Photo of Lauryn Blandford, Counselor in Swampscott, MA
Lauryn Blandford
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Swampscott, MA 01907  (Online Only)
I am dedicated to fostering a collaborative therapeutic relationship built on trust and respect, where clients can openly express their thoughts and emotions without fear of judgement.
In my role as a therapist, my foremost commitment is to guide individuals on their journey towards healing, self-discovery, and personal growth. I believe that every person possesses the resilience and strength to overcome life's challenges, and my role is to provide a safe and compassionate space where we can explore these strengths together.
I am dedicated to fostering a collaborative therapeutic relationship built on trust and respect, where clients can openly express their thoughts and emotions without fear of judgement.
In my role as a therapist, my foremost commitment is to guide individuals on their journey towards healing, self-discovery, and personal growth. I believe that every person possesses the resilience and strength to overcome life's challenges, and my role is to provide a safe and compassionate space where we can explore these strengths together.
(857) 353-6541 View (857) 353-6541

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Photo of Gail Sullivan, Clinical Social Work/Therapist in Swampscott, MA
Gail Sullivan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
Salem, MA 01970  (Online Only)
I believe that therapy provides a unique and supportive relationship that helps to foster a person's innate abilities for growth and healing, particularly when they are faced with stressful circumstances. By identifying life skills and coping strategies, a person can grow, heal or make the changes that they want in their lives. My approach to therapy is collaborative and engaging. I will work with you to understand and identify the best way that therapy can suit your needs. I have a person-centered approach with the utmost positive regard for the individuals who seek my help.
I believe that therapy provides a unique and supportive relationship that helps to foster a person's innate abilities for growth and healing, particularly when they are faced with stressful circumstances. By identifying life skills and coping strategies, a person can grow, heal or make the changes that they want in their lives. My approach to therapy is collaborative and engaging. I will work with you to understand and identify the best way that therapy can suit your needs. I have a person-centered approach with the utmost positive regard for the individuals who seek my help.
(978) 357-8726 View (978) 357-8726
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Shabnam Janet Janani
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LCSW, LICSW, RSW
Verified Verified
Peabody, MA 01960  (Online Only)
This therapeutic relationship rewards both of us.
Are you experiencing burnout in your relationships? Do you feel overwhelmed with life's challenges? Let me help you. My therapeutic approach helps you to be more aware of your fears, resentments, anger, anxiety, negative thoughts, and undesirable habits. On the next step, I will assist you to overcome all these challenges. On every level, this process improves your relationships with family, partner, co-workers, friends, and more importantly with your own sense of self. During the course of therapy, I commit myself in providing a confidential, empathic, and collaborative approach to build an effective relationship with you.
This therapeutic relationship rewards both of us.
Are you experiencing burnout in your relationships? Do you feel overwhelmed with life's challenges? Let me help you. My therapeutic approach helps you to be more aware of your fears, resentments, anger, anxiety, negative thoughts, and undesirable habits. On the next step, I will assist you to overcome all these challenges. On every level, this process improves your relationships with family, partner, co-workers, friends, and more importantly with your own sense of self. During the course of therapy, I commit myself in providing a confidential, empathic, and collaborative approach to build an effective relationship with you.
(647) 214-2007 View (647) 214-2007
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Jennifer Wood
Mental Health Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Middleton, MA 01949
With over 15 years of experience working in the field of Mental Health, Substance Use, Trauma, Family/Couples Therapy, and Bi-lingual services. My passion is to see Families, Couples, and Individuals achieve the greatest version of themselves. I'm compassionate, attentive and a great listener. I also provide people the space to speak freely and empower them to make the changes necessary for their well being. I enjoy embarking on this journey as well as celebrating people's great success and empowering them to continue the work on their own once they are confident to do so. If you are looking for a better life balance it starts here.
With over 15 years of experience working in the field of Mental Health, Substance Use, Trauma, Family/Couples Therapy, and Bi-lingual services. My passion is to see Families, Couples, and Individuals achieve the greatest version of themselves. I'm compassionate, attentive and a great listener. I also provide people the space to speak freely and empower them to make the changes necessary for their well being. I enjoy embarking on this journey as well as celebrating people's great success and empowering them to continue the work on their own once they are confident to do so. If you are looking for a better life balance it starts here.
