Gottman Method Therapists in Kleinburg, ON

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Salwa Mawji
Registered Social Worker, MSW, BSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Kleinburg, ON L0J
My therapeutic approach is informed by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) , Dialectical Behavioural Therapy (DBT), Emotion Focused Family Therapy (EFFT), Solution Focused Therapy, Mindfulness, and the Gottman Method.
Welcome to Therapy Heals! I have worked with individuals, children/adolescents, young adults, couples, families, and groups in a variety of capacities. My expertise is in anxiety, depression, emotional regulation, parenting challenges, self-esteem issues, stress and relationship difficulties. I am known for my compassionate, strengths-based approach and my ability to not only help my clients navigate through life stressors, but also to explore ways to live more meaningfully and purposefully.
My therapeutic approach is informed by Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT) , Dialectical Behavioural Therapy (DBT), Emotion Focused Family Therapy (EFFT), Solution Focused Therapy, Mindfulness, and the Gottman Method.
Welcome to Therapy Heals! I have worked with individuals, children/adolescents, young adults, couples, families, and groups in a variety of capacities. My expertise is in anxiety, depression, emotional regulation, parenting challenges, self-esteem issues, stress and relationship difficulties. I am known for my compassionate, strengths-based approach and my ability to not only help my clients navigate through life stressors, but also to explore ways to live more meaningfully and purposefully.
(888) 340-4325 View (888) 340-4325
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Maria Veronica Caracciolo
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), HBEd, MACP, (Hons), RP (Q), C-DBT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Kleinburg, ON L0J
They say our greatest weakness lies in giving up! We have all been there. I decided that if life was going to be difficult, I would become its greatest “warrior” and teach others to do the same. Too often we use our armour to hide our inner selves, rather than see it as our strength which only comes from taking a risk, facing our fears, taking a step forward, and learning that every battle is won with wisdom. I am here to empower you to take that chance on yourself — your mind is a powerful force, but you are its master!
They say our greatest weakness lies in giving up! We have all been there. I decided that if life was going to be difficult, I would become its greatest “warrior” and teach others to do the same. Too often we use our armour to hide our inner selves, rather than see it as our strength which only comes from taking a risk, facing our fears, taking a step forward, and learning that every battle is won with wisdom. I am here to empower you to take that chance on yourself — your mind is a powerful force, but you are its master!
(289) 276-4787 View (289) 276-4787
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Iveta Polonsky
Registered Psychotherapist, BA, RP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kleinburg, ON L0J
Welcome to Therapy Heals! As a psychodynamic psychotherapist, I believe in creating a safe, supportive, and non-judgmental space for self-exploration and healing. My client-centered, strength-based, and culturally sensitive approach focuses on providing my clients the means to better understand themselves and their experiences. I work collaboratively with each client, tailoring treatment to their unique needs. My work involves exploration of thoughts, feelings, patterns, and ways of relating to others, as well as building strength, resiliency, and skills to navigate through difficult times and reach desired goals.
Welcome to Therapy Heals! As a psychodynamic psychotherapist, I believe in creating a safe, supportive, and non-judgmental space for self-exploration and healing. My client-centered, strength-based, and culturally sensitive approach focuses on providing my clients the means to better understand themselves and their experiences. I work collaboratively with each client, tailoring treatment to their unique needs. My work involves exploration of thoughts, feelings, patterns, and ways of relating to others, as well as building strength, resiliency, and skills to navigate through difficult times and reach desired goals.
(289) 724-2489 View (289) 724-2489

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Sedâ Psychotherapy
Registered Psychotherapist
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Brampton, ON L6P  (Online Only)
We use approaches such as Narrative Therapy, Internal Family Systems Therapy, EMDR, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Dialectical Behavioural Therapy, Exposure Response Prevention, Gottman Method, Compassion-Focused Therapy, Hypnotherapy, and Dance/Movement Therapy.
Sedâ Psychotherapy consists of a team of therapists who are available to support you in navigating your individual and relationship challenges. Our therapists provide virtual services to youth (aged 6+), adults, couples, and families in Ontario. Common concerns that we help clients with are anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship issues, children's mental health, 2SLGBTQ+ experiences, identity exploration, perfectionism, sex and sexuality, life transitions, OCD, ADHD, disordered eating, and substance use concerns.
We use approaches such as Narrative Therapy, Internal Family Systems Therapy, EMDR, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Dialectical Behavioural Therapy, Exposure Response Prevention, Gottman Method, Compassion-Focused Therapy, Hypnotherapy, and Dance/Movement Therapy.
