Attachment-based Therapists in Cape Town City
Sometimes life looks fine from the outside, while inside you’re overwhelmed, disconnected, or simply tired of trying to hold everything together. You may be navigating anxiety, grief, heartbreak, relationship struggles, a difficult transition, or questioning what you really want from your life. Perhaps you understand everyone else, but struggle to understand yourself. Therapy can be a space to pause, breathe, and make sense of what’s happening beneath the surface. I offer a warm, honest and non-judgemental space where you don’t need to have the right words or all the answers. You can simply come as you are.
Sometimes life looks fine from the outside, while inside you’re overwhelmed, disconnected, or simply tired of trying to hold everything together. You may be navigating anxiety, grief, heartbreak, relationship struggles, a difficult transition, or questioning what you really want from your life. Perhaps you understand everyone else, but struggle to understand yourself. Therapy can be a space to pause, breathe, and make sense of what’s happening beneath the surface. I offer a warm, honest and non-judgemental space where you don’t need to have the right words or all the answers. You can simply come as you are.
Looking for a space to figure things out?
You may feel like something is “off” but are not sure how to find yourself again. This is what I am here for - to offer a space where you can rediscover what it means to be you.
Looking for a space to figure things out?
You may feel like something is “off” but are not sure how to find yourself again. This is what I am here for - to offer a space where you can rediscover what it means to be you.
I’m a Cape Town based clinical psychologist offering online therapy for individuals across South Africa. My approach is grounded in evidence-based practices and guided by current psychological research. I draw on a range of effective therapeutic methods, tailoring each process to suit the unique needs and goals of the individual. People come to therapy for many different reasons, and because of this, I believe in a flexible approach. I aim to work in a focused, time-sensitive way when possible, but also offer longer-term therapy when deeper or ongoing support is needed.
I’m a Cape Town based clinical psychologist offering online therapy for individuals across South Africa. My approach is grounded in evidence-based practices and guided by current psychological research. I draw on a range of effective therapeutic methods, tailoring each process to suit the unique needs and goals of the individual. People come to therapy for many different reasons, and because of this, I believe in a flexible approach. I aim to work in a focused, time-sensitive way when possible, but also offer longer-term therapy when deeper or ongoing support is needed.
We often start to seek therapy when feeling overwhelmed amongst various other reasons, while it can be an unfamiliar experience, I find it fulfilling to offer that space. I’m based in Woodstock Capetown. I obtained my Masters degree at Wits University. I speak multiple South African languages, including siSwati, isiZulu, isiXhosa, seTswana and English. I have experience in offering therapy to individuals living with depression, trauma, anxiety, loss, chronic illness, work related stress, relationship difficulties, and adjustment challenges.
We often start to seek therapy when feeling overwhelmed amongst various other reasons, while it can be an unfamiliar experience, I find it fulfilling to offer that space. I’m based in Woodstock Capetown. I obtained my Masters degree at Wits University. I speak multiple South African languages, including siSwati, isiZulu, isiXhosa, seTswana and English. I have experience in offering therapy to individuals living with depression, trauma, anxiety, loss, chronic illness, work related stress, relationship difficulties, and adjustment challenges.
I work with a wide variety of clients that may benefit from a creative and accessible approach to therapy. Those wanting to access a life of vitality, focus and creative flow (how ever challenging that may seem), seeking new ways of understanding and expressing themselves, may benefit especially.
I work with a wide variety of clients that may benefit from a creative and accessible approach to therapy. Those wanting to access a life of vitality, focus and creative flow (how ever challenging that may seem), seeking new ways of understanding and expressing themselves, may benefit especially.
I work with couples, adults, and adolescents navigating trauma, relationships, and life transitions such as relocating abroad, becoming a parent, or changing careers. Sessions are held online, or in-person in Emmarentia Johannesburg. Together we uncover the stories shaping your experiences, trace their roots, and gently reshape them — or create new ones — so you can face challenges with greater strength, insight, and flexibility. My clients recognise that lasting change emerges through honest reflection, imagination and embodied integration.
I work with couples, adults, and adolescents navigating trauma, relationships, and life transitions such as relocating abroad, becoming a parent, or changing careers. Sessions are held online, or in-person in Emmarentia Johannesburg. Together we uncover the stories shaping your experiences, trace their roots, and gently reshape them — or create new ones — so you can face challenges with greater strength, insight, and flexibility. My clients recognise that lasting change emerges through honest reflection, imagination and embodied integration.
