Depression Therapists in Pendleton, SC

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Kate Bowen Morse
Licensed Professional Counselor Associate, MA, LCSW
Verified Verified
Pendleton, SC 29670
At The Well Center, we believe you deserve specialized care. I work with adults, teens, and children feeling stuck in patterns that are no longer serving them. This often shows up as anxiety, worry, panic, depression, self-criticism, grief, relationship difficulties, trauma, indecisiveness, perinatal concerns, and major life stress.
At The Well Center, we believe you deserve specialized care. I work with adults, teens, and children feeling stuck in patterns that are no longer serving them. This often shows up as anxiety, worry, panic, depression, self-criticism, grief, relationship difficulties, trauma, indecisiveness, perinatal concerns, and major life stress.
(864) 727-7008 View (864) 727-7008
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Michele Davenport
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, MEd
Verified Verified
Pendleton, SC 29670
We all have difficult times in our lives, and our reactions and thoughts can lead to or exacerbate anxiety, depression, and other unhealthy disorders. I work with teens and up, and I have extensive experience working with college students to help them find balance, motivation, and overcome their fears of "adulting." I use CBT, REBT and Reality Therapy. I believe it's not so much about negative experiences we have as it is about our ideas about these experiences. I teach how to reframe, set boundaries, and change how clients perceive situations to help reduce or remove negative emotions so they can live full and happy lives.
We all have difficult times in our lives, and our reactions and thoughts can lead to or exacerbate anxiety, depression, and other unhealthy disorders. I work with teens and up, and I have extensive experience working with college students to help them find balance, motivation, and overcome their fears of "adulting." I use CBT, REBT and Reality Therapy. I believe it's not so much about negative experiences we have as it is about our ideas about these experiences. I teach how to reframe, set boundaries, and change how clients perceive situations to help reduce or remove negative emotions so they can live full and happy lives.
(864) 214-2709 View (864) 214-2709
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Katherine Peregrina Gustine
LPC Associate, MEd, EdS, LPCA, NCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Pendleton, SC 29670
As a counselor, I am deeply committed to helping adults overcome their emotional challenges and find new paths to healing and growth. I am passionate about working with individuals who are coping with anxiety and depression or simply adjusting to new phases in life. As a former first responder, I am also dedicated to working with first responders, active military personnel, and veterans and their families. This population is particularly close to my heart, and I am honored to support those who have dedicated their lives to serving others. Together, we will work towards building resilience and finding hope for a brighter future.
As a counselor, I am deeply committed to helping adults overcome their emotional challenges and find new paths to healing and growth. I am passionate about working with individuals who are coping with anxiety and depression or simply adjusting to new phases in life. As a former first responder, I am also dedicated to working with first responders, active military personnel, and veterans and their families. This population is particularly close to my heart, and I am honored to support those who have dedicated their lives to serving others. Together, we will work towards building resilience and finding hope for a brighter future.
(864) 732-7618 View (864) 732-7618
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Christopher Grandits
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Pendleton, SC 29670
Christopher Grandits is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and the Owner/Director of Thriving Point Therapy. Psychotherapy can offer a chance to turn your breaking point into your thriving point. Everyone deserves to thrive, and Thriving Point provides state of the art evidence-based treatment in a kind, caring, and healing environment. We welcome people from all ethnicities, faiths, identities, and belief systems.
Christopher Grandits is a Licensed Clinical Psychologist and the Owner/Director of Thriving Point Therapy. Psychotherapy can offer a chance to turn your breaking point into your thriving point. Everyone deserves to thrive, and Thriving Point provides state of the art evidence-based treatment in a kind, caring, and healing environment. We welcome people from all ethnicities, faiths, identities, and belief systems.
(864) 531-5435 View (864) 531-5435
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Brianna Hall
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Pendleton, SC 29670
In relationships, it can be difficult to achieve the perfect balance between stability and excitement. Perhaps you feel like your relationship is at a crossroads or has become stagnant. Perhaps you are trying to heal from pain and repair the levels of fairness and trust in your relationship.
In relationships, it can be difficult to achieve the perfect balance between stability and excitement. Perhaps you feel like your relationship is at a crossroads or has become stagnant. Perhaps you are trying to heal from pain and repair the levels of fairness and trust in your relationship.
(864) 514-5688 View (864) 514-5688
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Cheryl Smart
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LISW-CP
Verified Verified
Pendleton, SC 29670
Not accepting new clients
I work with trauma from childhood and adulthood, depression, anxiety and panic, health issues that are impacting your quality of life, stress, and life transitions.
I truly believe there is an innate wisdom in each of us waiting to be heard. We are designed to heal and to evolve. My goal is to engage with you in exploring what you want to achieve and understand what is in the way of your success. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker practicing in Seneca SC. I have been providing professional counseling services for over 30 years. My approach is integrative with the intention of working with what resonates with you. I believe it is our nature is to seek connection, a sense of belonging, and happiness.
I work with trauma from childhood and adulthood, depression, anxiety and panic, health issues that are impacting your quality of life, stress, and life transitions.
I truly believe there is an innate wisdom in each of us waiting to be heard. We are designed to heal and to evolve. My goal is to engage with you in exploring what you want to achieve and understand what is in the way of your success. I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker practicing in Seneca SC. I have been providing professional counseling services for over 30 years. My approach is integrative with the intention of working with what resonates with you. I believe it is our nature is to seek connection, a sense of belonging, and happiness.
(864) 571-1858 View (864) 571-1858