Sedâ Psychotherapy consists of a team of therapists who are available to support you in navigating your individual and relationship challenges. Our therapists provide virtual services to youth (aged 6+), adults, couples, and families in Ontario. Common concerns that we help clients with are anxiety, depression, trauma, relationship issues, children's mental health, 2SLGBTQ+ experiences, identity exploration, perfectionism, sex and sexuality, life transitions, OCD, ADHD, disordered eating, and substance use concerns.
(289) 301-7804 View (289) 301-7804
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Maray Counselling
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Shelburne, ON L0N
I have training in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Emotion Focused Therapy for individuals and couples as well as Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
Are you dealing with stress? Depression? Anxiety? Have thoughts of a past trauma keeping you awake at night? Are you having trouble concentrating at work? Are you and your partner fighting more than usual? Counselling can help! I can help! I am experienced in the field of couple counselling, parenting, sexuality issues, as well as issues such as depression, anxiety and stress. I have over 30 years of experience working with children, individuals of all ages and youth. I use a mixture of various therapies as I understand that you are unique and I will work with you in finding the best therapy type for you.
I have training in Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Emotion Focused Therapy for individuals and couples as well as Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
Are you dealing with stress? Depression? Anxiety? Have thoughts of a past trauma keeping you awake at night? Are you having trouble concentrating at work? Are you and your partner fighting more than usual? Counselling can help! I can help! I am experienced in the field of couple counselling, parenting, sexuality issues, as well as issues such as depression, anxiety and stress. I have over 30 years of experience working with children, individuals of all ages and youth. I use a mixture of various therapies as I understand that you are unique and I will work with you in finding the best therapy type for you.
(226) 457-2384 View (226) 457-2384
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Sonia Dillon
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), BsC, MACP, EMDR
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Brampton, ON L6R  (Online Only)
I draw from evidence-based therapeutic modalities, such as EMDR, CBT, DBT, EFT, Gottman Method, Imago therapy, and IFS.
Accepting new clients - Struggling with relationships can be overwhelming. Battling anxiety and low mood can be draining. Grief can be life changing. Stress and trauma can be paralyzing. You’re not alone and I am happy to help. I am here to listen and offer support in a space filled with comfort, knowledge, and without judgement. A space where we can work together, as a team, to overcome these challenges. I am committed to building a trusting and collaborative relationship with each person, where they not only feel heard, valued, and understood, while having something to take away from each session.
I draw from evidence-based therapeutic modalities, such as EMDR, CBT, DBT, EFT, Gottman Method, Imago therapy, and IFS.
Accepting new clients - Struggling with relationships can be overwhelming. Battling anxiety and low mood can be draining. Grief can be life changing. Stress and trauma can be paralyzing. You’re not alone and I am happy to help. I am here to listen and offer support in a space filled with comfort, knowledge, and without judgement. A space where we can work together, as a team, to overcome these challenges. I am committed to building a trusting and collaborative relationship with each person, where they not only feel heard, valued, and understood, while having something to take away from each session.
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Rasheeda Henry
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), RP(Q), Bsc, MACP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Brampton, ON L6R
I am trained in various therapeutic approaches, including Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Sex Therapy.
Hello there! Are you facing conflicts, relationship breakdowns, or life stressors? I'm here to help. With specialized training in sex therapy and a passion for your well-being, I create a safe, comfortable space for transformation. Together, we'll tackle unsatisfying sex lives, anxiety, and relationship challenges. Let's embark on this journey towards a better you—reach out today!
I am trained in various therapeutic approaches, including Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Gottman Method, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and Sex Therapy.
Hello there! Are you facing conflicts, relationship breakdowns, or life stressors? I'm here to help. With specialized training in sex therapy and a passion for your well-being, I create a safe, comfortable space for transformation. Together, we'll tackle unsatisfying sex lives, anxiety, and relationship challenges. Let's embark on this journey towards a better you—reach out today!
(289) 276-8085 View (289) 276-8085
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Varsha Ramkumar
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), RP(Q), MA
Verified Verified
Brampton, ON L6R
Truth be told, all of us go through many story lines and create our own unique narratives as we go about our daily lives. We are the authors of our lives. And in therapy, I truly respect that. You will see in our sessions, as you and I work together to build a therapeutic relationship, I will make every effort to help you make sense of your unique experiences and support you on your journey. I have extensively worked with adolescents, adults, and seniors.
