Relationship Issues Counselling in SW18
Are you feeling depressed, anxious, or just not yourself? Maybe recent events or past traumas are making it hard for you to cope. I can support you while you explore your concerns which, in turn, can help you find new ways of dealing with your problems, make different life choices, and find a way forward. I have experience working with anxiety, panic attacks, depression, trauma, relationship difficulties, and eating issues. I have a particular interest in work related stress and its impact on mental wellbeing. My approach is relational, so I work with you and at your pace as you explore what you want from life and relationships.
Are you feeling depressed, anxious, or just not yourself? Maybe recent events or past traumas are making it hard for you to cope. I can support you while you explore your concerns which, in turn, can help you find new ways of dealing with your problems, make different life choices, and find a way forward. I have experience working with anxiety, panic attacks, depression, trauma, relationship difficulties, and eating issues. I have a particular interest in work related stress and its impact on mental wellbeing. My approach is relational, so I work with you and at your pace as you explore what you want from life and relationships.
Are you ready to take the first step to solve your relationship or intimacy issues?.
Taking the first step to solve intimacy issues can often feel intimidating but from our first call I will help you feel as comfortable as I can. Through a positive-oriented approach, I help you get to the root cause of the problem and guide you to implement practical solutions. I work extensively with clients struggling with sexual issues such as low sexual desire, anxiety, erectile dysfunction, vaginismus and sex/porn addiction as well as couples looking to fix relationship problems which include communication difficulties, mismatched libido, conflict and betrayal.
Are you ready to take the first step to solve your relationship or intimacy issues?.
Taking the first step to solve intimacy issues can often feel intimidating but from our first call I will help you feel as comfortable as I can. Through a positive-oriented approach, I help you get to the root cause of the problem and guide you to implement practical solutions. I work extensively with clients struggling with sexual issues such as low sexual desire, anxiety, erectile dysfunction, vaginismus and sex/porn addiction as well as couples looking to fix relationship problems which include communication difficulties, mismatched libido, conflict and betrayal.
I am an integrative counsellor which means I believe the past, especially our relationship (or lack of relationship) with our parents/caregivers shapes the person we are today. As your counsellor aim to provide a safe space for us to work through your issues, recognising and changing unhelpful beliefs with a view to helping you towards becoming your best self. I believe like a phoenix we all have the ability to rise from the ashes and it helps to have a counsellor who you feel is really in your corner.
I am an integrative counsellor which means I believe the past, especially our relationship (or lack of relationship) with our parents/caregivers shapes the person we are today. As your counsellor aim to provide a safe space for us to work through your issues, recognising and changing unhelpful beliefs with a view to helping you towards becoming your best self. I believe like a phoenix we all have the ability to rise from the ashes and it helps to have a counsellor who you feel is really in your corner.
I specialise in dealing with anxiety and with relationship issues and my combined training and approach has proven to be very helpful to help my clients find more inner peace, challenge their fears and 'what if's' and live a happier and more fulfilling life.
Is your life affected by issues in your relationships with others, issues in your relationship you have with yourself? Are intrusive and negative thoughts often making you feel down and helpless? Is anxiety stopping you from enjoying your life? There is hope. I can help you explore, challenge and change those unhelpful thought patterns, aiming to help you feel more empowered and confident so you can enjoy your life and have more loving and happier relationships, with yourself and others. Contact me to book an initial appointment and see if my combined psychotherapy&solution focused approach would work for you.
I specialise in dealing with anxiety and with relationship issues and my combined training and approach has proven to be very helpful to help my clients find more inner peace, challenge their fears and 'what if's' and live a happier and more fulfilling life.
Is your life affected by issues in your relationships with others, issues in your relationship you have with yourself? Are intrusive and negative thoughts often making you feel down and helpless? Is anxiety stopping you from enjoying your life? There is hope. I can help you explore, challenge and change those unhelpful thought patterns, aiming to help you feel more empowered and confident so you can enjoy your life and have more loving and happier relationships, with yourself and others. Contact me to book an initial appointment and see if my combined psychotherapy&solution focused approach would work for you.
