) 302-7354

Online Therapists

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Ivona D. Zager
Registered Psychotherapist, MAPsych, CRPO-RP, CBT CPT, EMDR, hypno
Verified Verified
Mississauga, ON L4Z
jasny umysl + znajomosc siebie + emocjonalna inteligencja = zdrowie i sprawnosc umyslowa. Dobre samopoczucie to stan naturalny i normalny. Sa sposoby na wydostanie sie z depresji, nerwowosci, zestresowania, poczucia zagubienia, czy niedawania sobie rady ze swoimi reakcjami. Pomagam rowniez redukowac bol chroniczny. A takze, o nasz umysl mozemy dbac by byl jasny i sprawny. Ja stosuje techniki terapeutyczne, ktore usprawniaja myslenie i reguluja stany emocjonalne.
jasny umysl + znajomosc siebie + emocjonalna inteligencja = zdrowie i sprawnosc umyslowa. Dobre samopoczucie to stan naturalny i normalny. Sa sposoby na wydostanie sie z depresji, nerwowosci, zestresowania, poczucia zagubienia, czy niedawania sobie rady ze swoimi reakcjami. Pomagam rowniez redukowac bol chroniczny. A takze, o nasz umysl mozemy dbac by byl jasny i sprawny. Ja stosuje techniki terapeutyczne, ktore usprawniaja myslenie i reguluja stany emocjonalne.
(289) 401-8180 View (289) 401-8180
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Maggie (Malgorzata) Lulkiewicz-Brooker
Registered Social Worker, MSW, BSW, CYW, RSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Brantford, ON N3R
I (Maggie) utilize a variety of therapy modalities to address the needs of individuals, including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), Narrative Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy (SFT), Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT) as well as meditation and Reiki.
Malgorzata (Maggie) Lulkiewicz-Brooker Registered Social Worker. My services are covered by most insurance and benefit plans. Registered Social Workers provide counselling services to individuals, couples and families. I bring 15 years of experience working with youths and families. I have extensive experience treating clients with various life challenges, specializing in mental health, addiction, trauma, grief, family abuse, anxiety, and mood disorders. I am motivated to continue educating myself in treatments to help my clients to meet their full potential.
I (Maggie) utilize a variety of therapy modalities to address the needs of individuals, including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT), Narrative Therapy, Solution-Focused Therapy (SFT), Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT) as well as meditation and Reiki.
Malgorzata (Maggie) Lulkiewicz-Brooker Registered Social Worker. My services are covered by most insurance and benefit plans. Registered Social Workers provide counselling services to individuals, couples and families. I bring 15 years of experience working with youths and families. I have extensive experience treating clients with various life challenges, specializing in mental health, addiction, trauma, grief, family abuse, anxiety, and mood disorders. I am motivated to continue educating myself in treatments to help my clients to meet their full potential.
(226) 400-6962 View (226) 400-6962
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Anna Wesolinska
Registered Psychotherapist, RP, MEd, OACCPP
Verified Verified
Toronto, ON M4K
In my work with couples, I use EFT and the Gottman method.
I work from a model of health, balance and empathy by bringing into awareness the places where we get stuck and our unique ways of getting there. You know best when your patterns of coping are no longer working. A therapist's job is to support you in creating positive shifts in your life. This support may sometimes feel frustrating, especially when our familiar patterns of functioning are being challenged. I incorporate art, humour and paradox in sessions allowing for a creative, spontaneous exploration of your needs, contradictions and feelings and by providing a safe space where new possibilities and hope are possible.
In my work with couples, I use EFT and the Gottman method.
I work from a model of health, balance and empathy by bringing into awareness the places where we get stuck and our unique ways of getting there. You know best when your patterns of coping are no longer working. A therapist's job is to support you in creating positive shifts in your life. This support may sometimes feel frustrating, especially when our familiar patterns of functioning are being challenged. I incorporate art, humour and paradox in sessions allowing for a creative, spontaneous exploration of your needs, contradictions and feelings and by providing a safe space where new possibilities and hope are possible.
(855) 729-6060 View (855) 729-6060
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Mariola Malasinski
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Mississauga, ON L5B
Daytime appointments are available online for individuals and couples. I specialize in marriage and couples therapy as well as individual therapy. I am a certified couples therapist in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). It is my privilege to assist clients who are curious and motivated about change. If you are at a crossroads – whether that is a “mid life crisis”, or want to save your marriage or re-vision who you are in various facets of your life - I am here to help. I can assist you to enter on a spiritual path, to invite more love and closeness into your relationships and help you decrease anxiety and depression.
Daytime appointments are available online for individuals and couples. I specialize in marriage and couples therapy as well as individual therapy. I am a certified couples therapist in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). It is my privilege to assist clients who are curious and motivated about change. If you are at a crossroads – whether that is a “mid life crisis”, or want to save your marriage or re-vision who you are in various facets of your life - I am here to help. I can assist you to enter on a spiritual path, to invite more love and closeness into your relationships and help you decrease anxiety and depression.
