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Rachel Drotar
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cleveland, OH 44113
It is a goal of mine to provide accessible, pleasure-centered sex and relationship care to the LGBTQIA+ community, with specific focus on queer and non-monogamous relationship structures.
We are evolving people living at the intersections of multiple identities. To discover our own power within our identities, we have an opportunity to learn more about who we are and how we relate. Whether it’s exploring your grief within a loss or learning new skills in improving your intimate relationships, I strive to provide equitable care, which includes considering how structural racism and racial identity impacts the wellness of individuals. I would love to learn more about your story.
It is a goal of mine to provide accessible, pleasure-centered sex and relationship care to the LGBTQIA+ community, with specific focus on queer and non-monogamous relationship structures.
We are evolving people living at the intersections of multiple identities. To discover our own power within our identities, we have an opportunity to learn more about who we are and how we relate. Whether it’s exploring your grief within a loss or learning new skills in improving your intimate relationships, I strive to provide equitable care, which includes considering how structural racism and racial identity impacts the wellness of individuals. I would love to learn more about your story.
(440) 294-6897 View (440) 294-6897
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Alexandria Olosunde
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, ILMFT
Verified Verified
Cleveland, OH 44119  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
While I consider myself a relationship expert by education, I am not naïve enough to believe I am the expert on you or your relationship.
If you are looking for ways to help you learn better ways to communicate your feelings and opinions without unnecessarily arousing the defenses of others, heal from past emotional injuries, develop better individual relationship habits, and learn more about yourself in the process, I’m the therapist for you. If you want to break the cycle of bad relationships in your life, let’s work together to give you the skills you need to be a better partner, peer, parent, or child. I will show you how to communicate in a way that enables you to require that you be treated with respect while making it very easy for others to do so.
While I consider myself a relationship expert by education, I am not naïve enough to believe I am the expert on you or your relationship.
If you are looking for ways to help you learn better ways to communicate your feelings and opinions without unnecessarily arousing the defenses of others, heal from past emotional injuries, develop better individual relationship habits, and learn more about yourself in the process, I’m the therapist for you. If you want to break the cycle of bad relationships in your life, let’s work together to give you the skills you need to be a better partner, peer, parent, or child. I will show you how to communicate in a way that enables you to require that you be treated with respect while making it very easy for others to do so.
(216) 600-1757 View (216) 600-1757
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Hallie B. Durchslag
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LISW-S
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cleveland, OH 44118
Deciding to seek therapy may coincide with intensely difficult circumstances. A key goal is to help you build a sense of confidence in your ability to both change and heal. Even negative emotions and actions can guide us toward wellness when they are reflected upon in a safe and confidential relationship with a therapist.Together, we will explore how your behaviors, thoughts, and feelings affect you in the here and now and also how they have come to be. I offer a straightforward and thoughtful approach that values and accepts the complex facets of what makes us who we are.
Deciding to seek therapy may coincide with intensely difficult circumstances. A key goal is to help you build a sense of confidence in your ability to both change and heal. Even negative emotions and actions can guide us toward wellness when they are reflected upon in a safe and confidential relationship with a therapist.Together, we will explore how your behaviors, thoughts, and feelings affect you in the here and now and also how they have come to be. I offer a straightforward and thoughtful approach that values and accepts the complex facets of what makes us who we are.
(216) 485-3130 View (216) 485-3130
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Kimberly Fuller
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, MSW, MEd, LISW-S, CST
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Cleveland, OH 44113
I am a Licensed Independent Social Worker and AASECT certified sex therapist with experience helping people through individual, relationship, family, and sex therapy.
What's your story? Each person has their own unique story filled with struggle, pain, triumph,and success. I find myself lucky enough to have people share their stories with me every day. I assist people in working through difficult experiences in their past and present, and create a new story for themselves in their future. I seek to help people create better relationships with others through individual, relationship, or sex therapy. I look forward to helping you understand and re-write your story to gain better relationships.
I am a Licensed Independent Social Worker and AASECT certified sex therapist with experience helping people through individual, relationship, family, and sex therapy.
What's your story? Each person has their own unique story filled with struggle, pain, triumph,and success. I find myself lucky enough to have people share their stories with me every day. I assist people in working through difficult experiences in their past and present, and create a new story for themselves in their future. I seek to help people create better relationships with others through individual, relationship, or sex therapy. I look forward to helping you understand and re-write your story to gain better relationships.
(216) 609-3765 View (216) 609-3765
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Jessica B Horvat
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LISW-S
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cleveland, OH 44106  (Online Only)
I approach each therapeutic relationship differently and treat each client as a unique individual.
