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Catalyst Psychology
Psychologist, MC, RPsych
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T2N
My name is Aaron Telnes and I am the Owner and Registered Psychologist at Catalyst Psychology. I strive to help clients to both overcome their mental health challenges and achieve their mental health and life-related goals through a client centered, solution-focused, approach to therapy. Working with clients who might be struggling with Anxiety, Depression, Insomnia, Life Transitions, ADHD, and Relationship Issues, I work to ignite the change within and support clients to address their challenges, develop coping strategies, cultivate a positive mindset, achieve their goals, and live a happy and successful life.
My name is Aaron Telnes and I am the Owner and Registered Psychologist at Catalyst Psychology. I strive to help clients to both overcome their mental health challenges and achieve their mental health and life-related goals through a client centered, solution-focused, approach to therapy. Working with clients who might be struggling with Anxiety, Depression, Insomnia, Life Transitions, ADHD, and Relationship Issues, I work to ignite the change within and support clients to address their challenges, develop coping strategies, cultivate a positive mindset, achieve their goals, and live a happy and successful life.
(587) 801-5086 View (587) 801-5086
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Authentic Psychology
Psychologist, MA, BSc, RPsych
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T2G
I work with a variety of wonderful people on a variety of issues--Some of the main ones are as follows: PURPOSE, SPIRITUALITY, & LIFE DIRECTION concerns, ANXIETY & STRESS, DEPRESSION, COUPLES THERAPY and various MENS ISSUES.
Hi! My name is Joshua Adams and I'm passionate about helping people find their authentic selves and live out their self-chosen purpose. I am calm, empathetic, sincere, open-minded, and a good listener. I love getting to know people and finding their strengths, passions, dreams, and genuine values, helping them overcome any barriers to becoming their authentic selves such as addictions, relationship issues, depression or anxiety. It's about living a life deliberately according to YOUR VALUES, not someone else's. It's about living AUTHENTICALLY! Call, email, or check out my website: 403-690-7482 - authenticpsych.com
I work with a variety of wonderful people on a variety of issues--Some of the main ones are as follows: PURPOSE, SPIRITUALITY, & LIFE DIRECTION concerns, ANXIETY & STRESS, DEPRESSION, COUPLES THERAPY and various MENS ISSUES.
Hi! My name is Joshua Adams and I'm passionate about helping people find their authentic selves and live out their self-chosen purpose. I am calm, empathetic, sincere, open-minded, and a good listener. I love getting to know people and finding their strengths, passions, dreams, and genuine values, helping them overcome any barriers to becoming their authentic selves such as addictions, relationship issues, depression or anxiety. It's about living a life deliberately according to YOUR VALUES, not someone else's. It's about living AUTHENTICALLY! Call, email, or check out my website: 403-690-7482 - authenticpsych.com
(587) 405-2782 View (587) 405-2782
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Shervin Vakili
Psychologist, PhD, RPsych
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T2R
I help individual clients with ADHD, anxiety, and addiction concerns regain control over their lives. I also offer relationship help for individuals and couples. There is a capable and special person inside each and every one of us; don't let your symptoms stop you from being that person. My therapeutic orientations include Cognitive Behavioural, Psychodynamic, Existential, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and family therapy approaches as appropriate.
I help individual clients with ADHD, anxiety, and addiction concerns regain control over their lives. I also offer relationship help for individuals and couples. There is a capable and special person inside each and every one of us; don't let your symptoms stop you from being that person. My therapeutic orientations include Cognitive Behavioural, Psychodynamic, Existential, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy, and family therapy approaches as appropriate.
(888) 789-3067 View (888) 789-3067
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Shane F. Lynch
Psychologist, MA, CCC, CCTP-II, C-DBT, RPsych
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T2C
I have a special interest in fatherhood and co-parenting issues, and also excel in working with anxiety, depression, relationship distress, and trauma.
Learning about yourself is an enlightening and important process. Therapy is personal. It’s about your life, passions, desires, and challenges. Finding the right therapist for you is key in your therapeutic success. My strength as a psychologist comes from my ability to build relationships of trust with patients, guiding them on a journey of self-discovery and healing, while leveraging my experience in both clinical assessment and talk-therapy to design an approach that creates momentum.
I have a special interest in fatherhood and co-parenting issues, and also excel in working with anxiety, depression, relationship distress, and trauma.
Learning about yourself is an enlightening and important process. Therapy is personal. It’s about your life, passions, desires, and challenges. Finding the right therapist for you is key in your therapeutic success. My strength as a psychologist comes from my ability to build relationships of trust with patients, guiding them on a journey of self-discovery and healing, while leveraging my experience in both clinical assessment and talk-therapy to design an approach that creates momentum.
