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Cameron Groen
Marriage & Family Therapist, MS, LMFT
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Greenville, SC 29607
Emotionally Focused Therapy offers us a map to help you find your way back to the safety and connection you so badly desire.
Couples often enter my office feeling like their best efforts to share with their partner are met with anger, defensiveness or nothing at all. They so badly want to feel close and understood, but with each attempt to reach out they once again feel hurt and alone. Their partner often feels like despite their best efforts, they keep hearing what they got wrong leaving them feeling like they can’t ever seem to get it right. As these stuck places continue, of course it is easy to start to feel exhausted and hopeless as it seems you are all out of moves and maybe even tired of trying.
Emotionally Focused Therapy offers us a map to help you find your way back to the safety and connection you so badly desire.
Couples often enter my office feeling like their best efforts to share with their partner are met with anger, defensiveness or nothing at all. They so badly want to feel close and understood, but with each attempt to reach out they once again feel hurt and alone. Their partner often feels like despite their best efforts, they keep hearing what they got wrong leaving them feeling like they can’t ever seem to get it right. As these stuck places continue, of course it is easy to start to feel exhausted and hopeless as it seems you are all out of moves and maybe even tired of trying.
(864) 920-2631 View (864) 920-2631
Photo of Samuel Elder, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 29607, SC
Samuel Elder
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LISW-CP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Greenville, SC 29607
I work with men and women of various ages to look at life's big questions, including identity, purpose, and how you fit into the world. You are looking for someone who can help guide you towards answers, and not just the answers that others have decided on for you. You want to find a path that feels authentic and life-affirming. Whether it's feelings of anxiety, sadness, or grief, we can look at these things together and build a new understanding of who you are, and who you can be.
I work with men and women of various ages to look at life's big questions, including identity, purpose, and how you fit into the world. You are looking for someone who can help guide you towards answers, and not just the answers that others have decided on for you. You want to find a path that feels authentic and life-affirming. Whether it's feelings of anxiety, sadness, or grief, we can look at these things together and build a new understanding of who you are, and who you can be.
(864) 571-4485 View (864) 571-4485
Photo of Michael Catalana, Licensed Professional Counselor in 29607, SC
Michael Catalana
Licensed Professional Counselor, PhD, LPCS, LPC
Verified Verified
Greenville, SC 29607
Greetings! I look forward to becoming a part of your support network. My name is Michael and I am a Licensed Professional Counselor Supervisor (LPC-S) and Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in the state of South Carolina and Tennessee. My general approach to counseling is systemic, and overall focus is building empowerment in sync with your unique support system. I strive to be genuine during therapy and enjoy listening to, and learning from, the individuals I support. I also provide clinical supervision for Licensed Professional Counseling Associate (LPC-A) and am currently enrolling participants. Email me for details.
Greetings! I look forward to becoming a part of your support network. My name is Michael and I am a Licensed Professional Counselor Supervisor (LPC-S) and Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in the state of South Carolina and Tennessee. My general approach to counseling is systemic, and overall focus is building empowerment in sync with your unique support system. I strive to be genuine during therapy and enjoy listening to, and learning from, the individuals I support. I also provide clinical supervision for Licensed Professional Counseling Associate (LPC-A) and am currently enrolling participants. Email me for details.
(864) 400-0893 View (864) 400-0893
Photo of Samir Hanef, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in 29607, SC
Samir Hanef
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Greenville, SC 29607
I provide both outpatient mental health therapy and substance abuse/use assessments and therapy to all members of the community. Clients experiencing such issues as depression/anxiety, PTSD/trauma, life changes, gender identity concerns, and substance use will benefit from the services I offer. I utilize a person centered approach and work collaboratively with clients to address their needs. I meet clients 'where they are' and work with them to identify positive interventions and change. The comprehensive clinical assessments and substance abuse assessments I provide meet criteria for court ordered and school referred clients and can be completed in office or at your location.
