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Mike Filiaci
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
14 Endorsed
Cedar Grove, NJ 07009
Waitlist for new clients
I specialize in anxiety, depression, trauma, and relationship distress, but also treat a wide range of mental-health related conditions.
I believe that developing a genuinely trusting and real connection with your therapist is one of the most important aspects of psychotherapy. Coping with any form of emotional distress can be a lonely and overwhelming experience, and trying to manage life’s demands while feeling physically or mentally exhausted may seem impossible. My first priority is to develop a collaborative plan together, to directly address your individualized treatment needs. I will provide an authentic, nonjudgmental environment that can help promote a sense of safety, support, positive change, and genuine insight into some of your presenting concerns.
I specialize in anxiety, depression, trauma, and relationship distress, but also treat a wide range of mental-health related conditions.
I believe that developing a genuinely trusting and real connection with your therapist is one of the most important aspects of psychotherapy. Coping with any form of emotional distress can be a lonely and overwhelming experience, and trying to manage life’s demands while feeling physically or mentally exhausted may seem impossible. My first priority is to develop a collaborative plan together, to directly address your individualized treatment needs. I will provide an authentic, nonjudgmental environment that can help promote a sense of safety, support, positive change, and genuine insight into some of your presenting concerns.
(973) 240-5294 View (973) 240-5294
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Laurye Abraham
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cedar Grove, NJ 07009
Are you dealing with a life change, anxiety, feelings of loss? Feeling stuck and wanting to make positive changes in your life but have no idea where to start? Seeking help is the first step, this is where change begins. I work with adolescents, adults and seniors from diverse backgrounds dealing with a wide range of clinical issues including anxiety, depression, life transitions, relationship issues, and adjustments of all kinds.
Are you dealing with a life change, anxiety, feelings of loss? Feeling stuck and wanting to make positive changes in your life but have no idea where to start? Seeking help is the first step, this is where change begins. I work with adolescents, adults and seniors from diverse backgrounds dealing with a wide range of clinical issues including anxiety, depression, life transitions, relationship issues, and adjustments of all kinds.
(973) 841-8796 View (973) 841-8796
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Lauren Hajisafari
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cedar Grove, NJ 07009  (Online Only)
The relationship with yourself is the most important one that you have.
To be self-aware and recognize that you need help is a strength that should be acknowledged. Taking the next step and finding a therapist can be both nerve-wracking and uncomfortable. While deciding to seek therapy is hard enough, finding an approachable and empathetic therapist should not be. Although it is my job to counsel and treat my clients, it is my passion to empower and encourage my clients to grow and achieve their goals. By establishing a strong rapport and a safe environment, the therapeutic relationship becomes supportive, collaborative, and non-judgmental without effort.
The relationship with yourself is the most important one that you have.
To be self-aware and recognize that you need help is a strength that should be acknowledged. Taking the next step and finding a therapist can be both nerve-wracking and uncomfortable. While deciding to seek therapy is hard enough, finding an approachable and empathetic therapist should not be. Although it is my job to counsel and treat my clients, it is my passion to empower and encourage my clients to grow and achieve their goals. By establishing a strong rapport and a safe environment, the therapeutic relationship becomes supportive, collaborative, and non-judgmental without effort.
(201) 778-7607 View (201) 778-7607
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Susan J Hodos
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Cedar Grove, NJ 07009  (Online Only)
Listening to the narrative of every person's life is fascinating to me. I am empathic, interactive and am a firm believer that good therapy brings results that make people feel more comfortable, empowered, and gives you the strength that is needed to grow. Therapy begins with identifying destructive themes that repeatedly arise, and interfere with one's life. I believe that therapy should be transformative, and provide a healing experience. I am particularly skilled in working with panic disorder/, depression, divorce conflict, and trauma, including sexual abuse.
Listening to the narrative of every person's life is fascinating to me. I am empathic, interactive and am a firm believer that good therapy brings results that make people feel more comfortable, empowered, and gives you the strength that is needed to grow. Therapy begins with identifying destructive themes that repeatedly arise, and interfere with one's life. I believe that therapy should be transformative, and provide a healing experience. I am particularly skilled in working with panic disorder/, depression, divorce conflict, and trauma, including sexual abuse.
(973) 949-6034 View (973) 949-6034
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Talia S Filippelli
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, CHHC, CPT
Verified Verified
Cedar Grove, NJ 07009
I’m a goal-activating expert at helping people let go of emotional baggage and start living the life of their dreams. My priority in session is to make sure you get what you need out of the experience. Period. How do I do that? By providing a judgement free space to openly discuss and explore your “stuff.” And yes, we all have it! This “stuff” includes stress, anxiety, and other emotional roadblocks that are disrupting your life. I will help you identify faulty thinking patterns, confront your fears, and retrain your brain. This process is so powerful and transformative that it almost seems like a short-cut to achieving goals.