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Zoie Alexander Walker
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Anderson, SC 29621
I utilize Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to treat depression, anxiety, anger issues, self-esteem issues, women's issues, behavioral issues, and more.
I am currently accepting NEW children and teenagers! Welcome! I haven't met you yet, but I am proud of you for taking the first step towards mental wellness for yourself or your daughter. You may have ended up here seeking help for your daughter because she is not as happy as she once was. You've read countless articles and books, yet your concerns continue to grow as your daughter's challenges persist. Or perhaps you are a young woman struggling to manage the responsibilities of life while battling insecurity, anxious thoughts that won’t stop, and feelings of depression that are preventing you from living your best life.
I utilize Cognitive Behavioral Therapy to treat depression, anxiety, anger issues, self-esteem issues, women's issues, behavioral issues, and more.
I am currently accepting NEW children and teenagers! Welcome! I haven't met you yet, but I am proud of you for taking the first step towards mental wellness for yourself or your daughter. You may have ended up here seeking help for your daughter because she is not as happy as she once was. You've read countless articles and books, yet your concerns continue to grow as your daughter's challenges persist. Or perhaps you are a young woman struggling to manage the responsibilities of life while battling insecurity, anxious thoughts that won’t stop, and feelings of depression that are preventing you from living your best life.
(864) 548-9993 View (864) 548-9993
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Bespin Counseling Center
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPCS, LPC, NBCC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Clemson, SC 29631
** EVENING & WEEKEND APPOINTMENTS AVAILABLE ** ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS ** I have worked with Individuals and Family Systems since 2003. I enjoy working with family systems, parent child relationships, behavioral issues, anxiety, depression, and life transitions. Often times we can feel anxious or sad about some parts of our life and need someone to talk with about how we are feeling.
** EVENING & WEEKEND APPOINTMENTS AVAILABLE ** ACCEPTING NEW CLIENTS ** I have worked with Individuals and Family Systems since 2003. I enjoy working with family systems, parent child relationships, behavioral issues, anxiety, depression, and life transitions. Often times we can feel anxious or sad about some parts of our life and need someone to talk with about how we are feeling.
(864) 633-2967 View (864) 633-2967
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The Advanced Emotional Healing Institute
CCH, AEMT, PhD
Verified Verified
Central, SC 29630
Make your appointment today. Experience rapid relief for anxiety (adults and children) through advanced neurolinguistic techniques that do not require medication or endless talking. Be part of my 25 years of success and all 864-506-2994 to request an appointment. We can also address PTSD, depression, anger, frustration, low self esteem and generally feeling stuck with your life. Special rates available for veterans suffering from PTSD.
Make your appointment today. Experience rapid relief for anxiety (adults and children) through advanced neurolinguistic techniques that do not require medication or endless talking. Be part of my 25 years of success and all 864-506-2994 to request an appointment. We can also address PTSD, depression, anger, frustration, low self esteem and generally feeling stuck with your life. Special rates available for veterans suffering from PTSD.
(864) 832-0897 View (864) 832-0897
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Joann Ezra Gavalda
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA
Verified Verified
Anderson, SC 29621
At certain points in life, we all need support. Change is possible! As long as there is life, there is hope! Whether faced with a disappoint, daily stress, relationship conflict, addictive behavior, past trauma, or depression and anxiety, we all need help at times. Within the safety of a therapeutic relationship, I will be happy to join in your journey to help restore purpose, peace and balance to your life; to help you find strength to overcome challenges. I'm here to listen, to understand and to offer my professional knowledge, skills, and passion for life to YOU! It would be my privilege to help you find the solutions you seek.
At certain points in life, we all need support. Change is possible! As long as there is life, there is hope! Whether faced with a disappoint, daily stress, relationship conflict, addictive behavior, past trauma, or depression and anxiety, we all need help at times. Within the safety of a therapeutic relationship, I will be happy to join in your journey to help restore purpose, peace and balance to your life; to help you find strength to overcome challenges. I'm here to listen, to understand and to offer my professional knowledge, skills, and passion for life to YOU! It would be my privilege to help you find the solutions you seek.
(864) 252-1474 View (864) 252-1474
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Alyssa McKeeman
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, EdS, NCC, LPC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Clemson, SC 29631
Are you overwhelmed? Stressed out? Struggling to manage? I work with clients who are struggling with eating disorders, depression, anxiety, body image and self harming behaviors. I also see adolescents and adults who are having trouble adjusting, transitioning and managing stress. I believe full recovery is possible for everyone whether it's from an eating disorder or having self-defeating thoughts. Together we will work towards agreed upon goals that meet your needs and help you live at ease with yourself and the world around you.
Are you overwhelmed? Stressed out? Struggling to manage? I work with clients who are struggling with eating disorders, depression, anxiety, body image and self harming behaviors. I also see adolescents and adults who are having trouble adjusting, transitioning and managing stress. I believe full recovery is possible for everyone whether it's from an eating disorder or having self-defeating thoughts. Together we will work towards agreed upon goals that meet your needs and help you live at ease with yourself and the world around you.