Building positive, stronger and more fulfilling relationships is at the heart of all my work whether that relationship is with yourself, with your family and loved ones, at work and certainly between you as a client and me as your therapist.
Our world is full of uncertainty at the moment. The impact of and issues surrounding corona virus and black lives matter may be contributing to you feeling increasingly low or overwhelmed. Perhaps you're feeling anxious about something that you previously took in your stride, or finding the stress of work, education, or family life difficult to cope with? Or perhaps you're feeling lonely, isolated or low on self-esteem ? Counselling can provide you with the opportunity to talk through your feelings, be listened to and help you find your way to a fuller, more balanced and enjoyable life.
Building positive, stronger and more fulfilling relationships is at the heart of all my work whether that relationship is with yourself, with your family and loved ones, at work and certainly between you as a client and me as your therapist.
Our world is full of uncertainty at the moment. The impact of and issues surrounding corona virus and black lives matter may be contributing to you feeling increasingly low or overwhelmed. Perhaps you're feeling anxious about something that you previously took in your stride, or finding the stress of work, education, or family life difficult to cope with? Or perhaps you're feeling lonely, isolated or low on self-esteem ? Counselling can provide you with the opportunity to talk through your feelings, be listened to and help you find your way to a fuller, more balanced and enjoyable life.
I am a therapist with 10 years' experience of using evidence-based therapies to work with anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, stress, trauma and many other mental health challenges.
In difficult times, working with the right therapist can help us cope and recover quickly. It can also bring some sense of clarity and healing.
I am a therapist with 10 years' experience of using evidence-based therapies to work with anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, stress, trauma and many other mental health challenges.
In difficult times, working with the right therapist can help us cope and recover quickly. It can also bring some sense of clarity and healing.
Finding the right counsellor for you is imperative, as the relationship between counsellor and client is key.
Welcome! I am an American-trained member of the BACP, with 9 years of experience working as a psychotherapist. I have worked with clients struggling with a range of mental health difficulties (chronic and acute: depression, anxiety, stress, trauma), but have specific experience with relationship issues (infidelity, breakups/divorce, struggles to connect); grief, bereavement and loss; and addiction. My style is warm and interactive, but challenging when needed. Being non-judgmental, and treating others with respect, sensitivity, and compassion is the bedrock of counselling, and is built into all of my feedback and reflections.
Finding the right counsellor for you is imperative, as the relationship between counsellor and client is key.
Welcome! I am an American-trained member of the BACP, with 9 years of experience working as a psychotherapist. I have worked with clients struggling with a range of mental health difficulties (chronic and acute: depression, anxiety, stress, trauma), but have specific experience with relationship issues (infidelity, breakups/divorce, struggles to connect); grief, bereavement and loss; and addiction. My style is warm and interactive, but challenging when needed. Being non-judgmental, and treating others with respect, sensitivity, and compassion is the bedrock of counselling, and is built into all of my feedback and reflections.
Dr Kalyco Stobart
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
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London SW18
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Psychological research consistently demonstrates that the quality of the therapeutic relationship is the primary indicator of positive outcome.
There are many reasons why people seek psychological support, perhaps they feel stuck in one or more areas of their life or they have noticed unhelpful and hurtful patterns of being, both with themselves and others, and would like this to be different. People may want to better understand where these patterns come from and how they can change. Often life can ‘look good on paper’ and yet a person can feel unhappy or that something is lacking in their life. In therapy we can explore what might be underlying a sense of discontent or unease.
Psychological research consistently demonstrates that the quality of the therapeutic relationship is the primary indicator of positive outcome.
There are many reasons why people seek psychological support, perhaps they feel stuck in one or more areas of their life or they have noticed unhelpful and hurtful patterns of being, both with themselves and others, and would like this to be different. People may want to better understand where these patterns come from and how they can change. Often life can ‘look good on paper’ and yet a person can feel unhappy or that something is lacking in their life. In therapy we can explore what might be underlying a sense of discontent or unease.
