Sex Therapists in Andover, NY
Ashlee Rudolph
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Andover, NY 14806 (Online Only)
Not accepting new clients
Hi there! My name is Ash. I have been a licensed therapist in New York state for 8 years, but have been in the field in other ways for much longer than that. I am a laid back, down-to-earth therapist and I use a supportive, open, collaborative approach , using various therapeutic techniques, to help people live the lives they want. I provide a safe, non-judgmental, empathetic space for you to work on your issues, while also respectfully holding you accountable to help you break unhelpful patterns.
Hi there! My name is Ash. I have been a licensed therapist in New York state for 8 years, but have been in the field in other ways for much longer than that. I am a laid back, down-to-earth therapist and I use a supportive, open, collaborative approach , using various therapeutic techniques, to help people live the lives they want. I provide a safe, non-judgmental, empathetic space for you to work on your issues, while also respectfully holding you accountable to help you break unhelpful patterns.
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I am a New York Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) and I enjoy working with a variety of people and problems because I believe everyone is unique in their own way and therefore also needs individualized treatment modalities. I utilize interventions including EMDR, CBT, Motivational Interviewing, Mindfulness, Family and Couples Therapy, Play Therapy and others. If you are ready to start creating positive change in your life and need support in doing so, I'd love to be the one to help you reach your goals.
I am a New York Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) and I enjoy working with a variety of people and problems because I believe everyone is unique in their own way and therefore also needs individualized treatment modalities. I utilize interventions including EMDR, CBT, Motivational Interviewing, Mindfulness, Family and Couples Therapy, Play Therapy and others. If you are ready to start creating positive change in your life and need support in doing so, I'd love to be the one to help you reach your goals.
Is life kicking the crap out of you? Are you walking around constantly anticipating the worst-case scenario? Do you feel like you’re just scraping by or living in “survival mode”? Are your relationships suffering because of your mood? Does it feel like a struggle to work, eat, sleep or even function? If any of that resonates with you, counseling can be a proactive step towards resolution. None of us want to simply "get by." I'm here as a well-seasoned guide to help you sort through what is holding you back, break through any pesky old patterns and to get back to living a life that feels a bit more sparkly! Woohoo!
Is life kicking the crap out of you? Are you walking around constantly anticipating the worst-case scenario? Do you feel like you’re just scraping by or living in “survival mode”? Are your relationships suffering because of your mood? Does it feel like a struggle to work, eat, sleep or even function? If any of that resonates with you, counseling can be a proactive step towards resolution. None of us want to simply "get by." I'm here as a well-seasoned guide to help you sort through what is holding you back, break through any pesky old patterns and to get back to living a life that feels a bit more sparkly! Woohoo!
Online Therapists
I am body image and sex positive.
Hi, my name is Melody. I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with over 13 years of experience. I am currently offering telehealth and limited in-person therapy. I provide individual therapy for adults only. I do not currently treat children, adolescents, or couples. Availability: In-Person counseling on limited basis. Telehealth 9am-4pm Monday - Friday. In Person Tuesday & Wednesday 12pm-4pm
I am body image and sex positive.
Hi, my name is Melody. I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with over 13 years of experience. I am currently offering telehealth and limited in-person therapy. I provide individual therapy for adults only. I do not currently treat children, adolescents, or couples. Availability: In-Person counseling on limited basis. Telehealth 9am-4pm Monday - Friday. In Person Tuesday & Wednesday 12pm-4pm
I'm a clinical psychotherapist with a specialization in art therapy! I've been working as a sex therapist in training for over a year, on my way to AASECT certification.
I treat patients with erectile dysfunction, anorgasmia (the inability to orgasm), sexual pain, and other psychophysiologic sexual concerns. I also love working with couples, individuals, and polycules with relational challenges. Sometimes our challenge is not the way we relate to the world, but the way the world relates to us, so clients who are a sexual, demi sexual, sapio sexual, monogamous, or polyamorous are always welcome in my therapeutic space. Your relational (socio sexual) orientation is important! I also have an affinity for working with the BIPOC and LQTBQ+ community, as well as the kinky and neurodiverse.
I'm a clinical psychotherapist with a specialization in art therapy! I've been working as a sex therapist in training for over a year, on my way to AASECT certification.
