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Norman H Shulder
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Holtsville, NY 11742
Not accepting new clients
I am a caring and concerned licensed clinical social worker with over 20 years experience who specializes in working with adolescents, couples and issues ranging from self-esteem, anger management, ADHD, trauma, and depression. I am also trained in clinical hypnosis relating to general relaxation, smoking and weight loss issues. I prefer a cognitive/behavioral approach which I have found to be quite effective in most instances. My office is located in a professional office building with easy access from most local communities.
I am a caring and concerned licensed clinical social worker with over 20 years experience who specializes in working with adolescents, couples and issues ranging from self-esteem, anger management, ADHD, trauma, and depression. I am also trained in clinical hypnosis relating to general relaxation, smoking and weight loss issues. I prefer a cognitive/behavioral approach which I have found to be quite effective in most instances. My office is located in a professional office building with easy access from most local communities.
(631) 213-9002 View (631) 213-9002

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Dr. Peter D’Elena- South Shore Psychological Care
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Lake Grove, NY 11755
At South Shore Psychological Care we specialize in working with individuals with anxiety and depression, couples in turmoil, parents dealing with behavioral issues, and with teen and adolescent issues.
As Clinical Director of South Shore Psychological Care, I am here to help during your search for a qualified mental health professional. We have therapists with openings 7 days a week that offer a high level of care and can help you secure your appointment without waiting weeks. We understand how frustrating the mental health system can be when trying to find a therapist. We primarily practice Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) with a focus on setting goals that are reachable and building trust. We look forward to hearing from you. Text or call me at (631) 786-8930 to book your initial appointment.
At South Shore Psychological Care we specialize in working with individuals with anxiety and depression, couples in turmoil, parents dealing with behavioral issues, and with teen and adolescent issues.
As Clinical Director of South Shore Psychological Care, I am here to help during your search for a qualified mental health professional. We have therapists with openings 7 days a week that offer a high level of care and can help you secure your appointment without waiting weeks. We understand how frustrating the mental health system can be when trying to find a therapist. We primarily practice Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) with a focus on setting goals that are reachable and building trust. We look forward to hearing from you. Text or call me at (631) 786-8930 to book your initial appointment.
(631) 994-1265 View (631) 994-1265
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Nicholas Del Guercio
Counselor, MS, LMHC
Verified Verified
Saint James, NY 11780
Mindfulness-based therapy for adult individuals and couples. Accepting insurance including Medicaid through Health First and Fidelis Care. If you're looking for extra support and guidance through a tough situation or just ready to move in a new direction in life, I look forward to working with you. Please visit my website to learn more.
Mindfulness-based therapy for adult individuals and couples. Accepting insurance including Medicaid through Health First and Fidelis Care. If you're looking for extra support and guidance through a tough situation or just ready to move in a new direction in life, I look forward to working with you. Please visit my website to learn more.
(631) 498-8539 View (631) 498-8539
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Institute for Attentional Disorders
Psychologist, PhD
Verified Verified
Hauppauge, NY 11749
He works with the ADHD individual, his/her partner and family in addressing difficulties.
Dr. Brad Lindell is the Executive Director of the Institute for Attentional Disorders. He has provided services to children, adolescents and adults with attentional disorders for 25 years. He has written many articles and lectured on the diagnosis and treatment of attentional disorders. He is a school/clinical psychologist and has worked at the pre-school, elementary and secondary levels. Given his diverse training and experience, Dr. Lindell brings a unique understanding of ADHD children and adolescents from a behavioral, social/emotional and learning perspective. He has worked regularly with parents and teachers in addressing the difficulties associated with ADHD.
He works with the ADHD individual, his/her partner and family in addressing difficulties.
Dr. Brad Lindell is the Executive Director of the Institute for Attentional Disorders. He has provided services to children, adolescents and adults with attentional disorders for 25 years. He has written many articles and lectured on the diagnosis and treatment of attentional disorders. He is a school/clinical psychologist and has worked at the pre-school, elementary and secondary levels. Given his diverse training and experience, Dr. Lindell brings a unique understanding of ADHD children and adolescents from a behavioral, social/emotional and learning perspective. He has worked regularly with parents and teachers in addressing the difficulties associated with ADHD.
(631) 604-4877 View (631) 604-4877
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Peter D Digilio
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, CASAC
Verified Verified
Port Jefferson, NY 11777
I have over 30 years of experience in treating individuals, couples, and families with problems. If you or a loved one is addicted to alcohol, drugs, gambling, sex, or another compulsive behavior that is slowly destroying your life, I can help you. In addition, I treat anxiety disorders and social phobias that prevent you from enjoying life and achieving your goals. I understand the suffering, embarrassment and hopelessness you are feeling. I know the steps you need to take to break the cycle of maladaptive behaviors that consume. Begin to take charge of your life.