(289) 805-3717 View (289) 805-3717
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Ivona Szostak
Registered Psychotherapist, (Qual), MEd, HBSc, MACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Mississauga, ON L5L
Life can present us with complex challenges, and seeking support is a courageous step toward healing and personal growth. Ivona is here to provide a safe, empathetic, and non-judgmental space where you can embark on your journey of self-discovery and well-being. Ivona is more than a therapist; she's a dedicated partner in your healing journey. With over 20 years of experience working with diverse populations, she understands the unique emotional needs of her clients. Ivona utilizes Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFIT) and (IFS) to take you deep into your experiences and to heal from past emotional wounds.
Life can present us with complex challenges, and seeking support is a courageous step toward healing and personal growth. Ivona is here to provide a safe, empathetic, and non-judgmental space where you can embark on your journey of self-discovery and well-being. Ivona is more than a therapist; she's a dedicated partner in your healing journey. With over 20 years of experience working with diverse populations, she understands the unique emotional needs of her clients. Ivona utilizes Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFIT) and (IFS) to take you deep into your experiences and to heal from past emotional wounds.
(365) 607-5650 View (365) 607-5650
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Natalia Musielak
Registered Psychotherapist, RP, CCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Mississauga, ON L5R  (Online Only)
Stress is a normal part of our human experience, but its not all of it. Life’s challenges can make us feel disconnected, overwhelmed, lost and struggling with unhelpful and difficult thoughts and feelings. It can be easy to get stuck and although moving forward is difficult, you don’t need to do it alone. Natalia's training and experience include working with adults (18+) in post-secondary, private, residential and outpatient hospital settings, with a wide variety of concerns including anxiety disorders/anxiety, mood, stress, grief & life transitions.
Stress is a normal part of our human experience, but its not all of it. Life’s challenges can make us feel disconnected, overwhelmed, lost and struggling with unhelpful and difficult thoughts and feelings. It can be easy to get stuck and although moving forward is difficult, you don’t need to do it alone. Natalia's training and experience include working with adults (18+) in post-secondary, private, residential and outpatient hospital settings, with a wide variety of concerns including anxiety disorders/anxiety, mood, stress, grief & life transitions.
(289) 277-5511 View (289) 277-5511
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Marcelina Malinski
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, RP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Barrie, ON L4M
I offer compassionate therapy in a nurturing environment where you feel safe and supported. I am dedicated to empowering you in connecting with your authentic self - the aligned state of inner wisdom and strength. I assist Individuals desiring to heal from experiences of trauma, depression, anxiety, and anger, to embody what is meaningful and fulfilling. I will guide you in modifying unhelpful thinking patterns, promoting healthier ways of relating to your emotions, and approaching life challenges with greater ease and self-assurance. Together, we will address presenting issues at their root, to create space for lasting change.
I offer compassionate therapy in a nurturing environment where you feel safe and supported. I am dedicated to empowering you in connecting with your authentic self - the aligned state of inner wisdom and strength. I assist Individuals desiring to heal from experiences of trauma, depression, anxiety, and anger, to embody what is meaningful and fulfilling. I will guide you in modifying unhelpful thinking patterns, promoting healthier ways of relating to your emotions, and approaching life challenges with greater ease and self-assurance. Together, we will address presenting issues at their root, to create space for lasting change.
(249) 201-9236 View (249) 201-9236
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Piece of Mind Counselling
MA, RP, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Mississauga, ON L5R
You have found this site as you are taking the first step towards change. These first steps are often scary & difficult but we are here to support you! Our highly trained and compassionate therapists provide a range of services that are usually covered by your extended healthcare plan. We strive to create a safe & comfortable environment in which, you will be able to work through the issues that you are finding yourself struggling with. We are dedicated to helping people maintain a state of wellness for themselves & their families. New to our practice: student therapists offering compassionate rates. Please inquire.
You have found this site as you are taking the first step towards change. These first steps are often scary & difficult but we are here to support you! Our highly trained and compassionate therapists provide a range of services that are usually covered by your extended healthcare plan. We strive to create a safe & comfortable environment in which, you will be able to work through the issues that you are finding yourself struggling with. We are dedicated to helping people maintain a state of wellness for themselves & their families. New to our practice: student therapists offering compassionate rates. Please inquire.
(289) 805-6691 View (289) 805-6691
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Mood Therapy Clinic
Registered Psychotherapist, RP, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Toronto, ON M6P  (Online Only)
Looking for a safe space to explore personal or relationship challenges? Our therapists have 10+ years of experience in the corporate world and are uniquely positioned to understand the demands of a high-paced career. In addition to therapy, we specialize in career and life coaching. We aim to make therapy a safe, comfortable and non-judgmental space where the healing process can take place. Learn more about our approach and explore our content by visiting www.moodtherapyclinic.com.
