Emotionally Focused Therapists in Mowbray
I am an experienced therapist and coach, with multiple trainings to support your needs. I started as an art therapist 20 years ago and have actively added to my qualifications and experience. I specialize in grief and loss work, including infertility; as well as working with people struggling with anxiety, trauma and depression. I focus on helping you navigate difficult times, and address problem areas with a focus on wellbeing, using resilience coaching and other tools. I work in a Humanistic, Positive Psychology framework, a whole person, strengths-based approach looking at your mental, physical and emotional health needs.
I am an experienced therapist and coach, with multiple trainings to support your needs. I started as an art therapist 20 years ago and have actively added to my qualifications and experience. I specialize in grief and loss work, including infertility; as well as working with people struggling with anxiety, trauma and depression. I focus on helping you navigate difficult times, and address problem areas with a focus on wellbeing, using resilience coaching and other tools. I work in a Humanistic, Positive Psychology framework, a whole person, strengths-based approach looking at your mental, physical and emotional health needs.
I do not have card facilities but am happy to accept cash or EFT.
I am a Registered Counsellor, in private practice. I love to get alongside clients struggling with personal or relationship issues and who need a safe space in which to unpack and process the "hard stuff". In my own life I have dealt with infertility, adoption, divorce and bereavement, and the need to reinvent myself as a single mother. We often encounter seemingly insurmountable roadblocks in life, but with support in unpacking and reframing issues, a positive way ahead can usually be found. My Christian faith is important to me, but I am happy to work with clients of other faiths.
I do not have card facilities but am happy to accept cash or EFT.
I am a Registered Counsellor, in private practice. I love to get alongside clients struggling with personal or relationship issues and who need a safe space in which to unpack and process the "hard stuff". In my own life I have dealt with infertility, adoption, divorce and bereavement, and the need to reinvent myself as a single mother. We often encounter seemingly insurmountable roadblocks in life, but with support in unpacking and reframing issues, a positive way ahead can usually be found. My Christian faith is important to me, but I am happy to work with clients of other faiths.
When our usual way of coping no longer feels enough, it can really help to seek more support. As a registered counsellor I can work with you to explore the current challenges in your life. My approach is warm, non-judgmental and compassionate; based on rigorous training and experience. I will offer you emotional support alongside psycho-education about mental wellbeing, whatever your circumstances or stage of life. Together we will discover your goals for counseling, explore what helps and celebrate the strengths that make you who you are.
When our usual way of coping no longer feels enough, it can really help to seek more support. As a registered counsellor I can work with you to explore the current challenges in your life. My approach is warm, non-judgmental and compassionate; based on rigorous training and experience. I will offer you emotional support alongside psycho-education about mental wellbeing, whatever your circumstances or stage of life. Together we will discover your goals for counseling, explore what helps and celebrate the strengths that make you who you are.
Melissa van Hal
General Counsellor, ASCHP Specialist Wellness Counsellor
13 Endorsed
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
Life’s changes can sometimes leave you feeling unsettled, disconnected, or unsure of where you stand. I offer specialised wellness counselling for individuals navigating transitions, emotional overwhelm, or periods of uncertainty who want to restore harmony and connection in everyday life. Together, we explore challenges through my Supportive and Integrative Wellness (c) services, creating space for reflection and meaningful change. You’ll gain practical, proactive ways to care for yourself and move forward with confidence, building a sense of centredness and direction that feels deeply your own.
Life’s changes can sometimes leave you feeling unsettled, disconnected, or unsure of where you stand. I offer specialised wellness counselling for individuals navigating transitions, emotional overwhelm, or periods of uncertainty who want to restore harmony and connection in everyday life. Together, we explore challenges through my Supportive and Integrative Wellness (c) services, creating space for reflection and meaningful change. You’ll gain practical, proactive ways to care for yourself and move forward with confidence, building a sense of centredness and direction that feels deeply your own.
People can feel overwhelmed at times by the daily stress of life and problems can seem insurmountable. Speaking to a trained Counsellor like me can help you overcome life's challenges and help you make positive changes in your life and relationships.
People can feel overwhelmed at times by the daily stress of life and problems can seem insurmountable. Speaking to a trained Counsellor like me can help you overcome life's challenges and help you make positive changes in your life and relationships.
As a clinical psychologist practicing in Cape Town, I am committed to providing a safe, non-judgmental space where individuals can explore their thoughts, feelings, and experiences. I believe that therapy is a collaborative journey, and I work alongside my clients to help them develop the tools and insights needed to navigate life's challenges and achieve their personal goals.