Let me commend you on your courage to seek out help. Beginning therapy can be difficult. Although people seek therapy for different reasons, I find that all of my clients want their feelings and experiences to be heard, validated and accepted. My therapeutic approach can best be described as warm, supportive and free of judgement. I guide clients to explore their thoughts, emotions, and behaviors, often revealing underlying patterns and triggers. Through self-discovery, they gain insight into the root causes of their suffering, empowering them to overcome obstacles.
I approach each therapeutic relationship differently and treat each client as a unique individual.
Let me commend you on your courage to seek out help. Beginning therapy can be difficult. Although people seek therapy for different reasons, I find that all of my clients want their feelings and experiences to be heard, validated and accepted. My therapeutic approach can best be described as warm, supportive and free of judgement. I guide clients to explore their thoughts, emotions, and behaviors, often revealing underlying patterns and triggers. Through self-discovery, they gain insight into the root causes of their suffering, empowering them to overcome obstacles.
(216) 284-4420 View (216) 284-4420
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Luisa M. Aviv, LISW, Inc.
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LISW, MSSA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Cleveland, OH 44124
With Imago Relationship Therapy, couples will learn to use positive communication, active listening, validation and empathy in a structured non-judgmental format that helps you improve your relationship together.
Hello, and welcome! You have taken the first step on your emotional journey to wellness by seeking a caring professional to partner with you. It takes tremendous courage and strength to begin therapy and I am very happy that you are beginning your journey toward healing and growth. You will be able to explore your emotions and work toward your goals in a safe and supportive space. Progress takes time as you work at your own pace. You do not need to do this work alone. My priority is to help each person leave their session with feelings of hope and the tools you need to work toward your goals. I look forward to meeting you soon.
With Imago Relationship Therapy, couples will learn to use positive communication, active listening, validation and empathy in a structured non-judgmental format that helps you improve your relationship together.
Hello, and welcome! You have taken the first step on your emotional journey to wellness by seeking a caring professional to partner with you. It takes tremendous courage and strength to begin therapy and I am very happy that you are beginning your journey toward healing and growth. You will be able to explore your emotions and work toward your goals in a safe and supportive space. Progress takes time as you work at your own pace. You do not need to do this work alone. My priority is to help each person leave their session with feelings of hope and the tools you need to work toward your goals. I look forward to meeting you soon.
(216) 304-6975 View (216) 304-6975
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Kira Hayes
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Cleveland, OH 44102  (Online Only)
I specialize, with personal and professional experience, in working with gender, sexual/affectional and relationship structure (LGBTQ+/CNM/BDSM) communities.
We immediate availability for relational/couples therapy! - Hi! As a Native, ADHD diagnosed, and queer identifying therapist, I deeply value the significance of knowledgeable and affirming care. Creating a space where you feel at home, truly understood and respected is of utmost importance to me. Let's team up and make therapy a journey where you can freely explore concerns and challenges, deepen effective communication and connection, and experience growth. My approach to therapy is collaborative, interactive, and firmly grounded in up-to-date evidence-based practices, ensuring a tailored and effective experience for you.
I specialize, with personal and professional experience, in working with gender, sexual/affectional and relationship structure (LGBTQ+/CNM/BDSM) communities.
We immediate availability for relational/couples therapy! - Hi! As a Native, ADHD diagnosed, and queer identifying therapist, I deeply value the significance of knowledgeable and affirming care. Creating a space where you feel at home, truly understood and respected is of utmost importance to me. Let's team up and make therapy a journey where you can freely explore concerns and challenges, deepen effective communication and connection, and experience growth. My approach to therapy is collaborative, interactive, and firmly grounded in up-to-date evidence-based practices, ensuring a tailored and effective experience for you.
(740) 240-0927 View (740) 240-0927
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Olivia Campbell
Counselor, MEd, LPCC
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Cleveland, OH 44111  (Online Only)
Regardless of what is presented, the therapeutic relationship is one of support, humor, exploration, and gentle challenging along the way.
Welcome! You can expect a down-to-earth approach as we navigate daily life and reduce distress. I believe suffering is a natural response to life's difficulties and, thus, work through a non-pathologizing lens. Experienced in treating couples, adults, and teens 16+ with feelings of depression and anxiety—as well as issues related to relationships, grief and loss, sexuality and identity, trauma, stress management, and life transitions. Therapy is individualized for each client to support reaching a version of self that aligns with their unique values and objectives.
