Couples Counseling Therapists in Eugene, OR

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Ira Winograd
Professional Counselor Associate , MA
Verified Verified
Eugene, OR 97405
I am passionate about coming into the Here and Now with clients and believe in the healing power of being witnessed with presence and loving kindness. Using mindfulness based practices I focus on supporting clients in addressing issues of depression, anxiety, and identity issues. In session I emphasize bringing the client’s attention out of thoughts/stories and into their present moment bodily experience with the understanding that more immediate change can occur this way. I enjoy experiencing the client and counselor relationship as a microcosm of the client’s greater relational life, and an opportunity to do deep healing.
I am passionate about coming into the Here and Now with clients and believe in the healing power of being witnessed with presence and loving kindness. Using mindfulness based practices I focus on supporting clients in addressing issues of depression, anxiety, and identity issues. In session I emphasize bringing the client’s attention out of thoughts/stories and into their present moment bodily experience with the understanding that more immediate change can occur this way. I enjoy experiencing the client and counselor relationship as a microcosm of the client’s greater relational life, and an opportunity to do deep healing.
(541) 329-7283 View (541) 329-7283
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Kristin Funk
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, Analyst
Verified Verified
Eugene, OR 97401
Waitlist for new clients
Each client comes with unique struggles and with unique hopes and longings in the search for meaning, relatedness, healing, creativity, and growth. We all have a life to live. When that life is stymied - by inside forces or outside events - you might feel stuck or lonely, experience anxiety, depression, anger, grief, chronic pain, or restlessness. You might also struggle with life changes, illness, stale relationship patterns, addictions or spiritual issues. My aim is to get to know you well and help you develop a conscious, vital relationship with the powerful forces that seek life and growth and with those that get in your way.
Each client comes with unique struggles and with unique hopes and longings in the search for meaning, relatedness, healing, creativity, and growth. We all have a life to live. When that life is stymied - by inside forces or outside events - you might feel stuck or lonely, experience anxiety, depression, anger, grief, chronic pain, or restlessness. You might also struggle with life changes, illness, stale relationship patterns, addictions or spiritual issues. My aim is to get to know you well and help you develop a conscious, vital relationship with the powerful forces that seek life and growth and with those that get in your way.
(541) 516-1763 View (541) 516-1763
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Laura Parker
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, MFT
Verified Verified
Eugene, OR 97405
Do you want more aliveness in your life, your love, your work, your play? Do you want to develop the skills to engage more creatively and effectively with the challenges you face? I help you to understand and change relationship conflict; communicate more honestly and effectively; recover from grief and loss; stop giving your power away - exude more natural authority and self-possession; move on from addictions and other self-defeating behavior patterns; deal with anger, depression, worry, shame, and self-criticism.
Do you want more aliveness in your life, your love, your work, your play? Do you want to develop the skills to engage more creatively and effectively with the challenges you face? I help you to understand and change relationship conflict; communicate more honestly and effectively; recover from grief and loss; stop giving your power away - exude more natural authority and self-possession; move on from addictions and other self-defeating behavior patterns; deal with anger, depression, worry, shame, and self-criticism.
(541) 293-6846 View (541) 293-6846
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Griffin & Associated Practitioners
Licensed Professional Counselor
Verified Verified
Eugene, OR 97401
Our practice was created to provide a quality space for individuals to connect with a counselor surrounding self-care, healing, change, & to find ways to access more joy. We want you, as our clients to feel that in this space you are welcomed with positive, energetic, non-judgmental practitioners that are trained to help you access your core, grounded, & healthy self. Our team provides individual, couples, & family counseling for ages 6 through the last years of life. It is our hope that through this work you will be led to healing, change, & abundant joy.
Our practice was created to provide a quality space for individuals to connect with a counselor surrounding self-care, healing, change, & to find ways to access more joy. We want you, as our clients to feel that in this space you are welcomed with positive, energetic, non-judgmental practitioners that are trained to help you access your core, grounded, & healthy self. Our team provides individual, couples, & family counseling for ages 6 through the last years of life. It is our hope that through this work you will be led to healing, change, & abundant joy.
(541) 526-7780 View (541) 526-7780
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Erin Amelia Russell
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, MEd
Verified Verified
Eugene, OR 97401
Therapy is based in a relationship of trust, safety, and respect between myself and the individual or relationship that I am serving.
