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Masterful Couples, LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, CGMCT, LPC, NBCC, MEdHD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Springfield, VA 22150
TELE-MENTAL HEALTH THERAPY Is Offered in the Gottman Method Couples Approach. Certified in the Gottman Method, I am committed to help couples build stronger friendships, manage differences respectfully, and support hopes and dreams. Four basic principles important to productive couples counseling are the ability to: prioritize your relationship; roll up your sleeves and willingly dig in; show up and participate in the process; and, be open to learning how to make yourself right for your relationship. Masterful Couples is featured on Close-up Talk Radio. www.blogtalkradio.com/closeuptalkradio (see www.masterfulcouples.com)
TELE-MENTAL HEALTH THERAPY Is Offered in the Gottman Method Couples Approach. Certified in the Gottman Method, I am committed to help couples build stronger friendships, manage differences respectfully, and support hopes and dreams. Four basic principles important to productive couples counseling are the ability to: prioritize your relationship; roll up your sleeves and willingly dig in; show up and participate in the process; and, be open to learning how to make yourself right for your relationship. Masterful Couples is featured on Close-up Talk Radio. www.blogtalkradio.com/closeuptalkradio (see www.masterfulcouples.com)
(540) 986-4071 View (540) 986-4071
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Jennie L. McKinney
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Springfield, VA 22151
Waitlist for new clients
Couples seeking a deeper connection in their relationship with their partner need to learn how to speak about and listen to their partner's dreams, inner world, and viewpoint. Often couples feel a sense of disconnection and distance from their partner, who was once their friend and admirer. Couples also want to stop feeling stuck in the same cycles of arguing and miscommunication. They want to start resolving problems and work towards compromise with each other. They want their dreams to come true and create a sense of shared meaning together. If you have lost your partner's love map, I am here to help you find it.
Couples seeking a deeper connection in their relationship with their partner need to learn how to speak about and listen to their partner's dreams, inner world, and viewpoint. Often couples feel a sense of disconnection and distance from their partner, who was once their friend and admirer. Couples also want to stop feeling stuck in the same cycles of arguing and miscommunication. They want to start resolving problems and work towards compromise with each other. They want their dreams to come true and create a sense of shared meaning together. If you have lost your partner's love map, I am here to help you find it.
(703) 468-8974 View (703) 468-8974
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Amisha Raja
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Springfield, VA 22152  (Online Only)
(I AM accepting new patients at this time. Private Pay or BCBS only) I value and respect diversity. I enjoy working with people from all walks of life and believe we have much to learn from each other. Through Telehealth and in person services, I have been working with clients with a diverse range of needs. My immediate focus is on establishing a trusting relationship with clients and working together to address whatever clients are struggling with in their lives. I value collaboration, focusing on strengths, and utilizing those strengths to overcome difficulties.
(I AM accepting new patients at this time. Private Pay or BCBS only) I value and respect diversity. I enjoy working with people from all walks of life and believe we have much to learn from each other. Through Telehealth and in person services, I have been working with clients with a diverse range of needs. My immediate focus is on establishing a trusting relationship with clients and working together to address whatever clients are struggling with in their lives. I value collaboration, focusing on strengths, and utilizing those strengths to overcome difficulties.
(339) 777-6089 View (339) 777-6089
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Fortitude Counseling Center, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LMSW
Verified Verified
Springfield, VA 22150
Gail Renwick has a passion and dedication to serve our nation's active military service-members and their families radiates as she unswervingly volunteers her time, talents, knowledge and thousands of dedicated hours to a state of the art military and teaching hospital in Northern Virginia. Gail is committed to healthy and long-lasting changes in individuals, families and couples through therapeutic counseling - one change at a time - changing one life at a time.
Gail Renwick has a passion and dedication to serve our nation's active military service-members and their families radiates as she unswervingly volunteers her time, talents, knowledge and thousands of dedicated hours to a state of the art military and teaching hospital in Northern Virginia. Gail is committed to healthy and long-lasting changes in individuals, families and couples through therapeutic counseling - one change at a time - changing one life at a time.