(351) 200-9126 View (351) 200-9126
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James Purviance
Marriage & Family Therapist, LMFT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Beverly, MA 01915  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
***Moving to exclusively Teletherapy after May 2024*** Does communication with your partner frustrate both of you and create friction? Is your family having difficulties adjusting to life altering issues or transitions? Are medical problems with a family member causing stress within the home? Is your family in the process of separation or divorce and family members having difficulty transitioning? Let me help you through your hardships. I currently work with couples seeking help with their relationships, help with adults, adolescents, children and families dealing with stage of life adjustments and transitions.
***Moving to exclusively Teletherapy after May 2024*** Does communication with your partner frustrate both of you and create friction? Is your family having difficulties adjusting to life altering issues or transitions? Are medical problems with a family member causing stress within the home? Is your family in the process of separation or divorce and family members having difficulty transitioning? Let me help you through your hardships. I currently work with couples seeking help with their relationships, help with adults, adolescents, children and families dealing with stage of life adjustments and transitions.
(720) 669-7468 View (720) 669-7468
Photo of Jana Pressley, Psychologist in Swampscott, MA
Jana Pressley
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Melrose, MA 02176
Waitlist for new clients
As a clinical psychologist with over 25 years of experience, I specialize in working with individuals, couples, and families who have been impacted by complex trauma. We are shaped most profoundly by our earliest and closest relationships, and when those relationships have been fraught with chronic adversity – either due to neglect and abuse, or due to unintentional or unavoidable life adversity – we tend to struggle emotionally, behaviorally, and interpersonally with the impact of early life trauma exposure. Treatment is most effective when one is able to find a safe space to identify the root of those struggles.
As a clinical psychologist with over 25 years of experience, I specialize in working with individuals, couples, and families who have been impacted by complex trauma. We are shaped most profoundly by our earliest and closest relationships, and when those relationships have been fraught with chronic adversity – either due to neglect and abuse, or due to unintentional or unavoidable life adversity – we tend to struggle emotionally, behaviorally, and interpersonally with the impact of early life trauma exposure. Treatment is most effective when one is able to find a safe space to identify the root of those struggles.
(781) 590-3580 View (781) 590-3580
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Julia Griffin-Terner
Counselor, MA, LMHC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Beverly, MA 01915
Not accepting new clients
Stress presents itself to all of us - children and adults - as we navigate our daily lives. At times the stress can overwhelm our ability to cope and thrive. A therapeutic relationship offers you the opportunity to examine your present situation with someone who will not judge and who has been trained to help. The anxiety, depression, confusion or fear that lies underneath the problem can be identified and explored and skills can be learned, practiced and mastered which can change your relationship to the stress.
Stress presents itself to all of us - children and adults - as we navigate our daily lives. At times the stress can overwhelm our ability to cope and thrive. A therapeutic relationship offers you the opportunity to examine your present situation with someone who will not judge and who has been trained to help. The anxiety, depression, confusion or fear that lies underneath the problem can be identified and explored and skills can be learned, practiced and mastered which can change your relationship to the stress.
(978) 309-3338 View (978) 309-3338

Online Therapists

Enlightened Interventions
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
Worcester, MA 01608
Our practice employs therapists who are available to treat young children, adolescents, young adults, older adults, families, couples, and offer supervision and consulting to practicing professionals and agencies and have flexible scheduling to meet individual's needs.
Our practice offers clients a chance to collaborate to create a strength-based, client-centered, holistic treatment plan that will allow the client to achieve their goals through a wide variety of interventions. Our group practice has a variety of clinicians who have an extensive history working with a wide variety of presenting problems, including mood and adjustment disorders, trauma, and family and relational issues. We will work with you to find creative and plausible solutions to the problems you are facing. We believe wellness is achievable, manageable, and sustainable for all clients.
Our practice employs therapists who are available to treat young children, adolescents, young adults, older adults, families, couples, and offer supervision and consulting to practicing professionals and agencies and have flexible scheduling to meet individual's needs.
Our practice offers clients a chance to collaborate to create a strength-based, client-centered, holistic treatment plan that will allow the client to achieve their goals through a wide variety of interventions. Our group practice has a variety of clinicians who have an extensive history working with a wide variety of presenting problems, including mood and adjustment disorders, trauma, and family and relational issues. We will work with you to find creative and plausible solutions to the problems you are facing. We believe wellness is achievable, manageable, and sustainable for all clients.
(978) 404-7979 View (978) 404-7979
Photo of Chabreah Alston, Counselor in Swampscott, MA
Chabreah Alston
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
Cambridge, MA 02138  (Online Only)
She believes in utilizing her own creativity and enhancing others’ creativity in the therapeutic process; as well as ensuring that individuals/couples/families feel safe, seen and heard throughout the therapeutic process.