(587) 419-6795 View (587) 419-6795
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Journey Counselling Inc
Psychologist, RPsych
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T2Z
We enjoy helping clients of diverse backgrounds address both relationship and individual challenges. We provide empathic listening and a warm and safe environment to talk about issues. We can help you to gain perspective, understand and take responsibility for your feelings, and make clear requests for getting your needs met. We have experience working with a wide variety of issues including depression, anxiety, mood swings, low self esteem, out of control anger and addictions. (Visit our website for more information.)
We enjoy helping clients of diverse backgrounds address both relationship and individual challenges. We provide empathic listening and a warm and safe environment to talk about issues. We can help you to gain perspective, understand and take responsibility for your feelings, and make clear requests for getting your needs met. We have experience working with a wide variety of issues including depression, anxiety, mood swings, low self esteem, out of control anger and addictions. (Visit our website for more information.)
(403) 800-0755 View (403) 800-0755
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Patrick Keelan
Psychologist, PhD, RPsych
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T2T
My specialty areas include depression, anxiety (generalized, panic, phobias, social, health, OCD), trauma, anger & stress management, eating disorders, self-esteem, couples counselling, addictions, and sport psychology.
Being successful in overcoming depression, anxiety and other issues is no different from succeeding in other areas of life--following a proven method for success gets results. I will provide you with a plan to address your issue, help your learn the skills which are part of the plan, and give you regular assignments to do between sessions to implement the plan. As a competitive athlete, I have a record of overcoming difficult challenges on the way to success. I will help you use the skills I've used to persevere on the way to success in conquering your issue.
My specialty areas include depression, anxiety (generalized, panic, phobias, social, health, OCD), trauma, anger & stress management, eating disorders, self-esteem, couples counselling, addictions, and sport psychology.
Being successful in overcoming depression, anxiety and other issues is no different from succeeding in other areas of life--following a proven method for success gets results. I will provide you with a plan to address your issue, help your learn the skills which are part of the plan, and give you regular assignments to do between sessions to implement the plan. As a competitive athlete, I have a record of overcoming difficult challenges on the way to success. I will help you use the skills I've used to persevere on the way to success in conquering your issue.
(403) 778-2051 View (403) 778-2051
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Cam Burbank
Registered Provisional Psychologist, MC, BS
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T2H
I work with individuals, couples, and adolescents (12-18 yrs) to assist them in bringing about meaningful and lasting change.
Congratulations on taking charge of your life! You are one step closer to getting the help and support that you seek. Asking for help requires courage, and vulnerability, and acknowledging that we all have limitations in our abilities and capacity to handle stress. Asking for help doesn't mean there is something wrong with you, or that you are "broken." Rather it may be that you don't know what to do, or need someone to help guide you through the process. Therapy is meant to be a safe place for you to explore your thoughts, fears, worries and hopes for the future in seeking meaningful chaange without judgement or expectations.
I work with individuals, couples, and adolescents (12-18 yrs) to assist them in bringing about meaningful and lasting change.
Congratulations on taking charge of your life! You are one step closer to getting the help and support that you seek. Asking for help requires courage, and vulnerability, and acknowledging that we all have limitations in our abilities and capacity to handle stress. Asking for help doesn't mean there is something wrong with you, or that you are "broken." Rather it may be that you don't know what to do, or need someone to help guide you through the process. Therapy is meant to be a safe place for you to explore your thoughts, fears, worries and hopes for the future in seeking meaningful chaange without judgement or expectations.
(587) 816-4730 View (587) 816-4730
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Mark A Kolodziej
Counsellor, CCC, PhD, Trauma
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T2G
Specialty is in couples counselling, anger management, domestic violence stress/anxiety/depression, trauma including PTSD, mood and personality challenges, pornogrpahy addiction, performance issues at work, sport or school.
Stress both workplace and life, sexual addicitons, relationships including couple, marital, family, co-worker, Christian. The goal of MARTHA7 counselling is to help people be the best version of themselves.
Specialty is in couples counselling, anger management, domestic violence stress/anxiety/depression, trauma including PTSD, mood and personality challenges, pornogrpahy addiction, performance issues at work, sport or school.
Stress both workplace and life, sexual addicitons, relationships including couple, marital, family, co-worker, Christian. The goal of MARTHA7 counselling is to help people be the best version of themselves.
