Therapists in Royal Oak, MI

Life certainly isn't easy. Every one of us no matter who we are needs help at one time or another. Whether you are faced with an unexpected tragedy, terrible unforeseen circumstances, trouble coping with the stresses of daily life, struggling with despair of depression, anxiety due to juggling work/life/school/family, trauma, or handling a tumultuous relationship, the truth is, we've all been there. Why? Because we are human. You deserve to be happy and healing is our first step. Ready for change? Let's talk!

I am a licensed psychologist and the clinical director of Sollars and Associates Integrative Counseling and Psychological Services. I have been providing counseling and psychotherapy for over 30 years in the Metro Detroit area and our group practice spans across the state of Michigan. With support, encouragement and expert insight many people begin to feel better after their first session.

Life in general can be very challenging. Struggles with relationships, life stressors, fear, and self-judgment of not being ‘good enough’ can be difficult to navigate and sometimes we feel as if we can barely keep our heads above water. I know this personally as I’ve felt I was drowning at times myself. But there is a way out. Therapy provides a safe, non-judgmental space to explore your thoughts and feelings to better understand and find solutions to life’s challenges. My goal as a therapist is to help you feel safe, supported, and seen. Thus, opening the door for you to deeper self-exploration and growth.

I provide an eclectic approach, primarily utilizing behavioral, humanistic, psycho-spiritual, and inner child modalities – with a specialization in complex trauma, shadow work, generational patterns, and the journey to authenticity. My practice is person-centered, meaning that I’m a guide in your exploration of self – I may be nudging and pointing things out, but you, as the client, are ultimately leading where we go. My goal is to enrich and point out the positive traits that you already possess, and offer acknowledgment into aspects of yourself or your circumstances that you maybe haven’t seen yet.

You are someone who has chosen to work toward recovery and healing after trauma. Bravo. Whatever stressful or traumatic experiences you've gone though, you've chosen recovery and healing. That's why you're here. I would like to personally welcome you. This is a safe space to reimagine a life worth living. Do you desire to have the ability to rest, relax and revitalize? I invite you to imagine a life free of fear. You are worthy of healing. You deserve time and space to share your experiences, to explore feelings and thoughts in a nurturing, nonjudgmental place. It can feel scary to consider trauma therapy; you should feel proud.

You're feeling stuck and alone after the loss. While everyone has gone on with "life as normal," you find yourself secretly grieving and isolating yourself. You're struggling with caring for your basic needs, and every day feels like an uphill battle. At times, the grief is so overwhelming you wonder if you'll ever be able to enjoy life again or have to live forever with a part of you that is missing. You're afraid you'll never experience joy, connection, and hope again. You want to feel vitality for life again, but the idea of moving on causes you to feel guilty.

Seeing a therapist doesn’t mean there is something wrong with you. It means that you may be seeking clarity in some areas in your life, or wanting to work through complex emotions. It may mean you are working through a traumatic experience or challenging negative thinking patterns. Some people come to therapy to learn new ways to cope with difficult situations, or they may be focused on personal growth. Whatever the reason you are considering therapy, I can help you increase your understanding of your thoughts, feelings and behaviors and explore areas in your life that you would like to improve in a compassionate and empathic space.

Are you here because you feel overwhelmed, stuck, and often at odds with yourself? Because – despite feeling desperate to feel something different – you find yourself in the same old patterns? Replaying the same painful memories, worries, and harsh self-talk? Maybe people, even therapists, have commented on how self-aware you are. But that doesn't seem to translate to feeling any better. Maybe you've tried self-care practices, meditation, or yoga and they helped. But you can't shake the feeling that there's more to explore on your healing path. I'm here for folks looking to heed that wild call to look inward.

You question if you are the problem or if you’re at fault for the issues in your life or what happened to you. From the moment you wake, your thoughts are racing, and through much of the day, you’re plagued with flashes of intrusive memories. The constant overwhelm causes you to struggle constantly, and it feels like peace is impossible. A voice in your head tells you to “feel your feelings,” but how do you do that without spiraling? On top of your inner chaos, the people in your life walk all over you without a care. You have been hearing a lot of talk of “setting boundaries,” but worry about pushing people away.

