Sex Therapists in Pretoria, Gauteng

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Lukha Horn
Registered Counsellor, HPCSA - Counsellor
1 Endorsed
Online Only
For change to happen, an effort must be made. Counselling isn't so much about what the counsellor has to say. Rather, it's about being committed to doing the work yourself, with someone alongside you as a guide. Growth happens the moment you decide to get to know yourself - faults and all. The journey might not be easy, because growth can sometimes hurt. I'd love to be your guide through it all, and together we can uncover a better version of yourself - not for the sake of others, but for yourself.
For change to happen, an effort must be made. Counselling isn't so much about what the counsellor has to say. Rather, it's about being committed to doing the work yourself, with someone alongside you as a guide. Growth happens the moment you decide to get to know yourself - faults and all. The journey might not be easy, because growth can sometimes hurt. I'd love to be your guide through it all, and together we can uncover a better version of yourself - not for the sake of others, but for yourself.
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Veronica Sivhabu
Psychologist, PhD, HPCSA - Clin. Psych.
Pretoria 0002
Relationships, families and individuals are affected by many events that happen in daily lives. Events like, death, divorce, infidelity, work pressure, lack of communication, children issues, mental illness etc. have an impact on individuals, relationships and families. I help individuals, relationships and families to cope with daily events, impart coping skills and improve psychological well being.
Relationships, families and individuals are affected by many events that happen in daily lives. Events like, death, divorce, infidelity, work pressure, lack of communication, children issues, mental illness etc. have an impact on individuals, relationships and families. I help individuals, relationships and families to cope with daily events, impart coping skills and improve psychological well being.
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Pretoria Psychologists (Pty)Ltd.
Psychologist, MA, HPCSA - Couns. Psych.
Pretoria 0002
Pretoria Psychologists (Pty) Ltd boats more than 40 years of combined experience in mental health services. The practice was established in the 1990s by Dr. Elaine Bing and Jacqui van Staden. Currently, this dynamic practice is managed by Nkateko Ndala-Magoro. We are a multidisciplinary team who offer a range of services within our expertise and speak all 11 South African languages.
Pretoria Psychologists (Pty) Ltd boats more than 40 years of combined experience in mental health services. The practice was established in the 1990s by Dr. Elaine Bing and Jacqui van Staden. Currently, this dynamic practice is managed by Nkateko Ndala-Magoro. We are a multidisciplinary team who offer a range of services within our expertise and speak all 11 South African languages.
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Ruan Swanepoel | Me Therapy
General Counsellor
Online Only
Life can feel overwhelming when you’re trying to balance personal growth, relationships, career decisions, and emotional wellbeing. Many of my clients are professionals, leaders, and everyday people who are doing their best but feel stuck, uncertain, or disconnected from what truly matters. I help you pause, reflect, and reset without pressure or judgment. Whether you're navigating career transitions, burnout, relationship challenges, or self-doubt, our work together is about clarity, emotional resilience, and realistic next steps. This isn’t about fixing you. You’re not broken. It’s about creating space for you to be yourself.
Life can feel overwhelming when you’re trying to balance personal growth, relationships, career decisions, and emotional wellbeing. Many of my clients are professionals, leaders, and everyday people who are doing their best but feel stuck, uncertain, or disconnected from what truly matters. I help you pause, reflect, and reset without pressure or judgment. Whether you're navigating career transitions, burnout, relationship challenges, or self-doubt, our work together is about clarity, emotional resilience, and realistic next steps. This isn’t about fixing you. You’re not broken. It’s about creating space for you to be yourself.
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Suzaan Lourens Registered Counsellor
Registered Counsellor, BSocSci Hons, HPCSA - Counsellor
Serves Area
My areas of specialty include marriage/couple's counselling, counselling children using play therapeutic techniques, psychometric assessments to assist with career counselling and subject choice, suicidality, mood and behavioural changes, sexual identity concerns, transitions, family counselling, trauma, bereavement/grief/loss and anger management.
My areas of specialty include marriage/couple's counselling, counselling children using play therapeutic techniques, psychometric assessments to assist with career counselling and subject choice, suicidality, mood and behavioural changes, sexual identity concerns, transitions, family counselling, trauma, bereavement/grief/loss and anger management.