(587) 323-4272 x403701 View (587) 323-4272 x403701
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Tyler James Schamehorn
Registered Provisional Psychologist, MC
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T2E
I work with a broad range of people to help alleviate anxiety, depression and stress. I also have experience working with couples on relationship issues and within a healthcare setting. I have worked for a long time with an adolescent population, more recently with a geriatric population, and everything in between.
I work with a broad range of people to help alleviate anxiety, depression and stress. I also have experience working with couples on relationship issues and within a healthcare setting. I have worked for a long time with an adolescent population, more recently with a geriatric population, and everything in between.
(587) 844-2351 View (587) 844-2351
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Daniel McMillan
Psychologist, MEd, RPsych
Verified Verified
9 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T2N
The concerns that I work best with are: couples counselling; anxiety; depression; general unhappiness; men's issues; panic; stress; trauma; and personal growth.
It can be difficult to go to counselling, particularly for the first time. Finding a therapist that you feel comfortable with is an important, and at times challenging, process. You likely want someone that can give you direction or tools, but also you connect with and feel supported by. I too feel this is important and strive to provide you with an experience that is both warm / caring AND competent/ knowledgeable. For many years I have worked with individual's and couple's concerns in this manner. I specialize in helping individuals or couples move forward, heal their pain, feel happier and find more peace.
The concerns that I work best with are: couples counselling; anxiety; depression; general unhappiness; men's issues; panic; stress; trauma; and personal growth.
It can be difficult to go to counselling, particularly for the first time. Finding a therapist that you feel comfortable with is an important, and at times challenging, process. You likely want someone that can give you direction or tools, but also you connect with and feel supported by. I too feel this is important and strive to provide you with an experience that is both warm / caring AND competent/ knowledgeable. For many years I have worked with individual's and couple's concerns in this manner. I specialize in helping individuals or couples move forward, heal their pain, feel happier and find more peace.
(587) 412-5076 View (587) 412-5076
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Lyle Gaskell
Psychologist, R Psych
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T2M
I treat anxiety and depression. These conditions often stem from trauma either from childhood or as an adult. I also work with couples via an Emotionally Focused Therapy which is an approach to couples therapy based on attachment. I believe that an integrative approach, focusing on the whole person, as well as their significant relationships which I believe comprise one's total health and wellness.
I treat anxiety and depression. These conditions often stem from trauma either from childhood or as an adult. I also work with couples via an Emotionally Focused Therapy which is an approach to couples therapy based on attachment. I believe that an integrative approach, focusing on the whole person, as well as their significant relationships which I believe comprise one's total health and wellness.
(587) 209-5292 View (587) 209-5292
Photo of Jonathan Hutton, Marriage & Family Therapist in Calgary, AB
Jonathan Hutton
Marriage & Family Therapist
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T3C
Whether it be working with individuals, couples, or families, I bring a deep passion and curiosity regarding the innate strengths, knowledge, and wisdom that exist within all individuals and related systems that support new ways of seeing and experiencing the world.
Relationships in our lives present us with an infinite number of experiences that bring successes, challenges and everything in between. The stories that we live everyday contain relationships that form the foundation of our mental and physical well-being. There are times when we want the current stories in our life to continue and at other times we hope and need for something to change so that we can live the life we desire as an individual and in relation to others. Regardless of the challenges you are experiencing there is a way to find a path forward towards a desired story that will bring fulfillment and joy in your life.
Whether it be working with individuals, couples, or families, I bring a deep passion and curiosity regarding the innate strengths, knowledge, and wisdom that exist within all individuals and related systems that support new ways of seeing and experiencing the world.
Relationships in our lives present us with an infinite number of experiences that bring successes, challenges and everything in between. The stories that we live everyday contain relationships that form the foundation of our mental and physical well-being. There are times when we want the current stories in our life to continue and at other times we hope and need for something to change so that we can live the life we desire as an individual and in relation to others. Regardless of the challenges you are experiencing there is a way to find a path forward towards a desired story that will bring fulfillment and joy in your life.
(587) 874-5812 View (587) 874-5812
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Dwight Holmen
Psychologist, MEd, RPsych
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T2R
Have you noticed that your relationship is effected by stress, anxiety or even having children? Have you noticed that your communication with your partner is harder or even non-existent? Are you avoiding having difficult conversations? Do you struggle with a lack of intimacy or wonder if your partner really understands what you need in the relationship? Making it work and thriving as a couple is one of the most desired, but often most challenging goals. If you answered yes to any of the above questions, chances are you are looking to make it work or why else would you fight for the relationship.
Have you noticed that your relationship is effected by stress, anxiety or even having children? Have you noticed that your communication with your partner is harder or even non-existent? Are you avoiding having difficult conversations? Do you struggle with a lack of intimacy or wonder if your partner really understands what you need in the relationship? Making it work and thriving as a couple is one of the most desired, but often most challenging goals. If you answered yes to any of the above questions, chances are you are looking to make it work or why else would you fight for the relationship.
