Infidelity Counselling in TW11

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James Earl
Psychotherapist, COSRT Reg.
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
I specialise in working with couples and individuals on better communication, restoring desire and intimacy, surviving affairs, and sexual problems First sessions (1 hour) are free, without any obligation to continue, so you can check out you're comfortable working with me. I can usually see you within 48 hours (and sometimes the same day). I work evenings, weekends, and daytimes. I offer in person and video sessions.
I specialise in working with couples and individuals on better communication, restoring desire and intimacy, surviving affairs, and sexual problems First sessions (1 hour) are free, without any obligation to continue, so you can check out you're comfortable working with me. I can usually see you within 48 hours (and sometimes the same day). I work evenings, weekends, and daytimes. I offer in person and video sessions.
01748 902263 View 01748 902263
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Janet S T Daniel
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP Snr. Accred
Verified Verified
Are you stuck? Do you have relationship issues? Do you want a more fulfilling and meaningful life? I have 25 years experience working holistically with individuals and couples. Clients say I am calm, friendly, pragmatic, and kind. Together we identify what you want to change and identify areas for personal growth and development. We explore unconscious patterns from your past that are impacting the present and your relationships, what's holding you back, and create strategies for you to reach your goals. Couples come because of difficulties in relationships, communication, conflict, affairs, lack of intimacy, and family issues.
Are you stuck? Do you have relationship issues? Do you want a more fulfilling and meaningful life? I have 25 years experience working holistically with individuals and couples. Clients say I am calm, friendly, pragmatic, and kind. Together we identify what you want to change and identify areas for personal growth and development. We explore unconscious patterns from your past that are impacting the present and your relationships, what's holding you back, and create strategies for you to reach your goals. Couples come because of difficulties in relationships, communication, conflict, affairs, lack of intimacy, and family issues.
020 4538 2913 View 020 4538 2913
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Matthew Frank Gould
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Hi I'm Matthew, a qualified CBT, integrative and psychodynamic psychotherapist. My style is warm and free of judgement. You may have problems you cannot explain to a friend or family member and need a third perspective. I work with anxiety and depression, relationships, loss, abuse, betrayal, self-esteem, anger, or those who are stuck. Improvement comes from insight, understanding and acceptance but also from stepwise, practical change. If requested I can work in a more active and future focused way with the current advice, exercises and activities supported by the evidence base.
Hi I'm Matthew, a qualified CBT, integrative and psychodynamic psychotherapist. My style is warm and free of judgement. You may have problems you cannot explain to a friend or family member and need a third perspective. I work with anxiety and depression, relationships, loss, abuse, betrayal, self-esteem, anger, or those who are stuck. Improvement comes from insight, understanding and acceptance but also from stepwise, practical change. If requested I can work in a more active and future focused way with the current advice, exercises and activities supported by the evidence base.
020 4538 4899 View 020 4538 4899
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Bob Lynton
Psychotherapist, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
I specialise in working with individuals and couples on relationship and sexual issues. I provide a safe, non-judgmental space for adults of all ages, cultural backgrounds, and sexual orientations. I believe each relationship is unique, so I take a flexible approach depending on the individual's or couple's needs and objectives. In addition to my private practice, I work at Tavistock Relationships - the world-leading centre of excellence for clinical work, research and training in couple counselling. I also have several years' experience of working in the NHS at St Bartholomew's and The Royal London hospitals.
I specialise in working with individuals and couples on relationship and sexual issues. I provide a safe, non-judgmental space for adults of all ages, cultural backgrounds, and sexual orientations. I believe each relationship is unique, so I take a flexible approach depending on the individual's or couple's needs and objectives. In addition to my private practice, I work at Tavistock Relationships - the world-leading centre of excellence for clinical work, research and training in couple counselling. I also have several years' experience of working in the NHS at St Bartholomew's and The Royal London hospitals.
01748 901685 View 01748 901685
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Dr Sarah Emmerson
Psychologist, DCounsPsych, HCPC - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Teddington TW11  (Online Only)
I am a Chartered Counselling Psychologist and have a number of years experience working in the NHS with people dealing with trauma, anxiety and perinatal difficulties. I want to offer you a therapy experience that is centred around you and your needs. You might be struggling with relationships in your life, dealing with worries and anxiety or unresolved traumatic experiences from your past - or you might not know exactly what is wrong but are just looking for a place to talk and understand yourself better. I can offer a safe and calm space to explore what is going on for you and think together about ways we can help you.
I am a Chartered Counselling Psychologist and have a number of years experience working in the NHS with people dealing with trauma, anxiety and perinatal difficulties. I want to offer you a therapy experience that is centred around you and your needs. You might be struggling with relationships in your life, dealing with worries and anxiety or unresolved traumatic experiences from your past - or you might not know exactly what is wrong but are just looking for a place to talk and understand yourself better. I can offer a safe and calm space to explore what is going on for you and think together about ways we can help you.