I have over 30 years of experience in treating individuals, couples, and families with problems. If you or a loved one is addicted to alcohol, drugs, gambling, sex, or another compulsive behavior that is slowly destroying your life, I can help you. In addition, I treat anxiety disorders and social phobias that prevent you from enjoying life and achieving your goals. I understand the suffering, embarrassment and hopelessness you are feeling. I know the steps you need to take to break the cycle of maladaptive behaviors that consume. Begin to take charge of your life.
(631) 406-9199 View (631) 406-9199
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Transitions Counseling Services
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CASAC, CPP
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Smithtown, NY 11787
Are you feeling unhappy about your life at this point. often depression is masked with the use of alcohol, drugs or some other kind of compulsive behavior. I have over 30 years treating families, couples, and individuals with these problems. There is no need to continue unhappiness when help is available. Asking for help is the first step, take it now.
Are you feeling unhappy about your life at this point. often depression is masked with the use of alcohol, drugs or some other kind of compulsive behavior. I have over 30 years treating families, couples, and individuals with these problems. There is no need to continue unhappiness when help is available. Asking for help is the first step, take it now.
(631) 253-8344 View (631) 253-8344
Mitchell Slochower
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lake Grove, NY 11755
The suffering we experience is so personal we tend not to want to share it. How can we open up about something that shakes us so? How can we bring someone into our pain? Psychotherapy, as I practice, is a gentle and respectful way that you can begin to approach changing those things that burden you. I provide a safe, trusting relationship where you are able to learn to comfortably live life again.
The suffering we experience is so personal we tend not to want to share it. How can we open up about something that shakes us so? How can we bring someone into our pain? Psychotherapy, as I practice, is a gentle and respectful way that you can begin to approach changing those things that burden you. I provide a safe, trusting relationship where you are able to learn to comfortably live life again.
(631) 850-3372 View (631) 850-3372
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South Shore Mental Health Counseling Svcs P.C.
Counselor, MA, LMHC, NCC, CCMHC
Verified Verified
13 Endorsed
East Islip, NY 11730
When you make the commitment to engage in therapy, I will be there to guide you on your unique journey. By forming a therapeutic relationship, I will help you enhance your strengths, gain personal insight, reconcile your past, and build a better future.
When you make the commitment to engage in therapy, I will be there to guide you on your unique journey. By forming a therapeutic relationship, I will help you enhance your strengths, gain personal insight, reconcile your past, and build a better future.
(631) 604-4889 View (631) 604-4889
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Crewson Andrew Martin
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, LCSW-R, CHT, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Port Jefferson, NY 11777
I have been treating clients for almost 32 years now. My framework in treatment is the symbiotic and cybernetic relationship between mind and body based in Buddhist Psychology, knowing and appreciating that an imbalance in one directly and drastically affects the other. My primary treatment modality is MBCT (Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy). Balance and homeostasis are the ultimate goals.
I have been treating clients for almost 32 years now. My framework in treatment is the symbiotic and cybernetic relationship between mind and body based in Buddhist Psychology, knowing and appreciating that an imbalance in one directly and drastically affects the other. My primary treatment modality is MBCT (Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy). Balance and homeostasis are the ultimate goals.
(631) 880-2531 View (631) 880-2531
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Robert A Farrell
Psychologist, PhD, ABPP
Verified Verified
Mount Sinai, NY 11766
It is the safe, trusting and respectful nature of the therapeutic relationship that allows for this.
I have been working remotely since the pandemic. I have not observed a significant difference in the efficacy of treatment delivered in this format and the advantages are many. I am most effective in helping those struggling with depression, anxiety, an inability to prosper, find happiness or enjoy satisfying relationships with others. I work well with men and women of all ages and adolescents. For those who wish to be understood and understand themselves I am a good choice. It is the very act of making oneself known to others that is therapeutic. In so doing we become known to ourselves as well.
It is the safe, trusting and respectful nature of the therapeutic relationship that allows for this.
I have been working remotely since the pandemic. I have not observed a significant difference in the efficacy of treatment delivered in this format and the advantages are many. I am most effective in helping those struggling with depression, anxiety, an inability to prosper, find happiness or enjoy satisfying relationships with others. I work well with men and women of all ages and adolescents. For those who wish to be understood and understand themselves I am a good choice. It is the very act of making oneself known to others that is therapeutic. In so doing we become known to ourselves as well.
(516) 830-4494 View (516) 830-4494
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Long Island Behavioral Health
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Stony Brook, NY 11790
Are you or your children going through a difficult time; feeling overwhelmed, anxious, depressed or angry? Is your family, work or relationship suffering? We can help you process and understand these emotions and show you how to overcome the obstacles that are preventing you from feeling happy.
