Infidelity Therapists in Burgundy Estate

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Philip Jean du Toit
Registered Counsellor, HPCSA - Counsellor
Verified Verified
Serves Area
My ideal client is usually someone needing professional help for the first time and is hesitant to take that first step. Their needs, issues and goals are usually themselves, their partner, their kids or life in general.
My ideal client is usually someone needing professional help for the first time and is hesitant to take that first step. Their needs, issues and goals are usually themselves, their partner, their kids or life in general.
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Lynette Woodberg Registered Counsellor
Registered Counsellor, HPCSA - Counsellor
Verified Verified
Online Only
Counselling is my life purpose. Whilst working in Corporate Human Resources, I engaged many who had mental health challenges, felt misunderstood & lacked support in their environment. I have empathised, listened to & supported those who shared their concerns, dreams & challenges with me esp. when they were not experiencing fulfillment at work. Helping clients to find their true life purpose may reduce symptoms relating to mental health & bring about change that will impact individuals, their families & communities. Other interests include: End of Life, Dementia, Carers Support, GBV, Toxic Relationships, Dealing with Change.
Counselling is my life purpose. Whilst working in Corporate Human Resources, I engaged many who had mental health challenges, felt misunderstood & lacked support in their environment. I have empathised, listened to & supported those who shared their concerns, dreams & challenges with me esp. when they were not experiencing fulfillment at work. Helping clients to find their true life purpose may reduce symptoms relating to mental health & bring about change that will impact individuals, their families & communities. Other interests include: End of Life, Dementia, Carers Support, GBV, Toxic Relationships, Dealing with Change.
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Arnfried Klein-Werner
General Counsellor
Verified Verified
Lastly, I help couples work through the devastation of infidelity - emotional or physical.
The pain of continued relational conflict, that just never seems to be resolved can eat at your soul, leaving you feeling alone and exhausted. The desire to have your partner know your pain and see your hurt is what you long for. Whether the pain has been caused by them, or whether you suffer from the pain of abuse at the hands of caregivers or others in your childhood, you want someone to know and understand what you are going through. You want the pain to stop and become free and whole. Sometimes you just wish you could run away.
Lastly, I help couples work through the devastation of infidelity - emotional or physical.
The pain of continued relational conflict, that just never seems to be resolved can eat at your soul, leaving you feeling alone and exhausted. The desire to have your partner know your pain and see your hurt is what you long for. Whether the pain has been caused by them, or whether you suffer from the pain of abuse at the hands of caregivers or others in your childhood, you want someone to know and understand what you are going through. You want the pain to stop and become free and whole. Sometimes you just wish you could run away.
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Duduzile Maphanga
Psychometrist, BSocSci Hons, HPCSA - Psychometrist
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
RELATIONSHIP & FAMILY: Separation, Divorce, Infidelity, Interpersonal conflict.
We provide a safe place for you to be yourself and to process your pain and emotions.
RELATIONSHIP & FAMILY: Separation, Divorce, Infidelity, Interpersonal conflict.
We provide a safe place for you to be yourself and to process your pain and emotions.
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Abigail Loubser
General Counsellor
Verified Verified
Online Only
I specialize in issues such as narcissistic abuse recovery, abortions(had or planning), divorce, infidelity, incest, rape and various other areas of trauma.
The Individuals that feel as though no-one will understand or who have been told time and time again that they are the ones at fault, either in their relationships or at work. The individuals who feel alone and who cannot speak out due to hidden manipulation and control within a home or who are insidiously abused within a relationship. The individuals who feel that they are the ones who have destroyed their families lives, the individuals who want a safe space, a listening ear and supportive dialogue. The individual who wants clarity of mind, effective coping mechanisms and understanding, these are the individuals I counsel.
I specialize in issues such as narcissistic abuse recovery, abortions(had or planning), divorce, infidelity, incest, rape and various other areas of trauma.
The Individuals that feel as though no-one will understand or who have been told time and time again that they are the ones at fault, either in their relationships or at work. The individuals who feel alone and who cannot speak out due to hidden manipulation and control within a home or who are insidiously abused within a relationship. The individuals who feel that they are the ones who have destroyed their families lives, the individuals who want a safe space, a listening ear and supportive dialogue. The individual who wants clarity of mind, effective coping mechanisms and understanding, these are the individuals I counsel.
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Renee Sutton
General Counsellor
Verified Verified
Claremont 7708
I have special interest in the areas of grief and loss, trauma (arising from physical/sexual/emotional neglect, abuse and/or betrayal), and couples/relationship work.
Counselling is my 2nd career, and my true calling. I bring to it a wealth of life experience, including an initial career as a lawyer in London and SA, extensive travels abroad, my ongoing roles as wife, and mother (my last born is now a teen; two of my children have ADHD; my middle child lives with significant physical disabilities).
I have special interest in the areas of grief and loss, trauma (arising from physical/sexual/emotional neglect, abuse and/or betrayal), and couples/relationship work.
Counselling is my 2nd career, and my true calling. I bring to it a wealth of life experience, including an initial career as a lawyer in London and SA, extensive travels abroad, my ongoing roles as wife, and mother (my last born is now a teen; two of my children have ADHD; my middle child lives with significant physical disabilities).