I provide individual and relationship therapy, that focuses on solutions to issues like overwhelming emotions, conflict with others, or stressful events. I believe that in life, generally every person has the ability to navigate through life's challenges on their own. Though when stressed for prolonged periods of time, or sometimes even if you experience just one traumatic or overwhelming event, it can be helpful to work through these issues with the guidance of a therapist. Therapy is a place to build up your resiliency and effectiveness.
Therapy is based in a relationship of trust, safety, and respect between myself and the individual or relationship that I am serving.
I provide individual and relationship therapy, that focuses on solutions to issues like overwhelming emotions, conflict with others, or stressful events. I believe that in life, generally every person has the ability to navigate through life's challenges on their own. Though when stressed for prolonged periods of time, or sometimes even if you experience just one traumatic or overwhelming event, it can be helpful to work through these issues with the guidance of a therapist. Therapy is a place to build up your resiliency and effectiveness.
(541) 293-1109 View (541) 293-1109
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Alive Holistic Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor
Verified Verified
Eugene, OR 97401
We specialize in treating anxiety and depression, mood disorders, eating disorders and addictions, relationship challenges and codependency, trauma, PTSD, postpartum depression, grief and loss.
**We now take OHP through Pacificsource.** Alive Holistic Counseling is an integrative counseling clinic that uses client-centered, strengths-based therapies to help people achieve their personal goals and cultivate authenticity in their relationships. Our therapists are specially trained in holistic therapies such as EMDR, Neurofeedback, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Hypnotherapy, Hakomi and Certified Body Talk that enable clients to go deeper into their healing journey. Our focus on evidence-based approaches that integrate the body with the busy mind allow for work to go beyond what keeps us trapped in old patterns of being.
We specialize in treating anxiety and depression, mood disorders, eating disorders and addictions, relationship challenges and codependency, trauma, PTSD, postpartum depression, grief and loss.
**We now take OHP through Pacificsource.** Alive Holistic Counseling is an integrative counseling clinic that uses client-centered, strengths-based therapies to help people achieve their personal goals and cultivate authenticity in their relationships. Our therapists are specially trained in holistic therapies such as EMDR, Neurofeedback, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Hypnotherapy, Hakomi and Certified Body Talk that enable clients to go deeper into their healing journey. Our focus on evidence-based approaches that integrate the body with the busy mind allow for work to go beyond what keeps us trapped in old patterns of being.
(541) 291-9252 View (541) 291-9252
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Sophie Bloch Miller
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MPH
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Eugene, OR 97401
I believe in the healing power of relationships, beginning with your relationship to yourself, participating in a therapeutically healing relationship in our work together, and supporting the application in the relationships that you value in your life.
Are you struggling with the quality of relationships in your life? Do you find yourself repeating familiar patterns that lead to conflict and disconnection? Are you interested in exploring your patterns, learning new strategies, and feeling more hopeful and optimistic about creating satisfying connection in your life, both with yourself and those around you? I am passionate about the power of relationships to enhance our well being and am excited to support you (individually or with your partner) in building deeper and more intentional relationships.
I believe in the healing power of relationships, beginning with your relationship to yourself, participating in a therapeutically healing relationship in our work together, and supporting the application in the relationships that you value in your life.
Are you struggling with the quality of relationships in your life? Do you find yourself repeating familiar patterns that lead to conflict and disconnection? Are you interested in exploring your patterns, learning new strategies, and feeling more hopeful and optimistic about creating satisfying connection in your life, both with yourself and those around you? I am passionate about the power of relationships to enhance our well being and am excited to support you (individually or with your partner) in building deeper and more intentional relationships.
(458) 224-8395 View (458) 224-8395
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Ashley Higgins
Pre-Licensed Professional, MS, LMFT-A
Verified Verified
Eugene, OR 97402  (Online Only)
As a trauma-informed therapist, I view anxiety, depression, relationship issues, and other areas of therapeutic work with attention to past experience.
People often begin counseling when it's too hard to stay the same. Even though seeking help can seem like a sign of weakness, it’s not an indicator of failure. Whatever the reason you’re searching for a therapist today, it takes courage to notice that reason within yourself and reach out for support. Maybe you’re ready to shift patterns in close relationships, or you’re ready to build a better relationship with yourself. Acknowledging distress is a chance to create meaningful change in your life.
As a trauma-informed therapist, I view anxiety, depression, relationship issues, and other areas of therapeutic work with attention to past experience.
