Polyamory/ENM Psychologists and Therapists in Sandton
Perhaps you've been through a difficult experience, or a major life change. You might be battling with depression, or anxiety, or another emotional difficulty. Maybe you're struggling in one or more of your relationships, or you might be trying to change one or more unhealthy habits. Any of these challenges can make life unnecessarily difficult. I'm ready to work with you to get back on your feet, learn to say no, find different ways to cope, let go, or find the support you've been missing.
Perhaps you've been through a difficult experience, or a major life change. You might be battling with depression, or anxiety, or another emotional difficulty. Maybe you're struggling in one or more of your relationships, or you might be trying to change one or more unhealthy habits. Any of these challenges can make life unnecessarily difficult. I'm ready to work with you to get back on your feet, learn to say no, find different ways to cope, let go, or find the support you've been missing.
Calvin uses an eclectic approach to therapy, integrating techniques to best suit individual needs. Specifically, his interest in Depth Psychology enables an exploration of the unconscious aspects of the psyche, uncovering deeper insights and facilitating profound personal transformation.
Calvin has a special interest in Forensic Psychology, having gained experience with forensic evaluations, psychological and risk assessment and psychotherapy.
Calvin aims to create a safe and supportive environment where individuals can explore their feelings, gain insights and develop the tools needed for personal growth.
Calvin uses an eclectic approach to therapy, integrating techniques to best suit individual needs. Specifically, his interest in Depth Psychology enables an exploration of the unconscious aspects of the psyche, uncovering deeper insights and facilitating profound personal transformation.
Calvin has a special interest in Forensic Psychology, having gained experience with forensic evaluations, psychological and risk assessment and psychotherapy.
Calvin aims to create a safe and supportive environment where individuals can explore their feelings, gain insights and develop the tools needed for personal growth.
As your counselling psychologist, I am equipped with treating various mental health concerns. I am kind and warm and endeavor to be understanding of your experience. I have wealth of experience ranging from private practice, tertiary institutions & corporate. I have expertise in treating adults and have a special interest in couples therapy. Understanding that the environment is important, I do know that committing to a therapy session may come with uncertainty. However, I would love to ease that anxiety by answering any questions you may have. Your psychological well-being and functioning is of utmost importance to me.
As your counselling psychologist, I am equipped with treating various mental health concerns. I am kind and warm and endeavor to be understanding of your experience. I have wealth of experience ranging from private practice, tertiary institutions & corporate. I have expertise in treating adults and have a special interest in couples therapy. Understanding that the environment is important, I do know that committing to a therapy session may come with uncertainty. However, I would love to ease that anxiety by answering any questions you may have. Your psychological well-being and functioning is of utmost importance to me.
Welcome, my name is Chris. I am passionate about providing a safe, affirming and empathetic space for people to process their most painful difficulties, learn more about themselves, nurture healthy relationships and live more fulfilling lives. I have a special interest in working with adults and couples struggling to process past traumas, navigate a crisis or break free of destructive patterns. However, I am honoured to work with people going through various emotional and life difficulties. I hope to develop a strong therapeutic relationship as we navigate your healing journey together.
Welcome, my name is Chris. I am passionate about providing a safe, affirming and empathetic space for people to process their most painful difficulties, learn more about themselves, nurture healthy relationships and live more fulfilling lives. I have a special interest in working with adults and couples struggling to process past traumas, navigate a crisis or break free of destructive patterns. However, I am honoured to work with people going through various emotional and life difficulties. I hope to develop a strong therapeutic relationship as we navigate your healing journey together.
Connected Minds Couseling and Wellness
General Counsellor, BSocSci Hons, ASCHP Specialist Wellness Counsellor
Online Only
My ideal client is someone who feels stuck in patterns that no longer serve them, whether in their relationships, self-image, or stress management. They may struggle with low self-esteem, boundary-setting, or navigating complex relationship dynamics like infidelity or non-monogamy. What they truly want is to feel seen, heard, and empowered to make changes. Their goal is to foster healthier relationships, deepen self-awareness, and live with greater confidence and authenticity.
My ideal client is someone who feels stuck in patterns that no longer serve them, whether in their relationships, self-image, or stress management. They may struggle with low self-esteem, boundary-setting, or navigating complex relationship dynamics like infidelity or non-monogamy. What they truly want is to feel seen, heard, and empowered to make changes. Their goal is to foster healthier relationships, deepen self-awareness, and live with greater confidence and authenticity.
Life is tough, sometimes very tough. Us, as human beings often forget to take care of the most basic of our needs in favor of immediate responsibilities and often put off the things that fuel us - when our fuel runs out, we are left with the wreckage and very little motivation to pick up those pieces. The healing journey offers a space to recuperate and learn to know and love ourselves again and to remember that sometimes its okay to not be okay. I journey with those who come see me, and noting is more beautiful and rewarding for to see someone transform their lives into something they have always wanted.