020 3835 3658 View 020 3835 3658
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April Holden
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Counselling can help you make sense of things that are troubling you, support you to recognise your feelings and how they affect you, or simply be a place to process and reflect on difficult emotions, events, or decisions. Even if you have supportive friends and family, talking things through with someone who is there solely to hear you, support you and offer empathy can give you a new perspective and a different understanding of what you are feeling and why.
Counselling can help you make sense of things that are troubling you, support you to recognise your feelings and how they affect you, or simply be a place to process and reflect on difficult emotions, events, or decisions. Even if you have supportive friends and family, talking things through with someone who is there solely to hear you, support you and offer empathy can give you a new perspective and a different understanding of what you are feeling and why.
020 3897 0931 View 020 3897 0931
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Lucy Bello
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Seeking a therapist who understands your unique challenges? Wanting to challenge negative thoughts and boost self-worth? Looking to set healthy boundaries? Eager to learn new coping strategies? Ready to engage in self-reflection and personal growth? If any of these resonate. Please call Lucy on the number above.
Seeking a therapist who understands your unique challenges? Wanting to challenge negative thoughts and boost self-worth? Looking to set healthy boundaries? Eager to learn new coping strategies? Ready to engage in self-reflection and personal growth? If any of these resonate. Please call Lucy on the number above.
020 3870 4020 View 020 3870 4020
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Jill Threadgold
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
We live in a busy world and may find ourselves expected to constantly juggle multiple priorities requiring limitless energy, or we may find ourselves feeling lonely amidst the busyness that surrounds us. We may be faced with work pressures, difficulties in relationships, anxiety or a sense of hopelessness. We may have an underlying dissatisfaction with our life, perhaps feeling we are living the life that others expected of us, not the one we might wish for ourselves. As we move through life we experience difficult times, perhaps trauma, loss, a transition, parenthood, work changes, relationship breakdowns and health issues.
We live in a busy world and may find ourselves expected to constantly juggle multiple priorities requiring limitless energy, or we may find ourselves feeling lonely amidst the busyness that surrounds us. We may be faced with work pressures, difficulties in relationships, anxiety or a sense of hopelessness. We may have an underlying dissatisfaction with our life, perhaps feeling we are living the life that others expected of us, not the one we might wish for ourselves. As we move through life we experience difficult times, perhaps trauma, loss, a transition, parenthood, work changes, relationship breakdowns and health issues.
020 3835 5388 View 020 3835 5388
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Amy Bojanowski-Bubb
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
It can be really hard asking for help. It can be even harder to think about your own needs when you’re so used to caring for others. What if we’re seen as a failure for not being able to do it all on our own? It can make us feel stuck, trapped even, behind our own smiles and silence. But I see you and I hear you. Life doesn’t have to feel this way. A lot of my clients find it hard taking up space, who have built their lives on prioritising the needs and feelings of others, leading them struggling to identify let alone ask for what they want.
It can be really hard asking for help. It can be even harder to think about your own needs when you’re so used to caring for others. What if we’re seen as a failure for not being able to do it all on our own? It can make us feel stuck, trapped even, behind our own smiles and silence. But I see you and I hear you. Life doesn’t have to feel this way. A lot of my clients find it hard taking up space, who have built their lives on prioritising the needs and feelings of others, leading them struggling to identify let alone ask for what they want.
01748 900644 View 01748 900644
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Aysegul C Gokalp
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
My approach is person centred with holistic view of Humanistic Counselling and Gestalt Psychotherapy. My focus is to provide a safe environment for you to be able to confide without fear or judgement and protecting your confidentiality and privacy. I have experience of working with individuals and couples on exploring emotional challenges including; anxiety, depression, relationship issues, loss/bereavement, fertility problems, dysfunctional family difficulties,personality disorders.
My approach is person centred with holistic view of Humanistic Counselling and Gestalt Psychotherapy. My focus is to provide a safe environment for you to be able to confide without fear or judgement and protecting your confidentiality and privacy. I have experience of working with individuals and couples on exploring emotional challenges including; anxiety, depression, relationship issues, loss/bereavement, fertility problems, dysfunctional family difficulties,personality disorders.
020 3910 8268 View 020 3910 8268
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Dr Chris Murphy - Counselling Twickenham
Counsellor, PhD, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Welcome. You've taken the first step. I believe the genuinely supportive presence of another is invaluable; particularly one who is removed from our everyday life, and thus can listen with a completely open attitude. It feels particularly good to be received in this way; our guard can finally drop and in so doing we learn new things about ourselves. There's no deeper way to self-understanding than this. We change to the degree to which we can, unflinchingly, look at ourselves in this way. My aim is to facilitate this process by helping to provide such a space.