Are you or your children going through a difficult time; feeling overwhelmed, anxious, depressed or angry? Is your family, work or relationship suffering? We can help you process and understand these emotions and show you how to overcome the obstacles that are preventing you from feeling happy.
(631) 540-2668 View (631) 540-2668
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Charles P Gerace
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Port Jefferson Station, NY 11776
An OASAS-certified therapist, Who specializes in anxiety, depression, adolescent and relationship issues.
As a dedicated therapist, my ideal client is an individual who recognizes the importance of their mental health and is motivated to embark on a journey of self-discovery & positive transformation. I am passionate about working with individuals facing various challenges, such as substance use, anxiety, depression, & relationship issues. In my therapeutic approach, I prioritize creating a safe & non-judgmental space where clients can explore their thoughts and emotions freely. My ideal client is someone who seeks not only to understand themselves better but also to develop practical coping strategies to navigate life's complexities.
An OASAS-certified therapist, Who specializes in anxiety, depression, adolescent and relationship issues.
As a dedicated therapist, my ideal client is an individual who recognizes the importance of their mental health and is motivated to embark on a journey of self-discovery & positive transformation. I am passionate about working with individuals facing various challenges, such as substance use, anxiety, depression, & relationship issues. In my therapeutic approach, I prioritize creating a safe & non-judgmental space where clients can explore their thoughts and emotions freely. My ideal client is someone who seeks not only to understand themselves better but also to develop practical coping strategies to navigate life's complexities.
(516) 715-3623 View (516) 715-3623
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Rustum Ibrahim
MHC-LP
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Centereach, NY 11720
Whether you're struggling with depression, anxiety, phobias, body image, relationship issues, trauma, or everyday stressors, we can work to identify the source of those feelings and create a plan to help you grow.
If you're seeking therapy, chances are that you're looking for a change or to find ways to cope with your struggles. My approach in therapy is to do my best to understand you and help you toward healing and growth. I've found one of the most powerful things people gain from therapy is recognizing that you're not alone and that change is possible. I have training and experience working with individuals and couples of various identities, backgrounds, and cultures and understand the importance of not having your experiences feel dismissed.
Whether you're struggling with depression, anxiety, phobias, body image, relationship issues, trauma, or everyday stressors, we can work to identify the source of those feelings and create a plan to help you grow.
If you're seeking therapy, chances are that you're looking for a change or to find ways to cope with your struggles. My approach in therapy is to do my best to understand you and help you toward healing and growth. I've found one of the most powerful things people gain from therapy is recognizing that you're not alone and that change is possible. I have training and experience working with individuals and couples of various identities, backgrounds, and cultures and understand the importance of not having your experiences feel dismissed.
(347) 991-8348 View (347) 991-8348
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Justin Benson
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Patchogue, NY 11772
Embark on a journey of self-discovery and growth with a compassionate and dedicated therapist committed to guiding you through life's challenges. With a personalized and client-centered approach, I provide a safe and non-judgmental space where you can explore your thoughts, feelings, and goals. As a seasoned therapist, I bring a wealth of experience and expertise to the table, specializing in a variety of mental health issues. My therapeutic style combines evidence-based practices with genuine empathy, fostering a collaborative and trusting relationship.
Embark on a journey of self-discovery and growth with a compassionate and dedicated therapist committed to guiding you through life's challenges. With a personalized and client-centered approach, I provide a safe and non-judgmental space where you can explore your thoughts, feelings, and goals. As a seasoned therapist, I bring a wealth of experience and expertise to the table, specializing in a variety of mental health issues. My therapeutic style combines evidence-based practices with genuine empathy, fostering a collaborative and trusting relationship.
(631) 693-4775 View (631) 693-4775
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Nicholas Cavuoto
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Oakdale, NY 11769
My specialties include substance abuse and relationship issues.
The decision to enter therapy is highly personal and requires great courage, trust, and most importantly, hope. It often comes at a time in life when answers are hard to come by and people who really understand you are few and far between. Hurt, sadness, fear and anger might be clouding your view and damaging your most important relationships. Though you may not know it now, there are solutions. When you come in for your consultation we will look at why things have become so difficult and begin to work on making meaningful improvements so that the pain will stop.
My specialties include substance abuse and relationship issues.
The decision to enter therapy is highly personal and requires great courage, trust, and most importantly, hope. It often comes at a time in life when answers are hard to come by and people who really understand you are few and far between. Hurt, sadness, fear and anger might be clouding your view and damaging your most important relationships. Though you may not know it now, there are solutions. When you come in for your consultation we will look at why things have become so difficult and begin to work on making meaningful improvements so that the pain will stop.