I treat patients with erectile dysfunction, anorgasmia (the inability to orgasm), sexual pain, and other psychophysiologic sexual concerns. I also love working with couples, individuals, and polycules with relational challenges. Sometimes our challenge is not the way we relate to the world, but the way the world relates to us, so clients who are a sexual, demi sexual, sapio sexual, monogamous, or polyamorous are always welcome in my therapeutic space. Your relational (socio sexual) orientation is important! I also have an affinity for working with the BIPOC and LQTBQ+ community, as well as the kinky and neurodiverse.
I am seeking individual clients who are looking to address sex and sexuality-related concerns. I provide a non-judgmental, sex-positive environment in which my clients and I can seek deeper understanding of their sexuality and barriers to experiencing a sense of sexual wholeness. I also work with clients who struggle with emotion dysregulation, depression, anxiety, trauma, and major life changes. If you are looking to make changes and need support, I can help.
I am seeking individual clients who are looking to address sex and sexuality-related concerns. I provide a non-judgmental, sex-positive environment in which my clients and I can seek deeper understanding of their sexuality and barriers to experiencing a sense of sexual wholeness. I also work with clients who struggle with emotion dysregulation, depression, anxiety, trauma, and major life changes. If you are looking to make changes and need support, I can help.
Hi, I'm Griffin! I specialize in gender and sexuality, including gender transition, kink, and nonmonogamy. I work with adults, couples, and teens ages 14+. I take a non-pathologizing, interdisciplinary approach, blending tools and insights from behavioral economics, creative writing, mindfulness, and positive psychology. I meet my clients with gentle humor, professionalism, and curiosity.
Hi, I'm Griffin! I specialize in gender and sexuality, including gender transition, kink, and nonmonogamy. I work with adults, couples, and teens ages 14+. I take a non-pathologizing, interdisciplinary approach, blending tools and insights from behavioral economics, creative writing, mindfulness, and positive psychology. I meet my clients with gentle humor, professionalism, and curiosity.
I'm also training in sex therapy to enhance this holistic approach.
Hello! I am a therapist passionate about empowering individuals to unlock their inner potential and achieve emotional well-being. My background in traditional talk therapy and holistic art therapy provides a unique and integrated approach to healing. I believe in the inner wisdom of each client, facilitating self-discovery and personal growth. I create a safe space to explore thoughts, emotions, and experiences, recognizing the interconnectedness of mind, body, and spirit. I also work with couples and am pursuing sex therapy certification. Let's uncover your inner knowing and cultivate a life of fulfillment together.
I'm also training in sex therapy to enhance this holistic approach.
Hello! I am a therapist passionate about empowering individuals to unlock their inner potential and achieve emotional well-being. My background in traditional talk therapy and holistic art therapy provides a unique and integrated approach to healing. I believe in the inner wisdom of each client, facilitating self-discovery and personal growth. I create a safe space to explore thoughts, emotions, and experiences, recognizing the interconnectedness of mind, body, and spirit. I also work with couples and am pursuing sex therapy certification. Let's uncover your inner knowing and cultivate a life of fulfillment together.
Jessica Janik McDermott
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Rochester, NY 14618
Waitlist for new clients
Through an approach based on acceptance, mindfulness, and self-compassion, I work alongside you to help you connect to your most authentic sexual self.
You have a complicated relationship with sex. There are many reasons for this, and you recognize the need to explore exactly how it all connects. You want to feel more confident as a sexual being, overcome anxiety around sex, and feel a deeper connection to yourself and your partner(s).
Through an approach based on acceptance, mindfulness, and self-compassion, I work alongside you to help you connect to your most authentic sexual self.
You have a complicated relationship with sex. There are many reasons for this, and you recognize the need to explore exactly how it all connects. You want to feel more confident as a sexual being, overcome anxiety around sex, and feel a deeper connection to yourself and your partner(s).
I have helped dozens of women in your place hop off the sexual anxiety hamster wheel and I can help you too.
If you are a woman who is the lower libido partner in your intimate relationship, you're likely stuck on the sexual anxiety hamster wheel. If you’re stuck here, then sex means stress. At least once or twice a week, you feel dread about when the next time might be that your partner will want to have sex because you are rarely in the mood for it. You avoid cuddling, hugging, and kissing your partner out of fear that if you do, they will think you are in the mood. You pull away when your partner tries to hug or kiss you and you look busy or say you are busy to avoid their affection turning into a request for sex. Sounds familiar?