As a clinical psychologist practicing in Cape Town, I am committed to providing a safe, non-judgmental space where individuals can explore their thoughts, feelings, and experiences. I believe that therapy is a collaborative journey, and I work alongside my clients to help them develop the tools and insights needed to navigate life's challenges and achieve their personal goals.
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Welcome to Evelyn Beneke Psychotherapy!
I would be honored to assist you on your journey to greater emotional stability.
I focus on individuals whether in crisis or transition. I treat anxious and depressed individuals as well as those in toxic relationships who struggle to escape emotional contamination. I specialize in couples therapy and work with you to identify the factors underlying your relationship clashes. Processing the underlying emotions and maladaptive coping strategies leads to a healthy emotional state and productive coping. I strive to make therapy pleasant and it goes without saying that it is a safe space!
Welcome to Evelyn Beneke Psychotherapy!
I would be honored to assist you on your journey to greater emotional stability.
I focus on individuals whether in crisis or transition. I treat anxious and depressed individuals as well as those in toxic relationships who struggle to escape emotional contamination. I specialize in couples therapy and work with you to identify the factors underlying your relationship clashes. Processing the underlying emotions and maladaptive coping strategies leads to a healthy emotional state and productive coping. I strive to make therapy pleasant and it goes without saying that it is a safe space!
Whatever you're carrying right now, it's real, it's valid, and you don't have to carry it alone anymore.
Maybe it's grief, anxiety, heartbreak, change, or the weight of a life that feels like it's moving too fast. Maybe you've lost touch with yourself somewhere along the way and aren't sure how to find your way back. Maybe you just need someone in your corner who genuinely cares.
I aim to offer a space where you can show up exactly as you are; messy thoughts, big emotions, and all. Whether we meet in person at my practice in Cape Town, or Online, my goal is to help you feel heard, understood, and supported.
Whatever you're carrying right now, it's real, it's valid, and you don't have to carry it alone anymore.
Maybe it's grief, anxiety, heartbreak, change, or the weight of a life that feels like it's moving too fast. Maybe you've lost touch with yourself somewhere along the way and aren't sure how to find your way back. Maybe you just need someone in your corner who genuinely cares.
I aim to offer a space where you can show up exactly as you are; messy thoughts, big emotions, and all. Whether we meet in person at my practice in Cape Town, or Online, my goal is to help you feel heard, understood, and supported.
Towards well-being and mental health: Below the surface is depth in our human experience -in ourselves and each other. How can we listen to this more? Being aware of one's needs and feelings, next to others', with calm assertiveness, centered in warm-hearted values is arguably one useful way. Briefer work available over a few sessions, or longer-term meetings. Sessions are scheduled according patients' own needs and pace. Being conscious of one's feelings, contemplations and values is arguably useful, and is central to therapy. I try to provide a down-to-earth, respectful and encouraging psychotherapy atmosphere.
Towards well-being and mental health: Below the surface is depth in our human experience -in ourselves and each other. How can we listen to this more? Being aware of one's needs and feelings, next to others', with calm assertiveness, centered in warm-hearted values is arguably one useful way. Briefer work available over a few sessions, or longer-term meetings. Sessions are scheduled according patients' own needs and pace. Being conscious of one's feelings, contemplations and values is arguably useful, and is central to therapy. I try to provide a down-to-earth, respectful and encouraging psychotherapy atmosphere.
I offer short-term and long-term therapy to adults. I work with a range of emotional difficulties including: mood disorders, anxiety, stress and burnout, interpersonal/relational difficulties, perinatal mental health, adjustment to life events, and bereavements. I also work with individuals who may not be in crisis but feel stuck in familiar patterns- whether in relationships, work or their sense of self- and are ready for deeper understanding and meaningful change.
I offer short-term and long-term therapy to adults. I work with a range of emotional difficulties including: mood disorders, anxiety, stress and burnout, interpersonal/relational difficulties, perinatal mental health, adjustment to life events, and bereavements. I also work with individuals who may not be in crisis but feel stuck in familiar patterns- whether in relationships, work or their sense of self- and are ready for deeper understanding and meaningful change.
I currently only accept payment via EFT.
I work with adolescents, young adults, and adults who may be navigating anxiety, stress, low mood, life transitions, relationship difficulties, or academic and career-related uncertainty. Many of my clients feel overwhelmed, stuck, or unsure of how to cope with current demands.
