Couples Counselling in Kenley

Photo of Dr Ariana Jordan, Psychologist in Kenley, England
Dr Ariana Jordan
Psychologist, PsychD, CPsychol
Verified Verified
Kenley CR8
The success of the therapy depends very much on the therapeutic relationship between us, and so I would encourage you to have an initial free consultation so we can see whether we might be able to work together.
Sometimes, we can find ourselves presenting a face to the world that isn't our true self - one that we think will allow us to fit in, to build profitable careers, or to find the love we seek. We often don't realise we are doing this, but instead just feel a sense of stress or discomfort, physical or mental exhaustion, or find ourselves behaving in ways that don't seem healthy or in keeping with our ideals. My focus is to help you find fulfilment in life by being true to yourself and being more integrated as a person - to help you achieve success and balance in your relationships and in your worklife - whatever success means to you.
The success of the therapy depends very much on the therapeutic relationship between us, and so I would encourage you to have an initial free consultation so we can see whether we might be able to work together.
Sometimes, we can find ourselves presenting a face to the world that isn't our true self - one that we think will allow us to fit in, to build profitable careers, or to find the love we seek. We often don't realise we are doing this, but instead just feel a sense of stress or discomfort, physical or mental exhaustion, or find ourselves behaving in ways that don't seem healthy or in keeping with our ideals. My focus is to help you find fulfilment in life by being true to yourself and being more integrated as a person - to help you achieve success and balance in your relationships and in your worklife - whatever success means to you.
01883 772263 View 01883 772263
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Gill Weaver
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Kenley CR8
Hello and welcome. I am an integrative, humanistic counsellor working with adults and young people. I offer long and short term talking therapy within a warm, non judgemental and empathic therapeutic relationship. Here, you will feel enabled to explore your past, finding ways to cope with your present and move towards a more fulfilling future with increased self agency. Together, we will explore relational and behavioural patterns, intrusive or unhelpful thoughts all of which may influence your emotional thinking, behaviours and responses in the here and now.
Hello and welcome. I am an integrative, humanistic counsellor working with adults and young people. I offer long and short term talking therapy within a warm, non judgemental and empathic therapeutic relationship. Here, you will feel enabled to explore your past, finding ways to cope with your present and move towards a more fulfilling future with increased self agency. Together, we will explore relational and behavioural patterns, intrusive or unhelpful thoughts all of which may influence your emotional thinking, behaviours and responses in the here and now.
020 3376 8374 View 020 3376 8374
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Gill Clay
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Kenley CR8
Hello my name is Gill, I have been counselling for over 10 years and am also an EMDR therapist. I am passionate about supporting my clients to work through issues that trouble them. It may be that you are struggling with relationship issues or low self-esteem. You may be suffering from anxiety or depression, or maybe you lack confidence and feel this is holding you back in life. You may have been through a loss or bereavement or other traumatic events that continue to affect you in a negative way. I offer a warm, non-judgemental setting and my way of working is integrative to suit your specific needs.
Hello my name is Gill, I have been counselling for over 10 years and am also an EMDR therapist. I am passionate about supporting my clients to work through issues that trouble them. It may be that you are struggling with relationship issues or low self-esteem. You may be suffering from anxiety or depression, or maybe you lack confidence and feel this is holding you back in life. You may have been through a loss or bereavement or other traumatic events that continue to affect you in a negative way. I offer a warm, non-judgemental setting and my way of working is integrative to suit your specific needs.
01883 772260 View 01883 772260

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Photo of Sarah Warrington, Counsellor in Kenley, England
Sarah Warrington
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
South Croydon CR2
I offer face to face and online appointments and work with couples and individuals.
Hi, my name is Sarah. I believe that for counselling to be successful, It is important to find the right person for you. Someone you can connect with and feel comfortable and secure opening up to. You will need to feel you can discuss your feelings, in confidence without being judged. The feedback I get, is that people quickly feel at ease with me and are able to talk easily and freely in a secure environment.
I offer face to face and online appointments and work with couples and individuals.
Hi, my name is Sarah. I believe that for counselling to be successful, It is important to find the right person for you. Someone you can connect with and feel comfortable and secure opening up to. You will need to feel you can discuss your feelings, in confidence without being judged. The feedback I get, is that people quickly feel at ease with me and are able to talk easily and freely in a secure environment.