(240) 887-1143 View (240) 887-1143
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Putnam Counseling
Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor , LMHC, LPC-S, LPCC, CCTP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Springfield, VA 22153
When a difficult situation crops up in life, we often feel like we are alone in our struggles. I am here to tell you that you are not alone, and it is ok to reach out. After months or even years of living with stress, anxiety, PTSD, or a marriage that is no longer serving your needs, it is easy to feel hopeless. I can give you the skills that you need to get through this challenging time. I am here to teach, help, encourage, and empower you to take back your life. There is always hope!
When a difficult situation crops up in life, we often feel like we are alone in our struggles. I am here to tell you that you are not alone, and it is ok to reach out. After months or even years of living with stress, anxiety, PTSD, or a marriage that is no longer serving your needs, it is easy to feel hopeless. I can give you the skills that you need to get through this challenging time. I am here to teach, help, encourage, and empower you to take back your life. There is always hope!
(937) 705-6040 View (937) 705-6040
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Brenda Rozier-Clark
Marriage & Family Therapist, Ed D, LMFT, LPC, Certifi
Verified Verified
Springfield, VA 22151  (Online Only)
Relationships are difficult. And sometimes, you need help to repair and work your way back to greater happiness. I am a seasoned, caring professional who brings hope and healing to couples. My approach is compassionate - warm, supportive, and above all, non-judgmental.
Relationships are difficult. And sometimes, you need help to repair and work your way back to greater happiness. I am a seasoned, caring professional who brings hope and healing to couples. My approach is compassionate - warm, supportive, and above all, non-judgmental.
(571) 470-6754 View (571) 470-6754
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Lauren Lock
Resident in Counseling, NCC
Verified Verified
Springfield, VA 22015  (Online Only)
In my practice, I focus on the client and the goals they want to achieve. You will find that I am empathetic, encouraging, non-judgmental and respectful. I’m also very down to earth and feel that counseling is nothing to be afraid of! The gift of self discovery is one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself. My hope is that the therapeutic journey will lead you toward being the best version of yourself. It is my intention to empower you in your growth process to the degree that you are capable of facing life’s challenges in the future without me.
In my practice, I focus on the client and the goals they want to achieve. You will find that I am empathetic, encouraging, non-judgmental and respectful. I’m also very down to earth and feel that counseling is nothing to be afraid of! The gift of self discovery is one of the greatest gifts you can give yourself. My hope is that the therapeutic journey will lead you toward being the best version of yourself. It is my intention to empower you in your growth process to the degree that you are capable of facing life’s challenges in the future without me.
(571) 556-3859 View (571) 556-3859
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Caroline Strunk
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, MEd
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Springfield, VA 22153
Therapy is a chance to slow down and step into a safe, confidential space away from the external world to explore your inner one. To sit in a quiet room with another human being who is unconditionally kind but honest, and also trained to recognize patterns of unhealthy behavior, irrational thinking, and the invisible blocks that keep you from being the best version of yourself. I invite you to begin your counseling journey with me and start this process of untangling emotional knots and using these insights to make positive changes in your life.
Therapy is a chance to slow down and step into a safe, confidential space away from the external world to explore your inner one. To sit in a quiet room with another human being who is unconditionally kind but honest, and also trained to recognize patterns of unhealthy behavior, irrational thinking, and the invisible blocks that keep you from being the best version of yourself. I invite you to begin your counseling journey with me and start this process of untangling emotional knots and using these insights to make positive changes in your life.
(571) 350-3250 View (571) 350-3250
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Sondra Horst
Resident in Counseling, MA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Springfield, VA 22153
We all get stuck at one time or another in our ways of relating to others, reacting to loved ones, or resisting personal change. We can feel overwhelmed by loneliness, isolation, or life circumstances and our ability to cope with them. We find that we are not living authentic lives we can be at peace with due to anxiety, depression or even our past. I understand it can be hard to reach out for help when others depend upon you or expect you to have it all together. Have you tried everything else, and now you find yourself here? Know that you are not alone. Your concerns are valid and worthy of attention. Let's explore them together.
