Gottman Method Therapists in Somerville, MA

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Rachel Ellingson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
Somerville, MA 02144  (Online Only)
In couples work, I utilize the Gottman Method.
Hi, my name is Rachel, and I’m excited to be providing queer-affirming therapy through Queer Therapy Boston. As a queer and nonbinary neurodivergent fat person, I bring not only clinical experience but also lived experience in these areas. I specialize in working with queer and trans individuals, couples and polycules. I am poly and kink friendly, and have extensive experience working with people who have experienced complex trauma, are exploring their identities, going through life transitions, and just trying to survive under capitalism.
In couples work, I utilize the Gottman Method.
Hi, my name is Rachel, and I’m excited to be providing queer-affirming therapy through Queer Therapy Boston. As a queer and nonbinary neurodivergent fat person, I bring not only clinical experience but also lived experience in these areas. I specialize in working with queer and trans individuals, couples and polycules. I am poly and kink friendly, and have extensive experience working with people who have experienced complex trauma, are exploring their identities, going through life transitions, and just trying to survive under capitalism.
(857) 226-3278 View (857) 226-3278
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Shifali Singh
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Somerville, MA 02143
Are you experiencing attention or memory issues, brain fog, or other cognitive-based difficulties? Are these impacting your relationships, job/career success, or self-esteem? I conduct neuropsychological evaluations through comprehensive testing, after which I provide tailored recommendations based on your own relative strengths and areas of needed improvement. I also regularly see people who are recovering from brain injury (TBI/concussions, head trauma, new-onset neurological diagnoses), who might be struggling with cognitive, emotional, and/or psychological recovery.
Are you experiencing attention or memory issues, brain fog, or other cognitive-based difficulties? Are these impacting your relationships, job/career success, or self-esteem? I conduct neuropsychological evaluations through comprehensive testing, after which I provide tailored recommendations based on your own relative strengths and areas of needed improvement. I also regularly see people who are recovering from brain injury (TBI/concussions, head trauma, new-onset neurological diagnoses), who might be struggling with cognitive, emotional, and/or psychological recovery.
(857) 663-7768 View (857) 663-7768
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Beth Chase
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Somerville, MA 02143
My ideal client is an adult who is facing challenges associated with depression, anxiety, life changes, and life stages. My client seeks to find joy in life and expand tools to meet the day's challenges. Another ideal client would be the neuroatypical person seeking to understand how to navigate a world they struggle to understand. This could include those on the autism spectrum or ADHD. Another ideal client would be seniors seeking to navigate the challenges of aging, including loss of jobs through retirement, changing health, or any other issue.
My ideal client is an adult who is facing challenges associated with depression, anxiety, life changes, and life stages. My client seeks to find joy in life and expand tools to meet the day's challenges. Another ideal client would be the neuroatypical person seeking to understand how to navigate a world they struggle to understand. This could include those on the autism spectrum or ADHD. Another ideal client would be seniors seeking to navigate the challenges of aging, including loss of jobs through retirement, changing health, or any other issue.
(617) 221-7618 View (617) 221-7618
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Henry Anne Velysia
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, LICSW
Verified Verified
Somerville, MA 02143
My ideal client is an individual facing challenges such as life transitions, stress, anxiety, or depression, who seeks guidance and support in navigating their emotions and relationships. They may be grappling with self-esteem or identity issues and are motivated to better understand their needs and feelings. Their goals include building resilience, enhancing mental well-being, fostering healthy connections with others, and finding a sense of purpose and fulfillment in life. They are open to have their believes be challenged, self-help, self-reflection, and are committed to personal growth in order to develop.
My ideal client is an individual facing challenges such as life transitions, stress, anxiety, or depression, who seeks guidance and support in navigating their emotions and relationships. They may be grappling with self-esteem or identity issues and are motivated to better understand their needs and feelings. Their goals include building resilience, enhancing mental well-being, fostering healthy connections with others, and finding a sense of purpose and fulfillment in life. They are open to have their believes be challenged, self-help, self-reflection, and are committed to personal growth in order to develop.
