Infidelity Therapists in Wynberg

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Lufuno Nthangeni
General Counsellor, BSocSci Hons
Online Only
I am a counselling professional and the founder of Khavho Counselling. I work with young women, students, and individuals who are feeling overwhelmed by life, relationships, trauma, anxiety, or emotional pain. I believe healing starts when people feel heard and safe. My role is to walk alongside my clients as they make sense of their experiences, rebuild emotional strength, and find their way back to themselves. At the heart of my work is compassion, honesty, and a deep respect for each person’s journey.
I am a counselling professional and the founder of Khavho Counselling. I work with young women, students, and individuals who are feeling overwhelmed by life, relationships, trauma, anxiety, or emotional pain. I believe healing starts when people feel heard and safe. My role is to walk alongside my clients as they make sense of their experiences, rebuild emotional strength, and find their way back to themselves. At the heart of my work is compassion, honesty, and a deep respect for each person’s journey.
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Mohamed Rawoot
Psychologist, MPsych, HPCSA - Clin. Psych.
Serves Area
As a clinical psychologist practicing in Cape Town, I am committed to providing a safe, non-judgmental space where individuals can explore their thoughts, feelings, and experiences. I believe that therapy is a collaborative journey, and I work alongside my clients to help them develop the tools and insights needed to navigate life's challenges and achieve their personal goals.
As a clinical psychologist practicing in Cape Town, I am committed to providing a safe, non-judgmental space where individuals can explore their thoughts, feelings, and experiences. I believe that therapy is a collaborative journey, and I work alongside my clients to help them develop the tools and insights needed to navigate life's challenges and achieve their personal goals.
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Alexander Pennington
General Counsellor, MSc
Serves Area
I've studied the science, philosophy, and history of therapy at the University of Cape Town and University College London for seven years, and I have practiced as a counsellor in Cape Town after an apprenticeship since 2019. Take a look at my website to see how I do things.
I've studied the science, philosophy, and history of therapy at the University of Cape Town and University College London for seven years, and I have practiced as a counsellor in Cape Town after an apprenticeship since 2019. Take a look at my website to see how I do things.
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Candice Nicolo
Psychologist, MA, HPCSA - Clin. Psych.
Serves Area
Life can be challenging and we may feel lost, overwhelmed or a myriad of other emotions that we do not always understand. Therapy provides a safe and supportive space in which to understand and find ways of understanding and overcoming these challenges. Our lives are unique, and as such the focus of therapy I provide is aligned to your particular needs, whether it is to manage a crisis within yourself, or to better understand and function in relationships with others. I work with teenagers age 15 and up, and adults.
Life can be challenging and we may feel lost, overwhelmed or a myriad of other emotions that we do not always understand. Therapy provides a safe and supportive space in which to understand and find ways of understanding and overcoming these challenges. Our lives are unique, and as such the focus of therapy I provide is aligned to your particular needs, whether it is to manage a crisis within yourself, or to better understand and function in relationships with others. I work with teenagers age 15 and up, and adults.
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Dr Siya Mjwara
Social Worker, PhD
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
I offer counselling and coaching mostly in the areas of trauma, depression, anxiety, relationship and family matters. I work with individuals, couples and families. Having been in the field for over 15 years; I have a passion for assisting clients to overcome challenges; seeing them become the best version of themselves and living within their purpose.
I offer counselling and coaching mostly in the areas of trauma, depression, anxiety, relationship and family matters. I work with individuals, couples and families. Having been in the field for over 15 years; I have a passion for assisting clients to overcome challenges; seeing them become the best version of themselves and living within their purpose.
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Zandile Mdudi
Social Worker, MSocSci, SACSSP
Serves Area
I am a social worker with over four years experience working with adults (20 - 60yrs ) and adolescents (14 -19yrs). I have specifically worked with young people with academic and emotional challenges. As well in the employee wellness space assisting adults with challenges such as grief, depression/anxiety, relationship/marital and parental or family challenges.
I am a social worker with over four years experience working with adults (20 - 60yrs ) and adolescents (14 -19yrs). I have specifically worked with young people with academic and emotional challenges. As well in the employee wellness space assisting adults with challenges such as grief, depression/anxiety, relationship/marital and parental or family challenges.