Truth be told, all of us go through many story lines and create our own unique narratives as we go about our daily lives. We are the authors of our lives. And in therapy, I truly respect that. You will see in our sessions, as you and I work together to build a therapeutic relationship, I will make every effort to help you make sense of your unique experiences and support you on your journey. I have extensively worked with adolescents, adults, and seniors.
(289) 207-6217 View (289) 207-6217
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Piece of Mind Counselling
MA, RP, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Brampton, ON L6R
You have found this site as you are taking the first step towards change. These first steps are often scary & difficult but we are here to support you! Our highly trained and compassionate therapists provide a range of services that are usually covered by your extended healthcare plan. We strive to create a safe & comfortable environment in which, you will be able to work through the issues that you are finding yourself struggling with. We are dedicated to helping people maintain a state of wellness for themselves & their families. New to our practice: student therapists offering compassionate rates. Please inquire.
You have found this site as you are taking the first step towards change. These first steps are often scary & difficult but we are here to support you! Our highly trained and compassionate therapists provide a range of services that are usually covered by your extended healthcare plan. We strive to create a safe & comfortable environment in which, you will be able to work through the issues that you are finding yourself struggling with. We are dedicated to helping people maintain a state of wellness for themselves & their families. New to our practice: student therapists offering compassionate rates. Please inquire.
(289) 805-6691 View (289) 805-6691
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Tamar Spilberg, Individual, Family Therapy
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Bolton, ON L7C
I'm a therapist based in Vaughan and Maple, Ontario - with 20 years experience in individual, child, family and couple therapy. As a strong believer in inner peace and acceptance, I work extensively every day to help people overcome suffrage from mental illnesses and other personal struggles. The mind is our most powerful tool, and a healthy mind helps us achieve inner peace and balance that promotes a happy and successful life. Many people experience a mental illness or a life struggle that challenges them every day, and impacts not only their lives, but also the lives of their loved ones. Therapy is a means to finding balance
I'm a therapist based in Vaughan and Maple, Ontario - with 20 years experience in individual, child, family and couple therapy. As a strong believer in inner peace and acceptance, I work extensively every day to help people overcome suffrage from mental illnesses and other personal struggles. The mind is our most powerful tool, and a healthy mind helps us achieve inner peace and balance that promotes a happy and successful life. Many people experience a mental illness or a life struggle that challenges them every day, and impacts not only their lives, but also the lives of their loved ones. Therapy is a means to finding balance
(289) 514-0060 View (289) 514-0060
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Shambhvi Sharma
Registered Psychotherapist (Qualifying), RSSW, ExAT, MA, BA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Brampton, ON L6R
Are you struggling with things around being a lot to handle lately? May be it is finding your identity, your roots, challenges in your relationships with your loved ones or difficulties at workplace which is making you feel overwhelmed, hopeless, anxious and frustrated. It may feel like no one listens, no one understands, no one cares which can give a sense of feeling depressed, stuck, alone and lost. It might be affecting your quality of life, your motivation, your happiness and you are looking for some guidance or a safe place to reflect and work on your mental well being and to feel like yourself again!
Are you struggling with things around being a lot to handle lately? May be it is finding your identity, your roots, challenges in your relationships with your loved ones or difficulties at workplace which is making you feel overwhelmed, hopeless, anxious and frustrated. It may feel like no one listens, no one understands, no one cares which can give a sense of feeling depressed, stuck, alone and lost. It might be affecting your quality of life, your motivation, your happiness and you are looking for some guidance or a safe place to reflect and work on your mental well being and to feel like yourself again!
(437) 747-4919 View (437) 747-4919
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Shereen McFarlane
Registered Psychotherapist, PhD, RP, RMFT
Verified Verified
Brampton, ON L6Z  (Online Only)
ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS******* Everyday life comes with struggles that often leave us feeling depressed, anxious, and overwhelmed. We sometimes feel disconnected and in conflict with our spouses, family and friends and are looking for a way to cope better. However, what we really want is the opportunity to breathe. To be able to create space where we can slow down and act instead of react, to decide and choose instead of the choice being made for us.
ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS******* Everyday life comes with struggles that often leave us feeling depressed, anxious, and overwhelmed. We sometimes feel disconnected and in conflict with our spouses, family and friends and are looking for a way to cope better. However, what we really want is the opportunity to breathe. To be able to create space where we can slow down and act instead of react, to decide and choose instead of the choice being made for us.