(339) 237-3986 View (339) 237-3986
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Janelle Patrick
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Verified Verified
Somerville, MA 02143
I'm not sure I believe in an Ideal client; I think all clients are Ideal, no matter their life circumstances. Life is like a rollercoaster, and when you're going down, you may need someone to be there and help talk you through it. However, If I had to choose, it would be a client having difficulty with self-esteem, self-worth, and depressive symptoms and needing additional assistance building coping skills but expressing readiness to change.
I'm not sure I believe in an Ideal client; I think all clients are Ideal, no matter their life circumstances. Life is like a rollercoaster, and when you're going down, you may need someone to be there and help talk you through it. However, If I had to choose, it would be a client having difficulty with self-esteem, self-worth, and depressive symptoms and needing additional assistance building coping skills but expressing readiness to change.
(781) 650-3608 View (781) 650-3608
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Amelia Hasbun
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Somerville, MA 02143
I enjoy working with couples, the LGBTQIA+ community, women, people of color, children, families, those of various cultural backgrounds, those with anxiety and depression, and those navigating life stressors or geographic moves. I like working with clients who are ready to work authentically on stated goals.
I enjoy working with couples, the LGBTQIA+ community, women, people of color, children, families, those of various cultural backgrounds, those with anxiety and depression, and those navigating life stressors or geographic moves. I like working with clients who are ready to work authentically on stated goals.
(781) 745-3882 View (781) 745-3882
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Larissa Dias
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Somerville, MA 02143
Larissa enjoys working with clients who are ready and committed to change. Larissa works well with those who struggle with a variety of mental illnesses, such as depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, relationship/family stressors, addiction, and trauma. Larissa enjoys working with clients who are ready to get out of their comfort zones, who are willing to have an open mind, incorporate new techniques, and be challenged.
Larissa enjoys working with clients who are ready and committed to change. Larissa works well with those who struggle with a variety of mental illnesses, such as depression, anxiety, low self-esteem, relationship/family stressors, addiction, and trauma. Larissa enjoys working with clients who are ready to get out of their comfort zones, who are willing to have an open mind, incorporate new techniques, and be challenged.
(781) 512-4469 View (781) 512-4469
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Laurie Sokolsky
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Somerville, MA 02143
It is often difficult to be one's unique human self. How wonderful you have the courage to propel hope for deep and lasting change for your emotional struggles. Adults in individual and couples therapy deserve to experience loving relationships, and freedom from anxiety, depression, trauma, ADD, and one's idiomatic patterns of difficulty. When your strengths come to the fore, problems loosen their hold, creating the possibilities of you consistently being lovingly in charge of your own life. When your inner life is enriched, you increase possibilities for more abundance. Your private education becomes a great overall investment.
It is often difficult to be one's unique human self. How wonderful you have the courage to propel hope for deep and lasting change for your emotional struggles. Adults in individual and couples therapy deserve to experience loving relationships, and freedom from anxiety, depression, trauma, ADD, and one's idiomatic patterns of difficulty. When your strengths come to the fore, problems loosen their hold, creating the possibilities of you consistently being lovingly in charge of your own life. When your inner life is enriched, you increase possibilities for more abundance. Your private education becomes a great overall investment.
(617) 606-7742 View (617) 606-7742
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Dr. Ashley Sweet, Certified Sex Therapist
Counselor, PhD, LMHC, CST
Verified Verified
Somerville, MA 02144  (Online Only)
As a clinical sexologist and Certified Sex Therapist, I help folks explore pleasure and better communicate in intimate relationships. As a relationship counselor, I work with couples and people in ENM relationships to improve their communication and connection. As a feminist therapist, I help clients dig deep to uncover their personal power, untangle anxiety and heal from trauma. I'm pro-choice, queer/bisexual identified, and welcome LGBTQ+ clients. I'm a curious counselor, and I help people dig to the roots of their pain. Fees are $200/session for individuals and $250 for couples (self-pay only, NO insurance).
As a clinical sexologist and Certified Sex Therapist, I help folks explore pleasure and better communicate in intimate relationships. As a relationship counselor, I work with couples and people in ENM relationships to improve their communication and connection. As a feminist therapist, I help clients dig deep to uncover their personal power, untangle anxiety and heal from trauma. I'm pro-choice, queer/bisexual identified, and welcome LGBTQ+ clients. I'm a curious counselor, and I help people dig to the roots of their pain. Fees are $200/session for individuals and $250 for couples (self-pay only, NO insurance).