Life is tough, sometimes very tough. Us, as human beings often forget to take care of the most basic of our needs in favor of immediate responsibilities and often put off the things that fuel us - when our fuel runs out, we are left with the wreckage and very little motivation to pick up those pieces. The healing journey offers a space to recuperate and learn to know and love ourselves again and to remember that sometimes its okay to not be okay. I journey with those who come see me, and noting is more beautiful and rewarding for to see someone transform their lives into something they have always wanted.
As a psychologist, my primary focus is on promoting the well-being of individuals. From my experience, everyone possesses the innate ability to actualise their full potential but may need guidance and support. My aim in life is to be a catalyst in people's journey of self-discovery, helping them identify their strengths, overcome challenges, and achieve their goals. By creating a safe and supportive environment, I aim to empower my clients to make positive changes in their lives and reach their full potential.
As a psychologist, my primary focus is on promoting the well-being of individuals. From my experience, everyone possesses the innate ability to actualise their full potential but may need guidance and support. My aim in life is to be a catalyst in people's journey of self-discovery, helping them identify their strengths, overcome challenges, and achieve their goals. By creating a safe and supportive environment, I aim to empower my clients to make positive changes in their lives and reach their full potential.
As Sexologist and somatic trauma release (TRE) specialist, I have extensive experience in human development, fulfilment and trauma release. We work through individual concerns, struggles, pain, hurt and strive to create life you desire (sexual or otherwise). Sexual health therapy focusses on erectile function, sexual pain disorders, low libido, trauma, communication, conflict, recurring unhealthy cycles, sexual desires/arousal, infidelity, addictions, loss of connection, alternative relationship styles, sexual identity and other. Our development is our greatest achievement.
As Sexologist and somatic trauma release (TRE) specialist, I have extensive experience in human development, fulfilment and trauma release. We work through individual concerns, struggles, pain, hurt and strive to create life you desire (sexual or otherwise). Sexual health therapy focusses on erectile function, sexual pain disorders, low libido, trauma, communication, conflict, recurring unhealthy cycles, sexual desires/arousal, infidelity, addictions, loss of connection, alternative relationship styles, sexual identity and other. Our development is our greatest achievement.
Ideally the client knows that they are stuck but they wish to overcome the barriers and the struggles that keep them there. It can be due to trauma, work challenges or self-esteem challenges, there is always a treatment plan that will be made to help the client overcome their challenges and break through their barriers
Ideally the client knows that they are stuck but they wish to overcome the barriers and the struggles that keep them there. It can be due to trauma, work challenges or self-esteem challenges, there is always a treatment plan that will be made to help the client overcome their challenges and break through their barriers
My Therapy International is a multi-disciplinary practice with 6 focus areas namely 1) Psychotherapy and Traumatology for treatment of - suicidality, depression, anxiety, bi-polar disorder, borderline personality disorder, unresolved trauma and amputee support, 2) Relationship therapy, for couples of any sexual orientation, polyamorous families, reconstituted families, specialising in "last chance" couples and 3) Sex therapy and sexuality counselling for problems with sexual functioning and sexual identity issues 4) Support for South African expats currently living abroad, 5) Neuro - Behavioural Life Coaching, 6) Full Digital Clinic
We focus on evidence based, scientifically validated therapies that are results orientated. Our integrative psychotherapies are based on IFS, AEDP, DBT, CPT, CBT, REBT/RBT. Our relationship therapy is based on EFT, RLT and IBCT, our sexuality therapy and counselling are based on Universal Integralism and our coaching model on neuroscience & flow psychology.
My Therapy International is a multi-disciplinary practice with 6 focus areas namely 1) Psychotherapy and Traumatology for treatment of - suicidality, depression, anxiety, bi-polar disorder, borderline personality disorder, unresolved trauma and amputee support, 2) Relationship therapy, for couples of any sexual orientation, polyamorous families, reconstituted families, specialising in "last chance" couples and 3) Sex therapy and sexuality counselling for problems with sexual functioning and sexual identity issues 4) Support for South African expats currently living abroad, 5) Neuro - Behavioural Life Coaching, 6) Full Digital Clinic
We focus on evidence based, scientifically validated therapies that are results orientated. Our integrative psychotherapies are based on IFS, AEDP, DBT, CPT, CBT, REBT/RBT. Our relationship therapy is based on EFT, RLT and IBCT, our sexuality therapy and counselling are based on Universal Integralism and our coaching model on neuroscience & flow psychology.
