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Shannon M. Kalberg
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
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Santa Monica, CA 90403
Everyone experiences challenges from time to time, but when the tough times are starting to outweigh the good times or you keep seeing the same patterns repeat over and over in your life, you may want to consider seeking help. I am here not to give you advice, but to help you learn to listen to and trust yourself deeply and fully so that you can live the kind of life you've always wanted.
Everyone experiences challenges from time to time, but when the tough times are starting to outweigh the good times or you keep seeing the same patterns repeat over and over in your life, you may want to consider seeking help. I am here not to give you advice, but to help you learn to listen to and trust yourself deeply and fully so that you can live the kind of life you've always wanted.
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Eric Grady
Psychologist, PhD
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Santa Monica, CA 90403
Eric Grady is a Psychologist in Pennsylvania who has been practicing since 2015. He earned a bachelor's degree in psychology from the State University of New York at Buffalo in 2004. He then attended West Virginia University, completing a master's and doctorate in clinical child psychology from West Virginia University in 2011. Following his graduate education, Eric completed a 3-year postdoctoral fellowship working with adults in a substance abuse treatment services research program. Eric offers compassionate, nonjudgmental, individualized care focused on meeting people where they are in their behavior change process.
Eric Grady is a Psychologist in Pennsylvania who has been practicing since 2015. He earned a bachelor's degree in psychology from the State University of New York at Buffalo in 2004. He then attended West Virginia University, completing a master's and doctorate in clinical child psychology from West Virginia University in 2011. Following his graduate education, Eric completed a 3-year postdoctoral fellowship working with adults in a substance abuse treatment services research program. Eric offers compassionate, nonjudgmental, individualized care focused on meeting people where they are in their behavior change process.
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Kyle Dow
Psychological Associate, MS, BCBA
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Santa Monica, CA 90403
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Men's Issues Therapists

Is therapy for men different than it is for women?

Therapeutic treatments and types are the same for men as they are for women, with the same protocols followed and the same strategies employed. Discussing one’s feelings and emotions is an integral part of most therapies, and some men find doing so more challenging. Therapists can help clients through the process; some specialize in treating men for this reason.

How do you encourage a man to go to therapy?

It’s helpful to express your concern and love for the person while framing therapy as a tool for improving their life. Offering specific examples of how an individual’s behavior affected either himself or others should be done with compassion and with empathy. It may be useful to devise a game plan—breaking the process down into parts, such as finding a therapist, making appointments, and looking into insurance coverage.

How can men prepare for therapy?

Men can prepare for therapy by approaching the process with an open mind, being willing to talk about their challenges, and giving treatment the time to work. Before a session, an individual may want to reflect on how they’ve felt since the last session and what’s happened in their lives. It can be useful for men who struggle to recall their emotional states to write down notes between sessions about their response to a given event or how they were feeling at a particular time.

What should men know about the process of therapy?

One of the most common reasons men don’t seek therapy is the notion that there’s something wrong with them if they do. Men should know that just because they’re seeking therapy doesn’t mean they’re mentally ill or damaged in some way. In the same way people work on their bodies through exercise or a craft through practice, therapy can be a way to improve the mental and emotional skills needed to be productive and effective partners, employees, and people in all realms of life.