Couples Counselling in Reigate

Photo of Vivienne Gordon-Graham, Psychotherapist in Reigate, England
Vivienne Gordon-Graham
Psychotherapist, MA, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Reigate RH2
With an MA in Psychotherapy & Counselling, PG Dip in CBT, PG Dip in Couples Counselling & Psychotherapy, Dip in PTSD, EMDR, Cert Mediation, and having lived in different countries I also have an understanding of diverse cultures.
Are you facing challenges in your personal or work life or issues over which you have no control such as loss, health, or any crisis, (big or small)? Are you looking for a therapist who offers respect, understanding, validation of you and your unique circumstances and who provides an environment of trust where you can both work collaboratively to explore your way of 'being in the world' and where you will gain and develop your inner resources and resilience and where together you will discuss different perspectives and choices to make to improve your quality of life? Your therapeutic journey is an opportunity for transformation!
With an MA in Psychotherapy & Counselling, PG Dip in CBT, PG Dip in Couples Counselling & Psychotherapy, Dip in PTSD, EMDR, Cert Mediation, and having lived in different countries I also have an understanding of diverse cultures.
Are you facing challenges in your personal or work life or issues over which you have no control such as loss, health, or any crisis, (big or small)? Are you looking for a therapist who offers respect, understanding, validation of you and your unique circumstances and who provides an environment of trust where you can both work collaboratively to explore your way of 'being in the world' and where you will gain and develop your inner resources and resilience and where together you will discuss different perspectives and choices to make to improve your quality of life? Your therapeutic journey is an opportunity for transformation!
01737 926555 View 01737 926555
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Andrew Darnley
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Reigate RH2
I have been a psychotherapist and counsellor for 17 years, working in the NHS, in Reigate, with extensive experience helping individuals and couples struggling with anxiety, depression, low self-worth, relational issues, and personal conflicts. I am committed to providing a safe, confidential and non-judgemental environment for us to explore what is troubling you and to hopefully enable you to find a way to change how you feel about yourself and the world around you. Gaining a greater self-understanding, to begin to live more fully in the present, and to face the future with strength and hope.
I have been a psychotherapist and counsellor for 17 years, working in the NHS, in Reigate, with extensive experience helping individuals and couples struggling with anxiety, depression, low self-worth, relational issues, and personal conflicts. I am committed to providing a safe, confidential and non-judgemental environment for us to explore what is troubling you and to hopefully enable you to find a way to change how you feel about yourself and the world around you. Gaining a greater self-understanding, to begin to live more fully in the present, and to face the future with strength and hope.
01737 924408 View 01737 924408
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Anna Scott
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Reigate RH2
When you choose to work with a counsellor or therapist you have taken an important step towards self care. I can offer time-limited therapy to help you focus on a particular problem or open-ended counselling to work through issues which may have been with you for some time. I welcome enquiries from individuals and couples in Reigate and Redhill, Dorking and Leatherhead for in-person relational work. Call me on : 07944 738214.
When you choose to work with a counsellor or therapist you have taken an important step towards self care. I can offer time-limited therapy to help you focus on a particular problem or open-ended counselling to work through issues which may have been with you for some time. I welcome enquiries from individuals and couples in Reigate and Redhill, Dorking and Leatherhead for in-person relational work. Call me on : 07944 738214.
01306 772208 View 01306 772208
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Catherine Frisby
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Reigate RH2
Coming to counselling for the first time can be daunting and may take some courage. I would like to offer you a safe, confidential, non-judgemental, neutral space to work through difficult feelings, gain insights and help you move forward. It may be separation or loss that has brought you to this point. Perhaps you are suffering from depression, anxiety or relationship difficulties. It may be past traumas that are affecting you. It could be a vague sense of dissatisfaction and a search for a greater sense of meaning that is the source of your discomfort. Whatever the issue, counselling with a skilled counsellor can guide you through
Coming to counselling for the first time can be daunting and may take some courage. I would like to offer you a safe, confidential, non-judgemental, neutral space to work through difficult feelings, gain insights and help you move forward. It may be separation or loss that has brought you to this point. Perhaps you are suffering from depression, anxiety or relationship difficulties. It may be past traumas that are affecting you. It could be a vague sense of dissatisfaction and a search for a greater sense of meaning that is the source of your discomfort. Whatever the issue, counselling with a skilled counsellor can guide you through
01737 949543 View 01737 949543
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Surrey Counselling and Psychotherapy Partnership
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Verified Verified
Reigate RH2
I have over 10 years experience in supporting individual adults and couples. I know the first step can feel daunting, which is why I offer a safe, warm and relaxed space for us to work together. Counselling is a very individual process, and everything I do will be centred around you. We will go at your pace so I can make sure your needs are met, in order to help you enhance your life and enable you to live it more fully.
