Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists in Short Hills, NJ

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Yvette R Murry
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, MHFA, ACC
Verified Verified
Short Hills, NJ 07078  (Online Only)
, sensuality, non-monogamy, kink), family building, reproductive health & navigating life transitions.
Welcome to Aspire Institute for Holistic Health & Financial Wellness. As a concierge mental health, financial wellness, and coaching firm, we support individuals & couples who seek to improve the quality of their lives. Maintaining healthy relationships, financial concerns and societal demands have left many feeling depleted. While you may be experiencing challenges at this time in your life, they don't define you. Together, we will co-create a path to assist you in visioning, creating, and reaching the future you deserve.
, sensuality, non-monogamy, kink), family building, reproductive health & navigating life transitions.
Welcome to Aspire Institute for Holistic Health & Financial Wellness. As a concierge mental health, financial wellness, and coaching firm, we support individuals & couples who seek to improve the quality of their lives. Maintaining healthy relationships, financial concerns and societal demands have left many feeling depleted. While you may be experiencing challenges at this time in your life, they don't define you. Together, we will co-create a path to assist you in visioning, creating, and reaching the future you deserve.
(848) 242-8466 View (848) 242-8466
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Amy Roter
Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Short Hills, NJ 07078
Are you feeling stuck in sadness, frustration or overwhelmed? Do you feel like circumstances out of your control are getting in the way of your happiness? Are you watching your child suffer and you do not know how to help them? You are not alone. So many people suffer in silence. I am so proud of you that you made it here! My job is to connect with you, hear your story and what you need, and help you get that in a way that works for you. Therapy is not one size fits all, and it mainly depends on how you feel with me, so reach out for a phone call, and let’s see if I can help you.
Are you feeling stuck in sadness, frustration or overwhelmed? Do you feel like circumstances out of your control are getting in the way of your happiness? Are you watching your child suffer and you do not know how to help them? You are not alone. So many people suffer in silence. I am so proud of you that you made it here! My job is to connect with you, hear your story and what you need, and help you get that in a way that works for you. Therapy is not one size fits all, and it mainly depends on how you feel with me, so reach out for a phone call, and let’s see if I can help you.
(973) 577-9057 View (973) 577-9057
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Abigail Marshall
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSW
Verified Verified
Short Hills, NJ 07078
As a trauma informed therapist, I am interested in the interconnectedness of the mind and body and use my training and experience to guide individuals through the process of identifying and strengthening the power within to achieve balance, joy, and a sense of greater purpose. I work using a holistic approach incorporating multiple aspects of the human experience, including nutrition, physical wellness and social or familial support. I am trained in Internal Family Systems (IFS) and have completed Level One through The IFS Institute.
As a trauma informed therapist, I am interested in the interconnectedness of the mind and body and use my training and experience to guide individuals through the process of identifying and strengthening the power within to achieve balance, joy, and a sense of greater purpose. I work using a holistic approach incorporating multiple aspects of the human experience, including nutrition, physical wellness and social or familial support. I am trained in Internal Family Systems (IFS) and have completed Level One through The IFS Institute.
(973) 221-9200 View (973) 221-9200
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Vincent J. Fitzgerald
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CFRC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Short Hills, NJ 07078  (Online Only)
Psychotherapy is a relationship in which client and clinician align in the hope of growth and change. I am ready to invest in people willing to invest in themselves, and I do so in a compassionate, and inclusive way. I am open to individuals, couples, and families, am sensitive to cultural and religious differential, and welcome all members of the LGBTQ community. Through our relationship, we will realize your potential, and actualize your highest self. When you are ready to connect, I will meet you where you are, and journey with your toward fulfillment.
Psychotherapy is a relationship in which client and clinician align in the hope of growth and change. I am ready to invest in people willing to invest in themselves, and I do so in a compassionate, and inclusive way. I am open to individuals, couples, and families, am sensitive to cultural and religious differential, and welcome all members of the LGBTQ community. Through our relationship, we will realize your potential, and actualize your highest self. When you are ready to connect, I will meet you where you are, and journey with your toward fulfillment.
(973) 828-8274 View (973) 828-8274