In a perfect world, everyone would be receiving therapy. I have worked with individuals, families and couples from rural to urban communities. I want to provide an non-judgmental and convenient environment for you to share your darkest thoughts and concerns. I am the vehicle of change, that brings you to your full potential.
In a perfect world, everyone would be receiving therapy. I have worked with individuals, families and couples from rural to urban communities. I want to provide an non-judgmental and convenient environment for you to share your darkest thoughts and concerns. I am the vehicle of change, that brings you to your full potential.
Sometimes the most helpful thing isn't advice—it's having a place where you can speak freely and feel genuinely heard.
I offer person-centred counselling for individuals and couples, both online and in person in Pringle Bay. My approach is conversational and non-judgemental. We can take time to understand what you're experiencing, without assuming that there is something wrong with you or that I know the answers to your life.
I work with people experiencing depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties, grief, stress and periods of change, as well as people who simply want somewhere to think and talk openly.
Sometimes the most helpful thing isn't advice—it's having a place where you can speak freely and feel genuinely heard.
I offer person-centred counselling for individuals and couples, both online and in person in Pringle Bay. My approach is conversational and non-judgemental. We can take time to understand what you're experiencing, without assuming that there is something wrong with you or that I know the answers to your life.
I work with people experiencing depression, anxiety, relationship difficulties, grief, stress and periods of change, as well as people who simply want somewhere to think and talk openly.
The journey of life is one of survival, joy and intense moments of struggle. It can feel overwhelming and at times like you are stuck. I believe that every person can benefit from seeing a psychologist to work through their challenges. I enjoy working with individuals who want to understand their minds, behaviours and how their past and present may impact their futures. I focus on talk-based and somatic psychotherapy, integrating various psychological approaches based on your needs. My passion for holistic mental health care stems from the belief that all parts of us are intimately interconnected, and we do not exist in isolation.
The journey of life is one of survival, joy and intense moments of struggle. It can feel overwhelming and at times like you are stuck. I believe that every person can benefit from seeing a psychologist to work through their challenges. I enjoy working with individuals who want to understand their minds, behaviours and how their past and present may impact their futures. I focus on talk-based and somatic psychotherapy, integrating various psychological approaches based on your needs. My passion for holistic mental health care stems from the belief that all parts of us are intimately interconnected, and we do not exist in isolation.
Life can feel overwhelming, especially during conflict, change, or uncertainty—but you don't have to face it alone. I provide a compassionate, non-judgmental space where children, adolescents, adults, couples, and families can feel heard, supported, and empowered. Using evidence-based approaches, including coaching, mediation, play therapy, and trauma-informed techniques, I help clients navigate relationship challenges, parenting, divorce, emotional wellbeing, and personal growth. Take the first step today—contact me to begin creating lasting, positive change.
Life can feel overwhelming, especially during conflict, change, or uncertainty—but you don't have to face it alone. I provide a compassionate, non-judgmental space where children, adolescents, adults, couples, and families can feel heard, supported, and empowered. Using evidence-based approaches, including coaching, mediation, play therapy, and trauma-informed techniques, I help clients navigate relationship challenges, parenting, divorce, emotional wellbeing, and personal growth. Take the first step today—contact me to begin creating lasting, positive change.
Dr. Bêne Otto
Psychologist, MA, HPCSA - Couns. Psych.
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
Welcome, my name is Bêne and I am a Counselling Psychologist working with adults and couples facing a range of life challenges, including trauma, anxiety, depression, burnout and work-related stress, relationship difficulties, and bereavement. I have a particular interest in loss and grief and completed a PhD in Psychology focusing on disenfranchised grief.
Welcome, my name is Bêne and I am a Counselling Psychologist working with adults and couples facing a range of life challenges, including trauma, anxiety, depression, burnout and work-related stress, relationship difficulties, and bereavement. I have a particular interest in loss and grief and completed a PhD in Psychology focusing on disenfranchised grief.
I make use of a holistic approach to fit my client’s unique needs and circumstances. My psychotherapeutic method facilitates healing through a process of integration of distressing past life events and traumas.
In addition to the typical scope of a clinical psychologist, I have a keen interest in health psychology and working with autoimmune conditions, having published a book here: Autoimmune Survival Guide.
I make use of a holistic approach to fit my client’s unique needs and circumstances. My psychotherapeutic method facilitates healing through a process of integration of distressing past life events and traumas.
In addition to the typical scope of a clinical psychologist, I have a keen interest in health psychology and working with autoimmune conditions, having published a book here: Autoimmune Survival Guide.
Find Balance & Personal Empowerment Through Specialist Wellness Counselling.
Living should never be about just surviving; it should be about thriving!