We all get stuck at one time or another in our ways of relating to others, reacting to loved ones, or resisting personal change. We can feel overwhelmed by loneliness, isolation, or life circumstances and our ability to cope with them. We find that we are not living authentic lives we can be at peace with due to anxiety, depression or even our past. I understand it can be hard to reach out for help when others depend upon you or expect you to have it all together. Have you tried everything else, and now you find yourself here? Know that you are not alone. Your concerns are valid and worthy of attention. Let's explore them together.
(703) 595-2834 View (703) 595-2834
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Nikki Lemke
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Springfield, VA 22015
Do you find yourself struggling in your most intimate personal relationships? Or feel like you're constantly playing small to make everyone else around you happy? Feeling misunderstood or unseen in your closest connections, is often a very lonely place to be. I can help you make sense of what seems like confusing interpersonal dynamics, so that you can begin to feel the genuine connection and sense of beloning we all crave as human beings. The self-knowledge, skills and insights you gain in session, are an investment into yourself and all your future relationships.
Do you find yourself struggling in your most intimate personal relationships? Or feel like you're constantly playing small to make everyone else around you happy? Feeling misunderstood or unseen in your closest connections, is often a very lonely place to be. I can help you make sense of what seems like confusing interpersonal dynamics, so that you can begin to feel the genuine connection and sense of beloning we all crave as human beings. The self-knowledge, skills and insights you gain in session, are an investment into yourself and all your future relationships.
(571) 470-6368 View (571) 470-6368

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Alison Morogiello
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Oakton, VA 22124
My treatment modalities include IFS-informed EMDR, ACT, and ERP for individuals, as well as a specialization in Structural Family Therapy and applying Gottman Method for families and couples.
When struggling with anxious thoughts, a difficult past, or any other mental health challenges, it can be overwhelming to begin the journey of therapy. Luckily, the most difficult step toward change is the first one. Once dedicated to the process, we can work together to achieve your personalized goals toward wellness, and positive change in your life. I hope to meet you soon!
My treatment modalities include IFS-informed EMDR, ACT, and ERP for individuals, as well as a specialization in Structural Family Therapy and applying Gottman Method for families and couples.
When struggling with anxious thoughts, a difficult past, or any other mental health challenges, it can be overwhelming to begin the journey of therapy. Luckily, the most difficult step toward change is the first one. Once dedicated to the process, we can work together to achieve your personalized goals toward wellness, and positive change in your life. I hope to meet you soon!
(703) 755-8200 View (703) 755-8200
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Rebecca Morrison Gleed
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, PMH-C
Verified Verified
Falls Church, VA 22046
I am Level 3 Gottman Trained and subscribe to The Gottman Method for couples counseling. I am a Certified Perinatal Mental Health Professional (PMH-C). If you are on your fertility journey, pregnant, or postpartum, I would love to help. Ambitious women: Navigating ambitious careers or life transitions when societal demands on women remain pervasive can result in anxiety, depression, unmanageable stress and sometimes even post-traumatic stress.
I am Level 3 Gottman Trained and subscribe to The Gottman Method for couples counseling. I am a Certified Perinatal Mental Health Professional (PMH-C). If you are on your fertility journey, pregnant, or postpartum, I would love to help. Ambitious women: Navigating ambitious careers or life transitions when societal demands on women remain pervasive can result in anxiety, depression, unmanageable stress and sometimes even post-traumatic stress.
(703) 638-9289 View (703) 638-9289
Photo of Chin-Chin Minniear, MA, Pre-Licensed Professional
Chin-Chin Minniear
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Verified Verified
Falls Church, VA 22042
I have completed Level 2 training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
As a psychotherapist, my goal is to create a space in which each client feels authentically seen, known, and supported. I use an integrated, culturally sensitive approach to therapy in order to help clients grow in self-awareness, pursue healing, and realize lasting change.
I have completed Level 2 training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
As a psychotherapist, my goal is to create a space in which each client feels authentically seen, known, and supported. I use an integrated, culturally sensitive approach to therapy in order to help clients grow in self-awareness, pursue healing, and realize lasting change.