Hi! I am Ashley Lourens, a mental health and wellbeing counsellor. I graduated from Stellenbosch University with an Honours (Cum Laude) degree in Psychology and have been working as a counsellor for more than 7 years. I work with men, women and teens struggling with relationships, trauma, addiction, burnout, anxiety, depression and chronic illness. I have a special interest in women's health. Particularly, women struggling with PMDD.
Hi! I am Ashley Lourens, a mental health and wellbeing counsellor. I graduated from Stellenbosch University with an Honours (Cum Laude) degree in Psychology and have been working as a counsellor for more than 7 years. I work with men, women and teens struggling with relationships, trauma, addiction, burnout, anxiety, depression and chronic illness. I have a special interest in women's health. Particularly, women struggling with PMDD.
Hi, I'm Sherwin. I work with adults experiencing post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), anxiety disorders, depression, and relational or emotional difficulties. I offer a thoughtful and collaborative therapeutic space to help clients better understand recurring patterns, process difficult experiences, and address underlying processes that maintain distress.
Hi, I'm Sherwin. I work with adults experiencing post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD), anxiety disorders, depression, and relational or emotional difficulties. I offer a thoughtful and collaborative therapeutic space to help clients better understand recurring patterns, process difficult experiences, and address underlying processes that maintain distress.
You may be feeling stuck in old patterns, in pain, or in relationships that no longer feel safe or fulfilling. Maybe you're carrying anxiety, trauma, or a sense of disconnection from yourself or others. You want clarity, healthier boundaries, and a deeper sense of purpose. Whether you're facing personal challenges, navigating big life transitions, or wanting to reconnect with who you are, I offer a space where you can feel seen, supported, and gently empowered to move forward.
You may be feeling stuck in old patterns, in pain, or in relationships that no longer feel safe or fulfilling. Maybe you're carrying anxiety, trauma, or a sense of disconnection from yourself or others. You want clarity, healthier boundaries, and a deeper sense of purpose. Whether you're facing personal challenges, navigating big life transitions, or wanting to reconnect with who you are, I offer a space where you can feel seen, supported, and gently empowered to move forward.
If you’re struggling with:
- Low self-esteem
- Addiction
- ADHD/ASD symptoms
- Anxiety
- Anger
- Emotional dysregulation
- Personal, gender, sexual identity,
And if you need to find ways to:
- Deal with trauma and crisis
- Process and unpack past and present events
- Set boundaries and gain assertiveness
- Manage your relationship/s
- Find meaning and purpose
- Take better care of yourself,
I’m here for you.
Your goals are my goals. And if you don’t know what those are yet, I would love to empower you to figure it out.
If you’re struggling with:
- Low self-esteem
- Addiction
- ADHD/ASD symptoms
- Anxiety
- Anger
- Emotional dysregulation
- Personal, gender, sexual identity,
And if you need to find ways to:
- Deal with trauma and crisis
- Process and unpack past and present events
- Set boundaries and gain assertiveness
- Manage your relationship/s
- Find meaning and purpose
- Take better care of yourself,
I’m here for you.
Your goals are my goals. And if you don’t know what those are yet, I would love to empower you to figure it out.
In today’s fast-paced world, prioritising mental wellness is essential. I provide a supportive, confidential space where you can work through life’s challenges, overcome adversity, and move towards becoming a healthier, more resilient version of yourself.
In today’s fast-paced world, prioritising mental wellness is essential. I provide a supportive, confidential space where you can work through life’s challenges, overcome adversity, and move towards becoming a healthier, more resilient version of yourself.
Are you at a stage in your life where you feel like you are stuck in a rut, or tired of self-sabotaging your own happiness and success, or tired of being tired? Feeling overly anxious all the time, depressed and disconnected, yet still showing up to all your responsibilities?
This is where I can help! I work therapeutically with high strivers who feel like they have become disconnected from themselves, others, and their internal drive. What used to help them cope in the past, no longer works. I combine methods strategically and practically, but all with an underpinning in philosophy and neuroscience.
Are you at a stage in your life where you feel like you are stuck in a rut, or tired of self-sabotaging your own happiness and success, or tired of being tired? Feeling overly anxious all the time, depressed and disconnected, yet still showing up to all your responsibilities?
This is where I can help! I work therapeutically with high strivers who feel like they have become disconnected from themselves, others, and their internal drive. What used to help them cope in the past, no longer works. I combine methods strategically and practically, but all with an underpinning in philosophy and neuroscience.
