Infidelity Therapists in Thornton

People can feel overwhelmed at times by the daily stress of life and problems can seem insurmountable. Speaking to a trained Counsellor like me can help you overcome life's challenges and help you make positive changes in your life and relationships.
People can feel overwhelmed at times by the daily stress of life and problems can seem insurmountable. Speaking to a trained Counsellor like me can help you overcome life's challenges and help you make positive changes in your life and relationships.

Counselling is my life purpose. Whilst working in Corporate Human Resources, I engaged many who had mental health challenges, felt misunderstood & lacked support in their environment. I have empathised, listened to & supported those who shared their concerns, dreams & challenges esp. when they did not exp. fulfillment at work. Helping clients to find their life purpose may reduce symptoms relating to mental health conditions & bring about change that will impact them, their families & communities. Other interests include: Supporting Individuals who are in Toxic Relationships, GBV, End of Life Process, Dementia, Dealing with Change.
Counselling is my life purpose. Whilst working in Corporate Human Resources, I engaged many who had mental health challenges, felt misunderstood & lacked support in their environment. I have empathised, listened to & supported those who shared their concerns, dreams & challenges esp. when they did not exp. fulfillment at work. Helping clients to find their life purpose may reduce symptoms relating to mental health conditions & bring about change that will impact them, their families & communities. Other interests include: Supporting Individuals who are in Toxic Relationships, GBV, End of Life Process, Dementia, Dealing with Change.
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Lastly, I help couples work through the devastation of infidelity - emotional or physical.
The pain of continued relational conflict, that just never seems to be resolved can eat at your soul, leaving you feeling alone and exhausted. The desire to have your partner know your pain and see your hurt is what you long for. Whether the pain has been caused by them, or whether you suffer from the pain of abuse at the hands of caregivers or others in your childhood, you want someone to know and understand what you are going through. You want the pain to stop and become free and whole. Sometimes you just wish you could run away.
Lastly, I help couples work through the devastation of infidelity - emotional or physical.
The pain of continued relational conflict, that just never seems to be resolved can eat at your soul, leaving you feeling alone and exhausted. The desire to have your partner know your pain and see your hurt is what you long for. Whether the pain has been caused by them, or whether you suffer from the pain of abuse at the hands of caregivers or others in your childhood, you want someone to know and understand what you are going through. You want the pain to stop and become free and whole. Sometimes you just wish you could run away.

I specialize in issues such as narcissistic abuse recovery, abortions(had or planning), divorce, infidelity, incest, rape and various other areas of trauma.
The Individuals that feel as though no-one will understand or who have been told time and time again that they are the ones at fault, either in their relationships or at work. The individuals who feel alone and who cannot speak out due to hidden manipulation and control within a home or who are insidiously abused within a relationship. The individuals who feel that they are the ones who have destroyed their families lives, the individuals who want a safe space, a listening ear and supportive dialogue. The individual who wants clarity of mind, effective coping mechanisms and understanding, these are the individuals I counsel.
I specialize in issues such as narcissistic abuse recovery, abortions(had or planning), divorce, infidelity, incest, rape and various other areas of trauma.
The Individuals that feel as though no-one will understand or who have been told time and time again that they are the ones at fault, either in their relationships or at work. The individuals who feel alone and who cannot speak out due to hidden manipulation and control within a home or who are insidiously abused within a relationship. The individuals who feel that they are the ones who have destroyed their families lives, the individuals who want a safe space, a listening ear and supportive dialogue. The individual who wants clarity of mind, effective coping mechanisms and understanding, these are the individuals I counsel.

I have special interest in the areas of grief and loss, trauma (arising from physical/sexual/emotional neglect, abuse and/or betrayal), and couples/relationship work.
Counselling is my 2nd career, and my true calling. I bring to it a wealth of life experience, including an initial career as a lawyer in London and SA, extensive travels abroad, my ongoing roles as wife, and mother (my last born is now a teen; two of my children have ADHD; my middle child lives with significant physical disabilities).
I have special interest in the areas of grief and loss, trauma (arising from physical/sexual/emotional neglect, abuse and/or betrayal), and couples/relationship work.
Counselling is my 2nd career, and my true calling. I bring to it a wealth of life experience, including an initial career as a lawyer in London and SA, extensive travels abroad, my ongoing roles as wife, and mother (my last born is now a teen; two of my children have ADHD; my middle child lives with significant physical disabilities).

I support individuals who are navigating the deep pain of betrayal trauma, the lasting wounds of childhood trauma, and the challenges of family conflict and domestic abuse (including intimate partner violence).
As a trauma-informed counsellor rooted in empathy, compassion, and faith, I understand that life can hit some of us harder than others, and healing can feel out of reach. My goal is to walk alongside you with care and insight, helping you navigate the effects of Betrayal Trauma, Childhood Trauma, and Domestic/Relational abuse.
I support individuals who are navigating the deep pain of betrayal trauma, the lasting wounds of childhood trauma, and the challenges of family conflict and domestic abuse (including intimate partner violence).
As a trauma-informed counsellor rooted in empathy, compassion, and faith, I understand that life can hit some of us harder than others, and healing can feel out of reach. My goal is to walk alongside you with care and insight, helping you navigate the effects of Betrayal Trauma, Childhood Trauma, and Domestic/Relational abuse.