(617) 539-2895 View (617) 539-2895
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Emily Eldar
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Somerville, MA 02144  (Online Only)
Most of our struggles are relational in nature. As a relationship expert, I will guide you toward healing your relational wounds; to step into the self-actualized, meaningful, joyful life you dream of. We all sustain traumas which shape our beliefs about ourselves, others, and the world. When we understand our protective strategies we can then update our narratives, unburden our traumatized parts, heal attachment wounds, and make room to relate through our highest self. We can learn new skills in communication, somatic regulation, mindfulness, self-awareness, and more fully build the life which best serves our continual growth.
Most of our struggles are relational in nature. As a relationship expert, I will guide you toward healing your relational wounds; to step into the self-actualized, meaningful, joyful life you dream of. We all sustain traumas which shape our beliefs about ourselves, others, and the world. When we understand our protective strategies we can then update our narratives, unburden our traumatized parts, heal attachment wounds, and make room to relate through our highest self. We can learn new skills in communication, somatic regulation, mindfulness, self-awareness, and more fully build the life which best serves our continual growth.
(617) 936-8285 View (617) 936-8285
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Karen S Kantor
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MEd, LICSW
Verified Verified
Somerville, MA 02144
Are you struggling to lead a bigger life? Is self-doubt, anxiety or depression getting in your way? I offer compassionate, non-judgmental treatment for adults struggling with anxiety, depression, self-esteem, substance use and other issues. Using an integrated approach, I help clients create a toolbox of skills to use in times of distress, and provide a warm and supportive environment for self-exploration, growth and transformation.
Are you struggling to lead a bigger life? Is self-doubt, anxiety or depression getting in your way? I offer compassionate, non-judgmental treatment for adults struggling with anxiety, depression, self-esteem, substance use and other issues. Using an integrated approach, I help clients create a toolbox of skills to use in times of distress, and provide a warm and supportive environment for self-exploration, growth and transformation.
(857) 290-4483 View (857) 290-4483
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Zinah S Abukhalil-Quiñonez Licsw
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
7 Endorsed
Somerville, MA 02143
Not accepting new clients
I have the heart for helping people and walking alongside them in their journey to heal, meet their goals and build confidence in themselves. I am a trauma-informed therapist that enjoys working from a holistic and collaborative approach to treatment. Understanding our attachments, lived experiences, and hearts can provide insight into making the desired changes. I will meet you where you are, hoping to build a solid therapeutic alliance. Together, we will process emotions that connect your past to the here & now so you can increase your capacity to improve your life on your terms.
I have the heart for helping people and walking alongside them in their journey to heal, meet their goals and build confidence in themselves. I am a trauma-informed therapist that enjoys working from a holistic and collaborative approach to treatment. Understanding our attachments, lived experiences, and hearts can provide insight into making the desired changes. I will meet you where you are, hoping to build a solid therapeutic alliance. Together, we will process emotions that connect your past to the here & now so you can increase your capacity to improve your life on your terms.
(857) 763-1759 View (857) 763-1759
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Gil Poplinger
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Somerville, MA 02143
Not accepting new clients
Let’s be honest, life can be overwhelming and exhausting. Living with anxiety, depression, guilt, anger, or shame can be draining and leave us feeling hollow. We’re all facing our own challenges and these become harder when we feel stuck, don’t see our worth, or find ourselves constantly in our heads. We’re naturally inclined to focus on our mistakes, limitations, doubts, and insecurities. The odd thing is, most of us experience the same things, but we don’t really talk about it. These feelings can be debilitating, but there are research-based methods that help people find more peace of mind, security, and joy.
Let’s be honest, life can be overwhelming and exhausting. Living with anxiety, depression, guilt, anger, or shame can be draining and leave us feeling hollow. We’re all facing our own challenges and these become harder when we feel stuck, don’t see our worth, or find ourselves constantly in our heads. We’re naturally inclined to focus on our mistakes, limitations, doubts, and insecurities. The odd thing is, most of us experience the same things, but we don’t really talk about it. These feelings can be debilitating, but there are research-based methods that help people find more peace of mind, security, and joy.