I’m a goal-activating expert at helping people let go of emotional baggage and start living the life of their dreams. My priority in session is to make sure you get what you need out of the experience. Period. How do I do that? By providing a judgement free space to openly discuss and explore your “stuff.” And yes, we all have it! This “stuff” includes stress, anxiety, and other emotional roadblocks that are disrupting your life. I will help you identify faulty thinking patterns, confront your fears, and retrain your brain. This process is so powerful and transformative that it almost seems like a short-cut to achieving goals.
(201) 258-7229 View (201) 258-7229
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Leora Perlman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Cedar Grove, NJ 07009
Waitlist for new clients
My work is dedicated to helping you embrace who you are in order to live a fulfilling and balanced life. I focus on developing your ability to understand the powerful connection between your mind and body. This insight facilitates a path toward healing from current and past challenges. During the course of our work, I will help you develop your "Emotional Intelligence" (understanding of what motivates feelings and actions) and acquire the tools needed to overcome barriers blocking growth and change. Once you gain these coping skills, you will find yourself open to loving relationships, living in the present and creating a more fulfilling life.
My work is dedicated to helping you embrace who you are in order to live a fulfilling and balanced life. I focus on developing your ability to understand the powerful connection between your mind and body. This insight facilitates a path toward healing from current and past challenges. During the course of our work, I will help you develop your "Emotional Intelligence" (understanding of what motivates feelings and actions) and acquire the tools needed to overcome barriers blocking growth and change. Once you gain these coping skills, you will find yourself open to loving relationships, living in the present and creating a more fulfilling life.
(646) 679-5992 View (646) 679-5992
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Dr. Christopher Thompson
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPC, ACS
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Cedar Grove, NJ 07009
Not accepting new clients
Distress can look very different person-to-person. You may feel anxious in social situations, unsafe because of past trauma, at a loss with your intimate partner, or increasingly concerned about your relationship with alcohol and other substances. Perhaps you're feeling misunderstood or marginalized by others, or facing structural barriers that lead to feelings of helplessness and low self-worth. If any of these circumstances speak to you, it's important to have an affirming space where you can share your experience without judgement, to feel safe and at ease, and to discover new ways of overcoming adversities in your life.
Distress can look very different person-to-person. You may feel anxious in social situations, unsafe because of past trauma, at a loss with your intimate partner, or increasingly concerned about your relationship with alcohol and other substances. Perhaps you're feeling misunderstood or marginalized by others, or facing structural barriers that lead to feelings of helplessness and low self-worth. If any of these circumstances speak to you, it's important to have an affirming space where you can share your experience without judgement, to feel safe and at ease, and to discover new ways of overcoming adversities in your life.
(201) 371-7740 View (201) 371-7740

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Photo of Loren A. Galese, Licensed Professional Counselor in Cedar Grove, NJ
Loren A. Galese
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042
I believe everyone has the ability to make positive changes in their lives with encouragement, positive regard and by building effective lines of communication. My specialty areas include Self esteem in adolescents, Anxiety, Depression, Mood disorders, stress and life changes, family conflict and relationship conflict. I believe in person center therapeutic approach, helping the client feel safe while giving them the tools to work towards overcoming their challenges in life.
I believe everyone has the ability to make positive changes in their lives with encouragement, positive regard and by building effective lines of communication. My specialty areas include Self esteem in adolescents, Anxiety, Depression, Mood disorders, stress and life changes, family conflict and relationship conflict. I believe in person center therapeutic approach, helping the client feel safe while giving them the tools to work towards overcoming their challenges in life.
(201) 584-7927 View (201) 584-7927
Photo of Alejandra Schraier, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Cedar Grove, NJ
Alejandra Schraier
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Montclair, NJ 07042  (Online Only)
I'm a Psychotherapist with a background in Psychoanalysis. During more than twenty-five years of clinical experience I have worked with a global clientele with cultural diversity; focusing my practice on the treatment of adolescents and adults who struggle with anxiety, depression, addictions, family, and relationship problems. My training began as a Psychologist in Argentina, and years later I completed a master in Social Work at New York University. Additionally, I have done extensive training in Psychoanalysis at the World Association for Psychoanalysis.