I support clients in building practical coping skills, improving emotional regulation, and developing healthier thinking patterns and behaviours. Together, we work toward greater self-understanding, resilience, and confidence in managing life’s challenges, using a supportive, collaborative, and tailored approach.
I currently only accept payment via EFT.
I work with adolescents, young adults, and adults who may be navigating anxiety, stress, low mood, life transitions, relationship difficulties, or academic and career-related uncertainty. Many of my clients feel overwhelmed, stuck, or unsure of how to cope with current demands.
I support clients in building practical coping skills, improving emotional regulation, and developing healthier thinking patterns and behaviours. Together, we work toward greater self-understanding, resilience, and confidence in managing life’s challenges, using a supportive, collaborative, and tailored approach.
Wellness Counsellor, supporting women with emotional strain, anxiety, overwhelmness, or significant life changes that are affecting their daily functioning and sense of self. I provide a calm, supportive therapeutic space where you can explore these experiences safely and without pressure. My approach is integrative, person-centred, and humanistic, focusing on self-awareness, emotional balance, and practical coping strategies. Through online counselling in Afrikaans and English, I support you in navigating challenges with greater clarity, confidence, and grounding.
Wellness Counsellor, supporting women with emotional strain, anxiety, overwhelmness, or significant life changes that are affecting their daily functioning and sense of self. I provide a calm, supportive therapeutic space where you can explore these experiences safely and without pressure. My approach is integrative, person-centred, and humanistic, focusing on self-awareness, emotional balance, and practical coping strategies. Through online counselling in Afrikaans and English, I support you in navigating challenges with greater clarity, confidence, and grounding.
Sometimes in life, we may face challenges that make it difficult to function on a day to day. These challenges can be physical, emotional, relational, or psychological. During this time, we may need professional assistance to support us during our healing journey and help us build skills and coping mechanisms. My psychotherapy approach is holistic, and I work collaboratively with the client to help them overcome challenges they may face and build skills to aid them in future. I primarily work from the psychodynamic modality; however, I may utilise knowledge, techniques as well as skills from other modalities where indicated.
Sometimes in life, we may face challenges that make it difficult to function on a day to day. These challenges can be physical, emotional, relational, or psychological. During this time, we may need professional assistance to support us during our healing journey and help us build skills and coping mechanisms. My psychotherapy approach is holistic, and I work collaboratively with the client to help them overcome challenges they may face and build skills to aid them in future. I primarily work from the psychodynamic modality; however, I may utilise knowledge, techniques as well as skills from other modalities where indicated.
My ideal client meets me at a point where they are struggling emotionally in all aspects of their life. Their needs right now is to gain a sense of independence through establishing boundaries and strengthening their self esteem. Their goals is to be free! A sense of freedom and being able to be authentically themselves is what they want and NEED.
My ideal client meets me at a point where they are struggling emotionally in all aspects of their life. Their needs right now is to gain a sense of independence through establishing boundaries and strengthening their self esteem. Their goals is to be free! A sense of freedom and being able to be authentically themselves is what they want and NEED.
I support adults and couples navigating life transitions, relationship challenges, stress, identity exploration, confidence, purpose, emotional wellbeing, and personal growth. I also have extensive experience supporting career-focused clients with career planning, decision-making, professional confidence, and coaching. Sessions are tailored, practical, and supportive, with flexible online and selected after-hours availability.
I support adults and couples navigating life transitions, relationship challenges, stress, identity exploration, confidence, purpose, emotional wellbeing, and personal growth. I also have extensive experience supporting career-focused clients with career planning, decision-making, professional confidence, and coaching. Sessions are tailored, practical, and supportive, with flexible online and selected after-hours availability.
Boitumelo Patricia
General Counsellor, BSocSci Hons, ASCHP Specialist Wellness Counsellor
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Please note that I do not accept medical aid payments, however, you may pay via EFT.
I am a Specialist Wellness Counsellor and Life Coach with over nine years of experience providing individual and couples counselling. Sessions are available both in-person and online.
My services include:
• Counselling and support for parents of teenagers and adult children
• Counselling for adults affected by ACE's (Adverse Childhood Experiences) that continue to influence personal and professional relationships
• Counselling for life stresses, such as life transitions, emotional overwhelm and loss of loved ones (Bereavement/Grief counselling)
• Counseling for expat and diplomatic spouses
• Premarital and post-marital counselling
Please note that I do not accept medical aid payments, however, you may pay via EFT.