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Laura Geftman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Short Hills, NJ 07078  (Online Only)
I am here for you. When times are tough, it’s important to have the right support to nurture hope, focus on strength, and harness the power of uncertainty. You can stop surviving and start living again. Together we can explore the darkness & the light, and find your way thru it. We will tailor an approach to support your intentions, needs, and goals. You will become more aware of your core beliefs and better understand your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. You’ll find our work to discover insight, self-acceptance, and freedom challenging but also profoundly supportive.
I am here for you. When times are tough, it’s important to have the right support to nurture hope, focus on strength, and harness the power of uncertainty. You can stop surviving and start living again. Together we can explore the darkness & the light, and find your way thru it. We will tailor an approach to support your intentions, needs, and goals. You will become more aware of your core beliefs and better understand your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. You’ll find our work to discover insight, self-acceptance, and freedom challenging but also profoundly supportive.
(267) 550-5130 View (267) 550-5130
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Eric K. Larsen
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Short Hills, NJ 07078  (Online Only)
I'm a sex therapist specializing in adult male sexual issues. I help men with sex addiction, sexual anxiety, sexual functioning, infidelity and open relationships. I also help my clients navigate job and financial stress, employment transitions and retirement, separation and divorce. I'm proactive and passionate about helping the men I work with identify clear positive goals, improve their perspective and judgment, and make healthier and lasting adjustments to change.
I'm a sex therapist specializing in adult male sexual issues. I help men with sex addiction, sexual anxiety, sexual functioning, infidelity and open relationships. I also help my clients navigate job and financial stress, employment transitions and retirement, separation and divorce. I'm proactive and passionate about helping the men I work with identify clear positive goals, improve their perspective and judgment, and make healthier and lasting adjustments to change.
(973) 510-0386 View (973) 510-0386
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Donna Lobiondo
Psychologist, MDiv, PhD
Verified Verified
Short Hills, NJ 07078  (Online Only)
I'm a sex therapist specializing in work with women and couples. I can help with issues like unhappy and conflicted relationships, desire discrepancy, sexual partner incompatibility, infidelity, midlife sexual changes, and exploring open relationships. I particularly enjoy helping women work through relationship confusion, midlife changes, sexual problems, and long-term couple issues.
I'm a sex therapist specializing in work with women and couples. I can help with issues like unhappy and conflicted relationships, desire discrepancy, sexual partner incompatibility, infidelity, midlife sexual changes, and exploring open relationships. I particularly enjoy helping women work through relationship confusion, midlife changes, sexual problems, and long-term couple issues.
(973) 968-5257 View (973) 968-5257
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Laurence J Horowitz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSW
Verified Verified
Short Hills, NJ 07078
I see children, adolescents, and emerging young adults. Clients I see face challenges including but not limited to anxiety, bedwetting, self-esteem issues, identity exploration, or difficulties in social relationships. I provide a safe and supportive space where my clients and their parents can express themselves, find acceptance, and work toward success. Through the therapeutic process, we develop coping strategies for improving communication skills, fostering self-acceptance, achieving overall emotional well-being, and an overall more cohesive family system. For children, I specialize in child-centered play therapy, utilizing a
I see children, adolescents, and emerging young adults. Clients I see face challenges including but not limited to anxiety, bedwetting, self-esteem issues, identity exploration, or difficulties in social relationships. I provide a safe and supportive space where my clients and their parents can express themselves, find acceptance, and work toward success. Through the therapeutic process, we develop coping strategies for improving communication skills, fostering self-acceptance, achieving overall emotional well-being, and an overall more cohesive family system. For children, I specialize in child-centered play therapy, utilizing a
(201) 597-0565 View (201) 597-0565
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Alia Roth
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW, MSEd, E-RYT
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Short Hills, NJ 07078
My practice centers on creating a safe and affirming space for you to explore your thoughts, feelings, behaviors, strengths, and desires in order to move towards growth and healing. We will navigate harder to articulate feelings like shame and guilt to make space for self-compassion, self-knowledge, acceptance and growth. I have 10 years of experience supporting individuals in schools, clinic, outpatient and inpatient settings. I am passionate about working with, and have grown my practice with a focus on individuals, adolescents and couples that are seeking to heal from relational experiences.