(703) 495-2813 View (703) 495-2813
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Dr. Carey Incledon
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Arlington, VA 22201
I specialize in providing compassionate and scientifically supported individual psychotherapy and am a Certified Gottman Method Couples Therapist.
I consider it a privilege to do the work I do—in fact, helping others heal, grow, and thrive every day brings great meaning to my life. I know from personal experience how life can sometimes feel unbearable. I also know from personal experience what it is like to work closely with a gifted psychologist to create a new perspective and a new life that are even better than before. I am passionate about providing the highest-quality mental health services to each of my clients and would love the opportunity to support you through this time.
I specialize in providing compassionate and scientifically supported individual psychotherapy and am a Certified Gottman Method Couples Therapist.
I consider it a privilege to do the work I do—in fact, helping others heal, grow, and thrive every day brings great meaning to my life. I know from personal experience how life can sometimes feel unbearable. I also know from personal experience what it is like to work closely with a gifted psychologist to create a new perspective and a new life that are even better than before. I am passionate about providing the highest-quality mental health services to each of my clients and would love the opportunity to support you through this time.
(703) 546-9786 View (703) 546-9786
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Christina Smith
Pre-Licensed Professional, LPC-R
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Fairfax, VA 22030
I offer couples and marital counseling, utilizing the Gottman Method to support partners in understanding, respecting, and appreciating each other's needs, paving the way for a renewed connection and mutual growth.
Do you find it hard to focus, act impulsively, or feel overwhelmed by work or school? Are social situations a source of intense nervousness for you? You're not alone if you find yourself in unhelpful patterns, struggling to understand your reactions, or feeling swamped by daily tasks. Life can sometimes spiral into chaos, leaving strained relationships, including marriages, and fostering feelings of hopelessness. If you're observing your child grapple with social anxiety or behavioral issues at school, it's crucial to address these concerns early on. I help adults, adolescents, and children acquire skills to break free from anxiety
I offer couples and marital counseling, utilizing the Gottman Method to support partners in understanding, respecting, and appreciating each other's needs, paving the way for a renewed connection and mutual growth.
Do you find it hard to focus, act impulsively, or feel overwhelmed by work or school? Are social situations a source of intense nervousness for you? You're not alone if you find yourself in unhelpful patterns, struggling to understand your reactions, or feeling swamped by daily tasks. Life can sometimes spiral into chaos, leaving strained relationships, including marriages, and fostering feelings of hopelessness. If you're observing your child grapple with social anxiety or behavioral issues at school, it's crucial to address these concerns early on. I help adults, adolescents, and children acquire skills to break free from anxiety
(571) 458-1227 x2 View (571) 458-1227 x2
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Blue Harbor Counseling, PLLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, NCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Falls Church, VA 22042  (Online Only)
I am trained in EMDR, ACT, and Gottman Method, and tailor these approaches to meet the individual needs of my clients.
I aim to help clients learn new skills to live their best lives through individualized counseling approaches. I have experiences working with couples and individuals facing sex-related issues, and am passionate about assisting others with intimacy and gender concerns. I am experienced about helping those who have experienced trauma overcome those experiences in order to thrive. I work with individuals, couples, and families who are experiencing difficulties and challenges adjusting to new situations. I am an LGBTQ ally and kink friendly.
I am trained in EMDR, ACT, and Gottman Method, and tailor these approaches to meet the individual needs of my clients.
I aim to help clients learn new skills to live their best lives through individualized counseling approaches. I have experiences working with couples and individuals facing sex-related issues, and am passionate about assisting others with intimacy and gender concerns. I am experienced about helping those who have experienced trauma overcome those experiences in order to thrive. I work with individuals, couples, and families who are experiencing difficulties and challenges adjusting to new situations. I am an LGBTQ ally and kink friendly.
(833) 253-3572 View (833) 253-3572
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Mina Dadvar Klein
Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, CAGS, MS
Verified Verified
Falls Church, VA 22043
I am a certified RET therapist and a certified Gottman Method educator.