(289) 274-2365 View (289) 274-2365
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Laura Meneguzzi
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Caledon, ON L7C
Waitlist for new clients
If you are feeling unhappy in your relationship, or struggle with relationship/dating anxiety - my approach may be a fit for you. Relationships are rewarding but challenge us in complex ways. Attending Emotion-Focused Therapy can help to address painful emotions, identify patterns that keep you "stuck", and to gain awareness of your needs. EFT can help attain a deeper level of connection internally and with others. My therapeutic approach is ideal for you if your goal is to look at what may be holding you back in your close relationships. I often work with issues such as infidelity, marriage/parenting conflicts and separation.
If you are feeling unhappy in your relationship, or struggle with relationship/dating anxiety - my approach may be a fit for you. Relationships are rewarding but challenge us in complex ways. Attending Emotion-Focused Therapy can help to address painful emotions, identify patterns that keep you "stuck", and to gain awareness of your needs. EFT can help attain a deeper level of connection internally and with others. My therapeutic approach is ideal for you if your goal is to look at what may be holding you back in your close relationships. I often work with issues such as infidelity, marriage/parenting conflicts and separation.
(289) 270-2856 View (289) 270-2856
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Sam Srijani
Registered Psychotherapist, MA, RP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Brampton, ON L6P
Are you dealing with anxiety, low self esteem, work-related stress, or people pleasing? Do you find yourself going through the motions, struggling to keep up with the demands of your busy life? Are you finding it harder to enjoy your day and just be present with your loved ones? If you’re feeling like this, you may even be experiencing guilt and shame about these difficult emotions. Maybe you're craving space where you can just shed your responsibilities and the expectations of others – your friends, your family, society – and just be yourself. I hear you, and I applaud you for taking this courageous step.
Are you dealing with anxiety, low self esteem, work-related stress, or people pleasing? Do you find yourself going through the motions, struggling to keep up with the demands of your busy life? Are you finding it harder to enjoy your day and just be present with your loved ones? If you’re feeling like this, you may even be experiencing guilt and shame about these difficult emotions. Maybe you're craving space where you can just shed your responsibilities and the expectations of others – your friends, your family, society – and just be yourself. I hear you, and I applaud you for taking this courageous step.
(437) 747-1925 View (437) 747-1925
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Joseanne Spiteri - Couples And Individual Therapy
Registered Psychotherapist
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Brampton, ON L6Z
What if there was a solution to transform your relationship? You've been stuck in never-ending cycles of arguments or complete emotional detachment from your partner. You need change but unsure what to next. No matter how hard you've tried on your own—having conversations, going on date nights, reading books, or even seeing a therapist—there's still a disconnect. You're craving emotional connection, effortless intimacy or sex, and healthy communication. You want to take control of your relationship's future as you are worried these unresolved issues will jeopardize your family, your happiness, your future and your lifelong dreams.
What if there was a solution to transform your relationship? You've been stuck in never-ending cycles of arguments or complete emotional detachment from your partner. You need change but unsure what to next. No matter how hard you've tried on your own—having conversations, going on date nights, reading books, or even seeing a therapist—there's still a disconnect. You're craving emotional connection, effortless intimacy or sex, and healthy communication. You want to take control of your relationship's future as you are worried these unresolved issues will jeopardize your family, your happiness, your future and your lifelong dreams.
(289) 277-0680 View (289) 277-0680
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Divyanksha Gaind Lotus Beacon Of Hope Psychotherapy
Registered Psychotherapist, RP, MA, BA, OAMHP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Brampton, ON L6S  (Online Only)
At Lotus Beacon of Hope Psychotherapy, we believe in the transformative power of healing and growth. Our mission is to provide a safe, nurturing space where individuals can embark on a journey towards emotional well-being and personal empowerment. Our practice is dedicated to helping clients navigate life's challenges with compassion, understanding, and expertise. Clinical Director Divyanksha Gaind is a Registered Psychotherapist with 12 + years of experience supporting individuals, couples and families in their healing journey. We are committed to provide anti-oppressive and client centered care through our services.
At Lotus Beacon of Hope Psychotherapy, we believe in the transformative power of healing and growth. Our mission is to provide a safe, nurturing space where individuals can embark on a journey towards emotional well-being and personal empowerment. Our practice is dedicated to helping clients navigate life's challenges with compassion, understanding, and expertise. Clinical Director Divyanksha Gaind is a Registered Psychotherapist with 12 + years of experience supporting individuals, couples and families in their healing journey. We are committed to provide anti-oppressive and client centered care through our services.
