Photo of Cole (Nicole) Schulz, Counselor in Shirley, NY
Cole (Nicole) Schulz
Counselor, LMHC, CCTP
Verified Verified
Shirley, NY 11967  (Online Only)
Specialties include Gender issues, adolescents, anger, trauma, anxiety, depression, LGBTQ, sexuality/intimacy issues, couples/marriage counseling, and addictions.
Thank you for looking at my page and congratulations on taking the first step in the changes you seek. Therapy is an intimate and trusting journey and the most important factor is your comfort level with your therapist. I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor who has been in practice for over 22 years. I am an easy listener who enjoys using creative approaches to help you move toward your goals with confidence. My Team, Creative Concepts Counseling, has had great success with both individuals and couples counseling (non-traditional couples especially) and we look forward to working with you. Also offering Clinical Supervision.
Specialties include Gender issues, adolescents, anger, trauma, anxiety, depression, LGBTQ, sexuality/intimacy issues, couples/marriage counseling, and addictions.
Thank you for looking at my page and congratulations on taking the first step in the changes you seek. Therapy is an intimate and trusting journey and the most important factor is your comfort level with your therapist. I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor who has been in practice for over 22 years. I am an easy listener who enjoys using creative approaches to help you move toward your goals with confidence. My Team, Creative Concepts Counseling, has had great success with both individuals and couples counseling (non-traditional couples especially) and we look forward to working with you. Also offering Clinical Supervision.
(631) 721-4101 View (631) 721-4101
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John Bruno
Counselor, LMHC, CASAC, NCC, SAP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Shirley, NY 11967
I have been successful in helping client's reach their full potential when struggling with life events that can lead to anxiety, depression, insomnia, PTSD, addiction, and marital conflicts. When confronted with life stressors, many humans have the tendency to stuff their emotions with drug, alcohol, and food addictions which negatively impact their life and loved ones. I look forward to helping you navigate life's journey and embracing the mind, body, and soul experience in order to work towards a harmonious and rewarding life. Together we can make lasting changes for a healthier lifetime, however the choice is yours!
I have been successful in helping client's reach their full potential when struggling with life events that can lead to anxiety, depression, insomnia, PTSD, addiction, and marital conflicts. When confronted with life stressors, many humans have the tendency to stuff their emotions with drug, alcohol, and food addictions which negatively impact their life and loved ones. I look forward to helping you navigate life's journey and embracing the mind, body, and soul experience in order to work towards a harmonious and rewarding life. Together we can make lasting changes for a healthier lifetime, however the choice is yours!
(516) 243-8035 View (516) 243-8035
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Heather M Ortiz
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Shirley, NY 11967  (Online Only)
With the many ups and downs of life, we can all benefit from some additional support. My goal as a therapist is to help you identify your core values and create the positive change you desire.
With the many ups and downs of life, we can all benefit from some additional support. My goal as a therapist is to help you identify your core values and create the positive change you desire.
(631) 800-7687 View (631) 800-7687
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Joan Stong
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CASAC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Shirley, NY 11967
Joan has worked in many areas of the behavioral health field giving her the unique ability to work and connect with individuals, couples, and families of all ages, backgrounds and life experiences. She has extensive experience working with those experiencing depression, anxiety, trauma, family conflict mediation and resolution, grief/loss, couples, stress management, work/school-related pressures and the LGTBQ+ community. One of Joan’s specialties is working with adult children of alcoholics (ACOA) and individuals with substance use disorders and their families, recognizing the impact that addiction has on the entire family dynamic.
Joan has worked in many areas of the behavioral health field giving her the unique ability to work and connect with individuals, couples, and families of all ages, backgrounds and life experiences. She has extensive experience working with those experiencing depression, anxiety, trauma, family conflict mediation and resolution, grief/loss, couples, stress management, work/school-related pressures and the LGTBQ+ community. One of Joan’s specialties is working with adult children of alcoholics (ACOA) and individuals with substance use disorders and their families, recognizing the impact that addiction has on the entire family dynamic.
(631) 336-9990 View (631) 336-9990
Photo of Alexis Martinez, Pre-Licensed Professional in Shirley, NY
Alexis Martinez
Pre-Licensed Professional, MHC, MA
Verified Verified
Shirley, NY 11967
Waitlist for new clients
Stress comes in many shades, regardless of what we face, with no discrepancies of importance, changing how we feel begins with changing our perspective. I aim to guide you through these life challenges and rebuild the mindset that these negative encounters have influenced.
Stress comes in many shades, regardless of what we face, with no discrepancies of importance, changing how we feel begins with changing our perspective. I aim to guide you through these life challenges and rebuild the mindset that these negative encounters have influenced.
(631) 994-1950 View (631) 994-1950
Photo of Alexandria Gonzalez, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Shirley, NY
Alexandria Gonzalez
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW, CASAC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Shirley, NY 11967  (Online Only)
You deserve a life of happiness, abundance, and peace! Many people see therapy as that one-sided conversation laying on that stereotypical couch we see in movies. Therapy doesn't have to be a painful or intimidating thing! My goal is to help you be the version of you that YOU want. You are capable of achieving whatever solutions and life changes you are looking for while enjoying the process and experiencing yourself in new ways.
You deserve a life of happiness, abundance, and peace! Many people see therapy as that one-sided conversation laying on that stereotypical couch we see in movies. Therapy doesn't have to be a painful or intimidating thing! My goal is to help you be the version of you that YOU want. You are capable of achieving whatever solutions and life changes you are looking for while enjoying the process and experiencing yourself in new ways.
(516) 518-7445 View (516) 518-7445

