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Dr. Anthony Vajda
Pre-Licensed Professional, PhD, MA, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Salunga, PA 17538
In counseling, you will work toward your goals through a safe, affirming, and empowering relationship.
Are you going through a rough patch? Seeking to understand how you got to where you are in life? Experiencing overwhelming transitions? Life can get messy and change can be overwhelming! Yet, I also believe that the process can be rewarding and contribute to our psychological growth. Through counseling, you will experience this growth, you will discover your strengths, build self-awareness, and develop helpful coping strategies. I provide counseling to adults who present with a range of mental health concerns related to anxiety, depression, life transitions, stress, trauma, sexuality, low self-esteem, culture and identity.
In counseling, you will work toward your goals through a safe, affirming, and empowering relationship.
Are you going through a rough patch? Seeking to understand how you got to where you are in life? Experiencing overwhelming transitions? Life can get messy and change can be overwhelming! Yet, I also believe that the process can be rewarding and contribute to our psychological growth. Through counseling, you will experience this growth, you will discover your strengths, build self-awareness, and develop helpful coping strategies. I provide counseling to adults who present with a range of mental health concerns related to anxiety, depression, life transitions, stress, trauma, sexuality, low self-esteem, culture and identity.
(717) 912-9345 View (717) 912-9345

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Dr. Dawnielle D. Simmons
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD
Verified Verified
Lancaster, PA 17603  (Online Only)
This includes areas such as: race/ethnicity, sexual orientation, and gender identity development; socio-political reformative justice; ADHD concerns, relationship issues; anxiety and depression.
The human experience is complex and layered. It is often taken for granted and underestimated. In our profession, it is a privilege to have access to such complexities; a privilege to witness the moment when despair transforms into hope and futility no longer exists. Humans are vast and exploration is limitless. As a psychologist, I would be remiss by engaging my work without intentionality, humility, and culturally appropriate care. As someone with marginalized identities, I find value in reflecting in the moment with clients. I use a multicultural counseling model to address the unique needs of clients of color and LGBTQ+ folks.
This includes areas such as: race/ethnicity, sexual orientation, and gender identity development; socio-political reformative justice; ADHD concerns, relationship issues; anxiety and depression.
The human experience is complex and layered. It is often taken for granted and underestimated. In our profession, it is a privilege to have access to such complexities; a privilege to witness the moment when despair transforms into hope and futility no longer exists. Humans are vast and exploration is limitless. As a psychologist, I would be remiss by engaging my work without intentionality, humility, and culturally appropriate care. As someone with marginalized identities, I find value in reflecting in the moment with clients. I use a multicultural counseling model to address the unique needs of clients of color and LGBTQ+ folks.
(717) 229-0124 View (717) 229-0124
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Diane L Welsh
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC
Verified Verified
Lancaster, PA 17602
Areas of interest and expertise include working with individuals whose concerns are related to depression, anxiety, loss/grief, life transitions, and relationship difficulties.
When a person walks into my office, the orientation I bring to every session is that each individual is an expert on themselves. With that framework and in combination with my professional experience, together we work on overcoming obstacles and reaching personal goals. I provide individual and couples therapy for adults and adolescents. I am a professional with a strong sense of boundaries and respect for confidentiality. I listen without judgment and seek your best interest.
Areas of interest and expertise include working with individuals whose concerns are related to depression, anxiety, loss/grief, life transitions, and relationship difficulties.
When a person walks into my office, the orientation I bring to every session is that each individual is an expert on themselves. With that framework and in combination with my professional experience, together we work on overcoming obstacles and reaching personal goals. I provide individual and couples therapy for adults and adolescents. I am a professional with a strong sense of boundaries and respect for confidentiality. I listen without judgment and seek your best interest.
(717) 205-2401 View (717) 205-2401
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Latinia M. Shell
Licensed Professional Counselor, EdD, LPC, NCC, CCMHC, ACS
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Lancaster, PA 17603
I provide individual therapy for adolescents, teens, adults, as well as couples, families, and group counseling. Through a highly personalized approach tailored to each client's individual needs, I assist clients in identifying limiting beliefs and outmoded coping mechanisms that may be standing in the way. I work with a wide range of emotional and behavioral issues. Services provided span from therapy for depression and anxiety to relationship and family counseling, stress management, anger management and beyond. In a comfortable and supportive atmosphere, I hope to help clients attain the personal growth they're striving for.