A holistic approach takes into consideration the multidimensional factors involved in everyday life; biological, psychological, and socioenvironmental. Experiencing difficulties requires consideration of all these intricately connected aspects. Counselling is the process of facilitated expression and empowerment, so that you have both the agency and the toolsets to make appropriate changes and adjustments. It Provides the safe space for you to find and maintain balance in your life.
Find Balance & Personal Empowerment Through Specialist Wellness Counselling.
Living should never be about just surviving; it should be about thriving!
A holistic approach takes into consideration the multidimensional factors involved in everyday life; biological, psychological, and socioenvironmental. Experiencing difficulties requires consideration of all these intricately connected aspects. Counselling is the process of facilitated expression and empowerment, so that you have both the agency and the toolsets to make appropriate changes and adjustments. It Provides the safe space for you to find and maintain balance in your life.
Life can feel overwhelming when you’re trying to balance personal growth, relationships, career decisions, and emotional wellbeing. Many of my clients are professionals, leaders, and everyday people who are doing their best but feel stuck, uncertain, or disconnected from what truly matters. I help you pause, reflect, and reset without pressure or judgment. Whether you're navigating career transitions, burnout, relationship challenges, or self-doubt, our work together is about clarity, emotional resilience, and realistic next steps. This isn’t about fixing you. You’re not broken. It’s about creating space for you to be yourself.
Life can feel overwhelming when you’re trying to balance personal growth, relationships, career decisions, and emotional wellbeing. Many of my clients are professionals, leaders, and everyday people who are doing their best but feel stuck, uncertain, or disconnected from what truly matters. I help you pause, reflect, and reset without pressure or judgment. Whether you're navigating career transitions, burnout, relationship challenges, or self-doubt, our work together is about clarity, emotional resilience, and realistic next steps. This isn’t about fixing you. You’re not broken. It’s about creating space for you to be yourself.
If you’re looking for quality therapy sessions with a certified Psychologist that cares, then you’ve come to the right place. I guide my patients every step of the way and implement various methods to help them develop new attitudes towards all of life’s most complex matters. Schedule an appointment today and see what I can do for you. Your well-being is my ultimate concern. am currently presenting an empowering and
interventionist Show called ‘Roxic” on Sabc 1 that assist people in toxic
relationships around South Africa.
If you’re looking for quality therapy sessions with a certified Psychologist that cares, then you’ve come to the right place. I guide my patients every step of the way and implement various methods to help them develop new attitudes towards all of life’s most complex matters. Schedule an appointment today and see what I can do for you. Your well-being is my ultimate concern. am currently presenting an empowering and
interventionist Show called ‘Roxic” on Sabc 1 that assist people in toxic
relationships around South Africa.
“Sometimes, all a person longs for is someone to talk too” - Someone
“Sometimes, all a person longs for is someone to talk too” - Someone
Nearby Polyamory & ENM Counsellors Searches for Sandton
- Bryanston
- Edenvale
- Fourways
- Linden
- Linksfield
- Midrand
- Morningside
- Northcliff
- Parkhurst
- Randburg
- Roodepoort
- Rosebank
FAQ - Open Relationships Non-Monogamy Counsellors
Why might an individual want to see a therapist specialising in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?
A client seeking help with an open or consensually non-monogamous relationship will prefer to talk with a professional whom they can count on to be nonjudgmental. Talking with a supportive therapist may on its own help relieve some of the stigma and challenges partners face. That said, the most important factor in the success of any type of therapy is the ability of the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond. For this reason, an individual or couple could find success with a therapist who does not specialise in non-monogamous relationships but with whom they can build trust.
When should open or consensually non-monogamous partners seek counselling?
Like other couples, polyamorous partners typically seek counseling when they face relationship challenges they can’t solve themselves. In non-monogamous relationships, this could include breaches of trust, including infidelity; unclear rules or violations of boundaries; jealousy of outside partners; the stress of juggling the needs of multiple partners; or the effect of high partner turnover on children. Like those of other couples, polyamorous bonds can be threatened by increasingly frequent arguments, poor or dysfunctional communication, diminished emotional or physical intimacy, or the feeling that something is wrong, even if they don’t know what it is.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in open relationships and consensual non-monogamy?
No, but individuals seeking help with non-monogamous relationships would most likely consult a licensed professional with specific training in couples counseling or couples therapy. Couples counselling and couples therapy both involve teaching concrete strategies to navigate conflict in relationships. A good therapist can engage both partners as they explain these approaches but can also work with a single partner.
How long does therapy for consensually non-monogamous couples typically last?
Couples therapy for any type of couple, tends to be relatively time-limited, lasting around 12 weeks on average. A good therapist will tailor sessions to the individual partners’ emotions and sometimes their past, along with patterns found to be repeating in the relationship. In many cases, clients should expect their therapist to assign “homework” between weekly sessions.