Gottman Method Therapists in Oriskany, NY

There are no results for therapists in Oriskany

Check out therapists located nearby or offering teletherapy in New York below.

More Therapists Nearby

Photo of Vanessa Soleil, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor in Oriskany, NY
Vanessa Soleil
Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, MEd, NCC, LCMHC, LMHC
Verified Verified
Clinton, NY 13323  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I have completed training in the following: Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Treating Complex Trauma with Internal Family Systems (IFS), Gottman Method Level 1 & 2 for couples work.
Hello there. Finding a counselor can be overwhelming, so I appreciate your presence. Research shows that meaningful change in therapy is grounded in a safe, warm, & accepting relationship. That’s why l work to build trust & learn about my clients' inner world. I believe that I can best support you if I understand the contexts of which you are a part & that shaped you—family, work, culture, & other systems. My style is to blend thoughtful questions, gentle challenge, & inner exploration with teaching clients practical skills. My hope is to nurture your innate wisdom, so that you may grow, heal, & flourish on your own terms.
I have completed training in the following: Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Treating Complex Trauma with Internal Family Systems (IFS), Gottman Method Level 1 & 2 for couples work.
Hello there. Finding a counselor can be overwhelming, so I appreciate your presence. Research shows that meaningful change in therapy is grounded in a safe, warm, & accepting relationship. That’s why l work to build trust & learn about my clients' inner world. I believe that I can best support you if I understand the contexts of which you are a part & that shaped you—family, work, culture, & other systems. My style is to blend thoughtful questions, gentle challenge, & inner exploration with teaching clients practical skills. My hope is to nurture your innate wisdom, so that you may grow, heal, & flourish on your own terms.
(984) 207-0761 View (984) 207-0761
Photo of Heart in Hand: Couples and Individual Therapy, Marriage & Family Therapist in Oriskany, NY
Heart in Hand: Couples and Individual Therapy
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT, RN
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Utica, NY 13502
I work collaboratively with my clients utilizing Narrative Therapy & somatic techniques as my foundation while interweaving from the models of Attachment Theory, Jungian Psychology, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), & the Gottman Method.
FAQs: Only telehealth sessions offered in New Hampshire. In person AND virtual in New York. I do not accept insurance. / Holistic health emphasizes the connection of mind, body, and spirit. This is the essence from which I work. In doing so, my goal is to provide a safe environment while assisting you (or you and your partner) to evolve and create sustainable change.
I work collaboratively with my clients utilizing Narrative Therapy & somatic techniques as my foundation while interweaving from the models of Attachment Theory, Jungian Psychology, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), & the Gottman Method.
FAQs: Only telehealth sessions offered in New Hampshire. In person AND virtual in New York. I do not accept insurance. / Holistic health emphasizes the connection of mind, body, and spirit. This is the essence from which I work. In doing so, my goal is to provide a safe environment while assisting you (or you and your partner) to evolve and create sustainable change.
(315) 509-8790 View (315) 509-8790
Photo of Britton A. Tarris, Marriage & Family Therapist in Oriskany, NY
Britton A. Tarris
Marriage & Family Therapist, LCSW, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
New Hartford, NY 13413
Welcome! Thank you for checking out my page. I hope you will find this information helpful in your search for a potential therapist to meet your needs. I am licensed by the state of New York as a Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) and a Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT). I completed my graduate education and clinical training in 2018 at Syracuse University. I also hold a B.S. in Business Management from Utica University (formerly known as Utica College). I practice from the theoretical model of family systems that focuses on the client’s experience within the context of their relationships.
Welcome! Thank you for checking out my page. I hope you will find this information helpful in your search for a potential therapist to meet your needs. I am licensed by the state of New York as a Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) and a Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT). I completed my graduate education and clinical training in 2018 at Syracuse University. I also hold a B.S. in Business Management from Utica University (formerly known as Utica College). I practice from the theoretical model of family systems that focuses on the client’s experience within the context of their relationships.