Chabreah Alston is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and Registered Drama Therapist. She received her Master of Arts in Clinical Mental Health Counseling with a specialization in Drama Therapy from Lesley University. Chabreah uses a Trauma-Informed approach to treat individuals and has experience in Expressive Therapies, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Substance Use Prevention and Treatment, Sober Living and working with Court-Involved youth and families.  
She believes in utilizing her own creativity and enhancing others’ creativity in the therapeutic process; as well as ensuring that individuals/couples/families feel safe, seen and heard throughout the therapeutic process.
Chabreah Alston is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor and Registered Drama Therapist. She received her Master of Arts in Clinical Mental Health Counseling with a specialization in Drama Therapy from Lesley University. Chabreah uses a Trauma-Informed approach to treat individuals and has experience in Expressive Therapies, Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) Substance Use Prevention and Treatment, Sober Living and working with Court-Involved youth and families.  
(508) 709-1624 View (508) 709-1624
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Mary Grabowski
Psychologist, PsyD
Verified Verified
Forestdale, MA 02644
I partner with you to focus on guiding you towards living your best life.
Ready to better understand how your brain function or learning impacts your day-to-day life? Ready to move forward in your life? I offer Psychological and Neuropsychological Evaluation and Therapy Services. My testing clients may have a neurological disorder or difficulties with attention, focus, organization, and/or memory, neurodevelopmental disorders, medical conditions, and comorbid psychiatric disorders. My therapy clients may have Anxiety related disorders, depression and/or stress which can cause an upheaval in life. I often work with complex families including those with a member who has ASD, disability or dementia.
I partner with you to focus on guiding you towards living your best life.
Ready to better understand how your brain function or learning impacts your day-to-day life? Ready to move forward in your life? I offer Psychological and Neuropsychological Evaluation and Therapy Services. My testing clients may have a neurological disorder or difficulties with attention, focus, organization, and/or memory, neurodevelopmental disorders, medical conditions, and comorbid psychiatric disorders. My therapy clients may have Anxiety related disorders, depression and/or stress which can cause an upheaval in life. I often work with complex families including those with a member who has ASD, disability or dementia.
(508) 687-6380 View (508) 687-6380
Photo of Donna Marie Cotter, Counselor in Swampscott, MA
Donna Marie Cotter
Counselor, MS, LMHC
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Carver, MA 02330  (Online Only)
I have worked with individuals, couples, families, adolescents and children for the last 20 yrs in clinical, home settings and through Telehealth.
Therapy should be a safe place where an individual can feel they have control to address their concerns and receive support and therapeutic strategies to build their skills. As your therapist I will provide a non-judgmental environment for you work on whatever brings you to therapy. I have been in practice for over twenty years working with individuals, families, adolescents and children. My goal is to assist my clients with utilizing their strengths to build their ability to manage issues that may be interfering with daily functioning.
I have worked with individuals, couples, families, adolescents and children for the last 20 yrs in clinical, home settings and through Telehealth.
Therapy should be a safe place where an individual can feel they have control to address their concerns and receive support and therapeutic strategies to build their skills. As your therapist I will provide a non-judgmental environment for you work on whatever brings you to therapy. I have been in practice for over twenty years working with individuals, families, adolescents and children. My goal is to assist my clients with utilizing their strengths to build their ability to manage issues that may be interfering with daily functioning.
(508) 794-8982 View (508) 794-8982
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Francesca Maxime - Maxime Clarity Somatic Coaching
SEP, IFS, CMT-P, FOT/CFP, RLT
Verified Verified
5 Endorsed
Ashland, MA 01721
I see adult individuals, couples/people in relationships, & adult families.
Are you feeling hesitant, worried, shut down, or withdrawn? Or perhaps a little low, not quite yourself, & trying to figure out what to do? Are old patterns you've used to manage no longer working? Perhaps I can help. Using a combination of mindful awareness, somatic (body)/nervous system regulation work & Internal Family Systems/parts work, we can explore the different aspects of ourselves & start to move towards the changes we'd like to see. I offer in person services in Brooklyn, NY or worldwide via Zoom video. I offer a free brief phone or video consult to see if we're a good fit: feel free to book yours at www.maximeclarity.com
I see adult individuals, couples/people in relationships, & adult families.