I'm a Psychotherapist with a background in Psychoanalysis. During more than twenty-five years of clinical experience I have worked with a global clientele with cultural diversity; focusing my practice on the treatment of adolescents and adults who struggle with anxiety, depression, addictions, family, and relationship problems. My training began as a Psychologist in Argentina, and years later I completed a master in Social Work at New York University. Additionally, I have done extensive training in Psychoanalysis at the World Association for Psychoanalysis.
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Photo of Jacqueline Mesnik, Psychologist in Cedar Grove, NJ
Jacqueline Mesnik
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07043  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I am a clinical psychologist who works with individual children, adolescents and adults. I believe successful treatment is based upon a warm and collaborative therapeutic relationship. Changing patterns of behavior, ways of thinking and relating to others can be daunting and requires a patient and understanding therapist who can help you tackle the problem from different angles.
I am a clinical psychologist who works with individual children, adolescents and adults. I believe successful treatment is based upon a warm and collaborative therapeutic relationship. Changing patterns of behavior, ways of thinking and relating to others can be daunting and requires a patient and understanding therapist who can help you tackle the problem from different angles.
(917) 243-9042 View (917) 243-9042
Photo of Kevin Wittenberg, Psychologist and Psychoanalyst, Psychologist in Cedar Grove, NJ
Kevin Wittenberg, Psychologist and Psychoanalyst
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Upper Montclair, NJ 07043  (Online Only)
I especially pay attention to the relationship that develops over time between myself and clients as it can often provide a very rich growth experience.
Our capacity to connect, both with ourselves (i.e. our passions, feelings, and body) and with others, is crucial to our feelings of well-being. When we connect, we generally feel a sense of aliveness in ourselves and the world. When we can't connect, we feel anxious, isolated, empty, or depressed. I feel my job is to help clients to more fully connect to the range of their experiences. I help adults and adolescents explore why they lose connection. I help them identify, understand, and overcome the deep root of their disconnection. I help them find well-being, which gives me great joy.
I especially pay attention to the relationship that develops over time between myself and clients as it can often provide a very rich growth experience.
Our capacity to connect, both with ourselves (i.e. our passions, feelings, and body) and with others, is crucial to our feelings of well-being. When we connect, we generally feel a sense of aliveness in ourselves and the world. When we can't connect, we feel anxious, isolated, empty, or depressed. I feel my job is to help clients to more fully connect to the range of their experiences. I help adults and adolescents explore why they lose connection. I help them identify, understand, and overcome the deep root of their disconnection. I help them find well-being, which gives me great joy.
(908) 829-6698 View (908) 829-6698
Photo of Peter Diskin, LCSW, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Cedar Grove, NJ
Peter Diskin, LCSW
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, ACSW
Verified Verified
Upper Montclair, NJ 07043
I specialize in working with individuals who feel stuck in their lives whether due to relationship issues, career dissatisfaction or deeper problems such as a history of trauma.
If you are struggling with anxiety, feelings of unworthiness, a sense of loss & grief or relationship problems I can help. I have been working successfully with individuals, couples and families for almost 30 years. Together we will clarify your goals and through our mutual collaboration positive change can occur. If you commit to the process you will make a dramatic shift in your life; (stop repetitive, self-defeating behaviors; start to heal from deeply rooted pain which you may have previously been unable to resolve; learn to actively listen and genuinely hear what your partner, family member, client or boss is saying to you.
I specialize in working with individuals who feel stuck in their lives whether due to relationship issues, career dissatisfaction or deeper problems such as a history of trauma.
If you are struggling with anxiety, feelings of unworthiness, a sense of loss & grief or relationship problems I can help. I have been working successfully with individuals, couples and families for almost 30 years. Together we will clarify your goals and through our mutual collaboration positive change can occur. If you commit to the process you will make a dramatic shift in your life; (stop repetitive, self-defeating behaviors; start to heal from deeply rooted pain which you may have previously been unable to resolve; learn to actively listen and genuinely hear what your partner, family member, client or boss is saying to you.
(973) 671-8170 View (973) 671-8170
Photo of Mario G. LoPresti, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Cedar Grove, NJ
Mario G. LoPresti
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
I work with people experiencing a wide range of concerns including depression, grief, anxiety disorders, fear of commitment, relationship issues, OCD, panic and agoraphobia, work, productivity and career-related issues, underachievement, fear of failure, assertiveness, self-esteem and self-image problems,divorce and stepfamily issues, eating disorders, and adult ADD/ADHD.