(864) 633-2870 View (864) 633-2870
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Mary Ashley Allen
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, MA
Verified Verified
Clemson, SC 29631
I specialize in focuses like Grief/Loss, Depression, Anxiety, Spiritual Direction/Guidance, Integrating Spirituality and Psychology, Sexuality, Relationship Transitions, Early Adulthood.
If you receive an email from me, you’ll see my signature contains a certain phrase: “The best is yet to come." When you hear the phrase “the best is yet to come,” what comes to mind? Some may find themselves humming a tune by Tony Bennett. And if that was before your time, you may simply scoff at the naive hopefulness of the phrase. Then again, you may cry because you’re not sure you believe there are better days ahead. I will hold space and celebrate with you wherever you are. I have seen and known the highs and lows and middles in life, and I have experienced the transformational power of showing up just as you are.
I specialize in focuses like Grief/Loss, Depression, Anxiety, Spiritual Direction/Guidance, Integrating Spirituality and Psychology, Sexuality, Relationship Transitions, Early Adulthood.
If you receive an email from me, you’ll see my signature contains a certain phrase: “The best is yet to come." When you hear the phrase “the best is yet to come,” what comes to mind? Some may find themselves humming a tune by Tony Bennett. And if that was before your time, you may simply scoff at the naive hopefulness of the phrase. Then again, you may cry because you’re not sure you believe there are better days ahead. I will hold space and celebrate with you wherever you are. I have seen and known the highs and lows and middles in life, and I have experienced the transformational power of showing up just as you are.
(864) 653-1630 View (864) 653-1630
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Firm Foundations Counseling and Consulting, LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, MEd, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
Anderson, SC 29625
We specialize in mood disorder, such as depression and anxiety.
Firm Foundations, LLC is happy to serve your mental wellness needs. We provide quality counseling services in-person at our Duluth GA office and virtually via our safe and secure, HIPAA compliant online platform. Clients can participate in counseling from the comfort of their own home or office! Our services are based on core Christian values. We are committed to serving our clients with integrity, honesty and genuine care. Don't suffer in silence and don't go it alone. Call 864-686-8850 to schedule your session, or visit our website at www.firmfoundationllc.org. We can't wait to meet you!
We specialize in mood disorder, such as depression and anxiety.
Firm Foundations, LLC is happy to serve your mental wellness needs. We provide quality counseling services in-person at our Duluth GA office and virtually via our safe and secure, HIPAA compliant online platform. Clients can participate in counseling from the comfort of their own home or office! Our services are based on core Christian values. We are committed to serving our clients with integrity, honesty and genuine care. Don't suffer in silence and don't go it alone. Call 864-686-8850 to schedule your session, or visit our website at www.firmfoundationllc.org. We can't wait to meet you!
(803) 233-4447 View (803) 233-4447
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Sarah Allen
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC, CCTP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Clemson, SC 29631  (Online Only)
Has life got you feeling overwhelmed? Do you feel stressed and don't know what to do? I help client become the masters of their own lives again. I work with clients who are experiencing anxiety, depression, trauma, and self harming behaviors. I also work with clients who are adjusting to new circumstances in their lives, having difficulty managing stress, or trouble navigating relationships and interpersonal conflict. I help clients work to build skills to regulate their emotions and thoughts effectively to become their own therapists.
Has life got you feeling overwhelmed? Do you feel stressed and don't know what to do? I help client become the masters of their own lives again. I work with clients who are experiencing anxiety, depression, trauma, and self harming behaviors. I also work with clients who are adjusting to new circumstances in their lives, having difficulty managing stress, or trouble navigating relationships and interpersonal conflict. I help clients work to build skills to regulate their emotions and thoughts effectively to become their own therapists.
(864) 396-2151 View (864) 396-2151
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Beth Thompson
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Clemson, SC 29631
Waitlist for new clients
I believe that life is full of ups and downs, and sometimes people need help navigating through difficult times. If you are struggling, I would love to be the one to help you through this season of your life and provide you with skills that will help you become more resilient and confident. I specialize in treating children and adults struggling with depression, anxiety, trauma and problems with regulating emotions.
I believe that life is full of ups and downs, and sometimes people need help navigating through difficult times. If you are struggling, I would love to be the one to help you through this season of your life and provide you with skills that will help you become more resilient and confident. I specialize in treating children and adults struggling with depression, anxiety, trauma and problems with regulating emotions.
(864) 581-2781 View (864) 581-2781
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Bentley Gambrell, Foothills Family Counseling
Licensed Professional Counselor, MEd, LPC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Clemson, SC 29631
Foothills offers a range of services from individual, couples, and family to work with a range of issues from grief, change, mental health struggles, relationship stress, depression, anxiety, anger, and struggles with communication.