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Katie Newman
Master Social Work, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Patchogue, NY 11772
Katie specializes in providing assistance to clients with a wide range of mental health diagnosis, such as Eating Disorders, Anxiety and Depressive Disorders, Intimate Partner Violence/Domestic Violence, and Social-Relational problems. She enjoys using multiple interventions that best suit her client’s specific needs, such as CBT/DBT, Motivational Interviewing, Systemic Therapy, and Couples/Marriage Therapy. Katie always makes sure to ensure her clients feel secure throughout their therapeutic experience with her, and makes it her mission to help them continue to grow and thrive in their everyday lives.
Katie specializes in providing assistance to clients with a wide range of mental health diagnosis, such as Eating Disorders, Anxiety and Depressive Disorders, Intimate Partner Violence/Domestic Violence, and Social-Relational problems. She enjoys using multiple interventions that best suit her client’s specific needs, such as CBT/DBT, Motivational Interviewing, Systemic Therapy, and Couples/Marriage Therapy. Katie always makes sure to ensure her clients feel secure throughout their therapeutic experience with her, and makes it her mission to help them continue to grow and thrive in their everyday lives.
(631) 886-4029 View (631) 886-4029
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Serenity Counseling LCSW, LLC
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Medford, NY 11763
I work with children, adolescents, families, adults and seniors through individual, family, couples and marital counseling. I work with clients who have been abused, traumatized, neglected and are struggling and attempting to cope with issues of depression, anxiety, ADHD, separation anxiety, anger management, co-dependence, adolescence, preparing and moving to college, family stressors and dynamics, parenting, divorce, co-parenting, school issues, employment issues, job loss, retirement, grief, and alienation.
I work with children, adolescents, families, adults and seniors through individual, family, couples and marital counseling. I work with clients who have been abused, traumatized, neglected and are struggling and attempting to cope with issues of depression, anxiety, ADHD, separation anxiety, anger management, co-dependence, adolescence, preparing and moving to college, family stressors and dynamics, parenting, divorce, co-parenting, school issues, employment issues, job loss, retirement, grief, and alienation.
(941) 231-5012 View (941) 231-5012
Photo of Alicia Bedward, Marriage & Family Therapist in Shirley, NY
Alicia Bedward
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
Patchogue, NY 11772
Hey there! If you're reading this, I want to commend you for taking the first step! My name is Alicia and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. My approach to therapy is collaborative, so I fully welcome your input in the session. I believe in meeting you where you are so we can get to where you need to be. I utilize a systemic viewpoint, meaning that together, we consider all the aspects and/or environments in which you interact, to understand how you're affected and how I can best help you.
Hey there! If you're reading this, I want to commend you for taking the first step! My name is Alicia and I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. My approach to therapy is collaborative, so I fully welcome your input in the session. I believe in meeting you where you are so we can get to where you need to be. I utilize a systemic viewpoint, meaning that together, we consider all the aspects and/or environments in which you interact, to understand how you're affected and how I can best help you.
(347) 236-3596 View (347) 236-3596
Photo of Diane Marascia, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Shirley, NY
Diane Marascia
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bayport, NY 11705
I enjoy helping people overcome the obstacles they are facing in their life through brief, goal directed marital and individual therapy. I have been treating individuals, couples and families for the last 40 years in both private practice as well as in other mental health setting and my experience includes working with preteens, adolescents, young adults and as well as adults who are experiencing depression, anxiety and substance abuse issues. I also have experience teaching parenting classes and on coaching parents to develop new ways to deal with problems their children may be experiencing i.e.,behavioral, academic, mental health concerns.
I enjoy helping people overcome the obstacles they are facing in their life through brief, goal directed marital and individual therapy. I have been treating individuals, couples and families for the last 40 years in both private practice as well as in other mental health setting and my experience includes working with preteens, adolescents, young adults and as well as adults who are experiencing depression, anxiety and substance abuse issues. I also have experience teaching parenting classes and on coaching parents to develop new ways to deal with problems their children may be experiencing i.e.,behavioral, academic, mental health concerns.
(631) 496-4131 View (631) 496-4131
Photo of Sue Ann Fratello LMHC, Counselor in Shirley, NY
Sue Ann Fratello LMHC
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
East Patchogue, NY 11772
I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with over twenty years of progressive experience working with people like yourself who need someone to listen about your daily struggles and emotional needs for a happy life. You will receive marriage and family counseling for couples and individuals; therapeutic counseling for individuals and children as well as to those with special needs. I provide military veterans and their families compassionate support to transition from combat / non-combat deployment into family living. I provide crisis counseling to people who require assistance with immigration issues.