I provide individual therapy for adolescents, teens, adults, as well as couples, families, and group counseling. Through a highly personalized approach tailored to each client's individual needs, I assist clients in identifying limiting beliefs and outmoded coping mechanisms that may be standing in the way. I work with a wide range of emotional and behavioral issues. Services provided span from therapy for depression and anxiety to relationship and family counseling, stress management, anger management and beyond. In a comfortable and supportive atmosphere, I hope to help clients attain the personal growth they're striving for.
(717) 801-1159 View (717) 801-1159
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Kristen March
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Lancaster, PA 17601  (Online Only)
My interests include communication, boundaries, stress, anxiety, depression, anger, child and parental issues, relationship issues, and personal fulfillment.
Do you often feel weighed down by feelings of anxiety, stress, or depression? Do you find it difficult to manage your relationships with your significant other or family members? Together, we will work on finding strategies and coping skills to help you manage your day-to-day life. I am a board certified Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and earned my Master’s degree from La Salle University in Philadelphia. I have provided therapeutic services to children, teens, adults, families, and couples.
My interests include communication, boundaries, stress, anxiety, depression, anger, child and parental issues, relationship issues, and personal fulfillment.
Do you often feel weighed down by feelings of anxiety, stress, or depression? Do you find it difficult to manage your relationships with your significant other or family members? Together, we will work on finding strategies and coping skills to help you manage your day-to-day life. I am a board certified Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and earned my Master’s degree from La Salle University in Philadelphia. I have provided therapeutic services to children, teens, adults, families, and couples.
(717) 423-1593 View (717) 423-1593
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Eric DiIlio
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
Lancaster, PA 17601  (Online Only)
I provide Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) for adults (18+) as well as Ecotherapy approaches and concepts. Accessing therapeutic effects from nature is of great help to attain balance, effective coping, rejuvenation, and personal insight. Ecotherapy can be a key add-on to the immense healing that CBT can provide. Online telehealth sessions focus on what you want to ADDRESS and remedy (e.g. anxiety, depression, trauma/PTSD, stress, relationship troubles, parenting, self-esteem, addiction, panic/phobia, aging, and more). as well as how to COPE with challenges, uncertainty and distress.
I provide Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) for adults (18+) as well as Ecotherapy approaches and concepts. Accessing therapeutic effects from nature is of great help to attain balance, effective coping, rejuvenation, and personal insight. Ecotherapy can be a key add-on to the immense healing that CBT can provide. Online telehealth sessions focus on what you want to ADDRESS and remedy (e.g. anxiety, depression, trauma/PTSD, stress, relationship troubles, parenting, self-esteem, addiction, panic/phobia, aging, and more). as well as how to COPE with challenges, uncertainty and distress.
(503) 831-9288 View (503) 831-9288
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Stephen Michael Schuch
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, BCD
Verified Verified
Columbia, PA 17512
With over 30 years of clinical practice, extensive continuing education, and an emphasis on what works rather than on what’s wrong, I tailor my approach to the specific needs of each individual, couple, family, and group for whom I provide service. Using proven methods, I am able to offer, among others, supportive, interactional, brief problem-solving, cognitive-behavioral, including trauma focused cognitive-behavioral, and relational psychotherapies. Common themes among my clients are concerns related to relationship difficulties, bereavement, mood disorders including depression, anxiety, childhood behavioral problems, eating disorders, compulsive and additive behaviors, and difficulties related to specific life circumstances.
With over 30 years of clinical practice, extensive continuing education, and an emphasis on what works rather than on what’s wrong, I tailor my approach to the specific needs of each individual, couple, family, and group for whom I provide service. Using proven methods, I am able to offer, among others, supportive, interactional, brief problem-solving, cognitive-behavioral, including trauma focused cognitive-behavioral, and relational psychotherapies. Common themes among my clients are concerns related to relationship difficulties, bereavement, mood disorders including depression, anxiety, childhood behavioral problems, eating disorders, compulsive and additive behaviors, and difficulties related to specific life circumstances.
(717) 229-7295 View (717) 229-7295
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Beth Jones Now Offering Group Therapy For Women
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lancaster, PA 17603
Are you struggling with anxiety, depression or stress? Parenting difficulties or relationship issues? Allow me to help! With over 30 years' experience working with individuals with mental health diagnoses, I recognize the importance of trauma informed care practices. I work to create a safe space to process past experiences, that continue to make achieving personal goals difficult. Identifying and building upon strengths that an individual already has is paramount in my approach, and together we focus on fostering mindfulness techniques in developing coping strategies to address depression, anxiety and day to day challenges.