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Abigail Cornelia Layman
General Counsellor, ASCHP Wellness Counsellor
Online Only
I am a mature counselor who previously had an established career as a Solo artist. I have a desire to counsel clients who are broken, lonely and has feelings of hopelessness. I focus on healthy self esteems from very young. As I believe that a healthy self esteem is the vehicle that navigates us to our desires in life.
I am a mature counselor who previously had an established career as a Solo artist. I have a desire to counsel clients who are broken, lonely and has feelings of hopelessness. I focus on healthy self esteems from very young. As I believe that a healthy self esteem is the vehicle that navigates us to our desires in life.
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Carin-Lee Masters
Psychologist, MPsych, HPCSA - Clin. Psych.
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
My work focusses on clients who are struggling with the effects of childhood abuse and trauma as well as the emotional effects related to narcissistic abuse, past or present. I provide a space for clients to feel safe and to allow them to loosen their defences they needed to protect themselves and to understand their inner world and change old repetitive and obstructive patterns of being and relating. My focus is in working with young and older adults. I also include expressive therapy approaches, where needed, as a means to access emotions and experiences that are difficult to verbalise.
My work focusses on clients who are struggling with the effects of childhood abuse and trauma as well as the emotional effects related to narcissistic abuse, past or present. I provide a space for clients to feel safe and to allow them to loosen their defences they needed to protect themselves and to understand their inner world and change old repetitive and obstructive patterns of being and relating. My focus is in working with young and older adults. I also include expressive therapy approaches, where needed, as a means to access emotions and experiences that are difficult to verbalise.
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Liesel Swartz
General Counsellor, ASCHP Specialist Wellness Counsellor
3 Endorsed
Online Only
Life’s challenges can leave us feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or disconnected from ourselves. I provide supportive, strengths-based counselling for adults navigating relationship difficulties, narcissistic abuse recovery, grief, anxiety, life transitions, self-esteem challenges, and personal growth. My approach combines compassion, practical tools, and psychoeducation to help clients gain clarity and move forward with confidence.
Life’s challenges can leave us feeling overwhelmed, stuck, or disconnected from ourselves. I provide supportive, strengths-based counselling for adults navigating relationship difficulties, narcissistic abuse recovery, grief, anxiety, life transitions, self-esteem challenges, and personal growth. My approach combines compassion, practical tools, and psychoeducation to help clients gain clarity and move forward with confidence.
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Arnfried Klein-Werner
General Counsellor
Lastly, I help couples work through the devastation of infidelity - emotional or physical.
The pain of continued relational conflict, that just never seems to be resolved can eat at your soul, leaving you feeling alone and exhausted. The desire to have your partner know your pain and see your hurt is what you long for. Whether the pain has been caused by them, or whether you suffer from the pain of abuse at the hands of caregivers or others in your childhood, you want someone to know and understand what you are going through. You want the pain to stop and become free and whole. Sometimes you just wish you could run away.
Lastly, I help couples work through the devastation of infidelity - emotional or physical.
The pain of continued relational conflict, that just never seems to be resolved can eat at your soul, leaving you feeling alone and exhausted. The desire to have your partner know your pain and see your hurt is what you long for. Whether the pain has been caused by them, or whether you suffer from the pain of abuse at the hands of caregivers or others in your childhood, you want someone to know and understand what you are going through. You want the pain to stop and become free and whole. Sometimes you just wish you could run away.
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Orette King
General Counsellor
Big Bay 7441
What You'll Work On: Communication breakdown Repeated conflict cycles Infidelity or trust issues Emotional disconnection Life transitions
I use a structured, practical approach to help individuals and couples understand what’s happening beneath the surface of their challenges—and how to change it. My work draws on evidence-based methods, including the Gottman Method and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT). In couples counselling, this means helping partners: • Improve communication and reduce conflict • Understand recurring patterns and triggers • Rebuild trust after hurt or disconnection • Strengthen emotional connection and partnership
What You'll Work On: Communication breakdown Repeated conflict cycles Infidelity or trust issues Emotional disconnection Life transitions
I use a structured, practical approach to help individuals and couples understand what’s happening beneath the surface of their challenges—and how to change it. My work draws on evidence-based methods, including the Gottman Method and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT). In couples counselling, this means helping partners: • Improve communication and reduce conflict • Understand recurring patterns and triggers • Rebuild trust after hurt or disconnection • Strengthen emotional connection and partnership
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Nontozamo Tsetse
Psychologist, MA, HPCSA - Couns. Psych.
