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Patrick Whalen Phd
Patrick Whalen Phd
Psychologist, PhD
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Patrick Whalen Phd

Psychologist, PhD

Verified by Psychology Today Verified by Psychology Today
2 Endorsed
Oakland, CA 94605
Let's Connect (510) 470-0758
Transformation in marriage is realistic with the right effort. Most spouses want a better marriage or happier spouse, yet something seemingly immoveable is often in the way. I guide couples to use challenges and conflicts to learn more deeply about one another; establish smarter, healthier boundaries; build trust, support, and responsiveness; and cultivate enduring, shared emotional and physical intimacy. My methods are adaptive, kind, direct, and swift. RLT moves fluidly from holding a space of curiosity, compassionate listening, and validation; to directive teaching, modeling, and coaching stances, depending on a couple's need.
Terry Real, founder of Relational Life Therapy (RLT), teaches extensively on the diverse challenges modern marriages face; the winning and losing strategies spouses use and why; the unique relational challenges many men face because of masculine ideals; and how to address problematic marital patterns efficiently with skillful tenderheartedness.
You are welcome to reach out - happy to chat! I take pride in working myself out of a job. Within 2 sessions I expect both spouses to feel well understood and supported; have a clear understanding of their marital dynamic; know my opinions about which parts of their requests should go first; and for both spouses to feel encouraged by working with me.
Call or Patrick Whalen Phd now for a free 15 minute consultation - (510) 470-0758

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

www.relationalcouplestherapy.com

Oakland, CA 94605

(510) 470-0758
I offer online individual/couples therapy and assessment in CA most weekdays and some evenings and, likely, in person in Oakland April 2024.
I specialize in Marital and Premarital, Infidelity and Trauma and PTSD 
$300 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and families  
Let's Connect (510) 470-0758

My Practice at a Glance

Available online only

www.relationalcouplestherapy.com

Oakland, CA 94605

(510) 470-0758
I offer online individual/couples therapy and assessment in CA most weekdays and some evenings and, likely, in person in Oakland April 2024.
I specialize in Marital and Premarital, Infidelity and Trauma and PTSD 
$300 Per Session, I accept insurance 
I see individuals, couples and families  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $300
  • Couple Sessions $320
  • Sliding scale: apply if you may be eligible
  • Pay by Mastercard, Visa

Insurance

  • I am an "Out of Network" provider
  • PPOs offer more coverage with me than HMOs
  • Out of Network
Check fees and, if listed, ask to verify your insurance coverage. or (510) 470-0758
Patrick Whalen Phd
Psychologist, PhD
Check fees and, if listed, ask to verify your insurance coverage. or (510) 470-0758
Patrick Whalen Phd
Psychologist, PhD

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Licensed by State of California / 25234 Patrick Whalen Phd
  • Membership with Relational Life Therapy patrick-whalen / 2022
  • Attended UC Berkeley and Stanford University
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. or (510) 470-0758
Patrick Whalen Phd
Psychologist, PhD
Feel free to ask about qualifications and training experience. or (510) 470-0758
Patrick Whalen Phd
Psychologist, PhD

Specialties and Expertise

Top Specialties

  • Marital and Premarital
  • Infidelity
  • Trauma and PTSD

Expertise

  • Bisexual
  • Cancer
  • Codependency
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Dissociative Disorders (DID)
  • Divorce
  • Family Conflict
  • Grief
  • Infertility
  • Lesbian
  • LGBTQ+
  • Life Coaching
  • Life Transitions
  • Men's Issues
  • mindfulness/meditation
  • Mood Disorders
  • Parenting
  • Peer Relationships
  • Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum
  • Relationship Issues
  • Self Esteem
  • Spirituality
  • Sports Performance
  • Transgender
  • Veterans
Do these issues align with your needs? or (510) 470-0758
Patrick Whalen Phd
Psychologist, PhD
Do these issues align with your needs? or (510) 470-0758
Patrick Whalen Phd
Psychologist, PhD

2 Endorsements

L. Roen Prowe
L. Roen Prowe
An excellent mentor and practitioner whose guidance has stuck with me for many years.

Client Focus

Age

Teen
Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Ethnicity

Other Racial or Ethnic Background

Age

Teen
Adults

Participants

Individuals
Couples
Family

Ethnicity

Other Racial or Ethnic Background

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Acceptance and Commitment (ACT)
  • Clinical Supervision and Licensed Supervisors
  • Coaching
  • Family / Marital
  • meditation/mindfulness
  • Mindfulness-Based (MBCT)
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Psychodynamic
  • Relational
  • Relational Life Therapy (RLT)
  • Trauma Focused
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Using RLT, first, I ask what each spouse wants from therapy; what's in the way; and where current beliefs about marriage came from. Taking time here is compassionate, builds mutual understanding, contextualizes problem areas, builds trust, and reduces defensiveness. It also unearths the "dance" couples repeat related to conflict and intimacy, and the work needing to be done and in what order.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (510) 470-0758
Patrick Whalen Phd
Psychologist, PhD
"
Using RLT, first, I ask what each spouse wants from therapy; what's in the way; and where current beliefs about marriage came from. Taking time here is compassionate, builds mutual understanding, contextualizes problem areas, builds trust, and reduces defensiveness. It also unearths the "dance" couples repeat related to conflict and intimacy, and the work needing to be done and in what order.
Call or for a free 15 minute consultation now - (510) 470-0758
Patrick Whalen Phd
Psychologist, PhD

Location

Primary Location

www.relationalcouplestherapy.com

Oakland, CA 94605

(510) 470-0758

Nearby Areas

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I offer online individual/couples therapy and assessment in CA most weekdays and some evenings and, likely, in person in Oakland April 2024.
Call for a free consultation now - (510) 470-0758
Patrick Whalen Phd
Psychologist, PhD
"
I offer online individual/couples therapy and assessment in CA most weekdays and some evenings and, likely, in person in Oakland April 2024.
Call for a free consultation now - (510) 470-0758
Patrick Whalen Phd
Psychologist, PhD
Last Modified: 21 Feb 2024