Individuals seek treatment because they are in pain. Facing one's own weaknesses is difficult and opening up even more so-particularly for people whose cultural background and/or family upbringing discourges transparency /self-disclosure. My priority is to create a safe environment where my clients may confront, accept and change aspects of their lives they consider shameful and/or self-destructive. I have been invited as a guest speaker by a number of organizations and regularly offer seminars and work shops on such themes as self-esteem,communication skills, stress management and the challenges of being married/single and dating
I am a certified RET therapist and a certified Gottman Method educator.
Individuals seek treatment because they are in pain. Facing one's own weaknesses is difficult and opening up even more so-particularly for people whose cultural background and/or family upbringing discourges transparency /self-disclosure. My priority is to create a safe environment where my clients may confront, accept and change aspects of their lives they consider shameful and/or self-destructive. I have been invited as a guest speaker by a number of organizations and regularly offer seminars and work shops on such themes as self-esteem,communication skills, stress management and the challenges of being married/single and dating
(301) 530-4806 View (301) 530-4806
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Marisa Beck
Pre-Licensed Professional, MS
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Falls Church, VA 22046
I offer couples therapy, drawing from the principles of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and the Gottman method.
As a Resident in Marriage and Family Therapy, I specialize in working with couples, parents, and other family configurations. Many couples come to me wanting to learn to communicate and understand each other's perspectives, longing to restore a connection they seem to have lost. Parents come looking for assistance to bring structure and harmony to their home, often struggling with neurodiversity factors and behavior challenges. I also see individuals wanting to make sense of their past and resolve the effects of trauma and life challenges.
I offer couples therapy, drawing from the principles of Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) and the Gottman method.
As a Resident in Marriage and Family Therapy, I specialize in working with couples, parents, and other family configurations. Many couples come to me wanting to learn to communicate and understand each other's perspectives, longing to restore a connection they seem to have lost. Parents come looking for assistance to bring structure and harmony to their home, often struggling with neurodiversity factors and behavior challenges. I also see individuals wanting to make sense of their past and resolve the effects of trauma and life challenges.
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Stacey Cali
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
Vienna, VA 22180
I utilize interventions informed by Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Motivational Interviewing, the Gottman Method, and others.
Therapy can be a powerful tool that works to combat the many hardships life may bring. My goal is to provide unbiased feedback, support, and assistance through reflection and change process. You will find my sessions are filled with empowerment, compassion, goal setting, and a metaphorical shovel to dig deep to find the root of your difficulties.
I utilize interventions informed by Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Motivational Interviewing, the Gottman Method, and others.
Therapy can be a powerful tool that works to combat the many hardships life may bring. My goal is to provide unbiased feedback, support, and assistance through reflection and change process. You will find my sessions are filled with empowerment, compassion, goal setting, and a metaphorical shovel to dig deep to find the root of your difficulties.
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Dr. Sarah Arango
Psychologist, PhD, PSYPACT
Verified Verified
Falls Church, VA 22046
With couples, I use the skills-based Gottman Method of Couples Therapy.
Therapy can be a helpful way to gain insights, explore, and challenge yourself in a space that is free of judgment. I aim to provide a space where you can feel connected and supported, and where you can develop skills that will help you navigate challenges, thrive, and create meaningful change. I value learning about each client’s background and lived experience, and use a warm, active, and collaborative approach in therapy. If you are seeking couples therapy, our sessions can help you build concrete skills to improve communication, while also having the space to process the past and work towards the future.
With couples, I use the skills-based Gottman Method of Couples Therapy.
Therapy can be a helpful way to gain insights, explore, and challenge yourself in a space that is free of judgment. I aim to provide a space where you can feel connected and supported, and where you can develop skills that will help you navigate challenges, thrive, and create meaningful change. I value learning about each client’s background and lived experience, and use a warm, active, and collaborative approach in therapy. If you are seeking couples therapy, our sessions can help you build concrete skills to improve communication, while also having the space to process the past and work towards the future.
(571) 462-2018 View (571) 462-2018

Gottman Method Therapists

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.