At Foothills Family Counseling our goal is to equip individuals with the opportunity to get to know themselves, how to communicate that to others, and have a healthier relationship with themselves and with the ones they love. Whether it is an issue in yourself, with your spouse, or children, we serve age 6 and up and provide spaces for children to play as they work toward their goals, a separate space for individual and couples counseling that provides a calm and relaxing environment for self-reflection and working through the hard stuff, and for families we have a large family room to spread out and allow space and comfort for all
Foothills offers a range of services from individual, couples, and family to work with a range of issues from grief, change, mental health struggles, relationship stress, depression, anxiety, anger, and struggles with communication.
At Foothills Family Counseling our goal is to equip individuals with the opportunity to get to know themselves, how to communicate that to others, and have a healthier relationship with themselves and with the ones they love. Whether it is an issue in yourself, with your spouse, or children, we serve age 6 and up and provide spaces for children to play as they work toward their goals, a separate space for individual and couples counseling that provides a calm and relaxing environment for self-reflection and working through the hard stuff, and for families we have a large family room to spread out and allow space and comfort for all
(864) 523-6093 View (864) 523-6093
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Reedy River Counseling Associates
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Clemson, SC 29631
Our mission is to provide integrated counseling and nutrition services with a wholehearted approach to help people overcome disordered eating, eating disorders, depression, anxiety, and other clinical issues. Our hope is to empower each of our clients to thrive as they were created.
Our mission is to provide integrated counseling and nutrition services with a wholehearted approach to help people overcome disordered eating, eating disorders, depression, anxiety, and other clinical issues. Our hope is to empower each of our clients to thrive as they were created.
(864) 606-3461 View (864) 606-3461
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Elaine H Hiott
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPCS, PhD
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Clemson, SC 29631
Waitlist for new clients
Anxiety, depression, transitions, problems in relationships, or simply struggling to get through the day can be a challenge, often leaving us feeling overwhelmed, lonely, sad, or afraid. While these feelings are uncomfortable, they are often normal responses to life events. Still, it can be a lot to manage alone. I'm glad you stopped by to visit my profile. Whether your issues are related to life events or serious mental illness, you deserve to feel better and find peace of mind.
Anxiety, depression, transitions, problems in relationships, or simply struggling to get through the day can be a challenge, often leaving us feeling overwhelmed, lonely, sad, or afraid. While these feelings are uncomfortable, they are often normal responses to life events. Still, it can be a lot to manage alone. I'm glad you stopped by to visit my profile. Whether your issues are related to life events or serious mental illness, you deserve to feel better and find peace of mind.
(864) 507-9132 View (864) 507-9132
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Kellie Lassig
Licensed Professional Counselor, MS, LPC
Verified Verified
Anderson, SC 29621  (Online Only)
Hello! I'm Kellie, and I am a licensed professional counselor (LPC). I am licensed in both Georgia and South Carolina. Some of the individuals I work with are those who have experienced anxiety, depression, stress, social anxiety, and/or other life changes/adjustments. I am a big believer in identifying what works for each individual. No single person is the same as another. I do my best to meet clients where they are and also work to provide a safe, open, and non-judgmental environment for them.
Hello! I'm Kellie, and I am a licensed professional counselor (LPC). I am licensed in both Georgia and South Carolina. Some of the individuals I work with are those who have experienced anxiety, depression, stress, social anxiety, and/or other life changes/adjustments. I am a big believer in identifying what works for each individual. No single person is the same as another. I do my best to meet clients where they are and also work to provide a safe, open, and non-judgmental environment for them.
(864) 351-4206 View (864) 351-4206
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Genesis Counseling Services, LLC
Licensed Professional Counselor, LPC, LAC, AADC, MAC, C-TFCBT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Anderson, SC 29625
Waitlist for new clients
We specialize in Trauma, Depression, Anxiety, Addictions, and managing life stressors, but are also experienced in treating various mental health conditions.
Is there a problem or situation that is causing you problems, stress, or concern? Are there things that are affecting your day to day life or the people and things you care about? Do you feel alone in this struggle and desire relief? We are here to help you start and walk your path of recovery to find serenity and happiness. Recovery is a wonderful, productive lifestyle of utilizing your strengths, abilities, awareness, and skills so that you grow and blossom day by day, and step by step. We can help you on this journey through use of counseling and therapy services.
We specialize in Trauma, Depression, Anxiety, Addictions, and managing life stressors, but are also experienced in treating various mental health conditions.
Is there a problem or situation that is causing you problems, stress, or concern? Are there things that are affecting your day to day life or the people and things you care about? Do you feel alone in this struggle and desire relief? We are here to help you start and walk your path of recovery to find serenity and happiness. Recovery is a wonderful, productive lifestyle of utilizing your strengths, abilities, awareness, and skills so that you grow and blossom day by day, and step by step. We can help you on this journey through use of counseling and therapy services.
(864) 515-6440 View (864) 515-6440

