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Emily Eldar

Counselor, LMHC (she, they)

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Boston, MA 02116
Let's Connect (617) 936-8285
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Most of our struggles are relational in nature. As a relationship expert, I will guide you toward healing your relational wounds; to step into the self-actualized, meaningful, joyful life you dream of. We all sustain traumas which shape our beliefs about ourselves, others, and the world. When we understand our protective strategies we can then update our narratives, unburden our traumatized parts, heal attachment wounds, and make room to relate through our highest self. We can learn new skills in communication, somatic regulation, mindfulness, self-awareness, and more fully build the life which best serves our continual growth.
I have spent much of my adult life in creative communities aligned in non-monogamy, kink, and queerness. I have made a professional study of relationships, sexuality, alternative lifestyles, trauma, and mindfulness. This knowledge has allowed me unique insights which in turn allow me to better hold compassionate space and provide evidence-based solutions.
My clients embody a wide range of relational, gender, and sexual identities. I celebrate each unique individual and meet them where they are. When we are held in the safety of being fully seen and heard, that is when we can do our best self-work. If what I am offering resonates with your needs, please reach out to begin your transformative journey with me.
Call or Emily Eldar now for a free 15 minute consultation - (617) 936-8285

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Boston, MA 02116

(617) 936-8285

Somerville, MA 02144

My website
Teletherapy for individuals & couples in Massachusetts & Oregon. Please reach out through email to schedule new appointments (Eastern Time).
I specialize in Relationship Issues, Sex Therapy and Non-Monogamy 
$200 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals and couples  
Let's Connect (617) 936-8285
Photo of Emily Eldar, Counselor, LMHC

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

Boston, MA 02116

(617) 936-8285

Somerville, MA 02144

My website
Teletherapy for individuals & couples in Massachusetts & Oregon. Please reach out through email to schedule new appointments (Eastern Time).
I specialize in Relationship Issues, Sex Therapy and Non-Monogamy 
$200 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals and couples  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $200
  • Couple Sessions $200
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible

Payment Methods

Discover, Health Savings Account, Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • Blue Cross
  • Blue Shield
  • BlueCross and BlueShield
  • Health New England (HNE)
  • Optum
  • Out of Network
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I currently only accept out of pocket payment.
Photo of Emily Eldar, Counselor, LMHC
Emily Eldar
Counselor, LMHC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (617) 936-8285
"
I currently only accept out of pocket payment.
Photo of Emily Eldar, Counselor, LMHC
Emily Eldar
Counselor, LMHC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (617) 936-8285

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of Massachusetts / 10903 Emily Eldar
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 11 years
  • Attended Cambridge College, Mental Health Counselor, Graduated 2015
  • Additional Credentials

  • License: Massachusetts LMHC 10903 / 2019
  • License: Oregon Board of Licensed Professional Counselors and Therapists (OBLPCT). C8230 / 2024
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I have specialized training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Imago, Sexuality, Trauma, BDSM and Kink, Polyamorous and Non-Monogamous Relationships, and IFS.
Photo of Emily Eldar, Counselor, LMHC
Emily Eldar
Counselor, LMHC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (617) 936-8285
"
I have specialized training in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Imago, Sexuality, Trauma, BDSM and Kink, Polyamorous and Non-Monogamous Relationships, and IFS.
Photo of Emily Eldar, Counselor, LMHC
Emily Eldar
Counselor, LMHC
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (617) 936-8285

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Relationship Issues
  • Sex Therapy
  • Non-Monogamy

Expertise

  • Anxiety
  • Autism
  • Bisexual
  • Codependency
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Family Conflict
  • Infidelity
  • Lesbian
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Transitions
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Mood Disorders
  • Open Relationships Non-Monogamy
  • Self Esteem
  • Sex-Positive, Kink Allied
  • Sexual Abuse
  • Sexual Addiction
  • Stress
  • Transgender
  • Trauma and PTSD
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Emily Eldar
Counselor, LMHC
Do these issues align with your needs? or (617) 936-8285
Photo of Emily Eldar, Counselor, LMHC
Emily Eldar
Counselor, LMHC
Do these issues align with your needs? or (617) 936-8285

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Single Parent
Transgender Allied

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples

Communities

Bisexual Allied
Gay Allied
Intersex Allied
Lesbian Allied
Non-Binary Allied
Queer Allied
Sex Worker Allied
Single Parent
Transgender Allied

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Attachment-based
  • Cognitive Behavioral (CBT)
  • Dialectical Behavior (DBT)
  • EMDR
  • Existential
  • Family / Marital
  • Gottman Method
  • Imago
  • Internal Family Systems (IFS)
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Narrative
  • Psychodynamic
  • Relational
  • Strength-Based
  • Trauma Focused
Photo of Emily Eldar, Counselor, LMHC
Emily Eldar
Counselor, LMHC
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (617) 936-8285
Photo of Emily Eldar, Counselor, LMHC
Emily Eldar
Counselor, LMHC
Ask about what different forms of therapy will be like. or (617) 936-8285

Location

Primary Location

Boston, MA 02116

(617) 936-8285

Additional Location

Somerville, MA 02144

(617) 936-8285
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Teletherapy for individuals & couples in Massachusetts & Oregon. Please reach out through email to schedule new appointments (Eastern Time).
Photo of Emily Eldar, Counselor, LMHC
Emily Eldar
Counselor, LMHC
Call for a free consultation now - (617) 936-8285
"
Teletherapy for individuals & couples in Massachusetts & Oregon. Please reach out through email to schedule new appointments (Eastern Time).
Photo of Emily Eldar, Counselor, LMHC
Emily Eldar
Counselor, LMHC
Call for a free consultation now - (617) 936-8285