(587) 717-5458 View (587) 717-5458
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George Wahba
Registered Provisional Psychologist, BA, MACP
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T3M
Waitlist for new clients
I offer both individual and couples therapy, providing you with the opportunity to address immediate issues while building a strong foundation for future success.
What is your purpose? Do you feel as if there is no point to this rat race of a life we find ourselves in? What does a meaningful life even look like? As your Psychologist, I am here to support and guide you through any challenges you may be facing in your personal or professional life, that are stopping you from living your best life. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, or relationships. I am here to help you achieve positive transformation and personal growth. My approach is tailored to your unique needs and goals, with the aim of empowering you to make choices that lead to a more fulfilling & meaningful life.
I offer both individual and couples therapy, providing you with the opportunity to address immediate issues while building a strong foundation for future success.
What is your purpose? Do you feel as if there is no point to this rat race of a life we find ourselves in? What does a meaningful life even look like? As your Psychologist, I am here to support and guide you through any challenges you may be facing in your personal or professional life, that are stopping you from living your best life. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, or relationships. I am here to help you achieve positive transformation and personal growth. My approach is tailored to your unique needs and goals, with the aim of empowering you to make choices that lead to a more fulfilling & meaningful life.
(587) 741-2814 View (587) 741-2814
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Innovative Counselling Solutions, Inc.
Psychologist, PhD, RMFT-S, Prov, Psych, CSAT
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T2E
Are you in a long-term relationship marked with stress, anger and frustration, high conflict, difficult and disrespectful communication, sexual and intimacy problems, and ongoing emotional hurts? Are memory and attention difficulties affecting your current functioning? Perhaps you could benefit from having an expert who understand your needs and assist you in the process of changing old patterns and develop more helpful interpersonal relating skills and better cognitive health. For more than 25 years, I worked overseas and locally helping individuals and couples from different cultures solve their problems.
Are you in a long-term relationship marked with stress, anger and frustration, high conflict, difficult and disrespectful communication, sexual and intimacy problems, and ongoing emotional hurts? Are memory and attention difficulties affecting your current functioning? Perhaps you could benefit from having an expert who understand your needs and assist you in the process of changing old patterns and develop more helpful interpersonal relating skills and better cognitive health. For more than 25 years, I worked overseas and locally helping individuals and couples from different cultures solve their problems.
(866) 375-1305 View (866) 375-1305
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Ben Bamijoko @ Dabyras Wellness Services
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MEd, MCA, MSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T2Y
Thank you for being here! I am Ben, the founder of Dabyras Wellness and a registered social worker with authorization to perform pyschosocial intervention. I believe in exploring individual's' strengths together with them within a safe and supportive environment that empowers them to make the positive changes to live a happy and fulfilled life. I have a wide range of experiences supporting individuals, couples and families struggling with addictions, mental health issues, abuse, anxiety, depression, stress, life transitions, trauma, grief and loss, as well as relationship, behavioral, anger management, and parenting issues.
Thank you for being here! I am Ben, the founder of Dabyras Wellness and a registered social worker with authorization to perform pyschosocial intervention. I believe in exploring individual's' strengths together with them within a safe and supportive environment that empowers them to make the positive changes to live a happy and fulfilled life. I have a wide range of experiences supporting individuals, couples and families struggling with addictions, mental health issues, abuse, anxiety, depression, stress, life transitions, trauma, grief and loss, as well as relationship, behavioral, anger management, and parenting issues.
(587) 875-5834 View (587) 875-5834
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Joe Seddon
Counsellor, MC, CCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T2S
I have extensive knowledge and experience working with adolescents, couples, and men.
Therapy is never a one size fits all approach. We all are navigating different life circumstances that can impact how we are able to function. Working collaboratively we are able to understand where you are, and where you would like to be in your life. We go through many transitions that can be overwhelming, we can find ourselves stuck and not sure how to move forward. Through therapy, we can work towards understanding the narratives that are keeping us in place and work towards creating a future that you want. I can pull from different modalities - narrative, existentialism, CBT, somatic work, and I am a trained EMDR therapist.
I have extensive knowledge and experience working with adolescents, couples, and men.
Therapy is never a one size fits all approach. We all are navigating different life circumstances that can impact how we are able to function. Working collaboratively we are able to understand where you are, and where you would like to be in your life. We go through many transitions that can be overwhelming, we can find ourselves stuck and not sure how to move forward. Through therapy, we can work towards understanding the narratives that are keeping us in place and work towards creating a future that you want. I can pull from different modalities - narrative, existentialism, CBT, somatic work, and I am a trained EMDR therapist.