Are you feeling hesitant, worried, shut down, or withdrawn? Or perhaps a little low, not quite yourself, & trying to figure out what to do? Are old patterns you've used to manage no longer working? Perhaps I can help. Using a combination of mindful awareness, somatic (body)/nervous system regulation work & Internal Family Systems/parts work, we can explore the different aspects of ourselves & start to move towards the changes we'd like to see. I offer in person services in Brooklyn, NY or worldwide via Zoom video. I offer a free brief phone or video consult to see if we're a good fit: feel free to book yours at www.maximeclarity.com
(646) 974-9695 View (646) 974-9695
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Francesca Maxime
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LCSW, LICSW, SEP, IFS, FOT
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Ashland, MA 01721
Serving NY, FL & MA If you've had trauma in your life, a challenging childhood, find yourself struck with anxiety or depression & feel like you need some support, you've come to the right place. I help to guide adults, couples & adult families with somatic, relational, & mindful strategies to help you get at the root of your issues. Folks that I've helped include filmmakers, artists, actors, CEO's/nonprofit executives, Girlboss millennials, tech founders/entrepreneurs, marginalized millennials, couples from the premarital to longstanding marriage stage & more. I hold an inclusive lens along racial, LBGT+ & open relationship lines.
Serving NY, FL & MA If you've had trauma in your life, a challenging childhood, find yourself struck with anxiety or depression & feel like you need some support, you've come to the right place. I help to guide adults, couples & adult families with somatic, relational, & mindful strategies to help you get at the root of your issues. Folks that I've helped include filmmakers, artists, actors, CEO's/nonprofit executives, Girlboss millennials, tech founders/entrepreneurs, marginalized millennials, couples from the premarital to longstanding marriage stage & more. I hold an inclusive lens along racial, LBGT+ & open relationship lines.
(646) 845-7890 View (646) 845-7890
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Anne Kulakowski
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Princeton, MA 01541
When you recover your relationship with your body, your wisdom and intuition will start to guide you, as opposed to the fears, anxieties, and doubts that may currently be running the show.
Welcome! Going through a difficult time or a time in which you’re flooded with more questions than answers is hard but it can also be an invitation to discover strengths and supports you may not know you had. In therapy, you are invited to take care of yourself with more commitment, find what matters most to you, and listen deeply for answers inside of yourself. I am committed to creating a safe and non-judgmental space where you can begin your journey home to yourself.
When you recover your relationship with your body, your wisdom and intuition will start to guide you, as opposed to the fears, anxieties, and doubts that may currently be running the show.
Welcome! Going through a difficult time or a time in which you’re flooded with more questions than answers is hard but it can also be an invitation to discover strengths and supports you may not know you had. In therapy, you are invited to take care of yourself with more commitment, find what matters most to you, and listen deeply for answers inside of yourself. I am committed to creating a safe and non-judgmental space where you can begin your journey home to yourself.
(857) 226-4681 View (857) 226-4681
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Chris Kaplan
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSW, LICSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Cambridge, MA 02140
Passionate about family and couples therapy; I help children, (incl.
Accepting new clients ...Beginning to build a strong rapport begins w/ our initial conversation, allowing for open dialogue. I aim to be as authentic, supportive, and direct as possible; helping you, you and your partner, children, and/or parents, to work on the obstacles standing in the way of reaching your goals. Sometimes this means experiencing an accepting and validating environment or an opportunity to feel safe communicating with your family. My approach depends on your goals for our work together and what degree of challenge you feel ready for. Conflict or connection, I am here to support you.
Passionate about family and couples therapy; I help children, (incl.
Accepting new clients ...Beginning to build a strong rapport begins w/ our initial conversation, allowing for open dialogue. I aim to be as authentic, supportive, and direct as possible; helping you, you and your partner, children, and/or parents, to work on the obstacles standing in the way of reaching your goals. Sometimes this means experiencing an accepting and validating environment or an opportunity to feel safe communicating with your family. My approach depends on your goals for our work together and what degree of challenge you feel ready for. Conflict or connection, I am here to support you.
(857) 626-0176 View (857) 626-0176
Photo of Peg Hurley Dawson, Ph.D., Counselor in Swampscott, MA
Peg Hurley Dawson, Ph.D.
Counselor, PhD
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
North Andover, MA 01845
Specializing in treatment of sex and relationship issues, "sex addiction", problematic sexual behavior, complex trauma, PTSD, sexual pain, mismatched desire, non-traditional relationships. I utilize the following modalities: EMDR, IFS, Transforming the Experienced-Based Brain (TEB) for developmental trauma, Safe and Sound protocol (SSP), somatic psychotherapy, sandplay & sandtray. I am also informed by the Polyvagal theory and neuroscience. I offer a unique multifaceted, sex positive approach and supervisor. In addition, author of Sand Therapy for Out of Control Sexual Behavior, Shame, and Trauma: Treatment Approaches Beyond Words.