Regardless of what is presented, the therapeutic relationship is one of support, humor, exploration, and gentle challenging along the way.
Welcome! You can expect a down-to-earth approach as we navigate daily life and reduce distress. I believe suffering is a natural response to life's difficulties and, thus, work through a non-pathologizing lens. Experienced in treating couples, adults, and teens 16+ with feelings of depression and anxiety—as well as issues related to relationships, grief and loss, sexuality and identity, trauma, stress management, and life transitions. Therapy is individualized for each client to support reaching a version of self that aligns with their unique values and objectives.
(216) 925-4292 View (216) 925-4292
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Lauren M Morgan
Marriage & Family Therapist, LPC, MFT
Verified Verified
Cleveland, OH 44102
I am an Licensed Professional Counselor and Marriage and Family Therapist with special training in the attachment theory-based modality of Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy. I believe in building a relationship with clients where they feel safe and accepted, yet challenged to grow. Through this therapeutic relationship, individuals, couples, and families can heal and develop new perspectives and practices they can use throughout their entire lives. I utilize an array of techniques, including psycho-education, genograms, role plays, art therapy, and communication exercises, but I feel the most important aspect to therapy is developing a unique relationship with each client.
I am an Licensed Professional Counselor and Marriage and Family Therapist with special training in the attachment theory-based modality of Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy. I believe in building a relationship with clients where they feel safe and accepted, yet challenged to grow. Through this therapeutic relationship, individuals, couples, and families can heal and develop new perspectives and practices they can use throughout their entire lives. I utilize an array of techniques, including psycho-education, genograms, role plays, art therapy, and communication exercises, but I feel the most important aspect to therapy is developing a unique relationship with each client.
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Lauren Holland
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified Verified
Cleveland, OH 44113
Waitlist for new clients
It's important to me that you find what works for everyone and build a relationship that focuses on what you all need.
I am a marriage and family therapist (MFT) that focuses on helping children, parents, and families explore their world through the modality of play and relational experience in therapy. The overwhelming feelings of anxiety, depression, stress, and conflict that builds in yourself and relationships can keep you feeling stuck and like there is no way out. Through providing a safe space for you and your child to learn more about themselves and for you to learn more about them, there are endless possibilities to do things differently and find relief.
It's important to me that you find what works for everyone and build a relationship that focuses on what you all need.
I am a marriage and family therapist (MFT) that focuses on helping children, parents, and families explore their world through the modality of play and relational experience in therapy. The overwhelming feelings of anxiety, depression, stress, and conflict that builds in yourself and relationships can keep you feeling stuck and like there is no way out. Through providing a safe space for you and your child to learn more about themselves and for you to learn more about them, there are endless possibilities to do things differently and find relief.
(440) 291-8079 View (440) 291-8079
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Jewel Romero
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
Cleveland, OH 44101
I focus primarily in the areas of depression, anxiety, relationship issues, low self-esteem & trauma recovery.
Hi there! I am so happy that you are taking the first step & reaching out for help! It takes a lot of courage to open up to a stranger about the most intimate things in your life. So thank you! I do not take this lightly. As a therapist, I am here to remind you of WHO you are & ALL of the things that you are capable of accomplishing. We all go through different seasons in life: Some high, Some low. So why not reach out for help along the way! It would be an honor to be that help for you.
I focus primarily in the areas of depression, anxiety, relationship issues, low self-esteem & trauma recovery.
Hi there! I am so happy that you are taking the first step & reaching out for help! It takes a lot of courage to open up to a stranger about the most intimate things in your life. So thank you! I do not take this lightly. As a therapist, I am here to remind you of WHO you are & ALL of the things that you are capable of accomplishing. We all go through different seasons in life: Some high, Some low. So why not reach out for help along the way! It would be an honor to be that help for you.
(614) 714-5311 View (614) 714-5311
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Kimberly Koljat
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, IMFT-S, RPT-S, RDT
Verified Verified
Cleveland, OH 44113
Looking for the right fit in therapy is everything, & I gladly meet my clients where they are & help them move towards the change they want to see in their lives. I provide insight-oriented therapy to those who want to work on how they show up in relationship, looking at behavioral patterns and unpacking how we can change the scripts that influence how you interact with others. I help those navigating the world as a Highly Sensitive Person or with neurodivergence, and are interested in therapy for the betterment of their relationship to self and others. I specialize in working with grieving clients navigating life altering change.