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Liesel Swartz
General Counsellor
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I'm a Specialist Wellness Counsellor dedicated to your well-being. With over three decades of experience, working with people. I help clients navigate challenges such as (but not limited to) anxiety, stress, depression, and relationship issues. My approach is collaborative and compassionate, combining various therapeutic methods to suit your unique needs. My practice welcomes individuals from diverse background and experiences. I focus on creating a supportive, non-judgmental environment where everyone feels accepted, included and valued.
I'm a Specialist Wellness Counsellor dedicated to your well-being. With over three decades of experience, working with people. I help clients navigate challenges such as (but not limited to) anxiety, stress, depression, and relationship issues. My approach is collaborative and compassionate, combining various therapeutic methods to suit your unique needs. My practice welcomes individuals from diverse background and experiences. I focus on creating a supportive, non-judgmental environment where everyone feels accepted, included and valued.
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Dr. Johann Rademeyer
Psychologist, PhD, HPCSA - Ed. Psych.
Verified Verified
Claremont 7708
Are you feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected from your true self? As a psychologist with over 20 years of experience, I believe in your inherent ability to grow and thrive. I offer a warm and safe, supportive, compassionate, non-judgemental and non-discriminatory therapeutic space, providing comprehensive, individually tailored mental health services to youth, adults, couples, families, and children - including psychological, educational, and neuropsychological assessment. Working in partnership, we will explore a transformative process towards personal growth and self-actualization.
Are you feeling stuck, overwhelmed, or disconnected from your true self? As a psychologist with over 20 years of experience, I believe in your inherent ability to grow and thrive. I offer a warm and safe, supportive, compassionate, non-judgemental and non-discriminatory therapeutic space, providing comprehensive, individually tailored mental health services to youth, adults, couples, families, and children - including psychological, educational, and neuropsychological assessment. Working in partnership, we will explore a transformative process towards personal growth and self-actualization.
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Ryan Marais
General Counsellor
Verified Verified
My mission is to empower men to lead healthier, more fulfilled lives—both personally and professionally. With a background in psychology, marketing, and holistic well-being, I bring a unique perspective to coaching, helping men navigate life’s complexities with confidence and purpose.
My mission is to empower men to lead healthier, more fulfilled lives—both personally and professionally. With a background in psychology, marketing, and holistic well-being, I bring a unique perspective to coaching, helping men navigate life’s complexities with confidence and purpose.
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Kaylene Pillay-Lawrence
Psychologist, MSocSci, HPCSA - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Online Only
As a licensed psychologist, registered with the HPCSA, I am dedicated to helping individuals overcome personal challenges and achieve emotional well-being. I specialise in addiction care, anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, trauma, and complex disorders. My approach is an integrated one, including but not limited to Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), psychodynamic therapy, mindfulness, and other evidence-based techniques to address each client’s unique needs and promote lasting change.
As a licensed psychologist, registered with the HPCSA, I am dedicated to helping individuals overcome personal challenges and achieve emotional well-being. I specialise in addiction care, anxiety, depression, relationship difficulties, trauma, and complex disorders. My approach is an integrated one, including but not limited to Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), psychodynamic therapy, mindfulness, and other evidence-based techniques to address each client’s unique needs and promote lasting change.
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Diandra Rodrigues
Registered Counsellor, MSc
Verified Verified
Online Only
Are you struggling with; Change? Heartbreak? Anxiety and overwhelm? Difficulty organising your day-to-day life? Barriers to career success? Lack of motivation/enthusiasm? A difficult home life? Academic overload?
Are you struggling with; Change? Heartbreak? Anxiety and overwhelm? Difficulty organising your day-to-day life? Barriers to career success? Lack of motivation/enthusiasm? A difficult home life? Academic overload?
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Jolene Naidoo
Registered Counsellor
Verified Verified
My clients are often seeking relief from immediate symptoms but also sustainable strategies for maintaining mental clarity and emotional balance. They often seek support in coping with feelings of overwhelm, anxiety, or uncertainty, and are motivated to find practical solutions to regain control over their lives.
My clients are often seeking relief from immediate symptoms but also sustainable strategies for maintaining mental clarity and emotional balance. They often seek support in coping with feelings of overwhelm, anxiety, or uncertainty, and are motivated to find practical solutions to regain control over their lives.
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Jessica Rachel Baskir
Social Worker, SACSSP
Verified Verified
Serves Area
Hi, I’m Jessica (Jess) Baskir, a registered social worker (BSW, Psych Hons, cum laude – Stellenbosch University) passionate about mental health advocacy and care. With experience in mental health, child welfare, and healthcare settings, I offer a warm, empathetic space for clients of all ages to navigate life’s challenges.
Hi, I’m Jessica (Jess) Baskir, a registered social worker (BSW, Psych Hons, cum laude – Stellenbosch University) passionate about mental health advocacy and care. With experience in mental health, child welfare, and healthcare settings, I offer a warm, empathetic space for clients of all ages to navigate life’s challenges.