People often begin counseling when it's too hard to stay the same. Even though seeking help can seem like a sign of weakness, it’s not an indicator of failure. Whatever the reason you’re searching for a therapist today, it takes courage to notice that reason within yourself and reach out for support. Maybe you’re ready to shift patterns in close relationships, or you’re ready to build a better relationship with yourself. Acknowledging distress is a chance to create meaningful change in your life.
(541) 229-0933 View (541) 229-0933
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Noble Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Eugene, OR 97401
At some point in our lives, everyone gets stuck in unhealthy patterns of behavior or interactions. At some point we all need help. There comes a time when we all need to look in the mirror and face it, change needs to happen. Thats where I come in. I'm here to help. I have a direct approach to therapy which tends to be supportive and caring yet proactive and goal oriented. This strengths based approach seems to really help people get "unstuck" and allows them to find new ways of approaching their concerns. I enjoy working with and getting to know all types of people. I work with individual adults, couples and families.
At some point in our lives, everyone gets stuck in unhealthy patterns of behavior or interactions. At some point we all need help. There comes a time when we all need to look in the mirror and face it, change needs to happen. Thats where I come in. I'm here to help. I have a direct approach to therapy which tends to be supportive and caring yet proactive and goal oriented. This strengths based approach seems to really help people get "unstuck" and allows them to find new ways of approaching their concerns. I enjoy working with and getting to know all types of people. I work with individual adults, couples and families.
(541) 393-8766 View (541) 393-8766
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Invictus Therapy and Consultation
Psychologist, PhD, LP, LCSW, MFT, LPC-A
Verified Verified
Eugene, OR 97401
My office has 5 therapists accepting Pacific Source (OHP and Commercial) clients. We have immediate openings for adults and a waitlist for children and teens. We work with individuals, families, and couples of all ages, cultures, and backgrounds. We have training and experience working with individuals with ADHD, grief and loss, DID, psychosis, on the autism spectrum, in foster care, co-parenting, eating disorders, anxiety, depression, PTSD, parenting skills, school problems, defiant behaviors and family reintegration. We have a clinician fluent in Spanish with much experience conducting therapy in Spanish.
My office has 5 therapists accepting Pacific Source (OHP and Commercial) clients. We have immediate openings for adults and a waitlist for children and teens. We work with individuals, families, and couples of all ages, cultures, and backgrounds. We have training and experience working with individuals with ADHD, grief and loss, DID, psychosis, on the autism spectrum, in foster care, co-parenting, eating disorders, anxiety, depression, PTSD, parenting skills, school problems, defiant behaviors and family reintegration. We have a clinician fluent in Spanish with much experience conducting therapy in Spanish.
(458) 209-3144 View (458) 209-3144
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Lisa M Glasser
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, NCC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Eugene, OR 97402
Hello, welcome to the next step in your healing journey. My goal in helping you in your journey is to build a therapeutic relationship that allows you to envision the life you want to live and work together to get there. In addition to mental health counseling, I specialize in using somatic/movement therapies and acupuncture to guide you through awareness of your body, mind and soul. This process allows you to see your daily patterns of living and recognize if they help or hinder your ability to live the life that fulfills you. I best serve LGBTQIA, neurodivergent clients and under served clients.
Hello, welcome to the next step in your healing journey. My goal in helping you in your journey is to build a therapeutic relationship that allows you to envision the life you want to live and work together to get there. In addition to mental health counseling, I specialize in using somatic/movement therapies and acupuncture to guide you through awareness of your body, mind and soul. This process allows you to see your daily patterns of living and recognize if they help or hinder your ability to live the life that fulfills you. I best serve LGBTQIA, neurodivergent clients and under served clients.
(541) 762-1755 View (541) 762-1755
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Kathie Leah Bishop
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, MEd, LPC
Verified Verified
Eugene, OR 97405
I am currently accepting new clients. I work with individuals, children, couples and families employing EMDR and Emotionally Focused Therapy to assist clients in freeing themselves from post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), complex trauma, and the effects of developmental attachment disorders which can manifest as anxiety, depression, compulsive behaviors, anger issues, and conflicts in relationships. I have also worked as a developmental children’s therapist for over 15 years assisting parents in implementing effective parenting strategies that support their child’s learning and development.
I am currently accepting new clients. I work with individuals, children, couples and families employing EMDR and Emotionally Focused Therapy to assist clients in freeing themselves from post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), complex trauma, and the effects of developmental attachment disorders which can manifest as anxiety, depression, compulsive behaviors, anger issues, and conflicts in relationships. I have also worked as a developmental children’s therapist for over 15 years assisting parents in implementing effective parenting strategies that support their child’s learning and development.
