Counselling in Leatherhead

Welcome to TLC. I am Andrea Tibbitts, a relationship specialist with a heart for you as an individual, as a couple and as a family, to break painful recurring cycles and live a life you love. Whether it is unhappiness within you, or a raw spot with others, TLC is here for you. Maybe you are longing to live as your best self, and re-discover that in your loved ones too, but you are stuck in anxiety, depression, low self-esteem, communication breakdown, escalating conflict, intimacy issues, growing distance or distress. Maybe you feel alone and disconnected from those you love. Then this is is your invitation to 'come home to happy'.

If you seek a warm, welcoming space free of judgement, look no further. Finding the right therapist can be a difficult step. Easing into therapy is important, which is why we offer a Free 15-minute video Q&A; We refer to this as a chemistry meeting. During this meeting, you can meet your therapist and ask questions to gain a sense of who they are before you commit to therapy. Therapy will always be tailored to your needs and taken at a pace that feels right for you. We've got you! Please visit - www.relationalcounselling.co.uk.

Hello and welcome. I am Dawn Henley a Psychotherapeutic Counsellor based in Surrey. I have an Advanced Diploma in Psychotherapeutic Counselling, I hold an accredited membership with the National Counselling Society (MNCS) am also a member of the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy ( BACP) and I am bound by their ethics and good practice. I offer a safe, confidential space to talk openly, without judgement or shame, a space for you to to be heard, understood and accepted. I work collaborativly with you meaning together we can find the right solutions, to what ever has bought you to therapy.

I am a counselling psychologist with over 20 years experience working with children, adults, couples and families. I use solution focused, positive therapies that get you closer to your goals and values, teaching you tools and techniques to manage your life better and live life as you need to. I work with mental health conditions - anxieties/OCD, depression, phobias, confidence issues, relationship breakdowns, smoking cessation and weight loss, just to name a few!

I am a fully trained and accredited Integrative Relational Counsellor and EMDR Practitioner. Available for in person sessions and online via secure video conferencing (zoom or skype). Issues that I can support you with are: Trauma / PTSD, Stress and Anxiety, Marriage, Separation and Divorce issues, Personal relationship and Work relationship issues, Depression, Bereavement and Loss, Infertility, Miscarriages, IVF treatment and Infant Mortality Domestic abuse, Sexual abuse. I am a registered and accredited member of the BACP (Member No. 084911) and abide by the BACP’s ethical framework.

Do you believe you are doing the best you can but unfortunately often end up experiencing repetitive cycles of hurt and misunderstanding? When couples enter my counselling room, they are often filled with pain and despair. They look to me, to address their conflicts, help them recover from distress and repair their relationships.

Do you find it difficult to connect with others? Are you tired of online dating? Do you keep asking yourself 'where did all the good ones go'? Do you keep thinking about 'the one that got away'? If you are in a relationship, do you feel disconnected from your partner? Have you outgrown your relationship? Are struggling after a breakup? Do you feel out of touch with an important part of yourself? Can you imagine connecting with others in a deeper, more authentic way? Would you like to feel more joy and delight in relationships? Would you like to feel more secure within yourself?

Since 2009, I've been committed to supporting clients in their healing journey by offering talking therapy and conducting over 4000 successful EMDR sessions. Specialised training with Esther Perel enriches my marriage counselling approach, exploring issues like freedom versus security, struggles with intimacy and connection, emotional shutdowns, conflicts over finances and recurring arguments. In therapy, we start by understanding your story's narrative. We unravel underlying beliefs like "I'm not good enough," "It's my fault," and "I'm unsafe." Together, we collaborate to establish secure attachment and facilitate repair.

1 in 6 have experienced sexual abuse in their childhood, it's a topic that many people feel uncomfortable talking about yet the aftermath of the abuse can have long-lasting effects. It impacts your income, personal relationships & health. You may be experiencing feelings of isolation, self-doubt, or even suffer physically e.g.fibromyalgia. This can happen several years after being abused or remembering it. What if I told you there is a way to come to terms with your past and thrive in the present? Healing Hands Counselling is a psychotherapeutic service which, specialises in this area.

