Relationship Issues Therapists in Valencia, CA

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Linda Raviv
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Valencia, CA 91355
I believe the key to positive change lies within the therapy relationship.
Making the decision to call or consult a therapist is a difficult one but may be the best gift you can give yourself. It means you have taken an important step in changing your life. As a practicing psychotherapist I have treated adults, families, teens and children since 1981 and love to help people find their true sense of self and improve their functioning at work and in their relationships. Over the years I have helped many adults, children and teens with academic and behavioral issues, family conflicts, depression, anxiety and chronic pain relief.
I believe the key to positive change lies within the therapy relationship.
Making the decision to call or consult a therapist is a difficult one but may be the best gift you can give yourself. It means you have taken an important step in changing your life. As a practicing psychotherapist I have treated adults, families, teens and children since 1981 and love to help people find their true sense of self and improve their functioning at work and in their relationships. Over the years I have helped many adults, children and teens with academic and behavioral issues, family conflicts, depression, anxiety and chronic pain relief.
(661) 412-9609 View (661) 412-9609
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April De Higes-Valencia Relationship Institute
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Valencia, CA 91355
Reach out to me now to improve your relationship before frustrations escalate.
Do you feel like you have the same argument over and over again? Are you tired of fighting? I help individuals and couples learn to effective communicate by actively listening, express feelings calmly, and avoiding blame. I provide a neutral space to explore emotions, identify patterns, and offer guidance to strengthen bonds and navigate challenges in relationships. By facilitating communication, fostering empathy, and teaching conflict resolution skills. you and your partner will understand each other's viewpoints and validate each other's emotions. If your goal is to get along better, I can help you.
Reach out to me now to improve your relationship before frustrations escalate.
Do you feel like you have the same argument over and over again? Are you tired of fighting? I help individuals and couples learn to effective communicate by actively listening, express feelings calmly, and avoiding blame. I provide a neutral space to explore emotions, identify patterns, and offer guidance to strengthen bonds and navigate challenges in relationships. By facilitating communication, fostering empathy, and teaching conflict resolution skills. you and your partner will understand each other's viewpoints and validate each other's emotions. If your goal is to get along better, I can help you.
(661) 367-8322 View (661) 367-8322
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Christine S. Rundall
Psychologist, PhD, RN
Verified Verified
Valencia, CA 91355
My experiences include helping clients manage family, relationship and work issues to more specific problems such as anxiety, panic attacks and depression.
Regardless of how much pain and struggle you may be experiencing, I believe that successful therapy can provide a path to living a happier and more fulfilling life. My approach is collaborative and generally involves helping clients gain more self understanding, as well as learn practical strategies to manage life's challenges.
My experiences include helping clients manage family, relationship and work issues to more specific problems such as anxiety, panic attacks and depression.
Regardless of how much pain and struggle you may be experiencing, I believe that successful therapy can provide a path to living a happier and more fulfilling life. My approach is collaborative and generally involves helping clients gain more self understanding, as well as learn practical strategies to manage life's challenges.
(661) 430-5338 View (661) 430-5338
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Valencia Relationship Institute
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Valencia, CA 91355
Is your child, adolescent or teenager depressed or acting out in ways that have you concerned? Are you worried about your child or teenager's behavior and emotional well being following a divorce? Are you a first responder family seeking culturally competent clinicians? Are you a person in the midst of life transitions and need some help moving forward? If you answered "yes" to any of these questions, there is help. Valencia Relationship Institute (VRI) should be your first call for help. We have 17 therapists with specializations in all of these areas. Call right now and speak to our Client Care Coordinator. See you soon!
Is your child, adolescent or teenager depressed or acting out in ways that have you concerned? Are you worried about your child or teenager's behavior and emotional well being following a divorce? Are you a first responder family seeking culturally competent clinicians? Are you a person in the midst of life transitions and need some help moving forward? If you answered "yes" to any of these questions, there is help. Valencia Relationship Institute (VRI) should be your first call for help. We have 17 therapists with specializations in all of these areas. Call right now and speak to our Client Care Coordinator. See you soon!
(661) 426-8124 x205 View (661) 426-8124 x205
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Michael Paul Wikler
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Valencia, CA 91355
Embarking on the journey to find a therapist can feel overwhelming, but I'm here to simplify the process for you. Specializing in both Brief and Long-term therapy, I navigate the complexities of Relationship challenges, Depression, Anxiety, and uniquely focus on Reunification therapy. With a wealth of experience, I guide individuals and families through the intricate process of rebuilding connections. My approach is marked by empathy, positivity, and a non-judgmental stance, providing a safe space for solace whether you're grappling with longstanding issues or facing an immediate crisis.