I have over 10 years experience in supporting individual adults and couples. I know the first step can feel daunting, which is why I offer a safe, warm and relaxed space for us to work together. Counselling is a very individual process, and everything I do will be centred around you. We will go at your pace so I can make sure your needs are met, in order to help you enhance your life and enable you to live it more fully.
01372 234499 View 01372 234499
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Gordon Wax
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Reigate RH2
Hi, my name is Gordon. Welcome! I’m an experienced counsellor based in East London, working both online and in person. I was born and raised in London. Personal therapy helped me to untangle my relationship with myself and my emotions. The world alone is a chaotic place to manage our own unknowns, anxieties, and traumas. I understand that everyone experiences the world in different ways, so unique problems require bespoke responses. Our lives are constantly changing, so it’s natural to feel emotions strongly, think differently and respond atypically. I help clients explore all spheres of their life to help build hope and cope
Hi, my name is Gordon. Welcome! I’m an experienced counsellor based in East London, working both online and in person. I was born and raised in London. Personal therapy helped me to untangle my relationship with myself and my emotions. The world alone is a chaotic place to manage our own unknowns, anxieties, and traumas. I understand that everyone experiences the world in different ways, so unique problems require bespoke responses. Our lives are constantly changing, so it’s natural to feel emotions strongly, think differently and respond atypically. I help clients explore all spheres of their life to help build hope and cope
020 3871 8210 View 020 3871 8210
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Christopher Vincent
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Reigate RH2
I offer Imago Couples Relationship Therapy, which can be regular sessions of an hour to 2 hours or an intensive of 2 full days.
I help you feel heard in your relationships and help you listen accurately. I educate you in some of the basics of neuroscience to help you make sense of why your brain guides you in the way it does. I coach you in exploring how your past can continue to affect and infect your present so you can choose to do something different that will make a difference.
I offer Imago Couples Relationship Therapy, which can be regular sessions of an hour to 2 hours or an intensive of 2 full days.
I help you feel heard in your relationships and help you listen accurately. I educate you in some of the basics of neuroscience to help you make sense of why your brain guides you in the way it does. I coach you in exploring how your past can continue to affect and infect your present so you can choose to do something different that will make a difference.
020 8103 6059 View 020 8103 6059
Photo of Michael Dee Therapy, Counsellor in Reigate, England
Michael Dee Therapy
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Reigate RH2
Life events can trigger emotions that are difficult to understand or express. Sudden trauma, redundancy, a business failure, a relationship breakdown, bereavement, abuse, bullying and harassment, or struggles with gender and sexual identity. The list is endless and is as individual as us. These can prevent clear thinking and create worries or reactions, which can go on to cause anxiety, shame, confusion, or possible feelings of guilt that are hard to recognise or cope with. They may also cause a reaction of self-destruction, self-harm, eating disorders, drinking, drug use and other issues.
Life events can trigger emotions that are difficult to understand or express. Sudden trauma, redundancy, a business failure, a relationship breakdown, bereavement, abuse, bullying and harassment, or struggles with gender and sexual identity. The list is endless and is as individual as us. These can prevent clear thinking and create worries or reactions, which can go on to cause anxiety, shame, confusion, or possible feelings of guilt that are hard to recognise or cope with. They may also cause a reaction of self-destruction, self-harm, eating disorders, drinking, drug use and other issues.
01926 293629 View 01926 293629
Photo of Relational Counselling, Psychotherapist in Reigate, England
Relational Counselling
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Reigate RH2
How can we help? By having a safe, welcoming space, you will build a trusting relationship to find clarity.