Should I talk to someone about this? If you have found yourself on this page, it is likely that you have had this thought. Perhaps you have experienced a distressing event or betrayal or have lost the passion in your relationship. Perhaps you are looking for help as a couple or as an individual. Whatever the reason you are seeking help, reaching out is always a brave step. It is helpful to know what to expect.

Individuals or couples who want to explore relationship issues and work out what they want, whether in the relationship or out of it. I help clients identify patterns of destructive communication and rebuild connection. I work with individuals who need support with decision making about their relationship (or lack of one), who may be experiencing anxiety or low self -esteem as a result. Having worked extensively in the corporate sector for many years I also offer single session therapy for clients who feel they are at a career crossroads and would benefit from objective and constructive listening.

There are many reasons why people choose to come to therapy.  For some, it can be a sense of discomfort, an internal struggle, or perhaps an external trigger has pushed you towards seeking support. Therapy can be an empowering process, supporting you to reconnect with yourself, to notice and take care of your needs, bringing you self awareness, healing & a deeper sense of security. I work to provide clients with a safe & attuned therapeutic experience. This gives you the space to look at old patterns of behaviour that are no longer serving you, supporting you to make healthier changes, moving you forward into a place of authenticity

As a high achiever you are used to success. You work hard, you enjoy work and you have meaningful relationships, but something is missing. You've tried all manner of ways to fill this gap - working more, working harder, prioritising your personal life, your health, your relationships - but it never quite fits. You wonder how you can achieve at work, but not in other areas of your life? Will it always be this exhausting? What if you could ditch the hustle and find a different way to show up in your life, your work, your relationships?

Experiencing anxiety, depression, problems in relationships or some more elusive trouble that is difficult to name? There are many situations that prompt people to seek help when they encounter a problem in living and struggle to find a way through confusion and emotional suffering. Talking things trough helps. As a therapist, my primary concern is to create a warm and respectful relationship that would provide support as well as encourage you to express your feelings and reflect upon what is going on for you. Rather than being a neutral observer, I seek to involve myself in your effort to deal with your distress.

Are you having more bad days than good? Feeling fed-up, depressed, anxious or grieving and having trouble ‘to shake’ those difficult feelings? Perhaps you are feeling stuck or having trouble with your relationships? We can feel we ‘should’ be able to cope which can be make our differcult feelings more tough and feel very isolating for you too. I know how daunting it can be to share your thoughts and feelings with someone. Before becoming a therapist, I felt the same. Together can create a create a sanctuary, a place where you can ‘come as you are’ and share what is you are experiencing. A time and space, just for you

I am a Systemic Psychotherapist with extensive experience working with individuals, couples and families in a variety of settings. I hold a Masters degree in Marriage and Family Therapy from Edgewood College (Madison, Wisconsin, U.S.A) and am currently UKCP Registered. Before starting my private practice, I was employed for six years as a Specialist Clinician for Children’s Social Care by the Cambridgeshire County Council. Prior to this, I ran an outpatient program for individuals struggling with an eating disorder and their families. I work with individuals, couples and families,

I wish you during these extraordinary times of world changes - and any other challenges - the very best for yourself and those close to you. My practice is open for in person & video sessions. I am here for you to talk about your emotional, psychological and spiritual/transpersonal and mindfulness issues. I taught at Universities and present at conferences. With 25+ years of practice I offer you a confidential space to explore your feelings and thoughts e.g. about anxiety, depression, suicide, relationships, death and dying, spiritual journey, meaning in life. I am here for you for any other issue you wish to talk about.

Looking for someone who can help you explore your issues or challenges in a non-judgemental and genuine manner? I support clients in making positive changes, building resilience and achieving personal growth. Going to counselling can be daunting: I hope to offer clients a place of safety and compassion, and a therapeutic relationship instilled with warmth, energy and humour. I tailor my approach to each client’s needs. I’m an integrative counsellor meaning I believe you’ve the skills to overcome the challenges you’re facing and I draw on multiple therapeutic approaches to help unpick your patterns and flourish.

Feeling confused about sex & relationships? Owner of a brain that works differently? As an AuDHD sex and relationship therapist, I specialise in working with individuals and couples on a range of difficulties and just so happen to be neurodivergent. My practice is rooted in empathy, respect, and a lived experience of neurodivergence.