Embarking on the journey to find a therapist can feel overwhelming, but I'm here to simplify the process for you. Specializing in both Brief and Long-term therapy, I navigate the complexities of Relationship challenges, Depression, Anxiety, and uniquely focus on Reunification therapy. With a wealth of experience, I guide individuals and families through the intricate process of rebuilding connections. My approach is marked by empathy, positivity, and a non-judgmental stance, providing a safe space for solace whether you're grappling with longstanding issues or facing an immediate crisis.
(661) 425-9013 View (661) 425-9013
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Linda T. Palius
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
Valencia, CA 91355  (Online Only)
Working on a relationship takes patience and hard work, but when making a conscious decision to commit to relationship, it's possible to achieve connection, healing, and a strengthening of your bond.
I Specialize in Couples Therapy, so if you're feeling like you’re struggling in your relationship and it’s time to make some changes, you’ve come to the right place. I’ll help you to communicate issues you repeatedly argue about and never get resolved, issues you’ve avoided or have been afraid to discuss, or anything that is important to you. We'll talk about how the stress of these issues and problems have affected both of you individually and as a couple and we'll develop new and more effective ways to reduce conflict and increase empathy, acceptance, respect, and connection.
Working on a relationship takes patience and hard work, but when making a conscious decision to commit to relationship, it's possible to achieve connection, healing, and a strengthening of your bond.
I Specialize in Couples Therapy, so if you're feeling like you’re struggling in your relationship and it’s time to make some changes, you’ve come to the right place. I’ll help you to communicate issues you repeatedly argue about and never get resolved, issues you’ve avoided or have been afraid to discuss, or anything that is important to you. We'll talk about how the stress of these issues and problems have affected both of you individually and as a couple and we'll develop new and more effective ways to reduce conflict and increase empathy, acceptance, respect, and connection.
(213) 260-2815 View (213) 260-2815
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Muhammad Rahman & Associates, LCSW, Inc.
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
Valencia, CA 91355
Do our dreams mean anything? Are they symbolic or literal? Inner work provides us with the understanding of the relationship between our unconscious and conscious selves- and that can be transformative work.
Life is not about winning or being successful at the end- its about finding life's meaning, its about personal empowerment, our agency, freeing ourselves from fear. We are a rich mixture of archetypes, energies, and potentialities. We have inner conflicts. Instead of reaching resolutions - we often surrender to our impulses and addictions. With hard work, we may evolve our problem into a source of consciousness and growth. When our inner 'healer' is inspired, we struggle towards the unifying truth of the self. One sees, for a brief time, a glimpse of the true unity, beauty, harmony peace. and most importantly - meaning of life.
Do our dreams mean anything? Are they symbolic or literal? Inner work provides us with the understanding of the relationship between our unconscious and conscious selves- and that can be transformative work.
Life is not about winning or being successful at the end- its about finding life's meaning, its about personal empowerment, our agency, freeing ourselves from fear. We are a rich mixture of archetypes, energies, and potentialities. We have inner conflicts. Instead of reaching resolutions - we often surrender to our impulses and addictions. With hard work, we may evolve our problem into a source of consciousness and growth. When our inner 'healer' is inspired, we struggle towards the unifying truth of the self. One sees, for a brief time, a glimpse of the true unity, beauty, harmony peace. and most importantly - meaning of life.
(661) 241-0994 View (661) 241-0994
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Wendy J. Davis, LMFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, EMDR
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Valencia, CA 91355
The quality of your relationship connection impacts your security, joy, and overall life satisfaction.
In-Person Openings for May 2024. Your mental well-being and the health of your relationships are the foundation for a fulfilling, meaningful, and connected life. Are you feeling stuck in the same negative or destructive thoughts, feelings, and behaviors and looking for a new path forward? I will provide the support and guidance you need to access your innate wisdom and healing. Unhappiness in your relationships and/or unresolved trauma can impact all areas of your life, including your work, health, and self-esteem. My number one priority is helping you feel heard, understood, and truly listened to in a safe and compassionate space.
The quality of your relationship connection impacts your security, joy, and overall life satisfaction.
In-Person Openings for May 2024. Your mental well-being and the health of your relationships are the foundation for a fulfilling, meaningful, and connected life. Are you feeling stuck in the same negative or destructive thoughts, feelings, and behaviors and looking for a new path forward? I will provide the support and guidance you need to access your innate wisdom and healing. Unhappiness in your relationships and/or unresolved trauma can impact all areas of your life, including your work, health, and self-esteem. My number one priority is helping you feel heard, understood, and truly listened to in a safe and compassionate space.