1 Endorsed
Bellville 7530
Are you struggling with mental and emotional challenges, feeling overwhelmed, lost, or stuck in your current circumstances? Do you need a safe space to explore your thoughts and feelings, to feel heard, accepted, and understood without judgment? Look no further. I am here to hold your hand while navigating your difficulties and empower you to heal, gain insight into your problems, manage emotional triggers, shift negative thinking patterns, let go of unhelpful behaviors and create the life you desire.
Are you struggling with mental and emotional challenges, feeling overwhelmed, lost, or stuck in your current circumstances? Do you need a safe space to explore your thoughts and feelings, to feel heard, accepted, and understood without judgment? Look no further. I am here to hold your hand while navigating your difficulties and empower you to heal, gain insight into your problems, manage emotional triggers, shift negative thinking patterns, let go of unhelpful behaviors and create the life you desire.
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Sehorane Mavis Lehlomela
Social Worker, BSocSci Hons, SACSSP
Serves Area
My name is Sehorane Lehlomela affectionately known as Seho, a Social Worker who has interests in working with children and adults who experience life challenges. I specialize in trauma counselling, health and wellness, marriage and family counselling as well as stress related issues. I know seeking professional help is not easy for people especially for men whom the society portrait as strong. It is okay, i am here to listen to you, help you every step of the way until you are okay.
My name is Sehorane Lehlomela affectionately known as Seho, a Social Worker who has interests in working with children and adults who experience life challenges. I specialize in trauma counselling, health and wellness, marriage and family counselling as well as stress related issues. I know seeking professional help is not easy for people especially for men whom the society portrait as strong. It is okay, i am here to listen to you, help you every step of the way until you are okay.
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Kaylene Pillay-Lawrence
Psychologist, MSocSci, HPCSA - Clin. Psych.
St Dumas 7580
As a licensed psychologist, registered with the HPCSA, I am dedicated to helping individuals overcome personal challenges and achieve emotional well-being. I specialise in addiction care, anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, trauma, and complex disorders. My approach is an integrated one, including but not limited to Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), psychodynamic therapy, mindfulness, and other evidence-based techniques to address each client’s unique needs and promote lasting change.
As a licensed psychologist, registered with the HPCSA, I am dedicated to helping individuals overcome personal challenges and achieve emotional well-being. I specialise in addiction care, anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, trauma, and complex disorders. My approach is an integrated one, including but not limited to Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), psychodynamic therapy, mindfulness, and other evidence-based techniques to address each client’s unique needs and promote lasting change.
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Mike de Freitas
General Counsellor, PhD
As a certified pastoral therapist, I guide individuals and couples to understand and heal their past, recognize and change present negative behaviour patterns, and cope with overwhelming stress and busyness, as well as motivation and addiction issues. I help people rediscover dreams and attain an inspired vision of the future, equipping them to start strategically living this future now.
As a certified pastoral therapist, I guide individuals and couples to understand and heal their past, recognize and change present negative behaviour patterns, and cope with overwhelming stress and busyness, as well as motivation and addiction issues. I help people rediscover dreams and attain an inspired vision of the future, equipping them to start strategically living this future now.
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Lynette Woodberg Registered Counsellor
Registered Counsellor, HPCSA - Counsellor
N1 City 7460
Counselling is my life purpose. Whilst working in Corporate Human Resources, I engaged many who had mental health challenges, felt misunderstood & lacked support in their environment. I have empathised, listened to & supported those who shared their concerns, dreams & challenges esp. when they did not exp. fulfillment at work. Helping clients to find their life purpose may reduce symptoms relating to mental health conditions & bring about change that will impact them, their families & communities. Other interests include: Supporting Individuals who are in Toxic Relationships, GBV, End of Life Process, Dementia, Dealing with Change.