I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor with over twenty years of progressive experience working with people like yourself who need someone to listen about your daily struggles and emotional needs for a happy life. You will receive marriage and family counseling for couples and individuals; therapeutic counseling for individuals and children as well as to those with special needs. I provide military veterans and their families compassionate support to transition from combat / non-combat deployment into family living. I provide crisis counseling to people who require assistance with immigration issues.
(631) 609-4685 View (631) 609-4685
Photo of Lauren Lara, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Shirley, NY
Lauren Lara
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Holtsville, NY 11742  (Online Only)
Therapy can be a scary undertaking, but I am here to offer a safe and non-judgmental environment in order to work together towards developing treatment goals. I understand that depression, anxiety, ADHD, OCD, low self-esteem and self-harm can impact daily functioning. We will work together to explore emotions and develop new and effective coping strategies. Working on improving communication skills and boundary setting can make a big difference!
Therapy can be a scary undertaking, but I am here to offer a safe and non-judgmental environment in order to work together towards developing treatment goals. I understand that depression, anxiety, ADHD, OCD, low self-esteem and self-harm can impact daily functioning. We will work together to explore emotions and develop new and effective coping strategies. Working on improving communication skills and boundary setting can make a big difference!
(631) 920-4174 View (631) 920-4174
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Samantha Herrera
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, CFTP, ADHD-CC, ASDCS, SIFI
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Medford, NY 11763  (Online Only)
Are you a woman struggling with anxiety, depression, grief, or relationship conflicts? Perhaps you're dealing with intimacy/ sexual addictions, porn addictions, partner betrayal trauma, family conflicts or parenting challenges, including neurodivergent children w/ special needs. If these issues affect your daily life and leave you feeling exhausted, overwhelmed, or lost, know that there is hope for a better life. You don't have to settle for less or live unhappy anymore. It shouldn’t be so hard to live better, people can change, there is hope and answers. I am here to tell you there is light at the end of the tunnel!
Are you a woman struggling with anxiety, depression, grief, or relationship conflicts? Perhaps you're dealing with intimacy/ sexual addictions, porn addictions, partner betrayal trauma, family conflicts or parenting challenges, including neurodivergent children w/ special needs. If these issues affect your daily life and leave you feeling exhausted, overwhelmed, or lost, know that there is hope for a better life. You don't have to settle for less or live unhappy anymore. It shouldn’t be so hard to live better, people can change, there is hope and answers. I am here to tell you there is light at the end of the tunnel!
(631) 210-6255 View (631) 210-6255
Photo of Justin Benson, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Shirley, NY
Justin Benson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Patchogue, NY 11772
Embark on a journey of self-discovery and growth with a compassionate and dedicated therapist committed to guiding you through life's challenges. With a personalized and client-centered approach, I provide a safe and non-judgmental space where you can explore your thoughts, feelings, and goals. As a seasoned therapist, I bring a wealth of experience and expertise to the table, specializing in a variety of mental health issues. My therapeutic style combines evidence-based practices with genuine empathy, fostering a collaborative and trusting relationship.
Embark on a journey of self-discovery and growth with a compassionate and dedicated therapist committed to guiding you through life's challenges. With a personalized and client-centered approach, I provide a safe and non-judgmental space where you can explore your thoughts, feelings, and goals. As a seasoned therapist, I bring a wealth of experience and expertise to the table, specializing in a variety of mental health issues. My therapeutic style combines evidence-based practices with genuine empathy, fostering a collaborative and trusting relationship.
(631) 693-4775 View (631) 693-4775
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Tina Flanagan
Counselor, LMHC, CASAC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Patchogue, NY 11772
What happens when you sit at home at night and the world quiets down around you? Do you feel uncomfortable in your own skin? Do you feel as though you’re not at ease with where you are in life? So many of us struggle with this uneasiness inside of us that we don’t know exactly how to handle. The uneasiness leads us to make decisions that end up being counterproductive in our life. Whether it comes down to anxiety, addiction, codependency, impulsive shopping/eating or any other destructive behavior, we can help you work through these experiences and accomplish all your goals!
What happens when you sit at home at night and the world quiets down around you? Do you feel uncomfortable in your own skin? Do you feel as though you’re not at ease with where you are in life? So many of us struggle with this uneasiness inside of us that we don’t know exactly how to handle. The uneasiness leads us to make decisions that end up being counterproductive in our life. Whether it comes down to anxiety, addiction, codependency, impulsive shopping/eating or any other destructive behavior, we can help you work through these experiences and accomplish all your goals!
(631) 449-7200 View (631) 449-7200
SouthShore Counseling & Mediation
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
East Patchogue, NY 11772