Welcome. You've taken the first step. I believe the genuinely supportive presence of another is invaluable; particularly one who is removed from our everyday life, and thus can listen with a completely open attitude. It feels particularly good to be received in this way; our guard can finally drop and in so doing we learn new things about ourselves. There's no deeper way to self-understanding than this. We change to the degree to which we can, unflinchingly, look at ourselves in this way. My aim is to facilitate this process by helping to provide such a space.
07480 488253 View 07480 488253
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Tania Turner
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
My inspiration for this career stems from a desire to connect and communicate with people. This inclination has been a thread throughout my life. Having undertaken Counselling myself I have directly experienced the cathartic and powerful change it brings about. I work with both individuals and couples/relationships. Developing a trusting relationship and being aware of what happens between us is core to effective therapy. I work to understand the situation that you need support with and look at how this is impacting your life.
My inspiration for this career stems from a desire to connect and communicate with people. This inclination has been a thread throughout my life. Having undertaken Counselling myself I have directly experienced the cathartic and powerful change it brings about. I work with both individuals and couples/relationships. Developing a trusting relationship and being aware of what happens between us is core to effective therapy. I work to understand the situation that you need support with and look at how this is impacting your life.
01748 352072 View 01748 352072
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Elisabeth Auer
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Hello, I am a psychoanalytic psychotherapist, working face-to-face in my consulting room close to Twickenham Green. In regular sessions, which take place once or twice a week, we explore how early relationships with significant others impact the way you feel, think and behave in the present. If these models do not serve you anymore, we embark on a process of change.
Hello, I am a psychoanalytic psychotherapist, working face-to-face in my consulting room close to Twickenham Green. In regular sessions, which take place once or twice a week, we explore how early relationships with significant others impact the way you feel, think and behave in the present. If these models do not serve you anymore, we embark on a process of change.
07481 362655 View 07481 362655
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Lucy O’Sullivan Integrative Therapy
Counsellor
Verified Verified
I'm a BACP and NCPS registered integrative mental health therapist & psychodynamic counsellor qualified to work with clients aged 16yrs and over. My approach is integrative and draws on a range of therapeutic approaches including PCT, CBT, TA, Jungian Psychodynamic. For trauma/PTSD and early relational/attachment issues, I draw on relevant trauma treatment models. I provide therapy in a safe, non-judgmental and empathic space in which you can talk in confidence either in person, or virtually via Zoom.
I'm a BACP and NCPS registered integrative mental health therapist & psychodynamic counsellor qualified to work with clients aged 16yrs and over. My approach is integrative and draws on a range of therapeutic approaches including PCT, CBT, TA, Jungian Psychodynamic. For trauma/PTSD and early relational/attachment issues, I draw on relevant trauma treatment models. I provide therapy in a safe, non-judgmental and empathic space in which you can talk in confidence either in person, or virtually via Zoom.
020 3835 5476 View 020 3835 5476
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Christopher Zach
Psychotherapist, MUKCP
Verified Verified
While there are many different approaches to psychotherapy and counselling, I work principally within the psychoanalytic tradition, a key part of which is to work in collaboration with clients to try to understand the unconscious origins of difficulties affecting our lives in the present. The aim is not to give advice, but to support people who have reached a point in their lives where they feel themselves to be facing difficult, sometimes confusing feelings and states of mind, to offer a reliable place to come and be listened to, without fear of being judged, criticised or told what to do.
While there are many different approaches to psychotherapy and counselling, I work principally within the psychoanalytic tradition, a key part of which is to work in collaboration with clients to try to understand the unconscious origins of difficulties affecting our lives in the present. The aim is not to give advice, but to support people who have reached a point in their lives where they feel themselves to be facing difficult, sometimes confusing feelings and states of mind, to offer a reliable place to come and be listened to, without fear of being judged, criticised or told what to do.
01748 901686 View 01748 901686
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ADHD Specialist - Psychotherapist
Counsellor, PsychD, BACP
Verified Verified
I am dedicated to helping individuals navigate the unique challenges and complexities that ADHD presents in their lives. With many years of experience in the field, I have developed a deep understanding of ADHD and its impact on individuals across the lifespan. My approach is rooted in empathy, understanding, and evidence-based practices. I believe in creating a safe and non-judgmental space where clients can freely express their thoughts, emotions, and experiences related to ADHD. Together, we will explore the unique strengths and challenges associated with ADHD and work to develop effective strategies for managing symptoms.