Counselling is my life purpose. Whilst working in Corporate Human Resources, I engaged many who had mental health challenges, felt misunderstood & lacked support in their environment. I have empathised, listened to & supported those who shared their concerns, dreams & challenges esp. when they did not exp. fulfillment at work. Helping clients to find their life purpose may reduce symptoms relating to mental health conditions & bring about change that will impact them, their families & communities. Other interests include: Supporting Individuals who are in Toxic Relationships, GBV, End of Life Process, Dementia, Dealing with Change.
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Photo of Lucinda J. Valentine - The Tiny Room Therapy for Suicide Prevention
When you've stopped recognising your own life — when nothing feels worth waking up for — The Tiny Room is where people come to find themselves again. We are a registered private practice in Bellville, Cape Town, specialising in suicide prevention, adolescent therapy, and the cases that feel most hopeless. Our proprietary TTRITF — The Tiny Room Integrated Therapeutic Framework — is an evidence-based eight-week, eight-session process integrating seven established therapeutic modalities into one coherent intervention. One process. Eight consecutive weeks. A life that feels like yours again.
When you've stopped recognising your own life — when nothing feels worth waking up for — The Tiny Room is where people come to find themselves again. We are a registered private practice in Bellville, Cape Town, specialising in suicide prevention, adolescent therapy, and the cases that feel most hopeless. Our proprietary TTRITF — The Tiny Room Integrated Therapeutic Framework — is an evidence-based eight-week, eight-session process integrating seven established therapeutic modalities into one coherent intervention. One process. Eight consecutive weeks. A life that feels like yours again.
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Bronya Fosseus
Registered Counsellor, HPCSA - Counsellor
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
The people I work with are often going through life’s messier moments- grief, relationship ups and downs, or big life transitions like moving, changing careers, becoming a parent, or starting over after a breakup. Things may feel a bit off, uncertain, or heavier than usual. You’re usually the one holding it together, but lately, it’s just… a lot.
The people I work with are often going through life’s messier moments- grief, relationship ups and downs, or big life transitions like moving, changing careers, becoming a parent, or starting over after a breakup. Things may feel a bit off, uncertain, or heavier than usual. You’re usually the one holding it together, but lately, it’s just… a lot.
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Robyn Raymond
General Counsellor, BSocSci Hons, ASCHP Specialist Wellness Counsellor
Gardens 8001
I offer trauma-informed counselling for adults and adolescents in a safe, non-judgmental, and culturally sensitive therapeutic space. Grounded in active, engaged, and empathic listening, my work is centered on deeply acknowledging the intrinsic value, resilience, and power each person brings into the room. As a Queer intersectional counsellor, I am body- and sex-positive, Queer-affirming, gender-affirming, kink-aware, and sex-worker safe. I am committed to providing an inclusive space where all parts of you are welcome.
I offer trauma-informed counselling for adults and adolescents in a safe, non-judgmental, and culturally sensitive therapeutic space. Grounded in active, engaged, and empathic listening, my work is centered on deeply acknowledging the intrinsic value, resilience, and power each person brings into the room. As a Queer intersectional counsellor, I am body- and sex-positive, Queer-affirming, gender-affirming, kink-aware, and sex-worker safe. I am committed to providing an inclusive space where all parts of you are welcome.
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Lorian Phillips
Psychologist, MA, HPCSA - Clin. Psych.
I really enjoy working with clients who are feeling frustrated or stuck in their lives/ relationships and keep bumping up against the same obstacles in one way or another. Their aim for therapy is to understand why this keeps happening and to grow and develop beyond it. There are usually patterns in a person's life and it's so liberating when a client is able to see and understand them
I really enjoy working with clients who are feeling frustrated or stuck in their lives/ relationships and keep bumping up against the same obstacles in one way or another. Their aim for therapy is to understand why this keeps happening and to grow and develop beyond it. There are usually patterns in a person's life and it's so liberating when a client is able to see and understand them
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Infidelity Counsellors
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.