Photo of Erica Russell - Mind and Body Wellness, MA, LPC, ST, Counselor
Mind and Body Wellness
Counselor, MA, LPC, ST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Detroit, MI 48202  (Online Only)
With pursued interest in practices holistically unifying the mind and body, I have an integrative approach deriving from an array of psychotherapeutic tools including mindfulness, CBT, DBT, REBT, ACT and have attained a Certification in Sex Therapy from the University of Michigan.
I am passionate about working with adults struggling with anxiety, depression, identity, sexuality, intimacy, relationship issues, suicidal ideation, self-esteem, abuse, and life change adjustments. I am a strong ally of LGBTQIA+ communities and efforts towards improving mental health.
With pursued interest in practices holistically unifying the mind and body, I have an integrative approach deriving from an array of psychotherapeutic tools including mindfulness, CBT, DBT, REBT, ACT and have attained a Certification in Sex Therapy from the University of Michigan.
I am passionate about working with adults struggling with anxiety, depression, identity, sexuality, intimacy, relationship issues, suicidal ideation, self-esteem, abuse, and life change adjustments. I am a strong ally of LGBTQIA+ communities and efforts towards improving mental health.
(313) 251-1441 View (313) 251-1441
Photo of Dee Church, Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Dee Church
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Detroit, MI 48216
I have experience providing therapeutic services for LGBTQIA+ youth and adults, PLWHA, survivors of sexual assault and intimate partner violence, kink/BDSM practitioners, people in polyamorous and non-monogamous partnerships, and sex workers.
Reaching out and seeking support for yourself can be extremely vulnerable and taxing, especially when you've already been trying to manage overwhelming emotions and the issues of every day life. Even if we do not end up working together, I am glad that you are out here exploring what kind of help is available to you. Shopping for therapists can be tricky. Wherever you are in your journey, my goal is to meet you there and help you discover safe and inviting possibilities towards your goals.
I have experience providing therapeutic services for LGBTQIA+ youth and adults, PLWHA, survivors of sexual assault and intimate partner violence, kink/BDSM practitioners, people in polyamorous and non-monogamous partnerships, and sex workers.
Reaching out and seeking support for yourself can be extremely vulnerable and taxing, especially when you've already been trying to manage overwhelming emotions and the issues of every day life. Even if we do not end up working together, I am glad that you are out here exploring what kind of help is available to you. Shopping for therapists can be tricky. Wherever you are in your journey, my goal is to meet you there and help you discover safe and inviting possibilities towards your goals.
(734) 822-4829 View (734) 822-4829
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Clifford J. Clark
LLMSW, CSAT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Detroit, MI 48235  (Online Only)
With more than 15 years of working with diverse populations in marriage and relationships, inpatient psychiatry, community centers, health care, and church settings, my specialty is Sex Addiction and Marriage/Couples. I am a Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist treating the full spectrum of sexually addictive behaviors and paraphilic disorders. My integrative therapy style is customized to the personality and presenting needs of my clients as I am motivated to help them achieve their optimum goals.
With more than 15 years of working with diverse populations in marriage and relationships, inpatient psychiatry, community centers, health care, and church settings, my specialty is Sex Addiction and Marriage/Couples. I am a Certified Sexual Addiction Therapist treating the full spectrum of sexually addictive behaviors and paraphilic disorders. My integrative therapy style is customized to the personality and presenting needs of my clients as I am motivated to help them achieve their optimum goals.
(248) 237-7709 View (248) 237-7709
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Brodie J. Lobb
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Detroit, MI 48275
Waitlist for new clients
No matter where your sexuality or gender identity falls, I look forward to partnering with you on your adventure towards a more positive mental health.
If you are LGBTQ+, you may be feeling lost and struggling to find someone who “gets” you. As a queer transgender man, I have a unique perspective into the challenges of navigating our world, and I feel empowered to support folks who are exploring what it means to live as their authentic selves. I’m invested in supporting folks at any age who are like us. I encourage you to bring anything into our sessions so we can process things together. All vibes are welcome with me: if you’re having a particularly difficult day, if you’re nervous about starting therapy, if you feel like you should be able to handle this on you own.
No matter where your sexuality or gender identity falls, I look forward to partnering with you on your adventure towards a more positive mental health.
If you are LGBTQ+, you may be feeling lost and struggling to find someone who “gets” you. As a queer transgender man, I have a unique perspective into the challenges of navigating our world, and I feel empowered to support folks who are exploring what it means to live as their authentic selves. I’m invested in supporting folks at any age who are like us. I encourage you to bring anything into our sessions so we can process things together. All vibes are welcome with me: if you’re having a particularly difficult day, if you’re nervous about starting therapy, if you feel like you should be able to handle this on you own.