(458) 217-6513 View (458) 217-6513
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Brandon Marshall
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC, MFT
Verified Verified
Eugene, OR 97401
Kindly leave the name of your insurance provider (if applicable) when you contact me so I can best serve you in our initial consultation- thank you. I work with individuals, couples, families and minors affected by a wide variety of concerns, including trauma, addiction, grief and loss, anxiety, relationship issues, and communication struggles. I understand the importance of establishing a safe, easy-going, non-judgmental relationship where we can work on real life issues.
Kindly leave the name of your insurance provider (if applicable) when you contact me so I can best serve you in our initial consultation- thank you. I work with individuals, couples, families and minors affected by a wide variety of concerns, including trauma, addiction, grief and loss, anxiety, relationship issues, and communication struggles. I understand the importance of establishing a safe, easy-going, non-judgmental relationship where we can work on real life issues.
(541) 214-2805 View (541) 214-2805
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Collective Elements Psychotherapy, LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, MFT
Verified Verified
Eugene, OR 97401
We currently only have openings for individual, adult, in person sessions. - Collective Elements Psychotherapy provides mental health counseling services to individuals, families and couples that are seeking support for a wide range of presenting issues and needs. Our agency is here to provide patients with a safe space to explore their thoughts, feelings, and experiences. Please visit the agency website for more information about our therapists.
We currently only have openings for individual, adult, in person sessions. - Collective Elements Psychotherapy provides mental health counseling services to individuals, families and couples that are seeking support for a wide range of presenting issues and needs. Our agency is here to provide patients with a safe space to explore their thoughts, feelings, and experiences. Please visit the agency website for more information about our therapists.
(458) 217-6288 View (458) 217-6288
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Eric Richers
Professional Counselor Associate , MA, CADCIII
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Eugene, OR 97403  (Online Only)
Providing therapy services for individuals, couples and families is my passion. Therapy has the ability to open untapped spaces and possibilities in your life, and help you achieve freedom and potential. Every human deserves joy, happiness, and a place where they can tell the unfiltered truth to another human being, and be heard, respected, loved unconditionally, and understood. Let's help you access you're best self!
Providing therapy services for individuals, couples and families is my passion. Therapy has the ability to open untapped spaces and possibilities in your life, and help you achieve freedom and potential. Every human deserves joy, happiness, and a place where they can tell the unfiltered truth to another human being, and be heard, respected, loved unconditionally, and understood. Let's help you access you're best self!
(541) 813-5983 View (541) 813-5983
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Kendra Vita
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
Eugene, OR 97401
As the therapeutic relationship grows, I will call clients on their BS, poke fun at them until they learn to laugh at themselves, and cheer on their progress every step of the way.
Are you tired of feeling the way you do? Would you like to experience more peace, joy, and vibrancy in your life but you aren’t sure how to do that? Maybe you feel a little stuck. I will listen with great empathy and admiration, help you hear yourself more clearly, teach you to laugh at how ridiculous you can be, and remind you that you are perfectly normal. I believe you can experience the fullness of life that you long for. And, it is my great joy and privilege to help you grow in the confidence, self-kindness, and self-trust that are required for the journey.
As the therapeutic relationship grows, I will call clients on their BS, poke fun at them until they learn to laugh at themselves, and cheer on their progress every step of the way.
Are you tired of feeling the way you do? Would you like to experience more peace, joy, and vibrancy in your life but you aren’t sure how to do that? Maybe you feel a little stuck. I will listen with great empathy and admiration, help you hear yourself more clearly, teach you to laugh at how ridiculous you can be, and remind you that you are perfectly normal. I believe you can experience the fullness of life that you long for. And, it is my great joy and privilege to help you grow in the confidence, self-kindness, and self-trust that are required for the journey.
(541) 204-4671 View (541) 204-4671
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Jayson Peterson
Marriage & Family Therapist, MEd, LMFT
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Eugene, OR 97401
I am knowledgeable about and welcome chosen family groups, polyamorous and nonmonogamous folks, in addition to individuals, couples, and "traditional" family.
Are you in a place where you need to talk about gender identity and/or trans issues? Or maybe you identify as trans, gender nonconforming, gay, lesbian, bisexual, or queer and need to talk about other issues but don't want to have to educate your therapist. I can help. As a therapist, I create an environment of safety, respect, and empowerment for you, and I appreciate the powerful influence of culture, community, and beliefs that make your experience unique. I believe you have the inner strength and resources you need. I am here to be your collaborator in healing and change.