My practice centers on creating a safe and affirming space for you to explore your thoughts, feelings, behaviors, strengths, and desires in order to move towards growth and healing. We will navigate harder to articulate feelings like shame and guilt to make space for self-compassion, self-knowledge, acceptance and growth. I have 10 years of experience supporting individuals in schools, clinic, outpatient and inpatient settings. I am passionate about working with, and have grown my practice with a focus on individuals, adolescents and couples that are seeking to heal from relational experiences.
(332) 378-1791 View (332) 378-1791
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Ieva Gates
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CST, CHT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Short Hills, NJ 07078  (Online Only)
Are you feeling stuck and disconnected from life? Are daily tasks starting to become daunting and overwhelming? It can be difficult to manage the stress and emotions on your own and it is not a burden you should have to bear. Reaching out for help is the first step and can often be the scariest one. It is my goal to provide you with a warm, non-judgmental, safe environment to process your emotions and become reconnected to the life you are living.
Are you feeling stuck and disconnected from life? Are daily tasks starting to become daunting and overwhelming? It can be difficult to manage the stress and emotions on your own and it is not a burden you should have to bear. Reaching out for help is the first step and can often be the scariest one. It is my goal to provide you with a warm, non-judgmental, safe environment to process your emotions and become reconnected to the life you are living.
(201) 645-5531 View (201) 645-5531
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Council for Relationships
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
Short Hills, NJ 07078
Since 1932, Council for Relationships has provided therapy and psychiatry services to those in Pennslyvania and New Jersey. Our Staff Clinicians offer individual, relationship (sometimes called "couples"), family, and sex therapy online and in person. We make the best therapy services accessible to everyone. Our 80+ Staff Therapists & Psychiatrists specialize in over 45 specialties and provide comprehensive mental health care and medicine management. We see clients of all ages, backgrounds, religions, genders, and sexualities. We believe that thriving relationships foster flourishing communities. Let us help you thrive.
Since 1932, Council for Relationships has provided therapy and psychiatry services to those in Pennslyvania and New Jersey. Our Staff Clinicians offer individual, relationship (sometimes called "couples"), family, and sex therapy online and in person. We make the best therapy services accessible to everyone. Our 80+ Staff Therapists & Psychiatrists specialize in over 45 specialties and provide comprehensive mental health care and medicine management. We see clients of all ages, backgrounds, religions, genders, and sexualities. We believe that thriving relationships foster flourishing communities. Let us help you thrive.
(215) 382-6680 x1 View (215) 382-6680 x1
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Heather Herz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Short Hills, NJ 07078
Thank you for viewing my page and I hope I can help you on the path towards healing and personal growth. I strive to create a safe, genuine, and empathic space for clients to explore their inner experiences. I have expertise in working with issues of depression, anxiety, trauma/post-traumatic stress including complex trauma, relationship issues, reproductive health and infertility, life cycle changes including college transitions, new motherhood, and grief and loss. I have postgraduate certification in integrative trauma studies and EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing).
Thank you for viewing my page and I hope I can help you on the path towards healing and personal growth. I strive to create a safe, genuine, and empathic space for clients to explore their inner experiences. I have expertise in working with issues of depression, anxiety, trauma/post-traumatic stress including complex trauma, relationship issues, reproductive health and infertility, life cycle changes including college transitions, new motherhood, and grief and loss. I have postgraduate certification in integrative trauma studies and EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing).
(201) 351-2816 View (201) 351-2816
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Sarah West
Counselor, MA, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Short Hills, NJ 07078
Sarah West is a Licensed Professional Counselor in the State of New Jersey and a certified School Counselor in both CT and NJ. Sarah earned her B.A. Degree in Psychology from LaSalle University. After graduating from LaSalle, Sarah attended graduate school at New Jersey City University, where she earned a M.A. Degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling and School Counseling. Sarah has worked both as a School Counselor and in private practice and joined The Massler Center in 2020. She believes that working as a team and having a positive counselor-client relationship is the foundation for successful treatment.