(978) 401-4947 View (978) 401-4947
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Becs Waite
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Somerville, MA 02143  (Online Only)
Not accepting new clients
Hello! Welcome! I'm Becs, a non-monogamous, queer and non-binary therapist who specializes in providing therapy to queer, gender expansive, kinky, and polyamorous and non-monogamous couples, dyads and polycules. I also specialize in working with stepparents, parents, and caregivers in non-nuclear family structures. Most couples begin therapy with me because they feel stuck in unhelpful patterns of communicating, they struggle to feel understood or supported in their relationship, and they want to navigate conflict and challenging emotions with greater ease.
Hello! Welcome! I'm Becs, a non-monogamous, queer and non-binary therapist who specializes in providing therapy to queer, gender expansive, kinky, and polyamorous and non-monogamous couples, dyads and polycules. I also specialize in working with stepparents, parents, and caregivers in non-nuclear family structures. Most couples begin therapy with me because they feel stuck in unhelpful patterns of communicating, they struggle to feel understood or supported in their relationship, and they want to navigate conflict and challenging emotions with greater ease.
(617) 663-0664 View (617) 663-0664

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Daniel Quinn
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Verified Verified
Medford, MA 02155
My name is Daniel Quinn, LICSW and I have been a psychotherapist for more than 35 years. I provide both individual and couple's therapy. I use evidence-based methods to work with my clients on achieving their desired goals. In couples therapy, I find the Gottman Method and family-of-origin approaches to be very effective. For issues around sexuality in a relationship, I find the Sensate Focus method to be very helpful. In individual therapy, I use the appropriate method to match the struggles and goals of each client.
My name is Daniel Quinn, LICSW and I have been a psychotherapist for more than 35 years. I provide both individual and couple's therapy. I use evidence-based methods to work with my clients on achieving their desired goals. In couples therapy, I find the Gottman Method and family-of-origin approaches to be very effective. For issues around sexuality in a relationship, I find the Sensate Focus method to be very helpful. In individual therapy, I use the appropriate method to match the struggles and goals of each client.
(508) 938-8964 View (508) 938-8964
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Samantha Krevalin
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Boston, MA 02114  (Online Only)
I have Certified Training in Gottman Method Couples therapy, and expertise in Substance Abuse and Anxiety disorders.
I specialize in working with adults and couples struggling with relationship issues, anxiety, life transitions and substance use. When we are anxious and overwhelmed, it can cause us to feel disconnected from others. Feeling stuck and stressed can trigger self-doubt and poor decision-making, and this chips away at our self-esteem and unravels our relationships. I can help you identify the core issues that are negatively impacting you and your relationships, and deterring you from enjoying your life and achieving your goals.
I have Certified Training in Gottman Method Couples therapy, and expertise in Substance Abuse and Anxiety disorders.
I specialize in working with adults and couples struggling with relationship issues, anxiety, life transitions and substance use. When we are anxious and overwhelmed, it can cause us to feel disconnected from others. Feeling stuck and stressed can trigger self-doubt and poor decision-making, and this chips away at our self-esteem and unravels our relationships. I can help you identify the core issues that are negatively impacting you and your relationships, and deterring you from enjoying your life and achieving your goals.
(646) 907-6128 View (646) 907-6128
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Anna Banks Counseling LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Verified Verified
Cambridge, MA 02138  (Online Only)
For couples counseling, I draw on my training in The Gottman Method as well as a trauma-informed and attachment based perspective.
Have you ever wondered if you could live a fuller, happier life? Whether you are "too far gone" or "too messed up" to ever be okay? I’ve wondered that. In my journey, I've discovered that it's possible to struggle deeply, then rise higher than seems plausible. I've also found healing and wholeness is impossible without support from others. Now I have a passion to provide the care I've experienced to each of my clients. The support you need won't be the same as what I’ve needed. Because your story is not mine. But if you’re looking for someone who has walked a long road to wellness, consider reaching out!
For couples counseling, I draw on my training in The Gottman Method as well as a trauma-informed and attachment based perspective.
Have you ever wondered if you could live a fuller, happier life? Whether you are "too far gone" or "too messed up" to ever be okay? I’ve wondered that. In my journey, I've discovered that it's possible to struggle deeply, then rise higher than seems plausible. I've also found healing and wholeness is impossible without support from others. Now I have a passion to provide the care I've experienced to each of my clients. The support you need won't be the same as what I’ve needed. Because your story is not mine. But if you’re looking for someone who has walked a long road to wellness, consider reaching out!