(631) 563-3162 View (631) 563-3162
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Patrick Howard
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
South Setauket, NY 11720  (Online Only)
I am a DBT trained therapist for individuals, couples, and families.
Congratulations! You’ve taken the first step to reclaiming yourself and/or your relationships. Sometimes, the first step is the hardest, and you did it! One of the main goals of therapy that I hold in the highest regard is creating a safe and non-judgmental space for you. I aim to help my clients figure out what their next step is. Whether this is as an individual, a couple, or a family. Sometimes in life, we get stuck. Let’s work together to help figure out how to get you unstuck.
I am a DBT trained therapist for individuals, couples, and families.
Congratulations! You’ve taken the first step to reclaiming yourself and/or your relationships. Sometimes, the first step is the hardest, and you did it! One of the main goals of therapy that I hold in the highest regard is creating a safe and non-judgmental space for you. I aim to help my clients figure out what their next step is. Whether this is as an individual, a couple, or a family. Sometimes in life, we get stuck. Let’s work together to help figure out how to get you unstuck.
(347) 263-8868 View (347) 263-8868
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Jeffrey Kaplan
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Smithtown, NY 11787
I have a background in systemic thinking, and I look at how relationships affect problems in individuals, couples or families.
I am best able to assist those who struggle with competitive relationships, and feelings of being on the losing side in their interactions with those they love. I have seen couples, individuals, and entire families struggling with attempts to force one another to 'win' arguments, only to find that they never seem to go away fully. Many times, other issues such as depression, anxiety, eating disorders,sexual dysfunction or substance abuse becomes the main issue which families show to others the competitive nature which occurs within the family system, and are most concerned when they call for an initial session.
I have a background in systemic thinking, and I look at how relationships affect problems in individuals, couples or families.
I am best able to assist those who struggle with competitive relationships, and feelings of being on the losing side in their interactions with those they love. I have seen couples, individuals, and entire families struggling with attempts to force one another to 'win' arguments, only to find that they never seem to go away fully. Many times, other issues such as depression, anxiety, eating disorders,sexual dysfunction or substance abuse becomes the main issue which families show to others the competitive nature which occurs within the family system, and are most concerned when they call for an initial session.
(631) 657-4043 View (631) 657-4043
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Turning Point Marriage and Family Therapy, PC
Marriage & Family Therapist, MA, LMFT
Verified Verified
South Setauket, NY 11720  (Online Only)
My approach to therapy is a holistic and systemic approach. I work with individuals from the understanding that we are all impacted greatly by our families and the environment in which we live. I also focus on working with families and couples to improve a healthy relationship that is mutually beneficial. I work with my clients on enhancing their strengths and working through challenges to live the life that they deserve.
My approach to therapy is a holistic and systemic approach. I work with individuals from the understanding that we are all impacted greatly by our families and the environment in which we live. I also focus on working with families and couples to improve a healthy relationship that is mutually beneficial. I work with my clients on enhancing their strengths and working through challenges to live the life that they deserve.
(347) 263-8868 View (347) 263-8868
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Christopher Probeyahn
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Sayville, NY 11782
The foundation of my practice rests solely on developing and cultivating the relationship with each individual so that solutions and goals can be reached.
I believe that therapy is the process of self-actualization. It is the fulfillment of our overall need to achieve a healthy mind, body, and spirit. It is the place where one can move safely from a world of uncertainty and self-doubt to realizing the hopes and dreams of the individual in both intra and interpersonal relationships. I am firmly committed to the belief that each one of us deserves the life we have always imagined and it's a privilege to be a part of an individuals journey to that place.
The foundation of my practice rests solely on developing and cultivating the relationship with each individual so that solutions and goals can be reached.
I believe that therapy is the process of self-actualization. It is the fulfillment of our overall need to achieve a healthy mind, body, and spirit. It is the place where one can move safely from a world of uncertainty and self-doubt to realizing the hopes and dreams of the individual in both intra and interpersonal relationships. I am firmly committed to the belief that each one of us deserves the life we have always imagined and it's a privilege to be a part of an individuals journey to that place.
(631) 619-7380 View (631) 619-7380
Michael Bordes
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Patchogue, NY 11772
Waitlist for new clients
I have been a mental health counselor for nine years, offering care to individuals, families, and couples. I provide a non-judgmental space for the LGBTQ+ community, trauma survivors, as well as those working through their addiction and mental health issues. I look forward to speaking with you soon.
I have been a mental health counselor for nine years, offering care to individuals, families, and couples. I provide a non-judgmental space for the LGBTQ+ community, trauma survivors, as well as those working through their addiction and mental health issues. I look forward to speaking with you soon.
(631) 993-4094 View (631) 993-4094
Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.