Sarah West is a Licensed Professional Counselor in the State of New Jersey and a certified School Counselor in both CT and NJ. Sarah earned her B.A. Degree in Psychology from LaSalle University. After graduating from LaSalle, Sarah attended graduate school at New Jersey City University, where she earned a M.A. Degree in Clinical Mental Health Counseling and School Counseling. Sarah has worked both as a School Counselor and in private practice and joined The Massler Center in 2020. She believes that working as a team and having a positive counselor-client relationship is the foundation for successful treatment.
(862) 256-7517 View (862) 256-7517
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Maria Cacace
Counselor, LAC, NBCC
Verified Verified
Short Hills, NJ 07078  (Online Only)
Life can be challenging and it is my strength to help others struggling with their mental health or any life issues affecting day to day functioning. I enjoy working with teens, young adults, mid life adults and ages 65+ experiencing anxiety, depression, mood disorders, personality disorders, self-esteem issues, trauma, relationship issues, addictions and more. I am down to earth and meet my client's where they're at with their mental health needs. I work with my clients to develop a positive rapport, trust and work towards developing and accomplishing your goals for our sessions.
Life can be challenging and it is my strength to help others struggling with their mental health or any life issues affecting day to day functioning. I enjoy working with teens, young adults, mid life adults and ages 65+ experiencing anxiety, depression, mood disorders, personality disorders, self-esteem issues, trauma, relationship issues, addictions and more. I am down to earth and meet my client's where they're at with their mental health needs. I work with my clients to develop a positive rapport, trust and work towards developing and accomplishing your goals for our sessions.
(732) 837-3023 View (732) 837-3023
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Robin Shamburg
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LCADC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Short Hills, NJ 07078  (Online Only)
Reaching this new chapter of life felt like a milestone and you couldn't wait to get started. But now that you're here, your brilliant future is a blank page. Where do you even begin? It's so overwhelming that you get caught up in the day-to-day tasks, taking care of others, procrastinating, doom-scrolling... You never really get to the thing that moves your own story forward; not that you even know what that "thing" would be. So instead you end up spinning with anxiety or beating yourself up with words you wouldn’t say to an enemy. You feel the clock ticking. Everyone else is making plans, leveling up... Why can’t you get unstuck?
Reaching this new chapter of life felt like a milestone and you couldn't wait to get started. But now that you're here, your brilliant future is a blank page. Where do you even begin? It's so overwhelming that you get caught up in the day-to-day tasks, taking care of others, procrastinating, doom-scrolling... You never really get to the thing that moves your own story forward; not that you even know what that "thing" would be. So instead you end up spinning with anxiety or beating yourself up with words you wouldn’t say to an enemy. You feel the clock ticking. Everyone else is making plans, leveling up... Why can’t you get unstuck?
(201) 529-0602 View (201) 529-0602
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Cynthia Shaw
Psychologist, PsyD, CGP, ACS
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Short Hills, NJ 07078  (Online Only)
Are you struggling with loneliness, anxiety, depression, or low self-esteem? Have recent life changes left you feeling groundless, stuck, or lost in life? If you want to feel more confident, successful, and connected, I encourage you to reach out. I am a compassionate and down-to-earth therapist who focuses on increasing insight, self-understanding, and meaning. I work well with individuals struggling with low self-esteem, unfulfilling relationships, life change, grief & loss, and meaning-making.
Are you struggling with loneliness, anxiety, depression, or low self-esteem? Have recent life changes left you feeling groundless, stuck, or lost in life? If you want to feel more confident, successful, and connected, I encourage you to reach out. I am a compassionate and down-to-earth therapist who focuses on increasing insight, self-understanding, and meaning. I work well with individuals struggling with low self-esteem, unfulfilling relationships, life change, grief & loss, and meaning-making.
(929) 605-4235 View (929) 605-4235
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Heather Shannon | Certified Sex Therapist
Counselor, LCPC, CST
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Short Hills, NJ 07078
Is there a disconnect between you and your partner(s) when it comes to your sex life? If so, please do not wait to get support! Because we're taught so little about sex, many of us shy away from the topic, but that just worsens things. Sex can start to feel like a chore and lack of sex can become the elephant in the room. It can even cause the end of your relationship if left unaddressed long enough. Before I became a sex therapist, I also found myself in this situation in my long-term relationship. But after 10,000 hours of coaching and counseling clients and becoming an AASECT certified sex therapist, I am confident I can help!