I offer counselling and therapeutic life coaching. Clients will come to me with a range of problems and often feel some confusion. In our work we will clarify the problem and see what is most challenging for you at the present time. We will discover where this confusion arises in the body and mind and be able to see what started it. Perhaps this has been triggered in the past: by an environment, people, a person, upbringing etc. The work we do is non-judgemental and my purpose is to help you find your way out of the confusion and suffering, so you can find success, purpose and meaning in your life. I will be with you all the way
I offer counselling and therapeutic life coaching. Clients will come to me with a range of problems and often feel some confusion. In our work we will clarify the problem and see what is most challenging for you at the present time. We will discover where this confusion arises in the body and mind and be able to see what started it. Perhaps this has been triggered in the past: by an environment, people, a person, upbringing etc. The work we do is non-judgemental and my purpose is to help you find your way out of the confusion and suffering, so you can find success, purpose and meaning in your life. I will be with you all the way
I've been a psychologist for 24 years, after a long business career. I'm committed to fostering a trusting relationship where individuals feel safe to open up and share their true selves. Together, we create a space where people discover inner qualities, strengths, and resilience, make sense of challenging situations and often painful pasts, and build a future where they maintain a strong sense of well-being. My experience shows that clients seek an open, honest, practical and future-focused therapist. I’m also a trained and experienced coach and can blend therapy and coaching.
I've been a psychologist for 24 years, after a long business career. I'm committed to fostering a trusting relationship where individuals feel safe to open up and share their true selves. Together, we create a space where people discover inner qualities, strengths, and resilience, make sense of challenging situations and often painful pasts, and build a future where they maintain a strong sense of well-being. My experience shows that clients seek an open, honest, practical and future-focused therapist. I’m also a trained and experienced coach and can blend therapy and coaching.
I understand that life can feel overwhelming, especially when you’re dealing with anxiety, depression, trauma, or stress. My goal is to create a safe, supportive space where you can explore these challenges without judgment. Together, we’ll work to understand the root of your struggles and find clarity in chaos. What sets me apart is my deep empathy and personalized approach. I tailor each session to meet your unique needs. You’ll never feel like just another client—each session is designed to help you heal, grow, and regain control over your life.
I understand that life can feel overwhelming, especially when you’re dealing with anxiety, depression, trauma, or stress. My goal is to create a safe, supportive space where you can explore these challenges without judgment. Together, we’ll work to understand the root of your struggles and find clarity in chaos. What sets me apart is my deep empathy and personalized approach. I tailor each session to meet your unique needs. You’ll never feel like just another client—each session is designed to help you heal, grow, and regain control over your life.
My therapy practice is a containing, curious, creative space for those who are seeking to understand and welcome all the parts of themselves. We often get stuck in patterns and set narratives, and struggle to imagine anything different – for ourselves or our relationships. I cannot provide solutions, but in a confidential and safe therapy relationship, I can walk alongside you as we try to understand your hurt, your health and your healing. I am passionate about working with women and those who are navigating life transitions, loss and shifting intergenerational patterns. My approach is humanistic, trauma-informed, & psychodynamic.
My therapy practice is a containing, curious, creative space for those who are seeking to understand and welcome all the parts of themselves. We often get stuck in patterns and set narratives, and struggle to imagine anything different – for ourselves or our relationships. I cannot provide solutions, but in a confidential and safe therapy relationship, I can walk alongside you as we try to understand your hurt, your health and your healing. I am passionate about working with women and those who are navigating life transitions, loss and shifting intergenerational patterns. My approach is humanistic, trauma-informed, & psychodynamic.
Are you feeling stuck in familiar emotional patterns or struggling to connect with others? Do past experiences shape how you handle stress, express emotions, or navigate change? Are you looking to strengthen relationships and feel more at ease in yourself?
I help individuals and families understand how past experiences influence present challenges—whether you’re adjusting to change, feeling caught in old patterns, or seeking deeper connections. Through insight and reflection, we’ll work together to create meaningful shifts for your emotional well-being.
Are you feeling stuck in familiar emotional patterns or struggling to connect with others? Do past experiences shape how you handle stress, express emotions, or navigate change? Are you looking to strengthen relationships and feel more at ease in yourself?
I help individuals and families understand how past experiences influence present challenges—whether you’re adjusting to change, feeling caught in old patterns, or seeking deeper connections. Through insight and reflection, we’ll work together to create meaningful shifts for your emotional well-being.