I help people with a broad range of difficulties, and have particular experience in relationship problems, anxiety, trauma, CPTSD, dissociation, bereavement, terminal or chronic illnesses, addictions, infertility, the effects on clients of the narcissistic and borderline behaviours of others, and adult ADHD. By reflecting and exploring difficult and troubling feelings and experiences I can help guide you through to a place where you can decide what to accept and what to change in order to move forwards in a more knowing manner.
I help people with a broad range of difficulties, and have particular experience in relationship problems, anxiety, trauma, CPTSD, dissociation, bereavement, terminal or chronic illnesses, addictions, infertility, the effects on clients of the narcissistic and borderline behaviours of others, and adult ADHD. By reflecting and exploring difficult and troubling feelings and experiences I can help guide you through to a place where you can decide what to accept and what to change in order to move forwards in a more knowing manner.
Addiction is a relational problem because it impacts so much of the love and trust in a relationship.
The troubling part of your life being dominated by addiction is the denial. It leaves you feeling guilty, ashamed, and lonely. Without really noticing, your life becomes disconnected from those you love and what you enjoy. Your mental health becomes affected by living a double life, especially when you are functioning. Functioning is not living; it’s surviving! When decisions are made based on the need to suppress your thoughts and feelings, that is also not living. If you have been exploring Psychology Today and the description above resonates, I hope you know you are looking for another way of living or to be now heard.
Addiction is a relational problem because it impacts so much of the love and trust in a relationship.
The troubling part of your life being dominated by addiction is the denial. It leaves you feeling guilty, ashamed, and lonely. Without really noticing, your life becomes disconnected from those you love and what you enjoy. Your mental health becomes affected by living a double life, especially when you are functioning. Functioning is not living; it’s surviving! When decisions are made based on the need to suppress your thoughts and feelings, that is also not living. If you have been exploring Psychology Today and the description above resonates, I hope you know you are looking for another way of living or to be now heard.
Life can often be complex and exploring issues in conversation with another person can be illuminating, perhaps understanding how past experiences are influencing current issues. This can and does bring about change in our relationship with ourselves and others. In our sessions together, you can talk about whatever is on your mind from the present or the past, and bring feelings and thoughts for us to consider. Your trust and sense of safety is important so I will encourage you to move at your own pace.
Life can often be complex and exploring issues in conversation with another person can be illuminating, perhaps understanding how past experiences are influencing current issues. This can and does bring about change in our relationship with ourselves and others. In our sessions together, you can talk about whatever is on your mind from the present or the past, and bring feelings and thoughts for us to consider. Your trust and sense of safety is important so I will encourage you to move at your own pace.
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I have experience in working with anxiety, depression, anger management, eating disorders, addictions, relationship issues, sexual assault, and work related stress issues. With couples I deal with communication styles, relational and attachment patterns and I am particularly interested in the complex issues surrounding infidelity and betrayal.
I have experience in working with anxiety, depression, anger management, eating disorders, addictions, relationship issues, sexual assault, and work related stress issues. With couples I deal with communication styles, relational and attachment patterns and I am particularly interested in the complex issues surrounding infidelity and betrayal.
I worked in the NHS in Sexual Health/HIV for almost 20 years and I have extensive experience of treating a wide range of sexual and relationship presentations.
I am a highly experienced psychosexual and relationship therapist and offer talking therapy for the following issues: relationship difficulties, erectile dysfunction, premature or delayed ejaculation, compulsive sexual behaviour, pain during sex, difficulties with orgasm, arousal or desire issues, sexuality or sex education. I specialize in helping clients achieve sober sex after chemsex. In addition, I offer the space to explore spirituality and faith (regardless of religion) within the framework of sexuality.
I worked in the NHS in Sexual Health/HIV for almost 20 years and I have extensive experience of treating a wide range of sexual and relationship presentations.