Are you struggling with anxiety, depression or stress? Parenting difficulties or relationship issues? Allow me to help! With over 30 years' experience working with individuals with mental health diagnoses, I recognize the importance of trauma informed care practices. I work to create a safe space to process past experiences, that continue to make achieving personal goals difficult. Identifying and building upon strengths that an individual already has is paramount in my approach, and together we focus on fostering mindfulness techniques in developing coping strategies to address depression, anxiety and day to day challenges.
(717) 987-7965 View (717) 987-7965
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Julia Veser
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Landisville, PA 17538  (Online Only)
Unfortunately, I currently am NOT accepting new clients. I specialize in attachment based relationship challenges and complex trauma. In addition to those specialities, I support clients who are challenged with depression, anxiety, general stress, and the emotional aspects of weight loss and challenges associated with weight loss. I encourage those I work with to think about all areas of wellness including: social, emotional, mental, & physical well-being. I believe it is necessary first to heal from harm done in the past and have an open mind for the future.
Unfortunately, I currently am NOT accepting new clients. I specialize in attachment based relationship challenges and complex trauma. In addition to those specialities, I support clients who are challenged with depression, anxiety, general stress, and the emotional aspects of weight loss and challenges associated with weight loss. I encourage those I work with to think about all areas of wellness including: social, emotional, mental, & physical well-being. I believe it is necessary first to heal from harm done in the past and have an open mind for the future.
(610) 897-7855 View (610) 897-7855
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Nicholas Pappas
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Lancaster, PA 17601
Unconditional positive regard for all people(s), non-judgemental, and respectful therapeutic relationship and environment provided.
Each client's psychological and spiritual needs are a focus addressing relational issues, behavioral issues, and mood-driven difficulties with consideration of individually-specified treatment goals. Overarching treatment outcome is healing and restoration and rehabilitation for clients to become healthy, happy and productive individuals.
Unconditional positive regard for all people(s), non-judgemental, and respectful therapeutic relationship and environment provided.
Each client's psychological and spiritual needs are a focus addressing relational issues, behavioral issues, and mood-driven difficulties with consideration of individually-specified treatment goals. Overarching treatment outcome is healing and restoration and rehabilitation for clients to become healthy, happy and productive individuals.
(717) 470-8697 View (717) 470-8697
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Focused Serenity Counseling Services
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Lancaster, PA 17603  (Online Only)
Inner and relationship peace, everyone hopes to be heard, cared for, and have purpose to their day and life. Sometimes we lose these things along the way and we don't know how to get them, maybe we never had them. We can feel lonely even when we're in a relationship, or unsure of what to do and ultimately do nothing instead, constantly battling regret, guilt, shame, sadness, and anger. You may be one of those folks to has felt that way, who has wanted to make something different happen in their life but couldn't figure out how to make that happen.
Inner and relationship peace, everyone hopes to be heard, cared for, and have purpose to their day and life. Sometimes we lose these things along the way and we don't know how to get them, maybe we never had them. We can feel lonely even when we're in a relationship, or unsure of what to do and ultimately do nothing instead, constantly battling regret, guilt, shame, sadness, and anger. You may be one of those folks to has felt that way, who has wanted to make something different happen in their life but couldn't figure out how to make that happen.
(717) 928-8256 View (717) 928-8256
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Move Forward Counseling, LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LCSW, LSW, PhD, PsyD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lancaster, PA 17601
Our licensed clinicians offer therapy for a wide variety of mental health issues, including pregnancy and postpartum, trauma, relationship issues, dual diagnosis, anxiety, depression, emotional eating, parenting issues, and infertility.
Our locations in Lancaster, Hershey, Lehigh Valley (Emmaus), Lancaster Downtown, Lebanon, York, and Pittsburgh, offer in-person mental health therapy to people aged six+. Online therapy is available across PA. Seek our care if you are struggling with relationship issues, feeling anxiety or depression, identity/culture, trauma, or are unsure how to navigate grief, maternal struggles, LGBT+, or life transitions. Our clients often state they "feel stuck" as the reason they are starting therapy. Participating in therapy can help identify solutions and a way to move forward.
Our licensed clinicians offer therapy for a wide variety of mental health issues, including pregnancy and postpartum, trauma, relationship issues, dual diagnosis, anxiety, depression, emotional eating, parenting issues, and infertility.