01737 926181 View 01737 926181
Photo of Elizabeth Shaw, Psychotherapist in Kenley, England
Elizabeth Shaw
Psychotherapist, MA, MBACP
Verified Verified
Croydon CR0
Life is often confusing, painful and overwhelming.  Therapy can provide a safe space to explore these feelings and manage them. Hi I’m Liz. I am a Relational Integrative Psychotherapist.  I can draw on a variety of therapeutic styles to meet your unique needs. I aim to provide a supportive, empathic and non-judgemental relationship, through which you can better understand yourself. I am here to listen. If you choose to call you can expect an initial consultation in which we will establish what you would like to address and whether you would like to work with me.
Life is often confusing, painful and overwhelming.  Therapy can provide a safe space to explore these feelings and manage them. Hi I’m Liz. I am a Relational Integrative Psychotherapist.  I can draw on a variety of therapeutic styles to meet your unique needs. I aim to provide a supportive, empathic and non-judgemental relationship, through which you can better understand yourself. I am here to listen. If you choose to call you can expect an initial consultation in which we will establish what you would like to address and whether you would like to work with me.
01242 503626 View 01242 503626
Photo of Doreen Jacobs, Counsellor in Kenley, England
Doreen Jacobs
Counsellor, MSc, MBACP
Verified Verified
Croydon CR0
I am a psychotherapist/counsellor with a background in crisis and clinical mental health. I have worked with couples and individuals with a wide range of concerns including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, life transitions, career challenges as well as physical trauma and/or emotional abuse. I believe in treating everyone with respect, and meet/work with my clients where they are. My approach combines cognitive-behavioral, existential, and person-centered
I am a psychotherapist/counsellor with a background in crisis and clinical mental health. I have worked with couples and individuals with a wide range of concerns including depression, anxiety, relationship issues, life transitions, career challenges as well as physical trauma and/or emotional abuse. I believe in treating everyone with respect, and meet/work with my clients where they are. My approach combines cognitive-behavioral, existential, and person-centered
0121 817 7086 View 0121 817 7086
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Therapy Works Surrey
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Whyteleafe CR3
Therapy Works Surrey, provides a private Counselling and Psychotherapy service Old Coulsdon, previously Caterham. In general, counselling and psychotherapy can help you achieve a happier and more fulfilling life by bringing about changes in the way you think and behave. Improving your Mental Health, balancing mind and Wellbeing. Offering short and longer-term individual counselling, psychotherapy & couples counselling; to help with your personal issues by tailoring her integrative skills to meet your needs & goals.The practice ensures you are provided with the best standard of care.
Therapy Works Surrey, provides a private Counselling and Psychotherapy service Old Coulsdon, previously Caterham. In general, counselling and psychotherapy can help you achieve a happier and more fulfilling life by bringing about changes in the way you think and behave. Improving your Mental Health, balancing mind and Wellbeing. Offering short and longer-term individual counselling, psychotherapy & couples counselling; to help with your personal issues by tailoring her integrative skills to meet your needs & goals.The practice ensures you are provided with the best standard of care.
01883 772965 View 01883 772965
Photo of Jason Valenti, Counsellor in Kenley, England
Jason Valenti
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
South Croydon CR2
Thanks for looking at my profile. I am a highly experienced counsellor, seeing individuals, couples and teenagers. What makes someone choose a counsellor, because it seems we all pretty much offer the same therapies. Is it the warm photograph to promote ourselves or the letters after our name. At this point most people have stopped reading, but if you continue you may see how I can help you.
Thanks for looking at my profile. I am a highly experienced counsellor, seeing individuals, couples and teenagers. What makes someone choose a counsellor, because it seems we all pretty much offer the same therapies. Is it the warm photograph to promote ourselves or the letters after our name. At this point most people have stopped reading, but if you continue you may see how I can help you.
01883 779995 View 01883 779995
Photo of Revive Therapy, Psychotherapist in Kenley, England
Revive Therapy
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Croydon CR0
Are you struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, grief/loss or relationship difficulties? At Revive Therapy we provide a warm and inviting space for you to explore your challenges and changes that you want to make in your life. Our sessions are non-judgmental, where you are free to be yourself and to discover your potential. We understand that life can be challenging at times and that we all go through periods of difficulty. Whatever the issue that you are facing, you are not alone. Revive Therapy is experienced in supporting our clients to make that transformational change.