(248) 213-7702 View (248) 213-7702
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Leonard Uchendu
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, L, M, S, W
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Detroit, MI 48219  (Online Only)
I am specialized in Sex Addiction, Substance Use Disorder, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, impulsiveness, chronic pain, trauma, Grief and Loss issues, Bipolar Disorder and Borderline Personality disorder, relationship conflicts etc.
I understand the daunting task of seeking help. I commend you for your courage to reach out to me for help. You desire therapy because you may be experiencing the following problems: Trauma, Depression,Anxiety, Addiction, Grief and Loss, Chronic Pain, suicide/self-injurious behaviors, interpersonal conflicts and othe psychological difficulties. Certainly, you would like to get to the bottom of your feelings, gain insights, deepen sense of self and self-integration. My therapy room will provide you a safe space to be yourself. I will meet you where you with zero judgment, empathetic ear and evidence based practice.
I am specialized in Sex Addiction, Substance Use Disorder, Anger management, Anxiety, Depression, impulsiveness, chronic pain, trauma, Grief and Loss issues, Bipolar Disorder and Borderline Personality disorder, relationship conflicts etc.
I understand the daunting task of seeking help. I commend you for your courage to reach out to me for help. You desire therapy because you may be experiencing the following problems: Trauma, Depression,Anxiety, Addiction, Grief and Loss, Chronic Pain, suicide/self-injurious behaviors, interpersonal conflicts and othe psychological difficulties. Certainly, you would like to get to the bottom of your feelings, gain insights, deepen sense of self and self-integration. My therapy room will provide you a safe space to be yourself. I will meet you where you with zero judgment, empathetic ear and evidence based practice.
(517) 684-2907 View (517) 684-2907
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Khesed Wellness
LPC
Verified Verified
13 Endorsed
Detroit, MI 48213
We believe everyone deserves access to quality mental health therapy they can afford. Our team of therapists offer a variety of expertise, including anxiety, depression, PTSD, addiction and substance use, eating disorders, LGBTQ+ issues, faith, sexuality, boundary setting, identity exploration, and more. We offer individual, couples, and family sessions. Our goal is to match you with the therapist who is the best therapeutic, cultural and relational fit to meet your needs. We return all outreaches within one business day and match you with a therapist within one week so you don't have to wait for care. We're here for you.
We believe everyone deserves access to quality mental health therapy they can afford. Our team of therapists offer a variety of expertise, including anxiety, depression, PTSD, addiction and substance use, eating disorders, LGBTQ+ issues, faith, sexuality, boundary setting, identity exploration, and more. We offer individual, couples, and family sessions. Our goal is to match you with the therapist who is the best therapeutic, cultural and relational fit to meet your needs. We return all outreaches within one business day and match you with a therapist within one week so you don't have to wait for care. We're here for you.
(720) 844-8606 View (720) 844-8606
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Holly Flammer
PhD(c), MA, QMHA
Verified Verified
Detroit, MI 48202
Please ALWAYS reach out via email to schedule consultations, not via phone calls. am taking new clients! I specialize in: attachment and adult relationships, reframing pathology and mental illness diagnosis, addiction issues, sexual trauma and sexual dysfunction, shadow and dream work, psychedelic integration and narrative therapies and lastly self actualization and living and creating the life of your dreams! Reach out today to chat! Holly Flammer, QMHA (Qualified Mental Health Associate-Medicaid), MA (Masters in Transpersonal Psychology), Ph.D. (c), (Ph.D. candidate in Jungian Depth Psychology and Integrative Healing Methods).
Please ALWAYS reach out via email to schedule consultations, not via phone calls. am taking new clients! I specialize in: attachment and adult relationships, reframing pathology and mental illness diagnosis, addiction issues, sexual trauma and sexual dysfunction, shadow and dream work, psychedelic integration and narrative therapies and lastly self actualization and living and creating the life of your dreams! Reach out today to chat! Holly Flammer, QMHA (Qualified Mental Health Associate-Medicaid), MA (Masters in Transpersonal Psychology), Ph.D. (c), (Ph.D. candidate in Jungian Depth Psychology and Integrative Healing Methods).