Our locations in Lancaster, Hershey, Lehigh Valley (Emmaus), Lancaster Downtown, Lebanon, York, and Pittsburgh, offer in-person mental health therapy to people aged six+. Online therapy is available across PA. Seek our care if you are struggling with relationship issues, feeling anxiety or depression, identity/culture, trauma, or are unsure how to navigate grief, maternal struggles, LGBT+, or life transitions. Our clients often state they "feel stuck" as the reason they are starting therapy. Participating in therapy can help identify solutions and a way to move forward.
(717) 696-0029 x1 View (717) 696-0029 x1
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Steve Denlinger
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Lancaster, PA 17601
For the past 20 years, I have applied a strengths-based, skill building perspective to assist clients in achieving their personal and professional goals. Clients have included youth and adults experiencing anxiety and depression, the impact and outcomes of trauma and relationship issues.
For the past 20 years, I have applied a strengths-based, skill building perspective to assist clients in achieving their personal and professional goals. Clients have included youth and adults experiencing anxiety and depression, the impact and outcomes of trauma and relationship issues.
(717) 373-2909 View (717) 373-2909
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Nikole (Nikki) Klatka
Pre-Licensed Professional, MS, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lancaster, PA 17601
I am passionate about working with teens, young adults, and adults who are experiencing symptoms of anxiety disorders, working through grief and loss, encountering life transitions, adapting to college, and experiencing relationship difficulties.
Picture it: you walk into the therapy office or sit in your favorite comfy chair to start your Telehealth session. You're identifing your triggers, building coping skills, and decreasing thought patterns that cause you to feel overwhelmed, less-than, and stuck. You're building healthy communication skills, creating and enforcing boundaries, and building trusting, secure attachments. You're overcoming life's challenges with greater ease and feeling more confident. You're learning to be your most authentic self. All of these things can be possible through therapy and I'd love to support you through the process.
I am passionate about working with teens, young adults, and adults who are experiencing symptoms of anxiety disorders, working through grief and loss, encountering life transitions, adapting to college, and experiencing relationship difficulties.
Picture it: you walk into the therapy office or sit in your favorite comfy chair to start your Telehealth session. You're identifing your triggers, building coping skills, and decreasing thought patterns that cause you to feel overwhelmed, less-than, and stuck. You're building healthy communication skills, creating and enforcing boundaries, and building trusting, secure attachments. You're overcoming life's challenges with greater ease and feeling more confident. You're learning to be your most authentic self. All of these things can be possible through therapy and I'd love to support you through the process.
(717) 276-4982 View (717) 276-4982
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Kirsten Lynne Walker
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Lancaster, PA 17601  (Online Only)
My approach to therapy is to build a trusting relationship where you can start to explore your questions, current pain points, and life story without fear of judgment. My specialty is working with individuals navigating significant changes in their life - loss, identity formation, exploring sexuality, navigating divorce, or becoming a new parent. My approach draws from anti-racist, trauma informed, psychodynamic, systems-focused frameworks.
My approach to therapy is to build a trusting relationship where you can start to explore your questions, current pain points, and life story without fear of judgment. My specialty is working with individuals navigating significant changes in their life - loss, identity formation, exploring sexuality, navigating divorce, or becoming a new parent. My approach draws from anti-racist, trauma informed, psychodynamic, systems-focused frameworks.
(267) 459-9046 View (267) 459-9046
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Integrate Therapy + Wellness Collective
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LSW, LCSW, EMDR
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Lancaster, PA 17603
We often work with clients that have experienced attachment trauma or relationship betrayals and hurts.
You deserve to feel peace and fulfillment as you navigate life and relationships. We are a group of professionally trained therapists that work with individuals and couples that are healing from trauma, utilizing Gottman and EMDR. We care deeply for our clients. If you are working through difficult relationships, anxiety, depression, PTSD, feeling like a burden, or struggling with codependency, we can help. Our licensed therapists specialize with various ages and populations, including teens, young adults, and adults. You are capable of healing and feeling well! We will partner with you to help you reach your goals.
We often work with clients that have experienced attachment trauma or relationship betrayals and hurts.
You deserve to feel peace and fulfillment as you navigate life and relationships. We are a group of professionally trained therapists that work with individuals and couples that are healing from trauma, utilizing Gottman and EMDR. We care deeply for our clients. If you are working through difficult relationships, anxiety, depression, PTSD, feeling like a burden, or struggling with codependency, we can help. Our licensed therapists specialize with various ages and populations, including teens, young adults, and adults. You are capable of healing and feeling well! We will partner with you to help you reach your goals.