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Vee’s Healing Hub
Social Worker, BSocSci Hons, SACSSP
Verified Verified
Let’s work together in finding a solution to your troubles. I am here to help guide, refer, hold your hand, as you take those steps (small steps or baby steps or big steps), you are the driver I am your support system and your support driver in the passenger seat. The answer always lies within us, at times we need clarity and assurance, come let’s do swat analysis of the challenges and win
Let’s work together in finding a solution to your troubles. I am here to help guide, refer, hold your hand, as you take those steps (small steps or baby steps or big steps), you are the driver I am your support system and your support driver in the passenger seat. The answer always lies within us, at times we need clarity and assurance, come let’s do swat analysis of the challenges and win
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Mike de Freitas
General Counsellor, PhD
Verified Verified
As a certified pastoral therapist, I guide individuals and couples to understand and heal their past, recognize and change present negative behaviour patterns, and cope with overwhelming stress and busyness, as well as motivation and addiction issues. I help people rediscover dreams and attain an inspired vision of the future, equipping them to start strategically living this future now.
As a certified pastoral therapist, I guide individuals and couples to understand and heal their past, recognize and change present negative behaviour patterns, and cope with overwhelming stress and busyness, as well as motivation and addiction issues. I help people rediscover dreams and attain an inspired vision of the future, equipping them to start strategically living this future now.
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Nontozamo Tsetse
Psychologist, MA, HPCSA - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bellville 7530
Are you struggling with mental and emotional challenges, feeling overwhelmed, lost, or stuck in your current circumstances? Do you need a safe space to explore your thoughts and feelings, to feel heard, accepted, and understood without judgment? Look no further. I am here to hold your hand while navigating your difficulties and empower you to heal, gain insight into your problems, manage emotional triggers, shift negative thinking patterns, let go of unhelpful behaviors and create the life you desire.
Are you struggling with mental and emotional challenges, feeling overwhelmed, lost, or stuck in your current circumstances? Do you need a safe space to explore your thoughts and feelings, to feel heard, accepted, and understood without judgment? Look no further. I am here to hold your hand while navigating your difficulties and empower you to heal, gain insight into your problems, manage emotional triggers, shift negative thinking patterns, let go of unhelpful behaviors and create the life you desire.
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Candice Wakelin
Psychologist, MPsych, HPCSA - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Gardens 8001
My name is Candice, I am a Clinical Psychologist and I enjoy working with personality, mood and anxiety disorders. Whether it be with children, adolescents or adults.
My name is Candice, I am a Clinical Psychologist and I enjoy working with personality, mood and anxiety disorders. Whether it be with children, adolescents or adults.
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Aluta Kibi
Psychologist, MA, HPCSA - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Online Only
I'm a strengths-based clinician. Because of life's challenges, we sometimes neglect our personal strengths and focus on our deficits or weaknesses, resulting in a life devoid of meaning and purpose. In therapy, I collaborate with my clients to identify their unique strengths and challenge them to utilize these attributes both in their intra and interpersonal relationships. Our signature strengths can shift our thinking and behaviour from a mental health state of languish to a state of flourish and wellness.
I'm a strengths-based clinician. Because of life's challenges, we sometimes neglect our personal strengths and focus on our deficits or weaknesses, resulting in a life devoid of meaning and purpose. In therapy, I collaborate with my clients to identify their unique strengths and challenge them to utilize these attributes both in their intra and interpersonal relationships. Our signature strengths can shift our thinking and behaviour from a mental health state of languish to a state of flourish and wellness.
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Shay Rees-Davies Trauma Informed Care & Sexuality
General Counsellor
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
Human sexuality is a powerful force, woven into every aspect of our being throughout life. It is an integral part of us that is forever evolving; reacting and responding to both the outer world, and the inner. Whether you are looking for help to heal, to discover or rediscover, to learn about or to express your sexuality, my space is a safe place for you.
Human sexuality is a powerful force, woven into every aspect of our being throughout life. It is an integral part of us that is forever evolving; reacting and responding to both the outer world, and the inner. Whether you are looking for help to heal, to discover or rediscover, to learn about or to express your sexuality, my space is a safe place for you.
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Donita Rodrigues
Psychologist, MA, HPCSA - Clin. Psych.
Verified Verified
Claremont 7708
I am a Clinical Psychologist offering online psychotherapy. I offer short and long-term psychotherapy and psychological assessments to adolescents, adults and families dealing with psychological distress or clinical conditions. I also offer psychotherapy to facilitate personal growth during life transitions.
I am a Clinical Psychologist offering online psychotherapy. I offer short and long-term psychotherapy and psychological assessments to adolescents, adults and families dealing with psychological distress or clinical conditions. I also offer psychotherapy to facilitate personal growth during life transitions.
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Infidelity Counsellors

How does therapy for infidelity work?

A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?

Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?

When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?

Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.