Looking for a safe space to explore personal or relationship challenges? Our therapists have 10+ years of experience in the corporate world and are uniquely positioned to understand the demands of a high-paced career. In addition to therapy, we specialize in career and life coaching. We aim to make therapy a safe, comfortable and non-judgmental space where the healing process can take place. Learn more about our approach and explore our content by visiting www.moodtherapyclinic.com.
(437) 291-8458 View (437) 291-8458
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Aleksandra Drozd
Registered Psychotherapist, RP
Verified Verified
Toronto, ON M6P  (Online Only)
We all struggle in invisible ways as our lives become inhibited by pressures and expectations of the day to day. We are often further debilitated by our less than perfect past, where old hurts and abandon influence our current choices. Most impacted are our relationships, our work, and our connection to the self. I believe therapy gives us the opportunity to both accept what was and is, and through growth orienting processes help us recreate ourselves into versions that feel more aligned with who we would like to become.
We all struggle in invisible ways as our lives become inhibited by pressures and expectations of the day to day. We are often further debilitated by our less than perfect past, where old hurts and abandon influence our current choices. Most impacted are our relationships, our work, and our connection to the self. I believe therapy gives us the opportunity to both accept what was and is, and through growth orienting processes help us recreate ourselves into versions that feel more aligned with who we would like to become.
(289) 206-8733 View (289) 206-8733
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Estera Lawrance
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Guelph, ON N1H  (Online Only)
I specialize in empowering teens and adults facing challenges, such as anxiety, life transitions, relationship dynamics, and self-discovery. Throughout my career, I have dedicated myself to the transformative principles of harm reduction, fostering resilience within diverse communities. Recently, I've channeled this passion into providing tailored support to university students, acknowledging and addressing their unique needs. With a profound focus on inclusivity, I actively support individuals within the trans community.
I specialize in empowering teens and adults facing challenges, such as anxiety, life transitions, relationship dynamics, and self-discovery. Throughout my career, I have dedicated myself to the transformative principles of harm reduction, fostering resilience within diverse communities. Recently, I've channeled this passion into providing tailored support to university students, acknowledging and addressing their unique needs. With a profound focus on inclusivity, I actively support individuals within the trans community.
(548) 409-0339 View (548) 409-0339
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Core Centre Inc.
Psychologist, PhD, CPsych
Verified Verified
Toronto, ON M5J
Core Centre Inc. provides assessment, consultation and counselling for children, youth and adults. Through our platform we provide online consultations, counselling and therapy with registered psychologists, psychotherapists and social workers. They can assist with a variety of issues, including: learning/academic struggles, behavioural difficulties, developmental delays, autism and relationship problems, among many other challenges.
Core Centre Inc. provides assessment, consultation and counselling for children, youth and adults. Through our platform we provide online consultations, counselling and therapy with registered psychologists, psychotherapists and social workers. They can assist with a variety of issues, including: learning/academic struggles, behavioural difficulties, developmental delays, autism and relationship problems, among many other challenges.
(289) 277-6644 View (289) 277-6644
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Therapy For Men | Michael Walecki
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), MaCP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Mississauga, ON L4Z
Do you feel “numb”, overwhelmed, trapped, or defeated by life? Do these feelings make it hard to show up for the people you care about in your life? Feeling like you haven't “figured out” while you struggle can lead to feeling confused, angry, and ashamed that you're not “good enough”. These feelings can result in addictions, workaholism, low self-esteem, depression, relationship/family issues, and hopelessness. Talking with a therapist can help calm overthinking, provide a sense of hope, and can give you the chance to share what's really on your mind. Press the "Email" button to set up a free 20 minute consultation today.
Do you feel “numb”, overwhelmed, trapped, or defeated by life? Do these feelings make it hard to show up for the people you care about in your life? Feeling like you haven't “figured out” while you struggle can lead to feeling confused, angry, and ashamed that you're not “good enough”. These feelings can result in addictions, workaholism, low self-esteem, depression, relationship/family issues, and hopelessness. Talking with a therapist can help calm overthinking, provide a sense of hope, and can give you the chance to share what's really on your mind. Press the "Email" button to set up a free 20 minute consultation today.
(289) 799-4024 View (289) 799-4024
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Monika Parsons
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, RP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Toronto, ON M4W
If you are looking to create a deeper understanding of yourself, I would like to invite you into exploring psychotherapy. I work with youth and adults who are interested in becoming more of ‘their authentic self’, want to deepen their social-emotional-spiritual connection, and release any hurts, burdens, pains they have had to carry throughout their childhood and adolescence. If you are looking for ways to support your own well-being, manage stress and better understand your emotions/reactions, IFS can create that space for you to experience more harmony, clarity and direction.