(661) 859-4493 View (661) 859-4493
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Donald Goodman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Valencia, CA 91355
I also specialize in issues surrounding relationship problems.
I believe that we all struggle in our daily lives to make sense of things with every challenge that befalls us. Whether you are dealing with a long term issue, an immediate crisis, or anything in between, I want to reassure you that I provide a very comfortable and supportive environment by which you and I can work together to help you overcome whatever challenges you are facing. To me, the most important part of therapy is making a connection with the client and what I believe makes me different from other therapists is my ability to form that connection.
I also specialize in issues surrounding relationship problems.
I believe that we all struggle in our daily lives to make sense of things with every challenge that befalls us. Whether you are dealing with a long term issue, an immediate crisis, or anything in between, I want to reassure you that I provide a very comfortable and supportive environment by which you and I can work together to help you overcome whatever challenges you are facing. To me, the most important part of therapy is making a connection with the client and what I believe makes me different from other therapists is my ability to form that connection.
(323) 570-4154 View (323) 570-4154
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Lori Bauer
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Valencia, CA 91355
Navigating through relationships is one of the most difficult things we do in our lives. Whether it's a love relationship, a family relationship or a professional relationship they are all challenging and can make life stressful at times. Finding a therapist to help you with these challenges is not only difficult but also an additional relationship you will have in your life. I really value and respect this relationship with my clients and want to provide you with a safe and secure environment where you feel a sense of connection and understanding.
Navigating through relationships is one of the most difficult things we do in our lives. Whether it's a love relationship, a family relationship or a professional relationship they are all challenging and can make life stressful at times. Finding a therapist to help you with these challenges is not only difficult but also an additional relationship you will have in your life. I really value and respect this relationship with my clients and want to provide you with a safe and secure environment where you feel a sense of connection and understanding.
(805) 467-7056 View (805) 467-7056
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Lori Montgomery
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Valencia, CA 91354  (Online Only)
With over two decades of experience in Clinical Psychology, I have developed expertise in women's issues, relationship and communication challenges.
You are here looking to feel better. How can I help? My specialty is assisting women and couples with becoming the best version of themselves and developing healthy and fulfilling relationships. Whether you are re-connecting with yourself, recovering from pain in your past, struggling as a parent, having marital/partner issues, or need help navigating a problem that feels too big to tackle alone, I’m here. My approach is empathic, straightforward, and solution oriented. Call me for a free phone consultation about your needs. Together we can decide if I’m a good fit for you.
With over two decades of experience in Clinical Psychology, I have developed expertise in women's issues, relationship and communication challenges.
You are here looking to feel better. How can I help? My specialty is assisting women and couples with becoming the best version of themselves and developing healthy and fulfilling relationships. Whether you are re-connecting with yourself, recovering from pain in your past, struggling as a parent, having marital/partner issues, or need help navigating a problem that feels too big to tackle alone, I’m here. My approach is empathic, straightforward, and solution oriented. Call me for a free phone consultation about your needs. Together we can decide if I’m a good fit for you.
(661) 464-1239 View (661) 464-1239
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Andrew D. Greif
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified Verified
Valencia, CA 91355
It takes a great deal of courage to embark on an experience of bettering one’s life. I feel honored to be a part of that process. Clients arrive in therapy for a myriad of different reasons, but most of all, seem to have a very clear goal of bettering their lives. I truly enjoy collaborating with Clients to make this happen, and strive to give my Clients tools to use many years into the future. I work with children, adolescents, adults and couples with a variety of presenting issues, including anxiety, depression, OCD, eating disorders, relationship issues and addiction.
It takes a great deal of courage to embark on an experience of bettering one’s life. I feel honored to be a part of that process. Clients arrive in therapy for a myriad of different reasons, but most of all, seem to have a very clear goal of bettering their lives. I truly enjoy collaborating with Clients to make this happen, and strive to give my Clients tools to use many years into the future. I work with children, adolescents, adults and couples with a variety of presenting issues, including anxiety, depression, OCD, eating disorders, relationship issues and addiction.
(661) 312-0860 View (661) 312-0860
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Alexandra Field
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT, MT-BC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Valencia, CA 91355
I can help those dealing with a variety of diagnoses and challenges including, but not limited to: depression, anxiety, chronic health issues, as well as parenting, relationship, and communication challenges.