(775) 535-5974 View (775) 535-5974
Photo of Tasha Williams - Innovative Therapeutic Solutions, LLC, LMSW, CAADC, SAP, CSSW, LLPC, Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Innovative Therapeutic Solutions, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, CAADC, SAP, CSSW, LLPC
Verified Verified
Detroit, MI 48226  (Online Only)
ITS provides mental, health and social services to those in need. ITS offers a collaboration of services for everyone, from the elderly to people with disabilities.These services includes Clinical Services, In-Home and Social Services which include Case Management services that can assist with improving your quality of life. ITS is credentialed and certified in thousands of insurance companies. All clinicians are CAQH (Counsel for Affordable Quality Healthcare) attested. We can help you with trauma, domestic violence, grief and loss, anger, depression, Substance Use Disorders, Personality Disorders, Neurodevelopmental Disorders.
ITS provides mental, health and social services to those in need. ITS offers a collaboration of services for everyone, from the elderly to people with disabilities.These services includes Clinical Services, In-Home and Social Services which include Case Management services that can assist with improving your quality of life. ITS is credentialed and certified in thousands of insurance companies. All clinicians are CAQH (Counsel for Affordable Quality Healthcare) attested. We can help you with trauma, domestic violence, grief and loss, anger, depression, Substance Use Disorders, Personality Disorders, Neurodevelopmental Disorders.
(313) 462-2979 x48226 View (313) 462-2979 x48226
Photo of Kim J Logan-Nowlin, PhD,, LPCBCPC, ACAC,, CCFC, MFT, Licensed Professional Counselor
Kim J Logan-Nowlin
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD,, LPCBCPC, ACAC,, CCFC, MFT
Verified Verified
Detroit, MI 48202
Kim Logan Communications Christian Counseling Clinic has been successfully addressing the needs of families, youth and individuals experiencing problems, or those with maritial concerns, by providing family therapy, child therapy and substance abuse treatment. KLCC has provided employability training and substance abuse treatment to parole and probationary offenders since 1993.
Kim Logan Communications Christian Counseling Clinic has been successfully addressing the needs of families, youth and individuals experiencing problems, or those with maritial concerns, by providing family therapy, child therapy and substance abuse treatment. KLCC has provided employability training and substance abuse treatment to parole and probationary offenders since 1993.
(313) 486-4592 View (313) 486-4592
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Malanna Simmons
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LMSW
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Detroit, MI 48202  (Online Only)
Hi y'all, I'm Malanna, rhymes with Madonna! I’m quite the unorthodox therapist, so I’ve been told, because I approach mental health with the same sincerity that we take with our physical health. I have a lot of respect and appreciation for the people who sit in front of me and trust me with their vulnerability. I'm big on cooperation; pairing your self-insights with my expertise. I'll do my best to help you highlight all of your hidden strengths, buried wins, and natural gifts that life can make us lose sight of. I currently offer telehealth services but I can guarantee it’ll be just as good as seeing me in person!
Hi y'all, I'm Malanna, rhymes with Madonna! I’m quite the unorthodox therapist, so I’ve been told, because I approach mental health with the same sincerity that we take with our physical health. I have a lot of respect and appreciation for the people who sit in front of me and trust me with their vulnerability. I'm big on cooperation; pairing your self-insights with my expertise. I'll do my best to help you highlight all of your hidden strengths, buried wins, and natural gifts that life can make us lose sight of. I currently offer telehealth services but I can guarantee it’ll be just as good as seeing me in person!
(616) 208-5418 View (616) 208-5418
Photo of Megan Dunne, LMSW, Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Megan Dunne
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Detroit, MI 48226  (Online Only)
We all need a little help sometimes. Therapy is a great tool to have to overcome life’s tough times. Are you new to therapy? Or someone who has seen a therapist before? Regardless of your previous experiences with therapy, I offer everyone a safe, private and professional experience. Together we will address your concerns and then plan and execute change. As far back as I can remember, I have always been concerned with other people’s happiness. As a child I knew that one day I would have a career in a “helping profession”. My approach to therapy is a holistic one.
We all need a little help sometimes. Therapy is a great tool to have to overcome life’s tough times. Are you new to therapy? Or someone who has seen a therapist before? Regardless of your previous experiences with therapy, I offer everyone a safe, private and professional experience. Together we will address your concerns and then plan and execute change. As far back as I can remember, I have always been concerned with other people’s happiness. As a child I knew that one day I would have a career in a “helping profession”. My approach to therapy is a holistic one.
(313) 251-4872 View (313) 251-4872
Photo of Matthew Lamonte Allen, LLMFT , Marriage & Family Therapist
Matthew Lamonte Allen
Marriage & Family Therapist, LLMFT
Verified Verified
Detroit, MI 48214  (Online Only)
Thank you for your consideration with allowing me to assist you with your therapy needs. I am a Limited License Marriage and Family Therapist as well as a Certified Advance Alcohol and Drug Counselor with a Development Plan. I can relate to the trials and tribulations of being a single parent, as I was one myself. I am a caring, empathetic, compassionate listener that is non-judgmental, who listens to what you say. I believe every individual deserves therapy sessions specifically designed for that individual only. I try to keep sessions fresh, exciting, fun, while yet informative.