Is there a disconnect between you and your partner(s) when it comes to your sex life? If so, please do not wait to get support! Because we're taught so little about sex, many of us shy away from the topic, but that just worsens things. Sex can start to feel like a chore and lack of sex can become the elephant in the room. It can even cause the end of your relationship if left unaddressed long enough. Before I became a sex therapist, I also found myself in this situation in my long-term relationship. But after 10,000 hours of coaching and counseling clients and becoming an AASECT certified sex therapist, I am confident I can help!
(508) 545-9639 View (508) 545-9639
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James Wadley
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, CST, CSTS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Short Hills, NJ 07078  (Online Only)
Do you have trust issues in your relationship? Are you afraid to be honest with your partner or tired of trying to be someone you're not? Neither you or your partner are really talking about your hurt or resentments over pornography and infidelity. You've tried over and over again and the current situation isn't working for you and/or your relationship. Contact me and we will talk about how you feel about your challenges and together come up with a behavioral and emotional strategy for you to move forward! By the end of our FIRST session, you will be given therapeutic goals that you and I will work on.
Do you have trust issues in your relationship? Are you afraid to be honest with your partner or tired of trying to be someone you're not? Neither you or your partner are really talking about your hurt or resentments over pornography and infidelity. You've tried over and over again and the current situation isn't working for you and/or your relationship. Contact me and we will talk about how you feel about your challenges and together come up with a behavioral and emotional strategy for you to move forward! By the end of our FIRST session, you will be given therapeutic goals that you and I will work on.
(609) 913-3360 View (609) 913-3360
Photo of Larisa R. Wainer, Psychologist in Short Hills, NJ
Larisa R. Wainer
Psychologist, PsyD, MA
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Short Hills, NJ 07078  (Online Only)
Are you feeling anxious or depressed? Experiencing challenges in relationships? Problems with marriage or sex life? Whether you are adjusting to a recent stressor or dealing with a long-standing issue, talking with a doctoral-level professional can help you finally get some relief! If you are looking for an experienced, empathic psychologist who can help you have a better understanding and relationship with yourself and others, I am looking forward to meeting you! I specialize in individual as well as couples/marital therapy and work with a variety of age groups, from high school students to older adults.
Are you feeling anxious or depressed? Experiencing challenges in relationships? Problems with marriage or sex life? Whether you are adjusting to a recent stressor or dealing with a long-standing issue, talking with a doctoral-level professional can help you finally get some relief! If you are looking for an experienced, empathic psychologist who can help you have a better understanding and relationship with yourself and others, I am looking forward to meeting you! I specialize in individual as well as couples/marital therapy and work with a variety of age groups, from high school students to older adults.
(973) 947-8118 View (973) 947-8118
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Lexi Garber
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, PMH-C
Verified Verified
Short Hills, NJ 07078  (Online Only)
I believe in the beautiful complexity of humans and in human fortitude to navigate what hurts. As a therapist, I am here to help deepen your understanding of the wonder and the pain within your story and make space for something new. Reaching for support takes courage; I will meet you on your path, we'll assess your needs together, and work to let healing unfold. I have expertise and a special dedication to those managing perinatal challenges including infertility and loss. I also work with those coping with anxiety, trauma, depression, the myriad of life’s transitions, and the unique experience of first responders.
I believe in the beautiful complexity of humans and in human fortitude to navigate what hurts. As a therapist, I am here to help deepen your understanding of the wonder and the pain within your story and make space for something new. Reaching for support takes courage; I will meet you on your path, we'll assess your needs together, and work to let healing unfold. I have expertise and a special dedication to those managing perinatal challenges including infertility and loss. I also work with those coping with anxiety, trauma, depression, the myriad of life’s transitions, and the unique experience of first responders.
(929) 552-6092 View (929) 552-6092

Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Therapists

Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?

A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialized knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.

Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?

Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organizations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.

How can individuals recognize a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?

An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognize a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.

Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?

Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.