Therapists in Smithtown, NY

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Family and Personal Counseling
Counselor, MS, LMHC, ASAC, CCH
Verified Verified
Smithtown, NY 11787
We are by your side! No matter the issue that you are facing... anxiety, depression, life issues, family issues, grief, trauma, couples therapy, stress relief, etc... we are ready to help. In this widely acclaimed practice, Ron Villano, M.S., LMHC, ASAC, CCH has assembled an elite team of over 35 providers. Our decades of success in talk therapy comes from creating a customized approach designed to encourage you to face your challenges with new life skills and professional support. You are here looking for that fresh start... and we will answer your call TODAY.
We are by your side! No matter the issue that you are facing... anxiety, depression, life issues, family issues, grief, trauma, couples therapy, stress relief, etc... we are ready to help. In this widely acclaimed practice, Ron Villano, M.S., LMHC, ASAC, CCH has assembled an elite team of over 35 providers. Our decades of success in talk therapy comes from creating a customized approach designed to encourage you to face your challenges with new life skills and professional support. You are here looking for that fresh start... and we will answer your call TODAY.
(631) 832-4316 View (631) 832-4316
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Adria Weinstein Gerber
Psychologist, MS, PsyD
Verified Verified
Smithtown, NY 11787  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I work with individuals who are facing family conflicts, parenting difficulties, life crises and change, loss, anxiety, and depression.
Hello, welcome to my page on psychology today. I'm a seasoned Clinical Psychologist working at Stony Brook University Hospital in their Outpatient Department. My work is eclectic and integrated between a dynamic perspective and integrative CBT. I work with people who want to learn to feel ok with their experiences, regulate their emotions, and create a more satisfying life. It is my clinical intention to help resolve the problems that prevent them from achieving these goals. I believe in empowering people to help themselves through self-understanding. Only when we know what is wrong do we have the potential to change it.
I work with individuals who are facing family conflicts, parenting difficulties, life crises and change, loss, anxiety, and depression.
Hello, welcome to my page on psychology today. I'm a seasoned Clinical Psychologist working at Stony Brook University Hospital in their Outpatient Department. My work is eclectic and integrated between a dynamic perspective and integrative CBT. I work with people who want to learn to feel ok with their experiences, regulate their emotions, and create a more satisfying life. It is my clinical intention to help resolve the problems that prevent them from achieving these goals. I believe in empowering people to help themselves through self-understanding. Only when we know what is wrong do we have the potential to change it.
(631) 619-5893 View (631) 619-5893
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Megan Paniccia
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Smithtown, NY 11787
I’ve spent my career working with a wide variety of mental health, addiction and trauma challenges and I can use these skills and knowledge of the most current best practices to support you and your family in your journey towards the best version of yourself.
Are you struggling with a mood that you can’t seem to control? Past experiences that still dictate your thoughts and behaviors? Or a life transition that your having difficulty coping with? I believe in a down to earth approach to addressing your struggles and I want to help you feel confident in your own head. I work with individuals, couples and families ranging from children to adults. Together, using a blend of CBT, DBT and mindfulness we can help you to live a healthier lifestyle with adaptive coping skills and more positive relationships.
I’ve spent my career working with a wide variety of mental health, addiction and trauma challenges and I can use these skills and knowledge of the most current best practices to support you and your family in your journey towards the best version of yourself.
Are you struggling with a mood that you can’t seem to control? Past experiences that still dictate your thoughts and behaviors? Or a life transition that your having difficulty coping with? I believe in a down to earth approach to addressing your struggles and I want to help you feel confident in your own head. I work with individuals, couples and families ranging from children to adults. Together, using a blend of CBT, DBT and mindfulness we can help you to live a healthier lifestyle with adaptive coping skills and more positive relationships.
(631) 212-2405 View (631) 212-2405
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Wendy Sue Jorgensen-James
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R, SDA
Verified Verified
Smithtown, NY 11787
Wendy has 30 years of experience in the field working with adults, children, adolescents and families. Wendy works with clients on a variety of issues including anxiety, depression, family system problems, developing coping skills, relationship problems and dealing with child developmental issues, by providing individual counseling, play therapy, and family sessions. Additionally, certified in bereavement and grief counseling. Wendy focuses on helping clients explore and clarify their personal goals, recognize their strengths, regain a sense of control, and develop tools they need to move forward in their lives.
Wendy has 30 years of experience in the field working with adults, children, adolescents and families. Wendy works with clients on a variety of issues including anxiety, depression, family system problems, developing coping skills, relationship problems and dealing with child developmental issues, by providing individual counseling, play therapy, and family sessions. Additionally, certified in bereavement and grief counseling. Wendy focuses on helping clients explore and clarify their personal goals, recognize their strengths, regain a sense of control, and develop tools they need to move forward in their lives.