If you seek a warm, welcoming space free of judgement, look no further. Finding the right therapist can be a difficult step. Easing into therapy is important, which is why we offer a Free 15-minute video Q&A; We refer to this as a chemistry meeting. During this meeting, you can meet your therapist and ask questions to gain a sense of who they are before you commit to therapy. Therapy will always be tailored to your needs and taken at a pace that feels right for you. We've got you! Please visit - www.relationalcounselling.co.uk.
How can we help? By having a safe, welcoming space, you will build a trusting relationship to find clarity.
If you seek a warm, welcoming space free of judgement, look no further. Finding the right therapist can be a difficult step. Easing into therapy is important, which is why we offer a Free 15-minute video Q&A; We refer to this as a chemistry meeting. During this meeting, you can meet your therapist and ask questions to gain a sense of who they are before you commit to therapy. Therapy will always be tailored to your needs and taken at a pace that feels right for you. We've got you! Please visit - www.relationalcounselling.co.uk.
01737 924967 View 01737 924967
Photo of Thulasi Mohanadas | Trauma And Work Stress Specialist, Psychotherapist in Reigate, England
Thulasi Mohanadas | Trauma And Work Stress Specialist
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBABCP
Verified Verified
Reigate RH2
I empower my clients to live an independent and fearless life using CBT and EMDR. By working with me, you’ll not only be able to cope with your past but also plan for a thriving future. We’ll achieve this by building a powerful psychological toolkit: a collection of practical techniques uniquely designed for you. These include relaxation, coping, assertiveness, resilience & stress management tools & a bespoke psychological roadmap (formulation). These tools will allow you to step back from triggering situations, notice unhelpful patterns in your thoughts, behaviours and emotions, respond mindfully & break free from old patterns.
I empower my clients to live an independent and fearless life using CBT and EMDR. By working with me, you’ll not only be able to cope with your past but also plan for a thriving future. We’ll achieve this by building a powerful psychological toolkit: a collection of practical techniques uniquely designed for you. These include relaxation, coping, assertiveness, resilience & stress management tools & a bespoke psychological roadmap (formulation). These tools will allow you to step back from triggering situations, notice unhelpful patterns in your thoughts, behaviours and emotions, respond mindfully & break free from old patterns.
020 3816 3726 View 020 3816 3726

More Therapists Nearby

Photo of Katrina Voysey, Psychotherapist in Reigate, England
Katrina Voysey
Psychotherapist, DCounsPsych, MBACP
Verified Verified
Coulsdon CR5
With 25 years experience, I offer a safe, non-judgemental and creative space to explore personal or relationship concerns. Psychotherapy can help you to cope better with difficult experiences, to change your behaviours & attitudes, to resolve your problems and to develop resources for a more enriching life. Relational or couples counselling can help you repair relationships blighted by vicious arguments, affairs, mistrust, sexual issues, control, boredom or a deadening growing apart. Working with me can set your relationship back on course for better, more fulfilling times; or it can ease the difficulties of a breakup.
With 25 years experience, I offer a safe, non-judgemental and creative space to explore personal or relationship concerns. Psychotherapy can help you to cope better with difficult experiences, to change your behaviours & attitudes, to resolve your problems and to develop resources for a more enriching life. Relational or couples counselling can help you repair relationships blighted by vicious arguments, affairs, mistrust, sexual issues, control, boredom or a deadening growing apart. Working with me can set your relationship back on course for better, more fulfilling times; or it can ease the difficulties of a breakup.
020 3948 6490 View 020 3948 6490
Photo of Saira Webster, Counsellor in Reigate, England
Saira Webster
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Wallington SM6
I have experience working with teenagers, adults, couples and families.
I'm a qualified Integrative Counsellor and an individual member with BACP - the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy. I work with a humanistic approach. I offer a 15 minutes free consultation to understand your needs and how we might work together.  My aim is to offer you a safe and confidential space where you are able to explore your thoughts and feelings freely.  I will work with you, at your pace and enable you to see and develop towards the outcome that you want to achieve.
I have experience working with teenagers, adults, couples and families.
I'm a qualified Integrative Counsellor and an individual member with BACP - the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy. I work with a humanistic approach. I offer a 15 minutes free consultation to understand your needs and how we might work together.  My aim is to offer you a safe and confidential space where you are able to explore your thoughts and feelings freely.  I will work with you, at your pace and enable you to see and develop towards the outcome that you want to achieve.