Have you been feeling stuck? Not sure how to move forward? Weighed down by stress and worry? Is life at home tense and unbearable? Do the same patterns keep repeating with your spouse, partner, or significant other? Is sadness overwhelming and you can't seem to feel like your old self? If any of these ring true for you, you're in the right place. I believe that tapping into your own creativity can be a turning point toward self-improvement and healing. I can help you discover and utilize this in new and innovative ways.
I can help those dealing with a variety of diagnoses and challenges including, but not limited to: depression, anxiety, chronic health issues, as well as parenting, relationship, and communication challenges.
Have you been feeling stuck? Not sure how to move forward? Weighed down by stress and worry? Is life at home tense and unbearable? Do the same patterns keep repeating with your spouse, partner, or significant other? Is sadness overwhelming and you can't seem to feel like your old self? If any of these ring true for you, you're in the right place. I believe that tapping into your own creativity can be a turning point toward self-improvement and healing. I can help you discover and utilize this in new and innovative ways.
(661) 446-8031 View (661) 446-8031
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Steven C Kassel
Marriage & Family Therapist, MFT, BCB, BCN
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Valencia, CA 91355
Children, adults and families with a variety of issues are welcomed. I specialize in psychotherapy, biofeedback, neurofeedback, trauma, A.D.D., pain and stress management, anxiety, depression and relationship issues. With a bio-psycho-social perspective I help clients self-regulate relationships and mind-body. I work with marital and relationship issues such as: *Divorce, separation and infidelity *Intimacy and communication *Sexual issues *Destructive and sabotaging patterns *Depression *Anxiety *Fears and phobias *Trauma resolution *Self esteem and self concept *Loss and grief *PTSD *Assertiveness & social skills training *Pain Management * A.D.D. and other problems of brainwave disregulation
Children, adults and families with a variety of issues are welcomed. I specialize in psychotherapy, biofeedback, neurofeedback, trauma, A.D.D., pain and stress management, anxiety, depression and relationship issues. With a bio-psycho-social perspective I help clients self-regulate relationships and mind-body. I work with marital and relationship issues such as: *Divorce, separation and infidelity *Intimacy and communication *Sexual issues *Destructive and sabotaging patterns *Depression *Anxiety *Fears and phobias *Trauma resolution *Self esteem and self concept *Loss and grief *PTSD *Assertiveness & social skills training *Pain Management * A.D.D. and other problems of brainwave disregulation
(661) 218-2882 View (661) 218-2882
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Sara Cote
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Valencia, CA 91354
You and I will work together to help you achieve your relationship goals.
Are unhealthy/toxic relationships causing you stress and anxiety? Are you feeling confused, stuck and unheard? Do you feel your communication skills need improvement? I value each and every one of my clients by with guiding you in achieving more peace and harmony in life. If you are experiencing distress and conflict it's time to make the call. I will offer you a supportive, compassionate environment along with tools and a direct approach to help you overcome your challenges. I use Positive Solution Focused, Cognitive Behavioral approaches in helping you attain healthy relationships, while also getting your own needs met .
You and I will work together to help you achieve your relationship goals.
Are unhealthy/toxic relationships causing you stress and anxiety? Are you feeling confused, stuck and unheard? Do you feel your communication skills need improvement? I value each and every one of my clients by with guiding you in achieving more peace and harmony in life. If you are experiencing distress and conflict it's time to make the call. I will offer you a supportive, compassionate environment along with tools and a direct approach to help you overcome your challenges. I use Positive Solution Focused, Cognitive Behavioral approaches in helping you attain healthy relationships, while also getting your own needs met .
(661) 474-4092 View (661) 474-4092
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Kelly A. Brainard
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MS
Verified Verified
Valencia, CA 91354
Psychotherapy may be helpful to you if: You are experiencing difficulty or conflict/communication problems within a significant relationship. Psychotherapy may also be helpful to you if you are currently experiencing symptoms of depression (feeling hopeless, withdrawal, irritable, etc) or anxiety (excessive worry, obsessive or intrusive thoughts etc.) if you are frequently angry or frequently stressed or you are facing major life challenges or decisions. Psychotherapy is the process of examining and exploring your thoughts, feelings, behavior and relationships as well as learning how to make necessary changes to achieve better life and relationship satisfaction.