(631) 801-0751 View (631) 801-0751
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James Mayer
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Smithtown, NY 11745
Individual, couples, and family counseling sessions are available.
Hello and Welcome- At True to Self Counseling we believe a supportive therapeutic relationship can have a significant impact for anyone. It can help provide insight, strength, solutions, and new coping strategies for all types of challenges in life. Our experience has shown us that when people are provided with a comfortable environment, they become willing to explore and express themselves more freely and honestly. Our hope is that we successfully guide people towards a greater self-awareness. We believe it is empowering when people can utilize their own unique abilities to overcome the concerns that led them into therapy
Individual, couples, and family counseling sessions are available.
Hello and Welcome- At True to Self Counseling we believe a supportive therapeutic relationship can have a significant impact for anyone. It can help provide insight, strength, solutions, and new coping strategies for all types of challenges in life. Our experience has shown us that when people are provided with a comfortable environment, they become willing to explore and express themselves more freely and honestly. Our hope is that we successfully guide people towards a greater self-awareness. We believe it is empowering when people can utilize their own unique abilities to overcome the concerns that led them into therapy
(516) 570-3998 View (516) 570-3998
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Jeffrey Kaplan
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Smithtown, NY 11787
I am best able to assist those who struggle with competitive relationships, and feelings of being on the losing side in their interactions with those they love. I have seen couples, individuals, and entire families struggling with attempts to force one another to 'win' arguments, only to find that they never seem to go away fully. Many times, other issues such as depression, anxiety, eating disorders,sexual dysfunction or substance abuse becomes the main issue which families show to others the competitive nature which occurs within the family system, and are most concerned when they call for an initial session.
I am best able to assist those who struggle with competitive relationships, and feelings of being on the losing side in their interactions with those they love. I have seen couples, individuals, and entire families struggling with attempts to force one another to 'win' arguments, only to find that they never seem to go away fully. Many times, other issues such as depression, anxiety, eating disorders,sexual dysfunction or substance abuse becomes the main issue which families show to others the competitive nature which occurs within the family system, and are most concerned when they call for an initial session.
(631) 657-4043 View (631) 657-4043
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Dorothy Kelly
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Smithtown, NY 11787
'Hearing with understanding is perhaps the better part of wisdom.' (-R. Lawhead). Each of us is on a personal journey. The goal is to stay on our path, nurturing and connecting to our wholeness and sense of self. When learned behaviors work against our desires we often become frustrated and depleted leaving little to give to ourself and others. Our situations are always unique, whether we are faced with depression, anxiety, couple or family problems, loss, parent-child issues, or transitional life challenges. A supportive therapeutic relationship can be a wonderful way to rediscover inner strength and regain perspective.
'Hearing with understanding is perhaps the better part of wisdom.' (-R. Lawhead). Each of us is on a personal journey. The goal is to stay on our path, nurturing and connecting to our wholeness and sense of self. When learned behaviors work against our desires we often become frustrated and depleted leaving little to give to ourself and others. Our situations are always unique, whether we are faced with depression, anxiety, couple or family problems, loss, parent-child issues, or transitional life challenges. A supportive therapeutic relationship can be a wonderful way to rediscover inner strength and regain perspective.
(631) 892-6192 View (631) 892-6192
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Gina Rutigliano
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Smithtown, NY 11787
These include: anxiety disorders, depression, family/relationship concerns, trauma and self-esteem issues.
Making the decision to see a therapist is not easy. However, it is a time of growth, self-realization and change. I believe you are the expert on you and I will walk alongside you in your journey to healing, self-exploration and self-actualization.
These include: anxiety disorders, depression, family/relationship concerns, trauma and self-esteem issues.
Making the decision to see a therapist is not easy. However, it is a time of growth, self-realization and change. I believe you are the expert on you and I will walk alongside you in your journey to healing, self-exploration and self-actualization.
(631) 529-4050 View (631) 529-4050
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Steven Perline
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Smithtown, NY 11787
Whatever the challenge, using a variety of therapeutic techniques and theories, and just some plain old talking things through, we can work to help you, your child, your family, or other loved ones successfully achieve goals, conquer challenges, challenge negative thinking and develop healthy coping skills.