Looking for the right fit in therapy is everything, & I gladly meet my clients where they are & help them move towards the change they want to see in their lives. I provide insight-oriented therapy to those who want to work on how they show up in relationship, looking at behavioral patterns and unpacking how we can change the scripts that influence how you interact with others. I help those navigating the world as a Highly Sensitive Person or with neurodivergence, and are interested in therapy for the betterment of their relationship to self and others. I specialize in working with grieving clients navigating life altering change.
(216) 238-6815 View (216) 238-6815
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Teresa Rogers
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, IMFT-S, PCC-S
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Cleveland, OH 44143
Dr. Teresa Rogers (she/her) is the owner of The Relationship Center. She graduated from the University of Akron with a Doctorate of Philosophy. Dr. Rogers is a licensed Independent Marriage and Family Therapist and Professional Clinical Counselor. She works with couples, families and individuals on a variety of presenting concerns. Currently, she supervises pre-license level clinicians in counseling and marriage and family therapy fields. Teresa's treatment process integrates the therapeutic power of nature, EMDR, movement and mindfulness practices to support each client in meeting their mental health goals.
Dr. Teresa Rogers (she/her) is the owner of The Relationship Center. She graduated from the University of Akron with a Doctorate of Philosophy. Dr. Rogers is a licensed Independent Marriage and Family Therapist and Professional Clinical Counselor. She works with couples, families and individuals on a variety of presenting concerns. Currently, she supervises pre-license level clinicians in counseling and marriage and family therapy fields. Teresa's treatment process integrates the therapeutic power of nature, EMDR, movement and mindfulness practices to support each client in meeting their mental health goals.
(330) 238-4022 View (330) 238-4022
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Dr. Sherdene A Simpson
Marriage & Family Therapist, PhD, MFT, LPCC-S, LMHC, CHT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Cleveland, OH 44146  (Online Only)
DO YOU DESIRE CHANGE? Are you tired of being stuck? You can have a better quality of life. Do you have relationship problems (dating, married, family, getting along with others)? You have been "STUCK AND FRUSTRATED" too long...Call me. Are you seriously dating and considering marriage? Completing a premarital program is a MUST - "Before you plan your wedding, Plan your marriage!" Do you struggle with depression, anxiety and life issues..Let's start your journey....YOU CAN HAVE A BETTER QUALITY OF LIFE!
DO YOU DESIRE CHANGE? Are you tired of being stuck? You can have a better quality of life. Do you have relationship problems (dating, married, family, getting along with others)? You have been "STUCK AND FRUSTRATED" too long...Call me. Are you seriously dating and considering marriage? Completing a premarital program is a MUST - "Before you plan your wedding, Plan your marriage!" Do you struggle with depression, anxiety and life issues..Let's start your journey....YOU CAN HAVE A BETTER QUALITY OF LIFE!
(440) 607-4720 View (440) 607-4720
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Danielle Timmons
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LISW
Verified Verified
Cleveland, OH 44118
The safety of a therapeutic relationship will help you explore the issues affecting your well-being.
Welcome. Perhaps you have arrived here feeling anxious, uncertain or curious about therapy. As a therapist, I'm here to help guide you through painful emotions and difficult experiences. I specialize in working with women struggling with depression, anxiety, shame, relationships and addiction. The vision you have of yourself leading a healthier, and happier life is possible. You are deserving and capable of creating a more fulfilling life.
The safety of a therapeutic relationship will help you explore the issues affecting your well-being.
Welcome. Perhaps you have arrived here feeling anxious, uncertain or curious about therapy. As a therapist, I'm here to help guide you through painful emotions and difficult experiences. I specialize in working with women struggling with depression, anxiety, shame, relationships and addiction. The vision you have of yourself leading a healthier, and happier life is possible. You are deserving and capable of creating a more fulfilling life.
(216) 208-5406 View (216) 208-5406
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Leslie LaFleur
Psychologist, PsyD, ATR
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Cleveland, OH 44106
Individual therapy offers a non-judgemental space for you to learn more about yourself and the issues that are troubling to you. Central to my practice is a supportive and trusting relationship in which you can feel valued, respected, and worthy. I will be with you throughout the process, offering my support, encouragement, and candid observations. Facing these issues can be intimidating and seeking help takes courage. Whether you work with me or another professional, I am glad you are beginning this journey.
Individual therapy offers a non-judgemental space for you to learn more about yourself and the issues that are troubling to you. Central to my practice is a supportive and trusting relationship in which you can feel valued, respected, and worthy. I will be with you throughout the process, offering my support, encouragement, and candid observations. Facing these issues can be intimidating and seeking help takes courage. Whether you work with me or another professional, I am glad you are beginning this journey.