If you are looking to create a deeper understanding of yourself, I would like to invite you into exploring psychotherapy. I work with youth and adults who are interested in becoming more of ‘their authentic self’, want to deepen their social-emotional-spiritual connection, and release any hurts, burdens, pains they have had to carry throughout their childhood and adolescence. If you are looking for ways to support your own well-being, manage stress and better understand your emotions/reactions, IFS can create that space for you to experience more harmony, clarity and direction.
(226) 640-4248 View (226) 640-4248
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Sylwia Domanski
Registered Psychotherapist, RP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Orangeville, ON L9W
I am a Registered Psychotherapist, and I am currently offering in-person therapy, or fully online from anywhere in Ontario. I provide an eclectic, client-centered approach to counselling, using best-practices and various treatment methods on a highly individualized basis. I am trained in Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Mindfulness Based practices, Solution Focused, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Somatic Modality. I also have a background working with individuals with dual diagnoses, including Anxiety, Depression, ADHD, Autism Spectrum Disorder, Geriatric, Dementia and complex special needs.
I am a Registered Psychotherapist, and I am currently offering in-person therapy, or fully online from anywhere in Ontario. I provide an eclectic, client-centered approach to counselling, using best-practices and various treatment methods on a highly individualized basis. I am trained in Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Mindfulness Based practices, Solution Focused, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and Somatic Modality. I also have a background working with individuals with dual diagnoses, including Anxiety, Depression, ADHD, Autism Spectrum Disorder, Geriatric, Dementia and complex special needs.
(548) 800-1822 View (548) 800-1822
Anita Maria Pudlik
Registered Social Worker, MA, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Mississauga, ON L5B
Hello and welcome. I am interested in listening to your story and figuring out together how you can address your difficulties. Perhaps you are experiencing painful emotions and have difficulties figuring them out; perhaps you have a lot on your plate and are overwhelmed by the many demands placed on you; perhaps you find yourself dissatisfied with or worried by relationships in your life; or, maybe you or your loved ones are going through a health crisis and need new skills to manage situations you have never encountered before.
Hello and welcome. I am interested in listening to your story and figuring out together how you can address your difficulties. Perhaps you are experiencing painful emotions and have difficulties figuring them out; perhaps you have a lot on your plate and are overwhelmed by the many demands placed on you; perhaps you find yourself dissatisfied with or worried by relationships in your life; or, maybe you or your loved ones are going through a health crisis and need new skills to manage situations you have never encountered before.
(855) 981-1703 View (855) 981-1703
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VivelaVitaTherapies
Registered Social Worker, BHSc, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Kitchener, ON N2M
Do you want to develop strategies to better manage the thoughts, feelings and relationships that are holding you back from a healthy and productive life? Are you struggling to find enjoyment in life, experiencing mental or physical illness, grief, and loss, stress in your job, relationships or as a caregiver or parent? There are steps you can take to improve your psychological well-being, strengthen your relationships and attachments and move towards personal healing and growth. I am here to help you break the cycle or negative thoughts, emotions and relationships and take steps to experience a more positive and fulfilling life.
Do you want to develop strategies to better manage the thoughts, feelings and relationships that are holding you back from a healthy and productive life? Are you struggling to find enjoyment in life, experiencing mental or physical illness, grief, and loss, stress in your job, relationships or as a caregiver or parent? There are steps you can take to improve your psychological well-being, strengthen your relationships and attachments and move towards personal healing and growth. I am here to help you break the cycle or negative thoughts, emotions and relationships and take steps to experience a more positive and fulfilling life.
(226) 400-1912 View (226) 400-1912
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Milton Psychotherapy Centre-Accepting New Clients
RSSW, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Milton, ON L9T
Your journey in therapy will never be the same as someone else's journey. At Milton Psychotherapy Centre, we pride ourselves in providing comprehensive, personalized, and creative mental health services to help our client's find the relief and connection that they are needing. Our team of approachable, down-to-earth, highly skilled therapists specialize in working with a variety of populations: children, teens, adults, couples, families. We specialize in addressing challenges related to relationships, anxiety, depression, trauma, obsessive compulsive behaviour, oppositional defiant disorder, ADHD, intimate partner violence, PTSD.
Your journey in therapy will never be the same as someone else's journey. At Milton Psychotherapy Centre, we pride ourselves in providing comprehensive, personalized, and creative mental health services to help our client's find the relief and connection that they are needing. Our team of approachable, down-to-earth, highly skilled therapists specialize in working with a variety of populations: children, teens, adults, couples, families. We specialize in addressing challenges related to relationships, anxiety, depression, trauma, obsessive compulsive behaviour, oppositional defiant disorder, ADHD, intimate partner violence, PTSD.
(905) 878-3543 View (905) 878-3543

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Emotionally Focused Counsellors

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.