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Letta Selamolela: Letta Consulting Solutions
Psychologist, MSc, HPCSA - Clin. Psych.
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Are you suffering from anxiety, depression or any emotional distress. You can receive online psychotherapy and any form psychotherapy
Are you suffering from anxiety, depression or any emotional distress. You can receive online psychotherapy and any form psychotherapy
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Maresa Kolesky
Psychologist, MA, HPCSA - Couns. Psych.
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Marésa Kolesky is a counselling psychologist who offers in-person and online therapy for individuals and couples. She works with adolescents, adults, and older adults facing a wide range of emotional and psychological difficulties — from stress, adjustment challenges, and relationship concerns to more complex presentations such as trauma, mood, and anxiety disorders. Her approach is integrative and person-centred, grounded in empathy, collaboration, and evidence-based practice. Drawing on Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and humanistic frameworks, Marésa helps clients make sense of their experiences, develop effective coping str
Marésa Kolesky is a counselling psychologist who offers in-person and online therapy for individuals and couples. She works with adolescents, adults, and older adults facing a wide range of emotional and psychological difficulties — from stress, adjustment challenges, and relationship concerns to more complex presentations such as trauma, mood, and anxiety disorders. Her approach is integrative and person-centred, grounded in empathy, collaboration, and evidence-based practice. Drawing on Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT) and humanistic frameworks, Marésa helps clients make sense of their experiences, develop effective coping str
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Mimi Jordan Counselling
Registered Counsellor, HPCSA - Counsellor
Serves Area
Mimi completed a four-year degree in psychology and 9 month internship counselling at Headway (An association for Traumatic Brain Injury); Witkoppen Health and Welfare Clinic and volunteered on The Phelophepha Train of Hope, under the supervision of psychologists. These experiences opened Mimi up to extensively appreciate the extreme diversity and need to offer polarised and inclusive counselling services to the dynamic cultures and context of South Africa. Mimi is highly trained in psychology to provide an array of psychological & mental health services. She’s adopted the Person-Centered and Solution-Focused Approach.
Mimi completed a four-year degree in psychology and 9 month internship counselling at Headway (An association for Traumatic Brain Injury); Witkoppen Health and Welfare Clinic and volunteered on The Phelophepha Train of Hope, under the supervision of psychologists. These experiences opened Mimi up to extensively appreciate the extreme diversity and need to offer polarised and inclusive counselling services to the dynamic cultures and context of South Africa. Mimi is highly trained in psychology to provide an array of psychological & mental health services. She’s adopted the Person-Centered and Solution-Focused Approach.
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Tiaan Albert Landman
Psychologist, MA, HPCSA - Couns. Psych.
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Life can be very difficult. The everyday stressors of life can be overwhelming. Unfortunately, people encounter so much more than just these everyday stressors: trauma, violence, loss, discrimination and hate-crimes, to name a few, complicates our experience of being human. ​ My work is to support my client's on their life journey, through insight-based interventions empower them to build a life worth living. You are welcome to read more about me at www.tiaanlandman.co.za
Life can be very difficult. The everyday stressors of life can be overwhelming. Unfortunately, people encounter so much more than just these everyday stressors: trauma, violence, loss, discrimination and hate-crimes, to name a few, complicates our experience of being human. ​ My work is to support my client's on their life journey, through insight-based interventions empower them to build a life worth living. You are welcome to read more about me at www.tiaanlandman.co.za
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Elmarie van Pareen
Psychologist, MPsych, HPCSA - Ed. Psych.
Serves Area
My ideal client is an unhappy person, looking for solutions. The client is open, honest and sincere, with respect for other people. My client could have relationship problems, learning problems, depression issues, etc. My client is receptive for MINDFUL INTERACTION, GUIDANCE AND COUNSELLING.
My ideal client is an unhappy person, looking for solutions. The client is open, honest and sincere, with respect for other people. My client could have relationship problems, learning problems, depression issues, etc. My client is receptive for MINDFUL INTERACTION, GUIDANCE AND COUNSELLING.
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Rev. Dr. Montsheng Letsoalo
Verified Verified
Online Only
Starting counseling can feel daunting, but it doesn’t have to be. You don’t have to carry the weight of your story alone or keep pretending you’re fine when you’re not. Healing doesn’t start with having it all figured out; it starts with being brave enough to talk about what hurts. As a Specialist Counselor and Trauma Practitioner, I provide a safe, compassionate space where you can untangle the thoughts, patterns, and emotional pain that have kept you stuck. My approach blends psychological science, trauma-informed care, and practical tools that help you regain clarity, confidence, and control of your life.