(216) 303-8964 View (216) 303-8964
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Jharie D. Parker
Counselor, LPCC-S
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Cleveland, OH 44143
Additionally, I have experience with those struggling in their (Christian) faith and wanting to heal their relationship with God.
These days, there seems more and more to be anxious about and hope can feel scarce. Between societal issues, racial trauma, the pressures of “adulting”, and navigating challenging relationships, we all need a safe space. Counseling can be that safe space. If you are ready to cultivate an improved quality of life, healthier relationships, or if you just need support dealing with life’s challenges, I’m here to journey with you. I’m passionate about hearing people’s stories and helping to create meaning. Additionally, if you are a counselor looking to develop professionally, I offer clinical supervision.
Additionally, I have experience with those struggling in their (Christian) faith and wanting to heal their relationship with God.
These days, there seems more and more to be anxious about and hope can feel scarce. Between societal issues, racial trauma, the pressures of “adulting”, and navigating challenging relationships, we all need a safe space. Counseling can be that safe space. If you are ready to cultivate an improved quality of life, healthier relationships, or if you just need support dealing with life’s challenges, I’m here to journey with you. I’m passionate about hearing people’s stories and helping to create meaning. Additionally, if you are a counselor looking to develop professionally, I offer clinical supervision.
(440) 262-5937 View (440) 262-5937
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L Claire Campbell
Counselor, ATR, LPCC-S
Verified Verified
Cleveland, OH 44111
My role as therapist is one who guides and supports my client achieving goals created through the supportive, authentic, therapeutic relationship.
Are you feeling exhausted, overwhelmed, anxious or grieving? Going through a big life transition? I will meet you where you are in life in a safe, affirming space to explore your personal story, growth, and potential. I can help you make sense of things through traditional talk therapy coupled with somatic processing, mindfulness practice, relaxation techniques, guided imagery, movement and art therapy. I view each client as unique and having a powerful story to share. I will work with you to identify your inherent strengths, growing edges and support developing what changes will foster ongoing hope and positivity.
My role as therapist is one who guides and supports my client achieving goals created through the supportive, authentic, therapeutic relationship.
Are you feeling exhausted, overwhelmed, anxious or grieving? Going through a big life transition? I will meet you where you are in life in a safe, affirming space to explore your personal story, growth, and potential. I can help you make sense of things through traditional talk therapy coupled with somatic processing, mindfulness practice, relaxation techniques, guided imagery, movement and art therapy. I view each client as unique and having a powerful story to share. I will work with you to identify your inherent strengths, growing edges and support developing what changes will foster ongoing hope and positivity.
(216) 206-8889 View (216) 206-8889
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Commitment to Hope Counseling - Gwenette James
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LISW-S
Verified Verified
Cleveland, OH 44103
I understand your concerns and stresses due to life's issues. Our team can treat your emotional needs: anxiety, depression, and relationship issues, to name a few. Perhaps you are looking for help with overcoming conflict in relationships. It may be you who feel as though you have no means of help with dealing with genuine struggles. Obstacles and trials are not uncommon for everyone. You are not alone. A plan will be tailored to your specific situation. I have a team of skilled therapists prepared to empower you to succeed.
I understand your concerns and stresses due to life's issues. Our team can treat your emotional needs: anxiety, depression, and relationship issues, to name a few. Perhaps you are looking for help with overcoming conflict in relationships. It may be you who feel as though you have no means of help with dealing with genuine struggles. Obstacles and trials are not uncommon for everyone. You are not alone. A plan will be tailored to your specific situation. I have a team of skilled therapists prepared to empower you to succeed.
(440) 345-8458 View (440) 345-8458
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Carol Masso
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor, MEd, LPCC
Verified Verified
Cleveland, OH 44122
I have experience working with individuals from diverse backgrounds who are healing from depression, complex PTSD, anxiety, life-adjustment issues, grief and interpersonal difficulties, Although I work with all issues, some specialties are relationship issues, narcissistic and relational abuse, and trauma. I have specialized training and several years experience working with addiction in treatment centers and helping families of addicts.
I have experience working with individuals from diverse backgrounds who are healing from depression, complex PTSD, anxiety, life-adjustment issues, grief and interpersonal difficulties, Although I work with all issues, some specialties are relationship issues, narcissistic and relational abuse, and trauma. I have specialized training and several years experience working with addiction in treatment centers and helping families of addicts.
(216) 616-1712 View (216) 616-1712
Relationship Issues Therapists
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.