(717) 452-4270 View (717) 452-4270
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Madeline Schaefer
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Verified Verified
Lancaster, PA 17603
We will use the body as a tool for accessing personal awareness, and our therapeutic relationship as an experiment in open, honest communication.
Awareness of ourselves and others opens up the possibility of making new, more conscious choices. As your therapist, I will bring a sense of curiosity and empathy to your experience of the world, so that together we can build the awareness you need to live a more authentic and fulfilling life. The safety and skills we establish in our work can help you develop the confidence and tools you need to step into the person you are meant to be.
We will use the body as a tool for accessing personal awareness, and our therapeutic relationship as an experiment in open, honest communication.
Awareness of ourselves and others opens up the possibility of making new, more conscious choices. As your therapist, I will bring a sense of curiosity and empathy to your experience of the world, so that together we can build the awareness you need to live a more authentic and fulfilling life. The safety and skills we establish in our work can help you develop the confidence and tools you need to step into the person you are meant to be.
(223) 215-5057 View (223) 215-5057
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Lake Therapy LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSS, LCSW, Comm, Inst, AP/IA
Verified Verified
Lititz, PA 17543
WE HAVE HIPPA COMPLIANT VIDEO THERAPY available to all Pennsylvania clients. Are you Feeling anxious or out of control? Panicky? Having difficulties with loved ones? I can help. I believe the most important factor in therapy is not the particular style a therapist uses but the relationship between the client and the therapist. I work hard to provide an emotionally safe place where you will be able to connect with me and feel safe enough to tell me your story, your truths. Then together we will better understand where you are, where you'd like to be, and what you might do next to get there.
WE HAVE HIPPA COMPLIANT VIDEO THERAPY available to all Pennsylvania clients. Are you Feeling anxious or out of control? Panicky? Having difficulties with loved ones? I can help. I believe the most important factor in therapy is not the particular style a therapist uses but the relationship between the client and the therapist. I work hard to provide an emotionally safe place where you will be able to connect with me and feel safe enough to tell me your story, your truths. Then together we will better understand where you are, where you'd like to be, and what you might do next to get there.
(717) 931-6690 View (717) 931-6690
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Kali Thompson, LCSW, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, MSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lancaster, PA 17603
I believe the relationship developed in therapy is a powerful one and strive to create a safe space for everyone who walks through my door, fostering respect for every individual. Whether you're experiencing a personal, emotional, or relational struggle I would like to work with you. Through an insight-oriented holistic collaborative approach, I focus on supporting and empowering clients through their therapeutic process. I have a background in helping clients experiencing concerns related to trauma, life transitions, impacts of shame, depression and anxiety, sexuality, and navigating the coming out and gender affirmation processes.
I believe the relationship developed in therapy is a powerful one and strive to create a safe space for everyone who walks through my door, fostering respect for every individual. Whether you're experiencing a personal, emotional, or relational struggle I would like to work with you. Through an insight-oriented holistic collaborative approach, I focus on supporting and empowering clients through their therapeutic process. I have a background in helping clients experiencing concerns related to trauma, life transitions, impacts of shame, depression and anxiety, sexuality, and navigating the coming out and gender affirmation processes.
(717) 696-6530 View (717) 696-6530
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Kathleen Bonnici
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lancaster, PA 17603
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) who enjoys working with adolescents and adults, and have over 23 years experience working with clients in a diverse counseling setting and with a wide range of concerns including depression, anxiety, PTSD, trauma, anger, grief and loss, divorce, suicidal thoughts, relationship struggles, and self-esteem issues.
Do you often feel weighed down by feelings of anxiety, stress, or depression? Do you find it difficult to manage your relationships with your family members or significant other? Life can be challenging, but change is possible and attainable with support and guidance. Together we will work on strategies that allow you to address the root causes of your difficulties, and use coping skills to help build meaningful relationships and social connections.
I am a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) who enjoys working with adolescents and adults, and have over 23 years experience working with clients in a diverse counseling setting and with a wide range of concerns including depression, anxiety, PTSD, trauma, anger, grief and loss, divorce, suicidal thoughts, relationship struggles, and self-esteem issues.
Do you often feel weighed down by feelings of anxiety, stress, or depression? Do you find it difficult to manage your relationships with your family members or significant other? Life can be challenging, but change is possible and attainable with support and guidance. Together we will work on strategies that allow you to address the root causes of your difficulties, and use coping skills to help build meaningful relationships and social connections.
(717) 527-6061 View (717) 527-6061

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Relationship Issues Therapists
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.