(289) 797-5831 View (289) 797-5831
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Claire Silvester
Registered Psychotherapist, BSc, MSc, RP, CHRE
Verified Verified
10 Endorsed
Caledon, ON L7K
Sit with me in person or dial in virtually across Canada is step one. It’s complementary. Step two we work together on what’s hurting you, maybe relationships, work roadblocks, grief or transitions. It takes bravery to say please help, it’s not unusual that there is no apparent reason. It is ok to need a listening ear to open up new choices on how to live life. It’s ok to need to download, telling me your life’s pressures starts from the get go. Need to relax, I have just the thing ask about experiencing deep relaxation “Let it go”. Virtual throughout Canada, connect for the confidential support you deserve most provinces covered.
Sit with me in person or dial in virtually across Canada is step one. It’s complementary. Step two we work together on what’s hurting you, maybe relationships, work roadblocks, grief or transitions. It takes bravery to say please help, it’s not unusual that there is no apparent reason. It is ok to need a listening ear to open up new choices on how to live life. It’s ok to need to download, telling me your life’s pressures starts from the get go. Need to relax, I have just the thing ask about experiencing deep relaxation “Let it go”. Virtual throughout Canada, connect for the confidential support you deserve most provinces covered.
(647) 371-0092 View (647) 371-0092
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M.Saini and Associates
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Brampton, ON L6P  (Online Only)
I understand that life can be overwhelming at times. I can help you navigate through life’s difficulties. My goal is to provide a safe ,confidential and supportive environment where you can gain self-awareness and take control of your life and make positive changes. I am specialized in a range of therapeutic approaches and my 30 years of experience of working with individuals, couples, families and teenagers has given me knowledge and skills to customize a treatment plan to meet your unique needs. I am committed to helping you reach your goals and develop a healthier and more balanced lifestyle.
I understand that life can be overwhelming at times. I can help you navigate through life’s difficulties. My goal is to provide a safe ,confidential and supportive environment where you can gain self-awareness and take control of your life and make positive changes. I am specialized in a range of therapeutic approaches and my 30 years of experience of working with individuals, couples, families and teenagers has given me knowledge and skills to customize a treatment plan to meet your unique needs. I am committed to helping you reach your goals and develop a healthier and more balanced lifestyle.
(289) 272-7410 View (289) 272-7410
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Desiree Brown
Registered Psychotherapist, MACP, RP
Verified Verified
8 Endorsed
Brampton, ON L6S
I share a common human experience with my clients and appreciate our journeys. Maybe you're considering therapy to connect with someone non-judgmental and outside your personal support system; you're feeling uneasy or worrying about life; you're withdrawing from others and no longer find joy and pleasure; substance use or a habitual behaviour is getting in the way of meaningful relationships and meeting life’s challenges; or you experienced a major event in your life and you're feeling overwhelmed. We will endeavour to understand these challenges and I will support you in taking steps that would benefit you.
I share a common human experience with my clients and appreciate our journeys. Maybe you're considering therapy to connect with someone non-judgmental and outside your personal support system; you're feeling uneasy or worrying about life; you're withdrawing from others and no longer find joy and pleasure; substance use or a habitual behaviour is getting in the way of meaningful relationships and meeting life’s challenges; or you experienced a major event in your life and you're feeling overwhelmed. We will endeavour to understand these challenges and I will support you in taking steps that would benefit you.
(289) 276-8871 View (289) 276-8871
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Adelle Volpone
Registered Social Worker, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Caledon East, ON L0N  (Online Only)
I am an experienced and skilled therapist specializing in working with high-performance professionals, athletes, and couples. With an understanding of the unique pressures and demands faced by individuals striving for excellence, I am committed to helping clients navigate the psychological challenges inherent in all environments. Drawing upon my extensive training and 18 plus years of experience, I employ a holistic approach that integrates therapeutic techniques with practical strategies for optimizing mental performance and for enhancing relationships.
I am an experienced and skilled therapist specializing in working with high-performance professionals, athletes, and couples. With an understanding of the unique pressures and demands faced by individuals striving for excellence, I am committed to helping clients navigate the psychological challenges inherent in all environments. Drawing upon my extensive training and 18 plus years of experience, I employ a holistic approach that integrates therapeutic techniques with practical strategies for optimizing mental performance and for enhancing relationships.
(249) 503-3474 View (249) 503-3474

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Gottman Method Counsellors

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analysed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomised controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.