I am dedicated to helping individuals navigate the unique challenges and complexities that ADHD presents in their lives. With many years of experience in the field, I have developed a deep understanding of ADHD and its impact on individuals across the lifespan. My approach is rooted in empathy, understanding, and evidence-based practices. I believe in creating a safe and non-judgmental space where clients can freely express their thoughts, emotions, and experiences related to ADHD. Together, we will explore the unique strengths and challenges associated with ADHD and work to develop effective strategies for managing symptoms.
023 8235 3400 View 023 8235 3400
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Lorraine (Lorrie) Berry
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Everyone experiences a wide range of feelings in life. You may be experiencing difficulties at home, work, college or university, with relationships, health and other life struggles. You may have reached a point in life where you need more than a friendly ear and I appreciate that seeing a counsellor can seem overwhelming. My aim is to provide a professional, but warm, confidential non-judgemental, caring, safe environment where you and I can explore your difficulties together. I place a lot of emphasis on our relationship, with us getting to know each-other and working collaboratively to improve your wellbeing.
Everyone experiences a wide range of feelings in life. You may be experiencing difficulties at home, work, college or university, with relationships, health and other life struggles. You may have reached a point in life where you need more than a friendly ear and I appreciate that seeing a counsellor can seem overwhelming. My aim is to provide a professional, but warm, confidential non-judgemental, caring, safe environment where you and I can explore your difficulties together. I place a lot of emphasis on our relationship, with us getting to know each-other and working collaboratively to improve your wellbeing.
01372 235320 View 01372 235320
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Ramona Proti
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Living with unresolved trauma it is like living with a constant energy leak. We are not living only with the emotions, but also with the perceptions and beliefs that formed as a result of what happened to us. Trauma is a result of unprocessed past or present events or experiences and it can happen to anyone. it shows up in our body, emotions, reactions, patterns of behaviour, habits. It may manifest as anxiety/depression, people pleasing, procrastinating, impostor syndrome, hard time saying No; burn out, feeling, lonely, hard time putting yourself first; not asking for help, feeling unworthy, guilty or ashamed, hypervigilance, etc.
Living with unresolved trauma it is like living with a constant energy leak. We are not living only with the emotions, but also with the perceptions and beliefs that formed as a result of what happened to us. Trauma is a result of unprocessed past or present events or experiences and it can happen to anyone. it shows up in our body, emotions, reactions, patterns of behaviour, habits. It may manifest as anxiety/depression, people pleasing, procrastinating, impostor syndrome, hard time saying No; burn out, feeling, lonely, hard time putting yourself first; not asking for help, feeling unworthy, guilty or ashamed, hypervigilance, etc.
020 3319 5201 View 020 3319 5201
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Valeria Fleury
Counsellor, MSc, BACP
Verified Verified
COVIT-19 crisis: offering 4 FREE ONLINE sessions to NHS professionals; also taking new clients at discounted fee. Relationship problems, not knowing how to move ahead? Difficulties figuring out why you are in this situation? Experiencing lack of energy and focus to deal with everyday situations and don't even know where to start from? Feeling lonely even when among friends, need someone who can listen to and help you figure out how to get your life back? Most of us will experience these kinds of difficulties at some point, which can easily lead to seriou mental issues. Counselling will help you understand you are not alone.
COVIT-19 crisis: offering 4 FREE ONLINE sessions to NHS professionals; also taking new clients at discounted fee. Relationship problems, not knowing how to move ahead? Difficulties figuring out why you are in this situation? Experiencing lack of energy and focus to deal with everyday situations and don't even know where to start from? Feeling lonely even when among friends, need someone who can listen to and help you figure out how to get your life back? Most of us will experience these kinds of difficulties at some point, which can easily lead to seriou mental issues. Counselling will help you understand you are not alone.
01748 902573 View 01748 902573
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Katy Mount
Counsellor, BACP
Verified Verified
Hello, I'm Katy. I am an Integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist, meaning my approach is entirely focused on your individual needs. I offer a confidential, caring and empathic space free from judgement to explore the issues that are affecting your wellbeing and impacting your daily life. Perhaps you are feeling anxious, depressed or overwhelmed and finding it difficult to see a way forward. I would like to offer a safe and comfortable environment to work through those challenges together. Therapy can help you gain further awareness of who you are, help you make the most of your life and harness your inner strength.
Hello, I'm Katy. I am an Integrative Counsellor and Psychotherapist, meaning my approach is entirely focused on your individual needs. I offer a confidential, caring and empathic space free from judgement to explore the issues that are affecting your wellbeing and impacting your daily life. Perhaps you are feeling anxious, depressed or overwhelmed and finding it difficult to see a way forward. I would like to offer a safe and comfortable environment to work through those challenges together. Therapy can help you gain further awareness of who you are, help you make the most of your life and harness your inner strength.
020 3984 7686 View 020 3984 7686
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How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.