020 3984 7614 View 020 3984 7614
Photo of Nicola Farrow, Counsellor in Reigate, England
Nicola Farrow
Counsellor, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Coulsdon CR5
Hello and welcome, my name is Nicola. I am a qualified and experienced psychotherapist and relationship counsellor. I support and work with individuals and couples who are experiencing a wide range of issues from, anxiety, depression, addictions, relationship issues, separation, divorce, low self-esteem, anger and bereavement. I have worked in a variety of settings including the Relate institute, counselling agencies, and as part of a mental health team. I now work mainly in private practice. My practices are situated in Coulsdon Surrey CR5 and Balham.London SW17.
Hello and welcome, my name is Nicola. I am a qualified and experienced psychotherapist and relationship counsellor. I support and work with individuals and couples who are experiencing a wide range of issues from, anxiety, depression, addictions, relationship issues, separation, divorce, low self-esteem, anger and bereavement. I have worked in a variety of settings including the Relate institute, counselling agencies, and as part of a mental health team. I now work mainly in private practice. My practices are situated in Coulsdon Surrey CR5 and Balham.London SW17.
01260 545138 View 01260 545138
Photo of Jill Pendlebury, Counsellor in Reigate, England
Jill Pendlebury
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Sutton SM1  (Online Only)
I offer short, Solution Focused Brief and long term therapy to individuals and couples.
Do you sometimes feel like you don't fit in? Do you feel that relationships and events from your past are holding you back? Is something that happened to you recently preying on your mind and making you anxious or depressed? Is your work consuming you, leaving little time to appreciate and enjoy other areas of your life? These are just some of the things that can make dealing with your life seem too much. You can then feel powerless and unable to see a way forward. Exploring these and other issues in a safe and neutral space can help to find a way through. We can also look at strategies and ways to cope on a day to day basis.
I offer short, Solution Focused Brief and long term therapy to individuals and couples.
Do you sometimes feel like you don't fit in? Do you feel that relationships and events from your past are holding you back? Is something that happened to you recently preying on your mind and making you anxious or depressed? Is your work consuming you, leaving little time to appreciate and enjoy other areas of your life? These are just some of the things that can make dealing with your life seem too much. You can then feel powerless and unable to see a way forward. Exploring these and other issues in a safe and neutral space can help to find a way through. We can also look at strategies and ways to cope on a day to day basis.
020 3984 8966 View 020 3984 8966
Photo of Anna Gosling, Psychologist in Reigate, England
Anna Gosling
Psychologist, PsychD, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Leatherhead KT22
I work with people who are struggling to manage a range of issues - including anxiety, stress, depression, phobias, OCD, grief, trauma, relationship issues, bi-polar disorder, hoarding issues. I offer a non-judgemental, warm, safe space to think about the main issue troubling you at the moment, how it may be effecting your mood, your relationships, your day to day activities. We will also think about strengths you have and how you can build on these to develop more useful and helpful coping strategies.
I work with people who are struggling to manage a range of issues - including anxiety, stress, depression, phobias, OCD, grief, trauma, relationship issues, bi-polar disorder, hoarding issues. I offer a non-judgemental, warm, safe space to think about the main issue troubling you at the moment, how it may be effecting your mood, your relationships, your day to day activities. We will also think about strengths you have and how you can build on these to develop more useful and helpful coping strategies.
01306 775785 View 01306 775785
Photo of Marijke Roberts, Counsellor in Reigate, England
Marijke Roberts
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Sutton SM1
Hello, I am Marijke. I have many years of experience in working with different people from all walks of life. First as a social worker, and in the past few years as a psychotherapeutic counsellor. I work with adults, teenagers and couples. I can help you work through any areas in your life where you feel “stuck” and where you experience problems, like anxiety and depression, addiction, phobias, Post Traumatic Stress, feelings of low self-worth and low self-esteem, or problems in your relationship.
Hello, I am Marijke. I have many years of experience in working with different people from all walks of life. First as a social worker, and in the past few years as a psychotherapeutic counsellor. I work with adults, teenagers and couples. I can help you work through any areas in your life where you feel “stuck” and where you experience problems, like anxiety and depression, addiction, phobias, Post Traumatic Stress, feelings of low self-worth and low self-esteem, or problems in your relationship.