Starting counseling can feel daunting, but it doesn’t have to be. You don’t have to carry the weight of your story alone or keep pretending you’re fine when you’re not. Healing doesn’t start with having it all figured out; it starts with being brave enough to talk about what hurts. As a Specialist Counselor and Trauma Practitioner, I provide a safe, compassionate space where you can untangle the thoughts, patterns, and emotional pain that have kept you stuck. My approach blends psychological science, trauma-informed care, and practical tools that help you regain clarity, confidence, and control of your life.
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Simoné Vink
Psychologist, MSocSci, HPCSA - Clin. Psych.
Serves Area
As a Clinical Psychologist, I feel passionate about helping individuals discover their strengths, cope with daily challenges, and assist them in coping with or working through emotional distress in a safe environment. I offer play therapy to children 4-12 years of age and psychotherapy to adolescents and adults.
As a Clinical Psychologist, I feel passionate about helping individuals discover their strengths, cope with daily challenges, and assist them in coping with or working through emotional distress in a safe environment. I offer play therapy to children 4-12 years of age and psychotherapy to adolescents and adults.
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Lynett Olivier
General Counsellor, MSc
6 Endorsed
Sandton 2191
My experience is uniquely based in the human sciences as well as sexuality.
As Sexologist and somatic trauma release (TRE) specialist, I have extensive experience in human development, fulfilment and trauma release. We work through individual concerns, struggles, pain, hurt and strive to create life you desire (sexual or otherwise). Sexual health therapy focusses on erectile function, sexual pain disorders, low libido, trauma, communication, conflict, recurring unhealthy cycles, sexual desires/arousal, infidelity, addictions, loss of connection, alternative relationship styles, sexual identity and other. Our development is our greatest achievement.
My experience is uniquely based in the human sciences as well as sexuality.
As Sexologist and somatic trauma release (TRE) specialist, I have extensive experience in human development, fulfilment and trauma release. We work through individual concerns, struggles, pain, hurt and strive to create life you desire (sexual or otherwise). Sexual health therapy focusses on erectile function, sexual pain disorders, low libido, trauma, communication, conflict, recurring unhealthy cycles, sexual desires/arousal, infidelity, addictions, loss of connection, alternative relationship styles, sexual identity and other. Our development is our greatest achievement.
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Chant Malan
Psychologist, MSocSci, HPCSA - Couns. Psych.
I am a Counselling Psychologist and Clinical Sexologist who is passionate about helping a diverse range of people to cultivate kindness and curiosity in exploring their experiences, relationships, identities, bodies and sexualities. I also have a special interest working with 'unconventional' relationships, practices, identities and experiences. My background in politics means I try to be particularly sensitive to the various sociopolitical contexts that impact aspects of identity and experience.
I am a Counselling Psychologist and Clinical Sexologist who is passionate about helping a diverse range of people to cultivate kindness and curiosity in exploring their experiences, relationships, identities, bodies and sexualities. I also have a special interest working with 'unconventional' relationships, practices, identities and experiences. My background in politics means I try to be particularly sensitive to the various sociopolitical contexts that impact aspects of identity and experience.
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Andi Bengis
Occupational Therapist
Serves Area
I am an Occupational Therapist specialised in mental and sexual health. I treat each client as an individual and cater to their unique gender, racial, cultural, personality and financial needs. The goal in my therapy sessions is to help each client to become functional and successful not only despite, but also because of their challenges. The focus is on what matters most to you and not what the matter is with you. During therapy, you can dig into a basket of fidget toys, colour while you talk, sit on the floor, sip on a cup of herbal tea... it is about your comfort.
I am an Occupational Therapist specialised in mental and sexual health. I treat each client as an individual and cater to their unique gender, racial, cultural, personality and financial needs. The goal in my therapy sessions is to help each client to become functional and successful not only despite, but also because of their challenges. The focus is on what matters most to you and not what the matter is with you. During therapy, you can dig into a basket of fidget toys, colour while you talk, sit on the floor, sip on a cup of herbal tea... it is about your comfort.