Whether children, adolescents, or adults, we all have life challenges that need to be addressed: from the difficulties of navigating family requirements, needs, and dynamics to the stress associated with succeeding at school, work, or other areas. These can bring on depression, anxiety, acting out behaviors, relationship troubles and loss issues. Other times, we face challenges of our own making and need to learn how to adjust our behaviors and thought patterns. Sometimes, we just need to learn how to handle changes we were not expecting, or those we've been hoping not to have to face.
Whatever the challenge, using a variety of therapeutic techniques and theories, and just some plain old talking things through, we can work to help you, your child, your family, or other loved ones successfully achieve goals, conquer challenges, challenge negative thinking and develop healthy coping skills.
Whether children, adolescents, or adults, we all have life challenges that need to be addressed: from the difficulties of navigating family requirements, needs, and dynamics to the stress associated with succeeding at school, work, or other areas. These can bring on depression, anxiety, acting out behaviors, relationship troubles and loss issues. Other times, we face challenges of our own making and need to learn how to adjust our behaviors and thought patterns. Sometimes, we just need to learn how to handle changes we were not expecting, or those we've been hoping not to have to face.
(631) 209-7634 View (631) 209-7634
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Rachel Cunningham
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Smithtown, NY 11787
Some of my specialties include treating; Relationship issues, Family issues, Eating disorders, Trauma, Depression & Anxiety in adolescents and adults.
TODAY is the day to start improving your emotional wellness. I believe therapy is a vehicle to become emotionally secure, balanced, fulfilled and happy. My promise to you is to create a safe space to unfold, unravel and rebuild. We will explore the sources of negativity in your life and practice coping skills to heal by finding your happiness! Please note, I am a proud member of a practice, Cunningham Counseling Services, and we offer multiple services listed below. Not all ‘specialties’ listed are unique to me but it is my mission to connect you to the best therapist for your healing & happiness!
Some of my specialties include treating; Relationship issues, Family issues, Eating disorders, Trauma, Depression & Anxiety in adolescents and adults.
TODAY is the day to start improving your emotional wellness. I believe therapy is a vehicle to become emotionally secure, balanced, fulfilled and happy. My promise to you is to create a safe space to unfold, unravel and rebuild. We will explore the sources of negativity in your life and practice coping skills to heal by finding your happiness! Please note, I am a proud member of a practice, Cunningham Counseling Services, and we offer multiple services listed below. Not all ‘specialties’ listed are unique to me but it is my mission to connect you to the best therapist for your healing & happiness!
(631) 309-2126 View (631) 309-2126
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Barb C. Clague
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, ACSW, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
Smithtown, NY 11787
I am a licensed Clinical Social Worker and have worked for over 25 years with adults, couples, children and adolescents.I am a warm and caring professional who has continued with further post graduate training. I provide caring individual, couple and family psychotherapy services.Please feel free to contact me to discuss how we may work together for you, to achieve your life goals.Sliding scale and out of network are available.
I am a licensed Clinical Social Worker and have worked for over 25 years with adults, couples, children and adolescents.I am a warm and caring professional who has continued with further post graduate training. I provide caring individual, couple and family psychotherapy services.Please feel free to contact me to discuss how we may work together for you, to achieve your life goals.Sliding scale and out of network are available.
(516) 336-4312 View (516) 336-4312
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Victoria Morabito
Counselor, MS, LMHC
Verified Verified
Smithtown, NY 11787  (Online Only)
Some of the challenges that I can assist include anxiety, depression, grief and loss, as well as managing stressors associated with relationships, work and family conflict.
Seeking counseling is an important step toward making your wellbeing a priority and finding relief from the pain and unhappiness you might be feeling. When life becomes challenging and we are left feeling sad, overwhelmed or consumed with worry and doubt, it is vital that we allow ourselves to receive support from others. As a licensed mental health counselor, I provide therapeutic services in a safe and confidential setting assisting individuals who are challenged with depression, anxiety, among other emotional difficulties.
Some of the challenges that I can assist include anxiety, depression, grief and loss, as well as managing stressors associated with relationships, work and family conflict.
Seeking counseling is an important step toward making your wellbeing a priority and finding relief from the pain and unhappiness you might be feeling. When life becomes challenging and we are left feeling sad, overwhelmed or consumed with worry and doubt, it is vital that we allow ourselves to receive support from others. As a licensed mental health counselor, I provide therapeutic services in a safe and confidential setting assisting individuals who are challenged with depression, anxiety, among other emotional difficulties.
(631) 880-4872 View (631) 880-4872
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Leah Block
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, CASAC
Verified Verified
Smithtown, NY 11787  (Online Only)
I specialize in: codependency, infidelity, family substance use recovery, compulsive eating behavior, and family members of substance users/narcissists/borderline personality/abuse.