Thank you for your consideration with allowing me to assist you with your therapy needs. I am a Limited License Marriage and Family Therapist as well as a Certified Advance Alcohol and Drug Counselor with a Development Plan. I can relate to the trials and tribulations of being a single parent, as I was one myself. I am a caring, empathetic, compassionate listener that is non-judgmental, who listens to what you say. I believe every individual deserves therapy sessions specifically designed for that individual only. I try to keep sessions fresh, exciting, fun, while yet informative.
(313) 217-3598 View (313) 217-3598
Photo of Dr. Jeff J. Rocker, PhD, NCC, LPC, LPCC, LMHC, Licensed Professional Counselor
Dr. Jeff J. Rocker
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, NCC, LPC, LPCC, LMHC
Verified Verified
Detroit, MI 48226
With 12 years of experience working with clients going through individual, relationship, and family issues, Celebrity Therapist Dr. Jeff Rocker has provided therapeutic services to clients nationwide. He is Licensed in 14 states and has served clients from all age groups. Over the years, Dr. Jeff has organized lectures and various events in the community, including excursions and retreats for couples to improve their communication and better understand each other. He has experience working with athletes in the NFL, NBA, and MLB. In addition, Dr. Jeff has also worked with clients in the Movie, Music, and Entertainment Industries.
With 12 years of experience working with clients going through individual, relationship, and family issues, Celebrity Therapist Dr. Jeff Rocker has provided therapeutic services to clients nationwide. He is Licensed in 14 states and has served clients from all age groups. Over the years, Dr. Jeff has organized lectures and various events in the community, including excursions and retreats for couples to improve their communication and better understand each other. He has experience working with athletes in the NFL, NBA, and MLB. In addition, Dr. Jeff has also worked with clients in the Movie, Music, and Entertainment Industries.
(313) 546-0014 View (313) 546-0014
Photo of Krystal Smith, LMSW, Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Krystal Smith
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Detroit, MI 48224  (Online Only)
The daily challenges of life can be hard and living a life in which you are happy and content can be even harder. Have you been feeling sad or depressed?  Feeling stuck or overwhelmed with the pressures of life?  Grieving? Or maybe facing challenges in your relationships or marriage? Congratulations, today, you are one step closer to feeling empowered to live your very best life and to reach the joy, stability and positive well-being that you deserve! We utilize a holistic approach, addressing every aspect to help you become the person, couple, or family that you desire to be. We are dedicated to seeing you reach your full potential
The daily challenges of life can be hard and living a life in which you are happy and content can be even harder. Have you been feeling sad or depressed?  Feeling stuck or overwhelmed with the pressures of life?  Grieving? Or maybe facing challenges in your relationships or marriage? Congratulations, today, you are one step closer to feeling empowered to live your very best life and to reach the joy, stability and positive well-being that you deserve! We utilize a holistic approach, addressing every aspect to help you become the person, couple, or family that you desire to be. We are dedicated to seeing you reach your full potential
(313) 509-3816 View (313) 509-3816
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The Anger Doctor / Balance Life Mind & Well-Being
Counselor, MA, EdD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Detroit, MI 48243
My team and I aim to help you move pass relationship issues, feeling overwhelmed, unhappy, frustrated or angry. We are ready to help you if you have experienced the loss of a loved one, or have daily feelings of sadness, fatigue or anxiety. We are able to help, if you've had to deal with emotional distress due to physical pain, lack of energy due to medical issues. Perhaps are you faced with job stress/loss, divorce or just an overall feeling of frustration from the daily cares of life? We care and can help you sort things through.
My team and I aim to help you move pass relationship issues, feeling overwhelmed, unhappy, frustrated or angry. We are ready to help you if you have experienced the loss of a loved one, or have daily feelings of sadness, fatigue or anxiety. We are able to help, if you've had to deal with emotional distress due to physical pain, lack of energy due to medical issues. Perhaps are you faced with job stress/loss, divorce or just an overall feeling of frustration from the daily cares of life? We care and can help you sort things through.
(313) 474-6805 View (313) 474-6805
Photo of Avida Johnson, LLMSW, Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Avida Johnson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LLMSW
Verified Verified
Detroit, MI 48201
She is comfortable discussing a broad range of topics including sexual orientation, all identity questions, traumas related to holding minority identities, and sexual assault.