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Paul Drinkrow-Grobler
General Counsellor
4 Endorsed
Fairmount 2192
Are you facing challenges related to your sexuality or life in general?
As a certified Sexuality Counsellor, I focus on the authenticity of sexual identity, developmental sexology and relationship sexology. My approach honours sustainable, genuine sexual journeys, while also providing life coaching addressing mental, emotional, and physical well-being.
Are you facing challenges related to your sexuality or life in general?
As a certified Sexuality Counsellor, I focus on the authenticity of sexual identity, developmental sexology and relationship sexology. My approach honours sustainable, genuine sexual journeys, while also providing life coaching addressing mental, emotional, and physical well-being.
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Casey Blake
Registered Counsellor, MA, HPCSA - Counsellor
Specifically, with regards to gender, sex & sexuality, relationship structures and parenting with awareness & intention.
Whether we are unpacking your different roles and/or identities, or understanding a sexual difficulty, we will be working together. We collaborate to get a better understanding of yourself, and your reactions depending on the specific dynamics at play. Looking at how you impact your world, and what impacts you in different situations.
Specifically, with regards to gender, sex & sexuality, relationship structures and parenting with awareness & intention.
Whether we are unpacking your different roles and/or identities, or understanding a sexual difficulty, we will be working together. We collaborate to get a better understanding of yourself, and your reactions depending on the specific dynamics at play. Looking at how you impact your world, and what impacts you in different situations.
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Cecilia Engelbrecht
Verified Verified
Online Only
You may be navigating relationship strain, separation or divorce, or feeling uncertain about whether your relationship can or should continue. You might be part of a couple struggling with communication, intimacy, desire differences, or trust, or you may be exploring relationship structures such as consensual non-monogamy and wanting support that is respectful and informed. Some clients come individually, others as couples. Many are looking for clarity, steadier emotional footing, and a space where complex relationship and intimacy topics can be spoken about openly, without being minimised, sensationalised, or judged.
You may be navigating relationship strain, separation or divorce, or feeling uncertain about whether your relationship can or should continue. You might be part of a couple struggling with communication, intimacy, desire differences, or trust, or you may be exploring relationship structures such as consensual non-monogamy and wanting support that is respectful and informed. Some clients come individually, others as couples. Many are looking for clarity, steadier emotional footing, and a space where complex relationship and intimacy topics can be spoken about openly, without being minimised, sensationalised, or judged.
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Neo Pule
Psychologist, MSc, HPCSA - Couns. Psych.
1 Endorsed
Sandown 2031
We work collaboratively with our clients to meet their counselling and psychological health needs through an integrated wellness approach, that looks at the whole person. Our typical clients seek personal growth and development, using their strengths to overcome depression and anxiety and optimising their potential. Additionally, couples who are working through relationship challenges or those seeking to grow in their relationships. We also work with families, including blended families who seek to navigate the very dynamic journey of merging at different stages of the family development.
We work collaboratively with our clients to meet their counselling and psychological health needs through an integrated wellness approach, that looks at the whole person. Our typical clients seek personal growth and development, using their strengths to overcome depression and anxiety and optimising their potential. Additionally, couples who are working through relationship challenges or those seeking to grow in their relationships. We also work with families, including blended families who seek to navigate the very dynamic journey of merging at different stages of the family development.
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Marise Swart
Psychologist, MSocSci, HPCSA - Clin. Psych.
I am a registered Clinical Psychologist and I am passionate about my work. I am inspired by diversity and the strength of the human psyche. Every day brings new people into my life that enriches me as a person and therapist. The relationship I have with my patient is of great importance to me. My aim is to help the individuals find a sense of self amongst the disarray of their symptoms. The self so easily gets misrepresented by symptoms and the true person does not have a voice. I want help you to find your voice! Let me join you in your process.
I am a registered Clinical Psychologist and I am passionate about my work. I am inspired by diversity and the strength of the human psyche. Every day brings new people into my life that enriches me as a person and therapist. The relationship I have with my patient is of great importance to me. My aim is to help the individuals find a sense of self amongst the disarray of their symptoms. The self so easily gets misrepresented by symptoms and the true person does not have a voice. I want help you to find your voice! Let me join you in your process.
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Sex Therapy Therapists
Who is sex therapy for?
Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?
Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?
People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?
Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.