I am a highly experienced psychosexual and relationship therapist and offer talking therapy for the following issues: relationship difficulties, erectile dysfunction, premature or delayed ejaculation, compulsive sexual behaviour, pain during sex, difficulties with orgasm, arousal or desire issues, sexuality or sex education. I specialize in helping clients achieve sober sex after chemsex. In addition, I offer the space to explore spirituality and faith (regardless of religion) within the framework of sexuality.
Sometimes aspects of our life can overwhelm us. Life events such as a bereavement, relationship/family issues, a job loss or isolation can leave us feeling fearful, stressed and unable to cope. We can also feel stuck in certain patterns that we wish to break free from. Talking about all these things can help to bring balance back into our lives and gain a new understanding of ourselves. I aim to make it possible for you to speak about things which you might not have put into words before and ask questions to help you with your thinking. Giving yourself the space to talk openly and be heard can bring about tremendous change within.
Sometimes aspects of our life can overwhelm us. Life events such as a bereavement, relationship/family issues, a job loss or isolation can leave us feeling fearful, stressed and unable to cope. We can also feel stuck in certain patterns that we wish to break free from. Talking about all these things can help to bring balance back into our lives and gain a new understanding of ourselves. I aim to make it possible for you to speak about things which you might not have put into words before and ask questions to help you with your thinking. Giving yourself the space to talk openly and be heard can bring about tremendous change within.
This includes support for problems including anxiety, depression, eating disorders, interpersonal and relationship difficulties, medically unexplained symptoms, grief, & unresolved childhood issues.
I am a Chartered Clinical Psychologist, registered with the Health and Care Professions Council (HCPC) and the British Psychological Society (BPS). I offer skilled, compassionate, evidence-based support to people who find themselves in distress or at a point in their lives when they would like to speak to a trained professional. Whilst I specialise in psychodynamic psychotherapy, which is interested in how our early experiences can shape and influence how we relate to ourselves and others, I draw on my knowledge and skills from different psychological therapies in an integrative way to ensure I tailor sessions to suit your needs.
This includes support for problems including anxiety, depression, eating disorders, interpersonal and relationship difficulties, medically unexplained symptoms, grief, & unresolved childhood issues.
I am a Chartered Clinical Psychologist, registered with the Health and Care Professions Council (HCPC) and the British Psychological Society (BPS). I offer skilled, compassionate, evidence-based support to people who find themselves in distress or at a point in their lives when they would like to speak to a trained professional. Whilst I specialise in psychodynamic psychotherapy, which is interested in how our early experiences can shape and influence how we relate to ourselves and others, I draw on my knowledge and skills from different psychological therapies in an integrative way to ensure I tailor sessions to suit your needs.
As well as being an important source of support for when you are distressed, your relationship with your counsellor can assist in developing insights into yourself and your relationships.
I am a BACP registered counsellor and psychotherapist in private practice and see clients in Fulham as well as Kensington. Over the last seven years I have worked in a number of public as well as private institutional settings including the NHS, universities and employee assistance programmes. My way of working is integrative-relational. I combine and tailor a number of different theoretical approaches whilst treating the relationship between us as the most important facilitator of our work together.
As well as being an important source of support for when you are distressed, your relationship with your counsellor can assist in developing insights into yourself and your relationships.
I am a BACP registered counsellor and psychotherapist in private practice and see clients in Fulham as well as Kensington. Over the last seven years I have worked in a number of public as well as private institutional settings including the NHS, universities and employee assistance programmes. My way of working is integrative-relational. I combine and tailor a number of different theoretical approaches whilst treating the relationship between us as the most important facilitator of our work together.
Then you can build a new philosophy on life and your relationship(s).
As a Couple-Is your relationship a mess? Do you want to cherish each other again? Would you like to live a calm and happy life in a respectful relationship. You can do it. I can help. Google Terry Real and relational living. As an Individual-Is anxiety making it life hard for you? Anxiety comes in many forms:-perfectionism, panic, OCD, worrying about what others think of you? Do you have low self-esteem? Do you feel depressed? You can beat these issues and change your life. I can help. Google REBT.