We are a team of licensed clinical Psychotherapists and Mental Health Counselors. We provide individual psychotherapy, couples, family, and group counseling. Our goal is to provide the most effective success for all clients. We use a client-centered, cognitive behavior approach, in concert with a wide range of treatment modalities. This provides each client with a supportive environment for the exploration of feelings and self-awareness. In doing so, they are able to identify their strengths and bolster their defenses when facing a variety of challenges.
We are a team of licensed clinical Psychotherapists and Mental Health Counselors. We provide individual psychotherapy, couples, family, and group counseling. Our goal is to provide the most effective success for all clients. We use a client-centered, cognitive behavior approach, in concert with a wide range of treatment modalities. This provides each client with a supportive environment for the exploration of feelings and self-awareness. In doing so, they are able to identify their strengths and bolster their defenses when facing a variety of challenges.
(631) 651-6661 View (631) 651-6661
Betsy Quinlan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Patchogue, NY 11772  (Online Only)
All of us can become overwhelmed by life's demands, work responsibilities and relationship challenges. Struggles may seem to resolve over time but yet the same conflicts keep popping up again and again. Attempts to resolve or neutralize their impact, stretch our limits and move boundaries and abandon goals; ultimately losing sight of who we are. I encourage you to take a risk: give yourself permission and time to sort through your thoughts and feelings so you can restore energy and clarity to re-assess personal needs and goals.
All of us can become overwhelmed by life's demands, work responsibilities and relationship challenges. Struggles may seem to resolve over time but yet the same conflicts keep popping up again and again. Attempts to resolve or neutralize their impact, stretch our limits and move boundaries and abandon goals; ultimately losing sight of who we are. I encourage you to take a risk: give yourself permission and time to sort through your thoughts and feelings so you can restore energy and clarity to re-assess personal needs and goals.
(631) 406-4434 View (631) 406-4434
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Lori Thompson
Counselor, LMHC, LPC, NCC
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Bellport, NY 11713
So many are dealing with the pressure to always be "doing something". We are constantly on the go but but not getting ahead. We rarely take time to care for self. I find people are feeling worn out and unsure how to change things. When frustration builds, relationships suffer as well. I'd like to show you ways to slow down your thoughts, reduce anxiety, and regain sense of self. We can take the steps for you to start feeling better by building better coping skills. Whether you are feeling stuck or just need to know that you're are being heard, I'd like to help. Please note: 16 years and older only
So many are dealing with the pressure to always be "doing something". We are constantly on the go but but not getting ahead. We rarely take time to care for self. I find people are feeling worn out and unsure how to change things. When frustration builds, relationships suffer as well. I'd like to show you ways to slow down your thoughts, reduce anxiety, and regain sense of self. We can take the steps for you to start feeling better by building better coping skills. Whether you are feeling stuck or just need to know that you're are being heard, I'd like to help. Please note: 16 years and older only
(631) 496-1267 View (631) 496-1267
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Ramin Azarm
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CCM, CASAC-T
Verified Verified
Patchogue, NY 11772
If you are an individual or couple who is living with addiction, depression, anxiety, grief, has experienced one or more traumatic events and/or is in need of couples counseling in an effort to start the healing process and reconnect with your partner/spouse this is a great place to start your journey. Clients are encouraged to remain motivated, actively participate in therapy sessions and complete clinical tasks at home. Clinicians will collaborate with clients to develop treatment plans and monitor progress to assure that our clients are receiving adequate support and assistance towards reaching their goals.
If you are an individual or couple who is living with addiction, depression, anxiety, grief, has experienced one or more traumatic events and/or is in need of couples counseling in an effort to start the healing process and reconnect with your partner/spouse this is a great place to start your journey. Clients are encouraged to remain motivated, actively participate in therapy sessions and complete clinical tasks at home. Clinicians will collaborate with clients to develop treatment plans and monitor progress to assure that our clients are receiving adequate support and assistance towards reaching their goals.
(631) 212-9255 View (631) 212-9255
Photo of Susan Nielsen, Pre-Licensed Professional in Shirley, NY
Susan Nielsen
Pre-Licensed Professional
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Patchogue, NY 11772
There are hundreds of reasons why I became a counselor, but the main reason is the want to help guide clients into a better quality of life! The basis of my clinician approach is the strong belief in creating a safe and trusting therapeutic relationship. Maintaining a safe place for clients (like you!) to be supported with genuine care and empathy is integral for me as your counselor. Together we will work towards making positive life changes, finding and utilizing your strengths, meet your therapeutic goals, and relieve your distress.
There are hundreds of reasons why I became a counselor, but the main reason is the want to help guide clients into a better quality of life! The basis of my clinician approach is the strong belief in creating a safe and trusting therapeutic relationship. Maintaining a safe place for clients (like you!) to be supported with genuine care and empathy is integral for me as your counselor. Together we will work towards making positive life changes, finding and utilizing your strengths, meet your therapeutic goals, and relieve your distress.
(516) 518-8073 View (516) 518-8073