I have helped dozens of women in your place hop off the sexual anxiety hamster wheel and I can help you too.
If you are a woman who is the lower libido partner in your intimate relationship, you're likely stuck on the sexual anxiety hamster wheel. If you’re stuck here, then sex means stress. At least once or twice a week, you feel dread about when the next time might be that your partner will want to have sex because you are rarely in the mood for it. You avoid cuddling, hugging, and kissing your partner out of fear that if you do, they will think you are in the mood. You pull away when your partner tries to hug or kiss you and you look busy or say you are busy to avoid their affection turning into a request for sex. Sounds familiar?
As I work toward becoming a certified sex therapist, my focus remains on your unique experiences and goals.
Are you seeking a safe space to explore your sexuality or navigate the complexities of intimacy? Whether you're a couple looking to strengthen your relationship, an individual facing challenges with sexual functioning, or someone wanting to better understand your desires, I’m here to support you. In our sessions, you’ll find a compassionate environment where we can address not only your sexual health but also the broader emotional landscape that often accompanies these struggles.
As I work toward becoming a certified sex therapist, my focus remains on your unique experiences and goals.
Are you seeking a safe space to explore your sexuality or navigate the complexities of intimacy? Whether you're a couple looking to strengthen your relationship, an individual facing challenges with sexual functioning, or someone wanting to better understand your desires, I’m here to support you. In our sessions, you’ll find a compassionate environment where we can address not only your sexual health but also the broader emotional landscape that often accompanies these struggles.
Couple & Relationship Therapy: An MFT Practice
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, SEP
Verified Verified
Buffalo, NY 14203
Some specialties are: Affairs (Emotional/Physical); Anger Management, Anxiety; Child/Adolescent Anxiety & School Pressures; Eating Disorders; Sex Addiction; Sex Dysfunctions; Sexual Identity; Trauma.
Making the decision to come to therapy is a difficult & courageous one. We understand this & make every effort to create safety while challenging our clients to create the life they want. We specializing in treating couples who are struggling with communication challenges, sexual concerns, sexual dysfunction, parenting, recovering from affairs (emotional & physical). We have therapists who specialize in kink, nonmonogamy, sexual addiction, eating disorders, and healing from trauma/grief. We know how chaotic people's lives are, so we have availabity seven days a week & have evening hours. We look forward to helping you.
Some specialties are: Affairs (Emotional/Physical); Anger Management, Anxiety; Child/Adolescent Anxiety & School Pressures; Eating Disorders; Sex Addiction; Sex Dysfunctions; Sexual Identity; Trauma.
Making the decision to come to therapy is a difficult & courageous one. We understand this & make every effort to create safety while challenging our clients to create the life they want. We specializing in treating couples who are struggling with communication challenges, sexual concerns, sexual dysfunction, parenting, recovering from affairs (emotional & physical). We have therapists who specialize in kink, nonmonogamy, sexual addiction, eating disorders, and healing from trauma/grief. We know how chaotic people's lives are, so we have availabity seven days a week & have evening hours. We look forward to helping you.
If you're ready to get un-stuck and create a sex life that really works for both of you, I encourage you to reach out to me.
Feeling stuck in your sex life? Feel disconnected from your partner? Feeling shut down and turned off? You are not alone and sex counseling can help. Hi, I’m Lori and I specialize in helping individuals and couples like you to find their way to more passionate and connected sex lives. Sex and relationships don’t come with instruction manuals, and even the best of partners can struggle to keep their sex lives passionate and intimate over the long haul. As a certified sex counselor, I know that everyone can use a little help sometimes to build the passionate, intimate sex lives that work for them.
If you're ready to get un-stuck and create a sex life that really works for both of you, I encourage you to reach out to me.
Feeling stuck in your sex life? Feel disconnected from your partner? Feeling shut down and turned off? You are not alone and sex counseling can help. Hi, I’m Lori and I specialize in helping individuals and couples like you to find their way to more passionate and connected sex lives. Sex and relationships don’t come with instruction manuals, and even the best of partners can struggle to keep their sex lives passionate and intimate over the long haul. As a certified sex counselor, I know that everyone can use a little help sometimes to build the passionate, intimate sex lives that work for them.