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Depression Therapists

What is the goal of therapy for depression?

Therapy for depression has several major goals. One is to relieve the mental pain of depression, which distorts feeling and thinking so that sufferers cannot see beyond their current state of mind or envision feeling better. Another is to give people the mental tools to recognize and correct the kinds of distorted thinking that turn a problem into a catastrophe and lead to despair. Therapy also teaches people how to process negative emotions in constructive ways, so they have more control over their own emotional reactivity. And it helps people regain the ability to see themselves positively, the motivation to do things, and the capacity for pleasure.

What happens in therapy for depression?

Perhaps most important, no matter the type of therapy, patients form an alliance with the therapist; that connection is therapeutic in itself, plus it becomes an instrument of change. Patients learn to identify and to challenge their own erroneous beliefs and thoughts that amplify the effects of negative experiences. They learn to identify situations in which they are especially vulnerable. And they learn new patterns of thinking and behaving. They may be given “homework” assignments in which they practice their developing skills. In addition, good therapists regularly monitor patients to assess whether and how much the condition is improving.

What therapy types help with depression?

Several types of short-term therapy have been found effective, each targeting one or more areas of dysfunction. Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT) helps clients challenge their negative thoughts and beliefs, learn new behavioral strategies, and curb reactivity to distressing situations. Behavioral activation (BA) is a form of therapy often used in conjunction with CBT; it focuses on engagement in rewarding activity as a pathway to changing negative feelings and disturbed mood. Another widely used approach is interpersonal therapy (IPT), which targets the social difficulties that both give rise to and get exacerbated by depression. Therapists may combine approaches as needed.

Can therapy for depression be done online?

Studies have found that online therapy can be highly effective for treating depression, although it may be more challenging to build a good therapist-patient alliance on screen than in person—at least at first. However, online therapy can offer considerable advantages. Accessibility and convenience are tops among them. Some people actually find it easier to talk about problems online than in person. While online therapy typically limits visibility of facial expression and body gestures that give important nonverbal cues to a patient’s state of mind, it can give therapists a glimpse into a patient’s world and life, providing information that can be highly useful in guiding therapy.

How effective is therapy for depression?

Many studies show that therapy is highly effective provided that patients complete the prescribed course of therapy, commonly 16 to 20 sessions. Over the long term, it is more effective than medication and the effects are more enduring. As a result, psychotherapy has the power not just to relieve current suffering but to prevent future episodes of the disorder. Therapy reverses the dysfunction in neural circuitry that disposes individuals to a negative view of themselves, the world, and their future and they acquire coping techniques, problem-solving skills, and understanding of their own vulnerabilities that are useful over the course of a lifetime.