Avida provides therapy around a variety of concerns including anxiety, depression, interpersonal challenges, and general stress; she feels comfortable in offering healing and support around grief, trauma and life transitions. With a foundation of authenticity and trust, Avida assists clients with achieving a deeper understanding of what has happened in their life so far and what is needed to create a more meaningful and happy future.
She is comfortable discussing a broad range of topics including sexual orientation, all identity questions, traumas related to holding minority identities, and sexual assault.
Avida provides therapy around a variety of concerns including anxiety, depression, interpersonal challenges, and general stress; she feels comfortable in offering healing and support around grief, trauma and life transitions. With a foundation of authenticity and trust, Avida assists clients with achieving a deeper understanding of what has happened in their life so far and what is needed to create a more meaningful and happy future.
(734) 802-0364 View (734) 802-0364
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Paul Wierzbicki
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LLMSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Detroit, MI 48216  (Online Only)
Queer, here, and ready to help you heal! If you're looking for someone to help you identify your strengths, reach a new level of insight about you and who you want to become, plus meet you where you're at; I'm here for you. Problems that I can help with include self-esteem building, anxiety, depression, ADHD, stress management, anger management, grief and loss, and adjustments and acceptance of major events, as well as other problems you may be struggling with. I am trained in cognitive behavior therapy (CBT). I can help you identify your thoughts and help provide support forming balanced and adaptive thinking
Queer, here, and ready to help you heal! If you're looking for someone to help you identify your strengths, reach a new level of insight about you and who you want to become, plus meet you where you're at; I'm here for you. Problems that I can help with include self-esteem building, anxiety, depression, ADHD, stress management, anger management, grief and loss, and adjustments and acceptance of major events, as well as other problems you may be struggling with. I am trained in cognitive behavior therapy (CBT). I can help you identify your thoughts and help provide support forming balanced and adaptive thinking
(248) 422-1716 View (248) 422-1716
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Caprice Ellene Quinn (The Gentle Caress)
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Detroit, MI 48223  (Online Only)
Working out of 6 offices around the Metro Detroit area, We are a Mental & Physical Health service that offers Mental Therapy to exercise the mind and if requested we have Fitness Training to exercise the body. We put an emphasis on pregnant & postpartum mothers by offering monthly mommy fitness classes and monthly mommy discussion circles to help prevent or relieve postpartum depression. We have 3 highly educated Licensed therapists and a personal trainer on staff.
Working out of 6 offices around the Metro Detroit area, We are a Mental & Physical Health service that offers Mental Therapy to exercise the mind and if requested we have Fitness Training to exercise the body. We put an emphasis on pregnant & postpartum mothers by offering monthly mommy fitness classes and monthly mommy discussion circles to help prevent or relieve postpartum depression. We have 3 highly educated Licensed therapists and a personal trainer on staff.
(248) 218-9965 View (248) 218-9965
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Yalandria Womack (The Gentle Caress)
Limited Licensed Psychologist
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Detroit, MI 48230  (Online Only)
Working out of 6 offices around the Metro Detroit area, We are a Mental & Physical Health service that offers Mental Therapy to exercise the mind and if requested we have Fitness Training to exercise the body. We put an emphasis on pregnant & postpartum mothers by offering monthly mommy fitness classes and monthly mommy discussion circles to help prevent or relieve postpartum depression. We have 3 highly educated Licensed therapists and a personal trainer on staff.
Working out of 6 offices around the Metro Detroit area, We are a Mental & Physical Health service that offers Mental Therapy to exercise the mind and if requested we have Fitness Training to exercise the body. We put an emphasis on pregnant & postpartum mothers by offering monthly mommy fitness classes and monthly mommy discussion circles to help prevent or relieve postpartum depression. We have 3 highly educated Licensed therapists and a personal trainer on staff.
(248) 247-7638 View (248) 247-7638
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Mark Oskin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Detroit, MI 48236
I have an innate desire to help people understand their strengths, as well as their weaknesses, so that they can live their best lives. After graduating from Boston College's School of Clinical Social Work I began working as an outpatient therapist for Sollars & Associates, a family mental health practice in the Metro Detroit area. My strengths lie with client assessment, counseling and treatment planning, with particular focus in interpersonal and family dynamics. My other interests include building social and community networks and spending time with my dog, Ferguson.
I have an innate desire to help people understand their strengths, as well as their weaknesses, so that they can live their best lives. After graduating from Boston College's School of Clinical Social Work I began working as an outpatient therapist for Sollars & Associates, a family mental health practice in the Metro Detroit area. My strengths lie with client assessment, counseling and treatment planning, with particular focus in interpersonal and family dynamics. My other interests include building social and community networks and spending time with my dog, Ferguson.
(313) 513-6287 View (313) 513-6287
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Sex Therapy

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.