Life has a way of throwing us off balance, whether through the challenges of childhood, the weight of a loss, or the quiet exhaustion of professional burnout. If you are a parent worried about your child’s emotional wellbeing, or an individual navigating a difficult life transition, I am here to help you find your footing. My goal is to provide a safe, grounded space where you can move from feeling overwhelmed to feeling empowered.
Life has a way of throwing us off balance, whether through the challenges of childhood, the weight of a loss, or the quiet exhaustion of professional burnout. If you are a parent worried about your child’s emotional wellbeing, or an individual navigating a difficult life transition, I am here to help you find your footing. My goal is to provide a safe, grounded space where you can move from feeling overwhelmed to feeling empowered.
They say stepfamily life is "an adjustment." They don't tell you about the loneliness, the loyalty binds, the grief, or what it does to a couple when a family won't 'blend'.
If you're a stepmother running on empty, a divorced father caught between two households, or a couple who thought love would be enough, this is for you.
I'm a stepmother, and my husband and I have built a stable, kind, blended family with our two sons the past six years.
I'm also a qualified counsellor and coach with a background in organisational psychology trained in Smart Stepfamily methodology .
Love and patience isn't enough.
They say stepfamily life is "an adjustment." They don't tell you about the loneliness, the loyalty binds, the grief, or what it does to a couple when a family won't 'blend'.
If you're a stepmother running on empty, a divorced father caught between two households, or a couple who thought love would be enough, this is for you.
I'm a stepmother, and my husband and I have built a stable, kind, blended family with our two sons the past six years.
I'm also a qualified counsellor and coach with a background in organisational psychology trained in Smart Stepfamily methodology .
Love and patience isn't enough.
I strongly believe that everyone deserves quality access to mental healthcare, & I fiercely advocate for my clients. Clients usually come to my practice because something in their inner or outer world isn't working for them, & they are looking for relief, clarity or change. I help them by delivering ethical & evidence-backed counselling techniques to ensure that my clients receive professional & effective counselling. My friendly, outgoing & welcoming nature ensures that clients feel seen, heard, & supported.
I strongly believe that everyone deserves quality access to mental healthcare, & I fiercely advocate for my clients. Clients usually come to my practice because something in their inner or outer world isn't working for them, & they are looking for relief, clarity or change. I help them by delivering ethical & evidence-backed counselling techniques to ensure that my clients receive professional & effective counselling. My friendly, outgoing & welcoming nature ensures that clients feel seen, heard, & supported.
Nearby Attachment-based Counsellors Searches for Cape Town City
- Camps Bay
- Gardens
- Green Point
- Mowbray
- Newlands
- Observatory
- Pinelands
- Rondebosch
- Sea Point
- Tamboerskloof
- Vredehoek
- Woodstock
Attachment-based Counsellors
Is attachment-based therapy the same as attachment therapy?
Attachment-based therapy may be confused with what is called “attachment therapy” (sometimes called “holding therapy”), a discredited and dangerous approach to treating children with attachment disorders, autism, or other mental health concerns. Attachment therapy—not attachment-based therapy—may involve restraining a child, forcing eye contact, and other coercive or abusive techniques. None of these practices are used in attachment-based therapy and the two modalities are in no way related.
What should I expect from attachment-based therapy?
Attachment-based therapy is based on attachment theory, which posits that children’s early relationships with their caregivers strongly influence their ability to navigate the world later in life. Thus, adults who seek attachment-based therapy should expect to deeply explore their childhood, identifying the dynamics or experiences that disrupted their attachment and the steps necessary to overcome challenges that arose as a result. Parents and children should expect to explore the possible factors that disrupted the parent-child relationship and work toward restoring trust and connection.
How long does attachment-based therapy last?
Certain forms of attachment-based therapy, especially those designed for parents and children, last for a set number of sessions; for example, Attachment and Biobehavioural Catch-Up, a specific attachment-based approach for young children who have undergone early adversity, unfolds over 10 one-hour sessions. When attachment-based therapy is practiced on adults or combined with other modalities, it may not last a specific length of time; clients may wish to ask prospective therapists how long they expect treatment to take.
Does attachment-based therapy work?
Most of the research on attachment-based therapy focuses on children and adolescents. Some of this research shows a positive effect, especially for attachment-based family therapy (ABFT). Other studies, however, have found that attachment-based therapy is no more effective than other approaches to childhood depression, anxiety, or suicidality. Less is known about the therapy’s efficacy on adult populations.