Acknowledging your pain and reaching out is not just brave—it’s a profound act of self-care and hope for a better, healthier future. I support Survivors of Narcissistic Abuse—those who have endured emotional manipulation, gaslighting, etc. I also help clients navigate challenges such as (but not limited to) anxiety, stress, depression, and relationship issues. My practice welcomes individuals from diverse background and experiences. I focus on creating a supportive, non-judgmental environment where everyone feels accepted, included and valued.
Acknowledging your pain and reaching out is not just brave—it’s a profound act of self-care and hope for a better, healthier future. I support Survivors of Narcissistic Abuse—those who have endured emotional manipulation, gaslighting, etc. I also help clients navigate challenges such as (but not limited to) anxiety, stress, depression, and relationship issues. My practice welcomes individuals from diverse background and experiences. I focus on creating a supportive, non-judgmental environment where everyone feels accepted, included and valued.

Are you feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected from your true self? As a psychologist with over 20 years of experience, I believe in your inherent ability to grow and thrive. I offer a warm and safe, supportive, compassionate, non-judgemental and non-discriminatory therapeutic space, providing comprehensive, individually tailored mental health services to youth, adults, couples, families, and children. While I specialize in relationship difficulties, LGBTQIA+ orientations, family dysfunction and neurodiversity (ADHD/ASD), I also offer psychological, educational, and neuropsychological assessment and intervention.
Are you feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected from your true self? As a psychologist with over 20 years of experience, I believe in your inherent ability to grow and thrive. I offer a warm and safe, supportive, compassionate, non-judgemental and non-discriminatory therapeutic space, providing comprehensive, individually tailored mental health services to youth, adults, couples, families, and children. While I specialize in relationship difficulties, LGBTQIA+ orientations, family dysfunction and neurodiversity (ADHD/ASD), I also offer psychological, educational, and neuropsychological assessment and intervention.

Cornell Pretorius Psychological Services
Psychologist, MA, HPCSA - Couns. Psych.
1 Endorsed
Somerset West 7130
Waitlist for new clients
Life presents each one of us with many challenges & some very daunting circumstances at times. It may seem that you are in a maze, surrounded with several doors out. You have tried this door & that door, but to no avail. Sometimes you may just need another key as the keys you hold just would not turn the lock.
Life presents each one of us with many challenges & some very daunting circumstances at times. It may seem that you are in a maze, surrounded with several doors out. You have tried this door & that door, but to no avail. Sometimes you may just need another key as the keys you hold just would not turn the lock.

When life feels unmanageable and emotions become too heavy to bear, I aim for my office to be a safe haven where we can work together toward healing and clarity.
As a counsellor I offer a warm, supportive, and practical space where we can talk openly and walk the journey of healing together. My approach is holistic and integrative, considering all aspects of your life rather than taking a narrow view of the problem. I blend traditional and alternative methods to create an effective, balanced and whole-person approach.
When life feels unmanageable and emotions become too heavy to bear, I aim for my office to be a safe haven where we can work together toward healing and clarity.
As a counsellor I offer a warm, supportive, and practical space where we can talk openly and walk the journey of healing together. My approach is holistic and integrative, considering all aspects of your life rather than taking a narrow view of the problem. I blend traditional and alternative methods to create an effective, balanced and whole-person approach.

Feeling stuck in anxiety, grief, addiction, or a lack of purpose? Struggling with your relationships or emotional balance? You’re not alone and healing is possible. As a registered Wellness Counsellor and integrative therapist, I blend modern psychology with Eastern healing principles to support individuals facing anxiety, trauma, depression, and relationship distress. Together, we’ll uncover clarity, inner peace, and renewed self-worth.
Feeling stuck in anxiety, grief, addiction, or a lack of purpose? Struggling with your relationships or emotional balance? You’re not alone and healing is possible. As a registered Wellness Counsellor and integrative therapist, I blend modern psychology with Eastern healing principles to support individuals facing anxiety, trauma, depression, and relationship distress. Together, we’ll uncover clarity, inner peace, and renewed self-worth.

My work focusses on clients who are struggling with the effects of childhood abuse and trauma as well as the emotional effects related to narcissistic abuse, past or present. I provide a space for clients to feel safe and to allow them to loosen their defences they needed to protect themselves and to understand their inner world and change old repetitive and obstructive patterns of being and relating. My focus is in working with young and older adults. I also include expressive therapy approaches, where needed, as a means to access emotions and experiences that are difficult to verbalise.
My work focusses on clients who are struggling with the effects of childhood abuse and trauma as well as the emotional effects related to narcissistic abuse, past or present. I provide a space for clients to feel safe and to allow them to loosen their defences they needed to protect themselves and to understand their inner world and change old repetitive and obstructive patterns of being and relating. My focus is in working with young and older adults. I also include expressive therapy approaches, where needed, as a means to access emotions and experiences that are difficult to verbalise.