(315) 306-3481 View (315) 306-3481
Photo of Lynn Tomaino, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Oriskany, NY
Lynn Tomaino
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
New Hartford, NY 13413
Most people contact me overwhelmed by feelings, symptoms or in a life crisis. Using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) we will explore your thoughts, feelings and behavior and identify those that are not rational, but whose messages control how you feel and behave By learning more rational ways of thinking, you will be in control of the messages you give yourself, not the ones you have been barely conscious of and often come from negative past experiences. Behavior is also explored. Do you repeat the same actions that create problems at work, in relationships? You can change that too, through thinking differently.
Most people contact me overwhelmed by feelings, symptoms or in a life crisis. Using Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) we will explore your thoughts, feelings and behavior and identify those that are not rational, but whose messages control how you feel and behave By learning more rational ways of thinking, you will be in control of the messages you give yourself, not the ones you have been barely conscious of and often come from negative past experiences. Behavior is also explored. Do you repeat the same actions that create problems at work, in relationships? You can change that too, through thinking differently.
(315) 605-2069 View (315) 605-2069
Photo of Ashley Williams, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Oriskany, NY
Ashley Williams
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Utica, NY 13502  (Online Only)
Are you struggling with your self-esteem or body image? Maybe you are feeling dissatisfied with your sex life or looking to dig deeper into your sexuality? Are you questioning your relationship with your partner and contemplating moving on? Are you troubled by the mental impact of weight management? Are you struggling with postpartum anxiety or depression? Maybe you are feeling like your body is no longer your own after having a baby. Do you identify with more than one culture and feel the societal pressure to act a certain way or change how you present yourself to the world? Are you tired of labels and letting others define you?
Are you struggling with your self-esteem or body image? Maybe you are feeling dissatisfied with your sex life or looking to dig deeper into your sexuality? Are you questioning your relationship with your partner and contemplating moving on? Are you troubled by the mental impact of weight management? Are you struggling with postpartum anxiety or depression? Maybe you are feeling like your body is no longer your own after having a baby. Do you identify with more than one culture and feel the societal pressure to act a certain way or change how you present yourself to the world? Are you tired of labels and letting others define you?
(315) 556-8935 View (315) 556-8935
Photo of Tina J Iacovissi, Marriage & Family Therapist in Oriskany, NY
Tina J Iacovissi
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, CCPT
Verified Verified
Rome, NY 13440
You or a loved one may feel overwhelmed, anxious, sad, or needing to work through past events. As a marriage and family therapist, I offer guidance to couples, families and individuals, who are dealing with issues that affect their mental health and well-being. I believe that providing compassion, a safe space and the efficacy-based treatment for couples and individuals that will help you heal. I assist premarital couples as Prepare & Enrich facilitator. I use techniques such as play therapy, when working with younger children, because I understand that children may not have the words to express their emotions.
You or a loved one may feel overwhelmed, anxious, sad, or needing to work through past events. As a marriage and family therapist, I offer guidance to couples, families and individuals, who are dealing with issues that affect their mental health and well-being. I believe that providing compassion, a safe space and the efficacy-based treatment for couples and individuals that will help you heal. I assist premarital couples as Prepare & Enrich facilitator. I use techniques such as play therapy, when working with younger children, because I understand that children may not have the words to express their emotions.
(315) 306-3797 View (315) 306-3797
Photo of Candace N Thornton, Marriage & Family Therapist in Oriskany, NY
Candace N Thornton
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Utica, NY 13502  (Online Only)
“There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you” -Maya Angelou Are you considering sharing your story? Yet feel like no one is listening? Well you have come to the right place, Candace listens because she cares. Candace is a LMFT, passionate about working with individuals, couples, and families, and offers a safe and warm environment where her clients are free to explore and grow holistically. Her goal is to empower people spiritually, mentally, and emotionally.