(617) 546-7500 View (617) 546-7500
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Julia Hanlon
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Cambridge, MA 02138  (Online Only)
Julia completed Level 1 and Level 2 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy and incorporates this approach in her work with couples.
Accepting new clients! Julia specializes in treating eating disorders, trauma, relationship concerns, and anxiety. She works with adults 18+ and couples. Julia is a Health at Every Size (HAES) provider and feels passionate about creating a safe place for people of all backgrounds and identities. Julia’s holistic approach is focused on helping you access your mind-body connection through mindfulness, movement, and self reflection. She has a special interest in treating couples!
Julia completed Level 1 and Level 2 Training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy and incorporates this approach in her work with couples.
Accepting new clients! Julia specializes in treating eating disorders, trauma, relationship concerns, and anxiety. She works with adults 18+ and couples. Julia is a Health at Every Size (HAES) provider and feels passionate about creating a safe place for people of all backgrounds and identities. Julia’s holistic approach is focused on helping you access your mind-body connection through mindfulness, movement, and self reflection. She has a special interest in treating couples!
(339) 293-0054 View (339) 293-0054
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Cara E. Weber
Counselor, LMHC, LPC, MA, MFA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Cambridge, MA 02138  (Online Only)
Depending on your needs, I may integrate MI, CBT, ACT, ERP, SFT, Gottman Method, psychoeducation and mindfulness.
Welcome! Throughout my clinical experience, I have treated a wide range of mental health issues with an emphasis on anxiety and phobias, as well as OCD, perfectionism, and body-focused repetitive behaviors. My background includes addressing adult ADHD/executive functioning difficulties, mood disorders, stress, grief, and relationship impasses. I often work with those whose anxiety or life experiences have led to avoidance as a psychological coping tool. I focus on adults across the lifespan, college students, and couples. I look to collaborate with my clients and seek purposeful, effective approaches to personal challenges.
Depending on your needs, I may integrate MI, CBT, ACT, ERP, SFT, Gottman Method, psychoeducation and mindfulness.
Welcome! Throughout my clinical experience, I have treated a wide range of mental health issues with an emphasis on anxiety and phobias, as well as OCD, perfectionism, and body-focused repetitive behaviors. My background includes addressing adult ADHD/executive functioning difficulties, mood disorders, stress, grief, and relationship impasses. I often work with those whose anxiety or life experiences have led to avoidance as a psychological coping tool. I focus on adults across the lifespan, college students, and couples. I look to collaborate with my clients and seek purposeful, effective approaches to personal challenges.
(508) 938-8617 View (508) 938-8617
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LaShanta Petroski-Ackley
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Boston, MA 02114  (Online Only)
For couples seeking to improve their family and other close relationships suffering from anger management issues, medical concerns, PTSD, career, or money difficulties, I personalize my approach, using a range of methods drawing from cognitive behavioral, internal family systems in the Gottman method, using at several principles for making a marriage work.
Therapy should be tailored to address the specific needs of each client. Having trained in a variety of practices in methods, I’ve worked together with my client, to determine which approach works best for them to address their ADHD, anxiety, depression or relationship challenges. I work with adults and couples of all ages, including college, aged and older adults. I specialize in treating mood and anxiety disorders, major life transitions (e.g career, college), relational/familial concerns in trauma/PTSD. I also have specialized training and working with couples, and individuals struggling with anger management issues.
For couples seeking to improve their family and other close relationships suffering from anger management issues, medical concerns, PTSD, career, or money difficulties, I personalize my approach, using a range of methods drawing from cognitive behavioral, internal family systems in the Gottman method, using at several principles for making a marriage work.
Therapy should be tailored to address the specific needs of each client. Having trained in a variety of practices in methods, I’ve worked together with my client, to determine which approach works best for them to address their ADHD, anxiety, depression or relationship challenges. I work with adults and couples of all ages, including college, aged and older adults. I specialize in treating mood and anxiety disorders, major life transitions (e.g career, college), relational/familial concerns in trauma/PTSD. I also have specialized training and working with couples, and individuals struggling with anger management issues.
(351) 666-5313 View (351) 666-5313
Gottman Method Therapists

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.