Psychotherapy may be helpful to you if: You are experiencing difficulty or conflict/communication problems within a significant relationship. Psychotherapy may also be helpful to you if you are currently experiencing symptoms of depression (feeling hopeless, withdrawal, irritable, etc) or anxiety (excessive worry, obsessive or intrusive thoughts etc.) if you are frequently angry or frequently stressed or you are facing major life challenges or decisions. Psychotherapy is the process of examining and exploring your thoughts, feelings, behavior and relationships as well as learning how to make necessary changes to achieve better life and relationship satisfaction.
(661) 375-7964 View (661) 375-7964
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Mia Mik Hargrove
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Valencia, CA 91354
Feel overwhelmed, sad, worried, angry, lonely, or confused? Do you feel disconnected or unsupported from your intimate relationships? Or are you contemplating a major life change yet feel unsure or fearful of the changes to come? Are you a WOMEN, YOUNG ADULT or TEEN struggling with these feelings? You are not alone. Good news is a warm and trusting therapeutic relationship can lead to personal discoveries, personal growth and profound healing. I will listen attentively, provide compassionate support and together we can identify your strengths and build upon them to develop strategies to live a more meaningful life.
Feel overwhelmed, sad, worried, angry, lonely, or confused? Do you feel disconnected or unsupported from your intimate relationships? Or are you contemplating a major life change yet feel unsure or fearful of the changes to come? Are you a WOMEN, YOUNG ADULT or TEEN struggling with these feelings? You are not alone. Good news is a warm and trusting therapeutic relationship can lead to personal discoveries, personal growth and profound healing. I will listen attentively, provide compassionate support and together we can identify your strengths and build upon them to develop strategies to live a more meaningful life.
(562) 444-1646 View (562) 444-1646
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Kimberly Warner-Getskow
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Valencia, CA 91355
I have several years' experience working with adolescents and adults treating depression, anxiety, and relationship difficulties.
Whether you are dealing with significant life stressors or looking to improve the quality of your interpersonal relationships, you are likely searching for balance, stability, and ultimately, happiness. Therapy is an intricate process of growth and self-discovery; it demands a level of self-introspection and willingness to discover the deeper reaches of yourself. You do not have to remain in a state of depression, anger, or anxiety. You will be provided with a non-judgmental and objective milieu to work toward reduction of unpleasant feelings, debilitating symptoms, interpersonal distress, and more.
I have several years' experience working with adolescents and adults treating depression, anxiety, and relationship difficulties.
Whether you are dealing with significant life stressors or looking to improve the quality of your interpersonal relationships, you are likely searching for balance, stability, and ultimately, happiness. Therapy is an intricate process of growth and self-discovery; it demands a level of self-introspection and willingness to discover the deeper reaches of yourself. You do not have to remain in a state of depression, anger, or anxiety. You will be provided with a non-judgmental and objective milieu to work toward reduction of unpleasant feelings, debilitating symptoms, interpersonal distress, and more.
(661) 237-1431 View (661) 237-1431
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Lori Bergstrom, MFT
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CBP, HHP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Valencia, CA 91354  (Online Only)
Sending you a virtual hello! If you are experiencing challenges where you would like objective support and a proactive sounding board, my practice and style may be a good fit for you. I specialize in mood disorders, anxiety, relationship help, self-esteem, and situational stressors, such as life transitions and general challenges. You'll complete simple clinical measurements such as PHQ-9, and GAD-7 to quickly address core concerns. These assessments measure your current depression and anxiety levels as well as track changes and improvements.
Sending you a virtual hello! If you are experiencing challenges where you would like objective support and a proactive sounding board, my practice and style may be a good fit for you. I specialize in mood disorders, anxiety, relationship help, self-esteem, and situational stressors, such as life transitions and general challenges. You'll complete simple clinical measurements such as PHQ-9, and GAD-7 to quickly address core concerns. These assessments measure your current depression and anxiety levels as well as track changes and improvements.
(805) 317-7887 View (805) 317-7887
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Aaron Kellogg
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Valencia, CA 91381
Are you feeling stuck in your relationship or thought patterns? Do you wish you knew your partner or yourself better than you do now? Do you want to get real answers to these questions? I can help. I have been told by previous clients that they have learned more about their partner and themselves than they have after decades of marriage and therapy. I love helping people get to the bottom-line of what they experience and I excel at it.
Are you feeling stuck in your relationship or thought patterns? Do you wish you knew your partner or yourself better than you do now? Do you want to get real answers to these questions? I can help. I have been told by previous clients that they have learned more about their partner and themselves than they have after decades of marriage and therapy. I love helping people get to the bottom-line of what they experience and I excel at it.
(661) 403-0283 View (661) 403-0283
Relationship Issues Therapists
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.