As individuals and couples, teens to elders, I support you through life transitions, addressing resultant stress/anxiety/depression regarding relationships, academia, parenting, sexuality, retirement, self.
I'd like to support you to discover your strengths, resiliency and feel empowered in your life, schooling and relationships. Together, in a warm, safe, collaborative environment, we create a positive path towards your well-being to deal with anxiety, depression, procrastination and stress. Utilizing your inherent strengths and coping strategies with new successful skills and approaches, we will uncover negative thought patterns or behaviors, stuck places, and create new pathways. Reconnecting with your healthy self, we will navigate through present transitions, pain or loss to transform your connection with yourself and others.
As individuals and couples, teens to elders, I support you through life transitions, addressing resultant stress/anxiety/depression regarding relationships, academia, parenting, sexuality, retirement, self.
I'd like to support you to discover your strengths, resiliency and feel empowered in your life, schooling and relationships. Together, in a warm, safe, collaborative environment, we create a positive path towards your well-being to deal with anxiety, depression, procrastination and stress. Utilizing your inherent strengths and coping strategies with new successful skills and approaches, we will uncover negative thought patterns or behaviors, stuck places, and create new pathways. Reconnecting with your healthy self, we will navigate through present transitions, pain or loss to transform your connection with yourself and others.
Jennifer Wolfe
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
11 Endorsed
Ithaca, NY 14850 (Online Only)
I hold a certificate in Sex Therapy from the University of Michigan's School of Social Work, and am a Certified Sex Therapist through AASECT.
My practice focuses on individuals and couples, ranging in age from 18 to elderly. I strive to create a safe environment in which to explore life stressors, patterns of relating with others, and how past experiences impact the present. Areas of professional practice include anxiety/depression, chronic illness including HIV, grief/loss, relationships, sexual issues, separation/divorce, LGBTQ, family planning, career transition, and finances. I have extensive experience with addictions, and work collaboratively with clients, whether the goal is safer substance use, reducing use, or abstinence.
I hold a certificate in Sex Therapy from the University of Michigan's School of Social Work, and am a Certified Sex Therapist through AASECT.
My practice focuses on individuals and couples, ranging in age from 18 to elderly. I strive to create a safe environment in which to explore life stressors, patterns of relating with others, and how past experiences impact the present. Areas of professional practice include anxiety/depression, chronic illness including HIV, grief/loss, relationships, sexual issues, separation/divorce, LGBTQ, family planning, career transition, and finances. I have extensive experience with addictions, and work collaboratively with clients, whether the goal is safer substance use, reducing use, or abstinence.
Khristopher Decker
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, MSW, CISD
Verified Verified
Buffalo, NY 14202
Some areas of specialty include work with people from the LGBTQ+ community, self-esteem issues, depression/anxiety management, addiction/substance use issues, trauma recovery, gender affirming care/medical procedure evaluations, sex/ sexuality related concerns, workplace stress, and couples counseling.
I think you are amazing for taking the next step to create the life you want. If you have been having a challenging time with a new situation or want to change something that you have been experiencing for a while now, counseling can help. The need to work on accepting and affirming ourselves for who we are, managing symptoms of depression, anxiety, and traumatic experiences, family & relationship difficulties, improving our self-esteem, navigating today's stressful world, and managing work/career issues are part of many people's experience at one time or another. I believe we all have the ability to improve our health and lives.
Some areas of specialty include work with people from the LGBTQ+ community, self-esteem issues, depression/anxiety management, addiction/substance use issues, trauma recovery, gender affirming care/medical procedure evaluations, sex/ sexuality related concerns, workplace stress, and couples counseling.
I think you are amazing for taking the next step to create the life you want. If you have been having a challenging time with a new situation or want to change something that you have been experiencing for a while now, counseling can help. The need to work on accepting and affirming ourselves for who we are, managing symptoms of depression, anxiety, and traumatic experiences, family & relationship difficulties, improving our self-esteem, navigating today's stressful world, and managing work/career issues are part of many people's experience at one time or another. I believe we all have the ability to improve our health and lives.
I am currently working towards certification as a Sex Therapist (CST).