I have more than 25 years experience as a psychotherapist in private practice. I'm fortunate to be working with very bright, successful people who may be having difficulties in family or work relationships, struggling with difficult transitions, or may be experiencing anxiety, depression or self-doubt. My therapeutic approach is to explore with you the underlying causes of your concerns and then to create new ways of responding to problems so that they don't resurface.
I work with people experiencing a wide range of concerns including depression, grief, anxiety disorders, fear of commitment, relationship issues, OCD, panic and agoraphobia, work, productivity and career-related issues, underachievement, fear of failure, assertiveness, self-esteem and self-image problems,divorce and stepfamily issues, eating disorders, and adult ADD/ADHD.
I have more than 25 years experience as a psychotherapist in private practice. I'm fortunate to be working with very bright, successful people who may be having difficulties in family or work relationships, struggling with difficult transitions, or may be experiencing anxiety, depression or self-doubt. My therapeutic approach is to explore with you the underlying causes of your concerns and then to create new ways of responding to problems so that they don't resurface.
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Photo of Rona LoPresti, Psychologist in Cedar Grove, NJ
Rona LoPresti
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
I am a licensed psychologist w/ 25+ years experience in private practice. I work with people who have relationship, parenting and career issues who may be struggling with difficult life transitions, losses, fears, self-esteem and self-control issues and those who experience debilitating self-doubt, shyness, self-hatred, jealousy and rage. I also work with Internet addiction issues. My therapeutic approach is to help you get to the root of your emotional concerns and to learn new ways of dealing with problems so that they don't reoccur.
I am a licensed psychologist w/ 25+ years experience in private practice. I work with people who have relationship, parenting and career issues who may be struggling with difficult life transitions, losses, fears, self-esteem and self-control issues and those who experience debilitating self-doubt, shyness, self-hatred, jealousy and rage. I also work with Internet addiction issues. My therapeutic approach is to help you get to the root of your emotional concerns and to learn new ways of dealing with problems so that they don't reoccur.
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Photo of Wellness Counseling, Licensed Professional Counselor in Cedar Grove, NJ
Wellness Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LCSW, LPC
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
We are a group counseling office consisting of 20 therapists (psychologist, licensed professional counselors, licensed social workers) with different specialities in school issues, couples therapy, stress, anxiety, depression and relationship issues.
If you are struggling with depression, anxiety, feelings of low self-worth or want to make changes in your life we are here to help you. We will support you on your counseling journey but also challenge you and bring insight into your situation to show you where blindspots may occur. If you are in a new relationship and don't want to sabotage where things are going or are newly engaged or married we are here to help you transition to the next stage of your life. Our office works with a lot of clients experiencing a quarter life crisis figuring out the many challenges that happen after college into a work life balance.
We are a group counseling office consisting of 20 therapists (psychologist, licensed professional counselors, licensed social workers) with different specialities in school issues, couples therapy, stress, anxiety, depression and relationship issues.
If you are struggling with depression, anxiety, feelings of low self-worth or want to make changes in your life we are here to help you. We will support you on your counseling journey but also challenge you and bring insight into your situation to show you where blindspots may occur. If you are in a new relationship and don't want to sabotage where things are going or are newly engaged or married we are here to help you transition to the next stage of your life. Our office works with a lot of clients experiencing a quarter life crisis figuring out the many challenges that happen after college into a work life balance.
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Photo of Joshua Massler, Psychologist in Cedar Grove, NJ
Joshua Massler
Psychologist, PsyD, MA
Verified Verified
North Caldwell, NJ 07006
Massler has worked closely with children, adolescents and adults diagnosed with a myriad of disorders including but not limited to the following: Anxiety, Depression, Bipolar Disorder, Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder, Self-Esteem Issues, Adjustment Related Concerns, and Marital/Relationship Issues.
Dr. Joshua M. Massler is a licensed clinical psychologist practicing in the state of New Jersey. He received his doctorate degree from NYU Steinhardt School of Education in Applied Psychology, with a specialization in child and adolescent psychology and graduated with honors. Dr. Massler established his own private practice in 2003 and has since become one of the most sought after clinical psychologists in New Jersey and has been featured in numerous media publications. Dr. Massler is wholly committed to every child, adolescent and adult he treats and provides unparalleled attention to every patient he works with.
Massler has worked closely with children, adolescents and adults diagnosed with a myriad of disorders including but not limited to the following: Anxiety, Depression, Bipolar Disorder, Attention Deficit/Hyperactivity Disorder, Self-Esteem Issues, Adjustment Related Concerns, and Marital/Relationship Issues.