I provide both outpatient mental health therapy and substance abuse/use assessments and therapy to all members of the community. Clients experiencing such issues as depression/anxiety, PTSD/trauma, life changes, gender identity concerns, and substance use will benefit from the services I offer. I utilize a person centered approach and work collaboratively with clients to address their needs. I meet clients 'where they are' and work with them to identify positive interventions and change. The comprehensive clinical assessments and substance abuse assessments I provide meet criteria for court ordered and school referred clients and can be completed in office or at your location.
(864) 672-1135 View (864) 672-1135
Photo of Martin Okereke, Pre-Licensed Professional in 29607, SC
Martin Okereke
Pre-Licensed Professional, MA, LPCA
Verified Verified
Greenville, SC 29607
Meeting and speaking about your personal struggles with a stranger can be nerve racking. It comes with feelings of awkwardness and anxiety. You find yourself leaving your comfort place and all the hiding places you have created, to a place that is unknown. I can promise you I will be there all the way supporting and encouraging you to make those life changes you are looking for. We go through life feeling alone, misunderstood, living in fear, anxiety, and anger all the time.
Meeting and speaking about your personal struggles with a stranger can be nerve racking. It comes with feelings of awkwardness and anxiety. You find yourself leaving your comfort place and all the hiding places you have created, to a place that is unknown. I can promise you I will be there all the way supporting and encouraging you to make those life changes you are looking for. We go through life feeling alone, misunderstood, living in fear, anxiety, and anger all the time.
(864) 803-3956 View (864) 803-3956
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Jeremy Ray
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
Greenville, SC 29607
Jeremy Ray is a Licensed Master Social Worker Therapist with over 17 years of counseling experience working with individuals and couples. Jeremy is a compassionate, person-focused therapist who loves helping individuals heal from their developmental and present traumas, mend their fragmented perceptions of self, and find unconditional self-love, self-empathy, safety, and skills for overcoming depression and anxiety. Jeremy completed his Master of Social Work at the University of South Carolina and his Master of Divinity at Ashland University and Theological Seminary.
Jeremy Ray is a Licensed Master Social Worker Therapist with over 17 years of counseling experience working with individuals and couples. Jeremy is a compassionate, person-focused therapist who loves helping individuals heal from their developmental and present traumas, mend their fragmented perceptions of self, and find unconditional self-love, self-empathy, safety, and skills for overcoming depression and anxiety. Jeremy completed his Master of Social Work at the University of South Carolina and his Master of Divinity at Ashland University and Theological Seminary.
(864) 756-5764 View (864) 756-5764
Photo of Josh Neuer, Licensed Professional Counselor in 29607, SC
Josh Neuer
Licensed Professional Counselor, MA, LPC, Counsel
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Greenville, SC 29607
Have you ever felt overwhelmed by life? Stuck and unsure of how to move forward? Anxious, isolated, lonely? Do you actively feel caught up in hurtful patterns in relationships and in need of change? I believe hope and healing are possible. Counseling can be an incredible partnership helping individuals and couples on their journey through life's most difficult places. The Ideal Client is someone that is Willing to Partner, Share, Listen, and Willingly Open Themselves to Make Room for Something Different, Something Healing. Are You Ready to Embrace the Opportunities and Changes Available to You? Let’s Work Together!
Have you ever felt overwhelmed by life? Stuck and unsure of how to move forward? Anxious, isolated, lonely? Do you actively feel caught up in hurtful patterns in relationships and in need of change? I believe hope and healing are possible. Counseling can be an incredible partnership helping individuals and couples on their journey through life's most difficult places. The Ideal Client is someone that is Willing to Partner, Share, Listen, and Willingly Open Themselves to Make Room for Something Different, Something Healing. Are You Ready to Embrace the Opportunities and Changes Available to You? Let’s Work Together!
(864) 777-8830 View (864) 777-8830
Emotionally Focused Therapists

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.