“There is no greater agony than bearing an untold story inside you” -Maya Angelou Are you considering sharing your story? Yet feel like no one is listening? Well you have come to the right place, Candace listens because she cares. Candace is a LMFT, passionate about working with individuals, couples, and families, and offers a safe and warm environment where her clients are free to explore and grow holistically. Her goal is to empower people spiritually, mentally, and emotionally.
(315) 843-0528 View (315) 843-0528

Online Therapists

Photo of Stephanie O'Hanlon Kayalar, Marriage & Family Therapist in Oriskany, NY
Stephanie O'Hanlon Kayalar
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT, BSN-RN
Verified Verified
Glens Falls, NY 12801
I offer both couple and individual sessions, international retreats/workshops as well couples intensives utilizing Gottman Method approach.
I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who specializes in working with couples and individuals looking to increase connection, promote effective communication, find personal growth and reduce stress and anxiety. I have a strength-based approach and truly believe we all have strengths and resources waiting to be discovered that allow us to solve problems and move through life transitions such as relationships, separation, chronic illness as well as stress and anxiety to find healing, happiness and new meaning in life. I am a level 3 Gottman Couples Therapist and currently working on my PhD in Clinical Sexology.
I offer both couple and individual sessions, international retreats/workshops as well couples intensives utilizing Gottman Method approach.
I'm a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist who specializes in working with couples and individuals looking to increase connection, promote effective communication, find personal growth and reduce stress and anxiety. I have a strength-based approach and truly believe we all have strengths and resources waiting to be discovered that allow us to solve problems and move through life transitions such as relationships, separation, chronic illness as well as stress and anxiety to find healing, happiness and new meaning in life. I am a level 3 Gottman Couples Therapist and currently working on my PhD in Clinical Sexology.
(518) 896-8905 View (518) 896-8905
Photo of Cardinal Hope Mental Health Counseling Services , Counselor in Oriskany, NY
Cardinal Hope Mental Health Counseling Services
Counselor, LMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
6 Endorsed
Syracuse, NY 13202  (Online Only)
Additionally, we utilize the Gottman Method, a strategy supported by extensive research, to foster relationship healing.
Feeling overwhelmed by anxiety and overthinking that dominates your days? Experiencing challenges in your personal relationships due to stress, leading to misunderstandings and conflicts? It might be that past traumas are contributing to your current state, making it difficult to fully engage in the now. You're not alone in feeling trapped in these patterns, wondering if a life beyond persistent worry is possible. Our therapy group practice is dedicated to assisting individuals and couples to navigate and overcome these barriers.
Additionally, we utilize the Gottman Method, a strategy supported by extensive research, to foster relationship healing.
Feeling overwhelmed by anxiety and overthinking that dominates your days? Experiencing challenges in your personal relationships due to stress, leading to misunderstandings and conflicts? It might be that past traumas are contributing to your current state, making it difficult to fully engage in the now. You're not alone in feeling trapped in these patterns, wondering if a life beyond persistent worry is possible. Our therapy group practice is dedicated to assisting individuals and couples to navigate and overcome these barriers.
(516) 344-8455 x103 View (516) 344-8455 x103
Photo of Lauren Ippoliti, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Oriskany, NY
Lauren Ippoliti
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Syracuse, NY 13210
I am certified in Imago Therapy, am training to become an AASECT certified sex therapist and am informed in my relational work by Internal Family Systems, Terry Real’s Relational Life Model and The Gottman Method.
Intimate relationships are an opportunity for great love, enrichment of our lives and true partnership. The challenges we face in modern-day society and the lack of training we receive often equate to great difficulties within some of our most important relationships. I love relational work because we have an opportunity to create meaningful, loving and supporting relationships, but only if we have the tools to do so. Imago Relationship Therapy provides tools, a perspective shift and a roadmap. This is courageous work, that can significantly impact yourself, your relationships and those around you.
I am certified in Imago Therapy, am training to become an AASECT certified sex therapist and am informed in my relational work by Internal Family Systems, Terry Real’s Relational Life Model and The Gottman Method.