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Marriage Counseling Therapists

How does marriage counseling work?

Marriage counseling works by teaching couples concrete skills to communicate with one another and solve disagreements in healthy ways. A trained mental health professional works with both members of a couple to explore difficulties the couple may be having and helps them develop skills to address these matters. Couples who don’t have any difficulties but want to prepare for marriage may develop skills for the future.

How long does marriage counseling typically last?

Marriage counseling is a short-term form of therapy; the process may last between four and eight sessions. Other forms of relationship guidance from mental health professionals, such as couples therapy, are longer lasting, may focus on the past rather than just the present, and are tailored to the individual couple and their emotions, history, and patterns in the relationship. Couples therapy often lasts for 12 weeks or longer.

Is marriage counseling effective?

Marriage counseling helps many couples develop relationship skills that may not have been acquired or tested in a relationship; partners may be better able to communicate and address conflict following counseling. However, there are many different forms of marriage counseling, and this form of counseling does not have as strong an evidence base as other modalities such as couples therapy.

Is marriage counseling effective if only one partner wants to go?

Yes, marriage counseling can still be effective if one partner convinces the other to engage in the process. Of course, whether counseling is effective depends on the couple’s commitment to work on their relationship; however, the short-term, skills-based nature of marriage counseling makes it a relatively easy “ask” of a partner, and the hesitant individual may see its value once counseling begins.