I am knowledgeable about and welcome chosen family groups, polyamorous and nonmonogamous folks, in addition to individuals, couples, and "traditional" family.
Are you in a place where you need to talk about gender identity and/or trans issues? Or maybe you identify as trans, gender nonconforming, gay, lesbian, bisexual, or queer and need to talk about other issues but don't want to have to educate your therapist. I can help. As a therapist, I create an environment of safety, respect, and empowerment for you, and I appreciate the powerful influence of culture, community, and beliefs that make your experience unique. I believe you have the inner strength and resources you need. I am here to be your collaborator in healing and change.
(541) 325-8564 View (541) 325-8564
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Keyonna S McCulloch
Clinical Social Work Associate, CWSA, MSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Eugene, OR 97405
I believe having a strong relationship with parents and providing support and direction is key.
My passion comes from helping people grow internally as well as external. I believe in meeting people where they are and equipping them with the tools they need to connect with insight and peace. I strive to create a space that feels safe where this work can be done. I believe that each one of us has the capacity to heal and experience health and wholeness. I enjoy working with people from diverse backgrounds especially those looking to use faith integration in practice. I also enjoy working with individuals who are struggling with depression and anxiety in particular kids and youth. I utilize a strengths-based approach in practice.
I believe having a strong relationship with parents and providing support and direction is key.
My passion comes from helping people grow internally as well as external. I believe in meeting people where they are and equipping them with the tools they need to connect with insight and peace. I strive to create a space that feels safe where this work can be done. I believe that each one of us has the capacity to heal and experience health and wholeness. I enjoy working with people from diverse backgrounds especially those looking to use faith integration in practice. I also enjoy working with individuals who are struggling with depression and anxiety in particular kids and youth. I utilize a strengths-based approach in practice.
(458) 224-1860 View (458) 224-1860
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Attachement Based Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
Eugene, OR 97404
I specialize in Attachment, trauma (complex childhood and single incidence), Couples, postpartum depression and anxiety, chronic illness, anxiety, panic, and grief.
What I hear most often from clients are, "I've been to other therapists, and you are different. This feels like I'm changing!" When you are with me, you will know that 100% of my attuned attention is with you. I pay attention to what you say, how you say it, what your body movement tells me, and what your history tells me. If you are seeking support for yourself for inner healing from trauma (all sorts), Attachment wounding, Post Narcissistic Abuse Recovery, postpartum depression or anxiety, chronic illness, anxiety, panic, grief, life transitions, or you are in a relationship that needs support, contact me.
I specialize in Attachment, trauma (complex childhood and single incidence), Couples, postpartum depression and anxiety, chronic illness, anxiety, panic, and grief.
What I hear most often from clients are, "I've been to other therapists, and you are different. This feels like I'm changing!" When you are with me, you will know that 100% of my attuned attention is with you. I pay attention to what you say, how you say it, what your body movement tells me, and what your history tells me. If you are seeking support for yourself for inner healing from trauma (all sorts), Attachment wounding, Post Narcissistic Abuse Recovery, postpartum depression or anxiety, chronic illness, anxiety, panic, grief, life transitions, or you are in a relationship that needs support, contact me.
(541) 402-4348 View (541) 402-4348
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Dan Schmitt
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LMFT, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Eugene, OR 97401
Accepting new clients. I work with both individuals and couples. Areas of individual focus include coping with depression/anxiety, sleep issues, family or relationship struggles, addiction and recovery, life and career transitions, sexuality, mid-life issues, and emerging adults struggling with academics or early adulthood issues. In my work with couples I work on issues ranging from communication/conflict, intimacy, life transitions, rebuilding connection, family dynamics, and relational betrayals/infidelity. I draw from the Gottman’s work, Esther Perel’s work, Narrative Therapy, and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy among others.
Accepting new clients. I work with both individuals and couples. Areas of individual focus include coping with depression/anxiety, sleep issues, family or relationship struggles, addiction and recovery, life and career transitions, sexuality, mid-life issues, and emerging adults struggling with academics or early adulthood issues. In my work with couples I work on issues ranging from communication/conflict, intimacy, life transitions, rebuilding connection, family dynamics, and relational betrayals/infidelity. I draw from the Gottman’s work, Esther Perel’s work, Narrative Therapy, and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy among others.
(458) 214-8903 View (458) 214-8903
Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.