Intimate relationships are an opportunity for great love, enrichment of our lives and true partnership. The challenges we face in modern-day society and the lack of training we receive often equate to great difficulties within some of our most important relationships. I love relational work because we have an opportunity to create meaningful, loving and supporting relationships, but only if we have the tools to do so. Imago Relationship Therapy provides tools, a perspective shift and a roadmap. This is courageous work, that can significantly impact yourself, your relationships and those around you.
(315) 756-3979 View (315) 756-3979
Photo of Nancy Lee Dunn, Licensed Master Social Worker in Oriskany, NY
Nancy Lee Dunn
Licensed Master Social Worker, LMSW, CASAC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Saratoga Springs, NY 12866
I use the Gottman Method with couples.
After 27 years as a high school teacher, I followed my long-held interest and returned to school to become a licensed social worker (LMSW) and a substance abuse counselor (CASAC.) I work with clients who are suffering from anxiety, depression, PTSD, trauma, substance abuse, ADHD/ADD and I also work with couples. I primarily use CBT, ACT and DBT. Data shows that most people who experience substance use disorders also meet the criteria for a mental health disorder such as depression, anxiety, attention deficit and hyperactivity disorder (70-80%), or some form of trauma (50%.) Treating substance abuse means treating the whole person.
I use the Gottman Method with couples.
After 27 years as a high school teacher, I followed my long-held interest and returned to school to become a licensed social worker (LMSW) and a substance abuse counselor (CASAC.) I work with clients who are suffering from anxiety, depression, PTSD, trauma, substance abuse, ADHD/ADD and I also work with couples. I primarily use CBT, ACT and DBT. Data shows that most people who experience substance use disorders also meet the criteria for a mental health disorder such as depression, anxiety, attention deficit and hyperactivity disorder (70-80%), or some form of trauma (50%.) Treating substance abuse means treating the whole person.
(518) 201-1128 View (518) 201-1128
Photo of Edie Patterson Brown, Counselor in Oriskany, NY
Edie Patterson Brown
Counselor, MEd, LMHC
Verified Verified
Fayetteville, NY 13066
Effective, research-based approaches such as Internal Family Systems, solution-focused, client-centered, CBT, DBT and the Gottman Method of couples’ therapy (Level 2 Certified) will be utilized to create lasting, positive, growth and awareness.
Choosing to begin therapy is a wise and wonderful step in the direction of healing wounds and belief systems which may be holding you back. Together, we will collaborate to help you unearth your true self and discover the most beneficial strategies and skills for you to actively pursue and practice living the life you desire. I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor experienced in working with individuals, couples, and families. I specialize in relationships, life transitions, supporting business and helping professionals, trauma, anxiety, grief, sexuality, OCD, confidence building and spirituality.
Effective, research-based approaches such as Internal Family Systems, solution-focused, client-centered, CBT, DBT and the Gottman Method of couples’ therapy (Level 2 Certified) will be utilized to create lasting, positive, growth and awareness.
Choosing to begin therapy is a wise and wonderful step in the direction of healing wounds and belief systems which may be holding you back. Together, we will collaborate to help you unearth your true self and discover the most beneficial strategies and skills for you to actively pursue and practice living the life you desire. I am a Licensed Mental Health Counselor experienced in working with individuals, couples, and families. I specialize in relationships, life transitions, supporting business and helping professionals, trauma, anxiety, grief, sexuality, OCD, confidence building and spirituality.
(315) 667-1769 View (315) 667-1769
Photo of Ashley King, LCSW _ Ashley Anne Wellness, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Oriskany, NY
Ashley King, LCSW _ Ashley Anne Wellness
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Syracuse, NY 13203  (Online Only)
I am a Certified Imago Relationship Therapist and Gottman Method Couples Therapist.
I am passionate about all things “relationship.” I believe that we are in relationship to everything, all the time. The problem is that no one teaches us how to DO relationships well. We have to learn what makes the patterns in our relationship heathy or harmful. Then we have to do the healthy things… moment after moment after moment to grow our relationships into something beautiful. I have spent many years researching and studying what makes relationships last, what makes them grow and what makes them end. I have developed strategies to help guide you and your partner to be able to grow to your highest relationship potential.