I support individuals and all consensual relationships, who are struggling with anxiety, depression, the impact of trauma, and any relational concerns to create a meaningful way of being. Those who have survived trauma can expect a gentle environment to heal and be seen. I hope to work with you to question the expectations placed on you by society in order to enhance your lived experience. I believe deeply that I am guiding, witnessing, and holding space for you to grow. I am an ally to the LGBTQIA+ community and am Kink, BDSM, and Poly aware. All your expressions and relationship structures are welcome.
I am currently working towards certification as a Sex Therapist (CST).
I support individuals and all consensual relationships, who are struggling with anxiety, depression, the impact of trauma, and any relational concerns to create a meaningful way of being. Those who have survived trauma can expect a gentle environment to heal and be seen. I hope to work with you to question the expectations placed on you by society in order to enhance your lived experience. I believe deeply that I am guiding, witnessing, and holding space for you to grow. I am an ally to the LGBTQIA+ community and am Kink, BDSM, and Poly aware. All your expressions and relationship structures are welcome.
Katherine Potvin
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Rochester, NY 14619
One of my favorite things a patient has said to me is “Thank you for being part of my journey”. That’s what life is to me – a journey we are all on together. What I want for everyone is that they can overcome any barriers they may have so they can tune into their whole selves and live life to its fullest. I use a mixed relational approach pulling from person-centered therapy, existential therapy, DBT and more. I am committed to providing you a safe, sex positive, non-judgmental space for trust and growth to happen. I work with people from all walks of life on issues like anxiety, ADHD, family history, and relationships, etc.
One of my favorite things a patient has said to me is “Thank you for being part of my journey”. That’s what life is to me – a journey we are all on together. What I want for everyone is that they can overcome any barriers they may have so they can tune into their whole selves and live life to its fullest. I use a mixed relational approach pulling from person-centered therapy, existential therapy, DBT and more. I am committed to providing you a safe, sex positive, non-judgmental space for trust and growth to happen. I work with people from all walks of life on issues like anxiety, ADHD, family history, and relationships, etc.
Adjustments to daily life --ongoing conflicts, work-related stress, sexuality, loss and a host of other issues can sometimes create difficulty.
I love this work, because people's lives are so interesting! When people run into a snag, I can help. Working with individuals, couples, & families, I look at both the immediate concerns, as well as the 'big picture' of where it fits into their lives.
Session one is a consultation opportunity to meet and learn a bit about each other. Do you feel comfortable with me as you tell me what's brought you here? As I listen, I think about how I can help. If it's a good match, we can make a plan for treatment.
Adjustments to daily life --ongoing conflicts, work-related stress, sexuality, loss and a host of other issues can sometimes create difficulty.
I love this work, because people's lives are so interesting! When people run into a snag, I can help. Working with individuals, couples, & families, I look at both the immediate concerns, as well as the 'big picture' of where it fits into their lives.
Session one is a consultation opportunity to meet and learn a bit about each other. Do you feel comfortable with me as you tell me what's brought you here? As I listen, I think about how I can help. If it's a good match, we can make a plan for treatment.
I hold a Doctorate in Nursing Practice, dual licensing as an Adult Health and Women's Health Nurse Practitioner, and ASSECT Certification as a Sexuality Counselor and Certified Health and Wellness Coach.
As a Nurse Practitioner, sex therapist and intimacy counselor, I believe love and connection are central to human happiness. Through discreet virtual sessions, I help individuals and couples overcome obstacles to intimacy – opening the door to deeper connections, with increased love and affection. Difficulties with intimacy can arise at different points across the lifespan. Childbirth, stress of work/life balance, menopause, cancer treatments, and aging can all create or intensify barriers to sexual fulfillment.
I hold a Doctorate in Nursing Practice, dual licensing as an Adult Health and Women's Health Nurse Practitioner, and ASSECT Certification as a Sexuality Counselor and Certified Health and Wellness Coach.
As a Nurse Practitioner, sex therapist and intimacy counselor, I believe love and connection are central to human happiness. Through discreet virtual sessions, I help individuals and couples overcome obstacles to intimacy – opening the door to deeper connections, with increased love and affection. Difficulties with intimacy can arise at different points across the lifespan. Childbirth, stress of work/life balance, menopause, cancer treatments, and aging can all create or intensify barriers to sexual fulfillment.
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Who is sex therapy for?
Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.
Why do people need sex therapy?
Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.
What happens in sex therapy?
People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.
What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?
Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.