The unfolding nature of our lives is a sacred journey and can be trusted. When we know how to listen, engage and trust the wisdom of our own lives, journeys and hearts, we become more ourselves. I view therapy as a process of learning to listen and live life more authentically, from our inner GPS, rather than from others telling us who we are, who we should be and what to think/do/etc. This process is key to life satisfaction as we become the person we were meant to be.
I specialize in: codependency, infidelity, family substance use recovery, compulsive eating behavior, and family members of substance users/narcissists/borderline personality/abuse.
The unfolding nature of our lives is a sacred journey and can be trusted. When we know how to listen, engage and trust the wisdom of our own lives, journeys and hearts, we become more ourselves. I view therapy as a process of learning to listen and live life more authentically, from our inner GPS, rather than from others telling us who we are, who we should be and what to think/do/etc. This process is key to life satisfaction as we become the person we were meant to be.
(516) 206-2897 View (516) 206-2897
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Ralph G Tucci
Psychologist, PhD, MS
Verified Verified
Smithtown, NY 11787
My ideal client is one who is motivated to change. I deal with school related issues, family issues, individual issues and marital issues. My goal is to get clients to understand the consequences of their behavior and to learn how to communicate their thoughts and feelings appropriately. I try to get them to develop insight into their behaviors along with being able to develop skills to work on stressors when they are not in the therapy sessions. I deal with mood disorders including depression, anxiety disorders and anger management issues.
My ideal client is one who is motivated to change. I deal with school related issues, family issues, individual issues and marital issues. My goal is to get clients to understand the consequences of their behavior and to learn how to communicate their thoughts and feelings appropriately. I try to get them to develop insight into their behaviors along with being able to develop skills to work on stressors when they are not in the therapy sessions. I deal with mood disorders including depression, anxiety disorders and anger management issues.
(516) 307-0471 View (516) 307-0471
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Kimberly A. Dorrien
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW-R
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Smithtown, NY 11787
I've trained in Functional Family Therapy which is a strength-based approach to viewing the family as a whole and seeing that all members serve a purpose in the family, not blaming the parent or child, while improving communication and relationships.
Are you thriving or surviving in your life? Sometimes it can be difficult to cope with life's challenges and it's difficult to communicate emotions, thoughts and feelings. I can help deal with these issues by listening without judgement and help you, your child, spouse, family member or friend cope with them on a daily basis so that you can thrive in your life. I have been working with children, adolescents, families and adult for 13 years.
I've trained in Functional Family Therapy which is a strength-based approach to viewing the family as a whole and seeing that all members serve a purpose in the family, not blaming the parent or child, while improving communication and relationships.
Are you thriving or surviving in your life? Sometimes it can be difficult to cope with life's challenges and it's difficult to communicate emotions, thoughts and feelings. I can help deal with these issues by listening without judgement and help you, your child, spouse, family member or friend cope with them on a daily basis so that you can thrive in your life. I have been working with children, adolescents, families and adult for 13 years.
(631) 593-5325 View (631) 593-5325
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Andrea Mills
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Smithtown, NY 11787
I have years of experience working with children, teens, families, and maternal and perinatal health. I am passionate about working with individuals who face challenges associated with depression, anxiety, trauma, anger, family issues as well as a range of many other needs. I possess a deep understanding of how underlying mental health needs, daily stressors, and different life circumstances can cause negative feelings that can become difficult to deal with.
I have years of experience working with children, teens, families, and maternal and perinatal health. I am passionate about working with individuals who face challenges associated with depression, anxiety, trauma, anger, family issues as well as a range of many other needs. I possess a deep understanding of how underlying mental health needs, daily stressors, and different life circumstances can cause negative feelings that can become difficult to deal with.
(631) 658-5390 View (631) 658-5390
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Sunshine Therapy LCSW P.C.
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Smithtown, NY 11787
Our mission at Sunshine Therapy LCSW P.C. is to provide evidence-based, goal-oriented therapy to help you and/or your family achieve optimal mental health and wellness. If you’re experiencing anxiety, depression, chronic stress, relationship struggles or having a difficult time adjusting to life as a new parent — we can help. Psychotherapy can provide the support you need to help you find your way towards a better life. Even if you’re feeling lost now, we can help guide you in making lasting, positive changes in your life.
Our mission at Sunshine Therapy LCSW P.C. is to provide evidence-based, goal-oriented therapy to help you and/or your family achieve optimal mental health and wellness. If you’re experiencing anxiety, depression, chronic stress, relationship struggles or having a difficult time adjusting to life as a new parent — we can help. Psychotherapy can provide the support you need to help you find your way towards a better life. Even if you’re feeling lost now, we can help guide you in making lasting, positive changes in your life.