I am a Certified Imago Relationship Therapist and Gottman Method Couples Therapist.
I am passionate about all things “relationship.” I believe that we are in relationship to everything, all the time. The problem is that no one teaches us how to DO relationships well. We have to learn what makes the patterns in our relationship heathy or harmful. Then we have to do the healthy things… moment after moment after moment to grow our relationships into something beautiful. I have spent many years researching and studying what makes relationships last, what makes them grow and what makes them end. I have developed strategies to help guide you and your partner to be able to grow to your highest relationship potential.
(680) 208-2257 View (680) 208-2257
Photo of Ashley Ludwinski, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Oriskany, NY
Ashley Ludwinski
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Hamilton, NY 13346  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I draw from the Gottman Method, CBT, DBT, IFS, and MSC, as well as 14 years of experience as a married partner, parent and educator.
I am a trauma-informed provider supporting couples and individuals navigating grief/loss, conflict, trauma and transition. I am passionate about supporting folks identifying with neurodiversity (eg. eg. autistic, AuDH, diagnosed with ADHD, etc ). Clients I support often struggle with the impact of stories about who they "should be", questioning, "Do I matter?" or shedding pieces of themselves to create a sense of belonging. Understanding our stories is one of the bravest things we can do. Together we can explore yours, identify your values and strengths, and pursue healing and growth.
I draw from the Gottman Method, CBT, DBT, IFS, and MSC, as well as 14 years of experience as a married partner, parent and educator.
I am a trauma-informed provider supporting couples and individuals navigating grief/loss, conflict, trauma and transition. I am passionate about supporting folks identifying with neurodiversity (eg. eg. autistic, AuDH, diagnosed with ADHD, etc ). Clients I support often struggle with the impact of stories about who they "should be", questioning, "Do I matter?" or shedding pieces of themselves to create a sense of belonging. Understanding our stories is one of the bravest things we can do. Together we can explore yours, identify your values and strengths, and pursue healing and growth.
(332) 244-0328 View (332) 244-0328
Photo of Monica C Hemmett, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Oriskany, NY
Monica C Hemmett
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, RN, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Saratoga Springs, NY 12866
I am a registered nurse as well as a licensed clinical social worker with over 25 years in practice. My clients include individuals as well as couples. I am currently using the Gottman method for treating relationship issues and am certified as a level two counselor. Now accepting only private pay clients for this method as more time is required for this to be successful. Please feel free to research John and Julia Gottman‘s method of couple counseling .My approach to treating anxiety and depression is eclectic and tailored to the needs of the individual. Included in there. I have many years of treating eating disorders, as well.
I am a registered nurse as well as a licensed clinical social worker with over 25 years in practice. My clients include individuals as well as couples. I am currently using the Gottman method for treating relationship issues and am certified as a level two counselor. Now accepting only private pay clients for this method as more time is required for this to be successful. Please feel free to research John and Julia Gottman‘s method of couple counseling .My approach to treating anxiety and depression is eclectic and tailored to the needs of the individual. Included in there. I have many years of treating eating disorders, as well.
(518) 754-4416 View (518) 754-4416
Photo of Andrew Xavier Feeney, Counselor in Oriskany, NY
Andrew Xavier Feeney
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Albany, NY 12205
My training includes EMDR, trauma training through the Trauma Research Foundation, Gottman Method for couples.
I recently expanded my practice, adding two clinicians to better serve those looking for therapy. At Guiding Steps Psychotherapy, our mission is to help people heal from trauma and other adverse life experiences, anxiety, and depression. We work with survivors of sexual abuse/assault, those who have experienced traumatic loss from death or infidelity, individuals suffering from addiction, and others working through traumatic adjustments such as loss of a job or severe illness. I also counsel couples working to improve their relationships, those discerning their futures, and others contemplating separation or divorce
My training includes EMDR, trauma training through the Trauma Research Foundation, Gottman Method for couples.