Are you struggling with anxiety, depression, trauma, grief/loss or relationship difficulties? At Revive Therapy we provide a warm and inviting space for you to explore your challenges and changes that you want to make in your life. Our sessions are non-judgmental, where you are free to be yourself and to discover your potential. We understand that life can be challenging at times and that we all go through periods of difficulty. Whatever the issue that you are facing, you are not alone. Revive Therapy is experienced in supporting our clients to make that transformational change.
020 4538 6940 View 020 4538 6940
Photo of Anthony Donohue Counselling & Psychotherapy, Psychotherapist in Kenley, England
Anthony Donohue Counselling & Psychotherapy
Psychotherapist, MBACP
Verified Verified
Croydon CR0
Having been a client myself in the past, I have a strong appreciation of how difficult and painful life can be at times and the benefits of being able to explore what is going on for you in a totally non-judgmental, deeply empathic and confidential space, which is for you and you alone. I am an integrative counsellor and psychotherapist which means I am qualified and experienced in working with a range of strategies, techniques and modalities, depending on your specific needs with 16 years expc. The therapeutic relationship we will share is central to the work we will do together in order to help you explore and resolve your issues.
Having been a client myself in the past, I have a strong appreciation of how difficult and painful life can be at times and the benefits of being able to explore what is going on for you in a totally non-judgmental, deeply empathic and confidential space, which is for you and you alone. I am an integrative counsellor and psychotherapist which means I am qualified and experienced in working with a range of strategies, techniques and modalities, depending on your specific needs with 16 years expc. The therapeutic relationship we will share is central to the work we will do together in order to help you explore and resolve your issues.
07380 318240 View 07380 318240
Photo of Ewa Romanowska, Counsellor in Kenley, England
Ewa Romanowska
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
South Croydon CR2
I work face to face and online with individuals and couples.
I am fully qualified, BACP registered counsellor, psychotherapist and supervisor working with a wide range of issues. My approach is integrative drawing from Psychodynamic, Person-Centred, CBT, Gestalt and Attachment theory depending on the needs. I support my clients in understanding themselves and their experiences, help them leave difficult events in the past and change unhelpful patterns. By becoming aware of our behaviour, actions and inner conflicts, we are gaining a better understanding of why we are the way we are, and why we do the things we do, this leads relieve in suffering, peace and happiness.
I work face to face and online with individuals and couples.
I am fully qualified, BACP registered counsellor, psychotherapist and supervisor working with a wide range of issues. My approach is integrative drawing from Psychodynamic, Person-Centred, CBT, Gestalt and Attachment theory depending on the needs. I support my clients in understanding themselves and their experiences, help them leave difficult events in the past and change unhelpful patterns. By becoming aware of our behaviour, actions and inner conflicts, we are gaining a better understanding of why we are the way we are, and why we do the things we do, this leads relieve in suffering, peace and happiness.
01798 306639 View 01798 306639
Photo of Jill Le Jeune, Psychotherapist in Kenley, England
Jill Le Jeune
Psychotherapist, COSRT General
Verified Verified
Croydon CR0
As a Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist I specialise in helping clients build healthy relationships and improve their sexual wellbeing through talking therapy. I work with individuals presenting with a broad range of psychosexual presentations by creating a safe space to enable them to gain a greater understanding of the issues and by developing the tools by which they can find a path forward. I have experience working with a diverse range of relationships, helping clients navigate through challenging times to establish a relationship in which they can thrive.
As a Psychosexual and Relationship Therapist I specialise in helping clients build healthy relationships and improve their sexual wellbeing through talking therapy. I work with individuals presenting with a broad range of psychosexual presentations by creating a safe space to enable them to gain a greater understanding of the issues and by developing the tools by which they can find a path forward. I have experience working with a diverse range of relationships, helping clients navigate through challenging times to establish a relationship in which they can thrive.
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Photo of Marijke Roberts, Counsellor in Kenley, England
Marijke Roberts
Counsellor, MNCPS Acc.
Verified Verified
Carshalton SM5
Hello, I am Marijke. I have many years of experience in working with different people from all walks of life. First as a social worker, and in the past few years as a psychotherapeutic counsellor. I work with adults, teenagers and couples. I can help you work through any areas in your life where you feel “stuck” and where you experience problems, like anxiety and depression, addiction, phobias, Post Traumatic Stress, feelings of low self-worth and low self-esteem, or problems in your relationship.