I am incredibly passionate about helping others better understand themselves and get to the root of their issues. I'll provide a safe environment where you can explore your inner world with the intention of developing insight, understanding your needs, and meeting your goals. I specialize in helping adults address their childhood trauma and reduce their trauma reactions. Other issues I am experienced with includes: PTSD, C-PTSD, depression, anxiety, ADHD, attachment trauma, sexual assault + abuse, domestic violence, sex trafficking, grief + loss, relationship difficulties, life-transitions, low self-esteem, + personal growth.

“The therapist must strive to create a new therapy for each client.” - Irvin Yalom (The Gift of Therapy). A strong alliance between client and therapist, through which the therapist attunes to the client's unique set of needs, is an essential catalyst of positive change. The fact that you are here, seeking support, demonstrates your motivation toward growth: another essential element of effective therapy. I aim to help you build upon these strengths to find contentment in your authentic self, nurture more satisfying relationships, and heal from limiting patterns.

Are you feeling stuck in a situation, a relationship or pondering a career change? Are you seeking healthy and meaningful connections however, are uncertain where to begin? As we experience life, we develop strategies to help us get through these difficult times, which are either constructive or destructive and may lead us further away from the best version of ourselves. To fully immerse ourselves in our true potential, we need to feel safe, supported and empowered.

Lotus Professional Counseling is an outpatient private practice that provides psychotherapy & counseling services to Adults (individuals age 18+) . I offer a personalized approach, a variety of counseling methods (including specialized trauma training), with treatment implemented according to each client's individual needs. I currently provide sessions via telehealth and limited spots for in-person appointments at my Royal oak office.

You’ve spent most of your life catering to everyone else’s needs. You’ve been disguising yourself so long to be what other people need, you’re unsure of who you are. You’ve begun to recognize the pattern of not saying “no” and ignoring your needs to gain acceptance from others. Yet this only leaves you feeling overwhelmed and insignificant. You want to have deep, meaningful, and authentic relationships, but the fear of setting boundaries prevents you from doing so–leaving you in a shame spiral. Underneath the shame, you’re deeply afraid of being rejected and alone. You’re done being stuck, and you're ready to stop the cycle.

I believe a trusting relationship between counselor and client is important. I am comfortable working with individuals from diverse cultures and lifestyles and feel being accepting, objective, respectful, and genuine are essential characteristics for working with clients. My goal for the counseling process is to help clients gain personal insight, knowledge and tools that will facilitate continued growth and development after therapy has ended. As your counselor I do not have the answers to your dilemmas, instead I function as a facilitator of the process that will assist you with discovering your own solutions.

I provide Behavioral Mental Health Therapy for Children and Families/ seeking services for Infant Mental Health. I work with Pregnant moms. Dads with depression past/current history of loss or trauma lack of social support seeking therapy for positive coping skills and childcare practices. I provide individual therapy for women and men looking to make life changes for the future. Parents with children seeking counseling services for Intellectual Developmental Delayed. Looking to meeting your full Expectations with all your dreams and aspirations I offer motivational and positive encouragement group and Individual Therapy.

Are you struggling with your sexual orientation and/or gender identity? Do feel isolated within the LGBTQIA community? Are your mental health symptoms (i.e. depression, anxiety, mood instability, insomnia, addiction, low self-esteem, poor body image) holding you back from fulfilling your dreams? Is trauma/PTSD ruining your life and your relationships? Do you often wonder how to help yourself? You may feel alone, isolated and withdrawn. Your challenges are not insurmountable! There is real help and the biggest step is to ask. There is no shame in asking for help. Be free from addiction, mental health and relationship struggles.

Job loss. A car accident. Dissatisfaction with life. The death of a loved one. Challenges such as these can greatly impact many areas of one's life. Although these challenges may be a process of life, this may cause individuals to feel "stuck," not themselves, or hopeless. Whether you are going through a difficult period or need someone to lend an ear, together we can tackle anxiety, trauma, depression, and life transitions.

Dr. Steven Nakisher offers a practical approach in a supportive, yet challenging atmosphere to help clients gain insight, make lasting changes in life and "get out your own way". With over 25 years of experience, he works particularly well with people who have previously experienced therapy as unhelpful. Dr. Nakisher also works a business consultant to major corporations, improving business through human capital.