Specializing in treatment of sex and relationship issues, "sex addiction", problematic sexual behavior, complex trauma, PTSD, sexual pain, mismatched desire, non-traditional relationships. I utilize the following modalities: EMDR, IFS, Transforming the Experienced-Based Brain (TEB) for developmental trauma, Safe and Sound protocol (SSP), somatic psychotherapy, sandplay & sandtray. I am also informed by the Polyvagal theory and neuroscience. I offer a unique multifaceted, sex positive approach and supervisor. In addition, author of Sand Therapy for Out of Control Sexual Behavior, Shame, and Trauma: Treatment Approaches Beyond Words.
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Beck Sloman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, LICSW
Verified Verified
Newton, MA 02460
I specialize in supporting individuals eager for personal growth, particularly those navigating trauma, identity, and emotional challenges. Though I work with all ages, my practice is a haven for children, families, and couples, offering a compassionate space for healing and self-discovery. I also try to make space for men seeking support for challenges they might face.
I specialize in supporting individuals eager for personal growth, particularly those navigating trauma, identity, and emotional challenges. Though I work with all ages, my practice is a haven for children, families, and couples, offering a compassionate space for healing and self-discovery. I also try to make space for men seeking support for challenges they might face.
(617) 271-2910 View (617) 271-2910
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Jan Weiss
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, LICSW
Verified Verified
Florence, MA 01062
Imagine sharing your most private thoughts and feelings, safely, and without risk, so that you get to know yourself more deeply. Neuroscience teaches us how emotions affect our behavior, how they are stored in the body, and how negative emotions can be healed. In my work, I utilize techniques that focus on the relationship and the feedback mechanisms between the mind and the body in order to promote deeper and more complete healing. I also help couples and families recognize patterns of behavior that contribute to misunderstanding, tension and conflict. My intention is to create a safe space that is non-judgmental, welcoming and warm.
Imagine sharing your most private thoughts and feelings, safely, and without risk, so that you get to know yourself more deeply. Neuroscience teaches us how emotions affect our behavior, how they are stored in the body, and how negative emotions can be healed. In my work, I utilize techniques that focus on the relationship and the feedback mechanisms between the mind and the body in order to promote deeper and more complete healing. I also help couples and families recognize patterns of behavior that contribute to misunderstanding, tension and conflict. My intention is to create a safe space that is non-judgmental, welcoming and warm.
(413) 251-6018 View (413) 251-6018
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Nejla Sezer - Serene Skies Counseling
Counselor, LMHC
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Northborough, MA 01532
Welcome to my practice. The fact that you are here is a testament to your desire for a better future full of healing and growth. I am acutely aware of how difficult this first step can be, and I am here to support you on your journey. I firmly believe that establishing a strong therapeutic relationship is vital in helping my clients strive for the better. To that end, I always aim to provide a safe, open and non-judgemental atmosphere where my clients can comfortably explore the most intimate details of their lives.
Welcome to my practice. The fact that you are here is a testament to your desire for a better future full of healing and growth. I am acutely aware of how difficult this first step can be, and I am here to support you on your journey. I firmly believe that establishing a strong therapeutic relationship is vital in helping my clients strive for the better. To that end, I always aim to provide a safe, open and non-judgemental atmosphere where my clients can comfortably explore the most intimate details of their lives.
(508) 466-4606 View (508) 466-4606
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Fitzgerald Counseling Group
Counselor, LMHC, LICSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Fall River, MA 02723
Fitzgerald Counseling Group has both male and female clinicians to work with children, adults, and couples with availability days, evenings, and weekends. Our clinicians have experience and expertise in working with individuals and families with concerns around anxiety, depression, Bipolar Disorder, grief, substance use, gender dysphoria, ADHD, ODD, PTSD and other trauma-related concerns. We believe in compassionate, research-based care, and treat our clients with the utmost respect and courtesy. Please contact us directly if you would like to learn more about us, or are interested in meeting with one of our counselors.
Fitzgerald Counseling Group has both male and female clinicians to work with children, adults, and couples with availability days, evenings, and weekends. Our clinicians have experience and expertise in working with individuals and families with concerns around anxiety, depression, Bipolar Disorder, grief, substance use, gender dysphoria, ADHD, ODD, PTSD and other trauma-related concerns. We believe in compassionate, research-based care, and treat our clients with the utmost respect and courtesy. Please contact us directly if you would like to learn more about us, or are interested in meeting with one of our counselors.
(508) 689-4831 View (508) 689-4831
Couples Counseling Therapists

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.