(587) 849-0657 View (587) 849-0657
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Behnam Kohandel
Psychologist, MA, R, Psych
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T3L
Life at times may feel like a relentless struggle, filled with sadness, discouragement, and overwhelming despair. As a psychologist, with more than 20 years experience, I can support you to overcome challenges such as depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, perfectionism, people pleasing, trauma, addiction, eating issues including binge eating, bulimia and anorexia and couples therapy. I utilize Internal Family Systems (IFS), an innovative and transformative therapeutic model for emotional healing of eating disorders, addiction, anxiety, depression, and relationship difficulties.
Life at times may feel like a relentless struggle, filled with sadness, discouragement, and overwhelming despair. As a psychologist, with more than 20 years experience, I can support you to overcome challenges such as depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, perfectionism, people pleasing, trauma, addiction, eating issues including binge eating, bulimia and anorexia and couples therapy. I utilize Internal Family Systems (IFS), an innovative and transformative therapeutic model for emotional healing of eating disorders, addiction, anxiety, depression, and relationship difficulties.
(844) 311-8027 View (844) 311-8027
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Michael Enman
Psychologist, PhD, RPsych, CRHSP
Verified Verified
Calgary, AB T3R
Located in Calgary, I am a senior Psychologist providing therapy to individuals and couples experiencing emotional and interpersonal challenges, & relationship issues (e.g., affairs, conflict, trust, communication; divorce); mental health disorders, risky/problematic substance use, and/or more general problems of living. I have advanced training in several therapeutic approaches, including, but not limited to: Cognitive-behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavioural Therapy, and couples therapy (Gottman method, Integrative Behavioural Couples Therapy, and Emotionally-focused Therapy). I regularly train PhD students, psychology residents, and provisional psychologists. Additionally, I have expertise working with families (and their adult children), and the assessment/treatment of adult ADHD.
Located in Calgary, I am a senior Psychologist providing therapy to individuals and couples experiencing emotional and interpersonal challenges, & relationship issues (e.g., affairs, conflict, trust, communication; divorce); mental health disorders, risky/problematic substance use, and/or more general problems of living. I have advanced training in several therapeutic approaches, including, but not limited to: Cognitive-behavioral Therapy, Dialectical Behavioural Therapy, and couples therapy (Gottman method, Integrative Behavioural Couples Therapy, and Emotionally-focused Therapy). I regularly train PhD students, psychology residents, and provisional psychologists. Additionally, I have expertise working with families (and their adult children), and the assessment/treatment of adult ADHD.
(866) 838-5181 View (866) 838-5181
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Daniel Klassen
Registered Provisional Psychologist, RCC, CCTP-II, C-PD, ADHDCSP, ASDCS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Calgary, AB T2Z
I work with individuals, couples and families to anchor them in their deep values and truths, establishing with them a way to success, whether suffering from interpersonal discord; burdened by ADHD, autism, addictions, or PD’s; frustrated by anxiety and anger; demoralized by depression, trauma and PTSD; or hopeless because of grief, or loss of identity.
Tired of fighting with life? Feeling drained of energy, demoralized and running out of options? Are you sabotaging yourself? Frustration and confusion can lead to hopelessness and fear. You can’t stay connected to the good life, others, or even yourself… This is a horrible place to be! But we don’t have to live here. What you need is someone with experience and skill to come alongside you, in acceptance, bringing clarity – illuminating reasons why this has been happening to you; all of which bring safety, hope, and direction to your life. I was once here, but now I’m not; now I have a roadmap to get you out of here…
I work with individuals, couples and families to anchor them in their deep values and truths, establishing with them a way to success, whether suffering from interpersonal discord; burdened by ADHD, autism, addictions, or PD’s; frustrated by anxiety and anger; demoralized by depression, trauma and PTSD; or hopeless because of grief, or loss of identity.
Tired of fighting with life? Feeling drained of energy, demoralized and running out of options? Are you sabotaging yourself? Frustration and confusion can lead to hopelessness and fear. You can’t stay connected to the good life, others, or even yourself… This is a horrible place to be! But we don’t have to live here. What you need is someone with experience and skill to come alongside you, in acceptance, bringing clarity – illuminating reasons why this has been happening to you; all of which bring safety, hope, and direction to your life. I was once here, but now I’m not; now I have a roadmap to get you out of here…
(825) 601-5615 View (825) 601-5615

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Couples Counselling

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.