Then you can build a new philosophy on life and your relationship(s).
As a Couple-Is your relationship a mess? Do you want to cherish each other again? Would you like to live a calm and happy life in a respectful relationship. You can do it. I can help. Google Terry Real and relational living. As an Individual-Is anxiety making it life hard for you? Anxiety comes in many forms:-perfectionism, panic, OCD, worrying about what others think of you? Do you have low self-esteem? Do you feel depressed? You can beat these issues and change your life. I can help. Google REBT.
I have over 10 years experience in helping clients with a wide range of issues including stress and anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts and coping with grief and loss.
You may be struggling with overwhelming emotions and have various ways of coping, which are not helping. It might be because of a current relationship or difficult relationships in the past. You may have suffered childhood abuse or been bullied at school. Perhaps you are struggling to cope with work pressures and are experiencing stress and anxiety. It takes courage to seek out a more fulfilling and happier life and to take the first steps towards a change. I am here to support and empower you in that journey.
I have over 10 years experience in helping clients with a wide range of issues including stress and anxiety, relationship issues, family conflicts and coping with grief and loss.
You may be struggling with overwhelming emotions and have various ways of coping, which are not helping. It might be because of a current relationship or difficult relationships in the past. You may have suffered childhood abuse or been bullied at school. Perhaps you are struggling to cope with work pressures and are experiencing stress and anxiety. It takes courage to seek out a more fulfilling and happier life and to take the first steps towards a change. I am here to support and empower you in that journey.
I am an MSc-trained psychodynamic psychotherapist and counsellor, specialising in early adulthood (18 to 40). I offer a safe & confidential space to help you cope with various emotional difficulties that surface in this important period of life. I can provide support for depression, anxiety, suicidal ideation, self-harm, bereavement, traumatic experiences, relationship difficulties, pregnancy, gender & sexuality, identity issues, performance anxiety, and career uncertainty. I currently work in private practice, having previously held a full-time position with the NHS. Prior to that, I worked as a psychotherapist at UCL.
I am an MSc-trained psychodynamic psychotherapist and counsellor, specialising in early adulthood (18 to 40). I offer a safe & confidential space to help you cope with various emotional difficulties that surface in this important period of life. I can provide support for depression, anxiety, suicidal ideation, self-harm, bereavement, traumatic experiences, relationship difficulties, pregnancy, gender & sexuality, identity issues, performance anxiety, and career uncertainty. I currently work in private practice, having previously held a full-time position with the NHS. Prior to that, I worked as a psychotherapist at UCL.
My name is Hannah and I offer a kind, safe, highly specialised space for couples counselling and individual sessions. My couples work uses Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). This focuses on unpicking the types of disagreements couples find themselves in again and again, getting to the heart of the issue and creating meaningful change within the relationship. My individual work can be structured (for example, using strategies and techniques), more exploratory or a blend of both. The purpose of all of the therapies I use is to develop your understanding of your problems, break unhelpful behaviours and build better coping strategies.
My name is Hannah and I offer a kind, safe, highly specialised space for couples counselling and individual sessions. My couples work uses Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT). This focuses on unpicking the types of disagreements couples find themselves in again and again, getting to the heart of the issue and creating meaningful change within the relationship. My individual work can be structured (for example, using strategies and techniques), more exploratory or a blend of both. The purpose of all of the therapies I use is to develop your understanding of your problems, break unhelpful behaviours and build better coping strategies.
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Relationship Issues Counsellors
While need for human connection appears to be innate, the ability to form healthy, loving relationships is learned. Some evidence suggests that the ability to form a stable relationship starts to form in infancy, in a child's earliest experiences with a caregiver who reliably meets the infant's needs for food, care, warmth, protection, stimulation, and social contact. Such relationships are not destiny, but they are theorized to establish deeply ingrained patterns of relating to others. The end of a relationship, however, is often a source of great psychological anguish.