Life stressors seem to be amplified at the moment, while anxiety and depression are on the rise. Issues of mental health do not have to be dealt with on one's own. A psychotherapy process can offer support by exploring issues, unlearning destructive patterns and creatively replacing them with ones that promote well-being.
Life stressors seem to be amplified at the moment, while anxiety and depression are on the rise. Issues of mental health do not have to be dealt with on one's own. A psychotherapy process can offer support by exploring issues, unlearning destructive patterns and creatively replacing them with ones that promote well-being.

My ideal client is usually someone needing professional help for the first time and is hesitant to take that first step. Their needs, issues and goals are usually themselves, their partner, their kids or life in general.
My ideal client is usually someone needing professional help for the first time and is hesitant to take that first step. Their needs, issues and goals are usually themselves, their partner, their kids or life in general.

Life can feel overwhelming when you’re trying to balance personal growth, relationships, career decisions, and emotional wellbeing. Many of my clients are professionals, leaders, and everyday people who are doing their best but feel stuck, uncertain, or disconnected from what truly matters. I help you pause, reflect, and reset without pressure or judgment. Whether you're navigating career transitions, burnout, relationship challenges, or self-doubt, our work together is about clarity, emotional resilience, and realistic next steps. This isn’t about fixing you. You’re not broken. It’s about creating space for you to be yourself.
Life can feel overwhelming when you’re trying to balance personal growth, relationships, career decisions, and emotional wellbeing. Many of my clients are professionals, leaders, and everyday people who are doing their best but feel stuck, uncertain, or disconnected from what truly matters. I help you pause, reflect, and reset without pressure or judgment. Whether you're navigating career transitions, burnout, relationship challenges, or self-doubt, our work together is about clarity, emotional resilience, and realistic next steps. This isn’t about fixing you. You’re not broken. It’s about creating space for you to be yourself.

On the brink of a new permanent relationship and wondering: how do I make this work? Already married but struggling, or experiencing the trauma of divorce? Want to love again but now there are children to consider in the new marriage you are entering into? All of these big life experiences can be scary and exciting at the same time, and sometimes we need some guidance in them. Visit: my website relationtherapy.co.za.
On the brink of a new permanent relationship and wondering: how do I make this work? Already married but struggling, or experiencing the trauma of divorce? Want to love again but now there are children to consider in the new marriage you are entering into? All of these big life experiences can be scary and exciting at the same time, and sometimes we need some guidance in them. Visit: my website relationtherapy.co.za.

Are you a successful, capable woman in business, but secretly battling self-doubt, anxiety, or feeling like a fraud? Do you find yourself overworking, undercharging, or burning out, even though you crave confidence, balance, and fulfillment? You want to break free from old patterns, feel empowered and worthy, as well as create lasting success, whether in business, relationships, or life. You also don't have much spare time, or energy to do the inner work, BUT you know deep down you’re meant for more and something has to change.
Are you a successful, capable woman in business, but secretly battling self-doubt, anxiety, or feeling like a fraud? Do you find yourself overworking, undercharging, or burning out, even though you crave confidence, balance, and fulfillment? You want to break free from old patterns, feel empowered and worthy, as well as create lasting success, whether in business, relationships, or life. You also don't have much spare time, or energy to do the inner work, BUT you know deep down you’re meant for more and something has to change.

At Arise Mental Wellness, we offer therapy and counselling for individuals, couples, and families navigating life’s challenges. Whether you're feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected, we’re here to walk with you. Blythe Brigg and Christiane Irene are the co owners as well as Specialist Wellness Counsellors dedicated to creating a safe, person-centred space where insight, resilience, and connection can grow. Our goal is to equip you with tools that support healing, balance, and meaningful change.
At Arise Mental Wellness, we offer therapy and counselling for individuals, couples, and families navigating life’s challenges. Whether you're feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected, we’re here to walk with you. Blythe Brigg and Christiane Irene are the co owners as well as Specialist Wellness Counsellors dedicated to creating a safe, person-centred space where insight, resilience, and connection can grow. Our goal is to equip you with tools that support healing, balance, and meaningful change.

I am a social worker with over four years experience working with adults (20 - 60yrs ) and adolescents (14 -19yrs). I have specifically worked with young people with academic and emotional challenges. As well in the employee wellness space assisting adults with challenges such as grief, depression/anxiety, relationship/marital and parental or family challenges.
I am a social worker with over four years experience working with adults (20 - 60yrs ) and adolescents (14 -19yrs). I have specifically worked with young people with academic and emotional challenges. As well in the employee wellness space assisting adults with challenges such as grief, depression/anxiety, relationship/marital and parental or family challenges.
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- Milnerton
- Observatory
- Parklands
- Parow
- Pinelands
- Table View
Infidelity Counsellors
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.
How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.
How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.
How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.