Hello, I am Marijke. I have many years of experience in working with different people from all walks of life. First as a social worker, and in the past few years as a psychotherapeutic counsellor. I work with adults, teenagers and couples. I can help you work through any areas in your life where you feel “stuck” and where you experience problems, like anxiety and depression, addiction, phobias, Post Traumatic Stress, feelings of low self-worth and low self-esteem, or problems in your relationship.
01260 542116 View 01260 542116
Photo of Eleanor Osman, Psychotherapist in Kenley, England
Eleanor Osman
Psychotherapist, MSc, MUKCP
Verified Verified
Croydon CR0
Hello, I am Eleanor, Systemic Psychotherapist & Supervisor, I work with individuals, couples & families. Life is painful, challenging & puzzling at times. Some people come to therapy knowing what they wish to change, some want to explore their discomfort & pain. I offer a safe, confidential, respectful & collaborative space tailored to your needs. I integrate talking, creative approaches, parenting coaching & psychoeducation to explore your difficulties. Together we can discover new ways to understand, manage or find resolution so you can move forwards towards a more satisfying life with a deeper understanding of yourself & others.
Hello, I am Eleanor, Systemic Psychotherapist & Supervisor, I work with individuals, couples & families. Life is painful, challenging & puzzling at times. Some people come to therapy knowing what they wish to change, some want to explore their discomfort & pain. I offer a safe, confidential, respectful & collaborative space tailored to your needs. I integrate talking, creative approaches, parenting coaching & psychoeducation to explore your difficulties. Together we can discover new ways to understand, manage or find resolution so you can move forwards towards a more satisfying life with a deeper understanding of yourself & others.
01883 779219 View 01883 779219
Photo of Sonia Freeman, Psychotherapist in Kenley, England
Sonia Freeman
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Wallington SM6
I am a BACP Accredited counsellor and psychotherapist with experience working with adults. I offer a warm, empathic, non judgemental and confidential space for you to talk freely of your concerns and explore the nature of the difficulties you are experiencing. My aim is to work alongside you to help you gain a deeper understanding in yourself encouraging the healing process. In my work with couples I introduce elements of Emotionally Focused Therapy, a structured approach based on attachment theory, helping couples to understand and respond to each other's needs effectively. I practice in Sutton SM2
I am a BACP Accredited counsellor and psychotherapist with experience working with adults. I offer a warm, empathic, non judgemental and confidential space for you to talk freely of your concerns and explore the nature of the difficulties you are experiencing. My aim is to work alongside you to help you gain a deeper understanding in yourself encouraging the healing process. In my work with couples I introduce elements of Emotionally Focused Therapy, a structured approach based on attachment theory, helping couples to understand and respond to each other's needs effectively. I practice in Sutton SM2
01798 305087 View 01798 305087
Photo of Saira Webster, Counsellor in Kenley, England
Saira Webster
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Croydon CR0
I have experience working with teenagers, adults, couples and families.
I'm a qualified Integrative Counsellor and an individual member with BACP - the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy. I work with a humanistic approach. I offer a 15 minutes free consultation to understand your needs and how we might work together.  My aim is to offer you a safe and confidential space where you are able to explore your thoughts and feelings freely.  I will work with you, at your pace and enable you to see and develop towards the outcome that you want to achieve.
I have experience working with teenagers, adults, couples and families.
I'm a qualified Integrative Counsellor and an individual member with BACP - the British Association of Counselling and Psychotherapy. I work with a humanistic approach. I offer a 15 minutes free consultation to understand your needs and how we might work together.  My aim is to offer you a safe and confidential space where you are able to explore your thoughts and feelings freely.  I will work with you, at your pace and enable you to see and develop towards the outcome that you want to achieve.
020 3984 7614 View 020 3984 7614
Photo of Pia Hansen, Counsellor in Kenley, England
Pia Hansen
Counsellor, MBACP
Verified Verified
Croydon CR0  (Online Only)
I offer online couple/relationship sessions on Zoom or Skype.