I recently expanded my practice, adding two clinicians to better serve those looking for therapy. At Guiding Steps Psychotherapy, our mission is to help people heal from trauma and other adverse life experiences, anxiety, and depression. We work with survivors of sexual abuse/assault, those who have experienced traumatic loss from death or infidelity, individuals suffering from addiction, and others working through traumatic adjustments such as loss of a job or severe illness. I also counsel couples working to improve their relationships, those discerning their futures, and others contemplating separation or divorce
(518) 692-6842 View (518) 692-6842
Photo of Peter Curkendall, Counselor in Oriskany, NY
Peter Curkendall
Counselor, MA, LMHC, NCC
Verified Verified
Liverpool, NY 13088  (Online Only)
Suffering is a normal and unavoidable part of human experience. It is our attempt to control or avoid our own painful experiences that can, at times, lead us to suffering beyond what is necessary. If we can learn ways to let go of the struggle to hold onto the pain, while becoming more present in our daily lives, we get move towards the life we say we want.
Suffering is a normal and unavoidable part of human experience. It is our attempt to control or avoid our own painful experiences that can, at times, lead us to suffering beyond what is necessary. If we can learn ways to let go of the struggle to hold onto the pain, while becoming more present in our daily lives, we get move towards the life we say we want.
(315) 753-4133 View (315) 753-4133
Photo of Sarah Cort, Marriage & Family Therapist in Oriskany, NY
Sarah Cort
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
Dryden, NY 13053  (Online Only)
Now supporting individuals, couples, and families through difficult periods. I am a New York, Vermont, and Maine Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT). I've assisted individuals experiencing depression, anxiety, OCD, difficulty coping with change, and a variety of other ailments. In addition, I help couples seeking pre-marital therapy, or having difficulty in their current relationship and family. I welcome children and teens at my practice.
Now supporting individuals, couples, and families through difficult periods. I am a New York, Vermont, and Maine Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT). I've assisted individuals experiencing depression, anxiety, OCD, difficulty coping with change, and a variety of other ailments. In addition, I help couples seeking pre-marital therapy, or having difficulty in their current relationship and family. I welcome children and teens at my practice.
(607) 216-9534 View (607) 216-9534
Photo of Insightful Therapy, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Oriskany, NY
Insightful Therapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Liverpool, NY 13090
Accepting New Clients! Welcome to Insightful Therapy! We are a group practice offering flexible scheduling and complementary services for adults and couples. Maybe you're someone who is struggling with important relationships in your life or life transitions. Maybe feeling down or helpless. Perhaps you've been through some difficult times that have left a mark or you feel more on edge in your life lately.
Accepting New Clients! Welcome to Insightful Therapy! We are a group practice offering flexible scheduling and complementary services for adults and couples. Maybe you're someone who is struggling with important relationships in your life or life transitions. Maybe feeling down or helpless. Perhaps you've been through some difficult times that have left a mark or you feel more on edge in your life lately.
(315) 756-3142 View (315) 756-3142
Photo of Gia Recco, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Oriskany, NY
Gia Recco
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
Albany, NY 12205
As a clinician, my primary focus is meeting clients where they are on their unique journeys toward mental well-being. I tailor my approach to best suit the needs of each client through a range of therapeutic modalities. Everyone has the capacity for growth and personal transformation, and I am committed to helping individuals who may be feeling stuck in their current circumstances.
As a clinician, my primary focus is meeting clients where they are on their unique journeys toward mental well-being. I tailor my approach to best suit the needs of each client through a range of therapeutic modalities. Everyone has the capacity for growth and personal transformation, and I am committed to helping individuals who may be feeling stuck in their current circumstances.
(518) 840-1341 View (518) 840-1341

See more therapy options for Oriskany

Gottman Method Therapists

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analyzed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomized controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.