I am a Specialist Wellness Counsellor and Life Coach with over nine years of experience providing individual and couples counselling. Sessions are available both in-person and online.
My services include:
• Counselling and support for parents of teenagers and adult children
• Counselling for adults affected by ACE's (Adverse Childhood Experiences) that continue to influence personal and professional relationships
• Counselling for life stresses, such as life transitions, emotional overwhelm and loss of loved ones (Bereavement/Grief counselling)
• Counseling for expat and diplomatic spouses
• Premarital and post-marital counselling
I am a Registered Counsellor in independent practice, offering a safe, compassionate, and non-judgemental space for individuals navigating emotional challenges, life transitions, and personal growth. I work with children, teenagers, couples, and families, providing client-centred and evidence-informed support tailored to each person’s unique needs and goals. My approach places strong emphasis on emotional regulation, self-awareness, and the development of healthy coping strategies, with the therapeutic relationship forming the foundation for meaningful change.
I am a Registered Counsellor in independent practice, offering a safe, compassionate, and non-judgemental space for individuals navigating emotional challenges, life transitions, and personal growth. I work with children, teenagers, couples, and families, providing client-centred and evidence-informed support tailored to each person’s unique needs and goals. My approach places strong emphasis on emotional regulation, self-awareness, and the development of healthy coping strategies, with the therapeutic relationship forming the foundation for meaningful change.
My approach is holistic and integrative—recognizing the mind, body, emotions, relationships, and personal values as interconnected parts of wellness. I hold space for you to understand your experiences, discover your strengths, and finding wellness. My practice is grounded in three core values: genuine empathy, unconditional acceptance, and wholehearted authenticity. Whether you’re facing emotional burnout, relationship difficulties, low mood, or need support through life transitions or trauma support, I’m here to walk that journey with you.
My approach is holistic and integrative—recognizing the mind, body, emotions, relationships, and personal values as interconnected parts of wellness. I hold space for you to understand your experiences, discover your strengths, and finding wellness. My practice is grounded in three core values: genuine empathy, unconditional acceptance, and wholehearted authenticity. Whether you’re facing emotional burnout, relationship difficulties, low mood, or need support through life transitions or trauma support, I’m here to walk that journey with you.
Mutual respect is one of the qualities I regard as an important element of the therapeutic relationship. I enjoy working with adults (men and woman) from any cultural background. Languages I am proficient in includes Afrikaans and English. We all experience challenges through our life’s journey and sometimes they become obstacles that are seemingly unbearable or impossible to overcome. Especially when the issue(s) are not concrete and difficult to articulate. Together we can evaluate and identify them, in order to address and find a process suitable to alleviate the hurt and suffering.
Mutual respect is one of the qualities I regard as an important element of the therapeutic relationship. I enjoy working with adults (men and woman) from any cultural background. Languages I am proficient in includes Afrikaans and English. We all experience challenges through our life’s journey and sometimes they become obstacles that are seemingly unbearable or impossible to overcome. Especially when the issue(s) are not concrete and difficult to articulate. Together we can evaluate and identify them, in order to address and find a process suitable to alleviate the hurt and suffering.
Often we get stuck thinking that we have to 'do' life alone, we need to be strong and have it all together. Through the hardest moments in my life, I have grown the most and also learnt that we are stronger together- the happiest and most successful people have many circles of support around them. I offer you a safe space in order to explore life challenges and transitions in a grounded and supported way. Challenges may include things such as exams, changing jobs, changing houses, losing a loved one, getting married, getting divorced and low self-esteem.
Often we get stuck thinking that we have to 'do' life alone, we need to be strong and have it all together. Through the hardest moments in my life, I have grown the most and also learnt that we are stronger together- the happiest and most successful people have many circles of support around them. I offer you a safe space in order to explore life challenges and transitions in a grounded and supported way. Challenges may include things such as exams, changing jobs, changing houses, losing a loved one, getting married, getting divorced and low self-esteem.
Nearby Emotionally Focused Counsellors Searches for Mowbray
- Athlone
- Cape Town City
- Claremont
- Gardens
- Kenilworth
- Newlands
- Observatory
- Oranjezicht
- Pinelands
- Rondebosch
- Woodstock
- Wynberg
Emotionally Focused Counsellors
Who is emotionally focused therapy for?
Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.
Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?
People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.
What happens in emotionally focused therapy?
Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.
What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?
EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.