01260 542116 View 01260 542116
Photo of Shikainah Champion, Psychotherapist in Reigate, England
Shikainah Champion
Psychotherapist, MA, MBABCP
Verified Verified
Banstead SM7
I also offer Behavioural Couples Therapy (BCT) which is a structured CBT based approach to coach couples experiencing relationship distress.
I treat depression and anxiety disorders such as specific phobias, PTSD, childhood trauma, OCD, Generalised Anxiety Disorder (GAD), Social phobia, Panic and Agoraphobia and Health Anxiety. I also treat Anorexia nervosa and Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD). I treat individuals 16+ and couples too. In addition, I also offer CBT supervision to High Intensity Therapists and Psychological Well Being Practitioners in our service. I am happy to take on any private practitioner looking for a CBT supervisor.
I also offer Behavioural Couples Therapy (BCT) which is a structured CBT based approach to coach couples experiencing relationship distress.
I treat depression and anxiety disorders such as specific phobias, PTSD, childhood trauma, OCD, Generalised Anxiety Disorder (GAD), Social phobia, Panic and Agoraphobia and Health Anxiety. I also treat Anorexia nervosa and Body Dysmorphic Disorder (BDD). I treat individuals 16+ and couples too. In addition, I also offer CBT supervision to High Intensity Therapists and Psychological Well Being Practitioners in our service. I am happy to take on any private practitioner looking for a CBT supervisor.
01798 305234 View 01798 305234
Photo of Neil Coburn, Psychotherapist in Reigate, England
Neil Coburn
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Leatherhead KT22
I am a specialist relationship therapist. I work with couples on their relationship challenges. I also work with individuals who are facing relationship difficulties, and on occasions, couples at the end of a relationship. My aim is always to help people to have better conversations with each other and themselves as individuals, to find a fresh start.
I am a specialist relationship therapist. I work with couples on their relationship challenges. I also work with individuals who are facing relationship difficulties, and on occasions, couples at the end of a relationship. My aim is always to help people to have better conversations with each other and themselves as individuals, to find a fresh start.
01372 679976 View 01372 679976
Photo of Sally Coombe, Counsellor in Reigate, England
Sally Coombe
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Epsom KT17
Waitlist for new clients
I work with adolescents(face to face Dorset and Hampshire), adults and couples(online).
You may be reading this as you’re finding things in life difficult at the moment. You may be struggling with thoughts or certain circumstances, maybe you can’t pin point what you’re going through; you just know you need some support. I offer you a safe and non judgmental space to explore what is happening, and help you to understand why you’re feeling the way you are. I personalise my work with you and provide tools to support you to work through the difficulties you are experiencing. You may be searching for the right counsellor, or you may be the parent/carer of a young person who needs support.
I work with adolescents(face to face Dorset and Hampshire), adults and couples(online).
You may be reading this as you’re finding things in life difficult at the moment. You may be struggling with thoughts or certain circumstances, maybe you can’t pin point what you’re going through; you just know you need some support. I offer you a safe and non judgmental space to explore what is happening, and help you to understand why you’re feeling the way you are. I personalise my work with you and provide tools to support you to work through the difficulties you are experiencing. You may be searching for the right counsellor, or you may be the parent/carer of a young person who needs support.
01737 949810 View 01737 949810
Photo of Dr Louise Banham, Psychologist in Reigate, England
Dr Louise Banham
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Leatherhead KT22
I'm a Senior Clinical Psychologist, practising since 2000 and have worked in the NHS, Charity and Corporate sectors. I provide evidence-based, tailored psychological interventions to individuals aged 18+ using a variety of therapeutic models. I work collaboratively with you to understand your specific difficulties and work towards a solution. My specialty is helping clients experiencing relationship difficulties, attachment trauma or those managing transitional points, eg childbirth, career change, menopause, health problems, disability, divorce or bereavement.
I'm a Senior Clinical Psychologist, practising since 2000 and have worked in the NHS, Charity and Corporate sectors. I provide evidence-based, tailored psychological interventions to individuals aged 18+ using a variety of therapeutic models. I work collaboratively with you to understand your specific difficulties and work towards a solution. My specialty is helping clients experiencing relationship difficulties, attachment trauma or those managing transitional points, eg childbirth, career change, menopause, health problems, disability, divorce or bereavement.
01372 664358 View 01372 664358

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Couples Counselling

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.