Gottman Method Therapists in 20012

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Sharlita Boyd
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW, LMSW, TFCBT
Verified Verified
Washington, DC 20012  (Online Only)
Now accepting new tele-therapy clients. Sharlita, is passionate about supporting individuals in overcoming childhood traumas, enhancing self-esteem, deepening relationship intimacy, setting meaningful goals, and effectively managing daily stressors.
Now accepting new tele-therapy clients. Sharlita, is passionate about supporting individuals in overcoming childhood traumas, enhancing self-esteem, deepening relationship intimacy, setting meaningful goals, and effectively managing daily stressors.
(240) 384-4980 View (240) 384-4980
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India Simms- Haven Center For Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LCMFT
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Washington, DC 20012  (Online Only)
Is your relationship on the brink of a break-up? We help couples improve their communication patterns, their sex life, or figuring out how to separate amicably. We are LGBTQ+ affirming, sex positive, and kink-friendly. We also help couples navigating interracial / cross-cultural relationships, open relationships (ENM), polyamory, and various other relationship dynamics. If your partner is not ready for therapy, we provide individual therapy to help navigate relationship situations.
Is your relationship on the brink of a break-up? We help couples improve their communication patterns, their sex life, or figuring out how to separate amicably. We are LGBTQ+ affirming, sex positive, and kink-friendly. We also help couples navigating interracial / cross-cultural relationships, open relationships (ENM), polyamory, and various other relationship dynamics. If your partner is not ready for therapy, we provide individual therapy to help navigate relationship situations.
(410) 904-6932 View (410) 904-6932
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Lindsey Foss
Marriage & Family Therapist, LCMFT
Verified Verified
Washington, DC 20012
Not accepting new clients
As we move through life, we all have times when things don't seem to be working. Perhaps you've noticed a way of interacting with your family that you don't like. Maybe you feel overwhelmed by pain--from recent events or events long ago. You might feel lost. Through a personalized and collaborative process, I can help you heal and propel your life and relationships to a better place.
As we move through life, we all have times when things don't seem to be working. Perhaps you've noticed a way of interacting with your family that you don't like. Maybe you feel overwhelmed by pain--from recent events or events long ago. You might feel lost. Through a personalized and collaborative process, I can help you heal and propel your life and relationships to a better place.
(240) 206-1884 View (240) 206-1884
Gottman Method Therapists

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.