(631) 337-8111 View (631) 337-8111
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JoAnna Randisi
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Smithtown, NY 11787
As a Licensed Master Social Worker, I am passionate about creating a warm and safe environment without judgment for clients to express themselves and share their stories. I offer empathy and empowerment to cultivate positive change and promote overall emotional and mental wellness. Whether you are a child, a teenager, or an adult struggling with life transitions, anxiety, depression, trauma, ADHD, relationship issues, and/or family dynamics, we will work together toward establishing your goals and equipping you with coping skills for your daily life. No matter what you are coming to therapy for, know that you are not alone.
As a Licensed Master Social Worker, I am passionate about creating a warm and safe environment without judgment for clients to express themselves and share their stories. I offer empathy and empowerment to cultivate positive change and promote overall emotional and mental wellness. Whether you are a child, a teenager, or an adult struggling with life transitions, anxiety, depression, trauma, ADHD, relationship issues, and/or family dynamics, we will work together toward establishing your goals and equipping you with coping skills for your daily life. No matter what you are coming to therapy for, know that you are not alone.
(631) 801-0702 View (631) 801-0702
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Stephanie Persico
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW
Verified Verified
Smithtown, NY 11787  (Online Only)
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with experience working with adults and adolescents battling various mental health barriers; some including: anxiety disorders, depression, alcohol/substance abuse, personality disorders, family/relationship concerns, trauma and self-esteem issues. I offer a warm, safe and supportive environment that allows individuals to discuss their concerns free of judgment.
I am a Licensed Clinical Social Worker with experience working with adults and adolescents battling various mental health barriers; some including: anxiety disorders, depression, alcohol/substance abuse, personality disorders, family/relationship concerns, trauma and self-esteem issues. I offer a warm, safe and supportive environment that allows individuals to discuss their concerns free of judgment.
(631) 652-9809 View (631) 652-9809
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Amy Sheridan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LMSW
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Smithtown, NY 11787
Whether you are faced with anxiety, depression, couple or family problems, I utilize various approaches, including cognitive-behavioral therapy and mindfulness, to create awareness and build resiliency.
“Mental health is not a destination, but a process. It's about how you drive, not where you're going" (Shpancer, Ph.D.). Each of us is on a personal journey striving to be our best selves. Sometimes, these journeys can leave us feeling unequipped to navigate their rough terrain. For most, this is the human experience. While we can't escape the realities and emotions of this experience, we can certainly learn more effective ways to cope. We can find ways to be gentler, more loving, and kinder to ourselves so that we may share this with our loved ones and our community.
Whether you are faced with anxiety, depression, couple or family problems, I utilize various approaches, including cognitive-behavioral therapy and mindfulness, to create awareness and build resiliency.
“Mental health is not a destination, but a process. It's about how you drive, not where you're going" (Shpancer, Ph.D.). Each of us is on a personal journey striving to be our best selves. Sometimes, these journeys can leave us feeling unequipped to navigate their rough terrain. For most, this is the human experience. While we can't escape the realities and emotions of this experience, we can certainly learn more effective ways to cope. We can find ways to be gentler, more loving, and kinder to ourselves so that we may share this with our loved ones and our community.
(631) 407-0812 View (631) 407-0812
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Family Therapy

What do family therapists do?

A family therapist facilitates the process of understanding and improving how a family functions. The therapist will help family members develop empathy for one another. They’ll seek to understand existing patterns, misunderstandings, and conflicts that arise, in order to help the family arrive at a realistic, unified understanding and develop the coping skills they need to build stronger relationships.

How long does therapy for families take to work?

Therapy manifests differently in every family; a common time frame is 12 weekly sessions, but some families may see improvement after just a few weeks. Families should discuss their goals with the therapist at the beginning of the process and periodically revisit those goals to assess their progress together.

How can you encourage a family member to attend family therapy?

You can encourage family members to attend therapy by expressing with both love and concern the challenges you see and explaining how a therapist could help the family navigate those challenges together. An outside perspective can help everyone feel heard, get on the same page, and develop new skills. If family members are still hesitant, it may be helpful to emphasize that family therapy is short-term—it won’t last forever.

Is therapy for families effective?

Family therapy can significantly improve family dynamics and relationships. Research suggests that family therapy can help individuals understand their role in the family, communicate and solve problems together, reduce conflict and draw boundaries when necessary, and develop coping skills for stressors, major life changes, and mental or physical illnesses within the family.