Right now, as you read this, you are likely not in a good place. You may be feeling distressed and hopeless or overwhelmed. This may have been going on for a long time and you may have tried to cope in different ways - but it's no longer working? You have tried talking to friends and family but that isn't working either? Maybe there are things that happened a long time ago in your childhood and this is still affecting you today - therapy can be a place to begin to look at all of this and can be the start of beginning to feel better and with improving self-esteem.
I offer online couple/relationship sessions on Zoom or Skype.
Right now, as you read this, you are likely not in a good place. You may be feeling distressed and hopeless or overwhelmed. This may have been going on for a long time and you may have tried to cope in different ways - but it's no longer working? You have tried talking to friends and family but that isn't working either? Maybe there are things that happened a long time ago in your childhood and this is still affecting you today - therapy can be a place to begin to look at all of this and can be the start of beginning to feel better and with improving self-esteem.
01798 305037 View 01798 305037
Photo of Dr S (Hilltop Psychology), Psychologist in Kenley, England
Dr S (Hilltop Psychology)
Psychologist, HCPC - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
South Croydon CR2
Parenting a child with emotional or behavioural problems is difficult. It's hard when they are struggling with anxiety or low mood, or showing fearful, sad or clingy behaviour that you just can't seem to help them with. They may have ADHD, sleep or behaviour issues, needing you to adapt your parenting - but you've tried everything and nothing has worked. These issues are understandably going to be affecting your home life, relationship, mood or confidence. It can feel isolating and lonely dealing with these every day challenges. A safe, nonjudgmental space with an experienced clinician can be transformative for you and your child.
Parenting a child with emotional or behavioural problems is difficult. It's hard when they are struggling with anxiety or low mood, or showing fearful, sad or clingy behaviour that you just can't seem to help them with. They may have ADHD, sleep or behaviour issues, needing you to adapt your parenting - but you've tried everything and nothing has worked. These issues are understandably going to be affecting your home life, relationship, mood or confidence. It can feel isolating and lonely dealing with these every day challenges. A safe, nonjudgmental space with an experienced clinician can be transformative for you and your child.
020 3835 5487 View 020 3835 5487
Photo of Jennifer Gama, Counsellor in Kenley, England
Jennifer Gama
Counsellor, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Croydon CR0
Re-search has proved it is the relationship between client and therapist which is funda-mental for a successful outcome.
Welcome to my profile. I believe that you are the expert of your story and that you have many strengths that will assist you in overcoming things that challenge you. Sometimes life can be a struggle and reaching out can be daunting, it can be helpful to talk with someone that is not connected to your life or the difficulties you are facing. Taking the first step to sign up for therapy can take courage and I am proud of you for getting started!
Re-search has proved it is the relationship between client and therapist which is funda-mental for a successful outcome.
Welcome to my profile. I believe that you are the expert of your story and that you have many strengths that will assist you in overcoming things that challenge you. Sometimes life can be a struggle and reaching out can be daunting, it can be helpful to talk with someone that is not connected to your life or the difficulties you are facing. Taking the first step to sign up for therapy can take courage and I am proud of you for getting started!
020 3763 8665 View 020 3763 8665
Photo of Kate Megase, Psychotherapist in Kenley, England
Kate Megase
Psychotherapist, MBACP Accred
Verified Verified
Croydon CR9
I am a psychotherapist specialising in couple and relationship therapy. I also work with individuals and I provide clinical supervision to other therapists. I am the author of a self-help book called Dump the Baggage. I specialise in issues associated with: Couples and relationship therapy, Anxiety/Depression, Trauma, and Low self-esteem. I am committed to providing an excellent service to help my clients: Develop healthy relationships, Fulfil overall therapeutic goals within six sessions, and Provide clear techniques and strategies along with unique ways and ideas to treat stress, anxiety and depression & Improve self-esteem.
I am a psychotherapist specialising in couple and relationship therapy. I also work with individuals and I provide clinical supervision to other therapists. I am the author of a self-help book called Dump the Baggage. I specialise in issues associated with: Couples and relationship therapy, Anxiety/Depression, Trauma, and Low self-esteem. I am committed to providing an excellent service to help my clients: Develop healthy relationships, Fulfil overall therapeutic goals within six sessions, and Provide clear techniques and strategies along with unique ways and ideas to treat stress, anxiety and depression & Improve self-esteem.
01798 305047 View 01798 305047

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Couples Counselling

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.