Dr. Joshua M. Massler is a licensed clinical psychologist practicing in the state of New Jersey. He received his doctorate degree from NYU Steinhardt School of Education in Applied Psychology, with a specialization in child and adolescent psychology and graduated with honors. Dr. Massler established his own private practice in 2003 and has since become one of the most sought after clinical psychologists in New Jersey and has been featured in numerous media publications. Dr. Massler is wholly committed to every child, adolescent and adult he treats and provides unparalleled attention to every patient he works with.
(973) 552-2008 View (973) 552-2008
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Nan Ellen Wise
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, MSW, MA, LCSW, CST
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07043
I am a psychotherapist/researcher/ neuroscientist who studies how emotions influence our physical and emotional wellbeing. My book" Why Good Sex Matters" (Houghton, Mifflin, Harcourt, 1/2020) explores how imbalances in the wiring of the core emotional systems can disrupt our capacity for pleasure and joy--(contributing to anxiety, depression, relationship issues, and general stress)--and outlines tool to rebalance the body/mind. My clients are seeking insights, tools, and skills to empower their capacity to have deeply joyful and satisfying lives. I work with them to co-create a multifaceted approach to fit their unique needs.
I am a psychotherapist/researcher/ neuroscientist who studies how emotions influence our physical and emotional wellbeing. My book" Why Good Sex Matters" (Houghton, Mifflin, Harcourt, 1/2020) explores how imbalances in the wiring of the core emotional systems can disrupt our capacity for pleasure and joy--(contributing to anxiety, depression, relationship issues, and general stress)--and outlines tool to rebalance the body/mind. My clients are seeking insights, tools, and skills to empower their capacity to have deeply joyful and satisfying lives. I work with them to co-create a multifaceted approach to fit their unique needs.
(973) 587-8635 View (973) 587-8635
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Meridian Mental Health Counseling PLLC
Counselor, LMHC, LPC
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
You may choose therapy for multiple reasons. Whether you are here to resolve relationship conflicts, life transition, loss, or to manage stressors with work, taking this first step can be quite challenging as well as rewarding. Dealing with life problems is often the most challenging aspect of our daily lives; problems often become bigger when you try to ignore them. My goal is to help you understand and overcome these problems. Together, we will work through your vulnerabilities, fears, and beliefs to have a better understanding of how things can be improved.
You may choose therapy for multiple reasons. Whether you are here to resolve relationship conflicts, life transition, loss, or to manage stressors with work, taking this first step can be quite challenging as well as rewarding. Dealing with life problems is often the most challenging aspect of our daily lives; problems often become bigger when you try to ignore them. My goal is to help you understand and overcome these problems. Together, we will work through your vulnerabilities, fears, and beliefs to have a better understanding of how things can be improved.
(347) 334-6638 View (347) 334-6638
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Joyce M. Mermini, LCSW
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW
Verified Verified
17 Endorsed
Upper Montclair, NJ 07043
HELLO AND WELCOME! I provide psychotherapy to tweens, adolescents, adults, couples and families. Through an empowering based perspective, I focus on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, anger management and relationship problems. My expertise is in the area of eating disorders, specializing in improving body image, enhancing self-esteem, and addressing psychological aspects of bariatric weight loss surgery. Using a non-dieting approach leads to a healthier relationship with food. I facilitate a group for adults, identifying triggers as well as developing coping strategies and relapse prevention techniques.
HELLO AND WELCOME! I provide psychotherapy to tweens, adolescents, adults, couples and families. Through an empowering based perspective, I focus on a variety of issues including depression, anxiety, anger management and relationship problems. My expertise is in the area of eating disorders, specializing in improving body image, enhancing self-esteem, and addressing psychological aspects of bariatric weight loss surgery. Using a non-dieting approach leads to a healthier relationship with food. I facilitate a group for adults, identifying triggers as well as developing coping strategies and relapse prevention techniques.
(973) 261-6253 View (973) 261-6253
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Wellness Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, PhD
Verified Verified
Montclair, NJ 07042
We also have a couples therapist that specializes in relationship dynamics and issues.
Looking for a change in your life? Are you having anxious thoughts more regularly and feeling down more often? Therapy can help change your thought patterns and help you develop more positive ways to cope. Our practice offers in-person sessions and Telehealth. Our practice works with all ages from children, teens, college students and adults.
We also have a couples therapist that specializes in relationship dynamics and issues.
Looking for a change in your life? Are you having anxious thoughts more regularly and feeling down more often? Therapy can help change your thought patterns and help you develop more positive ways to cope. Our practice offers in-person sessions and Telehealth. Our practice works with all ages from children, teens, college students and adults.
(551) 266-5518 View (551) 266-5518

Relationship Issues Therapists
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.